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52

Oh you mean the guy who cheated on your mom with sugar baby? You mean he is rotten to the core? Knock me over with a feather.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 06:22 PM
26

I have no idea what it is about nurses and awful relationships. There is at every workplace some women who let's some dude nuke their lives. This man is up to something horrible and he is gonna take her down with him. These "advisers" don't give a solitary shit about her or her kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 01:43 AM
119

Your husband spanks it to incest and visits/trolls for sex workers. He is at the casino. When you think he is at home. He is risking his family, his career, the health and safety of everyone around him but... SNOOPING!!!! Literally this shit about don't go through my phone is bullshit. It's crap the have your phone checked daily or some control shit but for real if you aren't doing anything wrong why do you care? This is just protecting shitty behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 10:05 PM
3

That is spot on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 02:49 PM
5

"one day maybe you will understand a little" they will understand that he sucks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 01:06 PM
42

Also Facebook? If you really wanted to talk to your kids you would get in the car. Write letters. Facebook is for friends and acquaintances. This dude just wants a pity party. Love that he got called out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 04:36 PM
2

I am ok with it provided they do the work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 02:09 PM
5

WTF
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 09:51 PM
8

Trap your princess!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 12:22 AM
22

They can shave. Enjoy ingrown hairs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 03:43 PM
13

"I am going to murder you because you don't like me."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 03:25 PM
8

Whining. Simply whining. Hoping you will feel sorry for them and ignore the short man syndrome. Anything to keep them from having to grow and see women as individuals. Individuals with preferences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 09:51 PM
55

Literally it's not that hard to get a nice ring. You want this woman for the rest of your life then goddamn act like it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 01:48 AM
36

This isn't funny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 05:52 PM
44

Notice how the friend with sense is fat. The pick me is thin and scantily dressed? Cause she is a fantasy. I am not packing a lunch for an adult.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 03:33 AM
11

That is when they look the best. When they are in general the strongest they are gonna be. When they can maintain and have the best erections they are gonna have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 05:43 AM
36

You deserve to look how you want to look. Don't let some cheap motherfucker make you feel bad about you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 05:32 AM
11

"bowing to his every words" Yeah no. This is a fetish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 03:31 PM
31

Wow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 04:17 AM
2

It's where we are. If my neighbors voted and then voted with some sense things could be better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 01:31 AM
26

He is broke tbh. Alabama isn't an easy place. He has MS and can't leave his job because of insurance. What he does do is use his bonus to buy the empty lot next door so I can put raised garden beds on it. I also have a nice set of pearls that took him a hot minute to save up for. It isn't all chores. But mostly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 11:27 PM
397

If a friend asked me to be a "gift" she ain't my friend. This friend is gonna tank her life. As in she is about to find out she ain't as happily married as she thinks she is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 05:10 PM
25

"I could totally shred those women that don't want anything to do with me because I shred people with my NPD."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 07:39 AM
7

This was good to read. I am not an A. I know someone who is. A woman who really had lost herself in labor to her partner and kids. And no he couldn't and won't ever reciprocate the effort she has put into their lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 05:42 AM
6

"assume attraction" sounds like a Yu-Gi-Oh card.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 12:17 PM
14

Uhhhhhhhhhhh not my kid. I will show up and act a fool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 02:35 AM
12

So a good drink is great but we are all old enough to get jobs and buy or make our own drinks. It isn't a flex to have shit drinks and manipulative pick ups flung at you. I have seen some dude flip when the drink offer is refused. No one wants your sad dick for an apple martini. They are mad because they know you see them as a creep. They know nothing they have is gonna do it for you. It was also a nickel beer night in college. He was slamming money on the table and it made me super uncomfortabl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 09:53 PM
42

Wishful thinking. These rotten figs know they aren't any prize. If they were they wouldn't need pick up artist help. "Manipulate your way into unfulfilling hook ups today!" Congrats you got laid. Now what? Gonna go right back out and trick. Enjoy a long lonely life of frozen meals and smell like a dive bar until an early death.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 04:59 PM
104

I will not ask a man for a drink. I can buy my own. I have seen men act like their $6 garbage Bahama mama is gonna be something life changing. I especially will not be dangled. "Make out with me or no drink because I am poor and can't afford shit drinks and I am very lonely." Also women don't cockblock over status. Their friend has said no and the asshole seems scary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 02:18 PM
26

