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| – | “I like to take things slow” usually means she’s not that into youThat sounds like a person acknowledging the fact that they're likely influenced by their hormones at the moment. It happens. Just be grateful for not having to live that way, yourself... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/26 04:24 PM |
| – | “I like to take things slow” usually means she’s not that into youDaddy some could get behind, haha 😆 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/26 04:06 PM |
| – | “I like to take things slow” usually means she’s not that into youYeah, it’s completely normal to “vet” someone you’re dating if you’re thinking long-term. You don't just let the first person into your life who shows more red flags than a sovjet war parade. That doesn’t mean turning dates into job interviews or trying to catch them in traps. It just means paying attention on how they act, what they value, how they treat people, and whether their words match their deeds. You look out for the big questions, Is this someone I could realistically build a life with… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/26 04:05 PM |
| – | “I like to take things slow” usually means she’s not that into youGoing by raw, animalistic desire is a great way to get used, robbed, r@ped or else. Most women are not raised that way. And many men don't want this kind of women for their life partners, either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/26 01:18 PM |
| – | “I like to take things slow” usually means she’s not that into youWomen are not a monolith. Some want to find a life partner, some want a quick ride. If course the vetting process will be different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/26 01:14 PM |
| – | “I like to take things slow” usually means she’s not that into youHaving chemistry and sexual attraction is not the end all, be all for a lot of people. It's a baseline. She will probably take it slow to get to know who you are beyond that instant "click". What your values are, if you want children, if your world views align, if you're a feminist ally, if you want children, what your goals are, etc. If she threw her everything into that budding relationship, all emotion, no rational planning, she might end up with a person she has great chemistry with, but who… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/26 12:47 PM |
| – | “I like to take things slow” usually means she’s not that into youAlso he will kinda expect you to be his bangmaid-mommy-therapist. Isn't that flooding your panties immediately? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/26 12:31 PM |
| – | “I like to take things slow” usually means she’s not that into youA what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/26 12:11 PM |
| – | “I like to take things slow” usually means she’s not that into youThe reality where women have been burned before and want to properly vet you before allowing you in their bed and allowing herself to emotionally invest and become attached to a toxic person. It's not that deep. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/26 12:11 PM |
| 13 | What Is the cause for lack of empathy for men's dating problems?Why is being lonely and isolated put solely on women, though? IMHO, men need to learn to form deep and impactful relationships outside of romantic relationships, with their peers and other men. It is insanity to put the burden of ones ENTIRE social life/interaction on ONE person! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/26 11:40 AM |
| -2 | Do you think the number of women who preffer Big/above average genitalia (all things being equal) is propotional to the number of men with said atributes?The scope of comments like these is about insecure behaviour, unnecessary hostility, domineering or over compensatory attitudes, but I get that it is a sneering jab at masculinity and reinforces negative body images. Another example would be Napoleon complex for vertically challenged men behaving that way. The counterpart would be big dick energy, which also does not mean the literal penis size, but someone behaving calm, secure and confident. Case in point: Downvoting my comment demonstrates sm… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/26 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Do you think the number of women who preffer Big/above average genitalia (all things being equal) is propotional to the number of men with said atributes?The scope of comments like these is about insecure behaviour, unnecessary hostility, domineering or over compensatory attitudes, but I get that it is a sneering jab at masculinity and body images. The counterpart would be big dick energy, which also does not mean the literal penis size, but someone behaving calm, secure and confident. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/26 02:50 PM |
| 1 | women dont love the man, they love themselves throught their manHow come that asexual people long for relationships, too? Don't you think companionship and intimacy would be a more relevant factor? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/24 01:18 PM |
| 1 | women dont love the man, they love themselves throught their manDo you think every man defines himself as a stoic worker, father and protector, and that his worth lies only in providing for a family or dying in a war? Plant a tree, build a house, father a child, check, life done! No exceptions? What about the artists, the travelers, the priests? Do you think men become misogynistic because women seem to not adhere to some invisible contract to selflessly nurture and serve others (partners>offspring>elderly family members)? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/24 08:16 AM |
