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| 2 | Groups of women and a blast from the past, Mystery and the Spice Girls | Fundamentals | Stock_Touch_5204 | /r/seduction | 30/06/25 03:19 PM |
| 0 | Authenticity vs Calibration | Fundamentals | Stock_Touch_5204 | /r/seduction | 02/07/25 02:18 PM |
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| 1 | Groups of women and a blast from the past, Mystery and the Spice GirlsYeah I have read "The Truth". Only speaking for myself, being hit by Approach Anxiety/Analysis Paralysis/Being Beta, whatever the hell you want to call it, was me being myself for a quite a while. Unless I had drunk a lot and even then it was dumb luck or I was too wasted. Just doing one of the first challenges, go out 4 nights a week, open 4 sets an hour, for 4 hours, removed that anxiety from me. And to be honest I only did it 1 or 2 nights a week. Yes I faced anxiety and pushed through it, bu… | /r/seduction | 02/07/25 04:07 PM |
| 1 | How bad am I at reading signsPlease just shut off your logical mind and enjoy the moment. Anyway I am going to leave now and I am not sure if I should be laughing or crying | /r/seduction | 02/07/25 09:54 AM |
| 0 | Women don't care how much you want them or how much effort you are willing to put for them. Stop acting like that should make them attracted to you.I dunno bro, if you put them on a pedestal, you can look up their skirt easily. | /r/seduction | 01/07/25 07:51 PM |
| 2 | Things to talk to girls I know about?I like talking about "The Spark". "So you know Debbie, have you ever met a guy, where just feel that spark ". Then I ask her how she knows if she is feeling the spark, then amplify the sensations she described. | /r/seduction | 01/07/25 12:24 PM |
| 1 | right way to calibrate escalation?As you mention Mike Tyson, I want to ask you a question. Have you ever stepped in a ring and sparred? There is no magical correct formulae for knowing how to box. You step into the ring for a sparring session, and you take punches to the face. Sooner or later you just naturally get better at it, as long as you put in effort on learning your skills. Boxing is not something you do conciously, it all happens subconciously. The only way to get good at it, is to step into the ring and accept you are … | /r/seduction | 01/07/25 10:34 AM |
| 0 | Having a "womanizer" energy a good or a bad thing?What job do you do in "English Society", I am guessing you mean England. I have been labelled womansier, Party Animal, All Night Stop out, gobby shit, etc over various jobs. The best compliment I ever got was a Managing Director saying "If my wife ever leaves me, I will start going to bars with you", for the record, work colleagues were in bars at various times and spotted me and friends approaching and talking to women. You know the bad thing that happened, whilst having one of the lowest jobs … | /r/seduction | 01/07/25 08:55 AM |
| 3 | Do you think you can bypass women’s standard with game/personalityDon’t forget “just be yourself” | /r/seduction | 30/06/25 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Do you think you can bypass women’s standard with game/personalityOK, all I ever saw a DHV as was spiking a story with various topics. I never saw them as needing to be as extreme as Mystery. Also I am not a 7 foot guy, who is a mgician, that dresses outrageously. All I took from it was, talk about topics that might actually be interesting and trigger some emotions. I never saw it as "become Mystery". But its a book, I guess we all interpret things differently. What are these better options, please enlighten me. For the record, yes most my relationships do fol… | /r/seduction | 30/06/25 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Do you think you can bypass women’s standard with game/personalityWhat do you think a DHV is? What do you think eliciting values is other than what I said? Yes they used routines, and as per the Mystery Manual "Create your own routines based on your life, do not copy these EXAMPLES". Its hard to show what eliciting values looks like without an example of eliciting values!! As for DHV's, I would say its more important to not seed DLV's. If seeding DHV's is bad, does that mean I cannot talk about any topic that Mystery classed as a DHV, ever? | /r/seduction | 30/06/25 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Do you think you can bypass women’s standard with game/personalityI know what a "limiting belief" is, (I used to have a page full of them, and I rewrote each one, one by one) thanks. My point I was more trying to get at, is the OP probably does not look like Quasimodo, Elephant man or the hunchback. Sorry if I seem a bit aggressive, did a 8 - 10 mile hill hike yesterday and got sun burnt to hell. So in a bit of a ratty mood. | /r/seduction | 30/06/25 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Do you think you can bypass women’s standard with game/personalityWhat makes women having values obselete, what makes talking about values iobselete. What makes telling stories about your life, that are interesting as opposed to boring and factual obsolete? Please... enlighten me. | /r/seduction | 30/06/25 