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Fundamentals StopTheTrickle/r/seduction08/06/23 12:18 PM
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Field ReportStopTheTrickle/r/seduction18/12/23 05:57 AM
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"If you were a vegetable, what vegetable would the be and why?" Tomato is usually the answer, at which point "Tomatoes aren't vegetables they're technically a fruit, so I can only accept that as an answer if your reason why isn't "because I'm sweet"" They'll often argue that tomatoes are a vegetable and I'll tell them to Google it. Suddenly we're having an indepth conversation about food which I can always spin into a travel conversation
/r/seduction28/08/25 09:23 PM
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Many many many I once had the misfortune of working with a guy on the UK festival scene who was a pathological liar, and we all suspected he was a narcissist Guy was not attractive, way overweight, and even if he shedded the pounds it wouldn't have helped too much But he dressed well, and when you first met him, had this strong outgoing fun energy about him. It was only after spending a couple of days with him people started realising he was full of shit and nothing he said was true One live day…
/r/seduction05/06/25 08:25 PM
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Im currently in an 18 month dry spell following a relationship with someone I suspect was a narcissist. It changed my priorities, I lost interest in chasing tail and entertaining women, I'm now purely focused on me. Start therapy soon because man do I need to get laid, but the crippling fear of ending up in another abusive relationship has me incapable of saying more than hello
/r/seduction01/06/25 05:38 PM
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From a seduction perspective. Being bored during smalltalk is a blessing I like to ask women "If you were a vegetable, what vegetable would you be and why" and expand from there Before you know it you know her very well, which is what women want
/r/seduction24/05/25 05:43 AM
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I give before I expect to receive. Usually then women I'm with will then want to give me head in return I'll also just tell them too, by the time we're naked most women know full well I'm very okay with boundaries and if they say no that's cool
/r/seduction22/04/25 05:10 PM
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I ghost Red flags tbh. I'm dating to find a wife. If she says something that makes me think she's not mother material, I'll move on. I'm also no ones parent, so if someone's red flag. It's not my place to explain why they're red flag Many of us have learned women cannot take rejection well at all. It's easier to just block and move on
/r/seduction18/04/25 09:11 AM
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No. They do. Just not for very long. The most gorgeous girls are often a bit more forward in my experience, they want too let you know that yes they're interested too. But if you don't make your move soon, someone else will grab their attention
/r/seduction17/04/25 02:18 PM
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Yes, you're choosing to be a pos to get laid It still makes you a POS. Women > integrity?
/r/seduction17/04/25 10:40 AM
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Like, do you even know who you are anymore or is it all just stories and half truths?
/r/seduction17/04/25 05:34 AM
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Oh you can be brutally honest and still get what you want In a world of players and pickup artists leading women on and lying to them. Honesty is rare, attractive and appreciated. Imagine living your life stacking lies upon lies just to sleep with people. Gross
/r/seduction16/04/25 06:12 PM
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No I don't. I'm just saying that's the consequences of the actions. It's the same for men as it is for women, it makes it MUCH harder to connect when they're just one of many As someone with too many bodies, a word of warning to those who idealise picking up multiple women, is always worth while Being a "player" isn't all its cracked up to be.
/r/seduction16/04/25 04:22 PM
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And this lads. Is exactly how having a high body count ruins you. You find a great girl, and you'd rather still be wracking up bodies.
/r/seduction16/04/25 02:39 PM
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You're all good, I guess it translates into a word that shows respect and friendship, but to us, it's something old ladies call people much younger than them :P
/r/seduction13/04/25 10:51 PM
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Because its very condescending to call someone dear in English. Except central Asian people use it genuinely
/r/seduction13/04/25 10:11 PM
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With all the love in the world bro. I feel you should put dating on hold until you're back on your feet properly If my Brother came to live with me because of finances, and I found out he was spaffing money away on dates instead of getting his independence back. I'd send him packing to our Mums pretty damned sharpish.
/r/seduction30/03/25 08:34 PM
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You might be right actually, their post history doesn't scream youth
/r/seduction30/03/25 02:29 PM
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We can be fairly certain they're not that old, because she grabbed his dick and he's wondering what went wrong.