| 6 | women dont love the man, they love themselves throught their manI don't agree with your blanket statements. There are very varied and nuanced reasons why women may stay childless. Some may long for a family but don't find a partner, some may not be able to have them, some have health reasons that prohibit pregnancy - and then there is a whole bunch of them who abstain for lifestyle reasons, for their careers, dont want to be tied to men, etc. Women are not a monolith, neither are their reasons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 06:09 PM |
| 1 | women dont love the man, they love themselves throught their manNot true. For the longest time, the commitment came before the sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 03:13 PM |
| 19 | women dont love the man, they love themselves throught their manNot every woman identifies herself through children. There are enough child free women who are feminine in other ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 03:10 PM |
| – | Reddit is misandrist to an absurd degree.They moved off site because one of the ladies there did not want to provide anymore free labour (modding), basically closed it and went someplace else. You can still view old posts but there is nothing new, except advertising the off-site resources. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/24 04:03 PM |
| – | Reddit is misandrist to an absurd degree.Do these children not have fathers? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/24 08:48 AM |
| – | Reddit is misandrist to an absurd degree.Feel free to advocate against circumcision, then. Don't rely on women for that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/24 08:47 AM |
| – | Reddit is misandrist to an absurd degree.You don't sound very empathetic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/24 08:43 AM |
| – | Reddit is misandrist to an absurd degree.Women overwhelmingly don't threaten to harm men there. They threaten to not extend any more free labour to men. Not clean up their messes, not act as free therapists, not be in relationships with men who don't add value to their lives, and teach their sisters to spot red flags. Why would that harm men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/24 08:40 AM |
| – | Reddit is misandrist to an absurd degree.Fds is hugely inactive. It's just mod posts advertising some podcast, since one of their mods started monetizing the movement and kicking out the others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/24 08:28 AM |
| 2 | It feels like women are in one giant collective post-breakup phaseOr that, yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 09:14 PM |
| 4 | Why do you personally hate or dislike The Red Pill?This might be a result of a different personality and different baggage. There are dynamics that hobble healthy relationships, like growing up with trauma, anxious or avoidant relationship dynamics that you might be seeking out subconsciously, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 09:59 PM |
| 19 | It feels like women are in one giant collective post-breakup phaseIt depends. It is just different than most men think. Lots of women want a relationship to bring true value to their lives and enhance them, but they often find themselves bending over backwards for someone who disrupts their peace and ends up being emotionally unavailable and doesn't reciprocate the same effort, who only look for a support npc character. Mrn who are into the pill culture and think all women want is "Chad" need to learn one thing: They are not competing with the 6 feet, 6 digit … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Men would never get away with the generalization and fearmongering done by the most popular women centric subreddit.Dude, TwoX is a default sub. I would be surprised if even half of its subscribers actively used reddit. A good chunk is probably men, especially considering how they basically flood every discussion notallmening, like constantly. It's as if half the answers and top level comments on ask men were women answering with their viewpoint (which is not the case since it gets you banned). TwoX isn't moderated that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/24 08:16 AM |
| 1 | Men would never get away with the generalization and fearmongering done by the most popular women centric subreddit.Women do hate women, too. It's called internalized misogyny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/24 08:08 AM |
| 0 | There is no excuse to be attracted to shitty women, especially when you berate bad boy chasers.You were talking about all women having the potential to be a certain way. Well then: All women have the potential to be victims. All men have the potential to rape, stalk, harass and abuse. And a lot of them will, if the opportunity arises. 5% is a ridiculously downplayed number. Not in the way you might figure, with a stranger lurking in the dark, forcing themselves on a woman. Rape and sexual assault happens in the victims near field, mostly. So: fathers, grandfathers, cousins, brothers, neig… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/24 11:48 PM |
| 0 | There is no excuse to be attracted to shitty women, especially when you berate bad boy chasers.Yet the same men will insert themselves into women's spaces to remind us of "not all men 🥺👉🏼👈🏼" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/24 11:11 PM |
