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DiscussionSudden-Double/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 06:04 PM
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lol okay it sounds like you're redpill not sure what answer youre looking for
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 08:00 PM
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im a girl and this is what guys have done to me lol and these guys arent chad... they dont have many options but they have trauma issues and they push women away i had one guy tell me he was scared of his feelings for me because of past relationships and i get that.. but you need to heal, im not going to put up with bad behavior because of your trauma most guys dont post "my communication skills are great! i dont know why im not getting dates" focusing on the gym and your looks is great... but m…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 07:11 PM
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most people have unresolved trauma that gets triggered in the dating phase and thus they push away potential mates due to fear. ive seen this time and time again- it's really rare for someone to have ZERO matches, most people have dates and situationships but then end these things for pitty reasons. Then months/ years pass by then the dumpers have regrets and come crawling back asking for 2nd chances. people need to figure out if they are looking for a LOVER or a life partner. someone who makes …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 07:03 PM
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okay if you say so
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 01:37 AM
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lol i am not a bot
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 01:32 AM
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A person can have all the attributes that were considered attractive in pre-modern times but ultimately our personal attraction is the overriding criteria for whether or not we decide to enter a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 01:19 AM
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agreed thank you for that- onward i go!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 05:38 PM
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was on datingoverthirty and sometimes i worry about that sub.. "How long before you feel “sure” about someone?" i cant believe this is even a question. that sub, i swear, tries to engineer relationships. everything is a milestone in a calendar... its so cringe and i refuse to participate in checklist/milestone/engineering relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 06:51 PM
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right my friend's story trigged me because ive had the same thing happen to me! thats why it pissed me off- im reliving my own experience with guys doing this
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 11:15 PM
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because i pro giving 2nd, 3rd chances but only if you treat me with respect. so when guys come back like this i just want to scream- if you ended this better i totally wouldve given you another chance
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 11:09 PM
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i think most guys need a lot of time to think things over thats why you either get 1)ghosting or 2) these blunt text messages... then weeks later the guys come back i'd like to see guys just saying they need more time.. you'll have a better chance keeping that girl as an option then the 2 options above lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 10:50 PM
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then he shouldve never sent that breakup text.. kept her as options men for some reason dont know how to do this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 10:44 PM
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i agree but then dont come back... thats exactly my point why is that dude coming back (he has no options) okay if you have no options why did you end something lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 10:42 PM
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ok PPD why do guys do this- my friend met someone from hinge- they hooked up on night one but she likes to call guys "daddy" during sex. this guy DID NOT like it. sex was horrible and afterward he texted her he didnt want to see her again because they were not sexual compatible. she asked for a 2nd chance.. he never texted her again (neither did she) 5 weeks later he texted her he wanted to apologize and meet up for coffee to talk again. she is no longer interested, told him that and blocked him…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 10:37 PM
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oh yeah i forgot to mention this in my anxiety part that ANOTHER reason too casual sex causes anxiety
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 07:44 PM
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are you okay? lol why are you attacking me
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 07:43 PM
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capitalism has market itself has being sexual successful (this is marketed towards men) in order for men to participate in casual sex they have to detach themselves from their own feelings (dehumanize themselves) most people cant do this.. end up getting feelings from their casual sex partner but then dont know how to proceed since theres no courtship... so most men end up creating distance (not texting lets say) which in turn makes them depressed because they want to be with said person.. just …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 07:42 PM
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lol thanks for defending me seriously... thats why i didnt even brother to post this.. i get weird comments like that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 07:40 PM
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i mean i did but i didnt realize that with sexual freedom comes at the expense of stability and certainty and im not saying feminisms is bad and women need to go back to pre 1960.. just accepting reality. people take dating way too personally.. we literally are in a transition period.. its going to take time until we have new defined courtship
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 07:33 PM
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currently reading the end of love https://www.amazon.com/End-Love-Sociology-Negative-Relations/dp/0190914637 its hands down the best book ive read about modern dating- better then any dating self help book out there. i think its because its an actual lecture/ academic book lol some key takeways 1) most men dont actually like casual sex- in fact casual sex makes men very anxious 2) due to feminisms and sexual liberation- courtship is dead. courtship had many cons but one of the pros was certainty…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 07:20 PM