/r/seduction30/03/25 01:56 PM
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You will probably never have a woman be that forward again Ahh the pains of youth. But don't worry dude, we've all been there. Lesson learned
/r/seduction30/03/25 11:06 AM
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Every post you post you put in 8 different subs Why not just admit you're here to sell your bullshit course?
/r/seduction29/03/25 08:26 AM
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Never more than 1 at a time. I have very severe ADHD, it's hard enough to remember one exists if I get locked in a 2 day hyperfocus. I have no idea how you lot speaking to 6 at once and approaching 10 a day have time for your own lives That's not a dig at those that can, that's me throwing shade at my executive disfunction
/r/seduction29/03/25 08:19 AM
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"Nice Guy" is a bit of a misnomer, it's possible to be a lovely human being, and still be hella attractive What people usually mean by nice guy is malleable, unwilling to engage in disagreements, will just roll over etc. People pleasing basically. It's all about having boundaries. Being willing to say no, and having your own opinions, capable of calling her out, challenging her, Whilst being a nice human.
/r/seduction29/03/25 08:06 AM
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For sure, I'm no longer interested in casual hookups, I actually feel a bit gross sometimes looking back at how I used to be. Anyone that would come to bed with me, I'd take to bed, it's an empty way to live your life. Dating to find a wife these days.
/r/seduction29/03/25 07:16 AM
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One of my favourites from this year "Excuse me, I was just wondering, why are you dressed so fancy?!" Big grin, immediately. "I just like clothes" "Oh that's a shame, you look like you're here for a date, where you headed?" "Oh no where, just shopping, what about you?" "I'm just heading in here -points to coffee shop- fancy one? I'd love to get to know the woman behind the style?" She turned out to be all style and very little substance, conversation didn't flow well, zero in common, didn't even…
/r/seduction29/03/25 06:00 AM
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Lmao, dude, bless your cottons
/r/seduction28/03/25 04:04 PM
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No ones checking you out in the gym. It's a building full of people checking themselves out. Sincerely, gym lover
/r/seduction28/03/25 02:28 PM
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Nice ad hominem, where's all the confidence in your viewpoint gone? But fwiw, I don't go to parties, autism, some of us don't need to get women drunk either ;)
/r/seduction25/03/25 01:20 PM
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It's not a gift, it's learned behaviour, I'm autistic with ADHD, which means zero in built social skills, but immense pattern recognition. Anyone can learn it. Your advice is actually dangerous though, because if someone who isn't so strong with reading body language takes your advice and starts trying to build sexual tension on their waitress... Well it's creepy. Realistically if you had plenty of opportunities you wouldn't need to hit on service staff. It seems a bit desperate tbh Very good fo…
/r/seduction25/03/25 12:56 PM
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Nah, I've been a manager in hospitality, I've had this conversation with all my female staff, because high end hospitality is rife with creeps as customers. Light gentle flirting, easy going compliments, making idle chit chat. Absolutely fine. Looking to build sexual tension and get to know the person serving you personally, makes them very uncomfortable, they're trapped, they have to go along with it. (Obviously the usual rules apply, if she finds you attractive, the bar for making her uncomfor…
/r/seduction25/03/25 12:26 PM
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No. Its creepy as all hell because they can't end the interaction
/r/seduction25/03/25 03:25 AM
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You're not supposed to message the girl you meet at the club the next day... You're supposed to make her breakfast
/r/seduction17/03/25 03:18 PM
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Did anyone actually read this?
/r/seduction15/03/25 04:56 AM
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Tldr: approach women to get to know them, not just to date them
/r/seduction12/03/25 08:35 AM
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Move on, chalk the approach up to a win though bro, many don't even bother approaching
/r/seduction12/03/25 05:00 AM
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No, ADHD will not allow me to date more than one person at a time, I've arrived in coffee shops for a first date, only to bump into people who have been previously disqualified though, that's always awkward
/r/seduction07/03/25 01:53 AM
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Welcome to the world of a man that has options Once you visibly don't care what they think, and start speaking to women like they're your mates, you start to experience things that others don't. I.e. you don't even need game, you just be, you. Women are sick of being lied to and "gamed" Game is for the unattractive man. You've achieved natural attraction Congratulations sir. You've cracked the code
/r/seduction25/02/25 08:04 AM
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Reading this made my head hurt. I'm super greatful I'm autistic and have ADHD, I just get to be myself going through life doing random fucked up shit. Then when a woman finally gets my attention and I'm interested and don't look bored when I'm talking to them. They feel very special. (Nothing says you're an interesting human than someone with ADHD actually focusing on you after you've clocked they have zero focus when talking to other people) You neurotypicals have it hard hey...
