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It really feels like it now

aoi4eg

March 23, 2021
828 upvotes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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Title It really feels like it now
Author

aoi4eg

Upvotes 828
Comments 13
Date March 23, 2021 6:41 AM UTC
(5 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/mb8lk3/it_really_feels_like_it_now/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/it-really-feels-like-it-now.1189700
https://theredarchive.com/post/1189700
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Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after *that* one guy

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FDS became the last stop on my journey to fully recover from a pick-me and "not like other girls" syndromes. I used to either hate how I look, compared to other women, or hate on them in order to impress men. Not anymore, thanks to all you queens here!

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Gets particularly spicy when you have screenshots or other material to prove what he did✨

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When friends and relatives start listing things I need to change in order to be "successful" on a dating market

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When my 30 y.o. male friends put 18-22 age preference on Tinder and complain about zero matches

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My online dating experience was so similar, for a second I thought it's my old tweet! Feel free to add more types

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I gave my ex a list of things I'm allergic to, he told his mother it's my favourite food. I ended up practically dying on the way to the hospital. He thought I'm lying and just being a picky eater.

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PSA: Tinder will stop showing your account to people nearby if you're inactive for several days, so don't fall for "I deleted this app ages ago but didn't know I need to deactivate my profile separately!"

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[–]SturmFeeFDS Newbie 59 points60 points61 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Honestly my ex did this obnoxious, loud mouth breathing when he zoned out and it irritates me sooo much.

[–]suckmypussy143FDS Newbie 134 points135 points136 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Lmao fr 😭I’m allergic to their presence now

[–]acrosstheoceanin198463 points 5 years ago [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link

Glad I'm not the only one. I barely interact with them anymore. Minimal contact. πŸ˜…

[–]fdssavedmylifeFDS Newbie 41 points42 points43 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Sometimes I can’t remember the last time I spoke to a man and it is glorious.

[–]xeniaox78 points 5 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

Their existence got me on edge πŸ˜‚

[–]ClassicBadFDS Newbie 14 points15 points16 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Of glory?

[–]imarriedmybookshelf50 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Amen sis! I used to pine for even the ugliest man's attention if it meant getting picked now i cant even be bothered to look their way

[–]pinkakio45 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Yes yes.. it IS an actual personal attack!! πŸ˜„πŸ˜‚

[–][deleted] 9 points10 points11 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Even before FDS, I found my patience with men (specifically as it relates to dating) getting shorter and shorter as the years went on, and my relationships along with it. Initially, I was giving them all the chances in the world. Don't text me back? Whatevs. Cancel a date? Ok, next week. Say something sexist? He probably didn't mean it that way. Now--took too long to text me? Next. Never asked me out properly (and just orbits)? Dead to me. Send me a meme I don't like? We're done. Look at me sideways? Blocked. πŸ˜‚

But you know, WHerE arE aLL tHe GoOD wOmEn??? You ran us out my guy.

[–][deleted] 27 points28 points29 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It usually is because they don’t brush their teeth and would hoard oxygen if they could.

[–]malibooyeahFDS Newbie 11 points12 points13 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I'm sick of them all. They don't even know how disgusting they are.

[–]Party-Promise-8840FDS Newbie 5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Such a mood

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