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Why can't I reject a girl?Why the fuck do you care. You are still allowed to be happy. You can be happy no matter what. Next time a girl asks you to do something, mentally say "You give yourself permission to be happy and walk away" to yourself. Just try it. | /r/seduction | 30/06/25 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Do you think you can bypass women’s standard with game/personalityYes looks play a part, are you Quasidmodo, the hunchback, the elephant man, then sorry. Do you wear clothes that fit properly and don't clash? ie it does not look like your mum dressed you nor does it look like you did a sniff test on some dirty laundry. As for status, this is relative. Are you honestly telling me you have zero status what so ever. You cannot even be a sociable person in a social setting. A lot of guys just stand in a corner or sit there doing nothing. It is not hard to have sta… | /r/seduction | 30/06/25 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Groups of women and a blast from the past, Mystery and the Spice GirlsSent you a DM | /r/seduction | 30/06/25 05:06 PM |
| 2 | How do you work on your mental and dating at the same time without feeling like a weirdo?Meditation, and doing thing sin baby steps until they are internalised and become natural. | /r/seduction | 30/06/25 04:26 PM |
| 5 | Visiting Prague, Budapest & Warsaw – Looking to Connect or meet with Open-Minded CouplesWrong sub bro. Why not go to those places and actually approach someone, instead of begging for sex on Reddit. | /r/seduction | 30/06/25 09:58 AM |
| 2 | Need advice. I am a seductive woman but rarely approached.Well what do you expect them to do. If you are in the same situation as them, whatever it is that you want them to do, do yourself. Also “large mixed group of friends”, that hardly sounds inviting. | /r/seduction | 30/06/25 07:57 AM |
| 2 | Sex used to feel like a reward — now it feels like emotional debtNo worries. One other thing I forgot to mention, I have started building a little ritual where once a year I go wild camping in Scotland, with no electronic appliances. Its just me, the guys I go camping with and nature. That week, away from everything, really helps me clear my head and I generally come back and its like you can picture life a lot clearer. Also, its always good to bond with things like hill climbing, Munroe bagging and canoeing. | /r/seduction | 29/06/25 08:20 PM |
| 2 | Need advice. I am a seductive woman but rarely approached.Use your seductive prowess, you are seductive after all? On a serious note, what about all these men on social media? Sounds like you already have a pool of men to seduce. | /r/seduction | 29/06/25 07:41 PM |
| 2 | Sex used to feel like a reward — now it feels like emotional debtNo worries about your English, it is probably better than some of the native speakers who post 1 line posts. As for my realisation - a couple of things specifically happened. I stopped looking at things through the lens of what if and regrets. Then I started focussing on what I was doing right. This made me realise I had a hell of a lot more going for me than I gave myself credit for, so my self esteem just magically boosted. And no this wasn't some willpower or "just be confident bro" trick, I … | /r/seduction | 29/06/25 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Sex used to feel like a reward — now it feels like emotional debtThanks. | /r/seduction | 29/06/25 06:09 PM |
| 3 | Sex used to feel like a reward — now it feels like emotional debtDamn, that is quite a deep post for this sub. Have definitely experienced what you are talking about. Not just sex, but relationships as well. A lot of my younger years I believe I liked "wanting a relationship with someone", once it happened, I lost all interest. In one or two occasions, I still ask myself "why did I get with her", and to be honest there is no real answer other than validation. And these relationships never went well. This is also why I can no longer relate to the "go out just … | /r/seduction | 29/06/25 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Why girls you like don't feel attracted to you, and girls you don't like, feel attracted to you.Talking about anything other than surface level basics is either scorned or ignored. This is a publicly available sub which people can drop in and out of, not some private invite only Facebook group. | /r/seduction | 29/06/25 02:10 PM |
| 2 | Why girls you like don't feel attracted to you, and girls you don't like, feel attracted to you.Haha, I didn’t need Psych 101 to see this play out in real life been there, lived it, and watched it happen around me countless times. Real-world experience beats textbook theory any day. So thanks for the unsolicited academic advice, but I’m here to talk actual behavior, not lecture halls. If you want to argue about textbook definitions, good luck with that. I’m over here dealing with what really happens. Maybe try stepping outside your comfort zone hit a trendy bar or a packed club and watch. … | /r/seduction | 28/06/25 10:36 PM |
