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| 3 | How much of a disadvantage is MALE PATTERN BALDING at a young age?It can be a big one, i myself started losing my hair at 17. I just owned it, I shaved it all off and grew a goatee and I bulked up on muscle. Whatever you do, do not try to do some combover shit, nothing looks worse than that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/21 02:56 AM |
| 19 | Why are most men never taught how to attract women?I grew up with all girls and my dad wasn’t around much. All I was told was “be yourself” or “looks aren’t everything” It took years of trial and error and advice from successful male friends to learn anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/21 05:42 PM |
| 2 | What do you think the worst part of being the opposite gender is?Not too late, you may not be a master any time soon but you can still learn the basics to protect yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 02:03 PM |
| 2 | What do you think the worst part of being the opposite gender is?Yup, how rare is it you see a fit guy with a fat girl? Its relatively common however to see a fit girl with a fat guy. Also it’s easier for men to pull off the fat look if they have muscle giving them more of a husky appearance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 02:01 PM |
| 4 | What do you think the worst part of being the opposite gender is?Yeah I definitely don’t envy that, makes me appreciate my mom even more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 01:56 AM |
| 3 | What do you think the worst part of being the opposite gender is?If you want brute strength you got to do heavy weights. Low reps at a high weight for mass and strength. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 01:10 AM |
| 4 | What do you think the worst part of being the opposite gender is?Well the good thing is, unlike height, you can change your physical fitness. Lift heavy and eat protein. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/21 07:57 PM |
| 4 | What do you think the worst part of being the opposite gender is?On the other side I can’t imagine just not having anything there, it freaks me out to think about. It’d be interesting to hear someone whose gotten a sex change take on this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/21 07:42 PM |
| 23 | What do you think the worst part of being the opposite gender is?-Childbirth (I hug my Y chromosome every time I see a childbirth scene on TV) -Periods Body image, fat women definitely get shamed more than fat men. Lower physical strength (I’m huge into weightlifting and strongman so physical strength is a big part of who I am. I wouldn’t be as strong as I am now if I was a female) Less able to fend off male attacker without weapon or martial arts experience. More likely to be raped. Those are the big ones for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/21 07:32 PM |
| 8 | Q4M: Would you date a woman who is taller than you?I like tall women, I’d have no problem dating one taller than me. Whether it’s one inch or seven inches taller doesn’t bother me. Only downside is you may have trouble carrying her bridal style which I’m a sucker for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/21 03:09 PM |
| 1 | Is the main stream really encouraging women to wait until their late 30s to have children?The issue with having kids late that doesn’t get talked about is that people see their parents grow old and die at a young age. I was 23 when my mom died at 64, my dad is 70, old enough to be my grandpa. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 11:17 PM |
| 24 | For those of you who are in LTRs and cohabitating, why haven't you married yet?Frankly if you aren’t religious or Dont have/planning on having kids I see no point to getting married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/21 03:56 PM |
| 5 | How common is pumping and dumping in dating? Have you ever experienced it.This is more common among teens and young adults I feel. When you’re young and inexperienced you will overlook just about every red flag and believe whatever they say in the high of a relationship. I know a lot of girls who were shy and hopeless romantics that gave it up for their first bf only for him to dump them the next day. This hardly happens anymore as you get older since people are more adept at avoiding these kind of people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/21 03:34 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All] Just how successful are your close friends in dating/romance?26 M. Slayed throughout high school and late teens. Girl he was with was smoking hot but hasn’t been with anyone since he was 19. He always tells me the girl he was with was the one who got away. Sad cause I can tell he never really moved on from her. 27 M. Guy gets girls in bed easily, has fucked over 30 women since he is heavily into the party/club scene. Threesomes, BDSM, drug fueled fuck sessions you name it. He is the typical bad boy. Has never had a romantic relationship though, only ONS. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/21 03:14 PM |
| 2 | Why are men over 6 ft so rare if they are desired the most?I guess it’s cause height correlates to power and strength. Being taller than everyone else in a room gives you a commanding presence, a trait women find attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/21 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Attractive women play "hard to get" at first to quickly filter out weak-willed menPlaying hard to get quickly becomes hard to want. Honestly I don’t know any grown adult woman who pulls that crap, that is stuff teenage girls do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/21 10:49 PM |
| 3 | Is ANY contact with an ex unacceptable?My opinion on ex’s is this. If you still contact them, you either never loved them that much in the first place or you still do. I tried to do the stay friends thing with my ex and only ended up hurting me in the end when she found someone else. Obviously if there are kids involved or a joint business those are the exceptions but I find it best to accept an ex was a part of your life and to move on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/21 10:47 PM |
| 5 | Your opinion regarding male pattern hair loss at a young age...I’m 26, my hair started receding at 17, I now have a fully shaved chrome dome. I’ve been told I look good with the shaved head by many, I have the right facial structure and head shape to pull it off. Unfortunately that is not the case for a lot of those who lose their hair so I know I lucked out. However anything is better than trying to cover it up with a shitty combover. For those out there looking to improve their looks with a bald head, grow a goatee and bulk up on muscle. Having a buff bod… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/21 10:39 PM |
| 1 | As the average American woman is 171lbs @ 5ft4 is wanting a slim girlfriend under 140lbs now considered "high standards?"Assuming you live in America, most us are fat fucks. Can’t speak for other countries though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/21 05:29 PM |
| 8 | What is the mindset of women in their late thirties or older wanting to have kids?My mom had me at 41, I’m 26 now and I’m as strong as a bull. I do have ADD and alcoholism but those are more genetic I believe than being due to later birth. A big downside of having kids late that isn’t talked out is that when I was only 23, my mom had already passed away at 64 from cancer and my dad is now in his 70s, almost old enough to be my grandpa. You see your parents grow old and die when you are still very young and dependent on them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/21 09:56 AM |
| 8 | What is the mindset of women in their late thirties or older wanting to have kids?Oh Christ when I read that first sentence I thought you meant she was euthanized 😱. Glad she is healthy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/21 09:54 AM |
| 1 | CMV: People nowadays are unhappy in their marriages because they have unrealistic expectations.Especially in small towns I bet that is the norm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/21 09:31 AM |
| 2 | CMV: People nowadays are unhappy in their marriages because they have unrealistic expectations.Settling in terms of accepting Prince Charming doesn’t exist Is reasonable. I’m talking couples that were over 30 and single and just got married cause they were running out of time to have kids without actually being really into each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/21 09:13 PM |
| 23 | CMV: People nowadays are unhappy in their marriages because they have unrealistic expectations.I wouldn’t say past marriages were more successful, divorce was a lot more frowned upon in those days, especially if you were a divorced woman. That being said, I feel the issue is too many people settle for their partners out of fear of being alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/21 03:31 PM |
| 1 | What's the average body count for men and women?Most of my friends are in the 0-8 range. The women tend to have higher body counts than the men do. The highest I personally know of is a former friend (woman) that had a count of 60(100+ if including just oral/manual/make out) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/21 09:34 AM |
| 7 | Surely the bad boy has to be good looking?Remember as a teen/young adult everyone thought the guy who got into fights, smoked, and got black out drunk all the time was cool? It’s like that. Rebellion and danger are exciting to young people, that’s why the bad boys stand out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 09:54 AM |
| 10 | Surely the bad boy has to be good looking?Most women will find a bad boy attractive from 14-25ish. Most of the girls I know who dated a bad boy only did so once and learned from their mistakes. The ones who continued to go after men like that are now single mothers or emotionally unstable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 06:21 AM |
| 1 | How much do you value the non-sexual/romantic aspects of your life? How much *should* you value them?If you make pussy/dick the sole arbiter of your happiness you are gonna be in for a rough ride. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/21 06:13 AM |
| 1 | Why do you REALLY hate sexually promiscuous women?Okay I can admit that wasn’t a good comparison so let me explain my view. For me, promiscuous people have a more causal view of sex whereas I view it as more intimate. That’s a big incompatibility right off the bat. That doesn’t mean I look down on them but I don’t see how we could be a good match. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/21 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Why do you REALLY hate sexually promiscuous women?I don’t hate them, I just prefer not to date them. Same reason some women don’t want to date me cause I’m bald, they don’t hate me, they just prefer a full head of hair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/21 05:05 PM |
| 1 | How has losing weight impacted your dating life?I was the classic fat kid growing up, glasses, couldn’t keep up in gym class, butt of all the jokes, etc. At 14 I began working out and within a year I went from a flabby blob to toned rock hard muscle. I felt much more confident with myself and it was amazing to not be embarrassed to take my shirt off at the pool for the first time in my life. I found women would constantly be touching my arm and complimenting my physical strength. Losing weight is awesome, especially when you gain it all back … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/21 03:08 AM |
| 3 | Dating in our 20s.I feel back in the day there weren’t as many options so people found someone relatively quicker. Think about it, there were no dating apps or social media, the closest thing you would have would be a “single ladies” night or something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/21 03:04 AM |
| 1 | Are late bloomers basically screwed?Ah Damn you caught me! Well pack it up everyone, it’s been fun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/21 02:58 AM |
| 1 | Do you believe that women are sexually attracted to status?How so? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/21 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe that women are sexually attracted to status?To me the most alpha intimating and respect earning people are older combat vets. Fear the old man in a profession where men die young. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/21 12:55 AM |
| 1 | Do you believe that women are sexually attracted to status?I wouldn’t even say money though that would be the case for some, There is something alluring about a man who commands complete respect and fear to those around him, that kind of status where people fear your wrath yet respect your resolve is a kind of power money can’t buy. That is alpha status right there. (Think the battle hardened army captain or a leader of a warrior tribe) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/21 11:24 PM |
| 2 | How much about successful relationships comes down to luck?Luck and chance play a big role, Both my sisters met their husbands at bars, had they decided not to go out that night or go to a different my nieces and nephews wouldn’t exist and I would never know my BIL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/21 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Are women naturally more attracted to men who are "naturally successful" vs men who can only succeed with significant effort?I always felt someone who worked their ass off against the odds and achieved something to be much more respectable and admirable than someone who got it naturally with little to no effort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/21 03:46 AM |
| 2 | "Women are more mature" as a trope can mostly be explained by different experiences during puberty?It was nuts too, in a year I got so much stronger and sturdier that I couldn’t believe it. It felt amazing to not be embarrassed to take my shirt off at the pool for the first time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/21 09:55 PM |
| 3 | "Women are more mature" as a trope can mostly be explained by different experiences during puberty?When I was 14 I saw a HUGE change in my body, I went from a chubby flabby kid with a cracking voice to a testosterone fueled muscle head yet I was still the dumb obnoxious kid I was before. Physical maturity is not the same as mental maturity. I have heard theories that the more testosterone a man has, the less able he is to pay attention and focus. This makes sense cause many hairy meatheads I know (think the typical dumb jock) tend to have ADD more than the more, effeminate ones (think the scr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/21 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Describe your ultimate ideal LTR partner. Who is this person that will truly make you happy? Other commenters, do you find these standards realistic?physically, red hair with bangs, pale skin with a dust of freckles, height is irrelevant to me, curvy and healthy. Personality wise, - Intelligent and open minded to have though provoking discussion - nerdy, likes anime and sci-fi - Active to go hiking, swimming, etc - Good sense of humor (one of the biggest for me) able the laugh at anything and not take offense easily - quirky and energetic Other - Makes as much as me in terms of money - College degree doesn’t matter to me as along as we can h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/21 04:13 PM |
| 23 | Question about divorce ratesIf you’ve been divorced twice or more at that point i would just stuck with boyfriend/girlfriend status. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/21 03:07 AM |
| 2 | Taking biological sexual attraction to its natural end, will a certain percentage of men always be inherently undesirable?It’s a harsh truth of life that the more attractive you are, the easier run you will have. I think plastic surgery shouldn’t be so stigmatized, if you truly are repulsively ugly than there’s nothing wrong with wanting to fix that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/21 01:48 AM |
| 0 | Was the sexual revolution a mistake?Nothing changed with the sexual revolution, just that women’s promiscuity wasn’t as looked down upon. You’re a knucklehead if you think people weren’t hoeing around in the past like degenerate red light district hookers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/21 01:44 AM |
| 1 | Would you be a stepdad?I wouldn’t for the following, Kid will always come first before me (as it should) Potential baby daddy drama Twice the work for half the reward. I wouldn’t be able to really love the kid like a dad if he isn’t mine, I’d be more of a uncle. I’m young and still have my pick of child free women If wife didn’t want anymore kids, she’d be sharing a bond with another man that she’ll never share with me. Ladies if you are with a good man who isn’t the bio dad of your kids you better be treating him lik… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/21 01:40 AM |
| 8 | Who told you looks are irrelevant?I don’t know why people feel the need to say “you’re fine the way your are” when you are trying to naturally better yourself. I can understand if it’s something as extreme as plastic surgery though even then I can understand if you truly are naturally ugly and it’s the only way to improve your dating success. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/21 05:06 PM |
| 24 | Who told you looks are irrelevant?This is a good answer, I fell into Nice Guy syndrome from 14-21 from observing this stuff. Nothing worse than hearing the girl you were crushing on always say “I just want someone to treat me right” only to continue going for guys not good for her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/21 05:00 PM |
| 4 | Who told you looks are irrelevant?I wasn’t told directly looks are irrelevant but I was fed “personality is what really matters” and my young mind took that as “personality always trumps looks” meaning even if I was a loser fat kid with dorky glasses, I could still get a girl if I was nice. Aside from dear old mummy, my older sisters and just about every woman in my life growing up (which was a lot, my family is mostly women including family friends, the men all seem to die early.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/21 04:34 PM |
| 13 | If all men struggling with dating were to turn gay, most would have their dating problems vanish, doesn’t that suggest dating is hard cause of women ?I have, by far, been hit on and asked to fuck by more gay men than women. If I was gay I would be drowning in dick. Literally every gay man I have ever met (old and young, buff macho to skinny effeminate) has hit on me. Gay men tend to be more up front and the gay guys who flirted with me straight up said they thought I was hot and wanted to suck me off. While I had to respectfully decline, I was flattered by the compliments. (Gay guys are the best wing men) Idk what it is but something about me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/21 08:11 PM |
| 4 | Have you ever been bullied by the opposite sex?I feel girls will feel they can get away with bullying men due to the “boys can’t hit girls” stigma. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/21 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on the Old Joke: "If men got pregnant, there'd be an abortion clinic one every corner."I think abortions should be mandatory (or at least required sterilization, less messy that way) too many people that suck as parents that should not be reproducing and contaminating the gene pool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/21 06:50 PM |
| 1 | What type of men cheat on their wives? Have you ever met a man like this? How was he?Doctors, Just about every doctor I’ve ever met has a history of unfaithfulness Probably any other high income as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/21 06:47 PM |
| 2 | How protective do women prefer their bfs to be in public? Is it attractive if they're rude to other people in favor of you?Not a girl but when my oldest sister was dating her husband (then boyfriend) about a decade back they were at a bar in New Orleans and someone groped my sister so her future husband (who is 6’4) grabbed the guy by the collar and threw him into the wall. My sister at the time loved that he stepped in like that though now as matured married adults she wouldn’t like it all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/21 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Are younger people objectively the most attractive?Not per say, I would say it’s easier to maintain attractiveness in your youth than later years. Your 20s are when weight comes and stays off the easiest, it’s when muscles max out the best and when skin is at its best. After this, you need to work harder to maintain it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/21 05:39 PM |
| 3 | Do you believe you owe it to your partner to stay attractive?Nah, I’ve decided to just own it. Honestly it’s been so long since I did have hair I wouldn’t want to deal the extra maintenance that comes with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/21 05:22 PM |
| 19 | Do you believe you owe it to your partner to stay attractive?I made that point in my question, you can’t control age but you can control your weight. I’m balding, it sucks but I can’t control it. I shaved off what was left of my hair and if a woman finds it unattractive? Oh well, I’ll find someone who likes shaved heads. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/21 07:20 AM |
| 19 | Do you believe you owe it to your partner to stay attractive?BuT tHaTs So ShAlLoW ! I think people delude themselves too much. When I was dating a girl I always worked out to maintain a muscular figure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/21 07:20 AM |
| 1 | If you want someone to settle with and be secure with, why not look for that person as early as possible?That’s what I’ve been trying to do but different factors (constantly moving from work, dangerous line of work, COVID lockdowns) have made it pretty difficult to find someone for the long term. Even if I did manage to find someone I’d have a rough time due my relative inexperience with LTRs. For my friends who like to sleep around, they all say they need to “get it out of their systems” whatever that means. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/21 05:59 AM |
| 7 | Question for everyone: if you could get rid of your sex drive without damaging your body or motivation in any way, would you?I usually don’t feel strong sexual desire unless I really like the girl. Sure I’ll see a hot stranger walk by and I’ll be like “dayum” but that’s about it. So nah, I’ll keep it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/21 06:43 PM |
| 9 | How am I supposed to keep being hopeful after so many failed relationships?Oh boy, RIP your inbox for all the incoming White Knights. I’m guessing you’re young, young people tend to date shitty people because they don’t have the life experience and maturity to pick up on red flags. Next time you meet a guy, look how he talks and acts to strangers when he thinks you’re not looking. That will show who he really is and if he’s a narcissistic asshole like the first ex. Look how he respects your physical space, if he is too aggressive and touchy feely after you say no, he’s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/21 06:26 AM |
| 2 | At what point do most men view their relationships with women as more important than the sex?I’ve always wanted to be in an relationship more than getting sex. My search hasn’t been two fruitful (1 failed LTR to date) but I’m hopeful one day I’ll find another one. Honestly though, women are the same in that aspect. A lot of girls i went to college with focused on getting dicked down as much as possible and didn’t even fancy the idea of a relationship at the time. This idea that all women seek commitment more than sex is nonsense. Sure there are some who genuinely want to commit at an ea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/21 05:03 AM |
| 0 | Why is it acceptable for men to age but if a woman does we’re considered unattractive?Men can usually pull of wrinkles and grey hair better than women. I’m a straight man but I always found the more rugged 35 year old men much more manly and handsome than a 20 year skinny pretty boi. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/21 04:48 AM |
| 2 | incels, n-counts, and assholesLmao I read that to the tune of “do you wanna build a snowman?” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/21 04:40 AM |
| 1 | I am a Chad (Tyrone) AMASorry, our service only goes to Chadlites, Chads, and GigaChads, Yer shit outta luck ! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/21 04:26 AM |
| 1 | I am a Chad (Tyrone) AMAHave you reached out about your cars extended warranty? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/21 04:24 AM |
