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| 12 | [FR] A wild weekend. Many missed opportunities. | StormTAG | /r/seduction | 05/12/11 02:59 AM | |
| 6 | [FR] Gotta start somewhere, I suppose... | StormTAG | /r/seduction | 16/08/11 08:09 PM | |
| 2 | [FR] The little bit of Dragon Con I made | StormTAG | /r/seduction | 08/09/11 02:39 AM | |
| 1 | In the interest of starting fresh... | StormTAG | /r/seduction | 27/06/11 07:37 PM |
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| 16 | Apart from paying for the services of an escort, what's a good plan of action for an average looking guy to lose his virginity?Please do not torture metaphors. They're innocent and don't deserve it. | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 05:22 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I’ll walk up to girls and start talking to them and they give me the weirdest look every time. Sounds like something else is the problem. I mean, your friends with looks have it on easy mode, no doubt. Unless you're quasimodo, looks probably aren't your issue. | /r/seduction | 04/10/21 12:08 AM |
| 2 | Can’t pull girls to save my lifeI mean, what do you say to fuck it up? | /r/seduction | 28/09/21 03:15 AM |
| 2 | I'm tired if pretendingI just feel lonely and starved of a women's caring touch to be honest. That sucks man. My only real advice would be to do your best to learn to be happy with yourself. Your brain is amazing at finding patterns and justifying its preconceived notions. Figuring out how to work your brain so that it can figure out how to make happiness rather than justify unhappiness is different for everyone. The only thing I generally suggest to everyone is gratitude journaling. If you're not yet in the "I really… | /r/seduction | 23/09/21 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Feel like my height (5'7) is already a dealbreaker for every woman I meetFor what it’s worth, there are dedicated vent subreddits. | /r/seduction | 29/08/21 06:27 AM |
| 12 | What does it mean?Okay...? Why bother posting this then? | /r/seduction | 04/06/21 02:03 PM |
| 14 | Things you can do to become more attractiveThe thing about clowns is that they put on a mask. If you're just funny as part of your greater personality, that's just you. If you're being genuinely being funny just because you're a funny guy, then just own that. If that kills the sexual tension for her, then that wasn't going to work out anyway. If you're trying to be funny in order to impress her, well, that's when you're being a clown. That isn't you, you're putting on the clown mask. It's not about balance, it's about intention. | /r/seduction | 12/02/21 03:39 PM |
| 8 | 2 Years Of Cold Approach, 15 Lays, And Right Back Where I Started"Looks don't matter" in the fact that a well-dressed and well-groomed quasimodo can still get laid. And probably with more success than an average dude in sweats who stinks. "Looks don't matter" means "your genetic situation does not preclude you from getting laid" not "you can land anyone no matter what you look like." | /r/seduction | 11/05/20 04:20 PM |
| 3 | What's with this double standard of hot girls wanting to be treated as normal people while acting like dating less attractive guys is below them?You're conflating two different issues. 1) When girls say they "want to be seen and treated like normal people" it is short hand for "guys are acting weird around me by putting me on this pedestal and I don't like it." Which happens to men too, of course, but we're socialized not to bring it up. 2) All people are judged by the people they associate with. So if someone starts dating someone that others judge harshly, they will be judged harshly. If a girl dates down, other people who consider him… | /r/seduction | 20/04/20 07:38 PM |
| 1 | This sub has a lot of women that just want to cause chaosPeople in this thread are pretending like anyone here said you only need to be attractive or you only need game. Pretty much everyone is saying you need some of both. Zero attractiveness means no one will give you a chance. Zero game means you'll mess up every chance you do get. I don't see anyone saying otherwise. | /r/seduction | 23/03/20 01:05 PM |
| 2 | This was in Bloomberg this week. I thought same of you might find it interestingIt boils down to what "man" and "woman" even mean. A lot of folks have a lot of strong opinions on these things and those opinions don't always line up. If a person looks masculine, talks masculine, does traditionally masculine things but doesn't have a penis, is it a man? If a person looks feminine, talks feminine, does traditionally feminine things but doesn't have a vagina, is it a woman? | /r/seduction | 16/02/20 01:07 PM |
| 1 | How do I take girls off the "pedestal"?I learned the first one as "Everybody shits." | /r/seduction | 09/01/20 02:06 AM |
| 3 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.I find the responses to this post interesting. There seems to be a growing dichotomy between the old school "techniques to score which will build your natural confidence" crowd and the newer "build yourself up and women will naturally enter your life" crowd. Both can work, as there's plenty of examples thrown about. Both have significant dark-sides, where extremists can ruin their lives (eg. manipulative douchebags and treadmill running losers.) Both have been heavily commercialized as well. The… | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 05:34 PM |
| 5 | This. Don’t be afraid to break things off with a woman. Your time and attention is extremely valuable and it should be treated as such.If a man has the power to walk away, a woman will respect that man. This applies in both directions, as does its inverse. | /r/seduction | 26/11/19 01:01 AM |
| 2 | This is what happened when I posed as a semi-attractive girl on tinder for a little over 8 hours, I give up on life lolSo you're suggesting that men should not be cautious when meeting someone for the first time because they're statistically less likely to be targeted for a crime? | /r/seduction | 27/06/19 11:39 PM |
| 15 | Is there any way to recover from this garbage-tier conversation?She hasn't replied to in 3 days now. Nope. Move on. | /r/seduction | 23/06/19 08:10 PM |
| 23 | What Are Some of The Biggest Lies Mainstream Society Tells Itself With Dating/SeductionDon't. Just get yourself into another situation like it. | /r/seduction | 16/05/19 10:24 PM |
| 17 | What Are Some of The Biggest Lies Mainstream Society Tells Itself With Dating/SeductionBeing a White Knight is fine if it's your honest beliefs. Being a White Knight only because you're expecting her to be the Princess That Falls For The Knight, is an issue. | /r/seduction | 16/05/19 10:22 PM |
| 14 | What Are Some of The Biggest Lies Mainstream Society Tells Itself With Dating/SeductionThere's some truth to this but there definitely seems to be a bigger social pressure for women to say they like all of the things that makes a guy boring than there is for men to say they like all the things that makes a woman boring. | /r/seduction | 16/05/19 10:20 PM |
| 2 | How do I lose feelings for my FWB?Instead, talk about how expensive it is to hire a competent hit man these days. I mean, the agencies just aren't what they used to and nowadays, with social media everywhere, every hitman thinks they're an "assassin." Dude, please, unless you've offed someone who has more followers than the calories you take in during your "pre-workout protein bomb," you aren't an assassin. Sheesh | /r/seduction | 09/05/19 09:05 PM |
| 96 | Went clubbing alone last night, this is how it wentThis. Only people who should break up fights are the ones who are getting paid to do it. | /r/seduction | 05/05/19 11:26 AM |
| 2 | [FR] I have approached 15 girls this week on campus.Which is funny, because everyone knows this at this point. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ | /r/seduction | 11/04/19 08:20 PM |
| 8 | Cutest rejection everDisclaimer: I'm aware this is not its common usage. I try to use the 1-10 scale (mostly in my own head) primarily as a tool to gauge what their likely responses would be. If applied objectively as possible, a 10 is likely going to have heard it all before and likely have the bitch shield up almost all the time while a 1 is going to be desperate for any positive attention what-so-ever. Used as a calibration tool, it can temper your expectations and help other folks discuss your approach. | /r/seduction | 18/02/19 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Approaching 2 Girls at the Same Time - 100 Women in 50 Days - Day 2ME: Basically I think your friend is absolutely gorgeous but I don’t know what to say to her. Can you give me some tips? Damn. This seems like it could have backfired spectacularly. Glad it worked for you! Curious to know your logistics as you seem like you have a lot more free time to run game than a lot of folks. Clearly sounds like you live in a walkable city, which is a plus in general. Is all this on-the-way-to and/or from work? | /r/seduction | 04/06/18 10:01 PM |
