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Question For WomenSuperSpartan13/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 11:40 PM
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that's like asking who has a friendly relationship with crack
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 05:58 AM
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depends on your ranking. both men and women. if a person can get dates by snapping their fingers, dating means less to them so they get more coorporate with it. whereas a guy like me who literally never got a date, we obviously are more lovey dovey about it. the only thing is that there are far more women who can do this than men. look at Leo for example, he can demand women under 25 because guess what? the supply who wants him is unending. again, the only real difference is that the somewhat ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 01:40 PM
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if you have tailored suits, perfume, frames, watch, shoes, it definitely gives you a large edge. if you have your own place? you already sky rocket above average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 10:24 PM
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Well, in the monkey world too, female apes are not treated like normal apes. And for a large part of human history, women too were treated as less than. But we didn't just say boo hoo suck it up, life isn't fair. Some men and women thought it was unfair and acted on it, and women have far more options and freedom now in most of the western world. So your argument has no legs to stand on. Why care about war crimes? Monkeys rip each others nuts off all the time? you see how your argument opens a d…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 10:22 PM
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And that's fine, and shoot, you might be right, I might change my mind once I actually get my first relationship. But right now? Eugh, it ain't easy going through every day with an empty bed, living through life thinking you're romantically undesirable. And hey! some people are wired differently. but for a normal person? your body wants to reproduce. so it makes you all stressed and depressed if you don't have at least some sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 10:18 PM
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To get a date, so far, no luck
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 08:48 PM
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I'm not crying, you're crying!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 08:47 PM
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Well, most men probably fall above me in attractiveness and social skills, so that probably isn't true. But I'm just sayin, it ain't easy out here, even as an average guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 06:54 AM
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No. That's like saying playing gta 5 or violent movies make you more violent.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 06:43 AM
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the right thing to do is to break it off no questions asked. But sheeeit. I ain't Glenn Quagmire, women ain't exactly lining up for me. So I'd probably figure something out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 06:41 AM
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hit the nail on the head so hard, it popped out in china
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 12:52 PM
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But you see, if I say I'm not going to settle less for a perfect body woman, with no flaws, young, etc whatever factors I have, all of my friends will either flame me or roll their eyes and say sure buddy. But when women do it, their friends feed the delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 12:39 PM
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at MINIMUM 3 months edit: unless she a garden tool
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 07:54 PM
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the type of men who do this are a much smaller group than you think. this is the group of men that women are attracted to and as a result, they get their pick, because if you have 80% of women only interested in 20% of men, its simple supply and demand. and you know what, it's very hard for a lot of people to change their concept of attractiveness. but the likely truth is, you're probably too picky because you've slept with the higher tier guys so you raise your idea of your own self worth think…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 05:47 AM
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No, we use anectdotal, empirical and logical evidence. thats why a lot of our arguments are supported by statistics
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 03:23 PM
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I'm just going to give you the hard boiled answer. red pill=reality/truth blue pill=illsuion/media/matrix now the extended answer blue pill is thinking that the current system is right, that we are fine and things are the way they should be in terms of dating. red pill is understanding that dating is not what is depicted in media. From our observations we make theories, such as the 80/20 rule, the hypergamous nature of most women and the dire straits a man must navigate in the high chance of a d…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 01:58 PM
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Watch the matrix
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 11:19 AM
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if enough resources, could eventually evolve out of the pool but you'll have to be giving birth back to back and turn it into a #s game on who is deformed and who isn't, which is very grim.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 07:35 PM
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a demonstration of humility because you're the one proposing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 07:17 PM
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once as a dare, and my crush at the time paid her money since she succeeded. The date never happened that was a decade ago, and as a friendless kid, it certainly did not boost my self esteem at the time
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 09:40 PM
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this is not true. In my experience, a guy is more on the grind of how to improve and that involves humility and will take better criticism.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 09:37 PM
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no exaggeration. edit: actually I was approached one when I was 12-14, i said yes, and the girl I actually had a crush on gave her 10 bucks because it was a dare. so that was fun
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 09:24 PM
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I'm younger and same boat. I'm just going to shave my head, bulk then cut to 10% ish body fat after my job ends next month
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 09:23 PM
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at minimum an 7 unless you're wearing makeup. good hair, jaw, nose.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 09:21 PM
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first of all, you are acting like the kid is not yours. It's your kid too. That's your half. His half is keeping a roof on your heads, making sure you're safe, making sure he has money for college. Making sure he gets a mothers love and the occasional fatherly discipline so he doesn't turn into a violent pansy as we see in a lot of single mother households. Worrying about taxes, anything in a monetary sense. You're complaining about unpaid labor? let's turn the tables around. Why don't you pay h…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 09:12 PM
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"I don't get why do we have these genders wars when nature has already shown what the deal is. Men protect and provide because if they don't then you men may as well not even exsist, it's that simple." wild take you got there, considering the modern world was developed and is currently maintained by men. Men suicide is higher, homelessness, violence. so maybe think twice about what you throw from your ivory tower because you'll look like a fool
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 08:49 PM
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actually it's worse. women are like be confident, confidence is sexy. but one of the most confident things a guy can do is cold approach and women apparently hate it(not physically attractive enough). A lot of women on this sub do not like cold approaches based on that thread about asking women on cold approaching
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 04:42 PM
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men want to get married. having too many girl friends in the long run is very hollowing(conjecture), and most people want to root with someone. Top men are not interested in marriage now because the divorce system is not equitized. The average women after the first child usually becomes a sahm, but that punishes the man because if she decides to jump ship, she gets a lot more than he does because of the income difference. New and improved system will give men and women more equitable footing, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 03:48 PM
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it's meant more as a deterrant than a punishment. most married people live on the straight and narrow and don't want to get put in jail because they have a family which depends on them. like in the military, a captain told me "nothing puts a mf in line like cutting his pay" because most of these soldiers are married and depend on that money, so they need to stay in line. in reality it's very rare for that to happen, but the threat keeps most people in line