| 3 | Neckbeard vs IncelThe mystical Neckbeard fedora grants +100 intelligence and +50 charisma, i believe he has the win here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 09:22 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Which body type do you prefer?I figured we could all use something fun and lighthearted after many heated debates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 09:24 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Which body type do you prefer?Yeah I got similar criticism on the one I posted for women, i didn’t post enough body type examples. But there are so many different body types out there I narrowed it down to the most basic ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 09:09 AM |
| 3 | Q4M: Which body type do you prefer?Well that’s your personal preference but I would take a thicc and curvy 170 pound woman over a skeletal 100 pound any day of the week. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 09:03 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Which body type do you prefer?Dr Chad! How do I chase the Billy Betas away? I respect that though, I know there are many body types out there and the four I presented don’t appeal to everyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 09:01 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: Which body type do you prefer?I know right?! I refuse to believe she is a product of genes, it took the hands of the Allmighty Himself to construct a body as perfect as hers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 08:59 AM |
| 1 | In society’s eyes, nothing validates women like a baby and that’s why there’s hostility towards single women.I can respect women who don’t want to have their own kids, Earth is overpopulated as it is and there are many orphans waiting to be adopted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 08:56 AM |
| 1 | How is muscularity an indicator of genetic fitness?So for me I’ve always respected physical strength. I may be biased since I’m big into lifting myself but when a stranger is lifting a PR heavy weight I can’t help but get pumped and cheer them on. To me, even though I’m a straight man, I find muscular strong men very pleasing to look at. Genetics DO matter to an extent, I guarantee no matter how much Michael Cera lifts he will never be as big or strong as Eddie Hall, i know those are extreme ends of the spectrum but you get my point. Evolutionar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 08:54 AM |
| 4 | Q4M: Which body type do you prefer?Well she’s 47 or 48 now but close enough. Sure she has lost youthful skin but I still think she is angel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 08:49 AM |
| 3 | Q4M: Which body type do you prefer?I love Thicc chubby woman personally, Ashley Graham is one of the most gorgeous women to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 08:47 AM |
| 4 | Q4M: Which body type do you prefer?Hell shes almost 50 now and she’s still a damn knockout. It’s a shame she hasn’t gotten more roles. Aside from her looks and body, she’s a pretty good actress. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 08:36 AM |
| 3 | Q4M: Which body type do you prefer?They are damn perfection though aren’t they? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 08:29 AM |
| 5 | Q4M: Which body type do you prefer?I included Melissa McCarthy cause there are men out there who love BBWs. Ashley is chubby, Melissa would be more fat, a lot of guys I know love fat women. Also keep in mind, there are the body TYPES men are most attracted to, not the person themselves though I admit I’m guilty of simping for Ashley and Christina in my comments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 08:28 AM |
| 3 | Q4M: Which body type do you prefer?Christina is all natural, which is why she’s quite the specimen. Salma Hayek is another beauty for sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 08:26 AM |
| 5 | Q4M: Which body type do you prefer?It’s not just her boobs for me, her face is so perfect too. I’m a sucker for pale redheads. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 08:23 AM |
| 3 | Q4M: Which body type do you prefer?All good brotha, I’ll take the taller, meatier, and thicker women over here! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 08:17 AM |
| 3 | Q4M: Which body type do you prefer?Omg she is literal feminine perfection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 08:17 AM |
| 5 | Q4M: Which body type do you prefer?Fair enough, I think Ashley is drop dead hot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 08:07 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Which body type do you prefer?Fair enough, I think Ashley is beautiful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 08:05 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: Which body type do you prefer?She is pretty but Ashley and especially Christina make me weak in the knees. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 08:03 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: Which body do you prefer?Eddie Hall is the tallest of the choices I believe, he is 6’3 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 07:32 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Which body do you prefer?What is your type? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 07:31 AM |
| 3 | Q4W: Which body do you prefer?Finally some love for the strongman bod lol. Everyone so far picked 2. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/20 09:47 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Which body do you prefer?Which one do you prefer? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/20 09:35 AM |
| 6 | If women don’t like nice guys or find them to be “boring”, does that mean it’s over for genuine nice guys?Find me any woman over the age of 25 that likes to date “assholes” Any one who still does I guarantee has mental issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/20 09:34 AM |
| 3 | Is society too obsessed with sex?College age is when a lot people are at their most attractive since they don’t take care of themselves as they age. This combined with freedom from parents leads to a crazy rebel phase. That and college has gone from a place for education to a business of partying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/20 09:24 AM |
| 11 | Is society too obsessed with sex?Negative Virgins, especially Virgin men, are the literal punching bag of society. The way society says it, “if you are a man and not fucking a chick you are a loser” I believe this has led to the rise of hateful incels. Even those who are celibate by choice due to religion or other personal beliefs are ridiculed as prudes or repressive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/20 09:01 AM |
| 11 | If women don’t like nice guys or find them to be “boring”, does that mean it’s over for genuine nice guys?A word of advice from a former “nice guy” Don’t fall into this line of thinking, it’s very bad for your mental health. You need to learn the line between being nice and being a doormat. You can be assertive and confident without being an asshole. What I learned was that being kind and courteous is an expected behavior, you can’t rely solely on that to attract someone romantically. You need to have other attributes that make you attractive. Most women seek the “bad boys” and “assholes” when they … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/20 08:56 AM |
| 11 | Is society too obsessed with sex?Sex is definitely put on a pedestal for sure, especially ONS and hookups. But it also a critical part of feeling human. I’d say it’s important but it’s hardly worth bragging about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/20 08:46 AM |
| 6 | Gallup Poll Dec 2020 - Is Marriage Becoming Irrelevant?If you’re planning on having a kid, a happy and stable married life is the best environment for a kid to grow up in I believe. Then again I’m not a child psychiatrist so I may be wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/20 07:19 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: What is it about a “dad bod” that you find attractive?Put it this way, she’s definitely gonna need a C section. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/20 06:58 AM |
| 3 | Is it fair to say most women wouldn't have swiped right on or hooked up with their husbands?That’s the spirit! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/20 06:55 AM |
| 7 | Is it fair to say most women wouldn't have swiped right on or hooked up with their husbands?I know right? You should go invent it, it’d be a money maker for sure! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/20 06:53 AM |
| 3 | Q4W: What is it about a “dad bod” that you find attractive?Watching Thor do anything with his wife is like watching a dad play with his daughter cause she is so damn small compared to him lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/20 05:13 AM |
| 3 | "Sex is a need", "Sexlessness is growing" etc: what do you want us to do with this information?I’d say make prostitution legal I guess, But that might not help either, part of what makes sex so good is knowing that person finds you attractive enough that they want to get naked and have sex you. You can’t get the same feeling from a prostitute who is only going cause you paid her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/20 05:12 AM |
| 15 | Is it fair to say most women wouldn't have swiped right on or hooked up with their husbands?Definitely kids play a role, you can’t do chandelier swinging bed breaking sex when you have a six year old who can come into your room at anytime to see mom and dad “wrestling” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/20 04:58 AM |
| 3 | Q4W: What is it about a “dad bod” that you find attractive?Brian is a giant, (6’8) so his near 400 mass is more spread out and doesn’t look as clunky or stiff as Eddie who is almost half a foot shorter and more compact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/20 04:53 AM |
| 3 | Under what conditions would you consider dating a divorcee?So you’re saying I’m insecure cause I won’t date someone almost a decade younger than me that is barely an adult? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/20 04:48 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: What is it about a “dad bod” that you find attractive?Brian Shaw is a precious gift that must be protected at all costs. He is the nicest and most humble guy. (Though i imagine he has to be, can you imagine the motherfucka getting angry and coming at you?) Strongmen tend to be the kindest and gentlest of people. Every clip I’ve watched of WSM, when a guys loses an event he always starts cheering for the other one still going. There is two types of fat for guys, weak fat (which is the super soft jiggly and flabby body) and strong fat (solid muscle u… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/20 04:23 AM |
| 2 | Under what conditions would you consider dating a divorcee?Idk, eighteen year olds look like children to me. I’d rather date a 28 year old. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/20 03:29 AM |
| 3 | Women Should Be Expected To Be "Fuckzoned" When They Have A Promiscuous PastWere are all these women at? Lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/20 03:21 AM |
| 4 | Women Should Be Expected To Be "Fuckzoned" When They Have A Promiscuous PastQuick! Call Chad ! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/20 03:19 AM |
| 8 | Women Should Be Expected To Be "Fuckzoned" When They Have A Promiscuous PastBout to say, it’s usually guys who were promiscuous themselves or guys who are just happy to finally have a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/20 03:19 AM |
| 5 | Women Should Be Expected To Be "Fuckzoned" When They Have A Promiscuous PastI think it’s safe to say that someone who has a very promiscuous past won’t be taken seriously for anything more than a hook up or shirt fling. This does happen to men as well. I’ve seen posts on her about formerly promiscuous men who can’t find a woman to LTR them because she can’t see him as a serious choice due to his past. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/20 03:09 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: What is it about a “dad bod” that you find attractive?https://newspakistan.tv/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/arnold-1.jpg This photo of an older Arnold is what I believe a dad bod is. You can see he still has a muscular figure but has lost a lot of the mass and tone due to age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/20 02:13 AM |
| 11 | What do people think of using RP strategies for marriage and LTRs?I was always under the impression TRP was for success in casual dating and hookups. In fact, if I’m mistaken, RP men don’t want to get married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/20 01:28 AM |
| 1 | Women being fat is the cause of our relationship troubles todayI may be in the minority here but a chubbier woman with a little bit of stomach makes me weak in the knees. Idk why but I just find very hot. https://image.shutterstock.com/image-photo/woman-swimwear-sea-overweight-young-260nw-293069183.jpg Something like that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/20 01:05 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: What is it about a “dad bod” that you find attractive?It can look weird if they are short. Brain Shaw is 6’8 so his body is more stretched. Eddie Hall is 6’3 which while still tall, isn’t tall enough to stretch out his massive muscles and the result is looking very stiff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/20 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: What is it about a “dad bod” that you find attractive?Leo has a handsome face but his body has never been something worth recognition. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/20 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: What is it about a “dad bod” that you find attractive?Those guys eat 10,000 calories a day just to maintain their size. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/20 11:51 PM |
| 5 | Q4W: What is it about a “dad bod” that you find attractive?I always thought it referred to the body middle aged dads tend to have. Beer gut, bald spot, and generally flabby. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/20 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: What is it about a “dad bod” that you find attractive?Yeah, some girls I’ve talked said guys with huge muscles like that scare them more than anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/20 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: What is it about a “dad bod” that you find attractive?So would you say you’re more into a body like Kevin James or something more muscular yet chubby like Eddie Hall? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/20 11:37 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: What is it about a “dad bod” that you find attractive?Look up his world record deadlift, he pulled 1102 pounds and instead of dropping it once he made it, he held it for a few moments just to show the world that he IS the strongest despite bursting the blood vessels in his head. He is the Chad above all Chads. The man is truly deserving of his nickname, The Beast. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/20 11:30 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: What is it about a “dad bod” that you find attractive?That’s what I hear from a lot of girls with bigger guys, it’s like a big warm fluffy teddy bear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/20 11:13 PM |
| 4 | Q4W: What is it about a “dad bod” that you find attractive?If you look at the strongest men on earth, (Eddie Hall, Brian Shaw, Hafthor Björnsson) those guys have guts and arent ripped but have strength 3 times greater than the average man. Eddie hall is chubby but can deadlift 1100 pounds. It’s takes the perfect genetic combo to be both big AND ripped. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/20 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Under what conditions would you consider dating a divorcee?No kids is a big one for me. I won’t date a single parent. Depends on reason for divorce, if it was infidelity/abuse on the woman’s part I wouldn’t come within a mile of her. Those are the two biggest dealbreakers for me if dating a divorcee | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/20 09:41 PM |
| 2 | Do The People Who Struggle Getting Sexual Intimacy Also Struggle with Getting Platonic Affection?I think I was just too shy and nervous to make a serious move when I was younger. I had some serious insecurities growing up cause I was bullied as a kid for being fat so even when I was in lean shape, I still had the mindset I was too fat for any girl to ever like me holding me back. Ironic cause I’m overweight again thought I have a muscular figure this time and I don’t even think about that when talking to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/20 08:49 PM |
| 3 | Do The People Who Struggle Getting Sexual Intimacy Also Struggle with Getting Platonic Affection?Well when I was younger I was a “nice guy” so the way I talked to girls would be the way a friend would, I thought they way to do it was be friends with them first and then evolve the to girlfriend. This didn’t work cause then girl would then think you weren’t interested in pursuing a relationship. A good example of this was a girl whom I liked and she liked me back too. We talked back and forth for months and I was always complimenting, supporting, etc. One day I see she is in a relationship wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/20 08:43 PM |
| 8 | Do The People Who Struggle Getting Sexual Intimacy Also Struggle with Getting Platonic Affection?I actually feel the guys who struggle the most with getting sexual intimacy are the ones who are really good with getting platonic friendships, especially if the have a lot of girl friends cause they have the niceness and social skill to get along well with people but lack the assertiveness to take it any further. Source: I am one of those people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/20 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Older PPD, what’s better about being older?That is true, WSM Nick Best is 50 and can still lift triple what the average man can. When I am 90 I intend to be the buff old man that steals everyone’s granny in the nursing home. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/20 05:36 AM |
| 14 | It seems like so many guys' frustrations, insecurities, problems would've been addressed if they locked in a relationship early. What stopped you from achieving this and what would you do differently if you were younger?True, I can be considered “beta” and it wasn’t till I was 24 I really learned how to talk to girls in a way to attract them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/20 11:18 PM |
| 12 | It seems like so many guys' frustrations, insecurities, problems would've been addressed if they locked in a relationship early. What stopped you from achieving this and what would you do differently if you were younger?I was a too much of a doormat and “nice guy” as a teen. I had zero confidence and was terrified to ask a girl out. Ironic cause looking back, I was very good looking when I still had hair and I had a lean muscular figure. I did have one relationship in my late teens that ended for many reasons but the over arching one was simply we weren’t a good match and were too blinded by the butterflies to really see it, it stung for a good long time since it was my first but I’ve come to peace with it. If … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/20 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Older PPD, what’s better about being older?So far the only real downside I see to getting old is your body starting to crap out. I’ll admit the idea that one day I wont be able to run or lift heavy weights like I can in my 20s makes me sad lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/20 11:03 PM |
| 2 | Older PPD, what’s better about being older?Yeah I’m still pretty young and everyone is always telling me I’m still young and have plenty of time to do stuff. I know one day I’ll reach an age where time has simply run out and my days are shortly numbered. Best you can do is go without regrets and do what you can that makes you fulfilled. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/20 11:01 PM |
| 4 | Women seem capable of admitting negative traits. Are men?Not all nice guys are assholes like that. Some really are just naive as fuck but don’t lash out when rejected. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/20 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Based off of inherent, sexually dimorphic characteristics, men are designed to brunt the force of nature head-on, and women are designed to invest their resources into them to allow them to do this as effectively as possible, that the whole species may achieve victory together.It’s basic biology, men have more testosterone than women, testosterone is what gives you strong muscles and bones. A woman may be stronger than the average man if she lifts but the strongest woman will never be stronger than the strongest man. Women are much better caretakers for children, women have estrogen, estrogen gives you breasts. in the ancient world, there was no baby milk formula so any baby that was being raised by a man who lacked breasts and the ensuing breast milk was fucked. In a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/20 07:28 PM |
| 3 | Men who care about women's n-count have very low self confidenceOr some people are religious or conservative in their views in sex and a high n count would show incompatibility of views? I agree though you shouldn’t shit on someone if they slept around. There’s nothing wrong with having preferences but there’s no need to be a dick about it. Outside of religious/conservative people, the only people who would want a Virgin are people who missed out on their youth and want to experience the magic of being someone’s first or something like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/20 06:46 PM |
| 9 | Has being on PPD made you change your mind on anything related to gender dynamics or the opposite sex?Sexual history does matter quite a bit to good amount of people, even those who are high n count themselves. it is unwise to wait till you’re 30 to start dating. Avoid single parents when dating if you are child free. people are much more shallow than I previously would have thought. Chad is my sworn enemy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/20 05:33 PM |
| 3 | Women seem capable of admitting negative traits. Are men?I just think it would be too awkward to date a girl my friend used to date/fuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/20 04:43 PM |
| 7 | Women seem capable of admitting negative traits. Are men?Hes got a point though, young men will look at someone who is having success and will mimic that behavior to have success themselves. The ones with success are usually the “assholes” as they are known | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/20 03:41 PM |
| 7 | Men aiming for marriage should avoid women with high N counts. How to recognise them?Watch how they act when drunk, that is when people are at their sluttiest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/20 03:38 PM |
| 32 | Women seem capable of admitting negative traits. Are men?Same thing I posted in the other one, I’m a male. Men will do literally anything for Pussy, that includes lying, manipulating, assault, some are even willing to kill/die if you look at history. And that’s not just humans, males of all species compete and fight to the death to clap some cheeks. Men view sex as a conquest and whoever fucks a girl first is the best (oh you’re dating so and so? Well I hit if first, you’re getting my sloppy seconds) Have seen a girls ex start shit with the current bf… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/20 12:55 PM |
| 4 | What’s the optimum N count for a man in an LTR with a virgin woman?I consider anything below 5 low. 6-10 would be average. Anything over 10 would be too much for that situation I think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/20 11:33 AM |
| 6 | Older PPD, what’s better about being older?RIP your inbox Glad to see your still killin it! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/20 12:52 AM |
| 5 | Men seem capable of admitting negative traits of their sex. Are women?As a man, some of the negative things I see men do, Men will literally do anything for Pussy, no joke, some men are willing to get killed for pussy. They will fight and attack other men for so much as talking to a girl they like. My brother in law was jumped and beat up by two brothers all because he was flirting with a girl the attacker liked. Bragging about hitting it first in regards to another man’s SO. I’ve seen this happen when a girls ex or old hookup will straight up say to her current b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/20 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Playing too hard to get is a sign of narcissism.Playing hard to get turns very quickly into hard to want. Though I don’t know any adult woman who pulls this crap, it’s mostly teens and college students. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/20 08:24 PM |
| 8 | CMV: Almost all women can find a good man as long as they're open-mindedA question I always ask myself if a single mother was expressing interest in me is this, Would she still have picked me if she didn’t have kids? Would she still have picked me if she didn’t have a kid she had to care for and could still have her pick of the crop? Or is she only picking me cause she needs a babysitter and second income? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 06:49 PM |
