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StoneyRocksInMySocks/r/Divorce_Men21/09/22 11:07 PM
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StoneyRocksInMySocks/r/Divorce_Men06/07/23 12:41 AM
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For me, “All of me” never wants to live 100% with someone ever again 😂. I’d’ rather just date women and have them occasionally spend the night.
/r/Divorce_Men31/07/25 12:58 AM
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I agree. Statistics regarding marriage: 50% of first marriages end in divorce. 67% of second marriages end in divorce. 73% of third marriages end in divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/25 12:58 AM
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You should NEVER have all of your paycheck going to a joint checking account. My wife at the time tried to insinuate that I didn’t really love her because of me not wanting to have all of my paycheck go to a joint checking account. I told her love has nothing to do with it. She got over it though. I had all of my paycheck going to “my own checking account” and I would just transfer her money to her account as needed.
/r/Divorce_Men26/10/24 05:00 PM
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I agree with some aspects of it. I personally will never get married again or move any woman into my house to live. Also, I refuse to ever take care of any woman financially again. I know that I’ll probably never find a good woman that is ok with all of that but that is fine. I'm ok with being a single man that bangs chicks occasionally when needed.
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/23 02:39 AM
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This subreddit shouldn't have females posting. Especially nonsense like this post.
/r/Divorce_Men10/10/23 03:35 AM
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Excellent advice!
/r/Divorce_Men09/10/23 07:04 PM
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For me I was young, dumb, and thought I was in love. I was caught up in her looks and ignored a lot of red flags. Like they say, you live and you learn. Looks are important to a certain degree. However, now I'm more concerned about having a woman with substance.
/r/Divorce_Men05/10/23 12:48 AM
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Thanks. I'm not a neat freak but my ex-wife was beyond messy. Everything was a shelf with her. For example, whenever I'd go to do my laundry she would have a bunch of clothes, books, papers, etc. stacked on top of the washer and dryer. It literally felt like I was on an episode of Hoarders. She was basically like a pack rat so to speak.
/r/Divorce_Men05/10/23 12:08 AM
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The following good things about my divorce: -I don’t have to deal with her Jekyll & Hyde emotions anymore. -No more messy house where I feel like I’m on an episode of Hoarders. -I come home to a peaceful house with no drama. -No more dealing with her being super sensitive about every trivial thing. Even though I got bent over with no lube financially, I still own my home. I'm just glad I'm not with that gold digging b*tch anymore!
/r/Divorce_Men04/10/23 09:45 PM
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Co-parenting with the devil incarnate. My ex-wife has zero accountability for anything and does not comprehend logic.
/r/Divorce_Men01/08/23 03:12 AM
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Staying in a bad marriage for the sake of the kids can be more detrimental than people realize. Kids are not stupid because they can recognize when their parents are not connected. Eventually the kids will notice the arguing and bad energy amongst you and your spouse. You are better off getting divorced so you can become a better version of yourself for you and your child.
/r/Divorce_Men01/08/23 03:03 AM
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Although I got screwed financially in the divorce, I'm grateful that I don't have to deal with her mess anymore. My home actually feels peaceful now.
/r/Divorce_Men01/08/23 02:55 AM
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Rules I live by now after divorce: No more marriage and no cohabitation. I wish I learned this earlier in life but I'm teaching my son to learn from my mistakes.
/r/Divorce_Men08/07/23 09:36 PM
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I can definitely relate and I've experienced some of what you have. I personally won't be getting married ever again.
/r/Divorce_Men08/07/23 05:26 AM
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How long did it take for you to get past the anger and bitterness?
/r/Divorce_Men07/07/23 05:44 PM
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Thanks.
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/23 02:29 AM
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Because things just didn't work out that way.
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/23 02:02 AM
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Thanks for the advice. It's a daily struggle to not do anything rash.
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/23 01:08 AM
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Hell naw! To the naw, naw, naw!
/r/Divorce_Men12/06/23 01:19 AM
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I would avoid having kids with her and file for divorce. Although I love my kids, I regret not divorcing my STBX earlier in the marriage when we didn't have kids. Now she has ruined me financially for the rest of my life.
