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| 2 | Where does everyone get their seduction information outside of RSD? | Supatroopa_ | /r/seduction | 11/11/16 09:40 AM |
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| 1 | I'm Todd Valentine... Ask Me Anything (AMA)Are you doing any coaching or bootcamps? If yes where can I find the information? | /r/seduction | 06/12/17 09:14 PM |
| 4 | How important is social media for game?Is it the be all end all? No Does it help? Of course it fucking helps! Remember; pickup is an art, not a science. We want to do things that increase our win percentage and our EV (expected value). So is bragging about having lots of follows on IG going to get you in her pants. Probably not like that. But if you close a girl using IG and you happen to have lots of followers it's going to give you some pre selection and solidfy a day 2. | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 09:48 AM |
| 3 | My twelve REAL reasons why you suck with women (it's GOOD NEWS for 98% of struggling men)You can go out without spending a dime | /r/seduction | 22/01/17 11:38 AM |
| 1 | Why Complimenting Girls Gets Me Laid, A Lot...Whichever PUs say not to compliment are stuck in the old PU "tactics" | /r/seduction | 11/01/17 03:59 AM |
| 2 | The best way to prepare for a date is make your day as productive as possible and forget you even have a dateLive in the now. If there's nothing you can do now to help the outcome of the date, then put it out of your mind until something arises that can. Gotta love Eckhart Tolle | /r/seduction | 05/01/17 04:16 AM |
| 4 | I seriously don't know where to go to meet women.How do you know the girls at parties aren't the ones you want? Just because they are hitting keg stands and body shots doesn't mean they aren't good girls at day. Its fucking college! Live a little! | /r/seduction | 25/11/16 09:43 AM |
| 1 | Need Help Analyzing my Field Report - hopefully you can learn from my mistakes tooBearing in mind that I can only comment on what you've said, it didn't sound like your kino was based off of positive feedback. It sounds more like you just touched her cause you knew you had to. It sounded more like she put her head there for the exercise and not because she wanted to. From your explanation, everything came from the wrong frame and looked like you were pushing escalation because you knew you had a time restraint, not because it felt right. | /r/seduction | 11/11/16 10:45 AM |
| 2 | You see a girl at the library. You don't know her, haven't met her. How do you approach her?Why not go for the insta date? "Hey you look like you've been studying too hard. Would you like to have a break and grab a coffee?" | /r/seduction | 11/11/16 09:38 AM |
| 1 | Random politically incorrect truths I've noticed after years of doing and observing night game.Create that FOMO and all your other friends will want to go out with you! | /r/seduction | 11/11/16 09:33 AM |
| 1 | Need Help Analyzing my Field Report - hopefully you can learn from my mistakes tooYeah but your talking happened at the start. When you started your escalation you kept dragging her out of the comfort zone and then not recalibrating back in. You just kept trying to force the escalation. As soon as she pulled away from your hand on her knee, bring the conversation back to topics of comfort and value, then start escalation again. This is why you should subtly escalating more throughout the date, so that the physical stuff doesn't feel too out of place and foreign. Instead you I… | /r/seduction | 11/11/16 09:29 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Rejected, 30 mins later succeededGood job man. In regards to girl 1; you didn't build any social capital, yet asked something from her. To put it simply: $0 in the bank, asking for number = $100, account declined. You need to give girls some value before you ask from them. | /r/seduction | 11/11/16 09:21 AM |
| 2 | How do you approach an attractive person in a loud environment?Move her closer or to a quieter spot | /r/seduction | 11/11/16 09:11 AM |
| 1 | I asked a girl out and she said yes but I didnt use the word date.How did you get her number? | /r/seduction | 11/11/16 09:09 AM |
| 2 | Should you follow up with a girl after spending time?Ha I like your name! | /r/seduction | 11/11/16 09:08 AM |
