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Fundamentals Stock_Touch_5204/r/seduction30/06/25 03:19 PM
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Fundamentals Stock_Touch_5204/r/seduction02/07/25 02:18 PM
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True medicine is an exact science. But not everything has to be “exact” to be teachable. Attraction isn’t an exact science, but that doesn’t mean it’s random or that there aren’t patterns you can study, internalize, and improve through structure and reps. We teach public speaking, leadership, negotiation, and improv all of which deal with unpredictable human reactions. Yet they still benefit from structure, feedback, and deliberate practice. If someone can teach charisma to politicians and CEOs,…
/r/seduction02/07/25 06:47 PM
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So you do you believe martial arts are fake because it teaches form, drills, and sparring when in fact, it’s a way to internalize instincts faster than just wandering around hoping to learn by osmosis. What about doctors and surgeons, should they just pick up a scalpel and be themselves instead of proving themselves via education and exams. What about driving, learning to fly, , anything that feels out of the normal. IE, living life. Life is full of expanding your comfort zone. Challenge Yoursel…
/r/seduction02/07/25 06:43 PM
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You think “a girl finds me attractive” = “she wants to sleep with me” = “she must have a crush on me.” In agreement, to put it into perspective, I can be drawn to a nice car the same way I am drawn to a woman. I think "Damn there is something about her" or "Damn there is something about that car". However that does not mean I want to shove my dick into the exhaust pipe. If thats your thing and you are reading this comment, no judgement bro. Attraction and arousal are different things.
/r/seduction02/07/25 06:30 PM
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Yeah I have read "The Truth". Only speaking for myself, being hit by Approach Anxiety/Analysis Paralysis/Being Beta, whatever the hell you want to call it, was me being myself for a quite a while. Unless I had drunk a lot and even then it was dumb luck or I was too wasted. Just doing one of the first challenges, go out 4 nights a week, open 4 sets an hour, for 4 hours, removed that anxiety from me. And to be honest I only did it 1 or 2 nights a week. Yes I faced anxiety and pushed through it, bu…
/r/seduction02/07/25 04:07 PM
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Mate, I genuinely believe the guy you are responding to to is a condescending, full of themselves, country club attending, trust fund baby, who has faced no hardship in life what so ever due to everything being handed to them on a plate, who has nothing better to do than make it clear how superior he is with his Perfect 10 wife (so we are talking super model looks) whom he got with by "just be yourself bro". But in this occasion, they are not being a White Knight at all.
/r/seduction02/07/25 03:50 PM
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check your DM
/r/seduction02/07/25 02:02 PM
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Look you have asked her out. Leave the ball in her court now. At this point you can go from being a guy she likes to becoming a needy desperate guy. Just focus on other stuff, talk to other women and enjoy your life. Obsessing over her will only make things worst. Give her space, give yourself space. Some people say direct all your energy into one woman, but if you do that instead of actually living a life, you will at best appear on amIOverReacting sub. If anything, space will mean she can real…
/r/seduction02/07/25 12:54 PM
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Please just shut off your logical mind and enjoy the moment. Anyway I am going to leave now and I am not sure if I should be laughing or crying
/r/seduction02/07/25 09:54 AM
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The original post was about inner fear, not outer reality. I used sarcasm to flip the fear on its head, if you’re gonna imagine people laughing, fine… but imagine they’re laughing at you for not taking action. Thoughts are just thoughts. They’re not facts. And negative ones? Useless. Positive ones? At least they move you forward. The real move is this: change what you tell yourself internally, and everything else changes. No one knows what anyone else is thinking we project that fear onto the wo…
/r/seduction02/07/25 08:23 AM
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I just don’t see an alternative.
/r/seduction01/07/25 11:26 PM
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If you learn to be happy being single you won’t be so needy and desperate hence you will attract women. It’s a paradox.
/r/seduction01/07/25 11:19 PM
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True, years of being needy and desperate not so much.
/r/seduction01/07/25 11:17 PM
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Yeah but what’s better years of being needy or eventually moving beyond that. Life is just work in progress.
