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Red Pill TheoryStuffBetweenThings/r/TheRedPill12/05/13 07:52 PM
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Thanks for condensed raw dump - it is very useful to not always be led through idea's with easy to follow article writing. This one is worth the time to connect the dots.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/13 05:13 AM
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Okay so I understand your indifference to her, what about the way you feel for your kids? can it not be used against you in any way, or halving your assets and ongoing payments, these are all non-issues because of how awesome she perceives you to be. You didn't really touch on the decision process you took to get married and I think that's where we may have a cultural difference. If most people in my dating pool are sticking to LTR, why the need for legal contract outside of giving a wild card (…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/13 04:36 AM
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From the male perspective, the only pop-culture defined relationship that even comes close to equality in value is a hook-up. From the female perspective, every other relationship definition is heavily weighted in her favour - My evidence is anecdotal "the fairer sex", "does he make you happy?", "happy wife, happy life"...
/r/TheRedPill31/05/13 03:08 AM
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I like the post and agree to some parts that the general feel of the sub needs to become clearer and less emotionally reactive to keep things 'real'. Genuine question though: can you tell me about what you expect would happen, in contrast to what could happen (worse case) in your situation, if she got a divorce? and why that risk is still worth it for you?
/r/TheRedPill31/05/13 02:48 AM
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I'm the type where I have a hard time putting my thoughts into words I can understand taking your time to think about something, but she has clearly just typed all her thoughts in a way that is understandable. The problem is that it amounts to the fact she doesn't like him not valuing her opinion, without evidence, as much as she says to.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/13 02:32 AM
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I too work in IT and think people asking for credit were it isn't due in a detailed orientated technical industry have a really poor understanding of the type of people the industry attracts. It's hard work to get into and stay in, especially if you aren't interested in the type of work and ongoing sacrifices (friends, family, freetime etc) needed for the better pay/positions. It's a saturated market of skilled workers that includes dealing with people and their quirks - like many other industri…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/13 11:48 PM
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It's not a movement in need of defense, it's a series of observations, experiments and situational analysis. If you feel something we've analyzed is wrong, give your argument here logically, we will likely come to a consensus in time if it makes sense and move on.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/13 01:01 AM
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So get into a position, it can take years of learning and sacrifice but the positions are available if it you want it enough. This isn't a quick fix sub.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/13 11:02 PM
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She then added that men who date women without immediately signing up for parenthood are committing some sort of 'fraud'. She was in the same fraudulent LTRs, I don't believe for a second that she made it clear while having sex she was mainly sticking around in the hopes of getting his kids, resources and ability to control every aspect of his life. Of course, women are led to believe that relationship definitions outside of hookups are heavily weighted in their favour and therefor exist mainly …
/r/TheRedPill25/05/13 10:55 PM
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It's hard to advocate for an entire set of moral codes that will be valid for a significant amount of time. I think most morals have to be defined by the individual based on the expectations of other people's morals. Of course the hardest part of that means there must exist some publicly enforced and agreed upon morals to begin with... back to step 1. I don't really have an answer here, just feel lucky to live in the current time where I am not beheaded for publicly voicing my alternate opinions…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/13 09:45 PM
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There is a lot of resistance to constantly refuting and changing not one but ALL your morals that have allegedly been built on top of false pretenses. And for good reason - it's not easy to live like this having literally everyone else attempt to shame your beliefs, actively refuting every ideal presented in ads, media and peers behavior but we do it for the benefit of knowing an alternate outlook that works for us. Maybe it's also because of the way popular media works, usually the only content…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/13 09:25 PM
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Worth the watch, this guy is amazing. Feminism today doesn't have a plan to solve anything other than getting western women to believe they should be inherently more valuable simply by repeating it to themselves over and over. The movement would be more valuable and gain more real influence by carrying out actions from a concise public plan and showcasing their affect, but there is not much left to do on their list that can be achieved... Can't stop edge case urges (and responses) to violence an…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/13 06:29 PM
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I don't see why people have such a hard time understanding the way attraction, love, and relationships work in principle. The same economic reasons as your findings, the demand of always being relaxed, interested and/or entertained is easily supplied and is much more pleasant than analyzing the actions, motives and values of everyone around them... I like the line of thought you have started and want to add; never listen to what the customer says they want. Create raw demand, and supply just eno…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/13 04:35 AM
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It's possible a woman is and also thinks they are valuable to society but how much those two things differ is determined by the casual observer's values for that subject. This judgement can be made separate from focusing on what a man wants in any given moment, be it sex, money, rational thoughts, humour, less bullshit. We do however promote light-hearted demeaning behaviour to skew the value towards the man in the above situations. There are other subs to discuss improving society, this one is …
/r/TheRedPill18/05/13 05:24 PM
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Get away from your main influences for a bit, and take stock. You need time to re-asses more than a potential shitty marriage - call the wedding off asap but do everything clearly with a safe contingency plan for your well-being. Be aware that you are not going to be respected in the slightest in this scenario no matter which way it goes - might as well do the thing that's best for you long term and end it before it gets worse.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/13 05:24 AM
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So I think if we could somehow swap the rational way men think for a way to subconsciously deceive others for our own gain, we might get closer to being equal to women nowadays. If all women were taught to control their minds and emotions like men are expected to, they would probably rule the world.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/13 05:02 AM
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I remember seeing this a long time ago and having a different reaction but none the less what a great clip, a few outrageous generalisations by him but some good rational points in there... yeah she's clearly got no idea and accidentally agrees to "be at the end of that line" of women wanting to date him. Man it's like her emotions were being played by a great pianist.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/13 04:35 AM