| 1 | I can approach, talk to for 5 mins and get girls numbers no problem, how do i transition to meeting up?From Todd's valentine university There's 4 types of texts 1) Silence - give value to her until she responds (funny pictures, INTERESTING observations of your day, etc.) 2) Shit test - pass the shit test and gain massive amounts of attraction 3) Casual conversation - evaluate, escalate to a text close (date, sex, etc.) or give vslue 4) Clearly Postive - go for a soft close, 3 part close instead of 1 close (Are you adventurous? Do you like to hang out with cute boys? We should go for a drink/coffe… | /r/seduction | 11/11/16 09:07 AM |
| 1 | Handling logistics over text... confusingPicnic | /r/seduction | 11/11/16 09:01 AM |
| 9 | Random politically incorrect truths I've noticed after years of doing and observing night game.Also you can create a social circle by the time the second half of the night starts. I get what he's saying though that beginners aren't confident enough to pull it off sometimes, but that kind of assumes theyre doing to places where the girls are much higher value than beginners are use to. | /r/seduction | 11/11/16 06:53 AM |
| 1 | I have trouble leading conversationsOh. The way you worded it sounded like you couldn't get into conversations | /r/seduction | 08/11/16 09:00 PM |
| 2 | Approaching women in front of their parents?I think I got this from one of RSD Madison's BOSS introduction videos on YouTube but I'm glad I wrote this down to share Mother/Daughter set "Seduce the mother" Opening the mother gains massive amounts of passive attraction with the girl. Try the "sister" open (You two look like sisters, are you shopping together?) Father/Daughter set Frame the open so that if the father disapproves of you, the girl takes your side instead of his (funny and charming) (Since Madison is black) "In my country, for … | /r/seduction | 08/11/16 12:47 PM |
| 1 | Thought I scored in person, got rejected over textYou lost all the attraction you built in person, then assumed you still had it when you went to text her. You needed to build value again through text, then close on a date. Also when you ask about a specific time /place for a date without getting the yes to a date first, youre setting it up for a lot of escape options, rather than cooperation. Think of it like a dart board. If the bullseye is the goal and everything else is a miss, you have a lot of area to miss. But if you frame it so the bull… | /r/seduction | 08/11/16 12:32 PM |
| 1 | I have trouble leading conversationsYou could try a 100 set of just going out and saying hi to random people | /r/seduction | 08/11/16 12:23 PM |
| 2 | Went on a first date with a girl and had an amazing time, amazing sex, but she said this one thing to me... The problem is I have mad feelings for her... (TLDR at bottom)Commit or move on. Prettt simple really (I only read TLDR) | /r/seduction | 08/11/16 12:21 PM |
| 3 | What do you do when the girl you're texting starts losing interest?From Todd's valentine university There's 4 types of texts 1) Silence - give value to her until she responds (funny pictures, INTERESTING observations of your day, etc.) 2) Shit test - pass the shit test and gain massive amounts of escalation 3) Casual conversation - evaluate, escalate to a text close (date, sex, etc.) or give vslue 4) Clearly Postive - go for a soft close, 3 part close instead of 1 close (Are you adventurous? Do you like to hang out with cute boys? We should go for a drink/coffe… | /r/seduction | 08/11/16 12:20 PM |
| 1 | How do you make yourself more interesting?Is dentistry your passion? Just be true and say I don't have to much time for hobbies because I'm really into my dentistry! Hobbies are meant to convey passion and personality, so convey it with the thing that's taking up most of your life. | /r/seduction | 08/11/16 12:14 PM |
| 1 | I find it hard to 'flirt' with colleaguesGo high frame and comfort, with a splash of value. If you start qualifying at work then you will probably get the wrong vibes at work and it will be a LOT more public. | /r/seduction | 08/11/16 12:12 PM |
| 2 | Thank you guysWhat close did you get? | /r/seduction | 07/11/16 07:37 AM |
