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NAH, SISStudentNo/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/22 12:54 AM
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NAH, SISStudentNo/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 01:54 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYStudentNo/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 02:04 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYStudentNo/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 07:50 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYStudentNo/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 08:53 PM
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NAH, SISStudentNo/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 07:30 PM
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QUEEN SH*TStudentNo/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 01:56 AM
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QUEEN SH*TStudentNo/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 10:01 PM
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DISCUSSIONStudentNo/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 05:30 AM
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REMINDER 👑StudentNo/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 12:41 AM
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NAH, SISStudentNo/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 01:48 AM
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FDS MEMESStudentNo/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 06:26 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYStudentNo/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 03:47 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYStudentNo/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 10:05 PM
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STRATEGYStudentNo/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 02:49 PM
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NICE FOR WHAT?StudentNo/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 05:04 PM
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NICE FOR WHAT?StudentNo/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 05:15 PM
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Honestly I don’t get the logic. Being single and hustling for yourself, living your best life is so much better than being a servant/bang maid to some half cooked scrote. And he still cheated on her dumb ass desperate self.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 02:55 AM
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Honestly if you have to think about it, and ask the question- then it’s too long. If he’s not making an effort to reply promptly, he’s not looking for anything serious. No one is too busy for a text. Block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 01:20 AM
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🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 02:51 PM
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Ugh so sorry that happened to you. I’m glad you caught him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 12:22 AM
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I gave it a good try but couldn’t find much on him. Low life’s like this are good at hiding their tracks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 12:21 AM
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I did report and block. I tried to find him as his name is quite unusual in the U.K. so figured it wouldn’t be too hard but he’s obviously good at hiding his tracks. Else I’d have told his wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 12:20 AM
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They never fail to surprise us with the audacity and lack of shame 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 10:31 PM
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He was 41, when she was born. If that isn’t a pedophile, I don’t know what is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 08:21 PM
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Lol. Funny? To who 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 07:32 PM
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He was order to pay her the equivalent of £5000 for 5 years of full time work. Assuming an average working week is 37.5 hours - which if they have children, let’s be honest it’s a round the clock job - but bear with me : £5000 / 5 years = £1000 per year £1000 / 52 weeks = £19.23 per week £19.23 / 37.5 hours = £0.51 So they assessed the value of her work to be 50p per hour. While this is a win as it’s something, we’re still far from being seen as equals. Most wouldn’t (and can’t in most countries…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 07:27 PM
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Where do I get this hoodie? 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 10:21 PM
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Block him. Boy bye 👋
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 10:11 PM
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And have your own money so you can leave if need be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 11:10 PM
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Nope, not your battle. She'll probably say you're lying and demonise you anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 04:38 AM
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I wish I was this smart before I moved in with my ex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 04:10 AM
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As a Brit, I can safely say EU guys are no better from my end of the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 09:28 PM
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I want to be her friend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 08:43 PM
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I’m convinced that we as women were given this gut instinct to protect us. Something interesting my friend said on the topic is that our brains can often pick up on things but not fully process them until later on. For example you could date someone and your brain sees various cues to suggest that he’s no good, but it doesn’t add all those cues together to think “oh this guy did x, y and z which suggest he’s a bad person’. Rather while we’re still processing we get this bad feeling - but eventua…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 08:40 PM
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2 miles away? There aint enough miles between you and him sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 10:16 PM
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No, hes trying to shag you. Delete and block. Dont meet this man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 10:00 PM
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Bet she pays for all the groceries and the house too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 09:58 PM
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I was once in a bar with a guy (yes I know that wasn't good...) and he asked if the next round is on me. So I said yes, got up as if going to the bar, but left instead. Sometimes I wonder if he's still sat there was waiting for his beer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 09:57 PM
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This is why you should never be friends with men. 99% of them are trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 07:54 PM
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Just EWWW
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 02:24 AM
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Hes probably broke AF, can't look after himself and his girlfriend is the only reason he's dressed and coherent. He knows he would be fucked without her. He's just playing up in front of the other lads.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 01:56 AM
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Reading that article is like reading the plot to a new episode of Black Mirror. I knew this dating culture was bad, but I had no idea it was THAT bad. Reading it made me wonder why the women who buy into this, would allow anyone to treat them that way. I mean the only reason fuck boys are playing with them, is because they are allowing them to. Why would you even meet these kinds of men?? I've saved this article as a reminder to myself, to read whenever (if) I get feelings for anyone before they…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 12:49 PM