/r/seduction24/02/25 07:59 AM
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Yeah, and at a sleepover once, I saw someone take a handbrush and beat him repeatedly, he cracked his skull. Over exactly what you're describing. Obviously that kid had serious issues and it layer turned out his dad beat him. But none of us knew. You never know You don't need to see that many times to learn, don't be a dick. Because you never know what someone's going through, who they are, or what they've done Another great example, my old man was French foreign legion. He was riddled with ptsd…
/r/seduction23/02/25 02:06 PM
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I guess that depends where you come from, I come from a pretty rough area, no one would intentionally hurt someone to test their character, you never know who you're dealing with. What if they take it the wrong way and stomp on your head? (Growing up most of us in my hometown saw people getting the shit kicked out of them, it teaches you to not do that shit I don't think I was even 15 when I saw someone crack someone's skull with a handbrush over embarrassing them at football, I had a stool thro…
/r/seduction23/02/25 01:57 PM
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Not my experience. But you'd have to be an absolute psychopath to come after my insecurities (I'm happy with my body and my life, you'd have to come after my family, or something connected to my dad dying young I'd drop them from my life like hot shit and never come back, I've done too much therapy to tolerate anyone attacking my insecurities to prove a point) But they do still find otherwise to test my temper. Wait until I'm stressed with something already then become a brat. They actually want…
/r/seduction23/02/25 01:47 PM
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My one trick for getting cats to like you. Acknowledge them, but don't make a fuss. Practically ignore them, they'll come to you. Wait... I just realised cats are just like women lol
/r/seduction20/02/25 05:26 PM
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Short term, and for ego purposes, you feel good. But long term, no, its empty and meaningless. Whats worse, is when I'm in relationships. They don't feel exciting anymore. Sex is no longer this exciting thing. There's no rush. It's just physical. Its very true what they say, the higher my body count goes, the lest connected I feel with new relationships. Would not recommend. Spiritually connected sex with a woman you love is worth a thousand casual hookups
/r/seduction20/02/25 04:29 PM
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No offence, but it's fairly obvious which guys are just saying what needs to be said to get a woman into bed, and a guy that's very serious. That's literally the point of some shit tests. Make them wait a bit, you'll find out the deal. Women create hookup culture by jumping into bed with these guys and not throughly vetting them first. Someone like me, who's done with chasing pointless sex, isn't going to mind waiting a month for someone I really like. But the problem is, social media bombards p…
/r/seduction19/02/25 09:31 AM
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Hookup culture is still alive and well Bearing in mind, women choose who they have sex with and men have sex with who they can. Women getting upset over hookup culture is a bit hypocritical...