| 2 | About n count, is it ethically the same a high number in women than in men? (Genuine curiosity)Ethically N count isn’t wrong per say if it there was no cheating, lying, or rape involved. But people have different preferences, I view sex as something intimate so I wouldn’t want to date someone who doesn’t view it the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Women who live a promiscuous lifestyle before settling down are doing nothing wrong – *except* for adamantly believing that their promiscuity doesn't matter.“ I respect sluts and I wish I could be like them. They're brave and uninhibited. Instead, I'm too insecure and too sensitive and too traumatized to enjoy my life freely.” I think you’re putting sluts on a pedestal here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 09:18 AM |
| 6 | Women who live a promiscuous lifestyle before settling down are doing nothing wrong – *except* for adamantly believing that their promiscuity doesn't matter.There is a difference between trying something and hating it and never wanting to do it again and loving it with an ex but then suddenly not wanting to do it with current SO. I believe that was pointed out in my initial comment and the ensuing ones. How would you feel if you found out your bf (im assuming you’re a woman) genuinely loved going down on his ex girlfriends for their pleasure but now doesn’t do it with you because he doesn’t feel he has to despite you wanting him to? That wouldn’t ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 09:06 AM |
| 19 | Double standard experience.That’s a big one, from what I’ve seen many times is when a guy cheats he is a pig/asshole but when a girl cheats she was “finding herself” or was a victim of neglect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 09:02 AM |
| 3 | Double standard experience.If you go up to a woman in public and slap her ass or grope her I can guarantee almost 100% of the time you are going to get reprimanded from something as simple as people screaming at you to as severe as getting arrested. That ain’t gonna happen most of the time if the genders are reversed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 08:59 AM |
| 10 | Double standard experience.Just look at any male Virgin, even if it’s by choice due to religion or personal belief they are literally the punching bag of society for jokes. And people expect women to refrain from any sexual thing and then suddenly turn into super slut just for their husband after refraining and repressing for decades? it most likely ain’t gonna happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 08:43 AM |
| 4 | Double standard experience.My sister mentioned that, when her husband went for his vasectomy there were no protestors or anything but if she went to get her tubes tied or for birth control she gets pounced on by radicals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 08:37 AM |
| 4 | Double standard experience.Well I’ll be honest, I felt no sense of danger, this girl was a thin 5’2 and 100 pound soaking wet at the most whereas I am 5’11 280 Ibs with a muscular/husky build. I appreciate your take though, it pissed me off because I knew the second I raised my hand in self defense or retaliation you can be damned sure I would have been tackled to the ground by other patrons and spent the night in jail. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 08:29 AM |
| 0 | Incel AMA 3: The IncelingThanks for the AMA I have two questions, Have you ever hated women for your situation? If so, how did you fix it? With you being a self identified incel, is it sex or Loving intimacy incels crave? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 08:15 AM |
| 2 | Double standard experience.Fair enough, how about the other example? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 08:08 AM |
| 3 | Double standard experience.How could he? You really think anyone would have done anything but laugh at him? If a woman who had been sexually assaulted was asked if she communicated she didn’t like it, there would be nationwide media attention and outrage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 08:04 AM |
| 14 | Double standard experience.Holy shit this. In the reverse scenario the man would have been been jailed and demonized for life. Men get sexually assaulted/raped all the time but are told “enjoy the fact you got some” or “man up” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 07:53 AM |
| 4 | Double standard experience.I know that, I’m asking for an example the following, Why can men sleep around and be a stud but a woman is a slut for doing the same thing. Why can women abuse men and get away with it but men are vilified for abusing women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 07:49 AM |
| 2 | Double standard experience.I grew up and still live in America, just about every single generation fought in a massive war. This created an environment of tough macho men who raised their kids to be the same way. My grandpa fought in Korea and was fucked up from it, he was not a nice person when he came back, he drank a lot and didn’t get the help he needed from enduring all the fucked up shit he had to see and do, my dad was raised in this environment and then passed it on to me cause he thought that’s how boys should be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 07:45 AM |
| 2 | Double standard experience.Would you care to explain? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 07:38 AM |
| 6 | Double standard experience.Oh yeah, just look at the Amber Heard/Johnny Depp case. Sure a woman might not be able to do much damage hitting a man due to their physiology but it’s about intent. My opinion has always been that if someone puts their hands on you with malicious intent to harm, that’s on them what happens next in terms of retaliation and self defense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 07:37 AM |
| 2 | Double standard experience.For your first point, That is true, my sisters are teaching their sons it’s okay to cry. And no, I don’t really see a need to tbh, when something has been hammered into you for so long it becomes a default setting that you don’t see an issue with. I’m 25, idk if it was the area I grew up in but when I was a kid and teen, I had many people telling me to man up if I was crying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 07:34 AM |
| 2 | Double standard experience.Oh fuck yeah, I don’t think people fully realize how dangerous it is to be severely overweight. It’s almost as bad for you as smoking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 07:27 AM |
| 5 | Double standard experience.True but you have to admit it’s bullshit that a woman can hit/abuse a man with almost no consequences whereas if the situations were reversed the guy would get fucking crucified. Or that a man can sleep around and be praised like a demigod but if a woman does the same thing she’s a disgusting slut with daddy issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 07:22 AM |
| 5 | Double standard experience.She Hulk smash! It goes both ways though, men are brutally ripped into if they cry or show sadness, even if it’s for a serious reason like a death. (Look at funerals, most men won’t even show a blink of emotion) Men are told growing up that crying is for pussies and that we should man up when confronted with a distressing situation. This has led to some negative affects for me as I cannot cry now, the only time I can really cry is if I’m alone and I’ve been drinking, it’s almost as if my body wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 07:15 AM |
| 9 | Women who live a promiscuous lifestyle before settling down are doing nothing wrong – *except* for adamantly believing that their promiscuity doesn't matter.I can see that, if someone was passed over during the hookup years I can imagine they’d feel pretty envious of their partner if they got to indulge in what they never could. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 07:07 AM |
| 20 | Women who live a promiscuous lifestyle before settling down are doing nothing wrong – *except* for adamantly believing that their promiscuity doesn't matter.Not as often as reddit would have you think but I’d say it’s a fairly common experience. Marriage is always shown in a negative light for men for that reason. I feel this happens when a woman settles for someone she isn’t really attracted to or even love that much for that matter but her bio clock is ticking and she wants to have kids before it’s too late. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 07:06 AM |
| 3 | Double standard experience.Yeah that’s what I was getting at with my comment but I misread it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 06:58 AM |
| 9 | Double standard experience.I misread the comment but it’s still a sound point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 06:55 AM |
| 15 | Double standard experience.You can’t change your height or dick size, whatever was pre determined by your genes is what you are stuck with. You can change your weight with diet and exercise within six months. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 06:52 AM |
| 11 | Guys need to make the case for why it’s beneficial for women to follow the male imperative in accordance to sex and romantic relationshipsA good majority of the world isn’t even aware these kinds of things exist. (The pills, AF/BB, hypergamy, Chad, etc) All this was new to me up until two months ago. With that being said I think it’s as simple as those who don’t know about the pill world (which is probably 90% of the population) just go about their lives without even thinking of this stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 05:36 AM |
| 1 | Would people still settle down if attractiveness and fertility lasted longer?I was thinking of including that but I feel no matter how much you increase or decrease a natural lifespan, it’s all relative. Dogs only live for 10-15 years but from their perspective that is a lifetime compared to for us who view it as a decade. Or a sea turtle that lives for 200 years, to them a human lifetime is only a third of their life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 05:05 AM |
| 59 | Women who live a promiscuous lifestyle before settling down are doing nothing wrong – *except* for adamantly believing that their promiscuity doesn't matter.Im willing to be a lot of guys who care about the number wouldn’t care about the number at all if she was giving seizure inducing, eye rolling climaxes, engaging in chandelier swinging, bed frame breaking, primal fucks, basically culminating all her experience for his pleasure. Where a lot of guys get ticked off is when said girl only does vanilla missionary or doesn’t give blowjobs cause she’s “not that kind of girl anymore” despite loving it with guys from the past. I’ll admit if I was in a si… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 04:52 AM |
| 1 | [CMV] Is being settled for really that bad? So what if she wouldn't have dates you in her 20s? She's wants to date you now.Not really. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/20 09:16 PM |
| 1 | [CMV] Is being settled for really that bad? So what if she wouldn't have dates you in her 20s? She's wants to date you now.You remember when you were a kid and in gym class they’d assign two team captains to pick their teams? You ever get picked last cause no one really wanted you on their team but they had to because they had no choice? Not a good feeling, that’s what getting settled for feels like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/20 08:20 PM |
| 3 | Men of the purp, do you believe you need a significant other to survive?Not to survive, I enjoy my life, got a good job I enjoy, good friends, my own place. I’m in a good chunk of student debt but I have the income to have it all paid off over the next 5-6 years. I’m living it pretty well I’d say. But I do find myself lonely at times and think it would be nice to have someone to come home to, especially when I see over social media everyone getting engaged or expecting a child. I do feel slight envy when I see couples doing things together but I don’t make having an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/20 06:56 AM |
| 4 | Would people still settle down if attractiveness and fertility lasted longer?Wouldn’t it just get boring after a while? Sure fucking a new person every week would be fun for a while but I doubt after five years, let alone three decades it would still be preferable to wanting a serious partner to build a life with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/20 06:54 AM |
| 1 | The reason why men view women who engaged in meaningless sex in a negative light is because the men placed them on an undeserved pedastalI really didn’t want to comment cause it was at 69 comments exactly. Oh well 😔 I think it’s cause the standards of an LTR prospect are a bit higher than drunken horny hookup. After all, you will fuck her more times as her boyfriend than the guy who was a ONS who only got to do it once. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/20 06:47 AM |
| 3 | "Men in real life don't care about N count because I rarely get asked about it" - why this logic is very flawedIsn’t that a bit hypocritical how the successful guys you know that slept around now reject a woman for having the same past as him? That seems pretty BS ngl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/20 02:46 AM |
| 1 | I never understood the double standard about promiscuity.Then you’d fall under traditional which is in the first category. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/20 06:59 PM |
| 14 | I don’t think most people compare past partners to their current partners all that much.Assuming and actually knowing are two very different things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/20 06:35 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of couples which the woman is taller and/or stronger than her man and why there is a stigma against it?I’ve seen couples where the girl has a few inches on the guy, biggest height difference I was was six inches. Yeah people made comments but they guys never gave a fuck what other people thought. I feel you on the tall woman attraction, I wouldn’t mind dating a woman taller than me but they are rare (I’m 5’11) and the ones that are over 6’0 usually go after the guys that are taller than 6’2 I don’t think I’ve ever seen one where the guy was shorter AND physically weaker. I think a lot of men woul… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/20 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Reverse post: what makes you think that women are into a-holes?Talk to him about it then, let him know it’s something you’d like. When guys are young we are constantly being told conflicting info on how to attract women. It’s either “treat her like a queen and make her feel like one of kind” or “be a dick and let her know you have options if she doesn’t put out. ”. Some guys take a while to learn the balance between pushover and asshole and while they are figuring that out, men look at what works for the majority and will the mimic that behavior for success… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/20 10:12 AM |
| 9 | I never understood the double standard about promiscuity.People who have issues with n count fall under the following. Religious or traditional people that view sex as something reserved for marriage or LTR. Hypocrites who want to have their cake and eat it too. People who missed out on the hooking up and casual sex years and are bitter about it. 1 is the most understandable and reasonable, these people don’t date those who partake in casual sex but also don’t partake in it themselves, they hold themselves to the standards that have on others. 2 is fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/20 09:55 AM |
| 6 | Feel like I’ve pissed away my 20s doing long distanceThat is fucking funny, I’m gonna use that lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/20 09:34 AM |
| 3 | Feel like I’ve pissed away my 20s doing long distanceI haven’t had a gf since 2014, haven’t so much as kissed a girl since 2016. I’m 25 for reference. I just haven’t been in a good position, I don’t like engaging in ONS (tried it once and hated it) and my job has me moving too much to really have an LTR. While I would like to have a girl and miss the intimacy I don’t let it dampen my life. You’re not a loser for this, there are many guys out here who would kill for what you have. You do you though, if you truly are unhappy then you shouldn’t tie y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/20 09:26 AM |
| 5 | How much is the rhetoric about 'out of control' female promiscuity just another moral panic or has basis in reality?You asked if promiscuity was a moral panic or had basis in reality, I gave you my stance on that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/20 09:21 AM |
| 8 | How much is the rhetoric about 'out of control' female promiscuity just another moral panic or has basis in reality?Promiscuity In of itself isn’t bad but is a pretty good indicator for potential future behavior. Nearly all promiscuous people I have know personally has been unfaithful at some point, legit I think only two of the dozens I’ve met have been able to stay faithful. Past behavior hardly stays in the past. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/20 02:16 AM |
| 1 | If a woman is single, but has sexual desire and is not able to get into a satisfying relationship, what do you think she should do?They can do what they want but they also need to accept it may rule out future LTR prospects. If I had a nickel for every time I’ve seen a story about someone complaining they were rejected for their high n count and vice versa. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/20 09:04 PM |
| 2 | Ideal body count for ltr/ marriage material women?Between 0-5 because that’s my own. I’d be willing to overlook a little higher if I really liked her but anything over 10 shows an incompatibility in regards to sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/20 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Do you think attractive guys get rejected as well?Everybody gets rejected at least once at some point. Though attractive people without a doubt get rejected less I’m sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/20 09:53 AM |
| 2 | Women overestimate men’s attraction to thin female fashion models, study findsYou nailed it! 26 is the absolute universal deal dealbreaker, sorry ladies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/20 09:29 AM |
| 3 | Women are so starved of actual masculine men that men can be assholesThis all started with the most recent post I made I’m pretty sure lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/20 09:25 AM |
| 2 | Are beauty standards worse and weirder in the present? For both men and women?There are a lot of options now, online dating has only increased those options tenfold. With this many options, how can someone choose? I can say this right now if I ever heard my wife say she settled for me and was wondering what was out there that was better I would divorce her worthless ass on the spot. I only favor cosmetic surgery if you legit are ugly and the surgery will drastically improve your dating/sex life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/20 12:25 AM |
| -1 | Other than the bible there is no way to justify being anti choice/pro lifeOh abortion! This won’t get heated at all! People always have civil debates about this one. All joking aside I am pro life simply because I believe life begins at conception. I am also however a big advocate of sex Ed and birth control availability to avoid unwanted pregnancies in the first place. Now in cases of rape or danger to mothers life I certainly can understand and sympathize with the reasoning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/20 12:08 AM |
| 1 | Reverse post: what makes you think that women are into a-holes?He’s right I’m afraid, trying to win a woman over with sappy stuff like that is viewed as kind of pathetic and creepy. It shows you have no confidence in your looks or personality and need to rely on transactions for attention. I look back now and I can see that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/20 11:55 PM |
| 2 | Women overestimate men’s attraction to thin female fashion models, study findsA woman with some meat on her bones is hot. I always found women with a little belly on them hot. That being said though, there is a stark difference between being 10-25 pounds overweight and morbid obesity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/20 10:59 PM |
| 7 | Q4W: What’s your side of the story with the “women love assholes” thing?My sister has a friend who has always had a bad taste in men. She constantly dated the players and bad boys. Her first husband and father of her first child was a unemployed, drug using, abusive jailbird that she was crazy for. It wasn’t until her daughter was put at risk that she finally left him. Enter her current husband, this guy had loved for a long time and was constantly trying to win her over but he was always passed over for the other guy. He was always much more stable, he didn’t so dr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/20 10:24 PM |
| 2 | what would you do with your life if you had been born a woman?Same thing every man would do if they turned into a woman. Play with my boobs all day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/20 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Reverse post: what makes you think that women are into a-holes?There’s a time and place for it like an anniversary or Valentine’s Day but definitely not the way you should let a girl know you’re interested. Save that stuff for after you’re exclusive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/20 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Reverse post: what makes you think that women are into a-holes?Ouch lol, You’re right though, a lot of people saw it as being pathetic and desperate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/20 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Reverse post: what makes you think that women are into a-holes?Eh trust me, it was not well received, I got ripped into pretty bad for that by a lot of people. Not likely I’m ever gonna do it again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/20 08:10 PM |
| 4 | Reverse post: what makes you think that women are into a-holes?Well from my perspective as a man, When I was a teen I fell into the “nice guy” end of the spectrum. It was induced by several things, I grew up with all women, three sisters and my mom (dad wasn’t home much) both my grandfathers were dead and many cousins of mine were girls. From this I picked up from an early age that women wanted to be treated like a Disney princess and that personality mattered over everything else so I did some cringe shit like bringing flowers and writing poetry to girls I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/20 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Does porn affect the modern world dynamics between men and women and destroys the sexual development of kids and teens?Porn can also lead to insecurity in young men I feel. When I was a teen, I always was self conscious about my size cause guys in the video always had these horsecocks that were a footlong and would shoot out like a fire hydrant while causing a screaming, eye rolling, seizure inducing orgasm for the girl. I thought as a naive teen that that was how every guy was and I just got the shit end of the stick with genetics. Now that I’m older I know that is not real life by a LONG shot but it definitely… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/20 07:00 PM |
| 1 | How would a hypothetical world work, where everyone had to make a certain income in order to be eligible to date/ have childrenI think people shouldn’t have kids if both the mother and father are unable to commit financially and emotionally enough to give the kid at least a normal standard of living. Too many kids grow up hungry, in poverty, with abandonment issues, and abusive households due to being born to shitty people. That being said I don’t think the government should enforce that as a law but people should do it themselves. I don’t really give a damn about who dates who, people should be able to date who they wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/20 03:23 AM |
| 1 | [Q4All] How do you define being “pumped and dumped”?For me, pumped and dumped involves tricking the other the person with promises of commitment after sex and then bailing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/20 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Are women more likely than men to be victims of romance scams?I feel A lot of women of that age would have the wisdom and maturity to see a scam before falling for it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/20 09:19 AM |