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/23 10:19 PM
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If she is in her 30s and never been married and no kids, it would make me wonder why. Mainly because that is not common in my dating experience. I would not consider it a red flag, just more of a surprise. Right or wrong, society puts more pressure on women to be married with kids by the time they reach 30 years old. She may have just been focused on establishing a career first, and not having kids before marriage. That seems like a potentially good woman to me.
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/23 12:10 AM
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It is better to not get married at all. Regardless of a woman being career oriented or a SAHM. Getting married isn't going to enhance your relationship. If you want to play Russian Roulette with your finances by getting married then so be it. I would just focus on making yourself happy and just have a friend with benefits.
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/23 07:47 PM
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True. I know some guys that have gotten screwed in divorce worse than me. I will never get married again, cohabitate, or have a serious relationship. Also, I will educate my son on the risks of marriage.
/r/Divorce_Men06/04/23 06:19 PM
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I think option 1 would be better. Regardless of how long you serve in the military, opportunities like option 2 will be available. Ultimately, you have to do what is best for you and your daughter. On another note, don't hesitate to seek medical treatment while serving. Even if your medical issues are minor. Getting service connection is imperative when it comes to VA disability compensation. I'm speaking from experience as a disabled veteran that retired from the military.
/r/Divorce_Men06/04/23 05:58 AM
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You just described my situation. I understand paying child support for my two kids. However, I'm pissed off about having to pay my STBXW for the rest of my life. It's bullsh*t that I have to financially provide for a grown azz woman that is working.
/r/Divorce_Men06/04/23 04:58 AM
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It could be worse. I have to pay my STBXW half of my retirement pay for the rest of my life.
/r/Divorce_Men06/04/23 04:37 AM
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You're probably right. Like Chris Rock said, "Only women, children, and dogs are loved unconditionally". "A man is only loved under the condition that he provides something".
/r/Divorce_Men01/04/23 11:33 PM
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You're welcome. Our second child was much more difficult to deal with. A lot more fussy and crying. Ultimately, that caused my wife to have postpartum depression, and negatively impacted me as well. I would come home from work, and she basically laid in bed all day. House would be a complete mess. If your wife is threatening divorce over a second child, she will probably divorce you even after you have a second child. If you give in to her, she's going to manipulate you with the threat of divorc…
/r/Divorce_Men01/04/23 09:26 PM
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I was in a very similar situation. My STBXW decided on her own to stop taking birth control after our first child. That is part of the reason why I filed for divorce. I love both of my kids. However, I wish I had my vasectomy done after my first child. Get a vasectomy now! That way, you don't have to worry about getting her or any other woman pregnant.
/r/Divorce_Men01/04/23 08:40 PM
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Regardless of whether a man has kids or not, they can still get bent over with no lubrication in a divorce. A man without kids has a lesser chance of getting screwed as much in a divorce. However, the bull sh*t they dealt with in a marriage should not be dismissed or minimized.
/r/Divorce_Men30/03/23 09:56 PM
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That is even more of a reason for men to not get married again. The main point is second, third, etc. marriages have a higher probability of divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men26/03/23 12:33 AM
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Kum & Go is the way. I'd rather have casual relations with women I meet at a club, bar, or Tinder. Hell, even an escort. At least with an escort I don't have to deal with relationship type drama.
/r/Divorce_Men25/03/23 08:27 PM
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I'm getting screwed in my divorce as well. My STBXW is getting half of my 401K that I started before her. Additionally, half of my retirement pay for the rest of my life. And lastly, a large sum of child support. I basically have to provide for her financially for the rest of my life, or her life. 50% of marriages end in divorce. 67% of second marriages end in divorce. And 74% of third marriages end in divorce. I'm glad your new marriage is good so far. However, if there is a 67% chance that an …
/r/Divorce_Men25/03/23 07:42 PM
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You should create a "Divorce_Women" sub. That way, you and other like minded women can feel comfortable.
/r/Divorce_Men25/03/23 07:05 PM
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For me, no more marriage, no cohabitation, and no relationships. Unless it is a "friends with benefits" situation.
/r/Divorce_Men25/03/23 02:49 AM
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Absolutely! No way in hell I get married again.
/r/Divorce_Men25/03/23 01:28 AM
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😂 The first sentence is hilarious.