| 2 | Why girls you like don't feel attracted to you, and girls you don't like, feel attracted to you.Look, I get it, you want to bring up co-dependency and extrovert-introvert dynamics like that’s the main issue here. But that’s a dodge, plain and simple. The OP’s talking about something much more basic and brutal: how men’s insecurity around perceived attractiveness makes them cage their true selves. It’s not about personality types or fancy labels it’s about primal wiring. The “fat chick” example? Not a judgment it’s a trigger to show how guys act differently when they don’t feel intimidated.… | /r/seduction | 28/06/25 10:30 PM |
| 3 | Why girls you like don't feel attracted to you, and girls you don't like, feel attracted to you.Hey, I’m honestly curious, you seem pretty triggered by this conversation. That’s totally normal when something challenges your perspective, but maybe take a moment to step back and ask yourself why it’s hitting you so hard. This isn’t a personal attack or an attempt to shame anyone. It’s an honest look at how men’s insecurities play out around attraction. If we can’t talk about these things openly, how are we supposed to grow? Just saying, sometimes the strongest move is to lean into discomfort… | /r/seduction | 28/06/25 10:23 PM |
| 3 | Why girls you like don't feel attracted to you, and girls you don't like, feel attracted to you.You keep repeating “this is offensive” like that alone invalidates the idea but you haven’t actually addressed a single point that’s been made. This isn’t about labels excluding people from relationships. No one said attraction is a fixed rulebook. The post is about how men perceive women based on looks, and how their own behaviour shifts as a result. That’s not offensive, it’s psychologically observable. If it makes you uncomfortable, that doesn’t make it false. Not just looks, maybe jobs (I am… | /r/seduction | 28/06/25 10:17 PM |
| 3 | Why girls you like don't feel attracted to you, and girls you don't like, feel attracted to you.Leaving my other comment, as someone voted it up (no I am not beyond shallow validation seeking): Let’s break it down. The original post isn’t an “attack on women,” it’s a deconstruction of male behavior in the face of perceived beauty. He’s not judging people for being overweight, he’s pointing out how dudes change their entire personality when they think a woman is hotter than them. They shrink. They censor themselves. They play to avoid losing and in doing so, lose by default due to shitty in… | /r/seduction | 28/06/25 10:11 PM |
| 4 | Why girls you like don't feel attracted to you, and girls you don't like, feel attracted to you.So to clarify you do not think that men class people as out of their league and grow desperate and needy. So you honestly believe nerdiness and desperation are not a thing. Also where do you get the gym bro mentality thing from with OP. I feel like I am reading a different article to you or the phrase “fat woman” triggers you. | /r/seduction | 28/06/25 10:03 PM |
| 3 | Why girls you like don't feel attracted to you, and girls you don't like, feel attracted to you.The OP gets their point across in my opinion. Yes I agree viewing yourself as above or below someone is not the best. But for this sub I honestly think guys basing everything on looks based leagues is not a shot off the truth of a lot of its main occupants. Yes he could have just used language like “attractive” and “not attractive” but it’s a question of who his target audience are. Note: I also see you don’t say a word on men beating themselves down when they see someone who they do find attrac… | /r/seduction | 28/06/25 09:54 PM |
| 14 | Why girls you like don't feel attracted to you, and girls you don't like, feel attracted to you.I think you missed the forest for the tree. This isn’t even about “what to say”. | /r/seduction | 28/06/25 09:47 PM |
| 99 | Why girls you like don't feel attracted to you, and girls you don't like, feel attracted to you.Because one you don’t give a fuck so are authentic, the other you become needy and become a needy desperate guy instead of being yourself and THEN you start basing your whole self worth and esteem on some random woman. | /r/seduction | 28/06/25 09:20 PM |
| 1 | Why my girl is not ready to commit to our relationship?Your in the friend zone. Ask her if she has any single friends she can set you up with. | /r/seduction | 28/06/25 08:10 PM |
| 2 | You are a girl for now and having men interested in you for sex doesn’t make you high value. It’s not that difficultAhh so you are a mind reader of women, you know what they ALL think right. Fuck me its Mystic Meg. Look like you say, we all have different world views. So I will stick with getting to know a woman I am interested in, then deciding if I want it to go further or not. Anyway, I am not sure what this has to do with seduction. You would probably fit in better at PurplePillDebate or somewhere. | /r/seduction | 28/06/25 12:57 PM |
| 5 | You are a girl for now and having men interested in you for sex doesn’t make you high value. It’s not that difficultNo but it will provide an excuse to him on why he shouldn’t take action. He can sit back blaming women instead of approaching and risking rejection. | /r/seduction | 28/06/25 11:15 AM |
