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SuperiorLake_/r/RedPillWomen30/03/22 05:04 PM
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This is terrible advice op. Listen to your gut.
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/26 06:18 PM
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Are we married to the same man?!? I totally understand the frustration. My husband has ADHD so he struggles to start projects a lot of the time, but it seems like when he does he’s able to fix just about anything. He also jumps right to saying I’m nagging” if I ask. I had to have a heartfelt talk with him that I have to be allowed to ask for things without him automatically labeling it as nagging. I would try to ask like: “if you get a chance sometime today, will you take a look at the dryer? I …
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/26 05:23 PM
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Full stop. Do NOT ignore the financial thing. Do you have an emergency fund? Sounds like he does not, and doesn’t understand the importance (no one is invincible, bad shit can happen to anyone. Yes even you!). Do you want to have money for a house, children, and retirement? Well, now is the time to start saving. You’re at a great age to do so. If you marry him, you marry his debt. Poor finances CAN ruin your life. One of the biggest causes of divorce is financial problems. If you end up marrying…
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/26 07:46 PM
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Enjoy the waiting and unknown period. Idk how to explain it, but I found that kinda fun. Guessing when he went to buy the ring, if he had bought it yet (I knew the jewelry store had it ready because I went to pick one and get sized), and what his intentions were when we made plans to go out or just do daily things together.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/25 03:42 PM
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I hate that phrase. To me, it sounds like something you’d hear in one of those low budget tween movies from the early 2000s.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/25 08:00 PM
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I met my husband on tinder
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/24 10:12 PM
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He bought my engagement ring. I bought both of our wedding bands which were really cheap. He wanted a plain black silicone ring and mine is a $20 basic gold band from Etsy.
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/24 01:51 AM
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Think of it this way, if your sister/bestfriend/daughter/whoever was dating someone like this and asked you the same question, what would you tell them?
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/24 06:52 PM
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Brown some ground beef, pour any jarred pasta sauce over it. You have meat sauce. Once you get comfortable, you can spice it up with different seasonings and veggies.
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/24 12:30 PM
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It’s not black and white for us. There are some things that he takes the lead on, and other things that are closer to 50/50. For example, picking a house to buy is him leading. Planning our living situation while in the process of finding a house a little more balanced between both of us.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/24 03:08 PM
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Haha for sure. There’s definitely a fine balance between presenting yourself to attract the type of man you want and not becoming a thirst trap. Not to sounds like a judgmental asshole, men looking for a high value outdoorsy women can be desperate because there are so few of us. That’s all just based on my experience knowing some of my husband’s friends.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/24 03:41 PM
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If you’re into online dating, post a cute pic of you with a fish or deer. Or even just wearing camo. They’ll come in drones haha.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/24 03:18 AM
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I hunt and fish year round religiously. Deer (rifle, archery, black powder), waterfowl, upland, ice fishing, trolling, and pan fishing. I work in wildlife biology by trade. Men are mind blown when they meet a women who is into that type of stuff. It’s pretty much a superpower haha. If you’re trying to find a guy who is an outdoorsman, you basically have pick of the litter. You are a rarity to them. Don’t change that about yourself. P.S. you sound like someone I would be friends with. I have no o…
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/24 07:14 PM
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Yes.
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/24 05:22 PM
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I wouldn’t say I take it out on my husband, but I 1000000% take it out on myself. How to manage this? I’ll let you know when I figure it out lol. It’s hard. Lots of CBT and DBT therapy, setting realistic achievable goals that I can be proud of, practicing healthy coping strategies (hence the DBT), and a whole lot of self care. It’s a lifelong struggle.
