StormyL Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
14	This is harsh but true. Married women with pickme tendencies don’t like single women because they have agency. It’s important to remember that marriage is a patriarchal institution that advises women to deprioritize themselves. Or by accident. I was with a LVM who refused to use protection and I let it happen. Now I'm almost 7 months pregnant but moved on. Growing up it was always "get married and have kids in your early twenties". I'm glad so many women are realizing this isnt what our mindset should be, but rather a way to keep old traditions from oppression times alive.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/08/20 03:49 PM
106	This is harsh but true. Married women with pickme tendencies don’t like single women because they have agency. It’s important to remember that marriage is a patriarchal institution that advises women to deprioritize themselves. Everyone wants a long marriage, not a healthy one. Theres a reason marriage rates went down and divorce rates went up when women were fighting more for our rights. Theres a reason why so many women are focused more on themselves and education rather than getting married and having kids. Sociologists agree that most people marry (at least in the U.S) due to societal pressure and tradition. I wish everyone could realize that being happy and loved (whether by yourself or with a partner) isnt shown …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/08/20 11:59 AM
5	Has anyone ever dated a man who was so low or no value that he would watch movies or shows without you after you both had planned to watch it together? I think of those still as red flags, but just the tiny lawn ones. They sure do add up	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/08/20 06:57 PM
35	Has anyone ever dated a man who was so low or no value that he would watch movies or shows without you after you both had planned to watch it together? My ex of 2 years did this. Anytime a new movie would come out, we would talk about wanting to see it. I would suggest times we could go, even plans for dinner then movies or another date idea. He would put it off, then go see it with his friends. Happened four times 🙄 sad thing is back then I would always pay for our dates, so I guess it just saved me money	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/08/20 04:08 PM
73	Yikes Sadly this incel is a reoccurring troll on that subreddit. Always posts about his racist and pedophilic fetishes	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/08/20 09:13 PM
66	The double standards... I can’t deal!!! Ugh! Sorry women arent meant to be your personal incubator. Pregnant or not, wanting to have kids or not, it doesnt define her as a person. She is her own being and it shouldnt matter whether the man wants kids or not, dont force it upon women	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/08/20 04:34 PM
9	What you doin for yourself that a man or husband needs to do more to impress you? I sadly dont have the funds to live a lavish life (currently 18) but after dealing with a LVM for two years it's helped me know that even smaller things count. Clean up after yourself, make your living space look nice and not like a frat house, take me out to eat and on dates no matter how long we've been together. Basically, dont get comfortable. Men tend to put effort into their looks and their homes, shower you with gifts, take you out on dates just to get with you, but after a while they jus…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/08/20 10:06 PM
132	this makes me so sad I'm in my second trimester and let me just say that almost nothing is comfortable to wear. Even maternity stuff isnt as comfortable as an oversized shirt and shorts. Maybe he should try carrying a baby for 9 months and see how he likes it	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/07/20 10:48 PM
19	Males love to make fun of women about bathroom lines in attempt to feel superior I dont even know what to say. Theres sinks in the bathroom for a reason!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/07/20 05:05 PM
82	Males love to make fun of women about bathroom lines in attempt to feel superior "Actually wash their hands" sir what 🤡 disgustang	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/07/20 04:41 PM
3	Some clownery I found in the wild on Insta. If you were in this situation, would you stay or not? "Mature" they mean "are you this unwilling to love yourself and do what's best for you?"	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/07/20 06:01 PM
5	For all you former trauma bonders! 🙋‍♀️🤦‍♀️ Oh god, my 2 year relationship was formed on this. Definitely not a good idea unless you want to be mistreated and have your time wasted	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/07/20 04:31 PM
426	Nothing but tea Or when they want a "dominant woman " but just mean they want someone who'll do all the work	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/07/20 04:27 PM
