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StructureSilver4266/r/askMRP03/06/24 05:44 PM
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OYS #7 Basic Stats 44 years. Married 13 years. 2 kids (11 and 9). Read most of the sidebar (NMMNG, MMSLP, TRM, Poon, SexGod method, etc.). Just finished reading Frame by RS. Next is the "Man's search for meaning" Fitness: 155 lbs (14-16% bf). Summer was busy and crazy as we were hosting my brothers' family. I was the master planner and made sure we all had a good time traveling but that also meant a lot less time for myself and fitness/diet sucked. Getting back to better schedule now with eating…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/09/24 04:51 PM
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Fair enough regarding the BP bullshit. I was more saying that my brothers’ wife commented many times on how I was leading many things at home. So it was kind of an indirect dread.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/24 02:37 AM
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OYS #6 Basic Stats 44 years. Married 13 years. 2 kids (11 and 9). Read most of the sidebar (NMMNG, MMSLP, TRM, Poon, SexGod method, etc.). Almost done reading Frame by RS. Fitness: 155 lbs (14-16% bf). Last 4 weeks have been busy and crazy as we were hosting my brothers' family. I was the master planner and made sure we all had a good time traveling but that also meant a lot less time for myself and fitness/diet sucked. But plan to get back to stricter diet from late Aug. Goal over the next 6 mo…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/24 02:15 PM
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OYS #5 Basic Stats 44 years. Married 13 years. 2 kids (11 and 9). Read most of the sidebar (NMMNG, MMSLP, TRM, Poon, SexGod method, etc.). Currently reading Frame by Rian Stone. Need to also go back to some of the other books like NMMNG and do some mor exercises. Fitness: 155 lbs (12-14% bf). PT for the rotator cuff is coming along. With summer in full flow and few trips coming up, I am expecting some lapse in fitness and diet, but plan to get back to stricter diet from late Aug. Goal over the n…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/24 06:23 PM
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Thanks, will look into BPC-157
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/24 03:40 PM
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Thanks bud. All great points and I agree on not being there with my mission and living on my own terms.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/24 03:01 PM
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Thank you on the push. Think you are right about the covert contract. But reason why I have not shared the vision of my relationship is because she already knows that I would like a feminine partner with more/better quality sex. So at this point, talking about is not going to help. I am focusing on improving myself and watch her actions. But may be I am thinking about it the wrong way.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/24 04:56 AM
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I would like more than once, may be twice (or thrice). She still looks attractive to me and I do feel genuine desire for her. Yes if I can make it happen, she probably should lose some weight. I am doing some work on my life’s mission right now. The misalignment is in terms of sex life i.e. her being happy with once a week. I have largely been able to define my own narrative for my life and live that way for example: career that I am passionate about, traveling, staying fit, playing sports. The …
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/24 04:48 AM
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Fair point. I would love for her to lose weight but I am focusing on myself and if that pushes her to lose weight, great. She does stay active but mostly focuses on cardio 5-6 days a week and has trouble losing weight. Regarding my stats, I do have decent strength. Deadlift: 225 lbs for 10 reps, 1 rep max 300 lbs. Bench 185 lbs. 15-20 strict form pull ups. So I think I am reasonably strong for my weight but want to get stronger/bigger.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/24 08:03 PM
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OYS #4 (MRP since 6/1/24) Context: Age 43 years. Married 13 years. 2 kids (11 and 8). Story not that different from everyone else i.e. amazing relationship before kids and then kind of drudging along since then. Read most of the sidebar (NMMNG, MMSLP, TRM, Poon, SexGod method, etc.). Currently reading Frame by Rian Stone. Fitness: Always been into fitness and so, that's one area I have always prioritized. 155 lbs (12-14% bf). As noted in the last OYS, have been dealing with a pesky rotator cuff …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/24 05:26 PM
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So saying 'our sex life sucks' is definitely a loss of frame. What is the other scenario? Is it the fact that I said "You are like a dead body and it is not a to do list"? I was genuinely not butthurt but did not want to accept starfish. May be I just roll over and say "this is not working for me" and STFU?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/24 05:28 PM
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I think you are hitting on a point that has been a struggle to have true OI and abundance mentality when it comes to at least sex. Call it a shitty moral compass, but for now I am not looking to cheat and will continue to improve myself. I do want to set a timeline though. And if after that, my wife does not come along then so be it and I will move on with my life. I have started testing the waters of my game on strangers, a lot more to learn there. It is interesting that I have irrational confi…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/24 05:19 PM