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maybe it's impossible to build and maintain a social network / news aggregator that doesn't ultimately regress into politically correct nonsense Totally correct on that I think... It's really sad to think that new comers will have tougher time finding out alternate rational views and arguments. It means a higher level of filtering is needed for those who already have opposing views. On that note I don't think we should aim to exist in a world with just what we want to hear either. That is what l…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/13 04:20 AM
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i'm also withdrawing from some of my social circles and seeking out only the higher quality individuals I wouldn't say aim to destroy all bridges, sometimes it's the weakest ties of friends of friends that can lead to your next adventure, career progress, other friends, hook ups, all of which can lead to gaining more understanding and value with the new perspective you have now. non-sexual relationship will only subconsciously encourage "beta" behavior. Not exactly but if you are thinking of bur…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/13 03:56 AM
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You write like you feel there must exist something in the world that can compliment every aspect of the very unique person you've morphed into over the years... It's the same thinking that goes on when someone is longing for love and life's happy answers. Answers don't have emotions. It's a very neutral truth.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/13 03:19 AM
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They're playing a role not for the sake of lying, they're playing a role for stability. They're playing a role to make sure you treat them and perceive them how they want Good post, I'm thankful I found this out - it seems there is no way to find this out without stumbling across this information with an open mind OR with heavy analysis of a situation after experiencing it first hand.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/13 02:33 AM
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By design, pop-culture reinforces mostly existing values onto people in a relatable way. So in reality it has the power to shape peoples beliefs. As someone who wants to control how I appear to others, it affects how I might act but not necessarily what I believe.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/13 03:56 AM
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TRP just tells you that there is a balance of control in personal intimate relationships and how to take it. Once a woman has decided you are a person worth fucking regularly, taking control is easy. Always keep your power of neutrality by not getting too involved or revealing your intentions. Then it's on you to continually gauge and control how much she cares using push-pull tactics. Do this slightly, purposefully and at the right time to encourage and reward behaviour you want.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/13 03:14 AM
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Yep, that sums up SOME of what men want when searching for the worlds best and most unattainable mate. It doesn't matter if the woman shows caring qualities like their mother used to, if a man's feminine or non alpha qualities do surface for longer than a few moments that man will be seen as unattractive. Having just watched the worlds sexiest actor play Tony Stark in the latest Iron Man film (spoiler alert)... he handles a couple of bouts of 'heavy anxiety issues' for a total onscreen time of s…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/13 12:33 AM
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Women basically belong to a cult where inner value is magically within all of them always, shame is only directed outwards to non-believers (read: slut shaming), they are all encouraged to passively agree to the faith that women can only have a positive value regardless of how non-believers judge them.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/13 04:18 AM
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Well said, a few more posts like this and we'll have the whole red pill philosophy down to an infographic.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/13 03:55 AM
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The sentence "women want sex just as much as men" when analyzed simply reveals women rationalize a lot of their responses. This thinking when pressed is usually accompanied by a supposed social stigma associated with slut-shaming and/or not having enough chemistry for the underlying reasons why it doesn't appear to be true. Women say they want sex but it's only so long as it's with someone they consider really deserving of it. And even so I don't believe women enjoy the pure act of sex as much a…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/13 11:24 PM
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Having never read it I would say the obvious reason for its popularity is that women find the story of the worlds most attractive and seemingly unattainable man doing non-conservative things an interesting topic to discuss amongst themselves. It reveals that some of themes within the book were probably not previously discussed at length among the target audience possibly because they didn't want to risk being labelled a slut by their peers for bringing it up. It mainly reveals more about what a …
/r/TheRedPill11/05/13 07:59 PM
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There's no point getting overly emotional about misinformation for too long, best to acknowledge the situation and adjust your life so fits within your standards. Conversely there is definitely a day where statistically most guys cheat on their wives - it just may not align so nicely with a special day that 'represents' the opposite of what they are doing.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/13 06:53 PM
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Being modest raises questions around where controlled lied in any given situation. Too much arrogance about control can become unattractive to people who have to put up with the presence of an entitled person - the world simply can't be controlled in all situations and this fallacy will fall apart for anyone with a clue. Give the impression of lack of control though and it comes off as slight anxiety - also not an attractive trait. Men should lean towards an acceptable level of arrogance balance…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/13 05:10 PM
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(she) begins the shit testing about life plans (I think fishing for details on my plans) You don't have to always be 100% truthful - this was an opportunity to sway the situation in your favour and demonstrate how valuable you perceive yourself to be. "With the guys I've had over and talked with about projects and life..." "I ask about being a home-mom" Don't aim to get 'raw' stimulating conversation out of someone you're mainly sexually interested in, especially if they don't value open-minded …
/r/TheRedPill08/05/13 05:12 AM
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Most actions you do should illicit an immediate response that's predictable and guides the situation in your favour. If you're not in reasonable control it means the other person is, it's best to move on and learn from what you did to loose it.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/13 12:34 AM
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Being in a situation and thinking there is a guaranteed solution comes off a bit like a gambling addiction - where we know only the house wins. Aim to analyze each situation objectively and whether there is way to win before getting too indebted in time (emotions are never reciprocated as much you think so ignore them). Remember to improve your skills over the course of your life and control your desires in order to extract the most value from the games you understand and are good at.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/13 02:57 PM
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This makes me wary of public opinions in any form, it seems the majority of culture is driven most vocally by women who seem to lack the virtue of deep rational thought.
/r/askTRP03/05/13 03:50 AM
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I do have opinions that I think are correct but it goes against public opinion Of course TRP dwellers are the bad guys - if your personal ethics are defined by easy to regurgitate public opinions for the purpose of re-enforcing your own self-worth. I think TRP philosophy came about because a lot of guys were blindly following public opinion and later realizing it just doesn't make sense to them and so they seeked further information. TRP is not about thrusting its views upon everyone, it's an en…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/13 02:54 AM
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