| 2 | "Most men are bad/selfish in bed"Context? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/24 01:59 AM |
| 0 | Women's infatuation with the lives of celebrities is a male ickI have one for you: Counting down to female celebrities “turning legal” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/24 10:37 PM |
| 4 | Women's infatuation with the lives of celebrities is a male ickMen are invested in other celebrities, too. The most degenerate example: Counting down to female celebrities “turning legal”, like it happened to Emma Watson, Mary-Kate and Ashley Olsen, Natalie Portman, Lindsay Lohan - they have all seen them grow up from being young children, thirsting over their budding breasts , etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/24 10:29 PM |
| 2 | Why do progressives/feminists rarely object to grooming standards for men?As stated, the poor grooming is not the main part that turns women off about "neck beards". I think it goes deeper than that. Neck beards are associated with r/niceguys, lacking adulting skills (think about the stereotype of an obese dude gaming all day, drinking mountain dew and sucking Cheeto dust off his fingers, vaping, while he lives in a dirty r/neckbeardnests and his clothes smell like pickles. It's all about the lack of competence that turns women and fellow actual adult people off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 12:09 PM |
| 6 | Why do progressives/feminists rarely object to grooming standards for men?Women DO have facial hair - but you won't catch one dead with it visible. There can be certain hormonal issues that can lead to hair growth on the upper lips and chin, also bushy/mono eyebrows can grow on women. Most women would be extremely mortified if someone else noticed them having a lady beard....so yes, we do shave, thread or do whatever to our faces to keep it as unnoticeable as possible. Men are absolutely not held to any standard at all concerning body hair, with the exception of their… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 12:04 PM |
| 11 | Why do progressives/feminists rarely object to grooming standards for men?Huh what, so female armpit hair is smelly and gross, and male armpit hair is regular and normal and not smelly? Interesting take. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 11:20 AM |
| 3 | Why do progressives/feminists rarely object to grooming standards for men?Yes. You are missing the point. The speaker views neck beards and rednecks negatively, but not because of the beard or the sunburned neck. It is about attitude, lifestyle and world views that are commonly associated with the terms. It goes way beyond the physical feature of the beard, it's about the general attitude of laziness/not being able to adult properly. You may want to look up the terms in the urban dictionary and see what it spits out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 11:15 AM |
| 10 | Why do progressives/feminists rarely object to grooming standards for men?Or they just really hate razor burn and ingrown hair down under... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 11:03 AM |
| 12 | Men, if you made $1M a year, would you want a bang maid or a 50/50 relationship?Not even for her own mental health? I'm surprised nobody made that point yet, but can you imagine just being at home all day and the only people you get to speak to are toddlers, related or married to you, or other parents with no other topics than poopy diapers? Even if I enjoyed the reduced pressure of not having to work for money, it would drive me up the walls really fast. Work is not only a place to earn money, some people genuinely like the social aspect of it and also the bit of independe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 04:31 AM |
| – | Most women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.To me personally it felt more like u/bluepvtstorm describing her going all in at the beginning of a relationship, pouring a lot of herself into loving the other person, until she gets disappointed. She starts protecting herself when she feels like the other partner constantly keeps an open tab on reciprocating that level of care and half-asses where she gives her all. Sometimes it might just be feeling that way due to incompatible love languages (I think everyone should be at least fluent in all… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/24 02:35 PM |
| – | Most women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.Nobody likes feeling used. It breeds resentment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/24 01:09 PM |
| 1 | How many men here would agree to be homemakers, caregivers AND breadwinners as many married women are?Too much screen time is very bad for the development, especially in babies and toddlers. It's easier for the parents, but it is really not a good way to keep small children busy. It's nice that you had experience helping to raise your little brother, but it's anecdotal evidence. Children are quite different in their pace, needs and ability to "do their own thing". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 01:36 PM |
| 2 | How many men here would agree to be homemakers, caregivers AND breadwinners as many married women are?Most stay at home partners are in the phase of staying at home when the children are still babies and toddlers. Those don't go to school. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 01:35 AM |
| 3 | How many men here would agree to be homemakers, caregivers AND breadwinners as many married women are?Raising and educating children. It's not always possible to have all chores done, while entertaining the kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 11:49 PM |