| 1 | Men and Women. How long are you willing to wait for sex with someone you see as LTR potential?Ive always liked to move slow with intimacy, I wouldn’t mind waiting six to nine months for full on sex. Start off with handholding and kissing to making out to manual to oral and so on. This may be hypocritical of me because I did have a single drunken ONS in the past that I regret immensely but it showed me that casual and quick fucks are meaningless and empty to me. That being said I wouldn’t hold it against a girl to have me wait while putting out quicker in the past cause I’ve done the same… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/20 05:53 AM |
| 1 | Are women more likely than men to be victims of romance scams?I feel women would be inclined to find a partner due to wanting a child, especially when they reach their late 20s and 30s when the clock for childbearing is ticking. Sure you can adopt or have a sperm donor but I think a good amount of women would rather have a child with a man they love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/20 05:50 AM |
| 3 | Can a Chad be a Beta?Forgive me if I sound like a neckbeard here but how in the hell is being too nice bad in that case? The guy has looks and a good personality, that’s like striking gold on the first swing of your pickaxe and ignoring it to go dig for days somewhere else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/20 01:39 AM |
| 0 | Q4Women: You find out that your boyfriend treated his ex better than you. What do you do?Ive heard a woman’s sex drive peaks in their 30s though I can’t confirm if that is truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/20 12:58 AM |
| 11 | Q4Women: You find out that your boyfriend treated his ex better than you. What do you do?I’m assuming this is the reverse of girls being kinkier and more sexual with their ex than their current partner. You should treat each new partner better than the last, that’s how you grow. If you are treating newer partners less than previous ones then there is a problem there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/20 10:37 PM |
| 5 | Why would a young, virgin woman want to marry a man over 30 who is not even religious?The only people who can ever realistically pull off dating women over a decade younger are guys like Henry Cavill. Most men are not Henry Cavill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/20 10:34 PM |
| 4 | Why do men compare their heights to a womans weightIt’s not really fair to compre height to weight. Height is something you can’t change, unless there is a surgery I’m not aware of, the height your genes chose is the height you will remain. If you are short, there is nothing you can do about it. Weight can be controlled, if you are overweight, you can correct this by dieting and exercising. I personally love tall women and wouldn’t mind dating someone who had some inches on me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/20 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Nice guy (beta) vs. bad boy (Chad) is the wrong distinction. It's the exciting guy vs. the boring guy.I feel it’s due to age. When you’re young (14-24) people often are rebellious, especially teenagers. Those who defy authority and do risky stuff are seen as badass and alpha cause they aren’t afraid of consequences. However, what makes you cool as a teen makes you a loser as an adult. No one is going to think you’re cool if you’re 28 and skimping out on jobs and doing drugs. That said, I have seen many absolute dumbfuck women chase after men who are not good for them, even worse, some of them re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/20 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Are Uninteresting/Boring "Betas" Options' Limited to Single Mothers and Troubled-Past Women?The odds of finding a decently attractive and good woman who is a Virgin at age 30 is slim to none. I wouldn’t rule out someone who has a low n count. Those who have stayed virgins by the age are extremely religious and disciplined so unless you are compatible with that, i don’t recommend it. By 30 and up, most of the decent people will be off the dating market, it will be tough to meet someone who is attractive and LTR material that doesn’t have a failed marriage or kids under their belt (kids … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/20 09:17 PM |
| 2 | Honestly whats all the fuss about Body counts?I agree it is hypocritical with someone who has slept around refuses to see someone who has also slept around for that sole reason. That being said, people should date other people with similar n count. I made a post a few weeks back about unbalanced sexual histories and in almost every single comment involving a different n count relationship, there was insecurity and jealousy from the lower n partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/20 09:00 PM |
| 2 | CMV: The Wall Is due more to lifestyle than ageWhen I was a teen, I heard many girls say they hated eating in front of guys cause they didn’t want to look fat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/20 06:02 PM |
| 15 | The next generations will be filled with “assholes” in datingi think a big issue nice guys (Actual good men, not nice guys “tm”. I hate to use the term since it’s been demonized into referring to neckbeards and white knights) is that they are often unable to reconcile a girls past when they are at the age they are being pursued. Look at all the posts on this site about guys being upset or feeling like a safe option after discovering details of a woman’s past. They are usually the kind of guys who didn’t engage in casual sex or were more traditional in the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/20 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Men don't age like wine. They hit the wall at the same exact time women do.The only baldness cure I’m aware of hair follicle transplant in which they take hair follicles from the back of your head which stays thick and full and adds them to the thinning hair on top. Because this is a cosmetic surgery and not necessary for living it is not covered under insurance and I imagine it’s expensive as fuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/20 02:49 AM |
| 3 | Rural SMP is more forgiving.I live in a rural area, not a small time town but not a city (40,000 people) The trend in these parts is marry high school sweetheart, have kids, then divorce by 28. Just about every single woman I’ve met since I moved down here my age has a kid already. Likewise in the big cities people usually don’t start pumping out crotch goblins till 30 and up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/20 02:08 AM |
| 1 | Men don't age like wine. They hit the wall at the same exact time women do.Wrinkles, grey hair, rougher skin is usually more attractive on a man than a woman. Older rugged look is more masculine while younger and smoother is more feminine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/20 08:15 PM |
| 3 | CMV: The Wall Is due more to lifestyle than ageOmg the fucking Karen cut is so unattractive. Even on an attractive 22 year old woman It looks like shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/20 06:14 PM |
| 3 | CMV: The Wall Is due more to lifestyle than ageStaying fit is the best way to not only preserve your body but your mind as well as you get into your senior years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/20 06:09 PM |
| 6 | CMV: The Wall Is due more to lifestyle than ageOh yeah dude, being fat is almost as bad for you as smoking. I feel like a lot of people don’t fully realize this. Obesity takes a HUGE toll on your health, especially as you get older. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/20 06:05 PM |
| 11 | CMV: The Wall Is due more to lifestyle than ageI feel the lifestyle of working a desk job from 9-5 coupled with having kids and other responsibilities often keeps people from finding time to exercise or cook healthy meals plays a massive role as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/20 06:02 PM |
| 2 | CMV: The Wall Is due more to lifestyle than ageI’m balding at 25, I opted to just shave it all off instead of having the long wispy Sméagol hair. I was lucky in that I have the right shaped head and facial structure to pull it off very well so I actually look much better bald. Where I also make up for it is a buff figure, I do have a good amount of stomach fat I’m working to lose but a buff body can help make up for lack of hair. As for the perky breasts/butt on women, my ex had a very thin frame but I still couldn’t keep my hands off of her… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/20 05:53 PM |
| 3 | CMV: The Wall Is due more to lifestyle than ageWhitey does not age as good as other races, I can confirm that. The more pale your skin is, the more susceptible it is to UV damage from the sun which is why sunscreen in your younger years is critical to maintaining your looks later on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/20 05:42 PM |
| 5 | CMV: The Wall Is due more to lifestyle than ageFair point but I was referring to the Wall in terms of looks, not fertility. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/20 05:39 PM |
| 1 | How much truth is there to this statement?It’d be like gambling I guess, you score big once in a game of Poker and you get cocky that you can do it again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/20 05:31 PM |
| 2 | How much truth is there to this statement?There may be some truth to it, I’m a guy, I place myself at a 6 (could be a 7 if I lost weight) and if I got a 10 I’d probably get spoiled and think I could bag 10s all the time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/20 06:43 AM |
| 1 | Why not be a sex worker in this day and age?Tbh, I can see why people would do it , you charge $20 for a blowjob (which most guys will pay, especially if they aren’t getting any action) and give ten a day you’re looking at 200 bucks a day, 1400 a week, around 45-50 thousand a year which is an average income. That being said though, I’d say it without a doubt will damage your ability for find an LTR, very few people would be willing to overlook that aspect of someone’s past. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/20 12:25 AM |
| 3 | Are women in the west denied proper sexual education, restricted by gender stereotypes which then enables teen pregnancy? Are adults to blame for not taking female hornyess seriously?I can’t speak on female sex Ed given how I’m a male but given the amount of very young single moms (14-20) I’d say it’s not doing a very good job. Especially in very conservative homes who view sex as very sinful and dirty. In an era of so many contraceptives and legal abortion, there is no reason there should be so many pregnant teens. (Excluding rape) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/20 10:10 PM |
| 2 | What do you think of boys and men with soft and "feminine" features who can be mistaken by girls?When I was younger (14-22) I noticed a lot of the more feminine looking pretty boys were the slayers that got all the women. Most of the women I grew up with used to find muscles and facial har gross and now find a masculine appearance attractive as they grown older. Keep in mind I grew up in a more hipster and liberal area | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/20 09:56 PM |
| 6 | What do you think it causes a lot of women to feel attracted to extremely dangerous criminals?Criminals are often very charming and good manipulators. If they have looks to boot than this can be a dangerous combination. That’s how Ted Bundy lured a lot of his victims. It’s more of a fantasy than anything though, I doubt any woman now who says “oh Ted Bundy sooo hot! I would climb him like a tree!” Would ever actually come within a hundred feet of him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/20 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: what do you believe the idiomatic phrase "settle down" means>It can have several different meanings I think, Player/party girl that’s grown bored of casual hookups and getting drunk at nightclubs. the nomadic traveler that’s spent a decade or two traveling the world, never staying in place for more than a few months that decides to stay in one place now. The scientist who spent years on the field assisting in epidemic hot zones or working near dangerous volcanoes now wants to work from a more secure location. Basically, it’s when someone who has been livi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/20 06:37 PM |
| 1 | What exactly is pair bonding?Oh but where’s the fun in that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/20 08:39 AM |
| 3 | What exactly is pair bonding?But what it TWO Virgin peepees enter at the same time? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/20 04:26 AM |
| 1 | What exactly is pair bonding?So hoe is a synonym for whore and prostitute? You learn something new everyday. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/20 04:21 AM |
| 4 | What exactly is pair bonding?🤣 🤣🤣 i just spit out my drink | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/20 04:20 AM |
| 2 | What exactly is pair bonding?Pardon my asking but isn’t a hoe and a slut the same thing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/20 04:16 AM |
| 5 | What exactly is pair bonding?Yup lmao, that just be how it is. I can’t change who I am. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/20 04:14 AM |
| 7 | What exactly is pair bonding?Makes sense, I feel like the more people you have sex with, the less intimate it becomes. But I’m one of the “sex is special” kind of guys so that may not be a universal opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/20 03:27 AM |
| 1 | What exactly is pair bonding?That’s a good way to look at it, I’ve only ever had one gf when I was a teenager and I haven’t been with anyone since, just never met someone I really melded with. I do tend to have the young outlook on love still but I’m also more mature now, it’s a perfect balance. People I know who have been cycling through relationships rarely are able to stay longer than a few months and are jaded as fuck now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/20 03:10 AM |
| 2 | What exactly is pair bonding?“Lesbian sex with my cousin. “ Alabama? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/20 02:47 AM |
| 0 | What exactly is pair bonding?Short, simple, to the point. GigaChad approves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/20 02:40 AM |
| 25 | Why don't men wear heels too?Yup, look at any balding guy who wears a toupee to cover it up. They get mercilessly ridiculed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/20 11:58 PM |
| 1 | Why don't men wear heels too?Because all I can think of when I see high heels is how bad it must hurt rolling your ankle in them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/20 11:53 PM |
| 4 | Are women telling their truth when they say: “ I don’t care how much money a guy makes, as long as he can support himself “ ?As a guy I feel the same, it’s common sense. You need to be able to support yourself, if you are past 30 and you are not able to support yourself that is a red flag. Now granted if a girl is a doctor and making over six figures and the guy, while supporting himself, is barely clearing 30,000, there may be some issues there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/20 08:22 PM |
| 3 | What percentage of millennial men compared to boomer men will be childless?I believe I’m Gen Z, cutoff year for millennial was 1994, I was born in 95. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/20 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Which is more important, the effects of a high N count or the causes of a high N count?What kind of behavior did you notice in high n count? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/20 09:43 PM |
| 5 | What percentage of millennial men compared to boomer men will be childless?Almost all my friends have said they have no desire to ever have kids, we are all in our mid twenties. Hell I feel most kids born these days weren’t planned. That’s not a bad thing though, Earth is overpopulated so a lower birth rate would help take pressure off the planets resources. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/20 09:20 PM |
| 1 | Opinions on deadbeat dads?Ugh that makes my blood boil. This is one of the biggest reasons I’d never be a stepdad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/20 08:13 PM |
| 1 | CMV : High body count partners aren’t good for Long Term Relationships.Of all the promiscuous people I have known, only a handful were able to stay faithful to their LTR, people hardly ever change. That being said, high n count are just as whiney and entitled as low n/Virgin when it comes to dating. Example, when someone is rejected or dumped for the high n count they start yelling “my past is the past!” Or “why should my past matter?” Instead of just accepting that persons choice and moving on to find someone else. Your past will affect your future, no matter how … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/20 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Opinions on deadbeat dads?Being a stepdad sounds tough, I couldn’t do it, you have all the responsibilities but none of the authority. That being said some guys are happy with their wife and stepchild but that couldn’t be me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/20 04:40 AM |
| 2 | Opinions on deadbeat dads?My question is specifically referring to guys who knocked up a girl and the took off leaving her and the child to fend for themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/20 04:38 AM |
| 3 | Opinions on deadbeat dads?I’m aware cases like that exist, I was referring to guys who up and run for the hills upon pregnancy or birth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/20 02:10 AM |
| 7 | Opinions on deadbeat dads?Because the dad helped bring the kid into the world, why should be be absolved if everything if he is just as responsible as the mother for a kid? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/20 01:55 AM |
| 7 | Opinions on deadbeat dads?That’s why I’m asking, some of the comments on the post I mentioned seemed to me like praise for the deadbeat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/20 01:43 AM |
| 8 | Opinions on deadbeat dads?But the father is responsible as well for the child’s existence. Egg cells don’t self fertilize without sperm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/20 01:33 AM |
| 7 | Opinions on deadbeat dads?By some yes but there is a feeling I get from certain groups is that they idolize the deadbeat for getting laid and not having to deal with the repercussions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/20 01:30 AM |
| 1 | Hey guys share your thoughts about this perspective - Do you consider sex as merely a form of action or is it more than that? Can it be equated to activities like Dancing or Singing?People don’t like to imagine their SO being fucked by someone else. That doesn’t make you insecure or jealous, that makes your normal. Nobody wants to think about someone else having their hands and mouth all over their SO unless you got a kink for that kind of stuff. Sex is a lot more risky and intimate than dancing or singing since you can create a new human with it or spread an incurable virus. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/20 12:14 AM |
| 3 | Why is virginity shamed?I went to college with a guy like that, he’s from a catholic family and is waiting till marriage. Hes a blonde hair blue eyed Irish fella with a ripped build and chiseled face. He was academically very hard working and graduated as an officer in the USMC. He was about as alpha manly as they come and some guys who were less accomplished still used his Virgin status as a point to insult. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/20 11:59 PM |
| 3 | Young women are less likely to intend to use a condom with a more facially attractive male partner, and over 50% of non-virgin women report having intentionally employed a tactic (excluding other preventative birth control methods) to prevent/inhibit effective condom usageBreaking news: Woman lets man she finds attractive nut in her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/20 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Is there any research on if humans are evolutionary conditioned to be monogamous/polyamorous?In prehistoric times, I imagine Neanderthal Chad probably fathered children to multiple females like gorillas do while many males probably never reproduced. With the advent of civilization and modern history, people had to work together to survive and thrive. Monogamous marriage eventually became the best environment to raise a child in. Animal instincts may tell us to fuck as much as possible but a core point of being human is controlling that desire. Just because you want to fuck that person d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/20 09:52 PM |
| 5 | Which is more important, the effects of a high N count or the causes of a high N count?You were in an LTR which is different, you were at least having sex and had a serious partner. There a lot of guys who lack the attractiveness or charm to get hookups or gf and go without sex or dating till their late 20s and up when people mature and start to look at things beyond looks and short term qualities. By this time when many people are settling down, the late bloomer can’t help but feel resentful and jealous when his gf had so many wild and varied experiences and he only has her now. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/20 09:22 PM |
| 4 | Which is more important, the effects of a high N count or the causes of a high N count?People want to have their cake and eat it to. The reality is that your past can and will eliminate potential partners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/20 09:11 PM |
| 11 | Which is more important, the effects of a high N count or the causes of a high N count?It all depends on their reasoning regarding N count, People who care about N count generally fall into four categories, Religious/conservative people who abstain until marriage or until a committed LTR. To them a high n count would not be compatible with beliefs in regard to sex. To them, sex is a intimate and bondingl experience as opposed to someone who just views it as a casual activity. People who were passed over and ignored during the party/hookup years. These people will tend to be pretty… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/20 07:47 PM |
| 2 | [Q4All] Is one gender more likely to know their “league” in dating than the other?I know a girl who is currently engaged to her fiancé and boyfriend of seven years. They met when she was 18 and he was 21. To this day I have no idea how the hell she agreed to go out with him. At the time she was still young and she only dated the hot tall guys with abs and solid muscle and she was attractive enough to pull them in. This guy (her now fiancé) was tall but a good 400 pounds with noticeable thinning hair. He wasn’t a bad a guy but far from what a decently attractive 18 year old wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/20 03:58 AM |
| 0 | Why is virginity shamed?It might be that they are wealthy because they have few or no kids. Parasitic Crotch goblins are expensive after all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/20 03:30 AM |
| 1 | Why is virginity shamed?But you said you were excluded, does that mean you weren’t allowed in or kicked out solely on that fact? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/20 03:26 AM |
| 4 | Why is virginity shamed?Reputation spreads pretty quickly, especially if you are part of a larger social group. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/20 03:24 AM |
| 1 | Why is virginity shamed?That’s odd, most people lose their virginity from joining sorority/frat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/20 03:22 AM |
| 0 | Did you have high standards of physical attraction for a mate and then "settle" for someone you're not attracted to?Not a girl but I did post a question a few day’s back asking if anyone had seen or been apart of the AF/BB situation you describe in your question. From the responses I read the only times someone was involved in this situation were guys who lacked the experience to catch onto it or avoid it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/20 03:10 AM |
| 3 | Why is virginity shamed?You know you bring up a very good point, I’ve noticed the higher income bracket someone is, the less kids they tend to have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/20 02:46 AM |
| 5 | Why is virginity shamed?“ Are you a virgin? You have stated that you do not care about sex or do not know just how valuable sex is.” I’m willing to bet the majority, if not all virgins who are not celibate by choice care greatly about sex and if anything, over value it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/20 02:44 AM |
| 2 | Why is virginity shamed?Yeah that’s why I excluded anyone who is celibate by choice but even they get shit on sometimes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/20 02:42 AM |
