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LogisticsSuperCat2023/r/seduction06/03/25 01:03 PM
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Is that from Wayne's verse on I forgot which song? Lol that bar slapped
/r/seduction29/03/25 05:14 AM
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99% she was dating another guy and chose him. That's typical unfortunately
/r/seduction28/03/25 07:26 PM
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Yes it does but doesn't necessarily does for the guy. And I don't think it matters for her that much if you're both looking for someone for more than a casual fling. If she goes away in the meantime then maybe she just wasn't the one. Only real downside I can think of is if the sex turns out to be mediocre then I guess it'll be a bit weird after that much time lol
/r/seduction28/03/25 03:01 AM
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You wait before being intimate. And you become intimate (sex) only when you have a strong connection with that person. It's absolutely not what I was used to but a girl I met from the app asked to wait before being intimate. Turned out was the best thing she could have done. If the person is right for you, you'll click on other levels and dates are still fun. Just keep flirting so you don't friend zoned lol you still have to create some sort physical / sexual tension but in a more subtle way. An…
/r/seduction28/03/25 01:48 AM
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Wow the fist paragraph is deep. Never thought about it like that but you're right
/r/seduction19/03/25 12:34 PM
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Nah F that. I wouldn't try anything with someone who's flirting right next to their partner. Whether she's attracted or just playing mind games with her boyfriend. Whatever the reason is it won't end good for you
/r/seduction18/03/25 03:59 AM
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I think it's because you're an "easy guy" too. So of course it's going to be more easy for both of you to hook up and start something. Especially if you're both cheating on your partner, it's "safer". This isn't something that I endorse, just my point of view
/r/seduction15/03/25 06:49 PM
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If you think being nice and caring is a problem then the problem is probably this lol Otherwise a few things that really help: Be respectful learn to read the room so you can see when it's time to escalate or not and avoid making a mistake that will lead a to an awkward moment Have a good time (like you're genuinely like talkinf to her and the whole thing feels natural) Don't go do activities that you don't care about just to see her. You won't have fun and she'll feel it. The last 2 points are …
/r/seduction15/03/25 09:15 AM
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You don't lol you see the one that interests you the most
/r/seduction15/03/25 04:36 AM
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Ok I see. well it's hard to know what went "wrong". Maybe they don't have the same expectations on how the relationship should evolve. Sorry I don't have much advice but I wish you all the best. Hope you can find someone nice
/r/seduction15/03/25 04:34 AM
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What's direct and indirect?
/r/seduction14/03/25 12:36 PM
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Were they your gf / women you were intimate with or were you still at the talking/kissing phase?
/r/seduction14/03/25 11:24 AM
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She probably has a bf and was craving for attention. She got your number just in case something happens with her bf at some point. Run away
/r/seduction12/03/25 07:48 AM
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Definitely when I reached 30. It's the magic number because you're not old but also not a kid anymore and girls love it
/r/seduction10/03/25 07:45 AM
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You don't seem to like your friends really much lol
/r/seduction09/03/25 07:31 PM
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At some point it's not about leagues anymore it's about style. You can talk to two 10/10 but only the one that matches your style/vibe would reciprocate. I've got a friend who pulls girls I could never imagine pulling and the same goes for him with me because we attract different styles of girls due to the different vibe we project.
/r/seduction09/03/25 07:23 PM
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I mean I don't mind them dating other people as long as we haven't had "the talk"
/r/seduction06/03/25 01:53 PM
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Damn that's true. We've all been the other guys at some point lol
/r/seduction06/03/25 01:10 PM
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What shouldn't it be before? Lmao I don't understand
/r/seduction06/03/25 01:09 PM
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i was having the same "problem". I don't fall fast (well it happened but it's super rare) and I've never hinted at a serious relationship. My bumble profile even says "intimacy without commitment" lol but yet it happened 60-70% of the time and with girls who really had a different vibe so it's not like there's only one type. What I did wrong was setting up dates too close from eachother at first. So I think not more than one date per week is the best until you can figure out if you want to reall…
/r/seduction05/03/25 06:56 AM
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When someone comes talk to me while I'm eating alone outisde I always get annoyed. Of course everyone is different but I wouldn't try it because I know I hate it
/r/seduction03/03/25 03:27 AM
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No they won't because you'll be inactive. Sure you might get lucky and found the one but statically you have way more chance to when being active and making moves. The term chase is often used negatively when you're being clingy / needy
/r/seduction01/03/25 08:38 AM
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Bro you're the one who's got to use their brain 😭 you still show your face when you go out, no? Doesn't matter if it's cold and cloudy
/r/seduction28/02/25 02:45 AM
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Damn that's true. when I go out only with my friend who's the ABSOLUTE best wingman EVER everything is much much easier. With a group it's a hit and miss, especially when someone is not in the mood and try to kill everyone's vibe
/r/seduction27/02/25 06:58 PM
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Facts don't be like me
/r/seduction26/02/25 06:16 PM
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Lmao same 😂 I stopped contacting her 2 weeks ago because my life was becoming too tiring
/r/seduction26/02/25 06:15 PM
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Lmao well my friend was in a club in Rio on his first day and there was a shooting. Third day it's 4 something pm, he was walking 5 minutes away from his hotel and 2 guys point a gun at him and steal his phone and wallet.