| 1 | This Video About Confident Body Language Is Extremely Helpful! :)Honestly, there's no substitute for the real thing. You shouldn't be trying to "appear" to be more confident. You should be removing the parts of your life that don't make you confident. When youre having an awesome day, hitting life goals or some small thing happens in your day to give you a confidence boost, youre body will project that without you knowing. So why try and fake it when you can have it always? | /r/seduction | 25/10/16 12:39 AM |
| 2 | How do you turn a normal conversation into flirting?As soon as youre in with the group just start focusing your attention to the one you want. Not just conversation but body language as well. Escalate to her. | /r/seduction | 22/10/16 01:49 AM |
| 9 | How do you turn a normal conversation into flirting?Certain topics can become more sexual than others. For example, if you start talking about the weather, youre not really going to go anywhere sexual with it (unless youre experienced). But start talking about tattoos and where she might have them, piercings and whether she has any hidden. So always be aware of the conversation youre having | /r/seduction | 21/10/16 04:08 PM |
| 1 | I've had girls meet me for coffee, and then we had great conversation for about two hours. None of them text me back afterwards. What gives?That's not how you build attraction. You need to go through the sidebar and read a bit. 1) Kino: Physical touching, especially at the right moments, will gain a lot of attraction 2) I, You?, You!, We: the 4 escalations of topic to build attraction; I - talking about yourself "I like X, I don't like Y." You? - Asking questions about her "Do you like X?" You! - Making statements about the girl "You seem like the kind of girl whose into X" We - Talking about both of you in a partnership (us vs the … | /r/seduction | 12/10/16 04:26 AM |
| 2 | The boring shit testThis. When I watched RSD Max do it I just laughed | /r/seduction | 12/10/16 04:07 AM |
| 1 | How can I be clear with women?But what feels weird? Is it the talking to them? Are you afraid of rejection? The convo going stale? | /r/seduction | 12/10/16 04:00 AM |
| 1 | I just might be the luckiest man alive.Mmm. Probably more to do with inexperience then, because it was on the table. If you liked the girl then hit her up for a casual date. I don't chase girls past 2 attempts though. Also when you suggest going on a casual (1st date is always casual) don't make it open ended, like "when are you free?" Make it direct, like "I'm going to X tonight, you should come for a drink" Edit: minor text fixes | /r/seduction | 12/10/16 03:03 AM |
| 1 | How can I be clear with women?You need to analyse it in your mind. Right now just really remember the feeling you get when you get to that stage. Now explore it! Why do you feel this way? | /r/seduction | 12/10/16 02:57 AM |
| 1 | I just might be the luckiest man alive.Bro you didn't game the second girl at all?! You gotta remember logistics. Screen for friends in the club, is she from your area, etc. If she has friends in the club, you either have to isolate the girl so she feels comfortable doing stuff around you and not being slut shamed, and/or get in good with the friends so they accept that you are "gaming" their friend. The 2nd girl didn't like you because she got no attention. Did you think the other girl would just be into it because her friend was do… | /r/seduction | 12/10/16 02:54 AM |
| 1 | I want to fix my consNon of your pros or cons really matter. Just get into game. Treat it like a hobby and soak up as much information. You'll find that looks and characteristics, while helpful, don't mean that in the end. For managing your confidence, you need to look into inner game. RSD julien and Tyler talk a lot about this. You can change everything that is in your cons, so get out there and improve yourself! | /r/seduction | 07/10/16 07:22 AM |
| 1 | Online dating doesn't seem to work and I don't meet any women in real life eitherYeah that's what I said in a roundabout way. He only has day game, or more correctly, non partying game. | /r/seduction | 06/10/16 05:16 AM |
| 1 | How do you manage staying single but meeting other women and getting closer to dating with the women you meet?As this guy says, just ride it out until they want something serious. Then be honest. | /r/seduction | 06/10/16 05:14 AM |
| 2 | Rookie Mistake 102Why not just ask them to put their number in your phone? | /r/seduction | 06/10/16 05:12 AM |