/r/seduction01/07/25 11:17 PM
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Historically. I believe it was Style(Neil Strauss) who came up with the value elicitation routine. It strikes me as being very heavily influenced by Speed Seduction (Hallelujah Brother Ross). Now a lot of guys ask the question "What do you do for a job" on a date or when talking to someone. Now how the hell is that going to simulate a woman and lead her mind, emotions and imagination??? So I go a different route, something along the lines of (the exact wording does not matter, it is the structur…
/r/seduction01/07/25 09:57 PM
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Listen to unstoppable confidence. Its practical and non theory heavy.
/r/seduction01/07/25 08:57 PM
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I remember one night, I met a "teacher" in the field. Me and a mate were running sets in Nottingham UK, and they were not really hooking. We left some bar and this guy appeared and just said "I have been watching you, you read 'The Game' right". Turns out he was from Norway and went down a similar path and met his wife, so left it all behind. He agreed to point out a few things if we showed him a few bars and got him a few drinks. Straight the way he told me to stop henpecking every time I was i…
/r/seduction01/07/25 08:26 PM
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I dunno bro, if you put them on a pedestal, you can look up their skirt easily.
/r/seduction01/07/25 07:51 PM
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I was being sarcastic.
/r/seduction01/07/25 07:07 PM
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Nice response. I initially started with Mystery Method, as I was not at the point to even consider am I being reactive/non-reactive, am I the cause or effect, etc. I was a guy who would stand there, dumbfounded not even able to speak to a fellow human being due to being intimidated by a boob tube and some make up. So yeah 3 second rule and having something to say helped. Once I got able to overcome approach anxiety, looking into anxiety and ways to lessen it, helped greatly. Yes I also used Hypn…
/r/seduction01/07/25 03:46 PM
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I will always happily ask a shop assistant to confirm if what I am thinking of buying fits properly when I try it on. Women do seem better at this sort of thing than me. So why not ask.
/r/seduction01/07/25 03:34 PM
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Its just a bunch of guys "being themselves", this is what the "just be yourself bro" crowd advise you to do. Dosn't this shit attract loads of women?
/r/seduction01/07/25 02:59 PM
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I like talking about "The Spark". "So you know Debbie, have you ever met a guy, where just feel that spark ". Then I ask her how she knows if she is feeling the spark, then amplify the sensations she described.
/r/seduction01/07/25 12:24 PM
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As you mention Mike Tyson, I want to ask you a question. Have you ever stepped in a ring and sparred? There is no magical correct formulae for knowing how to box. You step into the ring for a sparring session, and you take punches to the face. Sooner or later you just naturally get better at it, as long as you put in effort on learning your skills. Boxing is not something you do conciously, it all happens subconciously. The only way to get good at it, is to step into the ring and accept you are …
/r/seduction01/07/25 10:34 AM
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Sadly this should not even need to be said. Dressing well should need to be covered just as much as remembering to breathe. Same as eating healthily and having some sort of exercise routine. Sadly, this is sometimes not the case. From times spent people watching, I have come to the conclusion that a lot of guys, do not know how to dress, or maybe they still get their mommy to dress them, not sure which. However, clothes that are the right size, tailored shirts, polished shoes, no clashing colour…
/r/seduction01/07/25 10:05 AM
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First off, you should never feel like you have to force anything. That said, if something like anxiety is holding you back, then you're not truly "being yourself" (I hate that phrase too, but it fits here). And while it's tempting to slap a label on things and avoid discomfort, that approach won't do you any favours in the long run. Regarding stoicism, it doesn’t mean being silent or emotionally dead. At its core, stoicism is about accepting things as they are. When something bad happens, instea…
/r/seduction01/07/25 09:55 AM
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Been there (especially when younger) and seen this a lot with friends. Its too easy to just fob everyone off, not only do you lose your identity and sense of purpose, this also destroys attraction. Also, if the relationship ends, for whatever reason, you really need to sort yourself out. Yes good friends will be there for you, but if it has been a long relationship, all your friends may have moved on and you really are back to square one in life.
/r/seduction01/07/25 09:32 AM
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What job do you do in "English Society", I am guessing you mean England. I have been labelled womansier, Party Animal, All Night Stop out, gobby shit, etc over various jobs. The best compliment I ever got was a Managing Director saying "If my wife ever leaves me, I will start going to bars with you", for the record, work colleagues were in bars at various times and spotted me and friends approaching and talking to women. You know the bad thing that happened, whilst having one of the lowest jobs …
/r/seduction01/07/25 08:55 AM
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This should not need asking. There are red flags, including lack of attraction. Nuff said.