| – | Women hate age gap relationships because they are scared of being tossed aside in favour of young womenActually being emotionally intelligent, being on the same stage in life, youthful attractiveness/fitness, no erectile dysfunction, being relatable, not being a loser in their own age group with potential partners, not needing to resort to stalking and manipulation... The list could go on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/23 12:56 PM |
| – | Women hate age gap relationships because they are scared of being tossed aside in favour of young womenThe even sadder part is that most of the catcalling on the streets stops once you are visually grown up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/23 12:52 PM |
| 12 | This explains a lot: Majority of Women declined sex due to body insecurities, dating app findsI turned down sex with a cute guy once because I was on my period and felt super ashamed about it. 🙈 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/23 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Young women have even more traditional standards than their mothers generationTikTok is dirt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 07:27 AM |
| 1 | Should a woman who has lost significant amounts of weight give men who did not want her a chance after weight loss?Speak for yourself. I'm very attracted to nice guys who treat others respectfully! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 06:48 AM |
| 1 | If women can stay single for as long as they desire (as many women claim) then why don't single mothers abstain from dating men until their kids turn 18?You mean, like divorce? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 07:46 AM |
| 1 | Is it ethical to use AI face recognition to filter out women on dating apps?Absolutely do tell girls. They deserve to filter out men by the same standards of matching values as OP. You're not getting any dates? Too bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 10:25 AM |
| 1 | Is it ethical to use AI face recognition to filter out women on dating apps?He is probably not going to disclose it to the "pure" girls. Because he 100% knows it's controlling and creepy behaviour that any person subjected to such a search would find outlandish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 10:02 AM |
| 1 | Is it ethical to use AI face recognition to filter out women on dating apps?If you do not find nudes, will you disclose that you ran a search to your date? Will you give her the chance to confirm if your values match with hers? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 10:01 AM |
| 1 | Is it ethical to use AI face recognition to filter out women on dating apps?Why not make it a triangle? Or a star? Maybe assign a color to it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 09:50 AM |
| 1 | Why men are (rightfully) bitter.I'm sorry what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 06:31 PM |
| – | Should men be expected to intervene when random women are in trouble?Or humans... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 09:15 AM |
| – | Should men be expected to intervene when random women are in trouble?Yes, that's a very interesting fact. I've also read before (don't remember where) that the biggest group size where we will still be able to see the people in it as individuals is max 1000, like maybe your school, or your corporation. Afterwards it becomes a statistic, a group we don't see as individual people, but lumped together. We automatically dehumanize and "other" them, because our brains just don't grasp them individually, anymore: People from X city are unfriendly, people from X country… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 07:17 AM |
| – | Should men be expected to intervene when random women are in trouble?Only dogs, not other animals? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 06:50 AM |
| 1 | Why men are (rightfully) bitter.Or you could start shaming the promiscuous fuckboi Chads, instead of admiring them and striving to be them... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Why men are (rightfully) bitter.Both men and women are miserable in today's dating market. Men are thirsty for a glass of water while they are in a desert. They are parched and are dying for some water. Women are thirsty for a glass of water as a shipwrecked on the sea. Yeah, she is surrounded by water and could just drink, but..., you know? It's not the kind of water they actually need and want and it would possibly harm them. Casual sex that most likely won't satisfy them, with men who aren't interested in them as a person. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 12:42 PM |
| 1 | If men want to even the dating field they should take better care of their appearanceProbably not in Korea, though - they are obsessed with surgeries over there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 06:53 AM |
| 2 | Don't mistake a man's lack of options for better moralsIt is not some "female reasoning", but based on past experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/23 08:23 PM |
| 2 | Don't mistake a man's lack of options for better moralsSome of these lonely slobs as you call them tend to have self-esteem issues. Don't value themselves and automatically lose respect for any woman dating them, based on their self hate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/23 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Why is it socially acceptable for women to artificially enhance their beauty but not men?Women are made fun of for surgery, too. Women get made fun of for not caring enough, as well! If you don't like to enhance your natural appearance with makeup, hair color, nail polish, flattering outfits, you'll be called a tomboy/butch/lesbian, whatever. You have to be really naturally beautiful to get away with no makeup. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 05:42 AM |
