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think of it more as a civic duty.
/r/seduction10/12/19 02:54 AM
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tf u wanna know how often he jerks off for? he already said he has a high sex drive, isn't that enough????
/r/seduction19/11/19 03:14 AM
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Here is the thing: In all likelihood, even after having an honest conversation with her, she isn't just going to throw the friendship away with this other guy for the sake of your relationship with her. This is because IME girls have a hard time saying 'no' and stepping up. So, if after talking with her things dont really change, you need to ask yourself i her behaviour is something you can live with. My advice would be to break up with her if things don't change. Remember, part of the secret of…
/r/seduction18/04/19 02:30 AM
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desperate times my friend
/r/seduction29/03/19 09:47 PM
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This happened to me and I have spent a lot of time unpacking and understanding it. Honestly, erectile dysfunction can be hugely related to emotions and psychology. For instance, I was with a girl who was really emotionally withdrawn and also quite judge. During the night she talked about how in her small town she dated football players with massive dicks and blah blah blah (in retrospect, this was likely because she was trying to make herself seem sexually desirable to me). In the end, my penis …
/r/seduction29/03/19 05:46 PM
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Bro u need to clarify because this sounds like rant of someone with both schizophrenia AND autism
/r/seduction08/03/19 09:34 PM
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thank u :) have a blessed day
/r/seduction08/03/19 06:02 PM
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This seems really plausible , thank u.
/r/seduction07/03/19 10:08 PM
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This is a really interesting way to put it. Hmmm. I think you are right. The one saving grace might be that she is into being the vice-president in bed, i think. Like she is into it when I choke her a bit, slap her ass, etc. The issue is that in conversation/ out of the bedroom stuff she is more-so the alpha/ intense one. and I am having a hard time separating those.
/r/seduction07/03/19 09:45 PM
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Good for you Where is "putting girls on a pedestal" coming from? Meh, don't even bother replying. I won't reply further to your ridiculous unwillingness to accept that precise strategy can be a useful tool.
/r/seduction28/02/19 11:29 PM
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The philosophy that "the dude is always in control over how he presents himself and communicates" is often empowering as it encourages people to stop seeing the road blocks and to focus on the opportunities. However, such a way of thinking needs to be paired with an appreciation of objective pragmatic concerns. The apps are different. The difference in set up entails a slightly different game for each app. For example, regardless of how much I believe that 'all the power is in my hands', I can't…
/r/seduction28/02/19 11:11 PM
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Hinge and Bumble are more geared towards meeting up and getting coffee, whereas TInder is less so.
/r/seduction28/02/19 07:49 AM
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OP, avoid making comments about her looks as you ask her out, as it will get her guard up immediately and may make her distrustful of you (insofar as she interprets your looks-based compliment as an indication that all you are really interested in is sex, rather than being interested in her as a person). Since you have informally hung out, its a great opportunity to emphasize how cool you think she is, and how much of a good impression you have of her from what you know of her. And yeah, like ev…
/r/seduction22/02/19 03:09 AM
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Can someone save me a click pls
/r/seduction22/02/19 03:07 AM
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This is assuming that OP is, in fact, in Japan. If you mean japanese girls who are expats in your country, then they are often very clique-y and youll have a hard time getting in. I think the #1 rule is dont make it about their race. If you are in Japan, play dumb tourist, but also be forwards. Play comfort big time, too.
/r/seduction22/02/19 03:00 AM
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Take that thought a couple steps further: Ask yourself: Why do I find it degrading? Why am I afraid of not having power in all situations? And lets be clear, just because you are fit, tall, handsome, rich, and well-endowed does not mean you aren't a terrified human being, which is immediately apparent from your post. Machoism is in direct proportion to a mans fear.
/r/seduction09/02/19 05:53 PM
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Respect for yourself =/= fear
/r/seduction09/02/19 02:54 PM
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Gape me snack-daddy bae
/r/seduction04/02/19 04:12 AM
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I could see how this comes off as creepy to the extent that I mention that some asian chicks are small (which, to be fair, isn't true--Asians are of varying height), and also maybe because I'm picking them out as an avenue of sexual interest based on their race. But aside from that, I really don't see what separates this post as 'predatory' from the other content on this board. For something to be predatory it is necessary that it be exploitative--no where in my written post nor in my earnest in…
/r/seduction25/01/19 02:29 AM
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I think something that comes with entering into your sexual life and becoming more savvy with respect to women is that, when you start, your standards are super fucking high, and it is a major disservice. My biggest advice is to bring yourself to bang some ugly girls. TBH you won't be disappointed--rather, you will be amazed to discover that looks aren't everything, and that you can actually see beauty in something that you may have once thought was ugly. After banging ugly girls, my game improv…
/r/seduction25/01/19 01:07 AM
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Sometimes you've got to just fuckin make the moves. It's a wild ride, and you are jumping into an abyss... maybe you will land in pussy, but maybe you will land in the street. Honestly, though, you're going to be fine regardless. So u need to chill. If it doesn't work out with this gal, the failure you experience will learn ya, and make you even more of a sexy beast going forwards to the next gal. Once, I was on an exchange and I was walking with a girl from the UK (I'm Canadian). I asked her st…
/r/seduction11/12/18 05:42 AM
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Also, doing stuff is sexy. What girl wants to get with a slinky-stalker? Girls can sniff you out if you. So do your mission and bring them along! Great way to qualify as well.