/r/seduction01/07/25 08:38 AM
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Don’t forget “just be yourself”
/r/seduction30/06/25 11:23 PM
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To be honest, when you initially said you disagreed with techniques from Mystery Method and it was obsolete, I expected you to take this conversation in a totally different direction.
/r/seduction30/06/25 10:34 PM
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Totally fair, I actually agree with that. These days I can tease, flirt, push-pull, and improvise just fine too. But early on? I was absolutely clueless. Couldn’t flirt, didn’t even know what emotional spiking was, and had no idea how to structure an interaction. I was typical nice guy, who thought looks were the be all end all. If I was lucky to talk to a woman, I would go straight into "comfort". Once I read the Mystery Method and The Game, a lot of stuff just clicked. I also knew people who h…
/r/seduction30/06/25 10:20 PM
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OK, all I ever saw a DHV as was spiking a story with various topics. I never saw them as needing to be as extreme as Mystery. Also I am not a 7 foot guy, who is a mgician, that dresses outrageously. All I took from it was, talk about topics that might actually be interesting and trigger some emotions. I never saw it as "become Mystery". But its a book, I guess we all interpret things differently. What are these better options, please enlighten me. For the record, yes most my relationships do fol…
/r/seduction30/06/25 09:41 PM
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No I prefer being that guy that people laugh at when its obvious its on and do nothing and hearing people say stuff like "That guy was in there, he was too stupid to take action" or having people coming up trying to set me up with their gay friend as I am obviously not into women throwing themselves at me. That is so much better.
/r/seduction30/06/25 09:28 PM
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What do you think a DHV is? What do you think eliciting values is other than what I said? Yes they used routines, and as per the Mystery Manual "Create your own routines based on your life, do not copy these EXAMPLES". Its hard to show what eliciting values looks like without an example of eliciting values!! As for DHV's, I would say its more important to not seed DLV's. If seeding DHV's is bad, does that mean I cannot talk about any topic that Mystery classed as a DHV, ever?
/r/seduction30/06/25 09:23 PM
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I know what a "limiting belief" is, (I used to have a page full of them, and I rewrote each one, one by one) thanks. My point I was more trying to get at, is the OP probably does not look like Quasimodo, Elephant man or the hunchback. Sorry if I seem a bit aggressive, did a 8 - 10 mile hill hike yesterday and got sun burnt to hell. So in a bit of a ratty mood.
/r/seduction30/06/25 08:38 PM
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What makes women having values obselete, what makes talking about values iobselete. What makes telling stories about your life, that are interesting as opposed to boring and factual obsolete? Please... enlighten me.
/r/seduction30/06/25 08:24 PM
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Compared to what?
/r/seduction30/06/25 08:06 PM
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Why the fuck do you care. You are still allowed to be happy. You can be happy no matter what. Next time a girl asks you to do something, mentally say "You give yourself permission to be happy and walk away" to yourself. Just try it.
/r/seduction30/06/25 08:05 PM
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Yes looks play a part, are you Quasidmodo, the hunchback, the elephant man, then sorry. Do you wear clothes that fit properly and don't clash? ie it does not look like your mum dressed you nor does it look like you did a sniff test on some dirty laundry. As for status, this is relative. Are you honestly telling me you have zero status what so ever. You cannot even be a sociable person in a social setting. A lot of guys just stand in a corner or sit there doing nothing. It is not hard to have sta…
/r/seduction30/06/25 08:00 PM
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you may find yourself watching it more and more as it slowly sinks into your subconcious more and more.
/r/seduction30/06/25 06:11 PM
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Look, cold approach isn’t just about ‘hitting on strangers’, it’s a training ground for mastering ambiguity and owning your energy. Most guys choke because they want a guaranteed result, but life and attraction doesn’t work that way. You learn to thrive in the unknown, to hold your frame when the outcome’s uncertain. That’s where real growth happens. Beyond the technique, it’s a mindset game. Notice those negative thoughts creeping in? Flip them. Replace doubt with belief. Build your internal po…
/r/seduction30/06/25 06:01 PM
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Look into Fractionation, and welcome to the dark side.