/r/Divorce_Men25/03/23 12:48 AM
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That would be a resounding "NO" for me. Reason being, I prefer to live alone at this point. I like being able to choose when I want company. After being in a bad marriage, I have no desire to consult with someone regarding what I do with my house. I do not want to have to consider someone else's feelings anymore.
/r/Divorce_Men17/03/23 07:17 AM
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El Diablo
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/23 07:34 AM
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I would get a vasectomy.
/r/Divorce_Men06/03/23 09:58 AM
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Sure, it can be easier said than done. However, she isn't the only fish in the sea. When you are ready for a relationship, you may find another woman that is just as good as her or better.
/r/Divorce_Men06/03/23 03:50 AM
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Sadly, some beta simpanzee will probably be dumb enough to marry her.
/r/Divorce_Men06/03/23 02:20 AM
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Nevermind them, he/she is a troll.
/r/Divorce_Men06/03/23 01:37 AM
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I would just be honest and let them know you aren't ready for a relationship. If they have an issue with that, then let them go.
/r/Divorce_Men06/03/23 01:02 AM
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I think you dodged a bullet with her breaking up with you because you weren't ready for marriage. I know you may be hurt now, but you will get over it.
/r/Divorce_Men05/03/23 08:07 PM
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You should not feel obligated to get her anything at this point.
/r/Divorce_Men02/03/23 06:25 AM
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I never said women from other countries don't do the same thing. When I mentioned "most women" I was referring to women all over the world. I have lived in other countries besides America. Also, I have traveled internationally extensively. I've dated American and Foreign women. Your observation is wrong.
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/23 04:17 AM
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Unfortunately, most women want to ruin men financially in a divorce. Especially American women.
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/23 03:23 AM
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You should never date a woman that you work with. Unless you like playing Russian Roulette with your life and career. I would not interact with her at all, unless it is work related.
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/23 03:19 AM
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You said, "I feel like trash". It could be A LOT worse. Imagine if you were married, and your ex-wife took HALF of your retirement pay for the rest of your life. Also, HALF of your 401K you started BEFORE marriage, AND child support for two kids. Yeah, that's what I'm dealing with. Consider yourself lucky!
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/23 02:58 AM
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I personally would not do it. There is a 50% chance you get divorced, and end up being required to take care of her financially for the rest of her life. Good luck with whatever you decide to do.
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/23 02:32 AM
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That's something you would have to ask women about. Typically, women make decisions based on "feelings". Men usually make decisions based on logic and reality.
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/23 07:34 AM
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It's very common for women to be petty. My soon to be ex has done the same type of crap.
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/23 06:52 AM
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You don't have to be married in order to get regular companionship.
/r/Divorce_Men23/02/23 03:37 AM
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It's going to be very difficult to find women with no kids that aren't bat sh*t crazy.
/r/Divorce_Men23/02/23 02:26 AM
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Some advice. Don't hesitate to go to the doctor about any medical issues. Whether it be mental or physical issues. Even if those issues seem minor right now. You want to make sure that stuff gets documented in your military medical records. That way, those issues will be service connected when applying for VA disability. VA disability is an excellent tax free benefit.
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/23 11:50 PM
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At this point, I'm not concerned about her at all. I don't make important life decisions based on feelings, that's a female mindset. I operate with logic. I'm only concerned about making myself and my kids happy.
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/22 11:05 PM
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I'm in a similar situation. Life is about to become much harder for my STBX. Unless she finds some simp. That won't be me anymore.
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/22 10:41 PM
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It is mind boggling to me how most women think. Sometimes I wonder who the hell did I marry. I will not be a simpanzee for any woman anymore. I am just focusing on making me and my kids happy at this point.
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/22 10:12 PM
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I totally agree. You know what's crazy? Yesterday she told me she appreciates how I have been a great husband and provider for her and our two children. Now all of a sudden she appreciates what I bring to the table. I guess I'm supposed to feel sympathetic and stop the divorce, smh. Not happening!
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/22 09:51 PM
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😂 I actually "borrowed" it from Coach Greg Adams. I recommend checking him out on YouTube.
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/22 09:01 PM
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That is an interesting concept. However, it wouldn't work for me. I don't want to live with my STBX anymore under any circumstance.
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/22 07:07 PM
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Precisely. I believe that is exactly what it is.
