StruckByRedLightning Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	FOR MEN: Don’t have kids until your 40 Have kids whenever you want, but forget about finding a "good woman." Get a surrogate, otherwise you may end up in a nasty custody battle like me. Being a single dad is not that hard. Having a little fucker cooing and smiling at me is great, and incredibly fulfilling.	/r/TheRedPill	05/12/20 07:29 AM
1	EOW vs 50/50 There are many 50/50 schedules, I'm inclined towards 2-2-3 which has rotating weekends. It works perfectly with my work schedule, as I work from home. And if she doesn’t work and doesn’t have the kids half the time, what the hell is she doing? A responsible parent would be looking for a job so that he/she would be able to support themselves and the children. Push for more time with the kids.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/10/20 11:51 PM
1	Whats life like for a single dad (M33) with a young kid There are many 50/50 options, they don't have to be in the same week. I have a 2 month old infant and pushing for 50/50 on a 2-2-3 schedule. Do NOT back down. Who's to say he won't go to school by where you live? But like others said, worry about that later. Fight for time.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/10/20 01:57 AM
1	I just stumbled across this delightful article. A female reporter has published a series of interviews with mothers who are devastated and struggle to cope with sharing 50/50 custody. The bias is real. Haven't seen my newborn son in over 6 weeks. Does it get easier? Any tips?	/r/MensRights	21/09/20 06:24 AM
1	Dropped the bomb yesterday. I'm still at the house Do NOT move out, and stay involved with your sons. This will be a difficult, scary time for them. Document everything. If she is acting erratic, document it (record if legal, keep all texts, etc.).	/r/Divorce_Men	18/09/20 09:39 AM
1	Do we ALL get f@#&ed? All your communications (text, email, etc) to her should be calm, collected. Do NOT move out. Do NOT overshare. Spend time with your kids. Start reading your state's statutes surrounding divorce / parenting time. In my state, both parents are presumed to be fit to raise the kids, and the only way men don't get custody is if they give up and fall for the BS your wife's lawyer is doing. Get the book: The 10 Stupidest Mistakes Men Make When Facing Divorce: And How to Avoid Them.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/09/20 09:13 AM
4	SO FUCKING LOST > She claims that she wants to keep things status quo for the children and wants nothing Don't you fall for that. Lawyer, and do NOT move out.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/09/20 09:06 AM
2	Can your STBX take more than you have or make? My understanding is that it's possible if, say, the parent paying purposely quits his/her job as an attempt to reduce their income. In that situation, the court can be impute income. So if your previous earning was 50k, but now you quit and get a job at 25k, the court will likely assume your earning ability is 50k and use that when calculating maintenance/support. As you both work and have similar incomes, I don't see the argument for maintenance, but I'm not a lawyer. Child support will be mini…	/r/Divorce_Men	08/09/20 12:42 AM
1	Talking to Son About Divorce Why are you the one moving away? Don't leave the residence - big mistake. Be a father, and fight for 50/50.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/09/20 09:52 AM
1	28 years old, No kids, No mortgage, I’m simply no longer happy with my spouse and want out. No kids? Can we trade places?	/r/Divorce_Men	07/09/20 09:50 AM
3	Engagement ring thoughts? Amen. I get the sense that OP is looking for someone to fulfill her Disney fantasy. My girl made it clear that she's ready for the next step, but has no idea about the ring. In fact she thinks she isn't getting one because she said 'yes I do' in a text a while back and I keep teasing her that we're already engaged because of that text lol. My mom helped me pick the ring out. I don't get this thing about going to the store to pick a ring as a couple - it's supposed to be a surprise!	/r/RedPillWomen	11/09/19 12:38 PM
17	I fucked my childhood friend's wife. He deserved it. People say redpill is amoralistic and made for just results It is, but actions also have consequences - that's what people forget.	/r/TheRedPill	03/09/19 08:16 PM
2	I think I'm low value...how do I increase my probability of finding a partner? Being good in bed doesn't mean what you think it means. What's important is how the woman responds to a man, how into him she is, and showing that. It's not about technique or anything like that.	/r/RedPillWomen	13/07/19 01:55 PM
1	Is it weird for me [24F] not have ever dated or had relationships? Not really. I'm a guy and I started dating relatively late - at 21. the few people I matched wondered why I didn't have anything happening, even if I am 24 They're probably just trying to make conversation. Doesn't mean anything.	/r/RedPillWomen	13/07/19 01:48 PM
2	Guy I met on first date didn't post photos/tell me how fat he is Huh, I guess this happens to women too. As a general rule of thumb, if a woman looks fat in her pictures, it's always been much worse in real life. Nowadays I just pass on those. You're here, which means you care about improving yourself. Find a partner who has a similar mindset. Don't settle, especially if you got a weird vibe on the date ('enjoying orgasms a few times' - wtf does that mean?).	/r/RedPillWomen	13/07/19 01:45 PM
3	I'm 25, but should I wait to date? Don't waste 2 of your best years because of braces.	/r/RedPillWomen	13/07/19 01:38 PM
9	WTF is happening? Hubby give's her a lift to my place > Welcome to night school, my dude. I laughed so hard at this. I'm starting to seriously consider yoga classes. I could use the flexibility ;)	/r/askTRP	30/06/19 03:00 AM
5	I have an unattractive body and feel disgusting. Out of 20+ women I've seen naked, only one had 'perky firm whatever' breasts. Most women sag. It's normal.	/r/RedPillWomen	30/06/19 02:50 AM