StrawberrySad7536 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	Intelligence and Promiscuity	Discussion	StrawberrySad7536	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/24 11:09 PM

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3	If you’re going to hookup with a guy, or you get into a relationship, and you find out he’s got a larger dick, is this generally seen as a “plus”? If he’s good it’s a plus, if he doesn’t know what he’s doing can be a negative but generally a positive thing. I don’t know about 8. More like 6 is probably ideal although def a personal preference. Girth is more important than length.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/25 02:59 PM
3	What are some genuine physical requirements do you think women care about when it comes to het dating ? In good shape, not fat, simply because it makes me not attracted to them. I also take care of myself and stay slim. Really prefer some muscle and some masculinity but not a hard line on how much. I’ve liked guys with different body types. Prefer them to be my height or taller but haven’t always followed that (5’7+) If I’m being fully honest, average sized penis, I like penetration and wouldn’t be happy without that unless exceptional workarounds and attitudes. Dresses nice, clean, takes care of …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/25 06:20 PM
5	What do ladies mean when they say men are bad at sex? Not good at communicating, the best sexual partners I’ve had loved talking about sex with me, were open minded and really knew what they liked and were curious about what I liked Not receptive to how their partner is feeling, people that are really good in bed can pick up on facial expressions easily, although sometimes this takes time and some people are not as expressive which makes it harder Not a good listener, you say softer or slower and they keep doing the same thing Too little foreplay, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/24 08:27 PM
2	Are there certain sex acts you'd perform with some men but not others due to how hot you find them? Hot? No. I don’t sleep with people I’m not sexually attracted to. It’s more about if I feel like my partner is receptive to how I’m feeling. Like some boyfriends I was less willing to try things where I was more vulnerable or things that might be painful because I felt like they didn’t pay close attention to my facial expressions and reactions when others were so receptive they would ask me what was wrong if my face expressions changed slightly due to like a calf cramp or something. Most valuabl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/24 01:09 PM
–	Question for woman: are the good looking guys always better in bed? Medium hot/ average looking is best in my personal experience. Someone who takes good care of themselves and in decent shape but would never be cast for a modeling gig, rough around the edges, masculine.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/24 08:20 PM
2	Why don't women respect submissive men? I had an ex when I was young who leaned sexually submissive. We always just had pretty normal vanilla sex since neither of us could get that interested in the power dynamics the other was interested in, we would both try occasionally though. He was brilliant, hard working and very successful. One of my best friends and longest relationships. He was more dominant in life outside of the bedroom. I will always respect him. I would say outside of the bedroom I am similarly self assured and confident…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/24 05:43 PM
1	Women will talk about male "Locker room talk" then go on to write a novel about their sex life to their friends Most women who like talking about sex like the idea of men talking about sex. I think the issue is with men and women who don’t when the other partner does. Or when men openly disrespect women in their ‘locker room talk’. If a man said “She’s a great lay but a total whore” women would not like it. If he said “X absolutely blew my mind last night, she has amazing boobs too” I’m sure that would be fine. Same goes for how women talk about men too. If she told all her friends you had a huge dick and…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/24 05:29 PM
10	Why don't women respect submissive men? I think the issue has less to do with respect and more to do with attraction. I respect submissive men just fine but I do not want to sleep with them because I generally only am interested in sex where I am submissive to some degree. I want my partner to be dominant and most importantly, enjoy and get sexual gratification from being dominant. There are more submissive men than dominant women sexually in all surveys. There are also more submissive women than dominant men. This is a supply and dem…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/24 05:22 PM
13	Difference Between Stated And Revealed Preference I want the same thing from men regardless of the context of our relationship, LTR or hookup. Actually leaning towards the opposite. I’m more comfortable having rougher, kinkier or uninhibited sex within a monogamous relationship. I find that it’s more often that men want a ‘different’ kind of sex with their long term relationships. People with shameful feelings around sex perpetrate this Madonna Whore complex because they think rough sex is only for women you don’t respect. It should be the oppo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/24 05:09 PM
6	At point would you acknowledge a man's efforts are sufficient and the environment he is in is the issue? Certain minorities have a particularly hard time depending on what city you are in How you dress matters Quality of pictures Haircut/ general appearance You say healthy BMI but really most people on the lower end of healthy BMI are getting most of the swipes. Do you have an athletic hobby or something similar? Would you say you’re in good shape? What apps are you using? What prompts on that app? Age I feel like there’s something that must be off that is probably within your control. OLD is hard …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/24 02:28 AM
1	How would the world change if men only had medium to low libidos? Okay fair enough so I’ll agree it’s effectively true but doesn’t have to be biologically true. Men need to look for women that are open minded and care about their health enough to avoid these things if they are concerned about mismatched libidos. One of my ex boyfriends took medicine that caused sex problems for us so it certainly goes both ways.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 06:47 PM
2	How would the world change if men only had medium to low libidos? I will say women are generally more ashamed of being lustful and that’s going to be a huge reason they hide it or deny it. I was someone who used to feel like I could take it or leave it when I was on hormonal birth control. Most women in their 20-30 are on birth control in developed countries, I think it has a huge effect that many don’t even realize. But of course there is variation in libido but generally complete lack of sex drive is a sign of poor health. Over 50% of women are overweight to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 04:10 PM
1	How would the world change if men only had medium to low libidos? Biologically women are typically most horny every month around ovulation. Most of my friends and I would not be okay without sex for long periods of time. Most women that say they could go long periods without desire are on birth control, SSRIs, menopausal or have a different hormonal issue.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 03:54 PM
1	How would the world change if men only had medium to low libidos? No I think most people that are healthy are horny and that group of people are never content to be sexually unfulfilled. There is a good percentage of the western population that is not healthy for many reasons or just in bad relationships and their sex drives are low and perhaps they feel that they are fine without it and don’t even realize it though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 04:15 AM
4	How would the world change if men only had medium to low libidos? I’m not that convinced women’s drives are that much lower. I think hormonal birth control is a big cause of the libido gap (from personal experience getting off of it). I wouldn’t want to live in a world where men were less sexual to be honest, I just wish sex and masturbation was less stigmatized and everyone got better sexual education that wasn’t influenced by puritanical religion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 12:29 AM
3	Intelligence and Promiscuity Agreed but most of the promiscuous women I knew that were less intelligent ended up married by 22 or 23 and most of their wild years were younger	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 03:45 PM
3	Intelligence and Promiscuity Agreed. I went to a top 50 ish school and in my experience most people are just now starting to settle down around 30 or so. That’s a lot more years to have more casual relationships or just relationships in general. More educated on preventing pregnancy and sexual health as well. More money so no incentive to get married for financial security either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 03:42 PM
5	Intelligence and Promiscuity I know the source is right wing but to me that made it more interesting as someone who leans left on most social issues since I would agree with the hypothesis smarter people generally have more partners just from observation. I don’t think it’s necessarily a bad thing. Also most intelligent people are probably not convinced to get married at 20 and start having babies imo.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 03:40 PM
2	Intelligence and Promiscuity That’s crazy they used a vocabulary test instead of a legitimate IQ test so agree it’s not what I would initially think. Vocabulary has more to do with education and social class imo.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 02:04 PM