| 1 | Jobs that are dealbreakers (for me )...what about you?You might want to check out r/codependency | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 07:55 AM |
| – | If a woman has difficulty coming to orgasm, that's not my problemThey don't want intimacy and connection, they want a living fleshlight that also strokes their ego. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/23 08:50 AM |
| 9 | If a woman has difficulty coming to orgasm, that's not my problemHe is 100% salty that women told him he's too quick! 😂💯 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 03:37 PM |
| 7 | The fake proposal -- anyone else?Diamonds are a scam and not getting a "real" one is financially wise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/22 06:12 PM |
| 6 | In group outings, what should we look for in how men treat women and other men?I'm not one of the pretty girls and don't have a very loud talking voice. You won't believe how many men will just repeat something I literally just said before, as if me talking was just some voice in their head. As if they don't even register I'm there with the group. They are hyper focused on a prettier girl and just ignore the "uglies". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/22 05:30 PM |
| 14 | If you could write your ex's Tinder profileHoly that's a bit too close to home. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/22 11:00 AM |
| 23 | If you could write your ex's Tinder profileHell, trade baseball for league of legends and I got mine 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/22 10:50 AM |
| 31 | Vetting: if a worst case scenario happens to you, can you rely on him?I think pretending to have a painful period (if you don't have a heavy one) is a good one. You can do a double test and also check if he is one of those losers who refuse to buy feminine hygiene products in the supermarket for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 08:37 PM |
| 27 | Be careful posting elsewhereI believe there is a desktop extension for Reddit that allows you to "mark" users who use certain subs. I was once banned here for commenting on one of those rating subs (I stood up for the girl in question, so could resolve it with a mod). So yes, it's not just other subs who try to keep their user base to a certain standard, FDS does the same and it's probably a good thing for the overall health of the community. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 07:29 PM |
| 13 | Ladies please be careful about who you have children with. She is pregnant but he is trying to dictate how she gives birth… also he doesn’t know about the umbilical cord? 🥴No, it would just fit the "scrote Bingo". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 04:19 PM |
| 79 | Ladies please be careful about who you have children with. She is pregnant but he is trying to dictate how she gives birth… also he doesn’t know about the umbilical cord? 🥴You're forgetting the 41[m] and 25[f]... (Not in this isolated case but I immediately eyeroll when I see it on a headline) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 11:09 AM |
| 37 | How'd You Find FDS?Same. I hung out on those subs and honestly it affected my self-worth so much. I mean, incels getting their panties in a knot over stuff "females" do is nothing new, but they were acting like this was the pinnacle of evil feminism and I just had to check. I ingrained so much of their biologist view of women only wanting to "score resources" and hypergamy and whatever, I thought I might as well learn how to arm myself against those red- and blackpill tactics, learn how to vet for and counter thos… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 04:43 PM |
| 146 | It wouldn't have anything to do with that hateful, repulsive personality. Nah, must be the cheekbones. B*tches so picky 🙄I always assumed it was an irrational fear of ending up on a provider role (for example if there are kids) and being resentful or scared of having to pay for her nail appointment or hairdresser, when he could buy the new PS5, instead... Like once he "got" you, he knows you can be pretty so you don't have to prove anything and now he can dress you in rags. Unless it's for some event where he wants to parade you around... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 12:07 PM |
| 3 | on beauty standards and wanting to opt out, way way outYes, I get you. As a bigger lady I find shopping for clothes extremely exhausting. I find a piece that excites me, just to realize they don't carry it in my size or that it looks all distorted on my frame. After a handful of those disappointments you just take whatever looked least bad and kinda fits just so you don't have to go outside in your comfy but ratty joggers. I do love snagtights and knitted dresses, though. They're like some comfy but still look put together secret. Jeans are a nightm… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 11:36 AM |
| 51 | Low Effort ValentineUnless he is going to wear them ... 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 11:21 AM |