| 1 | Online dating doesn't seem to work and I don't meet any women in real life eitherAs he doesn't like clubs, I don't see anywhere else he could game | /r/seduction | 06/10/16 05:10 AM |
| 2 | Online dating doesn't seem to work and I don't meet any women in real life eitherNo what he's saying is, is there a way for me to get girls while not going outside or fucking up my introversion. | /r/seduction | 06/10/16 04:58 AM |
| 1 | Want to get better with women, not become a PUAWell I don't know which RSD guys you are watching but there's definitely advice from them that can be sought. I think RSDmax is probably who youre after. Especially this video of just making it a habit in your everyday life. Also watching RSD Luke about social circle and getting the friends and people actively working on looking for girls for you | /r/seduction | 06/10/16 02:11 AM |
| 9 | Online dating doesn't seem to work and I don't meet any women in real life eitherBro I was there living your life 6 months ago. I was a GE in CSGO, playing in high level amatuer scene in Australia. I use to sit in my room playing games for 10+ hrs a day. Shit happened in my life that made me want to change it. I discovered PU game and have not looked back! Life isn't scary outside your bubble. The biggest hurdle in PU isn't talking to women. It's getting rid of the voice in your head that justifies not hitting on women. Not only that but that voice is stopping you from doing… | /r/seduction | 05/10/16 04:06 PM |
| 2 | Approach 👍🏼 Solid connection 👍🏼 Talking to them after that❌Seems like all youre doing is spiking positive emotions. She needs some negatives. Negatives don't mean being mean to the girl, but disagreeing with her on things. Also how are you opening in your text game? | /r/seduction | 05/10/16 01:24 PM |
| 1 | Want to get better with women, not become a PUADo you mean logistically or opening? | /r/seduction | 05/10/16 01:21 PM |
| 19 | Online dating doesn't seem to work and I don't meet any women in real life eitherWomen don't exist in your bedroom. They don't just spawn there either. Real life happens outside your house. Sounds like you don't have a problem with women persay, but getting the fuck out and living life! | /r/seduction | 05/10/16 01:03 PM |
| 1 | Is this a skill or a change in habits?It's a skill at first, that becomes part of your lifestyle. If you want the best results you have to treat it like a hobby. You need to train and put time into it. You have to break down and analyse what you did wrong/right so that you can maximise your results. Once youve got it down pat you don't have to be someone who is out trying all the time. You can just use it when youre out and about and want to hit on a pretty girl you see. | /r/seduction | 05/10/16 08:11 AM |
| 1 | What about woman perspective?It's all about being a value giver, not a value taker. Guys forget that the girls are actually human beings that they are trying to stick their dick in. | /r/seduction | 04/10/16 10:25 AM |
| 6 | Severe oneitis and can't move on. Would appreciate words of wisdom or a slap in the face.As julien blanc says in his manifesto, you can't keep running from the feeling to get over it, you have to go through it. Really just sit down and go through the feeling. Why is it hard to get over her? Why was she perfect? But not just ask the question and answer it, you have to explore it. And just be brutally honest with yourself. It hurts, but it hurts more not letting go | /r/seduction | 04/10/16 10:14 AM |
| 1 | So... maybe the wrong place but I trust you guys more.Both can definitely lead to the same outcome. So it's up to you. Where are you more comfortable escalating? Be mindful that the thing she suggested will have a little more weight than your suggestion, but it's really in your court. Be a man though and make the decision. | /r/seduction | 04/10/16 10:03 AM |
| 1 | Stuck in friendzone?Sidebar Learn how to actually pickup women Thank me later | /r/seduction | 04/10/16 09:10 AM |