That is terrifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 06:12 AM
3

Attitude is such a misleading phrase. "You have an attitude problem" is never used on people who need a perspective shift. It is always used on kids (and people who see the adult with attitude as a kid). It is when the person (with attitude) had a different viewpoint and it's not unkind for the hearer. They would just say you are being an ass if you were. It is a insult for inconvenient kids and is usually used on women/exclusively I have never heard it being used on men. Really what he is sayin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 10:36 PM
39

You got to be at home to watch him do nothing. Don't have friends. Hobbies ect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 06:14 PM
17

They are being left behind and they know it. Turn you back and look forward.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 11:14 PM
12

Until you turn 35 and nag me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 12:12 AM
10

Hope his wife ruins him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 07:38 PM
42

Either we all change or society won't. Why? We are society. We keep it. We raise the kids. Change can happen in a generation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 10:54 PM
54

Advice for women out there. It's a touchy subject. Be a door mat because reasons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 05:04 PM
87

Wish they would go their own way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 08:02 PM
24

The whole things is pathetic. Old dude yells...is ignored. Yells again.... ignored. Yells racist shit...is shut down. Says he wants to fight a woman....walks off after being threatened with the police. Dude is weak. Not you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 02:21 AM
12

Baby....it doesn't matter what "type" of woman you are. It was never gonna matter because he sucks. The forgiveness will come in time because at the end of they day you tried. He lied.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 12:08 AM
40

I don't think this guy ever wanted to talk about the bakery. This was a dude that cannot mind his own business. A dude just looking for a fight with a person he deemed lesser. Today it was you. Glad you checked him. Glad you did not get hurt. If everyone checked him, he would stop. Not everyone can.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 11:53 PM
4

Because then we would have to human. They want furniture. A couch you can fuck and it shits out folded shirts, small humans, and delicious meals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 06:00 AM
9

These men think having an opinion makes you high maintenance. I was accused of being high maintenance when I was wearing a thrift store shirt. The accuser of high maintenance sleeps on a floor in his parents home with his gf and their child. Straight men really seem to hate women and bedframes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 05:41 AM
4

From the cradle! Prince Charming is gonna sweep you off your feet and be good to you for the rest of your life because you were pretty?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 10:16 PM
133

We have all been there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 10:44 PM
3

You can play fantasy man without hurting anyone. It isn't like you are carrying a measuring tape to dates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 06:11 AM
14

They know if we work together it's over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 04:12 AM
41

Pick me moms make monsters. Our culture could be changed in a generation if we raised better sons. I expect to fight another mother before my daughter reaches adulthood.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 07:25 PM
2

Its a moot point right now. Between roof repairs, student loans, ect. I am tapped right now. I have a plan. Working towards it. Hope to have no student loans, no credit card, and no mortgage debt by age 40/42. Then I have to take all that money that was going to debt and save aggressively. I am looking to invest hopefully well so my money can provide for me a good retirement, college for my kid, wedding ect. I want to have a plan by then about how to invest and hopefully invest well. I want to b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 07:00 PM
119

Always. This. I know a crap ton of women who have divorced scummy ex's. It always starts with "he thinks I am cheating". I know where your wife is dude. She pulling 16s at the nursing home. What are you doing while she is away?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 06:18 PM
5

Of course. Men should feel desired during sex. Men should do that by being desirable. If this person just wants a pity party and wants an additional hurdle for women to get through forget it. Also women want to be desired. Not as a fuck doll but as a person who is deserving of equitable pleasure in sex. Porn is not a good example. It never is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 05:05 PM
2

Hope it does you some good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 03:31 PM
15

And self hating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 03:15 PM
28

If he has time to work out and she doesn't.... If the kids have taken over life but not his..... She ain't sleeping..... She made life with her body, multiple lives.... She loves him more than her children..... I also feel that pregnancy has changed my brain permanently but I am fine with it. Earth can find me less interesting. I gave it my awesome kid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 03:10 PM
3

I have no idea if this will help but here it is: eggnog. You are seeing Drs, getting meds, trying. I was pregnant and I couldn't keep anything down but eggnog. It's sweet, calorie dense, and not awful to barf up. Or kept my stomach contents from burning when I would just barf and have another gulp and hope it stayed. I kept a jug in the fridge. It's not much but maybe some nog will keep you from waisting away while you get help.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 03:04 PM
14