| 3 | Why is virginity shamed?I suppose that makes sense but is that factor alone really enough to mark them as a loser if say, they have graduated college and gotten a good job in a competitive field? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/20 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Should guys trust their partners with gay guys ?No man who is fully gay (And I mean full on at the end of the spectrum gay, not bisexual) will ever have sex with a woman willingly. Just like how I’m fully straight and will never have sex with another man willingly. That being said, Cheaters are gonna cheat no matter the circumstances, you can’t stop it, nor can you really predict it most of them time. That’s why Trust is a fragile thing that is almost impossible to regain, you have no real guarantee that person will stay loyal other than thei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/20 07:13 AM |
| 1 | Do you have friends from the opposite sex? What's the experience like?I have a very old friend who is a girl, our moms were best friends growing up. Yes, it gave me insight to the female world. Without a female friend you only get it from family or relationships. It did get awkward when we were teenagers,(raging hormones, curiosity, etc) we never did anything but we did have many lustful thoughts towards each other but it was just that, a thought. We are still in touch though we don’t hang out much by virtue of the fact I now live seven states away from where I gr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/20 05:41 AM |
| 1 | Have you witnessed or been in a AF/BB scenario.You’re spot on with the daddy issues, every single woman I know who was extremely promiscuous, unfaithful, generally just out of control didn’t have their father present in their life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/20 09:32 PM |
| 5 | Are women who cold approach men low value?I never minded a woman cold approaching me, it never goes anywhere but I appreciate the confidence and effort. I never viewed them as low value solely based on that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/20 05:46 AM |
| 3 | What do women think of men with long hair?True, I tried the long hair look and I looked like Sméagol I pull the shaved head off much better, it all depends on your face and head structure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/20 05:45 AM |
| 2 | [Q4All]What are Your Thoughts on the “Old” Man/ “Old” Woman in the Club?I agree, I’d rather go to bars, last time I went to club the bouncer refused to let me in cause I was wearing shorts while the girl in front of me legit had her ass cheeks hanging out her dress and she got in no problem, I then had to walk almost a mile to the nearest thrift store and get a pair of sweatpants that were three sizes too big for and then walk back with the sweatpants to get in. Not a pleasant experience at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/20 05:22 AM |
| 3 | Have you witnessed or been in a AF/BB scenario.Daddy’s Home with Will Ferrell and Mark Wahlberg is a shining example of this. Will plays a the stepdad who is humble and kind but average looking and not dominating or assertive while Mark plays the bio dad is muscular, suave, attractive, and as alpha as you can get. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/20 04:44 AM |
| 3 | Have you witnessed or been in a AF/BB scenario.According to red pill, stepdads are the ultimate beta bux. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/20 04:43 AM |
| 3 | Have you witnessed or been in a AF/BB scenario.RIP your inbox. I wouldn’t say that was full in AFBB though, if he had wanted an LTR and you turned him down for the other guy than yeah I could see it. Both of them were just looking for a lay. I have to ask though, how was he not attractive enough for something casual? I’m assuming your were attracted to him given how you went on a date and said he was perfect LTR material. What did the other guy have that he didn’t? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/20 12:11 AM |
| 6 | What do women think of men with long hair?Ah to have hair again! One of my pals has a really long hair. Girls he sees say that his hair is their favorite feature on him. It is a pain for him to maintain though since he has to wash and condition it twice when he’s in the shower and then letting it dry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/20 11:54 PM |
| 2 | Have you witnessed or been in a AF/BB scenario.I’m a navy spouse! Salute me! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/20 11:03 PM |
| 7 | Have you witnessed or been in a AF/BB scenario.Ah yes, the Dependapottamus, a tale as old as time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/20 10:59 PM |
| 2 | Have you witnessed or been in a AF/BB scenario.Simping, AFBB as I’ve read it is getting married to a guy you are not really attracted to or passionate about but don’t have any other options and he is stable so you settle for him after spending your younger years with Chads. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/20 10:52 PM |
| 3 | Have you witnessed or been in a AF/BB scenario.Bout to say, sounds more like Nice Guy (tm) than anything | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/20 10:50 PM |
| 1 | Would you prefer if humans mated for life?You do get some people who get their dream job right and stick with it throughout their life though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/20 10:23 PM |
| 1 | Would you prefer if humans mated for life?I feel like it’s like that already, for example, I have bad eye sight, it’s genetic. In the ancient world I would have been killed off by a predator relatively quickly cause I wouldn’t have been able to see. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/20 10:22 PM |
| 3 | What is your opinion about divorced men who pay alimony for ex wives and women who pay alimony for ex husbands?In Soviet Russia, alimony pay you! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/20 03:10 PM |
| 3 | What is your opinion about divorced men who pay alimony for ex wives and women who pay alimony for ex husbands?If it’s a case of infidelity than the wayward spouse should pay alimony, that’s the price they should have to pay for doing such a shitty thing. Everyone bitches about how Mackenzie Bezos took half of Jeff’s wealth in the divorce seem to forget that HE was the one who cheated on his wife who supported him from the startup of Amazon to what it is today. Otherwise, it the STBX is able to provide for themselves it seems dumb to have to pay alimony at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/20 02:43 PM |
| 2 | Why do men and women wear different clothes and rather than wearing the same clothes and what femimine clothing items could become commonplace for men to wear in the future? And what about all other gendered products?One thing I can not fathom is how women walk in high heels, hell sometimes they power walk or jog in then for a short distance. I tried on a pair to see what they were like and immediately lost balance. All I can think about is rolling your ankle in those and how awful it must hurt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/20 02:39 PM |
| 2 | I think the men on this sub over-idealize virgin womenI hope you find peace with it someday, it’s bad enough your gf cheated on you, even worse it was with someone you trusted. A betrayal like that would take me a long time to get over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/20 12:26 PM |
| 3 | Are the online dating profiles of men that much worse?Yup lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/20 12:19 PM |
| 17 | Are the online dating profiles of men that much worse?Red flags for me on a woman’s ODL profile, Tired of all the games Done with dating jerks, Looking for a real man I want a guy who can accept me for my past. All three of those just scream crazy, they are usually single mothers or have unresolved issues. I can’t speak for guys profile cause I don’t look for guys on ODL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/20 12:13 PM |
| 2 | I think the men on this sub over-idealize virgin womenHoly fuck man that hurts to read, that was a shitty thing for them to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/20 11:57 AM |
| 4 | Would you prefer if humans mated for life?I’m sure we got some neckbeards floating around somewhere in this sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/20 11:54 AM |
| 3 | Would you prefer if humans mated for life?He may have a point though, our grandparents generation (70 and up) grew up in a time where women pretty much had to get married and be a SAHM and divorce wasn’t a realistic option. A lot of the men from the time were in a war (WW2, Korea, Vietnam) and had PTSD or drinking problems from it. Those factors all contributed to a lot of unhappy marriages I’d imagine though I’m sure there were plenty of good ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/20 11:53 AM |
| 5 | Would you prefer if humans mated for life?Not entirely, a lot of guys get fear of missing out if they are in an LTR during the hookup years of 18-30. You see a lot of posts about guys leaving their current relationship to sleep around, finding out its harder than it looks, get little to no hookups, and then ask on how they can get the girl they dumped back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/20 11:47 AM |
| 4 | How true is the RedPill about female nature?The kind of women red pill describes, (a hoe that slept with bad boys in her youth and now only gives the guy she settled for as she aged once a month duty sex or will dump her current bf on a dime if she gets a better offer) are usually the low tier women you wouldn’t want to LTR anyway. There are plenty of classy women out there who genuinely care for and lust after their bf/husbands. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/20 11:40 AM |
| 1 | Would you prefer if humans mated for life?Dammit, I knew those Chad Geese were up to something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/20 11:25 AM |
| 1 | Do you think misandry is rising in our society? Do you think that a lot of the hate out there makes a great deal of men feel ashamed of their masculinity?I was in favor of a fair fight, two guys consenting to a one on one in an honorable fist fight to resolve their differences. That’s a far cry from being jumped by two people who hit you while you’re vulnerable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/20 11:24 AM |
| 1 | Do you think misandry is rising in our society? Do you think that a lot of the hate out there makes a great deal of men feel ashamed of their masculinity?You didn’t answer my question, instead of calling out the toxicity of the aggressor, you continue to shame the victim by calling my BIL brother dumb after he was attacked. He couldn’t de escalate, the coward who attacked him got his friend to help jump my BIL brother who was intoxicated at the time waiting for his Uber. Or was he supposed to de escalate while they were beating the shit out of him while he couldn’t fight back cause he was outnumbered and intoxicated? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/20 09:36 AM |
| 1 | Do you think misandry is rising in our society? Do you think that a lot of the hate out there makes a great deal of men feel ashamed of their masculinity?Fair enough, What about the aggressor? Why is he being absolved? Why is it the victim who retaliated the one who is toxic? That kind of thinking is what causes people to allow themselves to be walked over their whole life. No penalty for the aggressor, only for the victim when they fight back. Also people do get attacked for no good reason. My brother in laws younger brother was beaten to a pulp because the attacker saw him flirting with a girl he liked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/20 08:53 AM |
| 1 | Do you think misandry is rising in our society? Do you think that a lot of the hate out there makes a great deal of men feel ashamed of their masculinity?Meanwhile, in the real world.... so apparently it’s toxic to get mad when someone insults you/threatens you/ attacks you. You mean to tell me if someone came up to you and punched you in the face, you wouldn’t feel any anger whatsoever? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/20 08:43 AM |
| 1 | I think the men on this sub over-idealize virgin womenI see, While I’m not big on FWB setups, If you’re happy props to you. It’s rare that you meet someone you genuinely connect with and understand with. I’m still searching for my one so I commend you for finding yours. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/20 08:30 AM |
| 3 | Would you prefer if humans mated for life?It’s always bittersweet to hear of stories like that. Bitter in that it came to an end but sweet that it lasted a lifetime. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/20 08:11 AM |
| 1 | I think the men on this sub over-idealize virgin womenIf you don’t mind my asking, what’s stopping you guys from being exclusive? You seem to like each other very much so why not update FWB 1.0 to LTR 2.0? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/20 08:10 AM |
| 2 | Would you prefer if humans mated for life?Interesting, why do you say evolution would decline? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/20 08:05 AM |
| 1 | I think the men on this sub over-idealize virgin womenYeah but that doesn’t mean I want to fuck them lol, I meant pleasure in regards to sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/20 08:03 AM |
| 1 | I think the men on this sub over-idealize virgin womenFear of missing out, people who spend their youth in LTRs or didn’t experience it entirely feel they are missing out on the hooking up and ditch their partner to partake in it. FWB wouldn’t work for me, ive had enough experience to know I only ever feel pleasure when it’s with someone I care about. Yeah, I don’t want to do that ever again, I’d rather spend the rest of my life celibate than experience that emptiness again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/20 07:46 AM |
| 4 | I think the men on this sub over-idealize virgin womenThe reason I regret the ONS so much Is cause I never had sex with ex. We were slowly building up to it and then she broke up with me before we got to it, I really liked her so it fucked me up a long time. The ONS was my first time and I felt legit no pleasure from it, we were drunk so she didn’t event like me. That realization made me feel like shit for a good long while, The only good thing that came from the ONS was I realized it wasn’t for me and I will never have FOMO cause I know casual sex… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/20 07:32 AM |
| 8 | Would you prefer if humans mated for life?Lmao half this sub gonna feel called out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/20 07:22 AM |
| 8 | I think the men on this sub over-idealize virgin womenFor me, a low n count is 5 or under, that will vary from person to person. The reason I have that number is cause at my age of 25, 1-3 LTRs are common along with having one or two ONS to help them realize they aren’t for them. Ive had one LTR and one ONS (that I regret immensely) along with a handful of drunken make out sessions, i apply to myself the same standards I seek in a partner otherwise id be a hypocrite. Though I wouldn’t totally rule out someone I liked with a higher one depending on … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/20 07:08 AM |
| 1 | Would you prefer if humans mated for life?I see what you did thar 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/20 07:00 AM |
| 1 | Would you prefer if humans mated for life?Yeah that’s why I said human biology would have to change. Bird mostly mate for life but there’s no way of telling if they have a honeymoon phase that lasts forever or if they stay out of some other desire. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/20 06:59 AM |
| 9 | I think the men on this sub over-idealize virgin womenPeople with higher n count are usually more sexual and extroverted. Other sexual extroverts will pick up on that. Lower N counts are more conservative with their behavior and dressing, they can be extroverted but don’t act as sexual and other low n people pick up on that. Basically, high n count likes casual sex and will avoid a prude cause they won’t get sex and vice versa. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/20 06:56 AM |
| 1 | Do you think misandry is rising in our society? Do you think that a lot of the hate out there makes a great deal of men feel ashamed of their masculinity?That’s the same stuff peoplewho are bullied are always told and it hardly ever works, the only time a bully ever actually stops is when he gets a taste of his medicine and gets his ass beat. There is nothing more cowardly and pathetic than someone who starts shit and then hides behind the law to avoid their well deserved comeuppance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/20 06:27 AM |
| 12 | I think the men on this sub over-idealize virgin womenDepends on your personal opinion I’d suppose, for me,low n is anything lower than 5. Similar N counts usually date each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/20 06:20 AM |
| 37 | I think the men on this sub over-idealize virgin womenI don’t thinks it’s virgins, it’s low n count women they are talking about (for some at least) You can have an average to high libido but still have a low n count, some dont get pleasure out of hookups and casual dating and are only sexual in LTRs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/20 06:16 AM |
| 1 | Why are RPillers so negative towards men who choose to become stepfathers?Shes pro life, abortion is an absolute no-no for her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/20 06:12 AM |
| 1 | What does it mean for someone to "live life on easy mode"?Two things that will make your life infinitely easy are, Good genetics (not just in terms of attractiveness but not having any genetic predisposition to medical conditions like heart disease or cancer) Wealth If you at least one those, you can breeze by with some challenge but ease, if you have both your time on Earth will be a breeze compared to others. Yes, everyone goes through something bad at some point but it’s much easier for the above mentioned person to cope than the average Joe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/20 02:47 AM |
| 0 | Do you think misandry is rising in our society? Do you think that a lot of the hate out there makes a great deal of men feel ashamed of their masculinity?Something I’ve always been told is “toxic masculinity” is fighting which I disagree with. If two guys got beef, they should be allowed to fight it out, you know, get the bad blood out(obviously not to the point of crippling injury or death)you’d be surprised how many friendships start from guys having beef and then fighting to resolve it. Even if you lose, you gain your opponents respect for a fair and honorable fight. I met my oldest and closest friend that way. We hated each other’s guts in fi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/20 07:17 AM |
| 7 | Do women want to be sexualised and why/why not?I was always confused on this, I was the only boy with three sisters. Growing up, especially when I hit puberty and started staring at billboards and posters with bikini/underwear models on them. I was told that was wrong cause I was objectifying women by doing that. Even now when I point out a woman is attractive in front of my sisters, they’ll sometimes snap at me saying “there’s more to her than her looks.” As such I usually never made any sexual comment or moved on girls that were interested… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/20 01:26 AM |
| 5 | What professions do you find most attractive?If you aren’t aggressive and a smooth talker in the business world you will not succeed, at least in the sales aspect. All Doctors are by default intelligent, no Dumbfuck is gonna make it through a decade of medical school Brave/disciplined mostly applies to combat troops I suppose. I’ve met many over the years that I’d have never guess would be in the army. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 07:07 PM |
| 1 | What professions do you find most attractive?The military especially is for a different breed, especially if you are in a position where you will be in combat (infantry, special forces, tanks, etc) Their job requires them to see the worst horrors of humanity (Torture, killing, seeing others die) and push forward to accomplish the mission. Only the hardiest and toughest can make it in that kind of profession. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 09:10 AM |
| 2 | What professions do you find most attractive?Well look at the George Floyd incident, Literally everyone (including the great majority of law enforcement) saw that and all agreed it was despicable. Only the most vile or uneducated people saw that and believed it was justified. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 08:54 AM |
| 3 | What professions do you find most attractive?Well only a small minority of military personnel see combat these days. I was told by an acquaintance who was a former tank officer that for every person on the frontline getting shot at, there are ten people working behind the scenes to ensure he gets the support/training/and logistics he needs to survive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 08:45 AM |
| 2 | What professions do you find most attractive?In a perfect world, seeing a police officer should provide you with safety and relief, and those who are evil should fear. There is too much abuse of power but there are good people who are truly trying to make society safer in law enforcement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 08:35 AM |
| 2 | What is a righteous, or a "good" woman in your eyes?Oh I burp and I make sure it’s well heard, obviously you shouldn’t do that for an employer or something like that but nothing gives me more satisfaction than seeing some bougie upper class person get upset by me not conforming to their hypocritical and BS standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 08:31 AM |
| 2 | What is a righteous, or a "good" woman in your eyes?Assuming you’re not trolling me, (if you are, good work cause you got me hooked now) I hate when people are uptight, i myself and very liberal when it comes to pissing off uptight people. (Swearing, burping, etc) With that being said though, you shouldn’t put your health at risk. You don’t have to be a size 2 but you shouldn’t be medically obese and unhealthy either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 08:28 AM |
| 2 | What professions do you find most attractive?Oh shit... I really don’t know how I can respond to that other than that piece of shit deserves to rot in prison. Being a police officer should mean you bring hope to the innocent, and fear to the evil. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 08:25 AM |
| 1 | What is a righteous, or a "good" woman in your eyes?Oh fuck yeah | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 08:22 AM |
| 5 | CMV: If not getting married is a deal breaker for you, you weren't really in love to begin with.Oh he is, pro trolls at least try to make it believable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 08:21 AM |
| 8 | What professions do you find most attractive?Handymen are underrated for sure. Everyone looks at doctors, lawyers, and STEM field as useful for everyday tasks but none of those could fix a roof, a pipe leak, an AC unit, a light fixture, etc. everyday issues your average Joe deals with daily. Being able to fix stuff instead of buying a new one is a vastly underrated ability. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 08:12 AM |
| 5 | CMV: If not getting married is a deal breaker for you, you weren't really in love to begin with.Don’t waste your time, HOLYREGIME is an obvious troll. Try again HOLYREGIME, the trick to being a good troll is to make it believable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 08:05 AM |
| 6 | CMV: If not getting married is a deal breaker for you, you weren't really in love to begin with.Don’t bother, this HOLYREGIME person is an obvious troll. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 08:04 AM |
| 3 | What is a righteous, or a "good" woman in your eyes?Contrary to what society would have you believe, a lot of guys love a woman who can down a whole pizza, chug a bunch of beer, and then let out a huge burp. Not giving a fuck what strangers think about you is a very appealing trait. I don’t have a feeding fetish or anything like that but a woman who can eat a lot and not give a fuck what people say has always been attractive to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 07:58 AM |
| 2 | Couples who have partners less sexual with them.For me, I don’t like hookups/casual sex, I tried it and it made me feel like shit afterwards. I much prefer the intimacy of an LTR. With that being said, I would NEVER let a hookup do anything to me I wouldn’t let a serious partner do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 07:48 AM |
| 4 | What professions do you find most attractive?Lmfao 😆 I’ll be honest, the only stable nurse I know is my sister, she’s been faithfully and happily married for almost ten years now with two kids but the other ones I know, One of them has three kids with three different dads and the other one has slept with half of Chicago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 07:39 AM |
| 5 | What professions do you find most attractive?You really want to get kinky with a dentist? Have them make you talk while they are scraping away plaque off your teeth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 07:32 AM |