| 1 | [FR] My first date. Ever. Scary, strange, and really fun.Next date needs to be somewhere you can escalate. Easiest is a night time date at a bar. Daytime date do an activity and then drinks or something after. If you don't escalate she won't know you had a penis that you would like to use in her. | /r/seduction | 03/10/16 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Never run out of things to ASK: Asking open-ended questions is key having longer and more interesting conversations. In case you want some inspiration on what you could ask your conversational partner, here is a list with a ton of questions I've put together.I can see your reasoning. Good for beginners imo. Not for maximising results, but for the people who have finally got off their computer and are talking to women. Might be their first date / pickups and they want something in the bank to make sure they get our if stale points. But to more experienced people this probably doesn't apply as much because you've seen more situations and know better ways around it. | /r/seduction | 03/10/16 02:00 PM |
| 5 | Never run out of things to ASK: Asking open-ended questions is key having longer and more interesting conversations. In case you want some inspiration on what you could ask your conversational partner, here is a list with a ton of questions I've put together.This is where making your intentions clear comes into keeping out of the friend zone. If she knows your intentions through escalation and other PU concepts than questions like these can be useful. As they say, it can't hurt knowing this information, right? | /r/seduction | 03/10/16 01:31 PM |
| 1 | Never run out of things to ASK: Asking open-ended questions is key having longer and more interesting conversations. In case you want some inspiration on what you could ask your conversational partner, here is a list with a ton of questions I've put together.Not my thread bro. | /r/seduction | 03/10/16 01:28 PM |
| 6 | Never run out of things to ASK: Asking open-ended questions is key having longer and more interesting conversations. In case you want some inspiration on what you could ask your conversational partner, here is a list with a ton of questions I've put together.Seduction is just friendship with escalation. The more comfortable the girl is, the more willing she will be to do venue changes, allow for higher levels of kino, etc. These questions are more of a starting point, and it's up to you to escalate them accordingly. You don't just go from hand shake to dick shake. | /r/seduction | 03/10/16 01:07 PM |
| 8 | Never run out of things to ASK: Asking open-ended questions is key having longer and more interesting conversations. In case you want some inspiration on what you could ask your conversational partner, here is a list with a ton of questions I've put together.They allow you to build comfort with the girl | /r/seduction | 03/10/16 12:57 PM |
| 4 | [FR] My first date. Ever. Scary, strange, and really fun.Great work on getting out there! It can be hard for introverted and inexperienced people to keep pushing yourself through roadblocks/anxiety. Some analysis: · Good opener on tinder, tying it to something more personal will always get a better reaction · If a chick gives you her number you can be confident she's attracted to you, so the anxiety of her not showing up or liking you should be thrown out the door at that point. · Good job on the hug opener, strong kino from the start. Did you sit in … | /r/seduction | 03/10/16 04:42 AM |
| 6 | [FR] My first date. Ever. Scary, strange, and really fun.While I agree with some parts of this, you can't just go in for a kiss without the leg work. This will kill a lot of attraction. | /r/seduction | 03/10/16 04:28 AM |
| 1 | [texting] examples of convos that lead to datesSounds more like youre not gaining enough attraction before you get their number. Getting a girls number really isn't that hard to do, but getting them interested first is the big part. | /r/seduction | 03/10/16 04:19 AM |
| 1 | Should you be honest about game and pickup to people your not gamingWhen you say people do you mean women or friends? | /r/seduction | 26/09/16 01:40 PM |
| 2 | Advice needed!Youre thinking too much. Just stop thinking and say hi. | /r/seduction | 26/09/16 01:39 PM |
| 10 | How do I stop being so nice?So? I did the same thing with a chick at work. Got her number, she texted a bit but is flakey. So I deleted her number and now I just keep our interactions to hi's and bye's. Now she is kinda flirty with me because I'm low key ignoring her (this might not happen with your chick but it's not going to be as bad as you think). | /r/seduction | 26/09/16 04:10 AM |