/r/seduction19/02/25 06:33 AM
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The higher my body count the less exciting women seem. In fact, I've reached a point where casual sex now seems pretty gross, and shallow and empty, I feel sorry for people that are chasing it Honestly, society might be sex obsessed, but it doesn't mean having lots of sex is a good thing Having lots of sex with your partner is amazing. With lots of different people? Not actually as fun as you'd think
/r/seduction19/02/25 05:53 AM
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0.05 seconds. You should never be waiting for a reply, even if it takes her an hour or two to respond, don't be waiting
/r/seduction21/01/25 04:49 AM
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There's not as much hot wild sex happening in the world as you think. The Internet makes us believe thay everyone's having sex all the time. It's frankly just not true. A small number of people are having lots of sex. A vast majority of people are not. I am regularly told I am very attractive, I'm very lucky, and I also have a personality that for some reason people love to open up to and people feel safe sharing their secrets with me. I'm introverted as all hell and low key suspect I'm autistic…
/r/seduction03/01/25 02:57 AM
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Why would you be concerned? As a woman, surely you're aware dating is a minefield. But there's a fundamental difference between the two genders when it comes to dating. Women, talk to each other about dating. Men, do not. Your boyfriend just found a community of people who actually want to help each other with dating. We don't get the same support from our friends that women do when it comes to talking to the opposite sex. That's all, he absorbs tips and suggestions. Most of what you see here is…
/r/seduction29/12/24 06:23 AM
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Psychologists... never my own I still haven't worked out what it says about me
/r/seduction09/12/24 05:52 PM
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You really had my sympathy until this comment
/r/seduction09/10/24 09:39 PM
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make her flirt in return You cannot make her do anything Attraction is a numbers game, if you flirt and she doesn’t flirt back, move on, find someone who reciprocates
/r/seduction22/07/24 08:42 AM
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Is it going to benefit your life as much as it’s going to benefit hers? If no, don’t do it Don’t hold her handbag If she tells you to “wait here, I’m just going the toilet” “nah I’ll meet you by the bar, come find me ;)” Don’t pay her bills Don’t agree to everything she says, if you don’t like something say something. Don’t be afraid to disagree with her. Women might say something like “Drum and Bass is shit it’s not music” and you like D&B “nah I disagree Drum and bass has its place for sure, f…
/r/seduction29/04/24 05:19 PM
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Well are you being annoying? If you’re taking the piss and having friendly banter, it’s just a woman’s way of playing along. Tone of voice and body language is everything here. If you’re hearing this and then still hooking up at a later date, I wouldn’t be over thinking it
/r/seduction23/04/24 01:58 AM
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I had a situation last year where because I made a move on a girl, some of the other girls started making drama for me spreading I was making the girls feel uncomfortable at work Could have been a death sentence for a lesser man, thankfully I just went round every girl I’d interacted with and asked how I was making them feel uncomfortable. Each and every one of them said I wasn’t, low and behold it was some mid girl who just didn’t like me. Who I had intentionally stayed out of her way and thank…
/r/seduction19/04/24 10:30 AM
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You work together The #MeToo movement has made many good men terrified of making the first move, if he’s reading the signs wrong there’s a strong chance you’ll run to HR and get him sacked Welcome to modern dating, where women have put themselves so high on a pedestal that men can’t even risk perusing anymore
/r/seduction19/04/24 04:29 AM
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Dude don’t be a passport bro, sex tourism is gross
/r/seduction16/04/24 06:02 AM
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Jesus you put the work into pulling a 20 year old and now you want to throw her under the bus for being a nonce? If you get this woman in trouble after you did all the legwork getting her into bed you’re an absolute tosspot and a bottom feeder at best.
/r/seduction12/04/24 08:29 PM
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I think you’re overthinking it dude, don’t get bogged down in what women say, look at what they do If IOI are all present and she says “have a good one” I’d pay much more attention to the fact that she’s been chewing on her lip, touching you or preening over the words she uses Body language is subconscious, spoken language is conscious For all you know they’re walking away saying “why the fuck did I just say have a good one? Jesus I’m so fucking awkward” and that’s why they never contact you aga…
/r/seduction11/04/24 05:52 PM
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I feel like this is one girl you’re overly invested in?