/r/seduction30/06/25 05:46 PM
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Sent you a DM
/r/seduction30/06/25 05:06 PM
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Meditation, and doing thing sin baby steps until they are internalised and become natural.
/r/seduction30/06/25 04:26 PM
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Maybe some books on dopamine and addiction, so you understand what is happening to your brain. Even going to go as far as to say "Your brain on porn" as the effects on the brain are the same.
/r/seduction30/06/25 10:01 AM
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Wrong sub bro. Why not go to those places and actually approach someone, instead of begging for sex on Reddit.
/r/seduction30/06/25 09:58 AM
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Well what do you expect them to do. If you are in the same situation as them, whatever it is that you want them to do, do yourself. Also “large mixed group of friends”, that hardly sounds inviting.
/r/seduction30/06/25 07:57 AM
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This
/r/seduction30/06/25 07:12 AM
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My approach, as in this is what works for me not some universal truth: have a genuine curiosity about the person, not see them as a conquest or a game. Then just ask them about them, why stuff excites them or how it makes them feel. Then open ended questions. I try to make it more emotional than factual. If they mention kayaking for example, what is it about kayaking they enjoy as opposed to talking about stats and facts about kayaking. It’s about showing a genuine interest in them and bringing …
/r/seduction29/06/25 10:58 PM
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You brought up Mystery and Neil Strauss like their struggles discredit everything they taught. Funny for me, it was the exact opposite. Their work pulled me out of depression. Gave me structure when life felt like chaos. Sometimes it’s the wounded ones who leave the best trail because they’ve actually walked it. I am thankful I came across them to be honest. Sometimes the mistake is the lesson. But only if you're humble enough to look at the system, not just the scoreboard. You talk like the dat…
/r/seduction29/06/25 10:21 PM
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I did the whole "Collection of Confidence" by Hypnotica (Rasputin in "The Game"). It was not theory heavy, it was just challenges/exercises and hypnosis. I would rather instill beliefs and mindsets rather than just accumulate knowledge. That said... I am not saying knowledge does not have its place.
/r/seduction29/06/25 08:27 PM
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Genuine question for u/Matter_Still (or anyone in a similar position): You’ve been flying around the world for 20+ years, married your dream woman (a perfect 10 no less), and apparently have life all figured out… So, what brings you here, to a subreddit full of guys still figuring it out? Must be that deep, burning desire to uplift others, right? That’s why you dropped in with the warmth of a cold slap and started mocking the very process men go through when they actually try? Because nothing sa…
/r/seduction29/06/25 08:25 PM
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No worries. One other thing I forgot to mention, I have started building a little ritual where once a year I go wild camping in Scotland, with no electronic appliances. Its just me, the guys I go camping with and nature. That week, away from everything, really helps me clear my head and I generally come back and its like you can picture life a lot clearer. Also, its always good to bond with things like hill climbing, Munroe bagging and canoeing.
/r/seduction29/06/25 08:20 PM
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You’ve spent 20 years flying commercial airliners and watching hotel lobbies like a jaded anthropologist and you think that puts you in a position to lecture other men about what “works” with women? Let me break this down for you not with theory, but with real-world grit. Before I ever touched any self-development material, I spent years working inside nightclubs. Front lines of human behavior. I’ve watched guys pull women with nothing more than energy and calibration and I’ve watched others cra…
/r/seduction29/06/25 08:14 PM
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Use your seductive prowess, you are seductive after all? On a serious note, what about all these men on social media? Sounds like you already have a pool of men to seduce.
/r/seduction29/06/25 07:41 PM
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No worries about your English, it is probably better than some of the native speakers who post 1 line posts. As for my realisation - a couple of things specifically happened. I stopped looking at things through the lens of what if and regrets. Then I started focussing on what I was doing right. This made me realise I had a hell of a lot more going for me than I gave myself credit for, so my self esteem just magically boosted. And no this wasn't some willpower or "just be confident bro" trick, I …
/r/seduction29/06/25 06:38 PM
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Thanks.