/r/seduction11/12/18 05:32 AM
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There are a couple things. ​ A lot of this board is all about positive mindsets and "faking it till you make it". This can be highly useful, and I would certainly look into that sort of thing and employ it. Secondly, rather than faking it, try to do some things that are difficult and challenging. Remember: failure is part of success. The more you do, the less you will feel needy and insecure. Think about it: Remember when going to soccer practice away from your mom was a super stressful thing? N…
/r/seduction11/12/18 05:29 AM
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Whatever you do, make sure you that you are engaged with something and not just sitting around at home--it will ruin your relationship otherwise.
/r/seduction11/12/18 05:24 AM
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Cutting straight to the point (or rather honesty) has been the tool in my toolbelt that has paid the greatest dividends, methinks. Cutting to the point is great but you've got to do it eloquently. This is easy. Instead of saying "Hey So and so would you like to go on a date sometime?" , I would bolster it and open your heart up a bit to her. Say "Hey X, I just wanted to say that I had a really great night with you last night, and I have been thinking about it today. Actually, I want to ask you i…
/r/seduction11/12/18 05:23 AM
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Bro I wish I could help you but I have such little knowledge about game in India. I did go there, once, and it seemed to me like dating wasn't really a thing and there were religious and familial implications to sexuality that simply are not there in the West. Im sorry. God Speed.
/r/seduction10/12/18 08:31 PM
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Never let them cause you to lose your center. Don't give a fuck, and send some back at them. It turns girls on if you can run with their riffs. And a girl who can out-riff you is gunna be tough... I wanted a girl to come to my house the other day, because we had been going to hers for the past while. She was being stubborn and I was putting my foot down, too, saying that she needed to come over this time. She tested me by saying "What is this all about, do you feel emasculated or some shit?" and…
/r/seduction10/12/18 08:28 PM
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A really effective strategy for approaches IMO is observing and trying to see if that person has something in common with you, or something you can start a conversation about. Look at the shit in her cart, ask her what she thinks about item X she is buying, and then try to get the conversation as deep as possible without making any reference to her body, attractiveness etc. Girls have a major radar for being pursued only for their looks, so don't let them on to the fact that you are a pussy-hung…
/r/seduction10/12/18 08:23 PM
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tl;dr: Thank you and update Thank you to everyone who contributed to this post--I feel like some great discussion was generated that included varying perspectives, all of which are very helpful. Update (strategies employed and outcomes): I have not completely ignored her, but I have taken a step back--texting less, putting in less energy etc. Even with this little change, the result has been great--more attention from her, more approval seeking. Also, I incorporated one of my strategies, namely …
/r/seduction10/12/18 07:53 PM
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High school btw We can tell from the quality of this post...
/r/seduction09/12/18 02:53 AM
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Thank you so much. Great response. You are doing God's work, my man.
/r/seduction09/12/18 01:03 AM
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Thank you for reply Vince, I appreciate it. I will certainly keep it light and sweet, and pull the plug if it gets to be a pain--there are always other great girls. Could you specify in greater detail how you make it known that you aren't putting up with their shit? It seems easy when the situation is her asking me to do something, and then me putting my foot down. However, I am confused as to how to set boundaries when she is the one setting boundaries (eg. saying no to sex) and I am the one wh…
/r/seduction09/12/18 12:36 AM
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Haha, noted about not marrying the lawyer--never considered that! Looking into my heart, her tendency to do exactly as you say (make rules, say no, and control everything) is frankly not that great, especially compared to girls who are more considerate and receptive to compromise. Being in a relationship where I have to struggle intensely merely to compromise sounds like hell to me.
/r/seduction08/12/18 11:34 PM
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Thanks for your reply Serpent. I agree 100%--the relationship seems to be totally on her terms. I will certainly be giving her 'space' (ignoring, as reccomended by Kenic). I think the ignoring is also my only option to address the 'red flag' that you have brought up--gotta get my hands back on the reins. If there is one thing I have learned with this shit is the paradox of letting go bc I have a lot to offer and there is always another hoe ;)
/r/seduction08/12/18 11:19 PM
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Thanks again, Kenic. Great stuff, will employ.
/r/seduction08/12/18 11:14 PM
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Thanks very much Kenic, thank you for putting this into perspective. I think that I very well may go the 'ignoring' route. What do you think is the best way to do it? Should I be upfront (which is usually my style) and saying something like "Listen X, I think you are great, but I'm in this to be lovers, and I'm not comfortable being just friends."? I've never used ignoring as a technique, so I am not sure how to apply it effectively. It often seems harsh and I wonder if it is something you have …
/r/seduction08/12/18 11:04 PM
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I think that a drive-thru window is actually quite a hard approach to make. One thing I have noticed while trying to get numbers from chicks who are working is that even if I am killing it, they are super paranoid that their boss or co-worker is going to see them. And it makes sense--we are different (and often more professional) people at work than we are elsewhere. My solution to this has been to try and get them to come with me to a more secluded aspect of their workplace and then ask them to…
/r/seduction29/11/18 08:04 AM
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