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 06:43 PM
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I guess you've never heard of entrapment. You didn't even justify the rest of the argument
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 03:55 PM
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asking out is very direct, invasive and confrontational. It takes a man of extreme social skill to maneuver well. You only really get those social skills by being attractive. it's very easy to demonize if your approach isn't airtight. in fact it's a meme since it happens so often. "the worst she can say is no"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 02:39 PM
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"I’ve also learned that most men who complain about women the way men on this sub do almost NEVER have a solution that doesn’t involve women losing their autonomy in some way." well i have a few things. Make marriage infidelity, domestic abuse on your married partner and paternity fraud a felony offence. do away with the "unification of assets". If you want to do that, start a partnership. the purpose of laws is to restrict autonomy. People cant go kill scores of people on the street. However i …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 02:16 PM
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they only demonize it if you're ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 11:34 AM
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i mean it's basically black out sex at that point so probably
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 11:33 AM
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in red pill, there are 2 avenues you can exploit but they both have serious downsides. #1. MIGTOW. Find good friends. friends that will stay through thick and thin and are close enough to work together. You guys enjoy each other and form a wolf pack. you place yourself first. women are not the prize. You never risk yourself in crazy women or marriage. The second there's a bump in the relationship, drop her like a dime. If she is not furthering your ambition then she's useless. Lift weight, make …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 11:14 PM
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Redpill exposes how marriage isn't worth the squeeze for any man. Woman want to marry up and usually become sahm after the baby, so the split in court will always go their way. Bezos lost how many billions in his divorce? The red pill is about truth. Now how to deal with that truth? The red pill community came up with a bunch of solutions Always place yourself above your partner. Selfless love is dead. Otherwise, you would be in a relationship right now. You are the prize/priority. Work out, get…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 11:24 AM
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I agree with your points, but as a cut guy, it's not half your weiner. You're just getting flayed a bit, which is a bit fucked up. But by the time you can actually have coherent thoughts, you dont even remember it. I didnt know why my wiener looked like that until I was 12. It doesn't interfere with anything, its just cosmetic. I think you're blowing it out of proportion but really I could never know. Its like a pup getting neutered, maybe it forgot about it or the life it could have lived idk. …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 11:09 AM
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when reality isn't a movie, wouldn't you be disappointed?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 12:31 PM
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forest gump
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 02:04 AM
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you say it's the bare minimum but based on my experience, more women select on guys who treat them not decent than guys who do. Instead of a bare minimum, it seems like a red flag to a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 02:03 AM
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i mean in appearance
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 03:31 PM
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if she meets my other criteria then no
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 12:54 PM
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Im talking about men. Wether people like it or not, purity is hardwired in our heads to be valuable. The laws favor women's biological prerogative by making polygamy illegal. So as a man, you need to pick carefully. A man usually shows his aggression for that because either a, hes trying to pressure you into sleeping with him, or b, he thinks you have a high body count and that you are treating him unfairly. If you are young woman, no big diseases or handicaps, at least a 4 and have a low body c…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 11:26 AM
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I mean every guy feels that to a certain degree. But if you cant be patient then thats on you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 06:06 AM
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If a young woman has a very low count and she waits months before bedroom activity, good men will respect her because she practices self-restraint. (Unless she's like a sub 3) If she does that but her body count is high, to men its like a homeless person saying I am a king, why arent you kneeling and showering me with gifts.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 05:57 AM
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I was referring to the tattoo process, and also piercings
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 12:46 PM
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a man approaching you is a non negotiable requirement?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 08:24 PM
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nothing shouts high self esteem like shoving needles in your skin or sticking metal in it :/ plus to me, it's like painting on a picasso painting. you're ruining art for something else, which i don't agree with
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 08:22 PM
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wild
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 12:37 PM
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so basically you will settle nothing less than your literal dream guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 12:37 PM
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You are using him for emotional labor but he can't do the same is what you are heavily implying when you put those two points together
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 12:32 PM
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"No emotional labor /knows how to adult (responsible, reliable, considerate, mature) Empathetic, active listener" he's basically your emotional dildo with no reciprocation
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 11:43 AM
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sparta is an analogy for my point about her point, which is the last sentence
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 11:35 AM
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well I've never done those things, and I don't want those behaviors in my life long term. So if she admits that she has a problem and wants to rid of it, and passes my other criteria, then sure. I don't expect a cold turkey quit but it's a process, and I understand no one is perfect
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 11:32 AM
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" no tattoos or piercings" i said no big or many tatoos and piercing. if you have a small one on your side or ankle then that's ok. but I prefer none.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 11:30 AM
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the point she is making is that men run the world and also complain about women having more rights than men. unless that isn't the point, then you are free to tell me what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 11:28 AM
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helots were 80% of sparta's population. they were slaves who produced food and maintained houses for spartan citizens. They ran sparta, as in, they keep sparta running. But who had more rights? Who was in charge? who runs things and who has more rights can be mutually exclusive. One does not mean the other
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 11:24 AM
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Must be around my age or a few years younger Must always be and have been very sexually conservative (2- body count) Must have never had or is currently carrying a child Must not have any major genetic deformities or diseases(stds) Must not be considered obese and be willing/able to have a fitness oriented lifestyle, overweight is fine Must be at least 5 feet tall and under 6 3, preferably my height Must not have debt over 20k Must have not partaken in hard drugs, and be willing to quit soft dru…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 06:04 PM
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this is bs, it's MOST guys you interact with. Not most guys. The difference being most women(period) by instinct friendzone most guys. The men you are interacting with are rich, have charisma or have other favorable circumstances/work ethic which pushes them in the upper crust/% of men. And these guys have options to push their weight around.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 12:31 PM
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Most important one is "psycho cybernetics". Now I didnt master it yet, but its basically all your desires and impulses are in your head. Feel bored? In your head. Hate doing hard work? In your head. And it tries to teach you how to completely master yourself. In the mean time I read how to win friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie, atomic habbits, and currently on the art of public speaking. Pretty sure all of these you can find the audio book on yt for free but I prefer pdf. But masteri…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 12:54 AM