| 2 | I fucked up, big time. Newbies, please read this and learn from my mistake.Sucks man but you got the right attitude. You're learning and perfecting a new skill and mindset. You're gonna fuck up. Just keep going like you are | /r/seduction | 27/04/18 07:28 PM |
| 2 | A Rant from a girl: Why it isn’t working for you…This is silly. We all have friends and acquaintances that we only really consider in a single context. That does not mean we respect them as human beings any less. You and many other folks associate sex and love so hard that you assume any one who doesn't is bad. And I even get why. I personally would not want to be sexual with someone I was not romantically involved with as well. But I would not judge anyone else nor would I feel judged if someone I was interested in felt differently. "I just w… | /r/seduction | 03/04/18 02:11 PM |
| 3 | A Rant from a girl: Why it isn’t working for you…Sounds like these guys and you want different things. Which is fine, though a little sad for you since you very much seem to want a close, deep relationship while these guys probably don't. Seems to imply you have needs that are going unfulfilled. I can sympathize. However, you should understand that you're talking about two completely different things. If a dude wants a deep, loving relationship, then your advice is great! Your advice falls in to the "Get close while keeping the spark" type adv… | /r/seduction | 03/04/18 02:01 PM |
| 4 | THE ONE HACK WHO WILL GET YOU LAID. You do this and girls will stick to you like flies to shit.But, but... Alcohol is awesome! Source: Am currently drunk | /r/seduction | 21/07/17 01:11 AM |
| 91 | THE ONE HACK WHO WILL GET YOU LAID. You do this and girls will stick to you like flies to shit.So what you're saying is that being a well rounded individual with a diverse set of skills and experience is a good thing? | /r/seduction | 21/07/17 01:09 AM |
| 36 | She's attracted to your strengthAlso, keeping your nails trimmed is a good idea too. /flippant | /r/seduction | 26/02/17 05:10 AM |
| 11 | [FR]My first approach ever. I sucked but It felt so good!You will eventually get desensitized to the fear and then you can step it up a bit at a time. | /r/seduction | 26/01/17 06:28 PM |
| 1 | [FR] First approach ever. I never felt so proud of myself.Because not everyone is comfortable with leaving that unsaid for some reason. | /r/seduction | 11/12/16 07:30 PM |
| 3 | I grew a pair tonight.Well done! That first one can be the hardest. Just don't rest on your laurels, get out there and keep asking! | /r/seduction | 10/07/16 03:30 PM |
| 1 | [FR] First ever pull. My life has changedWhy ya harshin' bro? | /r/seduction | 13/06/16 03:27 AM |
| 5 | [FR] First ever pull. My life has changedBecause she's not into the other dude? Because OP was radiating awesome? | /r/seduction | 13/06/16 03:26 AM |
| 16 | Using a girl to get another girlNot, and I mean this sincerely, with that attitude. | /r/seduction | 08/08/15 08:53 PM |
| 11 | So Valentines Day is coming up. As a single guy, how can I make the most if it.Instructions unclear. Have no pet, animals or friends. | /r/seduction | 09/02/15 11:55 PM |
| 3 | "I'm gonna go now"Infidelity is not a crime. Your comparison is ridiculous. | /r/seduction | 28/12/14 04:55 AM |
| 1 | Why I hate clubsWhat do you find fun? | /r/seduction | 19/11/14 07:10 PM |
| 2 | Where do y'all meet the intelligent and intellectually curious women?Just 'cause y'all don't use proper diction doesn't mean I can't. | /r/seduction | 23/09/14 01:55 PM |
| 23 | Where do y'all meet the intelligent and intellectually curious women?Y'all are just hating. | /r/seduction | 23/09/14 11:49 AM |
| 6 | Where do y'all meet the intelligent and intellectually curious women?There are many reasons why women are under-represented in STEM careers, but intelligence is not one of them. Besides, if you're an engineer of any variety, I'm sure you're aware that you don't always gotta be smart to be one. Heaven knows there are some idiot engineers floating around. | /r/seduction | 23/09/14 11:48 AM |
| 33 | [FR] Went on two dates with a hot Tinder girl, She's a tough nut to crack and might be a playerI would just say chill. She's on Tinder, attractive and apparently a good dater. Yeah, of course she's dating multiple guys. So what? You're attractive, a good dater and on Tinder too. Are you dating multiple girls? | /r/seduction | 23/09/14 11:46 AM |
| 13 | Going solo - how do you deal with "where are your friends"?"I'm out alone tonight, who're you with?" And then get her to introduce you to her friends. You will now have met even more people. Win win. | /r/seduction | 05/07/14 11:33 PM |
| 1 | What happens when you meet a good girl?The common wisdom is that turning a sexual relationship into long-term relationship is a lot more likely than turning a platonic relationship into a long-term relationship. In the end though, decide what you want and go for it. | /r/seduction | 07/04/14 02:35 AM |
| 57 | I’ve been a good girl, a slut and everything in between: tips from a different perspectiveChill out, bro. Always gotta remember who the author is when reading. | /r/seduction | 02/04/14 04:20 PM |
| 2 | A Facebook trend I've noticedThere is an element of analytics to attraction, and seeing how those common behaviors carry over into our digital life is interesting to a number of folks. OP posted first hand observations of their Facebook friends. Nowhere did they say either of the "All"s you seem to be ascribing to them. All that being said, I do agree with most of the advice you've posted. You just seem to be coming down hard on a specific part of the community unnecessarily. | /r/seduction | 23/03/14 12:25 PM |
| 6 | A girl said one sentence to me tonight which changed my perspective:And fear is no reason not to do something. Just makes it more difficult. That's one of the major points of this sub. Helping you rationalize and prepare for fear and then acting anyway. | /r/seduction | 15/03/14 07:36 PM |
| 1 | The difference between giving value and beeing needyCould you give a prompt? You could describe literally any situation in either frame. | /r/seduction | 22/02/14 01:27 AM |
| 5 | A Hack For Sex on The First DateThe example was not to illustrate your options in a restaurant, but instead illustrate the relative value of providing (buying a cd, paying for a meal) vs creating (writing and performing music, cooking a meal) which was the question. Besides, not all dates require a meal let alone a restaurant. | /r/seduction | 28/01/14 10:45 AM |
| 32 | A Hack For Sex on The First DateProvider and creator are two separate frames. Who do you think is more interesting? The musician or the guy who bought the cd? | /r/seduction | 28/01/14 02:39 AM |
| 5 | How to stop dancing near girls. Either dance with them or don't!If she declines, she's not interested. Not really worth your time to keep pursuing. | /r/seduction | 01/01/14 11:17 PM |
| 4 | How to stop dancing near girls. Either dance with them or don't!Most white guys are doomed to dance like goofballs. However, it doesn't really matter if you're having fun none the less. | /r/seduction | 01/01/14 11:15 PM |
| 12 | Forget Game: Become a Badass, Don't Fake ItRather than discuss each point, let's cut to, what I think, is the heart of the matter... Go after what you want. We're both, pretty much, saying "Go after what you want." You're saying that you should go after whatever hobby, profession, interest or passion that drives you. This will make you a more confident person and can certainly improve your self-esteem. I agree, and think this is great advice! However, you're relating personal experience where this led to receiving the "secondary" concern… | /r/seduction | 29/12/13 05:48 AM |
| 27 | Forget Game: Become a Badass, Don't Fake ItI think I need to play a little devil's advocate because I'm not sure I can 100% agree with this. There are plenty of people who have a thing they dedicate themselves to in large part who still don't work well with women. As an example, if I'm all about being a WoW Raider and I'm the top of my damage charts and blah, blah, blah... Frankly, I have a very limited pool of women who will share my interests. Women will not naturally flock to me. The unspoken rule here is you must become a badass at b… | /r/seduction | 29/12/13 05:14 AM |
| 2 | [Off topic] Keeping a girlfriend once I've got oneIf stepping up the game means being a different person, you're doing it wrong. The whole point of good PUA is to learn to make yourself a better communicator and person. If this is something you can turn off, you're not really getting it in the first place. | /r/seduction | 30/11/13 11:59 PM |
| 1 | "Lions are unaffected by the opinions of sheep" [Insight on status and power]That was bah-d | /r/seduction | 15/07/13 03:06 PM |
