How do I start with the game

Endgame2648 · 2024-04-05T11:10:37+00:00

I'm pretty much in the same boat as you. M19, grew up in a conservative household where mentioning even the name of girl was bound to get you the "girls are evil" talk. They have now suddenly cleared up their traditions and want me to marry whoever I like. So I'm out now trying to find that whoever.

I am currently working in the gym and reading books. One thing I'd like to tell you is to ignore the FOMO you'll get. We're at an age where all our friends are dabbling into something and we all want to take a part in it. One of my friend is starting an online business, I feel like I'm missing out the Internet money boat. My other friend is committing to a life of a fuckboi and feels like I'm missing out on tons of great sex. It's just part of life. We all have our own journeys.

SnooHesitations4922 · 2024-04-05T13:15:36+00:00

Don't fill your head with too much info or you will overthink.

Stick with the bare basics.

If you understand polarity, u understand the entire game.

Think of the behavioral traits of a woman that are pleasing to you and show the opposite traits. This sounds completely counterintuitive but u need to go out and see how girls respond for yourself.

If the girl is kind and sweet to you...she will be repulsed if you are the same way to her. Men and women function exactly like magnets. Similar poles repel, opposing poles attract.

This is why the arrogant pricks u love to hate get more ass than a toilet seat, most never had to learn the game...they are polarizing by nature.

You don't have to be an asshole. You do have to be an ass. Just speak nonsense and never give a compliment without also taking that validation back with a tease.

unswunghero · 2024-04-05T13:34:49+00:00

Read "No More Mr. Nice Guy" by Dr. Robert Glover
Read "Models" by Mark Manson
Go to the wiki for this subreddit and read through the linked posts
Talk to anyone and everyone. In every interaction you have with strangers, have the goal of "can I have fun with this person"

Chicagoj1563 · 2024-04-05T17:01:05+00:00

Forget about your past and avoid any kind of victim thinking.

Some guys think they have bad results, bad circumstances, life is unfair, and they blame this or that for their lack of a dating life. Everything is within your control to excel in this area. It has nothing to do with the past. And it’s a decent life skill to recognize when you are falling into “I am a victim” thinking. Focus on the solution, not the problem.

You have to play the numbers game. The more opportunities you have interacting with women, the better. This will give you more options and more opportunities to practice your social skills.
Understand most guys are unattractive. Social conditioning messes up most men in this area. We were raised by our mothers, female teachers, and feminist influences. This is good because it keeps us all respectful of each other. But, it hurts us in the area of seduction. This is why game works. It’s because the competition is so low.
Game isn’t something you do, it’s something you are. Its not about lines and tactics. Develop yourself and learn to be more extroverted, lead more, self amuse, push your comfort zone, etc… learn the fundamentals of what makes men attractive to women. It’s behavioral cues.

Women are mostly attracted to male behaviors and how other people respond to you. It’s about developing your social skills. Learn to lead, self amuse, be fun, etc…

nintendoborn1 · 2024-04-05T16:44:54+00:00

I wish I had stuff like this when I was in college

StopTheTrickle · 2024-04-05T12:06:35+00:00

So here’s the thing I wish someone had told me at 19

Now is not the time to waste energy, resources or time on chasing tail.

Knuckle down, become the best version of you you can be. And the women will be attracted to you and you won’t need to attract them

Spend your early 20s levelling the fuck up, whilst all your mates are out drinking and wasting money on women, shovel your cash away, invest it, build social skills, hit the gym

By the end of your 20s you’ll be in such a place where getting women is easy.

Befriend women, get to know how their minds work, don’t be looking to fuck every woman who gives you a smile

Since I stopped caring about whether I sleep with a woman or not, my results have skyrocketed. It’s actually become a bit of a problem because now I’m having to learn how to reject women, and that’s a fucking minefield

Useful_Warthog_6962 · 2024-04-05T10:43:06+00:00

Focus on building genuine connections first, not just hooking up. Confidence plays a big role, so work on that. College clubs/events are great for meeting people. Be yourself, listen, and be respectful.

lovingseals · 2024-04-05T11:28:59+00:00

This tradition is so old :(

AssistTemporary8422 · 2024-04-05T14:28:33+00:00

Start with just being socially active and meeting women naturally.

IGetBoredSometimes23 · 2024-04-05T20:19:42+00:00

Get the book How to Succeed With Women by Ron Louis and David Copeland. It'll teach you how to talk to women without turning into a douchebag.

Andrea-Amilcare · 2024-04-05T20:41:53+00:00

Don't bother with any seduction books or techniques/methods, this shit honestly boils down to talk to a lot of girls. That's all there is to it, the rest is just noise. Attraction was taken care of by mother nature at birth, a girl will either dig you or she won't and unless you're some 6'4" Giga chad, most chicks won't. But to find those that do, you will have to talk to all of them.

If you open 10 different girls every week and tell them "Hi, my name is Joy-Bong, I find you very attractive and I wanted to introduce myself" you'll always have women in your life.

Elbynerual · 2024-04-05T20:56:21+00:00

Read the FAQ

Joy-bong · 2024-04-05T17:11:35+00:00

That’s easy to say I’ve tried doing that but when all ur peers fucking like savages seeing people making out after classes and shi does hurt bro And on top of that most of friends of mine be having great academics as well as hook ups If u give me a way to not feel that or sumn I’d rather follow this

Title	How do I start with the game
Author	Joy-bong
Upvotes	30
Comments	30
Date	April 5, 2024 10:35 AM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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