| 671 | It wouldn't have anything to do with that hateful, repulsive personality. Nah, must be the cheekbones. B*tches so picky 🙄Also, you're supposed to look high maintenance, but if you ever spend money or time on your skin/hair/makeup/nails/fitness, you're vain and bougie and a gold digger. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 11:07 AM |
| 26 | The Queen behind TinderTranslators gets it. Absolute gold.The most ridiculous example of this is men insisting that a LESBIAN must not be into men because she just hasn't found the right penis, yet - which, coincidentally, is theirs, right? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 10:41 AM |
| 2 | Rihanna & Her Pregnancy AnnouncementShe is better off than any of us combined. She is not financially reliant on him and this child will be born into privilege. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 11:23 PM |
| 21 | I dumped the guy I was vetting over the birthday gift I received 🍪Just like an accessory. Supposed to look like an expensive, rare designer bag that all of your friends are in awe over, but with the price of a cheap replica that hopefully nobody notices. All they want is the praise and recognition from other men for the nice object they acquired. I've encountered the reverse as well: Men who try to manipulate you into working out, wear certain clothes and police what you eat... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 03:25 PM |
| 85 | I dumped the guy I was vetting over the birthday gift I received 🍪Men want a unicorn: the elusive burger girl with a salad body. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 12:55 PM |
| 3 | Asian Boss: Being a radical anti-feminist in Korea. - The founder of New Mens's Solidarity gives an excellent overview and describes many struggles men are facing. He is not anti feminist, but points out the double standars and reverse discrimination, where the movements wants harmony.Do you think that this form of "discrimination" is justified, say, for a societal greater good, or to counteract existing discrimination of a marginalized group and to take steps to right a wrong, so to speak? | /r/MensRights | 06/01/22 12:06 AM |
| 5 | Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after *that* one guyLet him visit, you don't have to entertain him in the meantime. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 01:56 PM |
| 2 | FDS is BACK!I'm not trying to argue, so if you believe I got a wrong impression, feel free to help me out. I appreciate your viewpoint. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 02:07 PM |
| 12 | FDS is BACK!That's true and I'm aware of it. Naming different subs is not allowed, so I wont, just that it is a subreddit about drama on other subs and not one of the "watchdog subs". No idea how neutral they are, but I didn't get the impression they are out to get us. And honestly, the whole isolating approach the leadership sometimes pulls towards the whole rest of Reddit seems a bit strange. If it was a man doing it I would have some choice words for it. Were given the tools to spot certain behaviours an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 03:18 AM |
| 57 | FDS is BACK!I agree. I also of course don't know everything, but what I have picked up from other subs left me feeling very icky. The implication was a podcast pushing a very political host and criticism handled with immediate bans. I like this sub, but I will take certain aspects of it with a massive grain of salt from now on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/21 04:14 PM |
| 9 | The nerve to be jealous that he didn't get the 'peak hot' version of her, what a shame for the poor woman.I would probably be very sarcastic, as in "Oh yes, you're right. You shouldn't have to settle for an old hag like me. Go, be free! Find your highschool cheerleader" Inkel ideology is like a virus. They spread their "they're riding the chad carousel until they settle with some beta provider" bull to other men and make them doubt their relationships with women. I once lurked those spaces and as a girl it really fxxxed up my self-esteem - I'm not a "Stacey", I don't randomly sleep with "Chad", some… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 05:47 AM |
| 6 | The nerve to be jealous that he didn't get the 'peak hot' version of her, what a shame for the poor woman.Meep Meep! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 05:32 AM |
| 6 | “She Divorced Me Because I Left Dishes By The Sink”I get where you are coming from, but I will slack a bit when I live alone, since it's MY mess and it's not bothering anyone except me. If I expect guests or live with someone else, I will give my best to adhere to their standard. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 04:48 PM |
| 7 | Just scrotey thingsI'm not vegetarian but Matter Paneer is my first choice when ordering Indian food. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 08:30 PM |
| 19 | So we all know that men can’t stop talking about themselves, so I wanted to ask you ladies..I wouldn't go as far as calling innocent children of pedophiles genetically inferior or defective. Since perpetrators often are from the own family, that would add another layer of shame and stigma to the victims. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Male Neurodivergent PANDERING, and my seething resentment about itYes, I'm curious about your judgement! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 08:21 PM |
| 40 | Destroy the concept that your teen years are supposed to be fun and once you hit 25, you’re old and it’s over. Some of us had to heal from trauma during our teen years and our 20s (30s, 40s, 50s and so on) and would like to begin a good life without constantly being told it’s too late.The wall doesn't exist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 07:51 AM |