| 4 | What is the point of marriage?I believe it was established to stop Neanderthal Chad from fathering babies with twenty different women. But I do think a happy marriage is the best environment for a child to be raised in. They see how their parents interact with each other and will pick up on that. Ex: Father was a cheating bastard and my mom kicked him out for his infidelity. Despite this, she never uttered a bad word about him cause she wanted my sisters and I to have a good relationship with him. While now I know he was a c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 07:31 AM |
| 1 | Couples who have partners less sexual with them.I was asking cause I can’t imagine not wanting to experiment with your SO. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 07:21 AM |
| 5 | What professions do you find most attractive?It’s been a rough year to be a cop with all the stuff that’s been going on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 07:19 AM |
| 3 | What professions do you find most attractive?Oh you’ve been a BAD gurl! (Sharpens Tooth plaque picker) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 07:17 AM |
| 2 | Couples who have partners less sexual with them.Did he give any explanation as to why? Also that “big tiddy goth gf” label next to your username is the best thing I’ve seen all day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 07:13 AM |
| 2 | What professions do you find most attractive?Uniformed professions (military/law enforcement) require people who are confident, good leaders, in shape, brave, and disciplined. All those are very good traits to have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 07:10 AM |
| 1 | What professions do you find most attractive?Fair enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 07:08 AM |
| 4 | What professions do you find most attractive?Oh E=MC2! So hot! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 07:07 AM |
| 1 | What professions do you find most attractive?Oh I got to hear this story, if you don’t mind sharing it that is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 07:06 AM |
| 2 | What professions do you find most attractive?Same here, medical fields require intelligence, hard work, and compassion, all three are attractive qualities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 07:04 AM |
| 1 | What professions do you find most attractive?To be a politician you have to be a good bullshitter and liar so I understand that. Why are Army/police a turn off? Are you more of a pacifist? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 07:03 AM |
| 6 | What professions do you find most attractive?Engineers are usually very intelligent, there’s a lot of math involved so if you find intelligence attractive, those are the guys for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 07:00 AM |
| 1 | What professions do you find most attractive?I feel construction workers and lumberjacks will be more beefy by the fact they do a bunch of heavy lifting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 06:59 AM |
| 1 | What professions do you find most attractive?Yeah I feel cops don’t rank as high as they used to with all the stuff that’s been happening this last year. But there are some very honorable ones still out there. Lawyers tend to be more aggressive and finance guys tend to be greedy or shady but they have their good qualities as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 06:58 AM |
| 4 | What professions do you find most attractive?My brother in law is a carpenter and has been for almost two decades now. He has a thin build but has the leanest arms I’ve ever seen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 06:51 AM |
| 15 | What professions do you find most attractive?Lmao I saw a meme I while back that said something along the lines of “remember the crazy hoe you went to school with that did shots naked? She’s a nurse now” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 06:49 AM |
| 5 | What professions do you find most attractive?I’ve heard that too, guys in military/police are usually in shape, confident, and strong. Though no one drops panties faster than fireman in my experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 06:47 AM |
| 6 | What professions do you find most attractive?It’s not the job itself per day but the traits that come with it I find attractive, for example, Businessmen- usually very confident and aggressive, smooth talkers Doctors- intelligent and caring Soldiers - brave and disciplined You feel me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 06:44 AM |
| 5 | What professions do you find most attractive?Oh thank God, I thought I was the only one on this sub that found certain jobs attractive 😂 And yup, nothing like a day of honest hard work. It can be the most fulfilling thing in the world coming home sweaty, dirty and tired but knowing you accomplished something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 06:43 AM |
| 3 | What professions do you find most attractive?It’s not job itself I find attractive it’s the traits that come with the job ya feel me? Ex: Nurses are usually patient and caring, both are qualities are find very attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 06:41 AM |
| 2 | What professions do you find most attractive?Yikes I might be the only wierd ass mofo on this sub that finds certain jobs attractive for a women. Let’s say you’re meeting a new guy, if he says he’s a fireman or a cop or something you wouldn’t feel the slightest tingle of attraction? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 06:38 AM |
| 6 | What professions do you find most attractive?Really? If you’re talking to a girl you met there’s no job she can say that will make you more attracted to her? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 06:36 AM |
| 2 | Couples with unbalanced sexual histories.It’s one thing if the guy simply feels upset about it but wants to talk about it. This guy in the post was being a douchebag and taking it out on her. Notice how she said that he had no friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 06:13 AM |
| 1 | Couples with unbalanced sexual histories.Yeah I see where your coming from, A lot of guys get passed over during the Party/hookup years and tend to feel pretty resentful about it when everyone wants to settle down later on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 06:09 AM |
| 4 | Couples with unbalanced sexual histories.From my experience being hit on by gay guys (I’m straight) Gay dudes are much more upfront than women are, they’ll basically tell you straight up that you’re hot and want to fuck you. So that’s probably why, it’s a numbers game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 06:06 AM |
| 45 | CMV: If not getting married is a deal breaker for you, you weren't really in love to begin with.Jeff Bezos is a poor example, His wife was with him before he even started Amazon, she supported him when he first started and all the way to the giant it is today. Far from a gold digger. His wife divorced him cause he cheated, it was all his own fault. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 03:42 AM |
| 8 | What's with the stigma against tattoos and coloured hair?It’s mostly boomers that are anal about that. Most millennial and Gen Z don’t give a fuck I don’t have any hair to die and my job is strict with tattoos so I’ll probably never get either but people are free to do what they want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 03:23 AM |
| 1 | Why are RPillers so negative towards men who choose to become stepfathers?Well there is a possibility rape or sexual assault may have been involved in the pregnancy. That would explain why my friend didn’t want to even tell me, his most trusted and closest pal, and why her parents went all the way to court to keep him away even if it meant losing on child support, but I can’t say for sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 02:37 AM |
| 1 | Why are RPillers so negative towards men who choose to become stepfathers?I think he was into the some drug dealing shit, problems with authority, you know the typical bad boy that young women tend to have the hots for. I never met him but that’s the impression I got. I do agree though, being a single parent at that young of an age shows pretty poor judgement and will send most guys the opposite way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Is it less risky for a guy to date women who out-earn them?I don’t think it would cause an issue unless it was a massive difference. Like if shes pulling in six figures as a doctor or lawyer and he’s barely topping 25k as a high school dropout. If it’s a few thousand a year difference I don’t see the issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 02:22 AM |
| 4 | Question to women: Would you give your eggs in exchange of a large sum of money?Lmfao 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 02:17 AM |
| 6 | What is a righteous, or a "good" woman in your eyes?I got a big appetite myself and I’ve always found women with a little bit of weight on them very hot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 02:14 AM |
| 8 | What is a righteous, or a "good" woman in your eyes?It might be among teenagers and early 20s women who are usually much more self conscious. I’d personally love me a woman who can down a 48 oz steak. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 02:08 AM |
| 3 | Couples who have partners less sexual with them.Lol no chill | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 02:01 AM |
| 6 | What is a righteous, or a "good" woman in your eyes?Low N count or only having sex in relationships. I’m the same. Isn’t afraid to get dirty (not sex wise, I’m talking doing the heavy lifting, getting in the mud, etc) Good appetite, I’ve heard girls say they hate eating in front of guys cause they don’t want to look fat. Is not uptight, there is no bigger turn off than someone who gets mad if you make a dank joke cause they get offended. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 01:51 AM |
| 2 | Why are RPillers so negative towards men who choose to become stepfathers?This, deadbeats who abandon or only see their kids rarely out of neglect cause young kids to feel unwanted and will do anything to impress him and want to be a part of their life. This desire goes so hard they often overlook the step dad who was there for them the whole time. Think the Fresh Prince when Wills dad comes back into his life. Will is so happy and desperate for his fathers approval he angrily yells at Uncle Phil when he’s trying to give him advice “you’re not my father!” despite Uncl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 01:42 AM |
| 1 | Why are RPillers so negative towards men who choose to become stepfathers?A single mom can be HV. There is a stark difference between a single mother who takes care of herself and stays attractive, has her own place and has a job that affords her to provide for her child that simply wants a romantic partner and a ho with three kids from three different dads and relying on government assistance that’s looking for a REAL man to be a father for her kids. I still prefer child free over single parent any day of the week but some single parents are able to maintain the qual… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 01:22 AM |
| 1 | Why are RPillers so negative towards men who choose to become stepfathers?My friends younger sister is a single mom at 21. The father was a guy she was seeing and was a real POS. How bad was he? My friend, who I’ve known since kindergarten and is practically family didn’t even want to tell me and his parents went to court to ensure the guy has no parental/ visitation rights whatsoever (though the bastard gets out of paying child support cause of this) It sucks for her cause she was living her best life as a young woman and now has had to put her entire life on hold. S… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 01:02 AM |
| 1 | Why are RPillers so negative towards men who choose to become stepfathers?I can see this being an issue if the woman refuses to have any more children and the guy himself has none of his own. Most serious stepparents usually have another kid with each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 12:50 AM |
| 1 | Why are RPillers so negative towards men who choose to become stepfathers?Good points, People are WAY too irresponsible with reproducing. (Not including rape) You should never bring a kid into the world if both parties aren’t financially and emotionally able to support it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 12:39 AM |
| 1 | Why are RPillers so negative towards men who choose to become stepfathers?Women are almost always assumed to love kids because of “maternal instinct” or some shit like that even though there are plenty that don’t want kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 12:35 AM |
| 3 | What makes you feel manly/feminineOh yeah I’m such a sucker for that lol, nothing gets my male ego going like lifting something heavy in front of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 12:29 AM |
| 2 | What makes you feel manly/feminineNothing like that raw feeling of power and rush of adrenaline when you break a PR. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 12:28 AM |
| 1 | Why are RPillers so negative towards men who choose to become stepfathers?True, someone who was unlucky in love and is older starts dating a single parent is thrown right into the high responsibilities of family life without ever getting to experience the buildup to it. I know I would feel overwhelmed and left out if I suddenly had to take on the role of stepfather and was never able to do the fun things like stay out drinking, surprise vacations, spontaneous dates, etc. This is the rough situation most guys who struggled with dating in their teens and twenties and ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 12:19 AM |
| 2 | Couples with unbalanced sexual histories.You say you’re a hypocrite cause you wouldn’t accept that past behavior in a girl, why is that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 12:03 AM |
| 3 | Couples who have partners less sexual with them.Yeah that’s not quite the situation I was describing. I was talking the guy who wants to experiment with kink with his wife but she refuses while doing it in the past and enjoying it with other guys. Also, not many people could work with poly I’d imagine, I know it would never work for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/20 11:29 PM |
| 7 | Couples who have partners less sexual with them.Interesting, descriptive but interesting, Still though I ain’t having anything ever go up my ass lmao, I’ve seen what comes out of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/20 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Why are RPillers so negative towards men who choose to become stepfathers?It’s easier I think if you are a single parent yourself dating a single parent, you two understand each other’s situation much better than a child free person would. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/20 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Why are RPillers so negative towards men who choose to become stepfathers?Same, or if something happened to my sisters, I’d take my nieces and nephews in. Other than that, if I’m going to date a single parent the kid needs to be grown and out of the house. I don’t have what it takes to be a stepdad for a younger kid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/20 10:50 PM |
| 1 | Why are RPillers so negative towards men who choose to become stepfathers?Ugh that’s fucking brutal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/20 10:47 PM |
| 5 | Couples who have partners less sexual with them.I don’t get how it works, the guy may feel pleasure but I can’t see how the girl would. The sole existence of your asshole is too push out shit, not take stuff in. That being said, the only thing ever going up my ass is a doctors finger for prostate exam. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/20 10:39 PM |
| 2 | What is the female equivalent to male pattern baldnessDamn no chill lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/20 10:32 PM |
| 10 | Couples who have partners less sexual with them.Yeah I don’t know where this latest craze with butt stuff came from, everyone wants to be eating ass now. I was always under the impression you’re not supposed to eat where you shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/20 10:06 PM |
| 1 | I think this idea that both red pillers and blue pillers seem to have that attractive men benefit from hookup culture is not necessarily true. Promiscuous attractive men benefit from hookup culture but not all attractive men. All men who are serious about monogamy should hate hookup culture.It’s not often you find a very attractive man who wants to commit and choses not to sleep around, especially at a young age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/20 10:05 PM |
| 1 | Couples who have partners less sexual with them.Read “Saving the Best.” Real situation that is exactly that situation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/20 09:04 PM |
| 2 | Couples who have partners less sexual with them.That’s what I’m asking lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/20 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Why are RPillers so negative towards men who choose to become stepfathers?Being a Stepdad presents these issues, You will never have that biological connection to your step kid and a lot of guys find it hard to love a kid as there own if they aren’t. If you do end up having your own you may favor your bio kid over step kid. Baby daddy drama, bio dad (provided he is a shit head) will cause drama such as popping in and out of his kids life or skimping on child support. If he is a stable and normal person, it can be awkward interacting with a guy who was with her before.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/20 08:18 PM |
| 3 | Couples with unbalanced sexual histories.It’s not the sex itself I find bad, it’s the personality traits that come with it. Someone with an extremely high n count like that falls into two categories Mental issues, trouble with commitment, using sex as validation. Liking sex a lot and doing it as a casual fun activity Either way, both groups are incompatible for me and I avoid both when dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/20 10:35 AM |
| 2 | Couples with unbalanced sexual histories.I think it’s a normal human trait to not want to think of their partner being with someone else (unless you got a fetish for that kind of stuff) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/20 10:27 AM |
| 6 | Do women believe that their career gives them an advantage in the dating/sexual marketplace?I think people forget that there is much more to life than sex. Having a fulfilling career is very satisfying, doing something you genuinely enjoy doing makes the repetitiveness and monotony of working much easier to deal with. Plus, it’s nice to build a name for yourself. I personally find intelligence/creativity/discussing topics a big turn on. You don’t want to the sole meaning of your life to be a living dildo/pocket Pussy but you also don’t wan to be a complete workaholic that forsakes ever… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/20 10:18 AM |
| 10 | If you were a woman, would you want to have male friends?I think it’s healthy to have friends of the opposite gender. Sure there may be occasional thoughts of lust but those are just fleeting feelings. (Catching feelings would be an issue though if it isn’t mutual) As a man, I feel like every guy should have a woman who is strictly a friend and nothing more, it gives you useful insight on how to be a better boyfriend/husband/partner. Hell I think having a gay friend definitely gives you a better understanding of the world. I can’t speak for women havi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/20 10:05 AM |
| 1 | What is the female equivalent to male pattern baldnessI feel ya, I’m white and I’ve been told by some I look like a neo-Nazi with the shaved head/goatee combo. (Literally have been approached by someone In the past asking if I was a racist because of my appearance) You just got to let your inner teddy bear out ya know? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/20 09:58 AM |
| 1 | What is the female equivalent to male pattern baldnessOne con to the shaved head look is I look very intimidating. I have a very husky and muscular build and my face naturally looks mean. (Piercing and narrowed eyes, only smiling when I’m genuinely happy, deep voice, etc. Think Steve Austin look but smaller and not as cut) Because of this, strangers don’t talk to me unless I make the first move which contrary to my appearance, I’m rather shy when talking to women I like. I’d love if a woman made the first move but unfortunately because of my appear… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/20 09:38 AM |
| 2 | What is the female equivalent to male pattern baldnessAs a man with a shaved head and goatee i do like thicker women. But my ex was a very thin build and flat yet we couldn’t keep our hands off each other, each touch was like an electric shock. So it does change when you really like someone I think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/20 09:22 AM |
| 1 | What is the female equivalent to male pattern baldnessWell it’s still better than nothing at least. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/20 07:40 AM |
| 1 | What is the female equivalent to male pattern baldnessWell a flat ass can be fixed my squatting and lunges if I’m not mistaken. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/20 07:32 AM |
| 2 | What is the female equivalent to male pattern baldnessOh yeah, when I was told I looked like that picture of Trump when his hair is blowing all over the place I knew it was time to take it all off lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/20 07:16 AM |
| 1 | What is the female equivalent to male pattern baldnessI was very lucky I can pull it off, a lot of people have told me that I look more masculine and badass with a shaved head then when I still had a decent head of hair. Being buff or muscular definitely helps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/20 07:07 AM |
| 2 | What is the female equivalent to male pattern baldnessYou can find someone, there’s plenty of people who appreciate thicker women. The main issue is health though, being somewhat overweight isn’t terrible but being very obese is just as bad as smoking cigarettes. If you’re young you may not think about it much but once you hit your late thirties and forties, the price comes due and sometimes it’s fatal. Just be healthy, you don’t have to be a size 2 or whatever but don’t be at the point where your health is at risk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/20 07:05 AM |
| 3 | What is the female equivalent to male pattern baldnessI can’t estimate body fat percentage wise too well but maybe 10-20 pounds overweight, maybe more if they carry it well and retain a curvy body. (Big boobs, wide hips and thick thighs and a stomach) Like I said, a LITTLE meat in their bones. Too much is not only unattractive but very unhealthy, especially as you get older. Being obese takes a serious toll on your health. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/20 06:20 AM |
| 2 | What is the female equivalent to male pattern baldnessIdk, I always found women with a lil meat on them hot. Then again every one has different preferences I suppose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/20 04:10 AM |
| 10 | What is the female equivalent to male pattern baldnessUgh I hate the Karen cut, it’s not at all attractive. Short hair on a woman is like a shaved head on a man, you need a certain face to pull it off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/20 03:20 AM |
| 1 | What is the female equivalent to male pattern baldnessOh yeah, pregnancy does a number on the body, especially if you’re older. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/20 02:53 AM |
| 2 | What is the female equivalent to male pattern baldnessBeing broke is a position you get yourself into and can get yourself out of Outside of hair follicle transplant (which is expensive and not covered under insurance since it’s a cosmetic surgery, your stuck being bald. It was destined by your genetics. And you’d be amazed how many girls will stick with a guy who is broke. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/20 02:47 AM |
| 1 | What is the female equivalent to male pattern baldnessLol that reminds me of an episode of House where he’s treating a patient with the plague and she is freaking out about her diagnosis and House goes, “Don’t worry, it’s treatable. Being a bitch? Nothing we can do.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/20 02:45 AM |
| 2 | What is the female equivalent to male pattern baldnessYup, my hair started receding at 18 and at 25 it was beyond salvageable so I shaved it all off. Luckily I have the right shaped head/face to wear it well | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/20 02:44 AM |