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When I try to cold approach, I give myself a 10 second window, no physical touching. "Hey, I think you're very beautiful, can I take you out on a date later?". Kind of like getting an injection. Short, quick and lots of pain(for me). Has not worked yet but I think that's the least invasive way to do it. I was thinking of passing a note saying "can I take you out on a date" but that's probably a little childish, and where I live she probably will think I'm trying to give her a coupon or card or s…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 03:15 PM
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That isn't what red pill is. The core of red pill is the truth. Guys trying to figure out what the truth is. Not the truth that is presented in media that men and woman face similar circumstances in dating, or that women should be the prize and are princesses. The commonly accepted truth in rp is that standard women have for men is very high while the quality of women in terms of men's standards have decreased. Women chase after men in the upper bracket and since their experience with dating was…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 03:04 PM
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well, women in a jenral sense have more opshions, but I would say some women arent looking for a 1 night stand, can invest months into a relationship only for the guy to finally show his true colors and ghost, and now she's out months of her time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 02:27 PM
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im curious, what frequency do you think is excessive?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 03:35 PM
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no, that is just, delusion lol. I would say low energy is like, you wake up in the morning energy. You're kind of tired
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 02:30 PM
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you have a very good point, however my counter point is that shaming people who watch porn is a good way to get people to stop watching porn. Porn is destructive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 02:29 PM
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you must be rage baiting
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 02:26 PM
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for me, no. If my partner passes all my other criteria, then I just want her to be very loving in a low energy way i guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 02:22 PM
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What tantrum?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 06:26 PM
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Yep. I grew up might was right. I'd poke my classmates in the ribs to show affection, and beat them up when they did something i didnt like. I didnt really see it as wrong, I just saw it as the only way of life, the way I grew. Strong>weak Now im normal with a few gaps. But it took years to fix myself. And in terms of relationships I have no real basis to jump off of. Which is quite dishesrtening
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 06:25 PM
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"Women are constantly told their standards are too high but then called sluts if they get with anyone. Just another dating double standard that happens to be gender based." I think that most men feel the same way i do. If a woman has a lot of sex with different guys, she is indeed, slutty. If a woman is chasing a 6 4 millionaire and turning down guys when they do not have these high superficial traits, when she is cute at best. She is delusional. I mean, I can say and dream I want a tall lean wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 01:00 PM
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I dont appreciate your assumption in that I only meant sex, I meant relationships in general. When I say position, I mean his value. In general, a rich man is more wanted than a poor man, a stud is wanted more than an incel. That value is present in both casual sex and relationships. Women in general tend to lean on preselection to pick their partners, just as how men favor women with a low body count. That last paragraph is so abhorrent that I cant help but laugh. By your standard, every woman …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 03:23 AM
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the delusion is strong with this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 08:19 PM
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he means relationships in general
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 08:17 PM
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"It sounds like you’re mad that women you don’t find super attractive don’t “know their place” and aren’t suitably grateful just for the gift of your interest in using their bodies for your pleasure." know their place? I think you mean, not being delusional. If I say I want a tall woman with a tone body and a jiggy booty, people going to laugh at me. But when a woman who is average at best wants a 6 10 NBA millionaire, then shit, she gets affirmation. now, I may dream of my ideal women, but I do…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 08:16 PM
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yes if it's not culty, sure anything other than e cigs, cigs and weed no. otherwise they have to be willing to quit yes no no Only if she wants to quit no no yes yes but not as much yes no yes yes yes yes yes no yes no yes yes no
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 08:05 PM
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i think it's because men believe women with tatoos are more liberal and into free sex in general, and having sex is not the same as dating
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 07:47 PM
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dawg what are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 07:46 PM
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"i dont buy that bc the guy who doesn't have sex a lot prob assumes he doesn't have to get tested, people who sleep around might be more likely to get regular testing." he said "virgin", so unless he messes with needles or his parents were the town bicycle, he has no reason to test himself "obviously virgins aren't included but i've never had a guy tell me hes a virgin so that doesn't really factor in for me." a man generally speaking, only hurts his position by stating that. It's like a woman s…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 07:35 PM
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it's not "compensation". It is a luxurious lifestyle. If you are poor and care full time for your kid, you aren't getting bentleys and bbls you're acting like every person who raises children full time is having this stuff. You are also neglecting the fact that the father has great interest in his child. He also loves his wife most likely too. It has no extra cost to him for her to share his bed. Being a stay at home parent especially to young children is very difficult. From what i heard, you l…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 05:07 PM
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raising children is not an unpaid job. It is simply work. Like mowing the lawn, fixing the car, vacuming and other tasks. You are not doing it for someone else, you are doing it for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 04:31 PM
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Yes, that's why i asked how
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 08:40 PM
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ok but why do you believe in further education? what benefits do you gleam?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 02:55 AM
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why does money not matter, yet college does? In my experience, it is very hard to destinguish someone with and without a degree by talking to them
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 02:51 AM
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maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 02:47 AM
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ok
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 02:43 AM
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nice
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 02:43 AM
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nice
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 01:57 AM
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nice
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 01:28 AM
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reasonable standards What is your issue with men watching porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 01:13 AM
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Nice
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 01:09 AM
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It's still interesting hearing the game plan. "date the love of my life throughout postgrad and marry at the end. A lot of the women who are currently in my program or graduated have similar stories." what's your age? and what's your partner's age? Height? income? Looks? Values?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 01:08 AM
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Most people including me considers taking full care of a child a job. In fact a very difficult job. It's a form of self employment
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 01:03 AM
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Not your ex, I mean, what standards you expect in a normal partner