| 1 | 6s/7s throwing themselves at me but struggling to pull 9s/10sSounds like you are the seduced not the seducer. Learn some game. | /r/seduction | 28/06/25 08:30 AM |
| 1 | Feminist/Fem consent friendly pickup gameThe Neg got mis interpreted as an insult. Negging is actually the hardest part of Mystery Method and Pickup and Seduction in my honest opinion. Following the 3 second rule, THEN dropping a backhanded compliment to be recieved as a joke takes a lot of in-field awareness and calibration. Yeah with our friends, its easy, we know each other for years, so its easy to know when your crossing the line. But following the 3 second rule then pulling it off, that takes some massive calibration. ALSO..... n… | /r/seduction | 27/06/25 11:41 PM |
| -4 | You are a girl for now and having men interested in you for sex doesn’t make you high value. It’s not that difficultWhy are you justifying yourself to incel BS. Do disagree with your final bit though, Women over 35 seem more forward than ever (am 43 year old male), granted the bar is pretty low with the amount of full grown men who are gamers, who do not work out or socialise what so ever. Its easy to stand out. Makes me very happy I never got married. | /r/seduction | 27/06/25 10:27 PM |
| 1 | Techniques to develop congruence?DM'd you | /r/seduction | 27/06/25 08:48 PM |
| 2 | Advice needed!You make a fair point with your gym analogy, but how many rejections is normal these days? I have no idea about "these days". For whom exactly. I can only speak for myself. But I don't go out with a "I must get laid tonight" attitude. I just go out to have fun. Hell most the time, considering I role solo, I am not really in the mood. So I just tell myself "No need to do approach, just go out and enjoy the atmosphere for 30 minutes". Then as I am no longer pressuring myself, I am more relaxed at … | /r/seduction | 27/06/25 07:48 PM |
| 2 | Advice needed!Not hwo you responded to. What are all these styles you tried? How much effort did you put into learning them. If I went to the gym and tried hammer curls, and didn't wake up with giant biceps, so I tried concentration curls, then the next day kettlebells and so on. Would all these techniques have been useless, or would i just be half hearting and expecting magic to happen with no competence. As you have tried all these styles, you must have pages upon pages upon pages of field reports of approa… | /r/seduction | 27/06/25 05:57 PM |
| 1 | How do I become badboyGet a skull tattooed on your face. Get put inside a maximum security prison for 5 - 10 years and start as many fights as possible. You will either die inside or become a hard as nails genuine badboy. | /r/seduction | 27/06/25 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Going with a Photo Camera to the club for the girlsWhy don't you just learn to talk to people. You say live in an area with a good night life, even outside. So why are you looking for cheat codes, just accept that rejection will happen, learn to face ambiguity (take action regardless of guaranteed outcome) and just talk to people. This sounds like you are looking a for shortcut, there is none. Granted if you really want to go this route, find a couple of mates, get them to wear suits and walk in front of you, opening doors for you, buying your d… | /r/seduction | 27/06/25 04:24 PM |
| 2 | Techniques to develop congruence?Not sure why this isn't talked about more. But we are in the age of "All that matters is looks bro, but why does no woman approach me as I am a 10/10". | /r/seduction | 27/06/25 04:05 PM |
| 2 | Techniques to develop congruence?The classic Unstoppable Confidence, I believe its on SoundCloud, Ideally you need to be working on your inner game and also getting your outer game habits down both at the same time. The "All that matters is state bros" its like having a sick ass engine in your car, but no steering wheel. The super technical "outer game or routine bros" its like having a car that looks super sick, but no engine. However... if your an "outer game or routine bro", you can get lucky if you are having a good day and… | /r/seduction | 27/06/25 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Shit tests, fail or not ? : )There are no comebacks, why will I let others control my emotional state. Just stay happy and get on with life. | /r/seduction | 27/06/25 02:41 PM |
| 2 | Shit tests, fail or not ? : )And what does "Be your authentic self" mean exactly, this gets chucked around a lot. | /r/seduction | 27/06/25 02:40 PM |
| 3 | Advice needed!This is textbook. Let me show you the blueprint. You’ve got the raw attraction switch (looks) turned on, but no social proof, no lifestyle logistics, no field time. You’ve isolated yourself, no wingmen, no social circle, no venue exposure. That’s like trying to pickpocket in an empty mall. Step 1: Get a tribe. Go out consistently with at least one guy who understands the game. Step 2: Treat this like a numbers game, but intelligently. Stack opens. Calibrate. Build a routine stack for night game … | /r/seduction | 27/06/25 02:35 PM |
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