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No truer words ever spoken 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 02:51 AM
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If he's not chasing, he's not interested.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 02:45 AM
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Yet another example of how women are expected to cook, clean, bring up kids, take care of the home, take care of the husband, please him in bed, make him dinner and yet men are applauded just simply for existing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 02:31 AM
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I have no words
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 02:25 AM
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What they are really saying is: “you are the most attractive female I can get physically close to, and who has full conversations with me, therefore you must have sex with me and alleviate my hornyness and loneliness.” This really struck a chord with me. You are totally right on that point, especially this last 'friend'. I think thats exactly the case with him, from him having told me about his life circumstances.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 02:46 PM
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This is really quite sad. Its almost like they cannot see beyond us being a sexual object to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 02:28 PM
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Thanks so much for this, I think this has made up my mind as you're totally right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 02:17 PM
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Yes I think that's true. Its just such a shame though as I've enjoyed friendships with guy friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 02:15 PM
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Thanks for that great insight! Perhaps then it's important to make sure male friends are also HVM, to avoid the issue of them hitting on you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 02:13 PM
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Preach
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 03:40 AM
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Couple of tips: Start with facebook. See if he's still friends with his ex (and her parents), and if he's kept the photos of them together public. Thats usually a sign that he still has feelings for her and/or is hoping they might get back together. If he's told you who his close circle of friends are, check their profiles too. What kind of people are they? Do they seem like decent guys who are settled down or are they 'BROS' whose profiles are full of photos of their drunken adventures with the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 03:44 AM
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This literally makes me so angry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 11:25 PM
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Unfortunately you will get a lot of fuck boys on there. The trick is to unmatched the second they say stuff life this. There are HVM guys out there, you just have you got sifting through all the crap out there. Idiots like this - just think of them as practise. Reply with what the best version of yourself would say, something like 'thank you for the offer, but I am looking for something meaningful. Good luck on your search' and simply unmatch and block. I also like to scare them a little to test…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 11:20 PM
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"Women are so socialized into believing that they must be caregivers that it often doesn’t even occur to them that they can take time off, let alone that they might have another option. In one study with heterosexual, gay and lesbian couples, one woman gives care to her wife around the clock, taking time off to cry while on the subway. By contrast, one of the husbands participating in the study continues to ask his wife to attempt each and every task she can while she is going blind." Reading th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 01:09 AM
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So I googled it and its a painful read: https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2020/mar/30/the-men-who-give-up-on-their-spouses-when-they-have-cancer "To say that men benefit hugely from female caregiving is borne out by research. Men tend to suffer a lot more from widowhood, partly because they gain more support from marriage than women do. When his partner dies, he is more likely to actively seek out another relationship, whereas women are more likely to avoid marriage. Why? “Because they kn…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 01:07 AM
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I am 5'10 and guys are constantly telling me they are 6 foot PLUS. If I go on a first date and they turn out to be lying, which they often are, I simply pretend I am in the wrong place and walk off in the opposite direction. I walked into a cafe once (back in my pickmesha days) and saw this tiny dude sat behind a table, vaguely resembling the pictures I saw of him on bumble. Even sat down, you could tell he was miniature. Like literally child sized. I imagine his tiny little legs to not be touch…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 10:09 PM
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Yes, I want to second this advice. Please listen to it, as its 100% accurate! You are in danger right now and you need to do everything you can to protect yourself. Many years ago, I left my abusive ex and got a non molestation order. I moved to a different city, 30 miles away. He was so angry that I had called the police on him and left him, that he'd call me daily and sent me abusive messages/emails/voicemails etc. He couldn't come to my new flat as he didn't know where I lived, but I still ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 01:02 AM
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Honestly that sounds fantastic and I am so pleased you've been able to see that if she has chosen to judge you without information to base that on, then the issue is with her and not you. As Lori says, its not our place to wonder 'why, what did I do wrong?' and owning/internalising that person's actions. We simply think 'Ok, that's not great but thats where that person is in their journey. Do I like it? No. Ok lets move on'. I too used to internalise so much nonsense that had nothing to do with …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 01:40 AM
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So this dude is balling. In a couple of years time when this pretty girl starts showing the slightest signs of ageing, not performing in bed like he's used to, maybe not dressing like up she used to do - he's going to find himself a fresh naive 21 year old and get a divorce. Then he'll be making off with 50% of all her assets and leaving her as a single mother to fend for herself. He be balling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 12:30 AM
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FANTASTIC advice! Thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 03:59 PM
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This makes me so sad as its so funny yet so true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 03:56 PM
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Hey! Great question! I follow a dating coach who is VERY FDS focused! She has a life changing podcast called 'break the dating code' which you can find in the following link: https://www.breakthedatingcode.com/podcast Have a look at Episodes 3 - The List Episodes 4 - The List - priorities Episodes 5 - Values Honestly she's incredible!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 01:52 AM
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This is painful to watch
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 12:40 AM