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/22 06:57 PM
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Exactly! She wants to keep all of the financial benefits and basically be roommates. No way in hell that I would do that.
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/22 06:54 PM
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Yes, we tried marriage counseling multiple times. I am also currently receiving individual counseling. You are correct, my kids deserve a happy Dad and not a miserable one. That is why it's best for me to get a divorce and co-parent.
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/22 07:55 AM
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Thanks brother. For me, I only allowed my wife to stop working because I didn't want my kids to grow up in daycare. My STBX is going to have to go back to work. Unless she finds another simp to take care of her financially. I won't be a simp anymore for her or any other woman.
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/22 03:14 AM
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I totally agree.
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/22 02:46 AM
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I agree. When my STBX broached the ludicrous idea of staying in the house after divorce to co-parent. I told her NO WAY. I'm selling our house, and she will have to find her own place. Just like I will get my own place.
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/22 02:22 AM
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I don't blame you. If my STBX asked me to do something like that for free, I wouldn't do it either. I will no longer be a monkey simpanzee for any woman! My eyes are wide the f*ck open now.
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/22 01:39 AM
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It is mind boggling to me how some women like your STBX and mine think that way. I hope the divorce process is over for you soon.
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/22 01:01 AM
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You're absolutely right. She told me that she doesn't want a divorce. However, I'm fed up with her. I refuse to stay in a dead marriage for my kids. In my opinion, staying together only for the kids can be just as detrimental to the kids as divorcing.
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/22 12:02 AM
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I think my wife is scared of facing it all alone as well. However, I am done with her Jekyll and Hyde behavior. There is zero chance of reconciliation.
/r/Divorce_Men21/09/22 11:59 PM
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Exactly! I am far from being rich. However, I make enough money to the point where she doesn't have to work and can stay at home with the kids. Even though I will have to pay child support and probably alimony, it won't be forever. Eventually, she will have to work again. She basically just wants to avoid having to work. She will have to find someone else to leech off of.
/r/Divorce_Men21/09/22 11:32 PM
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Sounds like she has already moved on mentally and emotionally. And she probably has moved on physically in terms of being with another man. This doesn't happen all of a sudden. I think you probably just didn't recognize the signs. I'm in a situation now where my wife and I don't speak at all. We are staying in separate rooms in the same house, so no sex. It will remain that way until the divorce is final. I am not moving out of a house that I paid for until we sell the house. I know it is diffic…
/r/Divorce_Men19/09/22 07:48 PM
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My parents had an amicable divorce after 30 years of marriage. However, my sibling and I were grown and out of the house. I was not shocked because I noticed there were issues as a kid. They basically stayed together because of my sibling and I. I have two young kids, but do not anticipate any issues with filing for an uncontested divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men02/09/22 04:37 PM
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Not a bad idea. I think what happens is, once people start having kids, most or all of the attention usually diverts towards the kids. Couples then stop making a concerted effort to make time for each other. That typically leads to a decrease in communication and sex. I still believe a marriage with kids can work. However, "both" spouses have to make a concerted effort to stay connected.
/r/Divorce_Men28/08/22 11:15 PM
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Thanks, I appreciate it 🤜🤛
/r/Divorce_Men28/08/22 10:25 PM
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Well said. I totally agree.
/r/Divorce_Men28/08/22 10:20 PM
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I feel you. I know I am going to spend a lot in child support and alimony. However, I'm ok with that. Just want to be free from a dead marriage. Hopefully by next year, I'll be able to experience some good times and fun again like you are 🙂.
/r/Divorce_Men28/08/22 10:11 PM
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Sounds like you got married when you weren't quite ready. I know the feeling. I would avoid having kids with her. That way, the divorce will be easier.
/r/Divorce_Men28/08/22 10:05 PM
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Good stuff. I can't wait to get divorced from my wife! I've been married for 15 years. Her and I had sex every day early on. Then two kids and 15 years later, no communication and no sex at this point.
/r/Divorce_Men28/08/22 09:57 PM
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If you get married again, that 4x per day will likely decrease by a lot 😂.
/r/Divorce_Men28/08/22 09:49 PM
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I totally agree!
/r/Divorce_Men25/08/22 04:00 PM
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