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 01:01 AM
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"Then I answered that. As I age, my preferred dating age range will age with me." yes, i agree, but i want to know this info for your current age right now. "It objectively isn't, as I just explained. 50k is a living wage 50 miles away from where I currently am, and is not a living wage where I live." That doesn't change the average wage at least in the U.S. is 45k. But I guess your answer is reasonable. "I don't even know what that could possibly mean." it's an average guy. "What is "above leve…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 01:00 AM
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sorry, but you didn't answer this in that first list his age? Height? income? Looks? Values?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 12:54 AM
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I see but you told me before that "I literally do not care" about income. So if he has no income or desire to get income, then why would you not support this? Caring for a child is better than sitting around playing video games or whatever else
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 12:50 AM
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"For the age thing, you gave me a 20 year age range, so logically the age range of partner would change as my age range changes, right? I can't respond with just a static number range." that is true, but i want to know your current thoughts "For income, that would depend on the region I live in, so it wouldn't give you any information. 50K means very different things depending on the country or the region in that country." true but it is still an average identifier of wealth. "Looks: What I find…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 12:48 AM
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I'm sorry to hear about your past experiences in relationships. That's a very good reason to give up dating. I am curious though, for dating, what is your standards? his age? Height? income? Looks? Values? and what about your ex, his age? Height? income? Looks? Values?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 12:45 AM
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Why did you give up?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 12:40 AM
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So stay with me: if he drops out and just wants to take care of the child instead of daycare, while everyone survives on your income, would you support this? has he proposed to you yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 12:39 AM
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I see, best of luck to you guys
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 12:36 AM
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It seems you are satisfied with how your life has played out. When I'm in my 50s, I hope I feel the same
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 12:34 AM
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I see, what next big move?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 12:34 AM
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Maybe in real life where I can see them, they say something more plan oriented that they feel doesn't make them look bad, but in reddit where everyone is anonymous, they can say their true feelings, but I can't say with certainty
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 12:33 AM
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No side is without takeaways
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 12:29 AM
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That's what most women told me when I asked them, I didn't draw this out of thin air
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 12:28 AM
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I hope it works out i was hoping for a min $ value on the income "Daycare" I am very biased against day care as I feel it creates a disconnect between child and parent. How do you feel about my opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 12:26 AM
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nice
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 12:23 AM
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movies
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 12:23 AM
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I'm sorry, but I was hoping for something more translatable such as: age: 21-45 Height: 5`1-6`10 income: min 50k looks: 5/10 values: honesty, loyalty, humility
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 12:22 AM
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nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 12:19 AM
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>: ) nah, I want to bring my writing to life
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 12:18 AM
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does your income support a family at your location? does your spouse make less money than you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 12:18 AM
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Some people date to be boyfriend girlfriend and enjoy that less officialized aspect, which allows for lower standards usually. are you attracted to both men and women? And these men who make 100k+, have they ever got on 1 knee? What was the longest time you've dated one of these men?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 12:16 AM
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your life seems very ambitious. tell me, what are the qualities your potential husband when you want to get married? his age? Height? income? Looks? Values? also what is your plan for child care after leave?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 12:15 AM
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But I asked about marriage, not dating. Unless to you they are the same standards
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 12:13 AM
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So you don't expect to be married by a certain age?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 12:10 AM
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With that money, I can bring my passions into reality
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 12:09 AM
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I feel like that's more of a given, you don't need to say "not abusive". It's common sense. "his age? Height? income? Looks? Values?" I wanted something more akin to this in terms of numbers
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 12:09 AM
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Your life sounds exciting, ever thought of writing a book? "Plans for the future - a kid, maybe, probably going to move again, definitely another cat." how do you plan to raise a kid without being a SAHM? do you expect the father to do it? Or do you have another method in mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 12:07 AM
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75k plus is a lot for a guy around 22-25 that equates to roughly 3% of all men above 18 in the U.S. Do you think your standards might be picky or justified, if the latter, why?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 12:05 AM
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nice
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 12:00 AM
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It's just a general thing to guide yourself to what you want your end state to be. for example, I want to be very wealthy, but that usually requires some form of plan to get from my current state to that wealthy state, with goals to guide me
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 12:00 AM
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Idk what age that is
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 11:59 PM
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no but it's just like a general thing to have, goals to work towards to, milestones to break. A plan guides you to what you want your end state to be
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 11:58 PM
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" a singular example of what men expect women to do with their life" actually, no. My expectation was much different from the majority of the responses I received. "Yup." nice
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 11:57 PM
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and at what age did you expect these standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 11:55 PM
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"Vibe" same "For my standards for partner, the only standard I have right now is that my job doesn't support another person, so he'd have to have a job that can support himself. If I get a job that can support both of us, that standard may change, though." sorry but I was hoping for something more specific. You make it sound like you can pick any guy off the street as long as he has a self sustaining job
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 11:54 PM
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"Survive" same "Maybe get married to my bf of 2 years. idk" how does the idea of marriage make you feel?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 11:53 PM
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"My game plan is to vibe and enjoy life as a childfree married couple" kool. Did you get married yet? "There are more plans than just "get married and become a mom"." yes ofc, it's just that the example I gave was one I most heard in real life
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 11:51 PM
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no, but it's reccomeneded you have one
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 11:49 PM
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same
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 11:49 PM