| 24 | This is a weekly reminder to women especially “creatives” to watch out for lovebombing, genuine demons lurk and will seemingly try their best to tether your guard with words to exploit your emotions and try to conquer your body.Yeah, been there, got the T-shirt.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 11:16 PM |
| 67 | This is a weekly reminder to women especially “creatives” to watch out for lovebombing, genuine demons lurk and will seemingly try their best to tether your guard with words to exploit your emotions and try to conquer your body.thrust? 🧐 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 07:11 PM |
| 6 | Dating as a neurodivergent woman following FDS principles.Did he dumb fox you? :D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 08:25 AM |
| 6 | Male Neurodivergent PANDERING, and my seething resentment about itDid you like Snow Cake? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 04:54 PM |
| 18 | Male Neurodivergent PANDERING, and my seething resentment about itYou should not be angry at someone in need of help receives it, you should be angry at your representatives for not offering enough resources to a marginalized group in the first place. Divide and conquer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 04:53 PM |
| 9 | Can men who engage in hook up culture/casual sex, turn around and happily commit to long term monogamous relationships without cheating/hall passes/porn addiction etc.Yes, but only with a women he put on the pedestal from the start. The fwb turned relationship is probably not going to work out, because you already have been the "whore", you can't be the "Madonna" now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 10:38 AM |
| 31 | “I know it’s weird but”The kind of sentences where you only read after the "but". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 11:05 AM |
| 8 | Breaking news! Poor man had to sit hungry because his wife didn’t make his plate, even though his arms work and he is perfectly capable of standing :( so sad. Thoughts and prayers. /sThen he will just get up for the leftovers | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 09:11 AM |
| 10 | What do you all think about this?Two wrongs don't make a right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 10:03 PM |
| 24 | I am so glad I didn’t end up with any of the losers I pined over in my pickme yearsI don't know if you're German, but you may want to look into studies at the Ministry of foreign affairs / Auswärtiges Amt. They even give you government official status and pay for your studies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 07:30 PM |
| 34 | Potent.Amen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 05:48 AM |
| 50 | I salute this woman who built a fence. Good job lady.Nah, so he can earn some "niceness" points to collect later.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 04:46 PM |
| 138 | If you say "I pay for my own dinner so that I don't owe the man anything" then you are admitting that you believe women are obligated to sleep with a man if he spends money on her.Of course. He bought himself a plate of spaghetti in your presence, you owe him! /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 09:59 AM |
| 27 | This popped up in my memories. This is HV.Yes. Also you forgot the ex-part of that sentence. Cat poop can be dangerous to pregnant women and the unborn child. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 05:50 AM |
| 4 | Say It Louder For All The LVMs/NVMs & Scotes In The Back 🗣If you want to know if your man truly loves you, start thinking aloud about a short hairstyle or smth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 06:59 PM |
| 44 | OopsSame reason your pickmeisha friend will glare at you when ordering a healthy snack. Just a bucket of crabs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 11:50 PM |
| 1 | Never again!!!Hopefully a bed, more likely just an uncovered mattress, or worse - the NEST. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 12:49 PM |
| 31 | The “iM an AlpHa mALe” is already a turn off for me but then on top of that, these dudes never actually want to play that role all the way. They just like the part where they get to boss the woman around.If you want unconditional love, maybe get a dog? (Even a dog doesn't deserve that abuse, tho) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 09:05 PM |
| 14 | True crime and age gapsHybristophilia is not uncommon. I suppose it has to do with a saviour complex and codependent tendencies. Mind boggling. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 10:00 PM |
| 14 | 🤪🤪 male redditors are so funny 🤪🤪🥺👉👈 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 08:13 PM |
| 21 | Mainstream "women's empowerment" is a lie.🤡🤡🤡🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 01:20 PM |
| 5 | if you have to call yourself “nice”, you probably aren’t!Is he from Munich, by chance? xD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 10:46 PM |
| 21 | This is my worst fear. Hope she can take her kids and get the hell out ASAPHave a hug! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 01:06 PM |
| 8 | FDS combing out the LVM (source unknown)Is that supposed to be the Loreley? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 08:06 PM |
| 60 | It really feels like it nowHonestly my ex did this obnoxious, loud mouth breathing when he zoned out and it irritates me sooo much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 01:24 PM |
