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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Figuring out Child support?The stbxw is the bread winner. I’m the “stay home parent of 3 kids”. All 4 lawyers I’ve spoken with have misdirected me with this question. Seems I’ll be getting a lot less than what they all told me since her “guaranteed bonuses” won’t be factored in. And they are guaranteed. It’s one way the company tries to make salaries look smaller for potential investors to buy-in. But every employee knows the quarterly bonuses are $100%. Sucks for me. Screwed again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/05/23 01:31 AM |
| 1 | It's over.Take her off the pedestal you put her up on. She isn’t that woman/person. Never was. That person wasn’t ever real. Was an illusion to manipulate you. What a coincidence, the stbexw is texting me as I type this. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/04/23 11:07 PM |
| 1 | It's over.Side note: we did couples therapy. But I realized at the very beginning it was fake. It was to protect her image/damage control. It was a ploy for her to tell her friends, colleagues, coworkers etc that we did couples therapy but it didn’t work out. It was time for us to divorce. Master Manipulator. They all are. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/04/23 11:04 PM |
| 1 | It's over.Look up YouTube videos of becoming stoic & letting go. 1st you must accept that it’s over & there’s nothing you can do to change that. Stop trying. Then you need to become stoic. Learn to let go. Like everyone says, work on yourself. Physically & mentally. We’re all in the same boat. Me: (41) 16 years married 21 overall. 3 kids under 10. She was the bread winner. I was blindsided. I was always faithful & a damn good husband/rockstar dad. I filed few weeks ago. Both have lawyered up & are startin… | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/04/23 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Going crazy!Same situation. 3 kids under 10. Married 16yrs together 21. Remember one thing. People Never do something only 1 time. I filed 3 weeks ago. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/04/23 03:10 PM |
| 3 | Mediation on Friday - What do you wish you knew back when you went through it?I’m daft. If $400/hr for each lawyer. Why the $1,300/hr sum? What’s the extra $500/hr for? Mediation fee? Thx. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/04/23 01:28 AM |
| 1 | The Ne GFI think she’s a troll. Don’t take the bait. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/04/23 01:30 AM |
| 1 | Fuck, this hurts.I cry everyday in the car when I’m alone. I cry & I scream. I keep a bottle of visine red eye in my center console & a small box of tissues. When I’m done I’ll visine my eyes & dry with tissues. Usually at a red light or parked. Then I’m able to put on my normal happy face for the world. Hold it in when you have to but let it the F out when you can. Use the pain as motivation. Go for a run until all you can feel is the pain in your legs & the burning of your lungs. Use your anger to keep you goi… | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/04/23 10:15 PM |
| 4 | Hello everyone. First of all, I can’t express how thankful I am to everyone here for their posts & advice. I need some now. I have filed for divorce. I plan to take my 3 children out of state on a beach trip for 4 days. Can I get in trouble for this? Or can she prevent me from this? Thank you!Filed couple weeks ago. Planned the trip 2 days ago since my kids are off school for the week, the future ex has to work (which is true & is what I’m telling the kids) but I obviously wouldn’t want her to join. Would it be better if I were to bring one of my parents/children’s grandparents along with us? | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/04/23 03:03 AM |
| 2 | Hello everyone. First of all, I can’t express how thankful I am to everyone here for their posts & advice. I need some now. I have filed for divorce. I plan to take my 3 children out of state on a beach trip for 4 days. Can I get in trouble for this? Or can she prevent me from this? Thank you!Terrific advice. I’ll email her now. Ty!!! I was told this will be a chess match. So be it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/04/23 02:55 AM |
| 4 | Hello everyone. First of all, I can’t express how thankful I am to everyone here for their posts & advice. I need some now. I have filed for divorce. I plan to take my 3 children out of state on a beach trip for 4 days. Can I get in trouble for this? Or can she prevent me from this? Thank you!Just want to say to everyone: Thank you for this group. I don’t use social media & had never used redit before. My sister told me about this group. It has helped me TREMENDOUSLY! I thought I was alone. Worst pain of my life (Discovered she planned to blindside me). Zero physical support groups for divorced men where I live. It’s paid therapy or nothing. Maybe I’ll start one up here. Stay strong everyone! | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/04/23 12:59 AM |
| 2 | Hello everyone. First of all, I can’t express how thankful I am to everyone here for their posts & advice. I need some now. I have filed for divorce. I plan to take my 3 children out of state on a beach trip for 4 days. Can I get in trouble for this? Or can she prevent me from this? Thank you!Ty so much!!! No. We haven’t had a hearing yet. Just told her I filed today. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/04/23 12:56 AM |
| 2 | Hello everyone. First of all, I can’t express how thankful I am to everyone here for their posts & advice. I need some now. I have filed for divorce. I plan to take my 3 children out of state on a beach trip for 4 days. Can I get in trouble for this? Or can she prevent me from this? Thank you!Context: married 16 years. Together for 21. All children 10 & under. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/04/23 12:38 AM |
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