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nice
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 11:48 PM
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" I will judge men who go to third world countries to find partners but not for those who just want to date abroad with good intentions." why not? A foreign woman is more likely easier to please and is also have more traits that are desirable to those men. What is your issue with men doing to this?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 11:27 PM
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choke the chicken video games junk food sleep pick an option
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 09:09 PM
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because most of the active people are probably not married or have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 09:05 PM
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Unfortunately I had a period in my childhood which as a result, made me abnormal socially. And as a result, even today, I have few friends because I don't have a lot of common sense in terms of sociality. Something I think is fine, is apparantly not fine to everyone else, and as a result, I had to change my mindset a lot, which was hard to do as a teen/adult. in short, having one fall in my lap is not feasible for my situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 03:33 PM
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nothing. Not even a date. To be fair while I am somewhat fit and fairly tall, I have some physical features that are not very attractive, especially on a young guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 03:23 PM
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women don't get unconditional love in dating, they get near unconditional lust however they get a lot lot less conditional love than men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 03:22 PM
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not just the mall. The bus, subway, street. The second you see you just think of something nice they are wearing and just walk up to them with a smile. anywhere but your work/college you don't shit where you eat
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 03:20 PM
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" I see a lot of ordinary, average guys in relationships." weeeeeel, i don't fall in that i guess and I don't want to be relationshipless my whole life, so I would much rather take action. Because if you're 20+ and never been in a relationship, chances are that it's past the point of just falling in your lap through friends
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 03:14 PM
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"Most people entered relationships through social circles, by first developing familiarity and then becoming romantic partners." but the thing is that, that doesn't happen as much anymore. Now most guys get "friendzoned". it's only a scam if you buy into the nonsense. It's true that clothes and style has a great effect. but it boils down to your confidence, your ice breaker and the closer. And it's very easy to look up for free. instead of "hey! I think you're very beautiful, if you're available…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 02:50 PM
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". Can't tell you how many times guys will try their best to convince others that men are "hunters" or should be pursuing women because that's our nature." that's because it works, it's just a matter of when it never worked for me yet but it's just common sense that eventually you'll find someone you like doing it if you ask out like 20 women a day. And the more you do it, the more normalized/easier it becomes to do it again. if it didn't work, most men wouldn't be pressured to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 02:35 PM
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Me? probably since I grew up knowing both sides of the coin but if i was born like that. well, Di caprio is still playing and other top guys don't really settle down, so there's your answer for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 02:29 PM
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must be rage bait she has a high school degree and is a bartender at 25 yet wants her partner to have a college degree and they can't just "work low end jobs and take life on as it goes" rules for thee but not for meee
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 02:24 PM
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that's like saying if people like heroin then why care? Because it's very self destructive there are reasons why polyamory is illegal
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 09:53 PM
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the trick is having healthy support mechanisms such as close friends instead of dangerous coping mechanisms the problem is finding those friends is very difficult, and in this day and age we are not very connected in the physical world
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 08:02 PM
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Not exactly like a job interview. You are still cordial and having fun, but you're just taking a longer time to get to know him
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 03:28 PM
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it can't be a dating app unless you add a calibration of like 10k swipes or smt very high. it would work way better like a hot or not app
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 01:49 PM
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humans are not as simple as rats. In america, the land of prosperity and freedom, we have high crime rates, homelessness, and mental disease. The solution to rats were to give lots of food and sociality. But the truth is humans today need a lot more security than that because a lot of things are not free. We need money to pay for a home, food, and utilities. the easily accessible food is processed and unhealthy. Housing prices have skyrocketed and with ai advancing, a lot of jobs high and low ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 01:42 PM
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You seem nice, but you keep ignoring the root i'm bringing up in the 1950s, men had more rights than women. But women had other advantages, such as divorce/custody bias, paid dates, men make the first move etc but today is not the 1950s, men constantly in media and in social circles are told that women are equal and independant to a man. and the PROBLEM is, women still expect those same advantages they held back then, at a time where they also had disadvantages, to be held today as well, where t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 01:07 PM
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Men pretend they are MGTOW because no women are interested in them anyway. Or only women they are not attracted to. i would say that it goes like this 1, you can get relationships=most likely blue pill 2, you cannot get relationships= most likely red pill you could not get relationships before, but finally got one= most likely red pill ==> purple pill
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 12:56 PM
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that's your partner though, i'm talking about the first 3 dates
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 12:46 PM
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it wasn't, we were fine with paying until guys started being used soley for dinner then ghosted, and the few who didn't pay got a negative reaction from their dates. then men opened their eyes a bit and started pointing out double standards. rules for thee but not for me. In order to prove you are interested, you must pay for the date. but not vice versa?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 12:04 PM
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it is an american thing, i can't speak for other countries though
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 11:56 AM
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Honestly, I don't know. I just feel that this is not the 1950s where men were way more likely to earn money than women, and had more rights than woman. And today, if you don't keep with this standard, then you are labeled as uninterested. And this standard is so expected, that some (not all)women are so scummy that they will lead a man on during the date so he pays and ghost him to get a free dinner. And i don't understand why we don't call out the double standard. Women are independent and equa…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 10:53 AM
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Das crazy, wow
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 10:37 AM
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I guess that falls within reason but under personal preference/tolerance. Not everyone is built the same make and model
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 05:23 AM
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That's the biggest bowl of beowlshet i've ever heard. Now you're just shaming the guy saying oh, if he don't pay, he's not interested. You're just taking the time he took out of his day to meet you for granted. When if he did the same, you would be rightfully pissed. " It’s saying that all things equal on a date" the delusion is strong with this one. You said very clearly, a guy who's more likely to pay for the date is more interested most likely. Well if we are equal people, does that mean that…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 05:20 AM
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I think that it's less the cause of loneliness that is a concern, but the easy legal channels of access of super self destructive coping mechanisms such as video games, youtube/media, porn, onlyfans, fucking, AI CHATBOTS a click and a credit card away, junk food and online forms which circle jerk and allow the loneliness to fester into hate, along with in my experience, having a lot less close friends that you can be honest with compared to older generations to vent and unite. every generation h…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:24 AM