| 27 | Apparently I need to lower my body standards of men now 🥴As a metal head, it's kinda my jam, though. I wouldn't mind this outfit at a gig or festival, but in day to day life? Dude isn't 15 anymore, no need to scare grannies at the mall...Come on.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 12:54 AM |
| 27 | I came across an interesting troll today who said that all of our lesbian and bisexual members are fake accounts. Said they are all new accounts and implied all are created by the FDS mods. So please ladies make your presents known in this poll.They're just asking him to have a second mate, third mate and a whole crew... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 02:57 PM |
| 19 | When I finished my thesis and was handing it in, I also posted DOB, length (in pages) and weight to my Facebook timeline, intendedly making it sound like I just gave birth to a baby.Am I the only one who immediately jumped to "I need that crochet pattern in my life"? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 08:53 AM |
| 5 | The average male redditor starter packHad to do a double take at the sub I'm in, then remembered braincels in banned. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 08:05 PM |
| 19 | Art imitates lifeOh he sounds just perfect. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 03:05 PM |
| 14 | My ex was arrested marching on Washington today. Looks like the trash took itself out 🤦♀️Those are good rules for, say, a Christmas Dinner with your company. With friends and family we talk about those topics all the time. I think some discourse is healthy. It's not a topic for first dates, but I'd like a partner with similar core values and financial stability, especially if planning for a family, so at some point I would probe him about his values. Better sooner than later, before I'm completely emotionally attached and overlook the red flags.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 11:47 AM |
| 24 | My ex was arrested marching on Washington today. Looks like the trash took itself out 🤦♀️“What are your stances on guns and illegal immigration?" Private. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 11:34 AM |
| 21 | Scammed, bamboozled and hoodwinkedHope he didn't expect you to fuck him for buying himself food in your presence.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 09:46 AM |
| 19 | Friendship is MagicHonestly I'm convinced that there would be way less war and violence if women were world leaders instead of men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 10:14 PM |
| 3 | notice the double standardThank you for your elaborate response and all the success to you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 07:12 AM |
| 8 | notice the double standardYeah,I tried keto with my ex boyfriend. The weight just melted off him while I was constantly plateauing for weeks on end, it was frustrating af. To be fair, he went to the gym a lot and the most I did was riding my bike regularly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 06:40 AM |
| 5 | notice the double standardHaha, Girl you are wonderful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 06:37 AM |
| 11 | For the men that love to ask “What was she wearing” when a woman says she has been raped. Explain this!😴😴Unless they're teaching their daughters. Then it's always all men and they watch them like a hawk. Except them, of course. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 06:36 AM |
| 9 | Are they capable of anything?You're on FDS. Useless LVM don't get a pass here, even if they are your father. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 10:23 PM |
| 2 | This is why I gave up on OLD 🤢🤢🤢Good luck trying to find a personal animator/therapist out there... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 10:38 AM |
| 3 | Would it be okay to use dating apps secretly?That sounds a lot like love bombing. I fell into a LDR like that a while back and once we moved in together, I was stuck with the biggest slob on the planet. Take your time, don't let him BUY you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 09:57 AM |
| 2 | Doing my best to internalize this when reminiscing of how 'nice' they are in the beginning.Oh my god I am so sorry this happened to you! Hopefully you got the help you needed. I couldn't imagine ever trusting someone completely after such a horrible experience. I'm pretty wary of some of my friends helping me through a breakup right now. One of them has some preeetty strong nice guy vibes and it bothers me so much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/20 09:59 AM |
| 3 | I think the reason men move on so quickly as if they never cared is because they never actually invested themselves into the relationship or their partnerYou mean when there is no clean dish left? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 09:45 PM |
| -2 | THIS should be on the walls everywhere!Okay, go ahead and carry your own baby to term :'D. | /r/MGTOW | 08/10/17 02:22 PM |
| 2 | "FBI translator married Isis recruiter she was meant to be investigating"He is a militant Muslim. It's the same thing, really. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/17 07:37 PM |
| 5 | The hard naked truth about marriageFat men are more socially accepted. | /r/MensRights | 18/04/17 05:54 PM |
| 2 | Kindergarten teacher finds Legos are good for cognitive development in young children and bans boys from playing with them in order to "close the gender gap"Let's achieve gender equality! How? By separating people by gender, of course! | /r/MensRights | 18/04/17 04:37 PM |
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