Do I think men prefer women who are well rounded independent sexual beings? Yes. Will they be the kind of partner to make such a person happy? No.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 11:29 PM
156

It's all of them. He knows it it. But instead of examining his own soul and changing his behavior to the benefit of his sons. He will lock his daughter away. Along with his wife. Safe happy prisoners. So he and his sons can go roving and be a nightmare to someone else's daughter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 07:25 PM
7

He wants a kidney. Tell him no. If you have to give an organ, you give it to your kids. Not an absent father.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 07:15 PM
1

This is good. Thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 06:24 PM
1

Long term. I really have no idea what my options are. Looking for something sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 03:56 PM
14

He wants a break? Give him one forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 01:57 PM
2

Once I have a little money to invest what do I do with it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 04:57 PM
2

I wear dresses. Because I am fancy and it's not scrubs! I don't care if he likes my clothes or not. His style hasn't changed since middle school. I live in the south. In a small town. I think it's different in bigger cities. You have to try there but not here. Every millennial male's fashion sense peaked in middle school. They all wear different shades of beige. All baggy all boring all blending in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 06:10 AM
29

He wants to bone the sister. She won't have him for many good reasons but instead of just accepting that not everything on earth is for you, he nukes the family. Hope she divorces him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 03:26 AM
2

Well...bye then you treasure!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 03:16 AM
7

The fuck? Aren't you supposed to say "don't stop"? If it's bad it's bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 03:29 PM
6

It's always a good time to further your education and make moves to bring in more money. Its always a good time to see your own self worth. It makes ageing easier.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 03:00 AM
9

Been there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 03:20 PM
7

"I am looking forward to rotting in the ground instead of living in a world where people aren't treated poorly because of their genitals." - bad dad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 05:37 AM
11

"If you are so smart then why did you sleep with me?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 03:15 AM
2

He wanted a bang maid. He didn't want a partner. That is why he chose such a younger woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 02:03 AM
71

"Why can't you just be convenient to consume?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 12:16 AM
121

Oh no! "Spiral towards loneliness!" Save me from loneliness by chaining me to a dude who cannot wipe our child's ass or do laundry!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 10:59 PM
39

"If your man touches these, he may be a human who has to do things to live"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 07:32 PM
6

My toddler calls her father "daddy". The way she says "hi daddy" to him is super cute. She will also say "daddy" let out a line of jibberish and then say "chicken nuggets" at the drive thru. Adorbs. So this dude eight years older than her shouldn't dictate what she has called her dad her whole life. And joking that there is a incestuous relationship is not funny. She can do better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 02:13 PM
6

This is super sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 02:56 AM
65

I am married to a man with no college education. I do consider him HV because he pulls his weight. Even the income disparity is ok because his job has the good insurance. I work in healthcare he doesn't but his boss is a human being while mine aren't. Point is I chose different but respect that you date who you want to. Don't apologize for earning something and then looking for someone else who has earned. You are always gonna be bougie or elitist to someone who feels small.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 04:05 PM
4

I was young. I would not have any of that losers time as a 35 year old.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 10:54 PM
18

When I was much younger and super self hating. A guy dumped me to get back with his ex before he was supposed to take me on vacation. I said "ok" and he was mad that he didn't mean more to me. I then poured my heart out. He then said "see you around". Because he was garbage. Don't let the garbage get to you. Just take it out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 03:21 PM
3

They age like ranch dressing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 02:54 AM
48

I want that sweater.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 12:33 AM
114

"I cannot believe I am not special despite overwhelming proof that I am mediocre at best. So I will place the blame on half the population instead of reading a book or doing a sit up."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 08:49 PM
86

I was in a several years relationship and during a fight he admitted he didn't want to marry me. I bounced. Met my husband. He married the next girl he met. They are divorced. The pick me things I did in that relationship will haunt me but waaayyyy better than ending up with him. He is only getting older, fatter, balder. I make more money. Go on more trips. Raise my beautiful daughter. Get better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 12:51 AM
15

He made out like a bandit this time. Because you were there and his parents are there. They won't always be there. You on the other hand...survived. So this is cold comfort now but wait. Your ability to do what needs to be done will always come through for you. Because it was you coming through for you. In time your star will rise because you make it rise. He won't always have someone to manage his life for him and he won't learn, won't change. Will fail. So look forward Mamma. This time is roug…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 07:01 PM
5