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haha has a girl never texted you that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 12:56 AM
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trust me i know !! just going to sit here in my sexual frustration
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 12:42 AM
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new ghosting strategy leave a girl on delivered so you can claim you never saw the message (despite responding 3 months later haha)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 11:37 PM
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do you ever purposely avoid opening a message though? i sent 3 separate texts on different occasions to this guy who purposely left me on delivered ... obv he ghosted me but rather he ghost me leaving me on read.. leaving me on delivered seems strange because i think hes keeping the door open (which he has done)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 11:10 PM
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yeah i think people do that just to keep the door open. no sane person purposely avoids leaving people on read.. thats just weird
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 10:43 PM
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he is a lawyer and his dad died in feb.. so maybe there is some truth haha but i agree i dont live like that. if i need space i usually text that.. or i just leave people on read if i were to ghost.. this def was a little weird for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 10:17 PM
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yeah thats what i thought too... im no longer seeing this guy but one message i sent.. he didnt open for 2 months and actually sent me something like "ive been so busy just seeing this now!" i almost think its a way to not be held accountable for ghosting? like i didnt really ghost since i didnt open your message type of thing (even though it is ghosting lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 10:13 PM
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Q4ALL- some guy posted below here how a girl left him on read. i replied sharing with him a story of a guy who was his reads receipts on but would leave me on delivered for days/ weeks. is this some sort of redpill strategy im not aware of? i found it super strange to keep my message (with the notification) in his inbox with no intention of messaging me back. personally i hate text notifications i open all my messages haha. so just trying to understand why someone would do this instead of leavin…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 10:08 PM
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at least she left you on read, this one guy i went on a few dates with (who has his read receipts on) would leave me on delivered for days, sometimes weeks. was really strange.. some people think he turned his reads on off.. no he literally would just take that long to open my messages. super strange- if youre gonna ignore me might as well leave me on read. dont understand the point of keeping my text (with the notifications) on just to ignore me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 10:04 PM
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just a reminder that a critique of dating is a critique for capitalism itself
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 10:01 PM
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hahahaha!! i laughed out loud.. saying the truth my man!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 07:52 PM
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you nailed it. anytime ive talked about guys rejecting me (and they were no where near chad) guys here comment "STOP DATING CHAD" then slide in my direct messages telling me how lonely they are.. its like if only i had dated THEM, i would've never been rejected. this boogeyman chad is stealing the girls they want...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 07:50 PM
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here's the dichotomy that blows my mind a) prospective date hasn't messaged me in 25hours, I must walk away b) it's bee 2/4/6 months, so we're obviously just causal and it's too soon to have a deep emotional attachment. WELL-- which one is it? How can someone expect 21stC speed of connection in the first week and then 18thC Bridgerton speed of courting for the next months?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 09:05 PM
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majority of men have suffer from anxiety and depression, therefore most ghosting is probably due to that. most of my female friends get rejection texts when a guy is no longer interested. to disappear after 5-6 dates, involving multiple sex occasions, to me is a sign of mental health. a normal secure person doesnt do that- if they arent interested they would state that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 07:13 PM
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or he lost a parent, i had someone ghost because his father died. PPD forgets nuance in ghosting, its not as black and white as we think
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 06:43 PM
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k
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 06:41 PM
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what if he gets in a relationship before her? wont she feel like crap for waiting on him?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 04:42 AM
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why do you think women does this?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 10:45 PM
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how do we know this is guy is a chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 10:45 PM
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what do you think of if the person ghosts you should block rule?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 08:50 PM
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like overreacting by blocking people?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 08:25 PM
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thats what it sounds like... maybe im being harsh
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 08:23 PM
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so i posted how dating advice is harsh- if a guy ghosts girls are told to BLOCK and move on. mostly women commented that yeah a women should do this because 1) he made a mistake so early on, and obv cant change so your relationship is already DOOMED and 2) there's no benefit for a woman to give this "loser" a 2nd chance ​ okay fine enough but if a girl makes a mistake (like ghosting because she had some anxiety) and she tries to get back with the guy, and the guy rejects a lot of women say "if h…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 07:34 PM