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/24 09:48 PM
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Yes! That was a lesson I had to learn early in marriage. Something you do for you and your husband will eventually upset your parent/siblings but you have to shift your loyalty. Don’t end up like one of those r/justnomil posts.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/24 12:03 AM
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My husband and I eloped without anyone there (except our witnesses). We didn’t even tell most of our family until after it was done. It was the best thing for us. The only person who was bummed was my dad but he’s a narcissist asshole anyway so it doesn’t really matter. Everyone else was excited for us and got a kick out of how we did it. Took a TONNNN of stress off and saved an ungodly amount of time and money. We just wanted to be married. If that’s what is best for you, then why does it matte…
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/24 07:53 PM
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Love is an action, not an emotion. Of course feelings of fondness, respect, a sense of security, and appreciation of the person is prevelant, but real love is the commitment and intention to stay and care for someone as lust waxes and wanes. Edit- I firmly believe misunderstanding what love is is why so many relationships fail. Assuming love is only a feeling sets you up for failure because lust (often confused as love) isn’t constant. It’s about remembering your intention and staying committed …
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/24 04:13 PM
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I asked my husband out for the first time, I asked him to be my boyfriend when the time came, I said I love you first, and I picked my own ring. We are happily married. Plan some dates.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/24 10:19 PM
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Calories in calories out. I used the lose it app and was diligent about logging. It’s hard at first but it becomes a habit after a few days. Also, find a form of exercise you love. My biggest piece of advice that I needed when I started, if you end up overeating a day or two in a row, you aren’t going to instantly gain weight back. It doesn’t work that way, so don’t be hard on yourself and get back on track the next day.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/24 01:37 AM
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I feel the exact same about BJs. Feeling desired is a huge turn on, and nothing makes my husband desire me more than an enthusiastic blowy. It’s a win-win.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/24 01:34 AM
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I’m going to try not to sound harsh here, but you have listed so many positive things about this guy, you’re just going to have to accept his height and get over it. No one you date is going to be 100% perfect. Not everything is sunshine and rainbows like social media makes it out to be. Honestly, I am wondering if this is a troll post.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/24 02:32 PM
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I’m 4’11 so not really haha. My preference is between 5’7-5’10 but it was never anything that I paid attention to when I was dating.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/24 03:06 PM
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I had this problem with my husband when we were dating, and even into the first year of marriage. Came pretty close to ending things several times before we married, but I’m glad I didn’t. It took a lot of open communication and understanding on his end. We did some experimenting and figured out things that we were both really into. This includes some give and take. He LOVES things that aren’t always my favorite things to do, but I’m more than happy to do them because I get laid more often as a …
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/24 07:55 PM
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Can you give an example of what he means by selfish and immature?
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/24 05:19 PM
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My husband is a good cook also. We used to cook together a lot when we were dating. Now, we have some meals that I’m better at making, and some meals that he is better at making. I shower him with compliments whenever he cooks for me. Makes him feel good and encourages him to keep at it. I’m the designated baker of the family.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/24 06:54 PM
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Nope. I gut in the boat on our way back to the launch, he filets at home. I suck at cutting filets.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/24 07:47 PM
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Yea. If I started wearing dresses and makeup everyday, I would be flat out misleading the guy. It’s just not me. Plus, the type of men that I’m into probably wouldn’t be attracted to that type of woman, and there is nothing wrong with that. I always tell people to present yourself for the type of partner you want, not for how you think you need to be.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/24 10:13 PM
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That is so sweet!!!!!
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/24 10:06 PM
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Right. I see so many women post on here that they don’t think they’ll meet a good man because they don’t wear makeup or dress feminine. Dressing stereotypically is totally not a prerequisite to a good relationship/happy partner.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/24 01:40 PM
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My husband and I love to fish a lot. One time earlier in our relationship, I was cleaning fish. I was wearing a baggy ugly t-shirt, joggers, my hair was pulled back into a messy bun to keep it out of my face, and elbows deep in dead stinky trout. Out of no where, he told me I looked so beautiful. I was like… really? Ok.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/24 01:06 PM
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It reminded me of some sort of summer sleep away camp activity.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/24 06:06 PM
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I hate to give my personal opinion on something like gifts because people like different things…but to be brutally honest, this seems a bit odd.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/24 04:21 PM
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We were in an accident last winter and I had to spend a month in the hospital. He slept next to me in a recliner every night, even after my mom paid for a hotel room. He refused to leave my side for more than an hour when necessary. I’m physically scarred on 30% of my body and he still thinks I’m beautiful, which is why it makes me sad when people post about how HVM will want to sleep around when their wives grow older and become “less attractive”.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/24 04:22 AM
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Yay!!! Have fun :)
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/24 02:02 PM
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There’s nothing wrong with taking the lead and planning a date. Sometimes men just need that initial push, especially since the last time he pursued you, it didn’t work out for him.
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/24 01:34 AM
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I met my husband on tinder. Dating apps seem to be the norm now, I don’t think there’s anything wrong with them.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/24 09:40 PM
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Electrical engineering sounds like a great career path. He probably just needs time, support, and encouragement. Does he have drive? If he didn’t have drive, that would be a flag.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/24 07:51 PM
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Check out the book Venus and Mars In the Bedroom
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/24 12:59 PM
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I had a similar experience with my now husband. You can’t make him change. You have to accept him how he is now. Within our first year of dating, I had to really reflect on if this was something I was willing to live with for the rest of my life. The past several months, I’ve been making a serious effort to lose a few pounds and get fit. I noticed that my husband is starting to drop little hints that he wants to start getting healthier also. I think him watching me work really hard at it/succeed…
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/24 07:37 PM
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I know when I was growing up, I had such low self esteem that I assumed everyone hated me and I was extremely unlikeable/unworthy. I had friends but was very defensive and unapproachable because of this. Some turn of events in my early to mid-20s showed me that was untrue. My dating life flourished after this.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/24 07:02 PM
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Yea, I don’t think there is anything wrong with making the first move. I feel like with how dating culture is now, men need a little encouragement.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/24 11:29 PM
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Walk up to him with a smile and ask him if he would like to get coffee together sometime, and then plan when. Simple.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/24 10:42 PM
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Right. I am in no way implying that this is what OP is struggling with and I am not a professional, but I’m pretty sure this is a trait of someone with borderline personality disorder.
