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My fault, I assumed it was merely overwork and true burn out, not mental health and potentially clinical depression as well. I read that you said your fiance mentioned therapy. If you have expressed your feelings, and he has acknowledged them, told you reality, and also told you to go to therapy -- then, again if you trust him as your captain, do as he says. Go to therapy. He already gave you the solution to your problem and if you choose not to, it's not his responsbility to force you, that is …
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/23 02:09 PM
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Burn-out must be taken care of first. And second, if he is a true captain and you fully trust him, then you can ask him for help. You can logically express you desire to meet his needs and desires, you are putting your all into this, and you are so overwhelmed and really need his help. Put the ball in his court. List out your concerns of WFH, STEM, childcare + work. Ask him to show you his own evidence and % chance you'll be able to WFH with certain degrees, whether you're reasonably capable of …
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/23 11:18 AM
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As you demonstrated you already learned in your post -- avoid the negative influential media, and purposefully fill your mind and life with positive influences. I am learning this too, and this has been successful: 1. Schedule weekly alarms on your phone for various feminine reminders to research or do. 2. Seek out feminine books that are often recommended on this sub, and read them for fun. 3. Follow feminine people on YouTube and other places. I love Alexandra'sGirlyTalk and holistichabits. 4.…
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/22 09:56 PM
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Hi Pumpkin Muffin :) it is too much for most people. Amongst my own friends and family it is understood that most people do not need to do half this much, and yes, my own trusted confidants have been shocked it took this much work to get me out of my bad place and share your concerns. It appeared OP had something similar to problem so some aspects could be helpful for her. Maybe it isn't, maybe it is, I honestly am not sure. But so you understand, some people come from very dark places and learn…
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/22 08:37 PM
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I'm no expert, but my understanding is the woman dread is fear of losing him. This could be fear to losing to other women, or fear of him closing off his heart completely in some way. There will always be women with higher SMVs than you and you must keep his wife-goggles on at all times for him to stay with you. I had your situation: I was very bluepilled but from a redpilled family so had the skills of an ideal wife and the attitude of a lying, manipulative, independent nightmare. It took me ab…
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/22 10:35 AM
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Pure desperation. It took me years to pull myself together, trashed relationships, had no one I trusted including myself, I loathed myself. At the rate I was going I saw 2 options: be dead in a year or live , truly live. I realized this with dread and finally decided I was ready to ask for help. The next day I skipped everything I needed to do first and filled out an online application to sign up for therapy and got a same-day appointment because I was in such bad shape. Don't do what I did. No …
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/22 10:56 PM
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Make sure you've ruled out all possibilities of what is causing it. I had chronic severe depression for a decade before figuring it out and finally seeing real improvements. Anything could be causing it beyond the obvious traumas. I had a mixture of childhood trauma, PMDD (may just be a symptom of my other issues), severe SAD (went to a hot climate for 3 months and depression drastically improved, and immediately was bad upon return to the cold&dark climate) and currently trying to get a diagnos…
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/22 10:13 PM
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AlexandrasGirlyTalk on youtube. I cannot recommend this amazing feminine woman who taught me everything I know about skincare, beauty, true self care, and exuding feminine youthful energy in general. I currently have a super simple skincare routine that has made gotten people who know me notice my skin is more glowy, soft, and way less-acne prone. Night: Cetaphil cleanser + glycolic acid Morning: occasionally sunscreen When I shower: exfoliate my face and body by gently scraping with a skin brus…
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/21 12:48 PM
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Haha I would actually LOVE to be flooded with more flowers, this man is my everything and I've probably thanked him 20x for them so far😂 and every time he gets the biggest grin on his face.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/21 12:52 AM
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If you hurt/betrayed/cheated on him or anything similar, check out Gottman's advice on how partners get over infidelity,the advice applies across the board. He ia responsible for being aware of his pain and contempt, etc., to be able to forgive you and if you haven't reciprocated appropriately with repeated apologies and full responsibility every single time, then this will continue indefinitely. If you want to fix this and stay, then there is hope for sure. I'm currently using Gottman's advice …
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/21 03:44 AM
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I'll check out the Stoicism later tonight and update you. It sounds similar to the ideas in "the subtle art of not giving a fuck" which really resonates with me. Thanks for the suggestions! My depression is exactly that, anger, shame, regret of the past and I can't change any of that, just my current perception
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/21 02:46 PM
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So i binge read the whole book last night, going to re-read and take notes but this is what struck me: 1. I was what he calls a "saver" and entitled to being responsible for everyone I've hurt. Causes relapse after relapse whenever I'm not "suffering" enough for things I did several YEARS ago 2. I'm actually not responsible for how people respond to something I did after I've apologized, followed-through, changed my morals and priorities, and proved the change. I am only 100% to blame for what I…
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/21 01:32 PM
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I found it and started reading the moment I saw your comment, already almost done with chapter two and it is hitting EVERYTHING on the head🙏thank you, never ever thought about the fact that being okay with feeling negative is actually a positive experience, or I can't have a pain-free life as dumb as that sounds. I had expectations that were unrealistic... definitely going to take this to heart
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/21 01:09 AM
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Congrats!! The Surrendered Wife really helped me out too, great read and wish you the best!
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/21 11:33 PM
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This is the most adorable, you two sound so happy I love it!
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/21 11:30 PM
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