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they are fine with sleeping with chad chaddington because they believe that they are the one who is able to "tame the raging storm". Or they believe the casual sex is divine. Anyways their plan is once they tame this guy, they break it off with the guy they were currently with(monkey branching)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:14 AM
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truth is the higher market value you have, the higher you are likely to cheat, on average. there are exceptions yes, but in general. That means average woman is more likely to cheat than average man, and men who were high value enough to get into a relationship are more likely to cheat than high value woman. here how it play: High man>high woman>average woman>average man. if you have more options, you have more opportunities to cheat, common sense
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:09 AM
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"The only way I see this happening is when you confront him that you heard that someone accused him of rape. In that case, what's an adequate response assuming the guy is innocent?" yes this context is what i meant. the response is what i suggested
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:05 AM
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raises alarms by default, but it shouldn't disqualify, you just gotta pay extra attention to make sure the guy is just unfortunate and not a raper
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 01:49 AM
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hey that's me! but i added a few scenarios with that feminine charm thing. And obviously during the beginning, you should tone it back a bit, and add more as you see him progressing. But if he hasn't made any real changes in a month or 2, then you gotta let the fish go
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 01:47 AM
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"a vagina and a pair of tits who occasionally talks" this made me laugh lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 01:44 AM
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some examples are: "i'm fine": if I am your so, and you tell me I'm fine, it should mean 1 of 2 things. 1, I am fine. 2, i am not fine but i don't want you to worry about it. | It should never be a passive aggressive way of meaning I'm not fine. sign language(kevin samuels): a series of fallacies people(mainly women) use to try to argue against an argument when they are losing Shame/Insult: The person will try to humiliate/insult the other person regardless about what the argument is about. ex: …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 01:40 AM
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I'm sorry, I can't tell if you are supporting or fighting my argument. I am leaning towards supporting
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 01:26 AM
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yeah i agree, i meant in between 18-23. 30 you should have your shit together that second paragraph makes me sick. When you pay for a date, you are subtly setting up the power dynamic. You and i are not equals. I(woman) am the prize and the least you can do to make it worth my time to give you the chance to be my boyfriend is to pay for my food for every date we go on.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 01:11 AM
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Well, no not strict in general is wrong not strict in who you select for a first date. And actually way more strict in the dating section. unless you have a high body count, other men will take note if you have the man have sex with you too soon. Like if your body count is below 3 and you young, the bare bare minimum you should let a guy sleep with you is like 3 or 5 months to 100% make sure the dude isn't a jerk or playboy/chad and actually a good person with noble intrinsic traits who is looki…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 01:05 AM
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Well here is what I think. Each point is me agreeing with you "A man who claims that he was falsely accused of rape" i would definitely have my sensors on high alert but that's not a reason to disqualify really, just pay close attention to what he says next. half point A man who frequents prostitutes don't even associate with these guys, paying for sex is a crime that negatively affects all parties involved. full point Men who reject you Unless the guy was really nice and in depth about it, don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 12:48 AM
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Let's break it down by paragraph Those sex starved men at first instinct, don't care much. Also, age is a reasonable standard. But the problem is they go so long without romantic love, that a lot turn to hating women and designating as women without those superficial traits as worthless. Average women get a lot of requests for dates from my understanding, you cant add average guys? It shouldn't matter much since women claim to value noble intrinsic traits. That response has nothing to do with th…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 09:47 PM
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It all goes to a certain extent. if your partner got turned into a dog or is 20 feet tall, the relationship becomes unmanageable if your partner stops taking care of themselves, man or woman you should encourage to work out together which also improves bonding. or do some digging to figure out what's wrong. If you just drop them cause they gained pounds or lost some hair on their head, that's very shallow and I dew not approve. I run every 2 days by myself, and days where I am running for 30 min…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 08:53 PM
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you know, i commend you for being one of the few people i debate with to pull up with decent and in depth explanations, along with evidence and not turning arguments into personal attacks and insults, pat yourself on the back now question, the average man reports sex 2-3 times a month, but that does not sound like normal relationships. in fact, some relationships even go multiple times a day. I think that means that the few men who are in a relationship have sex a lot, and therefore, makes an st…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 08:11 PM
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As a fellow man, would you agree that there would be a lot of men who would just straight up lie for no reason on how often they have sex? or how many men are virgins? even in an anonymous survey? There is such a horrible stigma against incels that the term incel on its own is considered derogatory, and that would influence a large portion of men who are insecure, would you not agree?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 02:27 PM
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source
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 01:44 PM
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my bad, when i said men, i did not mean the whole population of man, i mean the average guy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 01:12 PM
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Most men don't even get the chance of a first date, how are they going to distinguish "who they are on a human level" unless they are stalkers?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 12:24 PM
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I mean, yes and no. Accept more applicants for a date but keep the sex locked up
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 10:35 AM
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Ok but domestic abuse is a crime, and my changes doesn't affect that. If you beat your wife and have evidence, you going to jail. I don't think i still understand what you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 01:01 AM
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I read a few comments talking about hey, men only do that to get laid. You could just you know, not put out? and just try to feel the guy out in a relationship? at least you're getting job applications. Men get NOTHING to sort through unless he's top tier. I agree that men mainly do it to get laid, but he's most likely not a raper, so what are you still concerned about? If you say no, nothing is happening. He may cut it off, but then you just roll on to the next one. however there is one big cav…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 12:58 AM
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it's a no true scotsman argument
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 10:13 PM
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I'm sorry but what you think is not reality. The truth is especially in workplace environments dominated by men, we have to take precautions when involving women in comeraderie because we don't know what the woman will find offensive or not, which can lead to a bad spot on our record. Me and my coworkers talk about it all the time, and its just a pain to deal with because we cant be ourselves without the inherent risk
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 03:52 PM
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You're pointing out a small detail to deflect into a rabbit hole, I'm not interested in that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 03:49 PM
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I just used an extreme example to get my point across. it can be multiple things. Involuntary celibacy, social isolation, a disability. any type of misfortunate circumstance You didn't even answer my argument, you just micromanaged one thing and deflected the convo into talking about that tiny detail that has no weight in debating about.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 03:35 PM