| 3 | What is social media and dating apps doing to young women?I’d say it’s giving them a false sense of security. Someone who has been swarmed with male attention and received thousands of likes, basically relied solely on their looks to get them though life is in for a rough awakening once their looks begin to fade as they age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/20 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Couples with unbalanced sexual histories.I’ve seen this before with overweight women, they have body image issues and sleep around to feel beautiful. Then once they meet a guy that likes them they go full romance mode and focus only on him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/20 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Couples with unbalanced sexual histories.It’s interesting in the case of someone who is bi that guys don’t care about the number of girls their gf has been with, only the guys. I’m starting to wonder if it’s an evolutionary thing, they are competing for mates and want to be the best. Look at some other animals, during mating season, males are willing to fight and get killed for some poontang. I know humans are more evolved than that now but there’s probably a trickle of still in our genes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/20 06:22 PM |
| 5 | Couples with unbalanced sexual histories.Yikes, that is a divorce waiting to happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/20 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Couples with unbalanced sexual histories.Understandable, If you have never been with someone before it’s easy to feel like you can’t measure up to the people they’ve had in the past. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/20 09:11 AM |
| 7 | Couples with unbalanced sexual histories.I feel like porn has something to do with it. When I was a teen, I felt horrible insecurity that I was too small cause in the porn videos, guy had like foot long dicks shooting a fire hydrants worth of loads while making the girl scream and seize in pleasure. I’m older now and realize that is not real life by a long shot and an much more secure in my size. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/20 09:01 AM |
| 4 | Couples with unbalanced sexual histories.I understand, It’s the not the fact she slept around, it’s the fact she lied about it and tried to start a marriage based off the lie, to make you think she is someone other than who she is, that is the issue. I understand your anger, Virgin shaming pisses me off too because I’m sure that is what creates incels. (The hateful kind at least, some incels simply lost the genetic lottery and can’t attract women because of it but they don’t hate them, see r/IncelsWithoutHate) You have to realize thoug… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/20 08:13 AM |
| 4 | Couples with unbalanced sexual histories.Dayum, he asked about how other guys fucked you? Sure he wasn’t into the cuckhold fetish? All joking aside, religious people will be more critical of sexual history and I can respect that (I’m catholic myself, not a good one but I try truly to be my best) but he seems like a genuine asshat, if I was insecure about a partners past history, the fucking last thing I would want is to ask my partner about sexual exploits. What rang with me is how even his friends don’t like him, he seems like one of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/20 08:01 AM |
| 2 | Couples with unbalanced sexual histories.Ugh hypocrites like that are the worst. If you are seeking out someone who is a Virgin, you are seeking out someone who was able to keep it in their pants for years despite approaches from many people. They aren’t going to act slutty for you right away because they’ve never done that before. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/20 07:03 AM |
| 1 | Couples with unbalanced sexual histories.Yeah it can be rough in that regard, The first time someone falls in love with someone it’s SUPER emotional, you fall really hard and when it ends it always takes the longest to get over since it’s the first time your experiencing these emotions. Especially if it’s a later age when you haven’t had anyone like that before. Someone like that dating someone whose been around the rodeo and has been in and out of love a few times (maybe slightly jaded) would get pretty annoyed and frustrated with the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/20 06:33 AM |
| 1 | Couples with unbalanced sexual histories.Short, simple, and to the point. GigaChad approves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/20 06:30 AM |
| 5 | Couples with unbalanced sexual histories.Great fucking answer, Like, this is THE answer I was really looking for in here. Two people from two completely different walks of life with polar opposite experiences able to work it out. One who was super conservative “wait till marriage” style and one who had a very promiscuous past. Congrats on working it out, that situation would be hard for many to reconcile. I’d give you gold but I’m too much of a cheap bastard to pay for reddit coins. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/20 06:21 AM |
| 1 | Couples with unbalanced sexual histories.There is, having someone you genuinely love and are happy being with is one of life’s greatest treasures. It’s worth the journey to find it. Whenever I read Forever Alone it actually makes me so sad for these people that they have given up because they feel ugly/unworthy of love. Real life can be a bigger bitch than any insecurities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/20 06:11 AM |
| 1 | Couples with unbalanced sexual histories.Well you know what I meant, “in a perfect world” and all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/20 05:56 AM |
| 1 | Couples with unbalanced sexual histories.I agree, unless you are a very secure and sex positive person, you shouldn’t ask if you aren’t able to handle a potentially high number. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/20 05:54 AM |
| 2 | Couples with unbalanced sexual histories.Well it seems you two make a good match, you are both secure and positive in your sexuality. Im glad you found each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/20 05:51 AM |
| 5 | Couples with unbalanced sexual histories.I’m similar, I’ve had a few hookups but none of them went beyond make out/grope sesh, I only ever had one that led to sex and I regret all of these immensely. None of them ever felt right and just made me feel empty afterward when I realize I was just a number to them. (Weird coming from a guy I know, but that’s how I feel.) The only time I ever felt true passion and pleasure was when I was in a relationship and in love. That’s why I’m now celibate outside of relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/20 05:49 AM |
| 1 | Couples with unbalanced sexual histories.Do you yourself also have a high n count? If so it makes sense that you’d be more secure regarding your partners sexual past. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/20 05:38 AM |
| 9 | Couples with unbalanced sexual histories.The Allmighty GigaChad has blessed this subreddit with his mighty thundercock. No normies here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/20 05:36 AM |
| 2 | Couples with unbalanced sexual histories.The only issues I see with dating a Virgin if things don’t workout It always sucks being someone’s first heartbreak. FOMO and wondering what different guys are like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/20 05:31 AM |
| 1 | Couples with unbalanced sexual histories.Totally understandable, I bet the majority of people would hold off on any dating or sex if they knew for a fact they would meet their “One”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/20 05:21 AM |
| 1 | Couples with unbalanced sexual histories.True, if you can’t handle a potential high number you shouldn’t ask. I have to disagree with “past is the past” though. You many not be defined by your past but it’s ridiculous to think your past actions won’t affect your future to some degree, not just with sex and dating but all around life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/20 04:53 AM |
| 2 | Couples with unbalanced sexual histories.I’m glad to see it worked out for you, I wish people didn’t have to be feel insecure about past partners, it really is an awful feeling that logically doesn’t make sense but yet it happens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/20 04:51 AM |
| 2 | Couples with unbalanced sexual histories.Well now that you have an LTR under your belt and a N count (I’m assuming you guys had sex at some point) hopefully it’ll help you understand that people go through many people in their life. I know it sucks cause you want to feel special but how can you be when he’s been with so many others? The only way to really get over it I think is to get some relationship experience yourself so you can understand that people don’t stay with the same one throughout life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/20 04:49 AM |
| 1 | Couples with unbalanced sexual histories.I’d view it more why have the gone through so many? People gave multiple LTRs throughout their life but is someone is 25 and has had ten or more you got to think about what the common denominator is there. It’s more a red flag for their personality than anything | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/20 04:36 AM |
| 3 | Couples with unbalanced sexual histories.I feel like guys get more jealous of n count while girls get more jealous of past loves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/20 04:32 AM |
| 1 | Couples with unbalanced sexual histories.I could see that, hes your first and he probably wishes you were his first too, you know, make it extra special kind of thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/20 03:46 AM |
| 1 | Couples with unbalanced sexual histories.It doesn’t sound like you really wanted an open relationship if you didn’t seek out other partners during it. Especially if you say you are demisexual. I’m not judging but it sounds like you got a rough deal there. But if you’re happy, good on you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/20 03:28 AM |
| 1 | Couples with unbalanced sexual histories.You said he feels guilty, why is that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/20 03:20 AM |
| 50 | Couples with unbalanced sexual histories.Holy shit, That is a LOT of partners for college age. Hell 90% of people don’t even reach that in a lifetime. I would be very hesitant to be with anyone who had a number that high. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/20 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Couples with unbalanced sexual histories.So wait You said you were a Virgin when you met him and that he had 13 partners. You then said you weren’t exclusive till he had 20. Does that mean you got with him for a hookup and then again when he settled down? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/20 03:00 AM |
| 3 | Couples with unbalanced sexual histories.Interesting point, The easiest way to not let high n count bother you in a partner is to get a high n count yourself but that is easier said than done for a lot of people. Do you usually date women with a similar high n count now? No offense but I can’t imagine many low n count people would be comfortable with a number in the triple digits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/20 02:51 AM |
| 7 | Couples with unbalanced sexual histories.I respect that but just a heads up, it’s gonna get really hard to find someone who is a Virgin, especially now that you are college age. Not to say it’s not possible but I wouldn’t rule out someone who was in an LTR or had a single ONS and regretted it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/20 02:34 AM |
| 8 | Couples with unbalanced sexual histories.People who only talk about their sex life like that generally have nothing else going for them. I have a former friend (she was a toxic person to be around) that all she talked about was sex and lead on one of my good friends Who really liked her for months (she’d always be touchy-flirty with him and talk about sex to his face but never actually put out) She regularly used him for free rides and drinks and he would sit there and comfort her when she cried. Eventually she got a new bf and finally… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/20 02:19 AM |
| 6 | Couples with unbalanced sexual histories.God I can’t stand it when people talk about their past sex exploits to their SO like that, unless it’s been requested as a turn on for some fetish, there is absolutely no reason to talk about that. That’s the quickest way to ruin your partners self esteem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/20 02:01 AM |
| 6 | Couples with unbalanced sexual histories.I don’t think your sexual history would be an issue as long as the person you’re seeing has a similar one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/20 01:54 AM |
| 2 | Couples with unbalanced sexual histories.Sounds like compatibility, You had a higher n count but he engaged in some gnarly raunchy shit so you both were able to understand each other’s insecurity about each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/20 01:46 AM |
| 8 | Couples with unbalanced sexual histories.Wow I don’t hear often of men that regret sleeping around, Is it sex itself you regret or your motivation behind it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/20 01:41 AM |
| 13 | Couples with unbalanced sexual histories.It’s the same for men in regard to dick size, if a guy ever finds out his girl was with a bigger guy in the past that will always be on the back of his mind that he can’t compete. Even with assurance that bigger isn’t always better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/20 01:37 AM |
| 1 | Couples with unbalanced sexual histories.Even more interesting, I believe I may have misunderstood your comment, were guys insecure about your lack of experience? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/20 01:20 AM |
| 1 | Couples with unbalanced sexual histories.“I said thank God” So in your case you had guys who just simply moved past it without any issues? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/20 01:15 AM |
| 42 | Couples with unbalanced sexual histories.Interesting take here, A stark difference is that women usually get more sympathy in these situations than guys do. When you look at those posts you’ll see comforting and polite comments to the girl while the guy will get hit with “insecure!” Or “her past is the past!” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/20 01:03 AM |
| 2 | Couples with unbalanced sexual histories.I agree but some people lie about their past to secure a relationship because they know their past would exclude them from a relationship with the person they are interested in and then when the truth comes out later it turns into a huge shit show | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/20 12:37 AM |
| 14 | Couples with unbalanced sexual histories.One for me was that past behavior hardly ever stays in the past. Of all the high n count people i know (friends, family, acquaintances) only a handful were able to stay faithful in relationships and didn’t allow old habits to creep back up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/20 12:24 AM |
| 5 | Couples with unbalanced sexual histories.Yikes, there’s insecure, and then there is that. To be fair, it sounds like he had much more pressing mental issues going on. That is NOT at all a normal reaction to a partners past, especially since it wasn’t even that many guys. Also your username is hysterical (I’m assuming it’s an Attack On Titan parody) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/20 12:20 AM |
| 4 | Couples with unbalanced sexual histories.It has never made a difference to me if people refer to me as man, boy, male, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/20 12:05 AM |
| 18 | Couples with unbalanced sexual histories.I feel women in this situation definitely get more sympathy than men do. Look at the posts I referenced regarding insecurity about a partners past, the comments for the woman are much kinder than the man’s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/20 11:22 PM |
| 7 | Couples with unbalanced sexual histories.I’m glad it worked out for you but I’ve seen many cases where the promiscuous partner was more sexual and kinkier with past partners than their current SO. This is one of the big things that drive people crazy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/20 11:04 PM |
| 7 | Couples with unbalanced sexual histories.See in that case i agree he’s just being an ass, sounds like he had been around the block enough in terms of experience so it hypocritical of him to judge others for that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/20 10:35 PM |
| 14 | Couples with unbalanced sexual histories.True, I’ve noticed men tend to find promiscuity a much bigger turn off in women than women do in men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/20 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Compromise in relationshipsFrom what I read he was seeing a girl who had been raped and afterwards slept around a bit till she got pregnant and had an abortion. She hid his from him for a while till she came clean about her past. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/20 08:58 PM |
| 3 | How did the average female body used to look like in ancient times?It would depend on their social class I think, If they were born into royalty or other upper class they were likely to be well fed and clothed. If they were a peasant or slave, they probably were filthy in terms of hygiene, have crooked or rotted teeth, malnourished and have bone deformations brought on the above factors. Ancient and medieval times are often romanticized but life and survival were very harsh back then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/20 06:27 PM |
| 4 | Where is like between evolutionary attraction and personal taste?You guys don’t seem to understand my question here. I’m not asking if people have different attractions contrary to what biology says I’m asking WHY it happens and so far neither you nor the GhostTheEternal fella given me an educated answer as to why. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/20 10:25 AM |
| 4 | Where is like between evolutionary attraction and personal taste?A well thought out and explained answer, here is your upvote good sir/ma’am | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/20 10:08 AM |
| 6 | Where is like between evolutionary attraction and personal taste?And yet, gay men are attracted to tall muscular men and lesbians are attached to curvy women. (And if they aren’t that goes back to my original question) And people commit suicide because they are mentally ill, no one in a healthy state of mind makes the willful decision to end their life unless it is to save another in which case, it is not suicide. Or if they are suffering from a terminal illness and opt for euthanasia. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/20 10:03 AM |
| 1 | Where is like between evolutionary attraction and personal taste?I knew a girl I while back who had a bf that she was taller than and said she preferred him chubby. Past a certain age, women are incapable of childbearing (40-50ish) that’s why I threw in GILF as well which does exist. And what do you mean weasel word? Almost everybody has a fetish or some odd thing that turns them on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/20 09:46 AM |
| 6 | The Redpill Dichotomy; I want lots of casual sex but I hate women that have lots of casual sex.I go crazy when I see posts about someones SO having a high n count when they themselves had slept around too. (I can understand if one is a Virgin or low n count but some of these are just ridiculous) Or single parents refusing to date other single parents on the grounds that that person has kids and don’t want to deal with being a step parent. It’s not rocket science. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/20 08:48 AM |
| 2 | How much does the FSM affect a women's choice?Well that depends, Is she a successful and responsible profession like a doctor or lawyer seeing a high school dropout who barely works and sits at home smoking pot all day? (I know this an extreme example but you’d be surprised how common it is) Your friends want what is best for you, at least those who are actually friends. They can have outsider insight that you yourself are unable to see cause your are blinded by love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/20 08:44 AM |
| 6 | The Redpill Dichotomy; I want lots of casual sex but I hate women that have lots of casual sex.This is one of the reasons I don’t agree with Red Pill, while I agree that men should lift and be confident to attract women and that AF/BB does happen in some cases, I don’t believe they are fully right. (Hence why I’m purple pilled) My philosophy has always been this when it comes to dating. The standards you place on those you want to date, are the standards you yourself should abide by. Ex: You dont want to date people who’ve had casual sex? Don’t engage in casual sex. You don’t want to date… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/20 08:28 AM |
| 2 | What is "bluepill" philosophy exactly? What beliefs are associated with being "bluepilled"?Aren’t they just a bunch of people who troll Red Pill? Their Reddit page says, r/TheBluePill /r/TheBluePill is a satire of /r/TheRedPill and the strategies discussed on that particular sub. That being said, consider most posts on this sub to have a trigger warning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/20 08:21 AM |
| 5 | How do you define hypergamy?Hypergamy, as far as I understand, correct me if I’m wrong, (woman always seeking out better partners and will leave an relationship the moment she sees something better ) is something I have yet to see occur in real life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/20 08:18 AM |
| 2 | Compromise in relationshipsLook at his post history, it will answer your question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/20 08:13 AM |
| 1 | Compromise in relationshipsSomeone lying to you about their past to secure a relationship does that because they KNOW that info would have stopped any potential if it came out. It’s not like they lied about their favorite sports team to strike up a conversation. Do you really want to be with a person who manipulated you like that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/20 07:58 AM |
| 1 | Is Revenge Porn worse than False Accusation of Sexual Assault?I said “most people don’t like thinking about their SO being fucked by other people.” At no point did I specify this as a male only issue till I said, “seeing a video of my girl being fucked by another man, even if was before we met, would damage the relationship to the point I might end.” And notice in that statement I didn’t say “as a man”, I merely said from my personal opinion. I never denied how damaging revenge porn is but compared to a false rape accusation it’s not that bad and once agai… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/20 07:53 AM |
| 2 | Why do some men seem to prefer being boyfriend material as opposed to casual sex material?This right here. When I was in a relationship, I was always so excited to plan surprise dates and spend hours putting together gifts. For Easter that year I spent hours planning out an Easter Basket (her family didn’t do Easter Baskets so she never had one before) for her that included her favorite candies, different grooming/make up products, and a stuffed dog. I remember being so excited to surprise her with it. What Red Pill calls “beta” is what a lot of guys really enjoy doing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/20 08:52 AM |
| 1 | Why do some men seem to prefer being boyfriend material as opposed to casual sex material?It may be a turn off to you but it’s important you do that. I’m the opposite of you in that I find sexual advances and aggressiveness early on to be a big turn off but I let the girl know I’m not looking to get physical immediately because I like ti wait. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/20 08:38 AM |
| 18 | Doesn't the low participation of women on online dating apps actually prove that women care about personality more than they care about looks?People seem to forget that many people on apps like Tinder are only there to find a quikfuck. I only have heard of a handful of couples that went on with the intent to find a LTR and found one. (At least with the younger crowd, I can’t speak for older people m) A good amount of people on these apps I’d guess are younger (18-25ish) and are much more shallow and focused on looks because that’s all many of them have to bring to the table. It takes time to establish yourself with career, hobbies, pa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/20 08:28 AM |
| 2 | "Women prefer assholes"; a more well rounded perspectiveWell I do have rather peculiar taste buds but I can not swallow the red pill entirely as others Do. I’m not denying AF/BB doesn’t exist at all, I know many happy couples that simply didn’t meet till they were older and the wives love and fuck their “beta” husbands on a daily basis. (I’ve overheard more details than I care to know) No need to apologize, this is a debate group after all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/20 08:13 AM |