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how am i a sociopath?lol how am i supposed to react?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 06:52 PM
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that is a good point
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 12:41 AM
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yeah it is but sometimes i see on the DOT reddit that the girl really did like the guy, why not provide nuance advice like take a break from the apps, grieve if you need to, maybe even wait a few months for the guy to come back if you truly felt what you had is real, and once youre ready to move on do so. ​ idk maybe im too nice ahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 12:30 AM
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what is the point of the block and move on advice for women? guy ghosted me "BLOCK AND MOVE ON" guy sent me a rejection test "BLOCK AND MOVE ON" what if you really liked the guy- why cant you give me a 2nd chance? i find this advice to be really harsh. ive been watching couple therapy videos on youtube and couples fix waaaaaay bigger issues then ghosting and break ups. so what gives?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 12:24 AM
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i usually dont give them 2nd chance so its all lip service. again if these men had options they wouldnt be coming back to me for free pussy is my point lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 07:03 AM
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i often like to browse the dating over thirty sub and honestly it feels like everyone in there is playing the 'dating game' That entire culture of taking multiple people out for meals trying to get to know them in this superficial fake environment, then one of us pressing for exclusivity. This does not lead to love, it leads to codependent relationships of convenience. ​ i keep seeing advice like "make sure you're talking to multiple people" "oh the person you really liked ghosted you. get back …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 06:32 PM
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agreed!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 06:22 PM
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oh i am not saying you have to give a second chance haha just saying that if a woman holds her composure and stays calm she will always have the upper hand. when guys come back like this i usually say no, and they start begging like never before. my take on power
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 06:21 PM
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i have hooked up with guys before commitment yes, have i asked for commitment and they left me of course. but what i find so interesting is time and time again these men ALWAYS come back. heck go over to datingoverthirty and you can read endless stories about ghosts and exes coming back. this male that has unlimited options doesn't exist. if you have options, you don't go back to people you ghost and breakup with. ​ if a girl plays her cards right she will always have the upper hand. for example…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 05:31 PM
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thats a super blackpill view lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 08:36 PM
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my observation: most dating problems are caused due to insecurity. both men and women struggle to be honest with others and themselves. also i've noticed both men and women don't know what they want- no clear vision.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 07:36 PM
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is this really a thing where men want women to chase? he also was insecure- any time we had sex he wanted me to constantly tell him how big his dick was
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 04:02 PM
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hahah omg this is like guys who ghost girls they actually like thinking the girl will chase them haha i dont understand this logic! ​ a grown 36 year old man did this to me. he wanted me to initiate all the dates/ sex/ etc and would ignore me for days. the last time he ghosted me i didnt chase... when he came back he told me he did this thinking i would chase him WTF i swear guys play really weird games
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 01:52 AM
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listening to a podcast about dating, the speaker is saying if youre playing hard to get youre probably dating the wrong person. or playing any type of game is this true?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 08:08 PM
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i dont think the dating problems we have today are any different then dating problems decades ago the reason people are struggling to find relationships is due to this widespread belief that 2nd/3rd/4th chances is a sin men in the 1930s multidated, broke up with a girl, and then years later came back to said girl and she forgave him. now obv there's times you SHOULDNT give additional chances. but i browse the datingoverthirty sub and there's so many studies of "i went on 3 dates with a guy. he g…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 06:52 PM
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i wonder if this texas abortions law is going to change the dating scene... most men are already sexless i wonder if this will cause MORE men to be sexless. women need to be even picker now for having sex
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 09:17 PM
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im not sure what pill this is but anytime a guy ghost, if a girl just acts chill and it doesnt bother her (like sending closure texts) just literally never text the guy the second he ghosts you... within a few weeks/months guy always comes back. its really strange lol i dont want he phenomena is
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 07:21 PM
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Usually I'm arguing from their perspective. "You don't seem to enjoy who I am and what I do. We argue so much. Why do you want to be with someone you disagree with so much? I think you can do better for yourself." And then they cry and deny all our problems. Anything for it to stay afloat. omg i had this happen to me too! im female btw.. but the guy i was seeing wanted to have sex ALL the time ( i have a low libido) plus we were fighting a lot.. only dated a month. so i told him he deserves to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 06:54 PM
