| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 16 | Confronting wife’s AP (Need advice) | Street-Hawk1431 | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/03/26 04:47 PM | |
| 3 | Divorce finalizing in 2 weeks. 38M with two young kids. Feeling strangely lost. | Street-Hawk1431 | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/03/26 02:50 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 5 | Well this a new one, wife tried to hire someone to kill me.Leave that area or city if you can. Thats insane | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/04/26 09:04 AM |
| 1 | Confronting wife’s AP (Need advice)Wow that’s very noble of you | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/03/26 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Confronting wife’s AP (Need advice)I’m confused. So you took in her son? | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/03/26 05:34 AM |
| 1 | Confronting wife’s AP (Need advice)How did you cope? Were the kids alright? | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/03/26 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Confronting wife’s AP (Need advice)Do you have kids? While I love my kids, i feel trapped because my wife has care and control and I am given pretty bad schedules to follow. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/03/26 04:57 AM |
| 4 | Confronting wife’s AP (Need advice)Thank you for the kind words. I was spiralling | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/03/26 02:07 PM |
| 7 | Confronting wife’s AP (Need advice)He is a POS for sure. He knows she is married and have kids… | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/03/26 01:54 PM |
| 3 | Confronting wife’s AP (Need advice)I’m staying for the time because of kids arrangement and the house. I’m very involved in their life but she gets care and control. Our kids are oblivious .. they are very young | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/03/26 01:53 PM |
| 1 | Confronting wife’s AP (Need advice)Yes I had one over zoom too. And it’s a talk therapist | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/03/26 05:36 AM |
| 1 | Confronting wife’s AP (Need advice)I tried two. Had 12 sessions with one over last year. Went alone | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/03/26 05:34 AM |
| 5 | Confronting wife’s AP (Need advice)That is so true. She is using a lot of things against me. I was gaslighted to think that I was always wrong | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/03/26 04:54 AM |
| 3 | Confronting wife’s AP (Need advice)How long did it take for you to heal? | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/03/26 02:52 AM |
| 1 | Confronting wife’s AP (Need advice)I was gaslighted to think many things are my fault. And that if I am a man who accepts and wants to marry her last time, it’s my duty to move on. I see it now. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/03/26 02:46 AM |
| 1 | Confronting wife’s AP (Need advice)Damn. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/03/26 02:45 AM |
| 2 | Confronting wife’s AP (Need advice)Yes I have no intentions of marriage again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/03/26 02:44 AM |
| 1 | Confronting wife’s AP (Need advice)Man. You are right | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/03/26 02:39 AM |
| 2 | Confronting wife’s AP (Need advice)Thank you for writing this .. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/03/26 02:38 AM |
| 3 | Confronting wife’s AP (Need advice)I tried therapy. Doesn’t really work for me. You guys do a better job really.. I’m figuring out my time and finances now. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/03/26 02:27 AM |
| 1 | Confronting wife’s AP (Need advice)The irony.. I do have a business I built with her over the years. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/03/26 02:07 AM |
| 1 | Confronting wife’s AP (Need advice)Thank you for the words and sharing. Unfortunately the laws here protect women a lot. And I am going to lose a lot. House, car and child support. And even time with my kids. But yes I hear you.. I will try | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/03/26 02:06 AM |
| 3 | Confronting wife’s AP (Need advice)It’s impossible at this stage. Our divorce is already in progress. And where I’m from, the law protects women like crazy. I got the shorter end of the stick | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/03/26 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Confronting wife’s AP (Need advice)You are really motivating.. thank you. I needed this badly | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/03/26 08:20 PM |
| 3 | Confronting wife’s AP (Need advice)No I got no idea if AP has children. I have children. All I got is his mobile number and name. I can’t find out much about him.. think I know his work but it’s a very large international organisation and couldn’t find much info on him there | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/03/26 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Confronting wife’s AP (Need advice)Thank you so much | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/03/26 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Confronting wife’s AP (Need advice)No I mean that’s amazing. I wish I can be as strong willed as you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/03/26 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Confronting wife’s AP (Need advice)I’m trying to stay steady for them really. But how did you cope? Especially the initial phase right after divorce? | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/03/26 06:54 PM |
| 4 | Confronting wife’s AP (Need advice)He was the cause of my trauma and destruction .. it’s just tough knowing he is back again and I am losing in the end. And I got 2 young kids too.. it’s a really tough pill to swallow | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/03/26 06:52 PM |
| 2 | Confronting wife’s AP (Need advice)You are a fucking Chad bro. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/03/26 06:40 PM |
| 2 | Confronting wife’s AP (Need advice)He reached out to her. Actually he has been texting her once every year. You are right. What does it matter now..? I just pity my kids. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/03/26 06:36 PM |
| 2 | Confronting wife’s AP (Need advice)Yeah.. I am depressed and not thinking straight | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/03/26 06:17 PM |
| 2 | Confronting wife’s AP (Need advice)Guess you are right.. my goal is make myself feel better and hopefully make him feel ashamed. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/03/26 05:43 PM |
| 2 | Confronting wife’s AP (Need advice)I realized I have been really beta .. I can’t really control my emotions and often breakdown when I talk about this to her. Wish I can be more alpha. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/03/26 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Confronting wife’s AP (Need advice)What did you do to help you move on and heal? Or what did you do when you wanted to scorch the earth but didn’t? How did you hold out? | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/03/26 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Confronting wife’s AP (Need advice)I just thought that confronting him is preemptive to keep him away. But yes I see that she is the problem as well. Fml. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/03/26 05:15 PM |
| 2 | Confronting wife’s AP (Need advice)How long did it take for you to heal? I am hurting so much right now I can’t think of a way to move on. What did you do? | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/03/26 05:13 PM |
| 2 | Confronting wife’s AP (Need advice)Thank you brother. F man.. I wish I can stay calm and just move on. But it’s so hard especially right now. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/03/26 05:12 PM |
| 2 | Confronting wife’s AP (Need advice)It’s tough man.. how did you do it? | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/03/26 05:10 PM |
| 2 | Did you cheat on your wife leading to divorce?I am the same. How have you been coping? I just got handed the divorce letter. She cheated 3 times before marriage, I got trauma and went into an affair after marriage. She found out and has revenge sex. We have 2 really young kids. I’m so afraid now. I’m 37 and feeling old. Now she wants the house and some assets. The alimony from the lawyer is something beyond what I can afford | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/01/25 06:57 AM |
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