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Let it go, you had your time with her and now unfortunately it's someone elses time. The only path is acceptance and self improvement. Be strong, you got this friend.
/r/Divorce_Men17/07/26 09:27 PM
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Time to let her go and move on, hopefully this will be what you need to find your own happiness.
/r/Divorce_Men21/06/26 10:43 PM
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No, divorce is a pretty traumatic experience for anyone here, most of us have had issues with libido after the loss of the family unit...but that's not to say hooking up with new people isn't fun and exciting, I did find comfort in knowing that women wanted me and it did help to rebuild my confidence, just be mindful of whom you might hurt along the way.
/r/Divorce_Men12/02/26 01:21 AM
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I'm sitting on a beach alone in Florida drinking beer, have to leave tomorrow for my 24 hrs of xmas with the kids...pretty awesome if you ask me!
/r/Divorce_Men24/12/25 08:45 PM
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Do you want to live like this for the rest of your life? Pay a lawyer for a consultation so you know what to expect, put yourself and your children first.
/r/Divorce_Men21/06/25 07:38 PM
2

Rent a storage locker until you get your own place.
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/25 03:09 AM
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If you don't fight for yourself, who will?
/r/Divorce_Men24/05/25 11:57 PM
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You make $120k/yr and have to pay $84k/yr in support? That doesn't makes any sense to me, does she not have a job? Is she not capable of working? It sounds like you hired a shitty lawyer and I would recommend finding a new one and going back to court.
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/25 11:15 PM
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Way too soon, give her space...you may need to wait until the divorce is finished before you can make a mends, even then she may choose not to accept it.
/r/Divorce_Men06/05/25 02:16 AM
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Sounds very similar to my situation, what dating sites are you using? I had the most luck with Facebook dating where I was able to chat and meet up with lots of great women, that and going to the gym restored the confidence I lost during my marriage. It sounds like you are doing all the right things, finding new hobbies, self improvement, and taking care of your girls, eventually someone who fits into your life will come along and give you the companionship you are looking for.
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/25 02:17 AM
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You want to live like that for another year? Break the lease and start to move on with your life.
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/25 01:14 AM
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If it didn't work out the first time...
/r/Divorce_Men12/02/25 01:47 PM
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Yes it happened to me. I either couldn't get it up or couldn't finish, with various partners. It's been 1.5 years now and I feel like I have it beat, I have a great partner and discovered a little pill that seems to have done the trick, they sell it on amazon: Evlution Nutrition Tribulus Terrestris for Men - Maximum Potency 90% Saponins Pure Tribulus for Men Stimulant Free Supplement for Men I'm curious to know if it works for others here, goodluck!
/r/Divorce_Men22/10/24 04:52 PM
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This is what everyone here should hope for, your children's love and respect...not sure why you only have 3 comments so far but great job, my hat is off to you.
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/24 02:23 AM
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Take the kids to a store and let them pick out something for their mom, you don't owe her anything but it's important for your kids
/r/Divorce_Men08/05/24 01:04 AM
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The honesty truth is that the majority of people will listen but won't care about what you or your stbxw say about each other, they are going to judge you based on the actions they see from you and if they don't then they aren't worth keeping around anyways...so, don't worry about it. Also while it feels good to vent to people about your ex, if that's all you do when you get together then they might start to distance themselves from you, everyone has a limit.
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/24 01:25 PM
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This is the way, do something you love and that will have a positive impact on your life, gym and lifting weights did it for me, as well as finally getting that motorcycle I was never allowed to have, I dated too probably alot sooner than I should have but I met alot of great women, Facebook dating is the best one when your ready of course. A year later for me and I'm doing great, back to my old self but wiser and improved in alot of ways. You will always carry this with you, it's kinda like hav…
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/24 12:51 AM
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The best advice I can give you is to let her go and learn to accept it. After some time you will come to realize that having a partner who doesn't love or respect you is a far worse fate. Take some time to focus on yourself, do what makes you happy and become the best version of you possible, that is how you come out on top.
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/24 10:25 PM
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All you can do is accept what happened and be the best version of yourself, it gets better.
/r/Divorce_Men04/04/24 12:19 AM
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Used me to buy her fake tits, said they would improve things in the bedroom. Told me a month later she wanted a divorce, turns out she was having an affair and now her AP gets to enjoy them.
/r/Divorce_Men16/03/24 02:23 PM
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No More Mr Nice Guy, read it...do it now!
/r/Divorce_Men13/03/24 06:27 PM
2