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because i block them?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 01:34 AM
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im in seattle too!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 09:25 PM
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got rid of him so i can actually follow FDS correctly
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/20 12:47 AM
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what should i include?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/20 12:36 AM
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wow, this sounds like my ex. i'm 25 he is 35. i always wanted to wait until marriage but thought it was "lame." so i've slept with 3 people and hated it... it's not me... i tried sleeping with him and it sucked. he kept begging me to try sex was so important to him. he thought my catholic education had ruined my sex life... reality was i just dont like being pressured into sex. now im taking a break from dating until i find a guy who wants to wait on my terms or he can leave. im not that much in…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 12:10 AM
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good point, i've always felt guilty for enjoying pleasure down there.. and that's why i feel its okay to please others and not myself... which i know is not a good mindset. you make a good argument something i need to think about
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 01:17 AM
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i've deleted OLD so i could heal but the 35M i met in real life hiking! but again he was agnostic.. last year when i met the catholic BF he said put on his profile catholic so thats why we connected. we went to church together but he was super hardcore right which i didnt like. he wanted me to not take birth control and have lots of kids + be submissive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 01:11 AM
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the tech company i have, has a referal program for therapist. so i just signed up! i will find out tomorrow who i get, i put female so hoping i can get a feminist. ​ but good point for being a magnet for men who will abuse me. i never fully healed from my past. i have been wanting to see a priest. maybe i can go to confession!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 01:03 AM
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i agree with this. i dont watch porn and i wouldnt want my partner to watch it either
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/20 08:41 PM
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hey man im in the PNW, women and hike haha are you on the WA hikers and climbers facebook page?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 11:26 PM
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i agree with this. i posted earlier above about a breakup i had yesterday agree with this. yesterday i broke up with my 35M bf ( i am 25). he wanted me to "prioritize" him since i have hobbies almost everyday of the week. we would hike all day saturday, but that wasn't enough for him. he also wanted me to sleepover once during the week, but i am not into sleepovers plus we were only together for 2 months... i thought it was too soon to start rearranging my schedule for these things. he also want…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 04:39 PM
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agreed! everything is SO political. it's crazy! i never considered myself "religious" i was raised catholic and still attend church. i pray also 2-3 times a day and have some religious stuff in my house. i never wanted to date catholic guys as they are VERY traditional and wanted me to give up my job, have lots of babies, and be submissive. I'm 25 and not ready to have kids anytime soon. Living in the west coast, just saying i pray is enough to get me YOU'RE RELIGOUS OMG DONT YOU BELIVE IN SCIEN…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 06:20 AM
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there are punishments... it's called kids and STDs lol oh and sure we could just "abort" the kid, that also comes with internal punishment.. guilt oh and what about birth control?! yay to have the casual sex i want i have to inject hormones in me.. super fun! ​ casual sex is not as big as you think it is... trust me dude
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 10:51 PM
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correct. logistically i understand it's impossible to get married at 6 months... but if you know you aren't in love.. no use in continuing. that's how people get into these long 5 year relationship with no marriage in sight (where one person has goals of getting married)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 10:49 PM
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was PPD disagreeable in the past?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 10:03 PM
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what is automod?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 07:49 PM
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yeah thats what i did too... he's 35... I am 25... he wants to marry tomorrow and wants sex to validated him smh very sad. also i did tell him early on im LL. but i guess he didn't believe me haha
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 01:05 AM
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haha! you know what's said, we hadn't had sex in 2 weeks because WE GOT IN A FIGHT!! i invited him over to my place one night for dinner. i was planning on having sex with him but during dinner i told him i don't feel ready to fly over across the country to meet his mom in December. he FLIPPED out! told me i have to compromise even though it's my dad's birthday in December and we are planning things WAY too far in advance so he stormed out of my house that night... no sex. so when he started bla…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 12:57 AM
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lets go back to the dead bedroom- one day he straight up says i need sex, you need to sleep with me fights aside lets look at this he knows 1) i love watching reality TV 2) i love going for walks at my park, or kayaking on a lake he owns a kayak but chooses to just sit at home after work while im walking AND refuses to watch my reality TV. To fix the dead bedroom instead of saying I NEED SEX, why not try to romance me? if he starts going out to the park, or he says "lets watch reality tv at my p…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 12:46 AM
