So, I was drinking and talking with an attractive (and banterous) girl and a couple more friends. At some point she was talking about guys at the club and 'complaining' (aka laughing) about how if she approached them then they would immediately assume that she is attracted and get all cocky, when actually she was only being friendly. So my point is, I believe there is something wrong with male community entirely disregarding the female point of view and ability to create fun just for the sake of it, I mean it is kinda sad that a girl cannot talk to a guy just for the fun of it because he will immediately start trying to game her, escalate, etc. I know this is not a common situation and doesn't apply all the time, but makes me wonder, how many girls do not dare to let go (and how we, in consequence, are missing on this) because they feel they are being predated all the time.