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| 2 | Talk to me about hitting 30, still feeling like a loser who is incompatible with love, trust, friendship, and social abundance, but then actually transforming into someone who feels and is aligned with those things.So, i don't like my hobbies because i'm lonely, and i'm alone because i don't like my hobbies | /r/seduction | 30/06/18 11:49 PM |
| 2 | Talk to me about hitting 30, still feeling like a loser who is incompatible with love, trust, friendship, and social abundance, but then actually transforming into someone who feels and is aligned with those things.I don't enjoy my hobbies anymore because i feel very acutely lonely while i'm doing them | /r/seduction | 30/06/18 11:31 PM |
| 3 | Years into massive action taking, deep seated feelings of inauthenticity and fear in all life areas still keeping me in prisonThanks, i will pm you. I have actually already bought and done Transformation Mastery. This paradox of "stop trying" is an age old one, it's the subject of enlightenment and is not simple. I do believe that letting go is the way, and yet in practicing it with daily meditation and so on, i continue to feel incredibly indecisive, uninspired, and unsure of what direction is "forward" for me in my human, working life (which you cant erase by letting go) which dumps me back in my super analytical min… | /r/seduction | 06/11/17 01:23 AM |
| 3 | How to *actually* love yourself.And also, since all my art (i make music and videos) and conversations are all based off of being miserable to begin with, i only seem to attract and propagate more misery in all my so-called authenticity | /r/seduction | 01/08/17 05:28 PM |
| 5 | How to *actually* love yourself.I am going through step 3 exactly as you describe. I did all the feverish self improvement for a couple years, including some very awful psychedelic trips to hell, and i have now arrived at a place of total hopelessness where i feel myself to be literally dying of loneliness and misery. I think 2000 thoughts of suicide before my head leaves the pillow. I don't get surrender. I cannot surrender to the miserable demon i have become because i'm still convinced that i have made it worse with all my … | /r/seduction | 01/08/17 05:19 PM |
| 1 | [texting] examples of convos that lead to datesgood advice | /r/seduction | 04/10/16 10:03 PM |
| 1 | midgame strugglesthanks for your response, yes I have been noticing that "social overlord" effect after getting over the stifleyness of the first couple sets, and i'm generally pretty good at playing that role of the relaxed dude saving people from boredom and making new connections between sets, and it's a great flow to get in. Starting to feel pretty established in that. It's more in the escalation, isolation, kino etc that I get derailed, so essentially where it goes from just a conversation to a sexualized c… | /r/seduction | 29/08/16 02:04 AM |
| 1 | Learned Helplessness vs. Depression: Just what exactly is the difference?I see them as the same. The mental agony of depression is inextricable from the limiting, delusional belief that there is no process by which you can get what you want, or get away from what you hate, or stop wanting or hating said things. Depression is maybe the state of mind resulting from the learned belief that things are helpless. | /r/seduction | 19/08/16 10:57 PM |
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