| 0 | questionsYeah man. Chicks totally dig guys that talk about themselves. 4 stages of escalation: I, you?, you!, we I (talking about yourself) is the lowest form of escalation | /r/seduction | 26/09/16 04:00 AM |
| 3 | How do I stop being so nice?Just delete her number/social media. Not worth your time anyway | /r/seduction | 26/09/16 03:57 AM |
| 1 | Have I been rejected and should I continue to pursue?Why didn't you ask her when you saw her? | /r/seduction | 26/09/16 03:56 AM |
| 3 | Is the waiting game still a thing? (waiting about 3 days to contact a # close)I don't think it matters, if the attraction is there then text whenever you want. 5-7 seems like a long time imo. Feels like you would have to build back a lot of lost trust and attraction from an entire week ago. | /r/seduction | 26/09/16 01:37 AM |
| 1 | Any good resources / coaches for text game?Pretty sure Todd valentine does a bit of text game | /r/seduction | 26/09/16 01:34 AM |
| 3 | Young guy, first ever daygame approach. I failed and i couldn't be happier.Yeah she probably went shy because of her friends turning up | /r/seduction | 24/09/16 03:32 AM |
| 2 | Request for guidance to improve my daygameOpen. Work on opening. Be good at opening. Escalate. Work on escalating. Be good at escalating. Build trust. Build tension. Work on logistics. But most of all continue reading shit | /r/seduction | 23/09/16 01:49 PM |
| 1 | Guide To Going Out Solo - Freedom To Going Out Alone + InfieldBecause the context in which he's presenting this. I like bradicus, I have subscribed to his channel. It's not like there has been a bunch of questions on this topic, it's not like it's a reply to someone, he's just shamelessly promoting his channel. | /r/seduction | 23/09/16 04:05 AM |
| 1 | Is it better to setup a date in text or to wait a long time to ask her in person?Why not pull her aside after class, talk to her (create some attraction) and go an instant date or see if she's busy later? | /r/seduction | 23/09/16 04:01 AM |
| 6 | Hard to meet women because of depression, lack of intimacy contributes to depression.. how to break cycle?Breaking your mentality is super hard. It took my life going to shit for me to actually change my life (going to gym, getting out of the house, meeting women). I've been in search of life information and these are the two things that really made me think about my mentality and changing my life. Juliens talk on happiness Dr Phil's "life ruler" (which I can't find) - Basically gets these parents to stand on this giant ruler at their age number, and look back at how much time had passed and how muc… | /r/seduction | 23/09/16 03:58 AM |
| -1 | Guide To Going Out Solo - Freedom To Going Out Alone + InfieldWhy are you posting a 2 month old video? I understand using this sub to promote your channel but at least make it new fucking content. | /r/seduction | 22/09/16 11:20 PM |
| 1 | Game Isn't Something You DoYes but game is something you do. Incorporating it into your life is how you become more alpha. In my opinion anyway. | /r/seduction | 15/09/16 05:35 AM |
| 2 | Is making a girl laugh by saying random stuff fine?Taking the piss out of yourself means you are comfortable with who you are. Making her laugh all the time is only getting her to feel the same emotion. You need to take her on an emotional rollercoaster. Being funny is good though, just make sure you follow some of it with escalation and play with some devalueing. | /r/seduction | 15/09/16 05:01 AM |
| 1 | Game Isn't Something You DoSeems like youre talking more about being alpha, than actual game. | /r/seduction | 15/09/16 04:57 AM |
| 3 | What has been your biggest regret(s) during your seduction journey?Do you not think you need to though at the beginning of the journey? | /r/seduction | 07/09/16 12:28 AM |
| 7 | Any guys from Brisbane Australia?Obligatory QUEENSLANDER!!!!! | /r/seduction | 01/06/16 09:58 AM |
| 1 | Tinder. Coming on too strong?I'm literally new to this sub reddit but after looking at the basic links, you're not being the alpha male. Your attitude sounds like you need to get this girl, rather than who cares if I get this girl or not, I have other chicks on the line. It's like fishing. You don't just keep winding the line in or it will snap. Let her run a little and try and figure out what you are doing. She's in your head, not the other way around. | /r/seduction | 29/05/16 01:17 PM |
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