/r/seduction29/06/25 06:09 PM
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I disagreed with that guys tone, more than anything. As far as RSD go, I want to emphasise I mostly watched their free content, I have no idea what was included in most of their products. However... there were a group of guys in my city who were full on fanboys, and tbh they came across as weird. For the record I have met other RSD fans who were not weird. But as far as the free content goes, most of it didn't resonate with me. It seemed a lot of mental masturbation. Although... I love some of t…
/r/seduction29/06/25 05:28 PM
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Damn, that is quite a deep post for this sub. Have definitely experienced what you are talking about. Not just sex, but relationships as well. A lot of my younger years I believe I liked "wanting a relationship with someone", once it happened, I lost all interest. In one or two occasions, I still ask myself "why did I get with her", and to be honest there is no real answer other than validation. And these relationships never went well. This is also why I can no longer relate to the "go out just …
/r/seduction29/06/25 05:08 PM
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Hey, I get where you’re coming from appreciation and gratitude in a relationship are important, no doubt. But when we talk about “being the prize,” it’s not about arrogance or thinking you’re better than anyone else. It’s about having enough self-respect and confidence to show up fully without being desperate or needy. If a guy goes into a date thinking she’s the prize and he’s the desperate pursuer, that imbalance kills attraction. But if he knows he’s got value too that he’s an option she’s lu…
/r/seduction29/06/25 03:58 PM
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Look at the dates as an opportunity to find out if the woman is a good match for you. Yeah she may look good, but looks just get a person through the door. Bust her chops in a playful way as you use your date to find out if her values and drives in life mesh with yours. Remember you are the prize and being with you is the best choice any woman can make.
/r/seduction29/06/25 02:43 PM
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Let me get this straight. You come in here, chest puffed out like a suburban philosopher, because you “married the woman of your dreams” after years of window shopping… and that somehow makes you the authority on what works? Meanwhile, someone shares a personal win, hell, even an almost and your first move is to sneer down from your imaginary high horse and label it a “dubious achievement.” Nah, what’s dubious is thinking that settling down after years of indecision makes you the gold standard f…
/r/seduction29/06/25 02:24 PM
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That reads like poetry
/r/seduction29/06/25 02:16 PM
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Do you mean “street game”? That’s nothing new.
/r/seduction29/06/25 02:15 PM
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Talking about anything other than surface level basics is either scorned or ignored. This is a publicly available sub which people can drop in and out of, not some private invite only Facebook group.
/r/seduction29/06/25 02:10 PM
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You looked good otherwise you wouldn’t of gotten your foot in the door. However getting your foot in the door is not enough. If you’re getting the dates, your looks are not the issue. I know there is a big push on the internet at the minute that looks are all that matters. I don’t know what you do on these dates. But I am going to guess it’s plain boring chit chat. You are not capturing or leading her imagination, nor are you simulating her emotions, so there is no “spark”. Get it out of your he…
/r/seduction29/06/25 02:08 PM
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This
/r/seduction29/06/25 02:02 PM
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Look, I’m not here to argue feelings or opinions just sharing what I’ve seen in real life. The way some men shift around women they find intimidating versus those they don’t is very real behavior, regardless of your take on the wording. If you want to deny it, that’s your call. But dismissing something because it challenges your perspective doesn’t make it wrong it just means you haven’t experienced it the same way yet. No hard feelings, just calling it like I see it. Everyone’s got their own tr…
/r/seduction28/06/25 10:57 PM
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If a guy dosn't feel beneath certain women who intimidate, then reading this will bring no value, why would they care?