/r/seduction24/02/25 05:43 AM
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I've found the ask for her name opener is the absolute best in bars or clubs. No need for anything fancy, with this one you can literally know in less than one minute if she's attracted to you. Tip: She might not immediately ask for your name after you’ve asked for hers. If she doesn’t, I usually follow up with, “Where are you from?” (since I live in a big international city). If she still doesn’t show interest or ask anything in return, I take that as my cue to move on.
/r/seduction24/02/25 04:34 AM
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Makes perfect sense! Thanks for the explanations:)
/r/seduction20/02/25 05:58 PM
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Why? I've never been
/r/seduction20/02/25 05:40 PM
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Exactly
/r/seduction20/02/25 04:09 PM
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Oh yeah, a bad wingman can cost you a lot lol and generally they are just bad all around with girls so once they get rejected during a night out they will just become jealous and make it harder on you. Not real friends and these men have huge ego issues. To find a good wingman you just have to find out who in your acquaintances go out a lot and seems to always have a good vibe in stories they post when they're out.
/r/seduction20/02/25 01:18 PM
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Two is ideal. Three feels like a bit much, unless you don’t have any hobbies or friends outside of dating, then I guess it doesn’t really matter lol.
/r/seduction20/02/25 05:12 AM
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Thank you! I will follow your advice
/r/seduction18/02/25 06:37 AM
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That's true, that's true. There was some light touch from both of us when we went back downstairs but because for the past 3 hours nothing happened I didn't feel like escalating. But noted for the next dates I have
/r/seduction18/02/25 06:37 AM
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That's good advice thanks 👍
/r/seduction18/02/25 06:34 AM
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No bro got rejected lol Here's a recap: -married but flirts with his coworker -send her flowers and poem on valentine's day -the coworker is confused because op is married and because of what's been said in the poem (sexual allusions) -she asks him to stop messaging her -he doesn't and she's not too happy about it Honestly OP I'm not sure what you're expecting in this situation. You're married. If you don't like being married then divorce and go after girls when you don't have a ring on your fin…
/r/seduction17/02/25 04:55 AM
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That was interesting so thank you but it also made me realise I really have an issue lol
/r/seduction15/02/25 08:24 PM
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She definitely not someone you'd like to hang out with anymore so it's not a big loss. But bro, don’t wait two hours for a girl to show up—that already puts you at a disadvantage. Even if the date had gone well, the imbalance would have been set from the start.
/r/seduction15/02/25 08:45 AM
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Not bad but damn I'd feel so lazy if my weekend was that packed 😂 I need time for myself to recharge my social batteries lol
/r/seduction15/02/25 06:29 AM
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Just say you're looking for something casual and that will do the trick, for a short period at least..
/r/seduction14/02/25 05:37 PM
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He didn't mean litteraly lmao
/r/seduction12/02/25 08:31 AM
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Yeah I agree. Hanging out with guy friends doesn't provide the same energy or satisfaction. Both are vital imo in their own way
/r/seduction10/02/25 04:12 PM
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But maybe you didn't realise how she reacted at every stage? You should only escalate when the previous thing you did had a positive response
/r/seduction10/02/25 01:10 PM
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Do you have an example? So I can visualize what type of conflicts you're thinking of.
/r/seduction19/01/25 12:44 PM
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Yeah that sucks. Especially after you kissed. It's a bit of a step back. Honestly think about yourself first and foremost. This situation seems like a chore to me
/r/seduction19/01/25 09:00 AM
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Yeah I'd be out personally. Especially if it's taxing you from an energy standpoint
/r/seduction19/01/25 08:49 AM
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Depends with who. Some girls can reset easily and they'd be happy for you to last 30 minutes or more. Other come fast and then you feel like you should too so you focus to not last too long. It's all about the person. And even with the same person the "perfect duration" can change depending on the time or the mood etc.
/r/seduction19/01/25 08:01 AM
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6 months is just way way too long. Doesn't matter if you kissed her before. It's too long, normally it's around that time that a proper relationship is starting (as in being official/exclusive) or that one person choose to leave the situationship. But intimacy should be part of the routine for a long time normally
/r/seduction19/01/25 07:46 AM
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Honestly I just speak my mind. If I bring logic into the conversation because her problem can only be solved by logic, then so be it. I’ve definitely had a few heated debates on first dates, but they usually didn’t stop things from escalating. That said, there was one exception when I left early because the conversation became she refused to engage with reasoned arguments. That made me lose all interest lol
/r/seduction19/01/25 07:35 AM
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33 is fine. Actually it's easier than in your twenties imo (I'm 31). Now you just have to find the time to date or go out with some friends and try. The more you do it the easier you get at it and you actually have better conversations at some point because you also get better at picking girls that actually match your vibe.
/r/seduction19/01/25 07:28 AM
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Damn, well said
/r/seduction18/01/25 09:39 PM
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Yeah exactly! Not sure how accurate it is honestly but I found it made sense
/r/seduction06/01/25 06:27 PM
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I've been out of the game for a while as I've go a gf but I've got a friend with the exact same issue. His problem is that he gives off an almost too friendly vibe. Women would engage and laugh but not in a flirty way. Maybe try to show a bit more intent through kino escalation (there's a popular post about this in this sub back then, I think it may still be up if you have some time to do some digging)
/r/seduction05/01/25 07:16 PM
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What the hell my buddy got the exact same thing. She's not a flight attendant by any chance? Lol
/r/seduction05/01/25 06:57 PM
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