| 1 | "Lions are unaffected by the opinions of sheep" [Insight on status and power]Depends on the circle and your objectives. Besides, the "top" can be a lonely place. Everyone has to make the decision for themselves where they want to be in each of their social circles. | /r/seduction | 15/07/13 03:06 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Seddit, thanks for saving my marriage!It's difficult to tell whether or not the last part of this post is sarcastic or not. | /r/seduction | 04/07/13 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Girls’re just as lonely and frustrated as we are. They want to meet a guy. But not just a guy, a great guy....I'm weird, so I have rules for that sort of shit in my own mind. Now, I do want to make sure that I'm clear that this is not an excuse to have poor communication or to expect her to be perfect. If she does something that pisses you off, tell her. Try to resolve it. When you can't, that's when you should consider leaving. | /r/seduction | 03/06/13 12:14 PM |
| 12 | Girls’re just as lonely and frustrated as we are. They want to meet a guy. But not just a guy, a great guy....So remove yourself from it. If she's going act crazy like that, move along. As a confident, self-made and desirable man you can find someone who is the kind of nuts you prefer. | /r/seduction | 03/06/13 11:11 AM |
| 3 | 5 Useful Things You Learn From Video Games Applied to DatingThis, right here, is wisdom that a great many of us should take. Such a simple nugget of truism. | /r/seduction | 02/04/13 01:18 AM |
| 6 | [FR] Trains, French Girls, and Blow.Shit like this makes me hate living in a car city. | /r/seduction | 31/03/13 05:35 PM |
| 3 | 4 Rules for RelationshipsThis isn't limited to just women, but people often complain just to release the tension that they're dealing with. Frustration and annoyance happen and everyone has a different way of handling it. For many, it's simply venting. Folks find a sympathetic ear, and just let out all the shit they're dealing with. Generally, they're also not looking for advice which is one way to ruin the venting (I've done it and had it done to me before.) | /r/seduction | 10/03/13 05:11 PM |
| 3 | How I seduced a girl without intending to & If you have a crush on someone, read this!Stick all your numbers in a spread sheet. Every time you contact a girl, update the date. Sort by oldest date first. | /r/seduction | 07/03/13 12:08 PM |
| 13 | How I seduced a girl without intending to & If you have a crush on someone, read this!Because she will be able to tell you are joking as nobody would wake up at 5am to practice a joke in front of a mirror. ...Fuck. | /r/seduction | 07/03/13 12:06 PM |
| 8 | Field Report: Challenge given by a Redditor to open with a ridiculous line. Challenge accepted.According to the OP, he was on his way home and just stopped on a whim. So very possibly. | /r/seduction | 01/03/13 02:03 PM |
| 2 | [FR] The best rejection I've ever gotten.So social proof from the venue; even more social proof from the bartender; confidence and outcome independence when she mentions the boyfriend; boldness when asking the other guy to wing; confidence that making out with good looking women is what you do when asked what you guys were doing after the winging; likely a high amount of leadership in taking girl to secluded area; and plenty of safety and respect by taking it just far enough. Seems like a perfect storm. Nice work. :) | /r/seduction | 25/10/12 01:31 PM |
| 1 | "All you ever want to do is have sex!"Not every one wants to just 'get laid.' Plenty of other reasons to come to this subreddit. Though I do agree with the sentiment 'not to pass on sex because the girl isn't ideal.' Sex is fun. Why would you pass on fun? Besides diseases and such... Also, no woman is ideal, so if you're holding out for the 'one true love' you're going to lose anyway. | /r/seduction | 04/10/12 03:32 AM |
| 17 | "All you ever want to do is have sex!"To elaborate... Go for what you want. If you want fatties, go for fatties. If you want skinny girls, go for skinny girls. Own what you want and go get it. | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 11:23 PM |
| 2 | My go-to line: "I bet you look so much cuter when you smile."A huge chunk of communication is the stuff besides the words. Body language, inflection, tone... Even stuff like the location and ambiance can change the way we come across. I promise you it works. My parents are still very much in love. :) | /r/seduction | 24/09/12 12:51 PM |
| 25 | My go-to line: "I bet you look so much cuter when you smile."'Don't smile.' Is the line my Dad used on my Mom apparently. | /r/seduction | 24/09/12 03:46 AM |
| 6 | Strategy with Shy GirlsPeople are different, obviously, and at the tactical level you're right. If the super-confident girl responds better to your more agressive self, then let that part of you come out. If the shy girl responds better to your more laid back self, then let that part of you come out. Or whatever. This is all part of calibration, if you want the techie term for it. Falls under the 'be awesome' part. | /r/seduction | 16/09/12 05:18 AM |
| 10 | Strategy with Shy GirlsOne thing to note: You can't expect them to bloom for you just because you're being sweet. That lay lies the path of either the Friend or Dick zone, depending on how you act when they don't 'meet expectations.' If you have a cool, sweet, shy girl just treat her as you would any other girl. You act cool, show interest and be awesome. She'll come around or she won't. | /r/seduction | 16/09/12 03:33 AM |
| 5 | Strategy with Shy GirlsAlways get a round table. Sitting across in a booth is more obviously weird but sitting next to someone on a round table is a lot less awkward inducing. Of course, if you have the mindset of "You sit where you damn well please" you're probably doing it right. :) | /r/seduction | 16/09/12 03:28 AM |
| 5 | Any idea whether I've still got any shot in hell with this girl?Uh, dude, she's in Asia. You're not. Why would you try to put yourself through that hell? Don't get oneitis on this girl. Stick a bookmark in the relationship and if/when she gets back to the states, start again. Or don't, because you'll've met a bunch of other awesome women to date by then. | /r/seduction | 19/08/12 12:37 AM |
| 4 | Give me a concrete mission that I can go do tonight, instead of my usual sitting inside in self-loathingThe best concrete mission I can suggest to you would be to do something to get over self-loathing. If you don't like yourself, why in the hell would anyone else like you? Go do something you're awesome at. Find some bros, play some games, drink some beers, chill, enjoy life, lift some weights, jog, take a martial arts class, punch some shit, meditate, read some awesome books, listen to some awesome music, go find a local band, become a groupie. Get out and make your life more awesome. If you're … | /r/seduction | 19/08/12 12:34 AM |
| 1 | Are all nightclubs like this? Gosh, this is proof reading what's on here is completely different than actually applying what you learn.Loud music, booze and interesting entertainment sound like an awesome night out. I'm especially fond of this whole silk dancing thing that has appeared at this club I go to semi-regularly. That shit is amazing. | /r/seduction | 19/08/12 12:20 AM |
| 1 | Probably a really beta question but... Is using your business card a good way to display status or am I just shitting myself?I'll combat all the naysayers and say that with the right set up, it could work. Your instincts are right thought. It is really cheesy. That can actually work for some guys though. If you are regularly cheesy and getting the right kinds of responses (balancing cheesy and sexy so that you don't come off as a clown) then your business card could certainly work in there. Like any other prop, it's all in how you use it. For most guys though, no. Probably not the best idea. | /r/seduction | 19/08/12 12:12 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Testing out direct/aggressive text gameIt's not that being busy is necessarily attractive, but the things it implies. 1) If I may be direct, and probably harsh, it implies you're not some forever aloner who doesn't leave his couch but to answer the door bell for the pizza guy. Those guys aren't busy. Not that I speak from experience or anything. -cough- 2) It implies that you have things to do and presumably people to do it with. People who are 'popular' tend to be more attractive because it gets people's mirror neuron's firing (cave… | /r/seduction | 19/08/12 12:03 AM |
| 6 | [FR] Got approached by the girl...Your friend sounds like an excellent wingman. Good on him. As for the date thing, it basically boils down to texting or calling her and saying, 'Hey, I want to get to know you better. Let's meet at X at X time.' in whatever way fits your style. Be assertive and assume that she wants to spend more time with you, because she obviously does. | /r/seduction | 18/08/12 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Are all nightclubs like this? Gosh, this is proof reading what's on here is completely different than actually applying what you learn.Any insights on what would be different? I'm usually there to get trashed and enjoy the music, not often to pick up, so it's not a strong part of my game. | /r/seduction | 18/08/12 11:50 PM |