/r/seduction28/06/25 10:52 PM
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You're missing the point again, and ironically proving it while trying to dismiss it. I’m not saying men are animals or that the goal is to "magnetize" yourself to every pretty girl I’m saying when a man does feel strong attraction, he often starts filtering himself, trying to impress, and loses the ability to show up authentically. That’s when things fall apart. It’s not about hormones, it’s about perception and internal value. You talk about men searching for connection. Totally agree. But con…
/r/seduction28/06/25 10:40 PM
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Haha, I didn’t need Psych 101 to see this play out in real life been there, lived it, and watched it happen around me countless times. Real-world experience beats textbook theory any day. So thanks for the unsolicited academic advice, but I’m here to talk actual behavior, not lecture halls. If you want to argue about textbook definitions, good luck with that. I’m over here dealing with what really happens. Maybe try stepping outside your comfort zone hit a trendy bar or a packed club and watch. …
/r/seduction28/06/25 10:36 PM
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Look, I get it, you want to bring up co-dependency and extrovert-introvert dynamics like that’s the main issue here. But that’s a dodge, plain and simple. The OP’s talking about something much more basic and brutal: how men’s insecurity around perceived attractiveness makes them cage their true selves. It’s not about personality types or fancy labels it’s about primal wiring. The “fat chick” example? Not a judgment it’s a trigger to show how guys act differently when they don’t feel intimidated.…
/r/seduction28/06/25 10:30 PM
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Hey, I’m honestly curious, you seem pretty triggered by this conversation. That’s totally normal when something challenges your perspective, but maybe take a moment to step back and ask yourself why it’s hitting you so hard. This isn’t a personal attack or an attempt to shame anyone. It’s an honest look at how men’s insecurities play out around attraction. If we can’t talk about these things openly, how are we supposed to grow? Just saying, sometimes the strongest move is to lean into discomfort…
/r/seduction28/06/25 10:23 PM
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You keep repeating “this is offensive” like that alone invalidates the idea but you haven’t actually addressed a single point that’s been made. This isn’t about labels excluding people from relationships. No one said attraction is a fixed rulebook. The post is about how men perceive women based on looks, and how their own behaviour shifts as a result. That’s not offensive, it’s psychologically observable. If it makes you uncomfortable, that doesn’t make it false. Not just looks, maybe jobs (I am…
/r/seduction28/06/25 10:17 PM
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Leaving my other comment, as someone voted it up (no I am not beyond shallow validation seeking): Let’s break it down. The original post isn’t an “attack on women,” it’s a deconstruction of male behavior in the face of perceived beauty. He’s not judging people for being overweight, he’s pointing out how dudes change their entire personality when they think a woman is hotter than them. They shrink. They censor themselves. They play to avoid losing and in doing so, lose by default due to shitty in…
/r/seduction28/06/25 10:11 PM
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So to clarify you do not think that men class people as out of their league and grow desperate and needy. So you honestly believe nerdiness and desperation are not a thing. Also where do you get the gym bro mentality thing from with OP. I feel like I am reading a different article to you or the phrase “fat woman” triggers you.
/r/seduction28/06/25 10:03 PM
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The OP gets their point across in my opinion. Yes I agree viewing yourself as above or below someone is not the best. But for this sub I honestly think guys basing everything on looks based leagues is not a shot off the truth of a lot of its main occupants. Yes he could have just used language like “attractive” and “not attractive” but it’s a question of who his target audience are. Note: I also see you don’t say a word on men beating themselves down when they see someone who they do find attrac…
/r/seduction28/06/25 09:54 PM
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I think you missed the forest for the tree. This isn’t even about “what to say”.
/r/seduction28/06/25 09:47 PM
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Because one you don’t give a fuck so are authentic, the other you become needy and become a needy desperate guy instead of being yourself and THEN you start basing your whole self worth and esteem on some random woman.
/r/seduction28/06/25 09:20 PM
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Your in the friend zone. Ask her if she has any single friends she can set you up with.
/r/seduction28/06/25 08:10 PM
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Walk in front talk over your shoulder (as taught by Mystery) then walk off slightly faster and see if they catch up or start shouting a response (that bit is my own bit of secret sauce). Same as giving a genuine compliment with no attachment to outcome, shoot your load and leave. Then see if they chase you for more. If they follow you, start hugging you and saying that’s the nicest thing a guy has ever said, bingo, the game has begun. If not… who cares… you are not attached to the outcome right?
/r/seduction28/06/25 03:30 PM
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Ahh so you are a mind reader of women, you know what they ALL think right. Fuck me its Mystic Meg. Look like you say, we all have different world views. So I will stick with getting to know a woman I am interested in, then deciding if I want it to go further or not. Anyway, I am not sure what this has to do with seduction. You would probably fit in better at PurplePillDebate or somewhere.
/r/seduction28/06/25 12:57 PM
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No but it will provide an excuse to him on why he shouldn’t take action. He can sit back blaming women instead of approaching and risking rejection.
/r/seduction28/06/25 11:15 AM
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Sounds like you are the seduced not the seducer. Learn some game.