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Love bombing. You dont TELL someone you like to be protective, a provider, and treat women X Y and Z. You show those things. He's probably very immature.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 12:17 AM
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Good! Block and move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 07:05 PM
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Did he just randomly message her to insult her?? 😂😂😂😂😂 So strange.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 06:26 PM
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Someone should reply to this, find out his name and then send this to his girlfriend, mom and co workers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 06:22 PM
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Plenty of decent guys on other apps. Just delete the app and use others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 05:51 PM
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Big nope. Trust your intuition - it's normally right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 05:49 PM
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A colleague of mine had her first at 45 via IVF. She's gorgeous, youthful, a true queen and her husband is truly a HVM. She is so happy she waited for the right person. Better that than an awful life with the wrong man, in the wrong marriage that ultimately ends in divorce.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 05:47 PM
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Gosh there's far too many to list in a single post. You just develop a sixth sense for LVM men after a while. It's like your intuition is telling you 'nah he a fcuk boy'. Comes with time 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 04:56 PM
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OH MY GOD 😂😂😂😂😂. Did you reply?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 04:51 PM
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The one to look out for with LVM like that is the phrase 'Oh wow I've never dated a (insert country of origin) girl before'. I've had that a couple of times. Mate, we ain't flavours of ice cream to sample. Its objectifying and racist. Block immediately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 04:24 PM
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Definitely do it! You can find out so much like does he keep photos of his ex? Are they still friends on facebook - means he probably wants to get back with her. Social media vetting is essential before even agreeing to meet them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 04:20 PM
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The world is full of all kinds of people. Some of them are really s***. And women are so used to men being BS, that they feel they have no choice but to settle for it. It's sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 04:16 PM
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Men are hunters. It's simple. He could go out and get sex from the 100s of profiles on bumble of women who are just looking for FWB or something casual. Read that again. Yes its true. I didn't believe it myself but go create a guy profile on bumble and test this and you shall see there is no end to women up for just sex. Some guys are into that but its an easy hunt and hold little interest for them. They get bored of those Pickmeshas quickly and move onto the next one. What holds interest for th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 03:02 PM
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Yeah he 'fell in love' until someone else comes along and gives him some attention. Then he'll either cheat on his wife or leave her. He's obviously a LVM and isn't really into her. She'd be so much better off without him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 02:36 PM
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THIS gives me hope. Thank you x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 07:21 PM
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We'll know for next time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 12:36 PM
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As they should.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 02:01 AM
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We're not things to compare on his imaginary hotness scale. Like 'Ah so she has great tits so she's an 8 but she could be a bit taller so she's a 7". Like mate, WHO TF are you? 😂 He probably has issues. Why waste your time finding out what they are?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 02:00 AM
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YES SIS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 01:55 AM
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Sis, this JUST happened to me. He got me real good and I'm so upset.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 01:53 AM
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Sis fake your death and move to Siberia 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 01:52 AM
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Like why? Like WHAT FOR??? She'd be better off alone than with this clown 😂 🤡. He's sampled those women like we're a starter tray and he can try all he likes. BOY - The second you start ANYTHING with ANYONE ELSE, in my mind YOU.HAVE.DIED. I'll buy myself some flowers, shed a tear and DELETE YOU from my life 😂 . RIP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 01:47 AM
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Sis this is so sad and so true. We're in it together and we can overcome <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 01:39 AM
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Ya know, he did you a favour showing you straight away what a POS he is 😂. Lucky he wasn't more convincing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 01:36 AM
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OMG I've had this happen too!! The worst is when I was chatting to a guy that seemed genuinely promising and then he asked me OUT THE BLUE if I fancy driving 40 miles to come meet him after I had been at work all. I replied with 'HA ha ha nice try' and blocked him. Boy BYE 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 01:35 AM
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Sis, you've brought me out of my horrible horrible day (post break up) and given me so much hope. Thank you x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 01:28 AM
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Because degrading women is funny. Wow she'll have a great marriage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 01:16 AM
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Thank you so much <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 01:15 AM
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AMEN
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 01:13 AM
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One of my closest friends husbands is the best example of a HVM I've ever met. He supports her in every way. They have a child and they share everything with childcare and housework. He treats her like a queen and would do literally anything for her. I can see how loved and valued she is and I know this mutual respect CAN exist. I'm sorry you haven't seen many of these men, they are hard to come by sadly :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 01:11 AM
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I literally feel this way too. The only thing that makes me feel hope, is some of my male friends and some of my girl friends husbands. I've many HVM around me and I know that it is possible to meet a decent male - just very hard these days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 11:24 PM
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Thank you for this! SO useful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 05:04 PM
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I've just had an awful break up from a horrible mean selfish man and this really hit home for me how lucky I am that it ended. Thank you for sharing your story x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 03:39 PM
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