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i think TRP is a guide for how to help attraction in a relationship. I think her name is Ethel Peral (something like that) anyway she talks about eroticism in a relationship. I think people need to study this more. It's not attractive being a door mat to any gender and being 100% BLUNT is also not attractive. for example, a guy i dated didn't like that i wasn't sleeping with him. i know people are going to say CHAD but it wasn't that, after 2 weeks of dating he wanted to add a photo of us on fac…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 12:34 AM
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Male. Arriving at the same conclusion. 17 partners. Five 2+ year relationships. Heart broken three times. In love once. I'm 145 lbs. 5'9". Known for my smile. Have been making $150k+ for last five years, over $100k+ for a decade in a pricey region. I want to be in love but I find women do not love like men do. you sound exactly like my current boyfriend lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 08:55 PM
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agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 08:43 PM
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i wouldnt mind sleeping with him again but now i cant because he played himself
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 08:30 PM
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i was okay with the hookup, im not sad that we didnt LTR or anything like that. i was just looking for answers as to why a guy lies about being exclusive, goes on a date with a chick (and posts about it), then comes back to me? most guys want someone they can fuck. i felt what he did was the opposite way of getting someone to have sex with you lol. so we hooked up twice, i leave, he can continue to date i guess. what was the point?? to get me to sleep with you? just for 2 times?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 08:14 PM
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ok fenizo94 you're right i'll take back everything i ever said about FDS im just a slut whore fuckbuddy with no value whatsoever i get it thank you for telling me the truth about myself.. now excuse me while i fuck more guys and continue to get pumped and dumped thank you :)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 08:11 PM
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oh no i believe him just trying to understand the logic of this
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 08:08 PM
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so here's my thinking- you already told a girl (me) that you are exclusively fucking. so now you have steady sex (which guys seem to want around here). but then i didn't send nudes so you go on a date and post about it. then you come back to said girl (me). if RP is about getting girls and sex. he already had a girl. i wanted to understand the logic behind this. does RP actually teach stuff like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 08:08 PM
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ok you're right i have no idea what else you want from me other then to tell you you are right
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 08:06 PM
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good point. if he was truly a hot dude with a bunch of girls, no need to send pictures. also i was thinking, he has other "plates" on his social media they would also see this picture. i thought rule number 1 of being a player was to never post pics of girls unless she's the girlfriend because you can limit your game. also explains why this photo didnt even show her face
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 08:05 PM
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ok well i hope he finds an LTR then to have sex with. clearly doesnt need me and therefore should never come back ever. not even today (which he did)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 08:02 PM
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agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 08:01 PM
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so my point of my post isn't to say "ive been played!" i knew going into this we were hooking up. but 2 things 1) he said we were exclusively fucking then 2) posts some weird picture about a possible date. what i wanted to know is if this is some sort of "game?" why do that and then text me about hooking up again? i didnt understand the logic and wanted to know if this is part of the RP. if he didnt post about the date then we would still be hooking up today
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 07:59 PM
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When I Say No, I Feel Guilty i'll check out the book thanks :)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 07:57 PM
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lol okay, does this make you feel better? do you want to hook up with me next?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 07:56 PM
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honestly thank you for that answer. it sounds like this trick would've worked better with a more experienced RP male.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 07:56 PM
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why are you giving him the benefit of the doubt? haha everyone is telling me to leave him except you!!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 07:50 PM
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we aren't hooking up again because he has another women now lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 07:50 PM
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hmm no. i am making this assumptions because said photo was posted at 11pm at night and usually if you're with a girl that late... things happen
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 07:49 PM
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i was ok with hooking up im not complaining about that. my problem is 1) he said we were exclusively fucking then 2) takes some weird photo of a girl (not including her face) on his social media last night knowing i would see it. then texts me as if everything is fine. i am trying to understand the logic here??? dont say we are exclusively fucking if we arent lol and then dont act like everything is fine after posting a pic with a girl. my question is WHAT IS THE POINT of his actions? does RP te…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 07:48 PM
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hmm good point so he wasnt RP then just a bad player ha
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 07:46 PM
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no it wasnt lol im not really losing anything at this point it was fun while it lasted haha
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 07:45 PM
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i mean i guess? well then if this is the case he should never reach out to me ever again lol. don't come back 3 months later because you have no one to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 07:44 PM