| 6 | [FR] Testing out direct/aggressive text gameBasically she's seeing if you'll jump at the first hint that she's available. He mentioned above that he's 'always' busy and if he jumps at the first opportunity, he's either lying or crushing hard. Whether or not she meant it as a shit test, the effect is the same. | /r/seduction | 18/08/12 11:11 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Testing out direct/aggressive text gameDepends on the dude's style. For some, you hand out those to any and everyone as just part of your natural rhythm. Said guys probably are the kinds that call you 'boss' and 'bigman' when you are neither in every day conversation. It can be used artfully in both directions. For girls with problem self-esteem, it can get them to feel good, which is intoxicating. For women with plenty, they can either see this as a funny part of his charm or if she takes it too seriously and gets bent out of shape … | /r/seduction | 18/08/12 11:11 PM |
| 8 | Why so much hate for r/seduction?Seddit brony, guilty as charged. | /r/seduction | 01/08/12 05:12 PM |
| 3 | Why so much hate for r/seduction?Seduction is based on psychology. Psychology is science. I'm sorry that people utilizing psychology to bring about more positive results (most often for both parties) makes you feel less human, but know that the majority of us do not intend it that way. I would assert that the majority of us use these terms not intending to dehumanize the people we interact with but to better express ourselves to our peers, who share our understanding of the terms. There are assholes and exemplars in every group… | /r/seduction | 01/08/12 05:10 PM |
| 12 | WHY YOU SHOULD FORGET ABOUT IOIsIm_a_rapist earns his Karma with content. That whatever noob of the day gets more Karma by making an ancient word play than the guy actively contributing to the conversation is disheartening. I don't blame Grabthelifeyouwant. I'm certain I've made that joke once. But it was only once. | /r/seduction | 09/07/12 05:51 AM |
| 32 | WHY YOU SHOULD FORGET ABOUT IOIsEveryone gets to make this joke once. However, after reading it a bazillion times, I would appreciate it if y'all would stop. It gets old. And I'm not even the guy. | /r/seduction | 09/07/12 05:17 AM |
| 9 | How a girl wants to be picked up at a clubHetbro or hombro, we all wing together. | /r/seduction | 07/07/12 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Remember, never take girls' advice on picking up girlsThe 'be confident' is fairly self explanatory and decent enough advice. Confidence is attractive. Make sure you have solid inner game (see the side bar) 'Be yourself' should be read as 'do not be fake.' This too is decent enough advice at its face value. It's fairly simple to sniff out people who aren't acting congruently and women are typically (stereotypically?) deft at sniffing out incongruency. Similar to the one above, if you have solid inner game, your outer game will tend to mirror. Plent… | /r/seduction | 02/07/12 06:31 PM |
| 8 | Remember, never take girls' advice on picking up girlsYou just have to read a layer deeper on the 'be yourself' and 'be confident' ones and you have about 90% of the advice here. | /r/seduction | 02/07/12 12:06 PM |
| 1 | 6 Things That Nice Guys Can Learn from AssholesMore tl;dr Live | /r/seduction | 22/06/12 12:56 AM |
| 11 | Personal handshake tip when meeting a lady for 1st time.One implies a challenge and engagement, the other does not. | /r/seduction | 18/06/12 09:28 PM |
| 15 | A girl I hooked up with a few times recently hooked up with my friend, she felt bad, but I didn't care. She then started getting angry with me. Why?She's hurt that she didn't mean as much to you as she thought she did. No one wants to know that they don't matter to people. Everyone wants to feel important. Of course, none of this is your fault unless you're rubbing it in her face or something. | /r/seduction | 23/05/12 12:49 AM |
| 1 | Seddit, do you ever feel intimidated by girls who are higher value than you?If he's selling himself short, then he needs to stop doing that. Probably involving a fair amount of building of self respect and confidence, which is better listed else where. To stop being boring, is fairly easy by comparison. Do more interesting things. Read more interesting stuff. Talk to more interesting people. | /r/seduction | 11/05/12 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Just saw the girl I liked on GW...how do I proceed?Because they've been taught by their culture that this is a bad thing over the course of their life time. That culture has been shaped based on a variety of things, many of which are strongly based in negativity. Just look at the cultural disregard for non-hetero sexualities and the changes that are happening in recent times regarding them. A culture based in negative opinions on a group of people is starting to change. Ask the next person that reacts negatively WHY they feel that sleeping with … | /r/seduction | 11/05/12 07:52 PM |
| 3 | Seddit, do you ever feel intimidated by girls who are higher value than you?Both of which can be remedied. | /r/seduction | 11/05/12 05:35 PM |
| 2 | Just saw the girl I liked on GW...how do I proceed?Anyone that feels that women who have slept with a lot of guys is shameful, is "slut shaming" by definition. That's what it is. Instead, if you were like, "I like my women a little naive. I like being the guy who shows them the wonderful world of sex. I think virgins are a real turn on," that would be a self-validated opinion. It's about you and your preferences. Instead you say, "Women who sleep around a lot are skanky and cheap," which is an external validated opinion. It's about her, not abou… | /r/seduction | 11/05/12 05:32 PM |
| 10 | [FR] Hilarious situation at a nude beach turns into a threesomeRiker does seem the most appropriate here. | /r/seduction | 09/05/12 02:56 AM |
| 9 | Good line to use when your wingman's girl isn't into himWatching out for your friends (wingmen no less) over two random girls you meet is "homo?" Shit, I better subscribe to /r/lbgt right now. | /r/seduction | 09/05/12 12:38 AM |
| 2 | Little trick!Six one way, half dozen the other. | /r/seduction | 18/04/12 12:03 PM |
| 2 | Little trick!Different styles for different dudes. | /r/seduction | 18/04/12 10:55 AM |
| 3 | Game Against Alpha JoeDigitally distributed books don't involve a lot of up-front capital and if you're writing these posts anyway, no reason not to wrap them up in a book and throw it on Amazon. | /r/seduction | 05/04/12 08:25 PM |
| 3 | Game Against Alpha Joe"It's a mistake to discount complex things just because discussing them takes the romance out of it." I really like this line; although I would also caution that you can easily let this notion take you down the path of "analysis paralysis." | /r/seduction | 05/04/12 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Game Against Alpha JoeYou're entitled to your opinion and I'd hate to disagree with you on your cake day, but I do. Those sorts of subtle dynamics happen regardless of whether you're aware of them. Analyzing (and you can't spell that word without "Anal") them may not be your cup of tea but it still happens. At that point, it's unconscious. Humans, unconsciously or consciously, will place one another into hierarchies. We all judge, whether or not we're aware of it. Taking initiative by deciding how you want to be perc… | /r/seduction | 05/04/12 08:20 PM |
| 6 | The Alpha BitchI understand what objectification is, thanks. However, the whole point of this post was that he put aside possible sexual conquest to stick to his values. If that's not exactly the OPPOSITE of what you're accusing him of, I don't know what is. | /r/seduction | 04/04/12 11:33 PM |
| 5 | The Alpha BitchI don't see that. If this were the only woman he interacted with that evening, it might've been one thing. However, he made a decision that he didn't want to go home with her. He tried to be playful and fun despite that but she ended up getting belligerent. When he had had enough of it, he told her off. Don't see the misogyny you're detailing here. | /r/seduction | 04/04/12 09:58 PM |
| 27 | I survived my first direct approach :)Remember this moment years from now when you're sick of all the women calling you. ;) | /r/seduction | 26/03/12 01:14 AM |
| 2 | First time really Sarging. F-close girl who said she wouldn't have sex. Date tomorrow with different girl.Redditor for two hours. Good luck with your new novelty account. | /r/seduction | 23/03/12 09:04 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Got approached in park, didn't close. AT ALL.Probably calibrating wrong then. Humor is one tool in your toolbox to create attraction. After the first few jokes failed, you should recalibrate and try a different approach. Tend to agree with Dantering down there. No worries man. However, next time if you sit down and she doesn't, just tell her to sit down. That would've been a good way to demonstrate leadership. | /r/seduction | 06/03/12 08:11 PM |