91	MEN KNOW THEY ARE SHALLOW AF-THEY JUST BANK ON BEING ABLE TO HOODWINK US-PPD GEMS (EYE ROLL) Meanwhile women settle for men who look worse than the bottom of my shoe 🤧	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/07/20 09:16 AM
3	Give him a heart attack Oh god 😭	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/07/20 08:27 PM
4	Give him a heart attack "If you insist. Most guys beg to wear one with me."	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/07/20 01:49 AM
127	Give him a heart attack Or say you have a disease. Either one will freak them out 😂	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/07/20 03:14 PM
2	Because they themselves know the truth. My dad straight up told me if a man ever treats me how he treats women, I need to get away. Theyll acknowledge their behavior, but only when it's to keep their own daughter from getting hurt.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/07/20 11:39 AM
125	Never tell a man about your past! But how does this affect her parenting? She did it in the past before she had kids, moved on and made a life for herself. This man is just digging up the past. I'm sure hes done way worse	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/07/20 06:26 AM
2	What do you think of snooping partner's phone? My ex (and baby's father sadly) was still texting other girls and his ex's form the beginning to the end of our 2 year relationship. Trust your gut, it's trying to tell you something	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/07/20 02:25 PM
2	Was feeling a little down about breaking up with LVM this morning... then I read r/BreakingMom.... wow Is the subreddit for pregnant women too? Just curious. I am having a child with a LVM and I'm not dating him, but hes around often. I cant vent to family because they still like him despite all hes done. I'm proud of you for getting out of that situation. My ex did the same thing and ended up cheating on me and making me feel crazy for being paranoid. If he cant restrain from doing something so simple, then what else is he not willing to do? Know your self worth, and that theres better men out t…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/07/20 05:06 PM
41	What is your advice on dealing with insecurity about your looks? What is your opinion on the concept of "looksmaxxing"? I am relatively attractive, but not being "good enough" for a partner is a big fear of mine. I feel it's my responsibility to be perfect looking or else it's my fault if he strays. You can have perfect supermodel looks and a man will still look at other girls. Theres always an excuse for them. Take pride in your looks, look how you want. Be the bad bitch you want to be and dont worry about what men think. There'll always be plenty that think you're a goddess even when you don't think you do 💞	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/07/20 03:14 AM
3	Asking if I live alone in the first thirty seconds of getting to know a woman is creepy as shit. And this isn’t even on a dating site. Dont get kidnapped 😬	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/07/20 04:49 PM
1	This is why its key to vet and follow FDS. this is why you run at the first red flag. Imagine being in labor and your man plays video games. So many pickmes were saying lol and I dont mind, hes bored and waiting on the baby. Pickmes are defending this. Dont have kids with LVM Due for labor in december and glad I left my man baby of an ex. Imagine if the roles were reversed and the man had to give labor. They'd cry if you so much as let go of their hand	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/07/20 12:02 AM
2	"Are you my mother? - A LVM's guide to dating" - Stay woke, ladies. My ex literally called me mommy. Had my buy clothes and food for him. Had to be on him all the time about doing chores and getting his schoolwork done. Had to nag him to shower and brush his teeth and to god forbid take a 10 minute break from his gaming to actually take care of stuff. Refused to get a job or try to do anything in life. Now imagine if a woman did that, would men be okay with it??	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/07/20 11:53 PM
3	This! And can we please stop having society try to convince us to let a man use us like a walking sex doll in the name of “sex positivity”? My ex (and baby daddy) is over often since I'm pregnant. He knows I have no pleasure or sex drive when it comes to him but still has the audacity to ask me for head 🙄	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/07/20 10:26 PM
6	Do not let men smother your voice or your opinions, stay strong FDS sisters 💕 Either way you're crazy. If you seem levelheaded and use their same tone, you either don't seem to care or arent listening. They call you distant. But if you show emotion you're 'overreacting ' or 'not being logical'. You can never win 🤦‍♀️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/07/20 02:29 PM