/r/seduction28/06/25 08:30 AM
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I started out with routines, stories and games. Yes... I know, I wasn't being "Authentic", but I was always running out of what to say and going quiet. Then after a while of doing this, I was able to hold conversation without needing these training wheels. They served their purpose. There are plenty of resources for this on the web. Or just go into chatGPT and tell it "Pretend to be [PUA of choice] and give me a routine stack for night/day game" then prompt it so its tweaked. Obviously use commo…
/r/seduction28/06/25 08:03 AM
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The Neg got mis interpreted as an insult. Negging is actually the hardest part of Mystery Method and Pickup and Seduction in my honest opinion. Following the 3 second rule, THEN dropping a backhanded compliment to be recieved as a joke takes a lot of in-field awareness and calibration. Yeah with our friends, its easy, we know each other for years, so its easy to know when your crossing the line. But following the 3 second rule then pulling it off, that takes some massive calibration. ALSO..... n…
/r/seduction27/06/25 11:41 PM
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Why are you justifying yourself to incel BS. Do disagree with your final bit though, Women over 35 seem more forward than ever (am 43 year old male), granted the bar is pretty low with the amount of full grown men who are gamers, who do not work out or socialise what so ever. Its easy to stand out. Makes me very happy I never got married.
/r/seduction27/06/25 10:27 PM
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DM'd you
/r/seduction27/06/25 08:48 PM
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You make a fair point with your gym analogy, but how many rejections is normal these days? I have no idea about "these days". For whom exactly. I can only speak for myself. But I don't go out with a "I must get laid tonight" attitude. I just go out to have fun. Hell most the time, considering I role solo, I am not really in the mood. So I just tell myself "No need to do approach, just go out and enjoy the atmosphere for 30 minutes". Then as I am no longer pressuring myself, I am more relaxed at …
/r/seduction27/06/25 07:48 PM
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Not hwo you responded to. What are all these styles you tried? How much effort did you put into learning them. If I went to the gym and tried hammer curls, and didn't wake up with giant biceps, so I tried concentration curls, then the next day kettlebells and so on. Would all these techniques have been useless, or would i just be half hearting and expecting magic to happen with no competence. As you have tried all these styles, you must have pages upon pages upon pages of field reports of approa…
/r/seduction27/06/25 05:57 PM
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Get a skull tattooed on your face. Get put inside a maximum security prison for 5 - 10 years and start as many fights as possible. You will either die inside or become a hard as nails genuine badboy.
/r/seduction27/06/25 04:27 PM
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Why don't you just learn to talk to people. You say live in an area with a good night life, even outside. So why are you looking for cheat codes, just accept that rejection will happen, learn to face ambiguity (take action regardless of guaranteed outcome) and just talk to people. This sounds like you are looking a for shortcut, there is none. Granted if you really want to go this route, find a couple of mates, get them to wear suits and walk in front of you, opening doors for you, buying your d…
/r/seduction27/06/25 04:24 PM
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Not sure why this isn't talked about more. But we are in the age of "All that matters is looks bro, but why does no woman approach me as I am a 10/10".
/r/seduction27/06/25 04:05 PM
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The classic Unstoppable Confidence, I believe its on SoundCloud, Ideally you need to be working on your inner game and also getting your outer game habits down both at the same time. The "All that matters is state bros" its like having a sick ass engine in your car, but no steering wheel. The super technical "outer game or routine bros" its like having a car that looks super sick, but no engine. However... if your an "outer game or routine bro", you can get lucky if you are having a good day and…
/r/seduction27/06/25 04:04 PM
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There are no comebacks, why will I let others control my emotional state. Just stay happy and get on with life.
/r/seduction27/06/25 02:41 PM
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And what does "Be your authentic self" mean exactly, this gets chucked around a lot.
/r/seduction27/06/25 02:40 PM
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This is textbook. Let me show you the blueprint. You’ve got the raw attraction switch (looks) turned on, but no social proof, no lifestyle logistics, no field time. You’ve isolated yourself, no wingmen, no social circle, no venue exposure. That’s like trying to pickpocket in an empty mall. Step 1: Get a tribe. Go out consistently with at least one guy who understands the game. Step 2: Treat this like a numbers game, but intelligently. Stack opens. Calibrate. Build a routine stack for night game …
/r/seduction27/06/25 02:35 PM
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Are you her best friend forever whose shoulder she can cry on. Or are you a guy who wants to stick your dick in her, as long as she feels safe. How do you present yourself to her??
/r/seduction27/06/25 09:25 AM
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