| 3 | This belongs here. Just a map of singles by gender and number in American cities.Heh. Looks like when I finally get off my ass here in Atlanta, I'll have a fertile playing ground. | /r/seduction | 06/03/12 02:03 AM |
| 1 | TwoX hates us so bad, lol.What about those of us who KNOW we're faffing about by reading and intellectualizing without actually putting it into practice, huh? I may be lazy but I'm not an idiot, thanks. | /r/seduction | 27/01/12 03:56 AM |
| 1 | What in the world is the point of friend zone oneitis... for the girl?AKA be Alpha about it, take a risk and go after what you want in a way that improves everybody. | /r/seduction | 24/01/12 03:04 PM |
| 7 | What in the world is the point of friend zone oneitis... for the girl?She might have to learn and grow as a human being? | /r/seduction | 24/01/12 03:02 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Gave my friend $160. He would give me back $20 for each approach I did and keep whatever I didn't earn. Made for an exciting night.That's the test I would've used to decide if I should have gone for it but that's just me. | /r/seduction | 23/01/12 03:37 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Gave my friend $160. He would give me back $20 for each approach I did and keep whatever I didn't earn. Made for an exciting night.True, but me personally, I find it a lot easier to be confident when I'm talking about something interesting. It helps me get out of my head, as it were. :) | /r/seduction | 23/01/12 03:36 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Gave my friend $160. He would give me back $20 for each approach I did and keep whatever I didn't earn. Made for an exciting night.Link to the Glossary is in the sidebar, as well. | /r/seduction | 23/01/12 02:10 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Gave my friend $160. He would give me back $20 for each approach I did and keep whatever I didn't earn. Made for an exciting night.Would have done it were she sober and just as interested? | /r/seduction | 23/01/12 02:10 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Gave my friend $160. He would give me back $20 for each approach I did and keep whatever I didn't earn. Made for an exciting night.Says he gets his money back if he F-Closes. | /r/seduction | 23/01/12 02:08 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Gave my friend $160. He would give me back $20 for each approach I did and keep whatever I didn't earn. Made for an exciting night.Ambiguous grammar, fun for the whole family. | /r/seduction | 23/01/12 02:07 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Gave my friend $160. He would give me back $20 for each approach I did and keep whatever I didn't earn. Made for an exciting night.How do you typically play off that, out of curiosity? | /r/seduction | 23/01/12 02:07 PM |
| 2 | A collection of must read articles relating to the psychology behind a lot of pickup theory.Am I the only one who seems to be having trouble getting to Tokyo-Pickup.com? | /r/seduction | 20/01/12 04:57 PM |
| 2 | 22/f here, just thought I'd let you know some things that have worked for me recently if anyone's interestedYes. Quite successful too. You should sign up for her newsletter. | /r/seduction | 16/01/12 06:36 PM |
| 27 | 22/f here, just thought I'd let you know some things that have worked for me recently if anyone's interestedTL;DR Even if you get the pussy, you don't have to act like one. Keep that shit for later | /r/seduction | 16/01/12 06:34 PM |
| -1 | Declaration of IntentIf we're going to paraphrase, it would be "We call women numbers because it helps to explain the situation, not because we see them as a number." But I'm not really sure you're trying to understand my point at this point. | /r/seduction | 13/01/12 11:14 PM |
| -2 | Declaration of IntentUsually when you quote someone, you're supposed to actually use the words they type. :P | /r/seduction | 13/01/12 09:48 PM |
| 7 | If you're a dick, don't try to hide it.The difference between a nice guy who gets laid and a forever alone is assertiveness. | /r/seduction | 13/01/12 09:34 PM |
| -2 | Declaration of IntentI think we'll just have to agree to disagree. I've never gotten that sense from reading FRs here. I would venture the opinion that most of the people here do not use jargon in an effort to dehumanize the people we encounter. We use terms like HB, AMOG, Wing, etc. to help better explain what is going on not because we see every woman as a number. | /r/seduction | 13/01/12 09:24 PM |
| -3 | Declaration of IntentNo, but jargon is jargon. I don't see why using jargon to discuss one thing is inappropriate but using jargon to discuss another is not. | /r/seduction | 13/01/12 09:10 PM |
| -6 | Declaration of IntentWe don't have to, no, but we're not writing these for common consumption. We're writing these for other people who are studying the same thing. Do you complain when chemists refer to common chemicals (like, say, bleach for an example) by their fully qualified technical name? It's the same idea here. | /r/seduction | 13/01/12 08:53 PM |
| -1 | Declaration of IntentSo you would instead prefer that we threaten women's anonymity by identifying them by name? And if you counter is a fake name, how is that any different than any other unique identifier? Would it make you feel better about this if we named them "Amazing and Wonderful Human Being with a Vagina" 1 and "Amazing and Wonderful Human Being with a Vagina" 2? | /r/seduction | 13/01/12 08:46 PM |
| 2 | Total fucking fail - Huge realization.Such is the way of our perfectionist culture. | /r/seduction | 13/01/12 04:45 PM |
| 3 | Total fucking fail - Huge realization.So long as you then progress to stronger hellos, at least. | /r/seduction | 13/01/12 04:00 PM |
| -3 | Declaration of IntentExcept that we all use numbers and jargon to help us communicate. There's nothing wrong with using a lexicon that helps us better understand what it is we're trying to learn. By saying a woman is an HB7 as opposed to an HB10 does not mean that she's less of a human being. And to say that women don't work differently than men in general is demonstrably false. Their hormones are different, culture treats them different, they are taught different behaviors growing up, they have different bodies wit… | /r/seduction | 13/01/12 03:58 PM |
| 5 | What I've learned after years of being in a female-dominated profession and schoolingEasiest topic would be themselves and the environment. Opinion questions are a quick and easy one. Avoid yes/no questions unless you already have ideas for topics from either answer. For example, you see a girl at a coffee shop. Go up, say Hi, and say, "I'm looking to try something new. What kind of coffee would you recommend?" That would be the most blatantly obvious one. You could pick out something they're wearing/advertising, "What do you think of your iPhone? Are you a big Apple fan?" Or he… | /r/seduction | 12/01/12 09:51 PM |
| 3 | [Inner Game] It's So EasyStrategy vs. tactics, man. Most guys don't have much of a strategy and that's why these posts are good. Befriend everyone, assume attraction, etc. are strategic. Tactics are difficult for something like this because it's very important to live in the moment and use your surroundings to your advantage. If a guy comes up and attempts a cockblock the tactics of doing so are rooted in the situation. If a girl seems to be interested and you want to escalate, the tactics involved will be very differen… | /r/seduction | 12/01/12 09:00 PM |
| 1 | BRO-MERGENCY: I didn't think it was going to work...and now I'm stuck with a lunch date. Help.Boyfriends in committed relationships buy meals. Dates don't pay for meals. Clever PUAs make paying for the meal into a game to further their objectives. | /r/seduction | 12/01/12 08:47 PM |
| 8 | [FR] Hookup on Plane FlightWell done. | /r/seduction | 05/01/12 10:23 PM |
| 1 | [FR]/[LR] social proof got me picked up.Either she did know you were lying and thought it was cute and worth continuing or she didn't and didn't care whether you were right or not. Telling a story is not lying. If I tell a girl I'm a secret agent, I don't think of it as lying. It's a story. It's there to be fun. | /r/seduction | 05/01/12 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Is it.worth it to bother with a super flirtatious girl?Don't have to justify your opinion to us or anyone else. You were pretty clear up above. :) | /r/seduction | 05/01/12 06:00 AM |
| 1 | Job Titlessnrk Whatever works, right? | /r/seduction | 04/01/12 11:18 PM |
| 2 | Job Titles"if you apply a frame to it... it works" Good stuff right here. With the proper frame, you could tell her you're actually a shape changing amoeba and probably get away with it. Really just a matter of having fun with the girl and playing with the chemistry. | /r/seduction | 04/01/12 10:57 PM |