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yeah im annoyed that he literally told me we would be exclusive fuckbuddies then goes on a date with another women and POSTS about it knowing im on his facebook. i dont understand the logic at all with this
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 07:43 PM
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how do men recycle though if women walk away? i walked away so he just lost one person on the rotation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 07:42 PM
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why shouldn't i give up? he posted he was at a bar with some girl last night lol clearly doesnt want/need me anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 07:41 PM
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hahaha that made me laugh. yeah i thought it was a bit strange to post about his random date on facebook and hide the girl's face
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 07:40 PM
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pumped and dumped? he came back and wanted to hookup again lol how is that pumped and dumped?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 07:40 PM
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i am 25. well he told me we would exclusively fuck each other so that's why im a little taken aback with the date. but it's because i didn't give in and send him the nudes he wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 07:38 PM
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well i think he lied, he wanted to have sex without a condom and told me i am the only girl he is hooking up with and talking too. he also said this for nudes that I'm the only one. obv he was just saying that so i would give in to nudes. we still used a condom because... STDs make me nervous lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 07:37 PM
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yeah im not happy he chose other women, but I am moving on. i thought it was flattering that he tried to keep me on rotation but im dencling the offer lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 07:36 PM
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haha for real, but yes after that comment i blocked him he can use onlyfans if he wants too
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 07:15 PM
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i know FDS works!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 07:15 PM
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hahah does that turn you on too? i never took the photos. i told him if he wanted those things that we would need to be in a relationship... but like you said why deal with real women so he turned it down
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 08:37 PM
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well he gets off on being "dominant" isnt that a psychopath?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 08:34 PM
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yeah i agree i dont see the appeal, he gets turned on by dominance
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 08:33 PM
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he must've had some success to be so confident that i would send these pics
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 08:33 PM
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yeah i was only seeing him. i doubt he can say the same. i think he was lying lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 08:32 PM
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haha! honestly.. that makes complete sense. he can't give in to what i want.. even though its to have sex with him again lol thanks for the clarification
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 07:24 PM
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haha if that was the case, he wouldn't have ended things with me for not sending photos. he texted me "if you can't send me what i want this isn't going to work out" ... weird
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 07:19 PM
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i def respect this. i wish more guys did this then mind games. i posted earlier about a guy i was seeing who was trying to manipulate me into sending him nudes. After we fucked he told me i was the only girl he was seeing and would only fuck... yeah right i wasn't born yesterday. because of this, everyday he would text me asking for weird ass photos, peeing on myself, my asshole, panties. etc. i kept telling him why don't we just have sex again in person? always an excuse but then we would keep …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 06:44 PM
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i agree with this. story time... there was a guy i met while hiking. he is an EMT and ex-army, i wouldn't call him a Chad he was 5'7 and 180lbs. Also I am 25 and he is 38 with a kid. but anyway he told me he was into BDSM and the whole dominance thing. I told him i would be okay with trying it. so he came over to my apartment and we had sex BDSM style. it was okay a little scary since he wanted to hurt me at times but i told him my boundaries. afterward he tells me he "owns" me and now we are ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 06:38 PM
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i would not recommend this dynamic AT ALL. my aunt did this with her husband. She was a director of a cruise line but struggled to find a good man. She already had one divorce ( no kids though). Her clock was ticking and she needed to find some dude for kids. So she married a drug- addict car mechanic. Had 2 kids with this guy. He loses his job at one point and never wanted to become employed. This lead him to develop an opioid addiction. Since he had no job/no money obv he was using HER money. …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 06:08 PM
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i dont have sex unless we date for 3 months
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 04:30 PM
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lol no
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 04:29 PM
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wut dude i literally have dated a dude with a kid, 38 , and 5'7 im 25... like please stop with that im dating above nonsense. i literally have not. and what am i supposed to do if these guys come back? give them a chance? no thx. they leave me and it feels good when they come crawling back sorry not sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 04:29 PM
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im 25F, and i literally was seeing a 38M, 180lbs, 5'7 with a kid... btw i have no kids that guy aint a chad
