Ok I’ll keep this as succinct as possible. This is not a sob story, just looking for advice. I’m struggle to get regular chicks. Not being arrogant but I’m at least 8.5-9/10. Super ripped, strong, handsome, get told how good looking I am all the time. When I do go out I do approach but get rejected a lot, it makes me a bit sick of trying to be honest.

All of my friends from school moved away to a different city so my social life is pretty low, I maybe have one friend left here who I actually see and I don’t go out drinking very much so my exposure to meeting new girls is pretty low. I do go to the gym a lot and have been quite successful with girls there but also my standards are very high so I don’t just go for anyone. It seems the ones who want me I don’t want and vice-versa. I also don’t use dating apps as I got shadow banned and they literally stopped working to the point they became a waste of time (trust me, my photos and profile were good).

I’m on a dry spell at the moment (6 weeks) and phone, game has dried up. My question is what is your advice to someone wanting to start from scratch and build up a rotation of multiple girls to create abundance in my position? Is it best to treat it like a game and go out and mass approach to destroy my anxiety and just play the numbers game approaching as many girls as possible for numbers with the intention of setting up dates? Go out to bars? Get back on dating apps? Read books? What would you suggest.