| 6 | Job TitlesI'm a fan of "I'm actually a secret agent. I was investigating a Super Villain's hide out that was at <club,bar,house here>." If the girl is playful, she usually plays along. Often enough they explain how they're actually in league with the villain. Favorite quote from an exchange like this was: "Nothing like the smell of burning car to set the mood." | /r/seduction | 04/01/12 10:42 PM |
| 2 | What's your opinion on guys using smiley faces?I use them. 'Cause I want to. Zero fucks given over this. | /r/seduction | 04/01/12 10:37 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Be aware!"all you really need to do is open your eyes and live in the present!" This right here. Golden. | /r/seduction | 04/01/12 10:36 PM |
| 2 | Is it.worth it to bother with a super flirtatious girl?Not to mention a headache, a ready source of annoying LMR and can ruin your reputation. | /r/seduction | 04/01/12 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Is it.worth it to bother with a super flirtatious girl?The Golden Rules comes in. Treat others how you would like to be treated. If you'd be okay with another man doing this with your girlfriend, then go for it. If not and you still decide to go for it, you're the one who has to deal with any drama fall out because of it. Either way, be a man and make your decision and go with it. | /r/seduction | 04/01/12 08:23 PM |
| 3 | [FR] New Year's PartyDHV = Displaying High Value. You can find a glossary in the side bar. | /r/seduction | 04/01/12 02:14 PM |
| 1 | First legitimate and unexpected [FR]Teasing more is usually a good thing. As always, it depends on the situation. I have a feeling that you could've used it as an opportunity to add some extra fun to the situation but no one takes advantage of every opportunity ever. | /r/seduction | 03/01/12 11:05 PM |
| 1 | [FR] I won New Years Eve! 2 F-Closes in same night, one with a friendzone/oneitishttp://gifs.gifbin.com/1233928590_citizen%20kane%20clapping.gif | /r/seduction | 03/01/12 10:43 PM |
| 6 | Does a girl have to be a bitch?Depends A LOT on the guy and his place in life. Especially if you're young, guy might not be ready for a committed relationship. | /r/seduction | 03/01/12 09:36 PM |
| 3 | When a woman is kino-ing *you*...You don't have to bed every woman who comes your way and if you just want to enjoy the ego-trip of being chased by a few women, nothing wrong with that! Women explicitly do the same thing so turn about is fair play now and then. Just make a decision on what you want from a woman and be sincere about it. "I want to take this girl to bed but it's a lot of fun having her chase me, so I'm going to let her do it." Sweet! Let the flow happen and be ready to take the lead when you're ready to seal the … | /r/seduction | 03/01/12 09:31 PM |
| 3 | When a woman is kino-ing *you*...Depends on if you're enjoying being chased or if you want to take the lead. If you want to take the lead, turn it up a notch and keep on leading. If you want to be chased, well, it's a slightly different game. You already know how to look for indicators that your efforts are working. It's your turn to give those indicators back to her to tell her her efforts are working. Just be aware that few women (in the American culture anyway) are willing to climb all of the ladder steps while leading. | /r/seduction | 03/01/12 09:20 PM |
| 1 | First legitimate and unexpected [FR]Depends on the situation. If you were being teasing and playful the whole time, then it would have flowed right. Otherwise it would've seemed some what artificial. Keep it sincere. :) | /r/seduction | 03/01/12 09:00 PM |
| 2 | [FR] I chickened out.Did you just "Yeah, but" me? :P If your conversation is in the way, lock eyes and shut up for a minute. Build some sexual tension. If your gearbox is in the way, twist your body around and kiss the girl. Jesus. | /r/seduction | 17/12/11 10:42 AM |
| 2 | [FR] I chickened out.Or you could go in for the kiss and if she stops you, you're misreading the situation. | /r/seduction | 16/12/11 10:55 PM |
| 6 | The Problem with Taking Advice from Advanced Guys / Gurus and Why Routines are Better than “Natural Game”I'll be a nerd and use a programming reference. Go out and test it, examine the results and make a change. Test, Examine, Adapt. You won't know if you have anything decent if you're a total newbie because you have no frame of reference. You can only figure out if your material is worthy by going out and testing it. If you notice up there, OP mentions you should use 50% of your time coming up with new material. That still leaves 50% of your time out in the field, trying it! | /r/seduction | 16/12/11 05:26 PM |
| 1 | How to Dance, even if you're normally clumsy and uncoordinatedAlternative: 1) Get drunk 2) Enjoy music | /r/seduction | 16/12/11 03:33 PM |
| 2 | Acting alpha makes it difficult to judge attraction (semi-FR)What kind of workshop? Need more context. If it was, say, a business workshop, she may have just thought you would be an excellent business prospect or maybe she thought your business would help her. | /r/seduction | 15/12/11 09:46 PM |
| 2 | Guys, we need to talk about this. It's time for some hard reflection.Keep in mind that a man decides what he wants but is also allowed to change his mind. It's all about congruency. Act, talk and feel sincerely about what you want. | /r/seduction | 15/12/11 01:53 PM |
| 4 | Guys, we need to talk about this. It's time for some hard reflection.OP used the word happy just shy of a bazillion times. Remember when gay and happy used to be synonyms? | /r/seduction | 15/12/11 01:50 PM |
| 2 | Do it all, and win.γνῶθι σεαυτόν, Nosce te ipsum, Know thyself. | /r/seduction | 14/12/11 09:22 PM |
| 5 | 30 things to stop doing to yourselfI tend to agree. In general it just felt a little trite. There's nothing there you couldn't get a million other places. If you haven't heard this advice or read this before, I'm sure it's new and interesting to you but if you've done self help for more than about a month, you've probably hit all of these at least once. | /r/seduction | 13/12/11 05:40 AM |
| 4 | [FR] First date, invited up to apartment, should I have escalated more???It's really not too hard. The difference between a hook up and a relationship is the intensity. That's the beauty of what Seddit teaches. Relationships and hook ups are both sabotaged by needy, insecure behavior. If you're secure in yourself and know what you want, well... Go get it! If you want a relationship, then forge a relationship. If you're meeting a girl that meets all your qualifiers and standards and suddenly you change, then you haven't internalized what you're learning yet. If you're… | /r/seduction | 08/12/11 07:58 PM |
| 2 | [FR] First date, invited up to apartment, should I have escalated more???If she hasn't told you to stop, then you haven't escalated far enough. Anyway, if she seemed nervous and then asked YOU if you were nervous, then that's just basic projection. She's projecting her feelings on to you. People do this ALL THE TIME! You can see if pretty obviously in a lot of daily occurrences. It's a good way to tell how someone else feels. Now the root of the nervousness I couldn't tell you without more context. Might be that she was jittery about moving forward quickly, might've … | /r/seduction | 08/12/11 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Socially Awkward guy in a club setting, had women grab my ass and approach me to dancePretty much, yeah. Obviously don't be a total asshole or get arrested. But be a man about it. Pick what you want, go for it and either succeed or fail gloriously. | /r/seduction | 06/12/11 12:34 AM |
| 5 | [sort-of-FR] Being result-independent feels great!Stupid green spaces on the roulette wheel always screwin' me up. | /r/seduction | 05/12/11 11:47 PM |
| 2 | Internalizing Inner Game?You probably haven't been practicing your inner game effectively long enough. Your mind is like a computer. Your willpower has surprisingly little to do with it. Instead, you need to set up situations that give it the right kind of feedback. Figure out what you want. Something small. Then get it. Sweet! Mission accomplished! Next, pick something else you want. Something slightly bigger. Then get it. Sweet! Mission accomplished again! Now try something a little more risky. Each step you're condit… | /r/seduction | 05/12/11 11:41 PM |
| 2 | Socially Awkward guy in a club setting, had women grab my ass and approach me to danceYou're getting attention, you're getting attraction and you're simply not capitalizing on it. Go farther, faster. You don't even need a lot of attention for this to be the problem. When you meet a woman, decide immediately what you want from her. Sex? Friend? Business contact? Girlfriend? Then ACT. Move. Now. Go faster. Go. Go. Go! Go! GET IN DA CHOPPA! DO IT NAOW! | /r/seduction | 05/12/11 11:35 PM |
| 2 | Am I pushing too hard?Exactly. Go find some more plates to spin. | /r/seduction | 05/12/11 11:30 PM |
| 9 | Reminder: Read her Actions, not her WordsSolid advice about taking actions over words. :) | /r/seduction | 05/12/11 10:21 PM |