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OYS #3 (MRP since 6/1/24) Context: Age 43 years. Married 13 years. 2 kids (11 and 8). Story not that different from everyone else i.e. amazing relationship before kids and then kind of drudging along since then. Read most of the sidebar (NMMNG, MMSLP, TRM, Poon, SexGod method, etc.). Currently reading Day Bang and next plan to read Passionate Marriage. Fitness: Always been into fitness and so, that's one area I have always prioritized. 160 lbs (12-14% bf). DL 300 lbs, Bench 185 lbs. Height - sli…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/24 03:09 PM
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Thanks man. I really appreciate the perspective.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/24 01:54 AM
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Thanks man. Very helpful. My main focus right now is to KILL the validation needs for sex and I get your point that without initiating, I cannot really understand/reveal my true desire. It's just that I also heard MRP folks telling to back off sometimes so the woman has space to initiate/show her desire. She has not initiated in a while. I am trying to find that balance right now. In general, I am someone who does not need validation for other things in life e.g., being good at work, getting kud…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/24 02:48 PM
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Yes there is definitely cognitive dissonance. Used to be butthurt and passive aggressive before, but working towards OI. I catch myself faking it at times, vs. OI coming from a true authentic place. Re: fun, wild, have not tried much because % of initiations resulting in rejection are still quite high (i.e. I am not attractive). I do try to caveman whenever we do have sex.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/24 03:11 PM
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OYS #2 (MRP since 6/1/24) Context: Age 43 years. Married 13 years. 2 kids (11 and 8). Story not that different from everyone else i.e. amazing relationship before kids and then kind of drudging along since then. Read most of the sidebar (NMMNG, MMSLP, TRM, Poon, SexGod method, etc.). Currently reading Day Bang and next plan to read Passionate Marriage. Fitness: Always been into fitness and so, that's one area I have always prioritized. 160 lbs (12-14% bf). DL 300 lbs, Bench 185 lbs. Height - sli…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/24 03:32 PM
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Thank you so much. That is my biggest focus I.e. stop focusing on sex. And you are right, until I can find and focus on my passion, I am just pretending about not being obsessed with sex. And it will keep coming out in some form or the other due to underlying resentment and anger. On your question, I have always made more than her but not by that much. And yes her feminist shit test is all about “I only treat her as a piece of meat”. It looks like you had a similar journey has mine. When you do …
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/24 04:09 AM
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OYS #1, 2 weeks into the journey (Recently posted some details on AskMRP too https://www.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/1d7ailu/help\_me\_with\_some\_mrp\_topics/) Context: Age 43 years. Married 13 years. 2 kids (11 and 8). Story not that different from everyone else i.e. amazing relationship before kids and then kind of drudging along since then. Read most of the sidebar (NMMNG, MMSLP, TRM, Poon, SexGod method, etc.) and have been on MRP journey for may be 3-4 months (yes I know it doesn't count)…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/24 02:16 PM
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Thanks. Yes I have read most of the sidebar but I need to read some more and refresh some of it. I am doing more stfu right now on her emotional vomit about sex, but I do need to try some AA and things like MMSLP. May be it's the doubts in my head, but I don't know if my mileage and attraction is at the point of being able to pull it off.
/r/askMRP04/06/24 02:11 AM
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Thanks. Updated the post re: height - just under 5'8". Agree on the validation thing and that is just unattractive. Working hard to get rid of that validation. Regarding dread, I do have some of that going. I would say that my SMV is at least 2 points above her. She has mentioned to me things like "you seem to be having a lot of demand from other girls", "have you fucked other women too", etc. I mostly STFU, but sometimes A&A as I am trying to get better at that. In fact, she even saw me in a dr…
/r/askMRP04/06/24 02:08 AM
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Thanks. Will start posting OYS. Regarding HH income, I make 60% and she 40%. So yes, she is definitely making good money too and that creates an interesting dynamic, where she knows that she is at least not financially dependent on me.
/r/askMRP04/06/24 02:04 AM
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"Stop pedastalizing the pussy. Too many of you go from pedastalizing the woman to pedastalizing the pussy." Thank you. I needed to hear that. I am going to focus on other things for now that give me joy and purpose like working out, spending time with kids, etc.
/r/askMRP04/06/24 02:00 AM
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Yes I definitely realize this issue of getting validation through sex. Just need to man-up and get it out of my head.
/r/askMRP04/06/24 01:57 AM
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