/r/seduction11/04/24 05:38 PM
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Oh 100%, I spent a few days trying to coach him through asking her out Then he did this as repayment So obviously I took her to bed as well
/r/seduction11/04/24 06:37 AM
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Somewhere very much in the middle of that spectrum :) I’ve mentioned things therapists have told me in the past, or I’ll move the conversation to mental health. You’re not giving things away, you’re alluding to the fact that you know you’re not perfect When you try and paint this perfect picture of your life, you’re lying, it makes you look like a liar because no one’s life’s perfect When you let a woman into your life, and you show her things that she’s used to men hiding from her, you stand ou…
/r/seduction11/04/24 04:50 AM
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No, the bro code no longer exists. Boys are now looking to snipe each other left right and centre, being able to handle another guy trying to cockblock you has become part of seduction now. If you’re good enough at holding frame you can use this to you advantage. In your case, mates shouldn’t be making this harder than it already is. But ultimately women are the choosers hey, if he’s been talking to her for a while, and you’ve got further in the shorter term That should tell both of you what you…
/r/seduction10/04/24 02:42 AM
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I’m not sure you know what trauma bonding is? Trauma bonding is the literal opposite of being vulnerable
/r/seduction09/04/24 01:32 AM
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Shit tests are a sign of interest. Women do this to make sure you are who you’re pretending to be If you’ve destroyed that interest you’re done. She’s probably already lined up next date with next guy
/r/seduction07/04/24 06:36 AM
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You’re an idiot for swapping Should have taken her home when you offered her a good night If your boy didn’t understand then he’s a shitty friend
/r/seduction07/04/24 06:26 AM
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I’d say more be vulnerable without being whiney. It’s okay to have problems in your life, and sharing them means you’re an honest man What’s not okay is to have a victim mindset
/r/seduction07/04/24 04:17 AM
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TLDR: create an internal environment within yourself where praising yourself becomes the norm, and hating yourself isn’t acceptable anymore. Therapy is a huge thing. For me it was ground breaking to hear someone professional say “fuck me STT, your Mum sounds like she failed you time and time again” I actually made my therapist cry my childhood was so bad, and the man was a firefighter for his real job. So how do you reparent yourself? I won’t lie bro it’s a long fucking journey, I’m now 31 and t…
/r/seduction07/04/24 04:04 AM
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I’m an introvert, it doesn’t seem to be much different. If anything being confidently introverted seems to be a good thing. I know extroverts who cannot get their head around how this very quiet guy who never starts conversations with people has such great results with women. It’s very simple, as an introvert I clearly do not need anyone else’s validation to feel good about myself. I personally think extroverts come across as very insecure, they actually NEED social interaction to like themselve…
/r/seduction07/04/24 03:17 AM
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Tell me you’ve got nothing going on in your life without telling me you’ve got nothing going on in your life Women like to feel chosen by a busy man. If she feels like all you do is chase tail and message girls, she’s gonna be turned off, she’s nothing to you but a conquest If you can make her feel special, texting back quick is actually a good thing. Back when me and my girlfriend started dating, I was replying to her so quickly, because I was falling hard for her. But she also knew I had optio…
/r/seduction07/04/24 03:06 AM
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Be vulnerable! The quickest way to build trust, is to give trust Ask her opinions, listen more than you talk (66% listening 33% talking) Make her laugh, don’t get phased by things, be nice to wait staff. Make her the absolute centre of your attention. On that date, there’s just you and her in the room. Your there to get to know her after all!
/r/seduction07/04/24 02:28 AM
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Completely agree, insecurity is loud, confidence is quiet
/r/seduction07/04/24 02:23 AM
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Bro this was me. I was raised in an emotionally abusive household. Now I’m at a stage where that trauma is actually an asset, people are drawn to me because of it, something about my vibe makes me “really easy to talk to, like you’re not going to judge me no matter what I tell you” (from the mouths of women themselves) You have to re-parent yourself. Get up every morning and go look yourself in the eye in the mirror and list off all the amazing things about yourself Anytime you do something grea…
/r/seduction07/04/24 01:31 AM
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It’s all in the delivery and timing “Damn you’ve got a great body” potentially creepy “I mean look at you, you clearly don’t eat a lot of greasy food” seems well received (obviously context is important for this one, you’re not gonna just shoehorn it in, it’s a good one for setting a date, “let’s go get sushi” “how did you know I love sushi?!” “I mean look at you…”) But realistically, you wanna be complimenting her personality, her style, well before you compliment her body. If you can word a co…
/r/seduction07/04/24 12:57 AM
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10 years from now those "Savages" struggle to keep a woman, have no life prospects and probably are tied to someone they regret because they got the wrong girl pregnant They're not your peers, they're your competition Let them be distracted chasing women of no value, meanwhile you're getting ahead in life
/r/seduction05/04/24 05:45 PM
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Trust me bro, next couple of years it’ll all click into place
/r/seduction05/04/24 12:46 PM
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So here’s the thing I wish someone had told me at 19 Now is not the time to waste energy, resources or time on chasing tail. Knuckle down, become the best version of you you can be. And the women will be attracted to you and you won’t need to attract them Spend your early 20s levelling the fuck up, whilst all your mates are out drinking and wasting money on women, shovel your cash away, invest it, build social skills, hit the gym By the end of your 20s you’ll be in such a place where getting wom…
/r/seduction05/04/24 12:06 PM
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I need hookups Women are gonna smell that desperation on you a mile away my man
/r/seduction05/04/24 12:02 PM
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Oh this comment was aimed at me? No, no fear of compassion, just know if a girls gonna come home with me she’s not going to entertain new guy for very long I already know I’m top drawer, if she can’t see that that’s her issue not mine
/r/seduction05/04/24 06:35 AM
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What do I do when another guy....What would a self respecting man do? If anyone's unsure, the answer is walk off and leave them too it, find someone else to talk to Never fails. She'll bin him off quicker than anything you've ever seen before. Drives women nuts to see you just shrug it off and walk away and start talking to some other girl.