| 2 | Noobie [FR] + some questionsDepends a lot on your relationship with her before. If it would be natural for her to come over to your place along already, then sure, why not? Then if the mood strikes ya both, go have some sex. Or you can be more deliberate. Something more or less akin to, "Hey, I'm horny. Last time were awesome. Wanna do it again?" Unless she's totally bonkers, the worst you're going to get is a no. Or you can interact with her when you see her next in a less proactive way. Whatever. Basically it boils down … | /r/seduction | 05/12/11 09:48 PM |
| 2 | [sort-of-FR] Being result-independent feels great!You can probably figure this one out on your own, but I'll help out: She talks about you to her friends. One of her friends is giving great response and even putting up with your motor-mouth. Do you think it helped or hurt? | /r/seduction | 05/12/11 09:38 PM |
| 3 | What about girls openly interested in money/status?Sounds like an excellent subject for teasing. "Oh yes, well, we'll just hop into my GTR, rush out to my private jet and hop a flight to the Bahamas. How does that sound to you?" In your best monocle voice. If they're gold diggers AND don't have a sense of humor, move along. | /r/seduction | 05/12/11 09:10 PM |
| 1 | The beginning of my Mansformation journey. Thanks sedditAwesome dude. :) More luck to you and keep us appraised of your adventures! | /r/seduction | 05/12/11 09:06 PM |
| 3 | Noobie [FR] + some questionsYou were in control last night. You got rid of the ex, you got some drunk-sex with an attractive girl. You can't control the world, you control yourself. So now if you want to make this a FWB situation with Girl C then do exactly that. Treat her like a friend and when you want sex and she's available, have sex. It's not terribly complicated. Just abide by her desires (keep it discrete) but have fun with it! | /r/seduction | 05/12/11 09:01 PM |
| 1 | [Basics] Lurkers, it's time to man up and sarge.Scumbag Montages. Imply learning a new skill isn't stupidly hard. | /r/seduction | 05/12/11 08:51 PM |
| 2 | What do you say when you are trying to start a conversation with a stranger? Male or FemaleThe context. It's missing. | /r/seduction | 05/12/11 08:44 PM |
| 3 | I must thank Seddit for everythingOnly if they come out of the kitchen. </internetDoucheBag> | /r/seduction | 05/12/11 08:41 PM |
| 3 | I must thank Seddit for everythingDepends on the thing and the girl. I had a gamer girlfriend at one point and she thought she was really good at fighting games. She was decent, not gonna lie. However, I spent most of high school playing fighting games (Soul Calibur bitches!) like it was my job. If I went full out, I'd stomp her so flat she got annoyed. If I let her win, it would become obvious. So I flipped it occasionally. I wouldn't play her but I would play a bunch of drunken roommates, with one hand on the controller while … | /r/seduction | 05/12/11 08:40 PM |
| 1 | [FR] F-close with hot African girl on Saturday nightYou can only climb so many hills before you want to climb a mountain. Or some shit. Sounds like you did good. :) Always be open and honest. It works better in the long run. If she's not into casual sex, that's her problem. On to the next one! | /r/seduction | 05/12/11 08:29 PM |
| 5 | I am failing so hard.This, plus you're probably not escalating. To be honest, it seems like you just need to go faster. Probably some vestigal AFC part of you who is worried about "taking things too fast." This is more theory than personal practice (this is a problem of mine too) but make the girl tell you where her limits are. On the dance floor and she's kissing and flirting? Move forward! Go to a more private bar, or hell, go on home! What I am sure of is I've regretted not moving forward faster WAY more often th… | /r/seduction | 05/12/11 08:04 PM |
| 1 | [FR] A wild weekend. Many missed opportunities.Should have and even had the intent on a couple. But honestly, I was just getting swept up in the flow of the pub crawlers. They were mostly interacting with each other. I was one of the few that was interacting with other people too. | /r/seduction | 05/12/11 07:58 PM |
| 1 | What excuses do you use about why you aren't as good as you want to be with women?Find non-smoking clubs? | /r/seduction | 05/12/11 04:01 PM |
| 1 | What excuses do you use about why you aren't as good as you want to be with women?Simple lack of effort. Not gone out, not closed, not made the attempts. No excuses. Facts. | /r/seduction | 05/12/11 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Reminder, fellow sedditors: charge your fucking phoneIf you even remember it in the first place! Was dancing with a girl last night. Luckily she was into me enough that I got my roommate to do the actual number grabbing. Wingmen to the rescue! | /r/seduction | 05/12/11 03:58 PM |
| 1 | What is a good answer to, "Tell me something interesting about yourself."?Nope. You're not that good a liar. | /r/seduction | 03/12/11 12:23 PM |
| 2 | What is a good answer to, "Tell me something interesting about yourself."?Outer game is hard to make solid when your inner game is shit. There's a link over there about inner game. You are who you think you are and everyone knows. | /r/seduction | 02/12/11 09:21 PM |
| 10 | What is a good answer to, "Tell me something interesting about yourself."?If you don't know what's interesting about yourself you are either (a) really boring and need to expand your horizons, (b) depressive and think everything you do sucks, even if it's skydiving over Africa or (c) you haven't thought about it very hard. If you want to be elusive and playful, you can always say something outlandish, "I'm actually a secret agent for the Agency. Don't tell any one but there's an evil scientist in this very club named Dr. Bob." | /r/seduction | 02/12/11 08:57 PM |
| 8 | The world is full of women who want to get laid and can't.I'm no expert; I've never really spent any honest effort. Take it with a grain of salt. Don't glue yourself to your friends. Most guys aren't comfortable approaching a group. By the same token, make sure your friends know that if you do get approached that they shouldn't come "save" you unless necessary. Be super friendly with folks, especially the staff. "You must come here a lot, I saw you talking with the bouncer." is a super simple opener and you can make it easy by being super friendly with… | /r/seduction | 18/11/11 11:11 PM |
| 3 | The world is full of women who want to get laid and can't.That would do it for some. The height thing and likely appearing more confident than they are. You gotta remember. Most guys aren't looking for a challenge and will shrink down from anything that seems even remotely challenging. | /r/seduction | 18/11/11 10:40 PM |
| 7 | [FR] One Crazy Night for an AFC.There should be a list of allies one should have. Bartender, Cab Driver, etc. | /r/seduction | 07/11/11 06:41 PM |
| 4 | [FR]Met a girl who I shared a cab with. Everything went amazingly.Guys and girls aren't so different. We're all looking for a challenge. You don't take pride in buying a burger from McDonalds, but you can take pride when you make delicious fucking burgers of doom on a charcoal grill surrounded by your buds and beers. ...Can I have summer back? I just realized I forgot to do something. | /r/seduction | 25/10/11 05:05 PM |
| 6 | Holly shit, your advice really works.Supervisor doesn't always mean boss. | /r/seduction | 07/10/11 02:36 PM |
| 15 | Fucking hell I feel like a pussyJust make sure you're awesome before trying this. If you're not it's a recipe for failure. | /r/seduction | 24/09/11 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Just got rejected... but god damn if I didn't try!As many have said, good work man. Every time you go out and do something despite your fears, you'll be a little more confident and it'll be a little easier next time. | /r/seduction | 23/09/11 02:44 PM |
| 4 | How do I get guys like you to approach me?True, but PUAs don't make up the majority of clubs. Otherwise it wouldn't work. xD | /r/seduction | 20/09/11 03:57 PM |
| 3 | How do I get guys like you to approach me?Except there aren't many of those kinds of guys around. | /r/seduction | 20/09/11 01:37 PM |
| 2 | How do I get guys like you to approach me?I don't get it... | /r/seduction | 20/09/11 01:36 PM |
| 1 | How do I get a "crew" of friends when I don't have one?I do that A LOT. Something I'm working on. | /r/seduction | 09/09/11 03:45 PM |
| 10 | How do I get a "crew" of friends when I don't have one?Not to be mean, but it didn't stop you the first time. Your post could've boiled down to... "I have family on campus who throws good parties." Of course, I'm not criticizing. I'm a rambler and a champ at it. | /r/seduction | 09/09/11 03:36 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Keeping it simpleNice. :) | /r/seduction | 08/09/11 04:25 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Bad Ass Jerks vs Men with Inner Game; | /r/seduction | 08/09/11 04:19 PM |