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liking doing something doesn't make it ok though to just expect. that's like saying i thought women like being stay at home moms, why would they be upset about taking care of children? yes they are more inclined to do it, but it's still work which in your phrasing makes it sound taken for granted or expected
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 11:21 AM
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Maybe, I'm not a statistan so idk fs
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 09:57 AM
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Everyone wants sex. Men want sex more than women. Biology. but the truth is that biology and real life are very different, at least for men. if you are a man in this society, and just keep having a revolving door of women you have sex with, i dont know cause i never had that, but it seems to feel very empty, and almost like jaking it. It's not good for your mind. Life is much better when you are with a singular stable someone to exchange love and sex with. It also reduces the likelyhood of stds …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 03:55 AM
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It's very hard to resist biology driving you to seek sex unless you jake it, which is very bad on many levels. It is an affliction. If you rub one out, you are harming yourself on a biological and psychological level. if women feel awful about all those things, then why do they participate so much in casual sex? Why don't they just lock a good guy down who is most likely not sleeping around? I'll tell you why, it's because women only chase chad, and chad has options, and women accept the risks t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 03:38 AM
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then make the men you sleep with wear a rubber, or test them beforehand. You're acting like the guy is forcing himself on you wtf? Or just date him without sex until you feel comfortable? you have options. My issue is that most women don't even give the average guy a first date. Idc about casual sex, it's imo destructive and risky behavior for both sides. You talk about the huge risk but many women still do it, or at least i hear about it a lot, which is contradictory.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 03:28 AM
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Why don't you stop beating around the bush and explain it then, i literally asked you to explain what you said so I can understand it. You just wasted another comment exchange when you could have answered it already
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 03:02 AM
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"I think if he supports measures that would result in the sort of loser who would beat a wife getting to have and prevent the leaving of a wife, " can you elaborate? I have trouble understanding what you are saying
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 02:58 AM
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Actually it has increased here's one from the big black chicken https://www.bbc.com/news/explainers-56365412 https://www.statista.com/statistics/191226/reported-forcible-rape-rate-in-the-us-since-1990/ i dont like this one though cause they don't show sources for free and other studies online suggest the same thing. If you go looking, try to find one that is recent, like 2000-2024. A lot are just up to 2013, and there's a big spike. Stop demonizing the average man. Do you truly think the average…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 02:50 AM
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Women do the same with money though. If a man ask for split checks, the shaming gets put on IMMEDIATELY if there is no shaming, then she just doesn't do a second date. she not going to stick around a man that won't provide for even a date double standards
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 02:44 AM
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I'll do the same when a woman asks about my wealth (never happened : <
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 02:42 AM
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It's because the dating game is so bent out of whack against men, that to us, a red flag to to us is just a reasonable standard to you and men are constantly hounded for objectifying women in the slightest when women do the exact same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 02:32 AM
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for that first point. If i was in charge of the legal system, and you did a rape, and you were a product of that circumstance. I would castrate you, but I would feel bad about it, and talk about how it's fucked up from the get go, you feal me? for that second sentence you are straight up deflecting and makes your whole argument appear dumber because it seems you can't debate without making everything a rabbit hole it doesn't have to be rape or murder, it's common sense. I just used an extreme ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 02:29 AM
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I agree with that first sentence, you are indeed not entitled to that. I heavilly disagree with this. Men breathe wrong and can have an SA charge. Even today, police are heavily on the women's side unless she's completely uncomposed and batshit in a domestic abuse situation. People's lives have been ruined over false accusations. Hell hath no fury like a woman's rage. How many women have been falsely accused of sexual assault? in the military it gets rediculous. If you have proof of sex with a s…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 02:04 AM
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They want love. To be fair, I've never been in a romantic relationship, but I'm pretty sure love is universal. Love is having a deep emotional connection to someone. When your child cries, your heart hurts even though nothing happened to the child or you. When the child is happy, you can't help but smile for no real discernable reason. You have a connection. Men want love from someone they can also have sex with. Because no one can really have "unattatched casual sex" since it connects you on su…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 01:55 AM
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You are acting like women don't get a say in the matter. As you said, women can just say NO. Why are you having a baby with a man you know won't support you? Who you don't love? Where is your accountability? you think I'm taking it easy on a man?! I'm only making child support FAIR so women don't pocket the difference. you do not NEED 20k a month on child care. Some of these no caps are ridiculous. But even if you are a deadbeat, you are still required to pay. Now tell me, is that reasonable? Ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 01:49 AM
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It doesn't have to be a man. It can be a women as the raper. She can get hurt in a car accident, or any other million possibilities for misfortune. I don't want to go down this rabbit hole as your need to be right deflected this whole conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 01:26 AM
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That's like a sex starved man saying, I don't feel bad for women who don't even give me a chance, who cares if they get raped or killed, they don't need my pity. Women are less self accountable for their actions than men. They always lump us with the top men saying all men are jerks/bad boys/assholes/devils who cheat, lie and manipulate when they don't even give us, the average guy a chance. They already cry to each other all the time, they don't need my pity. you see how instead of being empath…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 01:22 AM
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That doesn't really make much sense, you do it because they are human and they haven't done anything wrong really(excluding the violent ones) and are just on the wrong path, but their path is not set in stone yet. You also live with these men and there is a rise on violence against women in the past 10 years, so there is a real threat which shouldn't be the case. A more extreme example of what you're saying is, why should men be empathetic about women getting raped? They always treat men like cr…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 01:14 AM
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I didn't really come prepared with a study on hand, which is on me but here's a chart about rapers https://www.statista.com/statistics/191226/reported-forcible-rape-rate-in-the-us-since-1990/ i don't really like this because they paywall the sources https://www.bbc.com/news/explainers-56365412 here's an article by the big black chickens showing a rise in sexual assault and rape in ages 13+ and 16+ females. I am not certain about the reliability, but I do see corroboration and I see no articles s…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 01:07 AM
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I don't think you understood what I said. These men HATE women. And that is bad. But these guys are also victims of circumstance, so it's not as simple as jailing all of them or demonizing them. You need to attack the problem at the root, which i have done in my previous posts. the measures do a great job, but a lot of people slip through the cracks And to conclude, you don't seem very empathetic of this issue, which I feel bad about, since you are basically demonizing these men to such a degree…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 12:54 AM
