Hi everyone,

I haven't used dating apps for a loooong time, I usually just approach girls I find cute in real life and see how it goes. But I don't know this is getting a bit into my head somehow lol

So I went on a date yesterday with a girl from Bumble. Nothing physical happend expect some light touch when walking (from both of us) but we both (hopefully) had a good time and she seemed to be down to meet again.

I have 2 questions:

  • How long should I wait to ask her out again? We both mentioned seeing eachother in the future while we were talking but nothing concrete (It was more like in the flow of the conversation as a joke like "I'll take you there one day" ).

  • We had our first date at a rooftop bar, which was great for getting to know each other, but the table setup made it hard to initiate any physical connection. For the second date, I’d like to choose a setting where physical connection can happen more naturallyso somewhere we’re in close proximity for most of the time.

If we meet on a weekday, I was thinking of grabbing dinner followed by drinks at a more intimate bar, maybe after work. On the weekend, we could try some daytime activities, but I’d prefer to see her again at night first to see how things go before committing an entire Saturday.

Thanks!