| 2 | Tons of bars in my area of NE Philly. Is it weird to go alone? How do I meet guys once there?It's only weird if you're weird about it. If others think it's weird, fuck them. :) That being said, you can probably make friends with the bartender pretty fast and it's their job to make you feel comfortable. Go in early, meet the staff and while they still have free time early in the evening, make them into your wing woman/man. Plus, get in good enough and you'll probably end up with free drinks. | /r/seduction | 08/09/11 03:43 AM |
| 3 | How I rebuilt myselfYou're right, it's a chemical imbalance. All emotions are. All emotions you have ever are chemicals flying around in your brain. You can affect your emotions. Medical treatments just make it easier. | /r/seduction | 08/09/11 01:34 AM |
| 10 | How I rebuilt myselfYes, you. What the fuck was that? | /r/seduction | 08/09/11 01:31 AM |
| 1 | How much texting is to much texting?We must agree to disagree, like civilized gentlemen it seems. ...That's no fun. | /r/seduction | 08/09/11 01:21 AM |
| 1 | How much texting is to much texting?As courtesy often is, I think it's a matter of opinion. I wouldn't find that any more or less courteous if someone picked up the phone and said, "Hey this is a bad time." and if they just never picked up the phone. In either case, they're busy and can't talk. If someone doesn't respond to a message I leave them, then I might find that uncourteous. | /r/seduction | 07/09/11 07:53 PM |
| 1 | How much texting is to much texting?I'm confused as to how this is more or less courteous. | /r/seduction | 07/09/11 07:30 PM |
| 1 | How much texting is to much texting?Do what works for you guys, I just don't quite get the distinction. Both making a call and sending a text will cause my recipients phone to make noise. Both of them are trying to get the other person's attention. A failure to respond to either one results in the same idea being transmitted, "I'm busy, now's not a good time." I don't really see how one is more or less courteous than the other. | /r/seduction | 07/09/11 06:46 PM |
| 2 | How much texting is to much texting?I never did quite get this. If someone calls and it's a bad time, I just don't answer the phone. If they leave a message, I'll probably call back at the next opportune time or shoot off a text which they can read at their leisure. | /r/seduction | 07/09/11 05:18 PM |
| 9 | I hate "The Game" but (seemingly) have to play it to get what I want. Any advice?You may also want to keep in mind that by being functionally asexual you may be doing the lady a disservice. Women like sex as much as men do (if not more) and if you do start a romantic/sexual relationship but you never put out, she might get turned off on that. Of course, the annoying part is she probably won't verbally say, "I thought you wanted sex. I want sex now. Why is there no sex?" So, if you want to start a long term relationship and the woman wants sex, you need to accomodate her, jus… | /r/seduction | 05/09/11 05:51 PM |
| 25 | Got a date with kinda cute but chubby girl, don't feel motivated to go. What should I do?You made a promise? Be a man and stick to your promises. Go. Have fun. See what happens. | /r/seduction | 19/08/11 09:11 PM |
| 1 | It all comes down to one thingMethinks the OP wasn't suggesting that but I can't read his mind either. :) | /r/seduction | 19/08/11 08:43 PM |
| 3 | Anyone ever texted something to a girl that you regretted the second after you sent it? What reaction did you get?When I was AFC (as opposed to now, where I'm a recovering AFC) I was liquored up one night and confessed to this girl. Not three words were out of my mouth before my brain went "You knew the answer to this question, why bother asking?" I finished asking the question. Totally shot down but felt good about myself for at least making an attempt. | /r/seduction | 19/08/11 08:14 PM |
| 1 | It all comes down to one thingThere's a difference between taking inane action for the hell of it and taking measured action to accomplish a goal. I don't think you or the OP were suggesting the former. :P | /r/seduction | 19/08/11 08:09 PM |
| 2 | Hunting AloneMost snipers work with a spotter. If you're the sniper, it's your job to make the kill. A good spotter helps keep you on target and to watch for things that'll get you killed. Seems like an appropriate analogy. No harm in bringing a long a spotter, or hell making someone (bartender, some other guy, some girl and her boyfriend) into your spotter. | /r/seduction | 19/08/11 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Kiss close. Yet unsatisfied?Did you have fun? Did she? Be honest. | /r/seduction | 19/08/11 08:01 PM |
| 2 | I have a modest request from the Seddit community as a whole.Yeah! Don't make people reading actually have to think "Hey, is this a good idea?" which, y'know, is the whole point of this thing. Thinking for yourself and acting on your own. | /r/seduction | 19/08/11 07:58 PM |
| 3 | "Lets cook dinner together" date [FR]That's one of the most complicated ways of saying "Everybody was horny!" I've ever heard. | /r/seduction | 19/08/11 07:55 PM |
| 8 | "Lets cook dinner together" date [FR]Wingdad? | /r/seduction | 19/08/11 07:54 PM |
| 1 | It all comes down to one thingBullshit. When you realize clucking like a chicken isn't going to get you laid, you've learned something. Learning something != done nothing Then the next time, you try something else (Moo like a cow perhaps?) until you find the most effective animal noise to start your night off with. :D | /r/seduction | 19/08/11 07:51 PM |
| 2 | Well I climbed Everest, had a foursome with 3 girls. AMA.Floating camera bots. Let's make it happen. Go! | /r/seduction | 18/08/11 01:35 AM |
| 2 | If you don't sarge, you'll never improve.You must share your wisdom! :D | /r/seduction | 17/08/11 09:23 PM |
| 13 | If you don't sarge, you'll never improve.Now I just need to figure out how to Sarge while sitting on my computer at work. D: | /r/seduction | 17/08/11 08:46 PM |
| 8 | Reactionary #-close on gorgeous redhead in between class todayThe funny thing is, I didn't think--I just acted. That's some Obi-Wan Kenobi shit right there. :) | /r/seduction | 17/08/11 01:39 PM |
| 4 | [FR] Used the power of seduction for evil... and restored a missing piece of pride.You used your powers for evil. Everyone steps on a roach or two in their life. Just don't let it become a habit and truly get over it. :) | /r/seduction | 17/08/11 01:32 PM |
| 2 | Modifications to /fa/ and /malefashionadvice for PUAs?Hmm... A suit, specifically for fucking? I like this idea. :D | /r/seduction | 11/08/11 06:23 PM |
| 2 | [FR] a posh yet hippyish british girl on ibizaNice work man. It's pretty awesome that you can just make a wingman out of a guy you met. | /r/seduction | 11/08/11 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Seddit. You have taught me well.^ This. :\ | /r/seduction | 10/08/11 05:47 PM |
| 9 | What do you talk about in the attraction phase?Why would you want to make a girl cry? | /r/seduction | 10/08/11 04:59 PM |
| 2 | Songs for upping the mood after a break upListening to a song to help change your mindset is a crutch?! SHIT! I've been doing it wrong for a long time now! D: | /r/seduction | 08/08/11 05:41 PM |
| 2 | Songs for upping the mood after a break upQueen's Another One Bites the Dust? ...Wait... | /r/seduction | 08/08/11 05:40 PM |
| 2 | Songs for upping the mood after a break upSure, it can. It just doesn't do anyone any good. :D | /r/seduction | 08/08/11 05:39 PM |
| 0 | Outcome Dependence: View From The Other SideEither a really good troll or an excellent example. Either way, glad I clicked the +. | /r/seduction | 08/08/11 05:28 PM |
| -1 | Text game: i miss you?"I miss you" can mean a couple of things. It might mean "There is a desperate lack of attention from you!" It could also mean, "You're interesting and I want to get to know you more and our time apart is unacceptable!" One is needy, the other is a little more assertive. Decide which one you really want to say and say that. | /r/seduction | 08/08/11 05:14 PM |
| 1 | [FR] -long- unexpected K-close. my FIRST make out! again thank you seddit! PIC included for proof.Nice. :) | /r/seduction | 08/08/11 03:46 PM |
| 1 | In the interest of starting fresh...A) Fair enough. B) Did I mention I'm a master of self-delusion? C) Sounds good. | /r/seduction | 27/06/11 08:51 PM |
| 1 | In the interest of starting fresh...Atlanta area, so I'm 100% certain there are PUAs around, I'm just not sure how to get in touch with them, etc. Nor do I really know what bars they would be at. Edit: And that all makes sense about the opening though isn't there the "Social proof" bit as well? | /r/seduction | 27/06/11 08:34 PM |
| 1 | In the interest of starting fresh...Probably best place to start would be advice on running solo/where to go and so forth. I've never been much of a bar person or club person, so any ideas on how to find good bars/clubs to go to, etc. | /r/seduction | 27/06/11 08:20 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Got #. Not sure how to proceed as HB will probably be at the same bar as me again tonight.I like the "Are you stalking me?" Humour is good. | /r/seduction | 22/06/11 08:53 PM |
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