I am not supposed to advocate violence but this dude would catch it from from me if that was my daughter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 12:29 AM
7

I have stopped shaving completely. My life hasn't changed in the slightest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 06:14 AM
18

I DO NOT hit my kid. She will listen to me as well as she is going too. Hitting will not change that. Love should not hurt. You cannot trust someone that hurts you. Hopefully no spanking will mean no falling for bdsm kink shit. Also NO ONE hits my kid. It is not up for discussion. If she doesn't want to hug or kiss, she doesn't have too. Her affection is hers to give in a way she chooses to give it. In general she can do what she wants. Mud puddles? Playing in the sink? Go nuts. You are a child …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 01:05 AM
11

I was thinking about this. Sticky sugar pubes? Nasty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 11:31 AM
2

Wow all of that sounds like hell and realistic. Dudes with no idea what they are doing hurting the folks they are supposed to love. Also TV? Tv ain't reality. Porn is a cancer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 06:45 PM
2

Yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 11:41 PM
2

She is in the kitchen. Cooking up some bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 06:38 AM
49

It was never carefree for us. One late period and shit was real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 05:59 AM
9

God damn. Wish I hadn't read this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 02:03 AM
1

That floor is really clean and shiny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 05:57 AM
45

I don't think people have gotten the idea that women are willing to work hard to get what they want. Women outpacing men in jobs and university attendence despite knowing they will make less than a man in their shoes is a testament to how bad women want to call their own shots. So bad they are willing to work harder for it. It isn't that men are being purposely left behind. It's that men feel they are entitled to a certain standard and if they don't get it they bail. Women in general know its si…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 05:28 PM
16

*Bridget and her demon shovel board.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 02:56 AM
28

Didn't Brigette Bishop get killed because she was slaying it at business? I must google.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 02:54 AM
16

It has to put down lest it catch. Infect the entire female population!!!! A horrible future filled with women with opinions spoken in public. Safe bus stops at night. Sons that bake! Calamity!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 11:49 PM
41

Can't do magic/do giant robots unless you are spank material.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 11:40 PM
182

It probably isn't super good for little girls to see only one token woman in a group and that token women is always conventional sexy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 11:04 PM
14

I totally went back to school to become a nurse because I was broke. Am nurse still. I don't want it for my daughter. I also want to say having kids early is a poor woman's curse. I had the luxury of time to go back to school to get a career that pays somewhat. I work with women who had kids early and with crap dudes so they struggle to make ends meet. Work tons of hours as a cna ( God bless them they are underpaid for what they do. Also long term care is a racket. I get super angry about the mi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 03:51 PM
5

"That's not fair that you don't want to be with me after I continue to do the thing you said was a deal breaker."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 12:47 AM
2

Yeah what's the school? We can annoy them with calls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 06:36 PM
10

Yup. I tell myself it won't happen to my kid because I will talk about it with her. That is how I deal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 06:05 AM
3

We have all been there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 10:11 PM
192

I want to support you. I am glad you can see the good in people but damn. He cheated and he can't do the sex unless its bdsm? This won't hurt in a year. Stay busy (sounds dumb but your own mind can't get you if you are occupied) and the sun will shine. Go find your happy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 04:27 PM
15

That's nasty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 05:05 PM
11

This is sweet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 10:51 PM
14

"Someone loves me and instead of seeing this as the incredible gift it is, I will squander it because I cannot believe I am worthy of love so I will do everything in my power to prove I am not." -that douche
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 07:13 AM
6

This man is dumb. There should be a test to procreate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 12:25 AM
7

That guy is dumber than I remember.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 03:43 PM
2

That's a good ring
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 07:14 AM
4

"We have been trying to reach you concerning this dick's dryness." I don't know why he thinks a three sentence letter is gonna get you to speak with him. He is reaching and I mean reaching because he hasn't found another woman's time to waste.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 12:37 AM
21

Not sure every democrat is on our side either. Should also have added evangelicals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 07:30 PM
30

If republicans really cared about kids we would have done had hikes in minimum wage, healthcare, education reforms, and no kids in cages. All this pearl clutching about abortion is just to keep poor women in line and stuck clinging to their shit husbands/partners.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 07:29 PM
3