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you are wrong about a few things and you forgot about a few things that would support your argument. the rise of ai chatbots and high quality easy to access porn does is highly effective at removing the willpower for change. It is an excellent tool to collar people who would be participants in an uprising. People who are sex starved (incel is very derogatory) want love for who they are, not having wealth or height or looks. When that love is given, it turns into confidence, which is a positive f…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 12:35 AM
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the solution is to not restrict womens rights, which I am very for treating women with fairness, but to secure men's rights let me break it down: Divorce laws need an update. this isn't the 1950s where a man needs to pay alimony or give half his assets to a woman. She can work as well as a man. Custody laws must also not discriminate based on gender. on top of this, a few things need to be set in place. In order to discourage a society of degeneracy, if you are legally married, and have hard pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 12:24 AM
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To a woman? its very case dependant. you have very conservative women who don't approve of even jokes. then you have only fans models who sells nudes online. But if you're not paying them, they will be angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 03:37 PM
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I agree it's dumb. if you attract a woman with confidence which you are overexaggerating you will fail to maintain a long term relationship, which are usually done by displaying noble traits such as honesty, fearlessness, integrity, respect, but since the relationship was built on dishonesty, a not noble trait, then it will crumble
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 03:31 PM
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Cant make a valid argument so you have to try to shame and insult
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 02:14 AM
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Cant make a valid argument so you have to try to shame and insult
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 01:38 AM
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Thats not true, if everyone had a lambo, she would date the guy with 50 lambos. if the average man was 6 4 tall, she wants 6 10. i dont see any sense in what you mean a womans ability to stay single
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 03:51 PM
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"some" everyone is superficial to a degree. since the average women in society is more desirable to the opposite sex than the average man, it can be inferred that they can be more picky in a superficial manner and we see this is the case with the huge divergence in male and female virginity rates. so when you imply in your original comment this, it ticks me a bit for setting false expectations in men who read this. here is the truth for men. the truth is that very few women actually care about t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 03:47 PM
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when he said you, he means woman in general in that second line.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 03:04 PM
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What does that have to do with the convo? Stop trying to shame this man smh
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 02:38 PM
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this is a shoddy strawman argument height, a lot of income, property confidence, ambition, 2 cuts above average attractiveness An average dude doesn't have most of these, if any at all. the average guy does however, fall in those standards you listed. The truth is that you can't see all that from just appearance so you go based off the factors above. The truth is that if everyone were human and men and women were equal, the average man would usually end up with the average guy. But today, if you…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 02:18 PM
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make divorce laws more equal to man, no splitting assets or alimony, more fair custody/child support regulation make a huge huge % tax if you are in a marriage and infidelity is proven Make it a felony to commit paternity fraud. All the rich/attractive men will settle down in these favorable circumstances with 1 woman that they are able to pick. Which means that now these men are locked out for the average women, cause they married and that huge infidelity tax. Now who will the average woman dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 10:26 AM
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I disagree women are now free to fulfill their biological perogative without a man beating them You can't just throw biology out the window just like that, otherwise no fap wouldn't be such a treacherous journey for men. That first line is still in play, that's why men will date a bum but not a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 11:27 PM
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One of the worst takes i've heard as a man, you matter, you are not replacible. You are a human and you DESERVE love, respect and companionship. If you don't have it, keep looking. Someone will love you. Maybe in a different country but there are people out there. *virtual hug
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 10:47 PM
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"Is there a solution to it? Yes, that person works to make themselves more attractive." that's not a solution to the society as a whole because women's standards are relative to a high percentile of men. They always want a cut above average. Which means that if the entire average rose from self improvement, they didn't move
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 10:12 PM
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its still hardwired in your head? You think the changes in the last 50 years will fix millions of years of genetic selection? That's why for a lot of men, it's nearly impossible to go a week without jakeing it. Even though we don't really want kids, our biology demands kids. So when we don't jake it, our body thinks we arent getting any action, which to it is wrong, so it pumps us with chemicals causing us to become depressed and have a very short fuse/more likely to escalate to a fight. Just as…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 10:02 PM
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the average woman's waist to hip ratio is quite attractive, the problem is they got fat in the way so it gets worse relatively speaking. Plus that's not what i really care about as a guy, or most guys. Most guys don't care about ratios, it's just the guys most women care about "the top 5-10%" that can actually attract women. most of us out here get nothing. a young woman can be overweight(not obese) and still have guys lined up
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 07:31 PM
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your take is bad with diet+focused exercise, you can achieve a good ratio unless you're a bear
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 07:22 PM
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Its kind of how testosterone works. We also spite successful men. The thing is that unless you cranking 24 7, as the days go by as a man you will experience mood swings and an extremely short fuse. Its because your body thinks that since you ain't jaking it anymore, you ain't getting any action, so your body is telling you to go get action by any means necessary, beat someone up or be aggressive enough to get action. Since we live in a civilized world, where a lot of men are neutered basically w…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 01:47 AM
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my speculation, with the rise of ai chat bots and being able to see model level women getting their back blown out on the hub a google search away, a huge portion of men who partake in this self destructive behavior will not uprise at all. I don't know if that's good or bad though because women did choose this, and they are independant, which presents an ethical issue. But now you have a huge portion of the population destroying themselves with these sites and chatbots. imagine being so desperat…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 02:26 PM
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if you mean romantic love, then I don't really know. I've never been in a romantic relationship, but if i were to take a guess, love when you romantically love someone, is when you care about what happens to them or how they feel, and to a degree, you share those feelings. When someone you love is very happy, you get a little happy. When someone you love is very sad, you become a little sad, not even knowing the reason for why they are happy/sad, you will feel that way. that's why when you love …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 11:46 PM
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i mean, of, corn and chat bots are keeping people tame. Milking your snake to models have never been easier. If you're always on empty, you don't really have that anger to build up. It's only the people who have self control that can actually build that spite
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 08:10 PM
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we already have ai chat bots, these are some kind of tools to keep men from speaking up, because their baseline is barely being met
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 08:07 PM
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because he's moving up, and she isn't, and he looks at her as a human, not a woman. And he wants someone like minded to have a close relationship with. It's like how a conservative guy likes conservative women, or liberal.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 03:37 PM
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