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 01:44 AM
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but then these men want you to call them daddy in the bedroom..... oh boy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 08:49 PM
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I just wanted to see if he actually pulled in women what is his n count
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 08:18 PM
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I agree. I really doubt he picks up many girls from this... he is 38 with a kid
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 07:42 PM
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even tho he is a good looking it didnt work for me, he was DEMANDING daily panite photos and to chose what i wear but i said no because thats really weird. and i kept asking him if other girls have agreed to do this for him but he wouldnt answer
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 07:30 PM
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hah well maybe since I "figured" him out he thought I would be into it? he wanted to assign me tasks and be my first anal but not date me... weird
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 07:29 PM
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hah yeah if he just got to know me maybe i'd be open to it but he went 0 to 100
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 06:25 PM
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he was ex military, i def thought that was strange and kept saying ummm maybe we should get to know each other first lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 06:25 PM
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yeah there is a 13 year gap, hes had relationship in the past i wonder if his girlfriends were into this
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 06:24 PM
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hahaha! that is funny, he said i have to send photos first before i get the free pantie :( if i didnt have to send photos i would've considered it!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 05:32 PM
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why is that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 05:31 PM
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dude he literally asked that!! wanted to cum in my face, try anal, toys the whole 9 yards, he said is in on FET? not sure if thats a porn website why are men into that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 05:30 PM
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exactly everyone is here telling me im actually ugly and poor lol okay thank you for telling me the truth, men are always right
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 03:30 PM
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should I send you my paystub? I also was given a 20k sign on and 80k in stock with my company
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 03:29 PM
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wow that does make a lot of sense, when the 5s saw they could date a "10" they ditched me to chase more 10s only to find out they couldn't get one and came back to me
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 03:29 PM
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I am who I am
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 03:28 PM
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I didn't know girls can ski in florida or any place that isn't near a mountain! wow im so average and im homeless :(
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 02:32 AM
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I can cook really well. I love cooking and have my own recipe book
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 02:31 AM
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okay then they shouldnt have left or come back. either leave and stay that way, i hate men who think they can do better, leave then crawl their sorry ass back to a girl. pick a lane and stay there.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 12:26 AM
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yup even tho my N count is 1
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 12:21 AM
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but then they came back
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 12:17 AM
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nope these guys were 5'7
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 10:59 PM
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ok next time i will include the photo of my scale
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 10:59 PM
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aw man thanks! i have been dating men in their 30s and i do think that's better. they seem more ready to settle down
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 06:50 PM
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that is actually a good point. i never thought about it like that. but yes you are right the world is way too overpopulated and on top of it we have dating sites for any country. you can be in america dating someone in europe now
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 06:50 PM
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wait what... men want a 5'5 110 lb girl?? my doctor says i am extremely healthy i am very muscular i did track in college
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 06:47 PM
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lol okay im a 5/10 then
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 06:45 PM
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well I am not going to take a lesser job to please a man. I need money, its not something I talk about. but when I mention where I work, they say where I live, they see my hobbies... I think they can put the 2 and 2 together
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 06:02 PM
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men do this too though
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 01:03 AM
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for me, it's hard to know if my guy is still into me. yes he takes me out on dates but sometimes i don't feel.. important enough? i am def trying to work on this and i dont know if its from all my women friends always bashing on men saying men dont do enough. where do i draw the line? for example on sunday, i had dinner plans with my boyfriend. we have been together for 8 months. he had gotten back from mexcio and wanted to watch soccer with his brother + friend. he asked to move out dinner from…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 12:15 AM
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fiddler on the roof is my favorite muscial!!
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