Dude....I want more kids. I would have more if I didn't have to spend eight hours a day away from mine to put a roof over our heads. I am down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 07:17 AM
20

Along time ago I was at a neighbors bbq. I was sitting next to this very large loudly dressed man. He complained about his job because a woman he works with was slowing down the job because she wasn't as strong as he was. She deserved to be paid less. His largeness was proof he wasn't dieing at work. He also went on about women should not be allowed abortions because they needed "to be taught a lesson". I knew even then he wanted to trap someone. Knew he was blaming the wrong group of people for…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 04:13 PM
7

Let them build. The singularity is coming.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 12:10 PM
18

I hope he stays away from home forever with his bad of dumbass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 12:05 PM
2

I'm in reddit fight with a dude who says he is post porn addiction and he wants to cheat or punch walls cause his partner don't want to touch him. He is also liking bikini pics on the same account. She had a baby a year ago. But HE is running the house. Get those bans baby. Speak your truth. Dump those losers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 08:47 PM
20

I got banned from AITA. It was worth it. Guy couldn't understand why his wife didn't want to shower/dress up/ sleep with him post baby and had his mommy tell her to shower. It was the meanest thing I had ever said online and it felt great.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 01:30 AM
11

Yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 01:29 AM
12

While you are at it print that on a shirt and wear it out. So people can see you suck a mile away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 05:42 AM
6

I hate this show.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 06:24 PM
10

He is gonna be in a nursing home before his kid goes to college!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 06:51 AM
19

You life isn't empty. It's filled with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 07:36 PM
46

Change is coming. Those who cannot adapt will die out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 10:03 PM
5

I remember getting really angry reading this woman's tips for success while job hunting. Her tip was to upgrade your shoes and purse to something memorable. Spend more money on crap you cannot afford to get a job for someone who isn't impressed by your experience but by shoes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 04:21 AM
3

I was in high school and at the height of an eating disorder. I got complemented often by the 50 something guidance counselor on my figure. I didn't tell her I was barfing and abusing laxatives. I think back and wonder what women could be if instead of weight loss we talked and praised each other on literally anything else. I wonder what adult I could have been with some self esteem. My years are filled with awful pickmeshia stories but I comfort myself thinking that I broke the cycle for me and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 06:33 PM
99

I would also ask him when he was gonna go to the grocery, cook my meals, watch my kid so I could go to the gym, wash my clothes, pay my gym membership, and shut the fuck up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 01:32 AM
31

I would tell him to pack up. I never existed to please his eyes and if he can do better he is free to do so. Don't let the door hit you on the way out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 01:30 AM
9

My husband's co-worker once said I was "high maintenance". He sleeps on a mattress on the floor next to his baby momma in his parents home. My husband sleeps in a bed that I paid for, on sheets I paid for, under a comforter I paid for at our house (split mortgage). I guess everything is "high maintenance" when you don't maintenance at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 07:15 AM
42

It isn't very good. Yay costumes and diverse casting but this ugly dude is gonna rape the lead and a 75 pound girl punched him out. Woke. Nevermind she is going right back on the meat market and mom is talking her into how happy she will be with kids. The girls have zero sex ed but corsets right? A boy who fucks and ducks a singer is telling that same mom what he is and is gonna do. The lead love interest had a tragic backstory but he also fucks and ducks poorer women and is mean to the lead fem…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 04:59 PM
1

I have me is powerful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 05:30 AM
15

I went to counseling in a LV relationship. The councilor had the goodness to say he couldn't fix it. It was blunt but needed. Took me long enough to move on but without this guy's honesty it would have been worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 09:40 PM
10

This guy is stupid. So instead of literally being quiet and getting to enjoy your new home with you he had to nuke the relationship because you achieved something. I have no idea why you would tell a woman you were rejected by another woman unless you were stupid. Hope he got a vasectomy those genes don't need passing on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 08:11 PM
2

"Nah babe you just think I got mega blotto and pissed in the fish tank." It was all a prank! Why can't you be cool? Babe?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 06:04 PM
3

I failed btw but I tried.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 11:56 PM
15