/r/seduction04/04/24 08:10 PM
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You absolutely should go backpacking, it really obliterates approach anxiety. Because you get so used to approaching people just to start a conversation Plus the increased numbers gives a good learning curve on seeing the signals, it’s now very easy to see which girls are interested and which are not. You then just go for the women who are interested in you and not the ones who are just being friendly
/r/seduction21/03/24 04:37 AM
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Long term back packer here, it’s hard work. But also the odds are more in your favour Hard work because timings, you’re meeting people for a day or two max, sometimes a week but very rarely. You’ve got to establish connection, sexualise and make her feel safe with you, in a very short time frame. And do not forget that everyone’s already out of their depth so feeling safe with a stranger in a foreign country? Takes some doing unless you’re very good at building trust The upside is, if you swing …
/r/seduction20/03/24 06:37 AM
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Did you bother to read the post or just knee jerked your disbelief because it's never happened to you? The more I say no. The harder they're pushing
/r/seduction19/12/23 12:58 AM
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Nah you're right it didn't happen It's currently happening :)
/r/seduction19/12/23 12:19 AM
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What's not helping the situation is I do flirt with the guests. A lot So they're definitely aware it's a wall I've built for them. It's like the challenge is sending them wild
/r/seduction18/12/23 10:56 PM
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That being said if you have no interest in the women in the volunteer group, nobody is holding a gun to your head, just quit. Why would I do that? There's much more to life than fucking dude...
/r/seduction18/12/23 10:40 PM
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Nope. I fuck. But I need to like the person to want to be inside them.
/r/seduction18/12/23 10:39 PM
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Honestly it's taken me near enough 7/8 years to get here Started off taking 4 months of the year off in the off Season. And slowly Started getting more experience and more money. Which meant more time off Now I'm starting a business in the free time I have
/r/seduction18/12/23 10:34 PM
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Because I'm not the sort of guy who'll just fuck anything that gives me attention? I've been a big old hoe this trip and it was honestly eye opening Now I'll only go to bed if there's a genuine connection. The idea of fucking someone I don't like is pretty gross
/r/seduction18/12/23 10:17 PM
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Yeah I've had that happen before too Problem with keeping yourself to yourself and not being easily manipulated by women is they can sometimes try to manipulate other people into not liking you instead
/r/seduction18/12/23 09:35 AM
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Let's not forget you started off as a toxic POS Why would I give you anything more than a brush off? Sorry you don't get laid bro
/r/seduction18/12/23 09:23 AM
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Hard work and determination. And not sitting on my ass being toxic online wishing my life were different
/r/seduction18/12/23 09:14 AM
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Actually, anyone can. You've just got to work really fucking hard to get here I came from anxiety ridden, obese, stuck in the rat race beggingings. Now I work 5 months of the year and travel 7 months of the year. Have a 6 pack and can hold a conversation with pretty much anyone I have a genuine connection with
/r/seduction18/12/23 08:55 AM
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How old are these women? Are they from your country, too, or native to this island? Late 20s early 30s. All complain about never having had a long-term relationship, and frankly, I can see why. Not native. From all sorts of countries, really. The native staff love me because I'm actively learning the local language. They don't like these girls very much. but i do fear that they may try to gang up on you since there is a multipe women interested. Nyam nyam nyam, that's a lovely thought. Truthfull…
/r/seduction18/12/23 08:47 AM