Yeah it happens to the best of us, you're probably not comfortable yet...try finishing with a BJ instead or find a position that has worked well for you in the past. It helps to focus on the sensations and/or whatever turns you on.
/r/Divorce_Men15/02/24 05:02 PM
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Why do we need to judge, how about we point this chap in the right direction instead.
/r/Divorce_Men19/09/23 02:43 PM
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I know it's not easy but to get through this you need to turn yourself into the guy you always wanted to be, start by joining a gym, go every day, leave it all out on the floor and I promise you will start to feel better after a few weeks but don't stop there, keep going and after a few months you will notice some big changes, you will start to feel better about yourself, women will start to notice you and you can start to date again when you are in a good place. When you're not working out, wat…
/r/Divorce_Men19/09/23 02:40 PM
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Your story resonates with me, I'm 5 months into it and it gets easier with time, still have some bad days though...the journey continues
/r/Divorce_Men18/08/23 03:30 AM
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The gym got me through the worst of it, go leave it all on the floor my man.
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/23 11:24 PM
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Hey, on the bright side your still young and dont have any kids...hang in there, time is what you need.
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/23 10:26 PM
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Your boss is a dick, sorry man.
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/23 03:09 AM
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I'm in the same boat brither, please dont do it...there is so much time left for you to live and get over this, please go to emergency and get yourself some help, your child is absolutely worth living for and it will get better if you stop thinking about that crazy bitch and focus on yourself. Be strong.
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/23 02:32 AM
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Sounds familiar AF lol
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/23 12:56 PM
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Why do you talk to her about her new relationship, nothing good will come...grey rock and move on. Remember it's important for your kids to see what a healthy relationship should look like, whether that comes from you or her or both, help them to not repeat your mistakes.
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/23 11:14 AM
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Fellas, it's important to heal, love and let yourself be vulnerable. Just be smarter about it the next time around, don't go shooting yourself in the foot (again).
/r/Divorce_Men27/06/23 06:12 PM
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Get out while you can, be happy it's only one kid with this girl.
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/23 11:15 PM
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Stop talking to her then...why the hell do you need to know that!? Move on brother, grey rock her.
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/23 11:12 PM
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I see some positives in your story, for example you don't have a problem meeting new women...focus on the small positive things and build yourself up from there, hit the gym and leave it all on the floor in a month or so you will feel like a new man. Goodluck!
/r/Divorce_Men24/06/23 01:43 PM
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I see some positives in your story, for example you don't have a problem meeting new women...focus on the small positive things and build yourself up from there, hit the gym and leave it all on the floor in a month or so you will feel like a new man. Goodluck!
/r/Divorce_Men24/06/23 01:42 PM
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I hear you man, my STBXW is irrational like that too...she had it too good for too long and now she comes with unrealistic expectations.
/r/Divorce_Men18/06/23 04:56 PM
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What's different with kids, why can't she rent?
/r/Divorce_Men18/06/23 04:10 PM
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Top comment right here
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/23 08:15 PM
2

16 yrs for me to brother
/r/Divorce_Men15/06/23 01:06 AM
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I'm in the process of getting divorced and I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy...now with that said I will also say that it is better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all. I got some pretty cool life experiences out of it but still wish that things had turned out differently.
/r/Divorce_Men14/06/23 08:58 PM
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Sounds oddly familiar LMAO!
/r/Divorce_Men14/06/23 03:10 PM
2

I'm there myself. Self help videos, watch them, learn and grow...you can do your greatest work on yourself when you are wounded. Check out Kerwin Rae. Download no more Mr nice guy and listen to it on Spotify, then listen to it again.
/r/Divorce_Men04/06/23 11:38 AM
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Go ahead and cry, don't bottle it up...let it all out
/r/Divorce_Men04/06/23 11:36 AM
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