I culled in 2016. It's better than to wonder what language you are speaking. Someone said I was going to loose everyone who cared about me for "political stuff". I was running for office she was drinking the kool aid working two jobs for a man twice her age who gave her the vd and worked one job. You are a woman on the make. There are women looking for you. I have a cold one 🍹 for you if we cross paths.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 11:55 PM
14

Where do we sign up?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 11:26 PM
151

Noooooo! Why die "alone" with your accomplishments, friends, adopted kids, memories, goals, hopes, dignity intact when a man child can frustrate you into a much earlier grave while destroying everything about you that made you you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 11:20 PM
8

Because their dads got to be shitty why can't they? They think things are just gonna be fine without effort in their own lives. Women have to jump through flaming hoops to get places. These guys father's just went to work and food appeared in front of them and clean clothes just appeared in their closets.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 07:40 PM
12

Congrats on your progress. I have no doubt you were and will remain beautiful. What you have described I believe and have witnessed myself. When a guy is "embarrassed" of his partner he is admitting he has no dick. An adult should love who they love. Enjoy being lonely no dick because you are stuck in perpetual middle school and you are afraid of being made fun of. A well rounded adult would be more afraid of spending their life without companionship that being teased by I am assuming other LV d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 11:32 PM
5

Did you see the recent movie? Remember the scene where she tweeds up to defend her man? Finally finding her spine to defend a murdered. Knowing full well he is capable of killing her if she displeases him? Also the maid deserves her own movie told from her perspective. A beautiful young woman that you love, raise to be free and seek her own sexual fulfillment and spend years plotting revenge for her when you know she was murdered. Burning his ancestral home to the ground.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 06:28 PM
5

Rebecca- sexy daddy man with money whisks you away from your friends and family. He is emotionally unavailable and embarrasses you in your own house by yelling at you for dressing up as his ex wife because his own staff hate him. Then after same staff nearly kills you, you defend him at trial for murdering his wife because she cheated. A wife he could have divorced but instead you get the mansion that was half yours burned down and you move to Cairo to live with the wife killer in smokey sweaty …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 03:59 PM
8

They say that because they don't want to be sad microwaving hot pockets in their holey underpants in their dirty sad apartment with no furniture. You have to feel bad and worried about being alone so that you can serve an adult who can't cook, clean, or survive on their own. They need you to buy into that lie so that you will buy their underwear and he can click his tongue and say "women be shopping".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 01:44 AM
7

She can do sooooooooo much better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 01:27 AM
12

Dude....he isn't worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 05:44 PM
6

Sooooo I don't know where you live but if he threatens to kills himself just call the cops and see if you can get him committed. It's gonna make it easier to get custody of your sister if you have to. Plus when folks suddenly have a 24/72 hours psych hold they quit threatening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 01:48 AM
155

She totally wants to eat nuggets and mac and cheese forever! Has to wash and dust the mlp figurines after her 60 hour work week or she will be a gold digger. Gotta pass muh genetics.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 09:34 PM
3

Sounds like a really stupid way to say "take the hint"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 11:41 PM
13

You aren't shooting up a yoga studio. You are thinking and journaling and working through it. You get to be angry. You deserve to be angry. You aren't immature or wasting your life in anger. You are healing. Anger can be awesome if it drives you to better places and pushes you to accept less foolishness. Anger can help you to set better boundaries and speak your mind sooner. Best? Dunno but understandable and probably healthy yes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 07:04 PM
14

What you said. A replaceable object. To be used and discarded when no longer useful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 11:22 PM
36

Women and girls aren't people to them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 08:03 PM
4

That man can marry a fleshlight
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 07:58 PM
13

Sooooo is that the string she wants to be buried in? Will she save that string for her grandson to use? Why you gonna marry someone who can't plan ahead enough to get you the traditional proposal ring? Lazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 11:22 AM
24

FDS isn't just about orgasms. It's about breaking curses. I feel better for the future.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 08:11 AM
85

This woman is doing the lord's work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 07:56 AM
4

Nine years. It took luck and growth. In hindsight I have awful relationship role models in my folks. Took me a long time to learn that my happiness matters and I matter. I also live in the south. It's bad for women down here and everywhere. We broke a generational curse and hopefully my daughter will grow up with two emotionally well adjusted parents. What worked: Saying exactly what I think. Setting boundaries. When I got a complement I believed it. Separate finances. Stuck to my guns if I want…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 07:34 AM
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