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It's a volunteer position on a tropical island for a for-profit guesthouse. Unfortunately, I'm the new guy in a team of mostly women. I'm genuinely a bit worried that if I did cause a scene, they'd just close ranks and protect those involved (I'm very seriously anxious about this. It's happened before, women can be nasty (no offence meant if you're female but im sure none will be taken ) The main offenders are leaving soon, which is great. I'm trying to keep myself to myself. Tempted to just exp…
/r/seduction18/12/23 07:59 AM
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Maybe I need to make it clearer then. Because yeah it's pretty disgusting that they keep trying it on over and over again If the roles were reversed I'd get sacked on the spot
/r/seduction18/12/23 07:30 AM
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I'm certainly a guy. You are correct. A woman's level of openness is important. You're right that not every woman will be open to talking to you. If you're out there enjoying your life. You're very likely to have more genuine interactions with people who are interested. You'll know within the first 10s. It's pretty obvious if they're not interested Just move on, and eventually, you'll bump into someone giving you signals if you know what to look for
/r/seduction08/06/23 11:36 PM
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This needs to he higher. Realistically, if you crack number #11, the majority of the rest will come naturally
/r/seduction08/06/23 09:25 PM
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Read the post. When the festival shuts down, they take the showers away. We don't always have access to running water
/r/seduction08/06/23 07:47 PM
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Yeah. So maybe you make a banging cup of coffee. Or maybe you're very polite. Celebrate that shit brother
/r/seduction08/06/23 05:32 PM
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I usually just immediately assume most women dont want to talk to me much less be eventually woo'd by me. This is definitely a mindset that's holding you back. What is it that makes you feel this way?
/r/seduction08/06/23 04:03 PM
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Don't owe her one. But if its something that's just a matter of opinion (say music) an explanation opens up for more conversation It's not just men who struggle with things to say. As a man were required to lead the conversation. Giving her things to latch onto and talk about really makes life easy
/r/seduction08/06/23 03:30 PM
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I approach girls to find this vibe, not to convince them of anything. This is definitely key. You're not gonna get along with every person. It's impossible. But there's literally billions of women out there. There's definitely a lot waiting for someone just like you
/r/seduction08/06/23 03:25 PM
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Thank you, my dude :) 20 YO me wouldn't recognise 30 YO me. Tbh. Somedays even I look in the mirror and I'm amazed at who I've become core value is kindness A million times this. I've reached a point where its actually enjoyable to just be kind. I helped a woman the other day on the train who was lost confused and in tears. I could feel the respect oozing from everyone who overheard the conversation. Didn't do it for any other reason than I hated seeing someone so upset and as someone who's well…
/r/seduction08/06/23 03:11 PM
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You are though. You just need to find it :) start small.
/r/seduction08/06/23 03:02 PM
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They smell it, rofl 100% I was just sitting in a laundrette minding my own business when this woman strikes up a conversation with me. Her fella was sat in the car outside, and he definitely noticed. She definitely got in trouble later Self confidence and genuinely enjoying your own existence is so attractive it'll apparently make even the women in relationships want to talk to you
/r/seduction08/06/23 02:51 PM
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So here's how I did it: I started actually acknowledging the things I was good at. Daily. Start small: "fucking hell StopTheTrickle you absolutely nailed cooking that breakfast" "you absolutely smashed it at work today" "absolutely destroyed that workout there mate. Well done. " Speak kindly to yourself. Make a note of every positive thing you see about yourself. Once it's habitual to praise yourself. It becomes easier to stop worrying about the approach outcome. Because it's clearly no longer y…
/r/seduction08/06/23 02:36 PM
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The tldr right here. Become your own biggest fan and everyone around you will feel it. Especially women
/r/seduction08/06/23 01:19 PM
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