| 1 | "Women prefer assholes"; a more well rounded perspectiveNo, I do not, I find Redpill to be a very nihilistic and pessimistic belief system. Not every woman is as shallow as TRP makes them out to be. I merely pointed out that they have some beliefs I agree with. Just like how because I support gay marriage doesn’t make me a Democrat and supporting gun rights doesn’t make me a Republican | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/20 08:02 AM |
| 17 | Is Revenge Porn worse than False Accusation of Sexual Assault?I’m going false rape claim being worse by a LONG shot. Revenge porn will undoubtably damage your image and ruin potential relationships. Most people don’t like thinking about their SO being fucked by someone else, actually watching it is a relationship killer. I’ll be honest, seeing a video of my girl being fucked by another man, even if it was before we met, would damage the relationship to the point it might end. False rape will absolutely destroy your life (unless your rich and famous as we h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/20 07:57 AM |
| 14 | If a girl openly says she wants to find a guy who makes enough to support her and let her be a SAHMI personally would never be with someone who wanted to be a SAHM. I understand that it’s not good for kids to never see their parents cause they are always working but this leads to another issue. What happens when the husband drops dead of heart attack? I have a close family friend whose father died of a random heart attack when she was very young. Her mother, who was a SAHM at the time, suddenly found herself with no income and four mouths to feed. Even with the life insurance and state benefi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/20 07:31 AM |
| 11 | OnlyFans and nudes sent are eventually going to come around and bite women in the ass.I’m convinced every single nude online was originally meant for one person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/20 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Why do some men seem to prefer being boyfriend material as opposed to casual sex material?What I can tell you is this, I forgot to put it before You said the problem is those guys are not as extroverted and not sexually aggressive. They probably grew up in an environment that made them not want to be sexual out of Respect for women’s bodies (this is a thing) or they are nervous from lack of experience. Next time make the first move with these sexually, let him know it’s okay for him do be aggressive, it may be annoying but they may come around, if not then they are not for you and fi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/20 01:02 AM |
| 3 | Why do some men seem to prefer being boyfriend material as opposed to casual sex material?What you have is a tale as old as time. “Woman wanting to tame the exciting bad boy but he won’t commit while not pursuing the nice guy.” Not much advice to give, I’m assuming you’re young. Only thing I can really say is your tastes will change as you get older. What was sexy at 20 sometimes is not at 30. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/20 12:34 AM |
| 2 | Why do some men seem to prefer being boyfriend material as opposed to casual sex material?Sounds like you’re just not compatible with these kind of guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/20 11:01 PM |
| 15 | Why do so many men feel resentful to single mothers?The reasons I’ve heard -Single mothers, especially if they are young, indicate irresponsibility and poor judgement. Most men don’t want to take care of child that isn’t theirs. If they do they have to provide for the child but have no parental authority. if the father is not in the picture he tends to be a shit head and no one wants to deal with baby daddy drama In the case of a widowed single mother, some men feel like all they are doing is trying to fill a dead man’s shoes. There is brith cont… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/20 10:08 PM |
| 1 | How can Western Societies increase the birthrate?We are definitely overpopulated, we are closing on 8 billion people. I won’t be surprised if all the world governments implement a one child policy like China within the century if this continues. Nature will always restore balance, With overpopulation comes scarcity of needed resources. COVID was just a reminder that we can get bitchslapped out of existence at any time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/20 06:33 PM |
| 1 | What are your views on cheating and cheaters?Well if that’s how you feel you do you but majority of people do not take kindly to betrayal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/20 11:26 AM |
| 3 | What is defined as success in dating in today's world?I’d imagine the most successful are the ones who have stayed in a happy marriage for a long time and didn’t have to go through a high number of hookups or LTRs to get there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/20 11:10 AM |
| 2 | Do women see emotions as a weakness or is there a certain level of emotional expression that women perceive to be "weak"?I never let myself cry in front of others, I almost always go some where private. Not because I’m an “alpha bruh” but because a lifetime of being told “real men don’t cry” and “crying is for pussies” is really hard to undo. But I’ve seen at the dozens of funerals I’ve been to over the years. Nearly all the women will be sobbing and the only males you see crying are the children or young teens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/20 11:03 AM |
| 3 | The ways in which men "hurt" women and women "hurt" men: are they the same?When I face off again a guy, it escalates quick and gets physical but afterwards we cool down pretty quick and are over it. When I face off against a girl, it’s brutal attacks at my character and physical traits that sting for a while. Ex: In the past when I’ve gotten into heated arguments with male friends or family members, we throw some hands to blow off steam and they we get it over it and go back to being friends. Whenever I’ve gotten into bad arguments with girls I get comments like “you’r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/20 10:51 AM |
| 5 | The reason why most men struggle with dating is because OLD doesn’t work and cold approaching doesn’t workIn terms of ODL, the only people I’ve seen have success (actually getting dates) were the following. -Very attractive -Paid for full subscription on multiple apps and literally spent hours on different apps a day swiping right on every single girl. I don’t like the idea of online dating, it just seems unnatural to me but I understand that times have changed with technology and COVID lockdowns but that’s just my two cents. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/20 10:44 AM |
| 9 | "Women prefer assholes"; a more well rounded perspectiveI feel this is due to maturity more than anything, From 14 to now (currently 25) I’ve seen many women from all walks of life go through their “bad boy” phase and dated men who were unavailable, unwilling to commit, unfaithful, etc yet were hot and exciting. At 25 many people are past that phase in their life and now looking for something more stable and serious though the men who possess the qualities they seek are often the men they passed over. Guys who were rejected or not sought after during… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/20 10:16 AM |
| 4 | Curse of Being AttractiveI find this similar to a comic I saw a while back. One man focuses all his energy on his career and becomes a billionaire yet despite all the pleasures he can buy, he craves so bad the love of a wife and children. The other man didn’t do anything for work and while has his wife and children that he loves, longs for the ability to provide for his family. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/20 08:14 AM |
| 2 | What are your views on cheating and cheaters?Batman is the GOAT so I’ll take that as a compliment. So you’re telling me if your SO cheated you would not be upset with them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/20 05:16 AM |
| 1 | What are your views on cheating and cheaters?When you are dating someone, the point is they chose you to be with, they care about you and love you, you are supposed to be the sexiest and hottest to them along with the kindest and most loving. When someone cheats that tells the betrayed that they aren’t good enough, that they aren’t attractive, they aren’t good in bed. It’s not always about sex either, some affairs are emotional which means they love someone else more than you. It’s a betrayal of trust which is among the worst things you ca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/20 03:54 AM |
| 1 | Why do men say women *hit the wall* at 30. Curious.There are hair follicle transplant surgeries but I’d imagine it’s expensive and most likely not covered under insurance due to it being a cosmetic surgery instead of a necessary life saving one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/20 02:33 AM |
| 1 | Why do men say women *hit the wall* at 30. Curious.He mentioned how men losing their hair is a huge blow to their sex appeal. I was merely giving the experience of someone who lost it a young age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/20 02:30 AM |
| 2 | Why do men say women *hit the wall* at 30. Curious.Hell I think Nancy Pelosi looks very good for age and she’s in her 70s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/20 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Why do men say women *hit the wall* at 30. Curious.The hair loss hit home with me. My hair started receding at 17 and at 25 it was game over, It was a HUGE insecurity of mine, especially in college. At that point no hairstyle could make it look good so I ended up just shaving it all and now I rock a bald head. I am fortunate though, i have the perfect shaped head and facial structure to pull it off very well. Many people who knew me when I still had a full head said I look more masculine and handsome with a shaved head. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/20 02:23 AM |
| 3 | How would you like women and/or men to interact with you?I would like women to approach me in a plain polite manner. It’s kind of a turn off if they are too aggressive (over complimenting, getting physical right away, etc) I like to take things slow. Even if we don’t wind up being a good match it’s still nice to have a conversation with the opposite gender | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/20 02:16 AM |
| 26 | Young men are not being "radicalized" by random men on the internet; their views/opinions are much more so being forged by what women themselves directly say on social media and other public forums.I believe the exact quote is “a child who is not embraced by the village will burn it down to feel its warmth” Still a good point though. Here’s your upvote | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/20 02:09 AM |
| 2 | Why do men say women *hit the wall* at 30. Curious.I believe it’s mostly a revenge fantasy by incels and TRP. A lot of guys are passed over and ignored by girls in their youth. When they reach 30 and their looks are starting to fade they relish in the fact they will be as invisible now as the guys were when they were younger. As far as the wall goes, a lot of people, men and women, do hit it hard in their 30s not because they naturally turn into old wrinkly hags but because the price of their youth comes due. They don’t take care of themselves a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/20 02:06 AM |
| 6 | Is it harder to get a LTR after 30 nowadays? Why? How do you turn the table?Idk about that, you’re still so young at 23, unless you had a rough home life and difficult teen years, 23 year olds haven’t experienced the really harsher parts of life (Death of a parent, financial stress, Personal illness) to be jaded yet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/20 01:55 AM |
| 31 | Young men are not being "radicalized" by random men on the internet; their views/opinions are much more so being forged by what women themselves directly say on social media and other public forums.I believe virgin shaming is what creates incels. It’s a tale as old as time, the male Virgin is viewed and judged as a loser by society. These guys are constantly shamed by men and women, being told they “aren’t real men” or that “they are losers” cause they can’t get laid. Being constantly reminded that you are undesirable while watching others swim in what you want so bad while being made fun of for not being able to achieve that is bound to make someone bitter and angry, especially someone wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/20 01:44 AM |
| 1 | Why would you chose to sleep around rather than look for a relationship first?Some people can not only be with one person, others are hardwired for monogamy. Some people need multiple lovers (polyamory) others are only sexual attracted to those they love (demisexuso) It all depends I suppose. I personally would rather have a relationship than sleep around. With that being said though, everyone I’ve known to be promiscuous (including family, friends, acquaintances) only a handful were able to stay faithful in an relationship/marriage. I tend to veer away from dating promis… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/20 01:21 AM |
| 29 | The more physically attractive a woman is the more shallow she’ll be in her mating choicesThis right here. A lot of people have trouble acknowledging this. If you have standards for who you want to date then you should abide by those standards yourself. I can’t help but roll my eyes when some obese unemployed neckbeard demands a 10/10 Virgin wife or when an overweight single mother on welfare demands a guy who makes six figures and looks like Chris Hemsworth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/20 12:54 AM |
| 2 | What are your views on cheating and cheaters?My father cheated on my mom throughout thier marriage and my mother only stayed to give my siblings and I am illusion of a happy family. As such, I have very little tolerance of cheaters, they are weak and treacherous. If you have cheated and actually feel regret? All you can do is never do it again, the stigma and guilt will remain with you forever and there is nothing you can do erase it or help heal your victim. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/20 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Many people here talk about how well women have it, how men are judged by so many things, status, etc. but what can be done about it? What can you do if, for example, as a man you envy women for their power and options?I never said men get better with age, i was only pointing out that women have an easier time dating cause they are young and it gets harder as they get older. There are plenty of middle aged men who are clearly past their peak. I was just trying to give you some insight that being a male isn’t as bad as you’ve portrayed it to be. And it’s not just women who will judge you if your life is a mess at a certain age. If you are 35 and have not had an established career, your own place and car, and re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/20 09:29 PM |
| 2 | Girls vs guys and double standards.A few years back i went to a nightclub in Chicago for a 21st birthday. (Funny side note, the girl whose birthday we were celebrating never even made it to the club cause she blacked out during the pregame) Anyways I was in line and the girl in front of was wearing a dress that was so tight and short her ass was literally hanging out and you could see her underwear, she got in no problem. When I came up I was wearing a polo and knee length khaki shorts and the bouncer told me “no Shorts allowed” … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/20 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Many people here talk about how well women have it, how men are judged by so many things, status, etc. but what can be done about it? What can you do if, for example, as a man you envy women for their power and options?I’m gonna assume you are late teens to mid twenties. When you are young, looks are all that matter cause that’s all many people have to bring to the table. As you get older you begin to take into account other qualities as well. True women may have an easier time with dating/sex when they are young but this doesn’t last long. I do no follow or believe TRP but they make a good point that once a woman’s looks start to fade, they start to become invisible to men. Throw in a kid from a previous rela… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/20 09:12 PM |
| 17 | Is it harder to get a LTR after 30 nowadays? Why? How do you turn the table?I think it’s as simple as the following. There are less single people as you grow older so your options are very limited. Those who are still single past a certain age are single for a reason (Personality issues, refusal to settle down, unattractive, etc) or have a lot of baggage (divorce, kids, etc) it’s rare to find someone attractive and LTR material that doesn’t have a failed marriage or kids under their belt at that age. Most people just are not attractive anymore, it’s not because you get … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/20 08:49 PM |
| 13 | How often do you see a handsome man with an unattractive woman?I’ve seen this before all the time, good looking women with sub par looking men but I’ve never seen a muscular handsome man with an obese woman unless he has a fetish for it. It’s more common among younger couples, after a while with the combined effects of aging and sense of comfort, one generally lets themselves go and they gain weight so the looks even out. A good example of this is a family friend, she was very attractive (thin, curvy, glowing skin) and worked hard to maintain that and her n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/20 08:40 PM |
| 2 | If it was more socially acceptable to wear makeup as a man, would you?I’m not even much of a fan with makeup on women. I remember going to formal events (weddings, school dances, etc) and some of the girls literally looked like mannequins they had so much makeup on. I’d rather see someone’s natural face, flaws and all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/20 01:49 AM |
| 2 | Men who want to marry eventually need to raise their standardsWent to private catholic school, can confirm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/20 06:46 PM |
| 5 | Men who want to marry eventually need to raise their standardsIdk OP, there’s a big gap between a Virgin and promiscuous. I don’t find promiscuity attractive but I wouldn’t rule someone out if they say, had a single ONS and realized it wasn’t for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/20 11:20 AM |
| 7 | How is hookup material much different to dating material?Hookup material is usually very attractive and is charming/confident while being good in bed but make for poor LTR due to unwillingness to commit or personality issues. Bf material tend to be more average looking and stable, these guys usually don’t give the same tingles as hookup material but make up for it in care and kindness. Problem is most guys would rather be hookup material. You see all the time on reddit on how guys wait weeks, sometimes longer for sex from their GF when she fucked the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/20 10:51 AM |
| 6 | CMV: Yes, men feel insecure when it comes to women who are more successful than themI wouldn’t say I’m intimidated by a woman more successful than me. In fact, I prefer if she is able to make good money so if something happens to me then I know she will be okay in terms of money. An old friend of mine, her father died when she was very young and her mother (who was a stay at home mom at the time) suddenly found herself with no income and four Mouths to feed, it wasn’t easy for them. Supporting someone while they work to accomplish something is one for the best pleasures in life… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/20 07:37 AM |
| 0 | Why do people waste so much time trying to have sex?Let me give you some perspective, My last and only serious relationship, while I was devastated when it ended many years ago, I’m glad it happened cause even if I never get into one again, I at least had the experience and won’t be wondering “what if” when I die. Being in love is honestly one of the greatest experiences you can have in life, even if it comes to an end. As far as sex goes, I’m one of those people that can’t do casual sex, I’ve tried it before once and I’d rather be celibate than … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/20 07:14 AM |
| 1 | Why do people waste so much time trying to have sex?Well if that’s what you feel you do you but it’s gonna be tough if you hit 30 with no dating experience. I ain’t judging though, some people are more career oriented than others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/20 05:09 AM |
| 1 | Question for Men: What about having a partner whose company you enjoy?Isn’t that whole point of LTR/marriage material? Someone who aside from sex you enjoy spending time with? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/20 04:18 AM |
| 1 | Does Virgin shaming create incels?I’m not an incel, I was asking if Virgin shaming contributes to the creation of them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/20 02:30 AM |
| 1 | Why do people waste so much time trying to have sex?Have you considered getting a girlfriend then? At least that would be more trustworthy than strangers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/20 12:42 AM |
| 2 | Why do people waste so much time trying to have sex?You may have a low sex drive or are asexual but some people are driven by the pleasure that comes from it. You bring up a good point though, I have seen many people fuck up their whole life with sex, most notably my friends younger sister who has been left a single mother at age 20 from the father who is out of the picture completely and has had to put a complete halt on her life now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/20 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Question to sexually/dating unsuccessful men: wouldn't you rather be gay?Throughout my whole life I have been hit on, complimented, and lusted for by gay men FAR more than women. Gay men usually like masculine traits (body hair, muscular/husky figure, deep voice) more than women. Yeah I reckon if I was gay I’d be getting more action but I can’t just turn gay | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/20 09:59 PM |
| 1 | What exactly is a desirable/marriageable man, anyway?From what I’ve seen, (watched three older sisters go through many boyfriends and then finally get married) Humor, can make her laugh. Handy, one BIL is a carpenter, one is a grammar editor, one is a lawyer. All three can provide some useful advice or help. Stable, no randomly quitting jobs, drug or excessive alcohol use, responsible with finances. Good with children (two sisters have kids, one is planning) Dad bods, all three BIL are 30+ and have a gut and lack any muscular Definition but my sis… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/20 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: What makes some people better at getting casual sex than others?Looks for sure. It’s not even a debate there. Unless you lower your standards to nothing it’s gonna be rough for you if you are under a 7/10. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/20 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Alpha and Beta are a spectrumI know, that’s why I said the case varies, I was just pointing out what I’ve seen happen. You | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/20 03:53 AM |
| 4 | Alpha and Beta are a spectrumWhat I’ve noticed is that beta/alpha qualities are never in tandem with each other. Example, Boy reaches teen and young adult years wanting to date. Has been told by family to treat girl with a beta approach (Being responsible, no risky behavior, over compliment) this behavior is boring to a young lady who craves excitement and passion. Girl goes after the alpha type who come off as arrogant and douchey, (exciting). Guy who has been rejected sees this and formulates that girls like assholes. Guy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/20 01:30 AM |
| 1 | How does society deal with the impacts of the precipitous decline of sexual activity among young men?In my experience, the guys who struggled the most with dating and sex were the ones who were mama boys or grew up with in a single mother Household. In both these cases they are exposed to a more feminine world view and can make good friends with women but are unable to generate that romantic/lustful feeling that comes from being masculine. I can speak from experience since my parents were divorced and I hardly ever saw my dad (before Red Pill attacks my mother, my father was a cheating bastard)… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/20 12:36 AM |
| -2 | How does society deal with the impacts of the precipitous decline of sexual activity among young men?I feel it has mostly to do with the rise of single parenthood. Lots of young men are growing up without a father figure to teach them how to attract women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/20 08:57 PM |
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