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/24 04:41 PM
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I got my husband to grow his hair out by complimenting how hot he looked as it got longer. I never directly told him to do it, I made him want to do it himself.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/24 02:48 PM
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If it’s something he would be into, then go for it! Just depends on the guy. My husband would probably scoff at me if I brought him flowers, but a 6 pack of his favorite beer would earn some major brownie points.
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/24 07:20 PM
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Oh yea this 100%! We were in an accident and my body is now 30% scarred, including my face. It has just brought us closer.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/24 04:41 PM
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Yea I think people worried about looks overlook that a happy longterm relationship is built on a strong foundation and partners are best friends. Soooo much more meaningful than sex appeal.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/24 04:37 PM
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Don’t say that, he probably likes it…😆
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/24 09:03 PM
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I struggle with this too. If I found that I’ve been complaining, I try and switch gears and dilute my negativity by saying several positive things about whatever I’ve been bitching about. It’s tough.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/24 09:51 PM
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I think most posts on this sub are trolls nowadays unfortunately. Or, left leaning people who don’t understand red pill women coming to gawk.
/r/RedPillWives29/12/23 04:40 PM
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No
/r/RedPillWives21/12/23 11:26 PM
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r/lostredditors
/r/RedPillWives12/12/23 04:38 PM
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Idk those are types of things I would want to ask my dad honestly
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/23 04:18 AM
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What’s his love language? You can do something special based on that. Speaking his love language will never fail you. Also, you can never go wrong with a nice home cooked meal or baked goods.
/r/RedPillWives12/12/23 02:02 AM
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…you ok bud? Manic or something?
/r/RedPillWives10/12/23 03:31 AM
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I got lucky with my ILs. They are both incredible people. My MIL is an extreme people pleaser (often to her detriment). It makes her happy to have the opportunity for random acts of kindness and gift giving. I accept when she gives me things or does things for me, even if I didn’t want or need it. It sounds weird, but sometimes it can get kind of annoying haha. Another thing, she tends to favor me over my husband for small things. For example, if there’s an extra of some food that is a hot commo…
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/23 04:55 PM
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He’s not the healthiest guy and loves his beer. All things I considered before I decided to marry him. I do worry about my decision sometimes, but I love him so damn much.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/23 03:23 AM
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He just turned 30. He’s always been this way. Had issues with his previous relationship too.
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/23 03:05 PM
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Yea he was always really against that. Last time it came up, he finally said he would “look into things”. I knew what I was marrying into so I have to find a way to just accept it.
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/23 02:50 PM
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Wish my husband had a sex drive 😔
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/23 07:09 PM
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Mine is moissanite. You would never know it isn’t a diamond. I’m OBSESSED with it. Moissanite refracts light differently than diamonds, and in my opinion, is much more beautiful. So it’s basically a more “rainbow like” diamond.
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/23 02:41 PM
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Exactly. There’s literally nothing wrong with being the one to ask him out first.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/23 08:17 PM
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Based on your responses, it seems like you are trying to justify it regardless of what other people are saying. It doesn’t matter if he “consented” because you deceived him. He didn’t consent to what your true intentions are.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/23 08:40 PM
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I’m thinking that you’re attracting/are attracted to the wrong men. The type of guy you are describing sounds like the opposite of HV to me. My husband is none of those things, which I am sure of because I have dated the type you are describing.
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/22 07:54 PM
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I’m fairly certain this is a troll…but if it’s not, I think it is your attitude that is attracting bad men over your looks.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/22 05:07 PM
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Best comment
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/22 05:02 PM
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I used to worry about not dressing stylish also. It is so not me and doesn’t mesh with my lifestyle at all. There was one day I was fishing with my now husband wearing joggers and a baggy t-shirt, cleaning a fish, thus smelly and covered in fish goo. My now husband looked at me and told me how beautiful I was in a very sincere and loving way. I was so surprised. I felt like I looked gross haha. There are guys out there who aren’t into the classic feminine look. It’s more about your mannerism and…
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/22 01:25 PM
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Sounds like you are being majorly (and quite obviously) strung along. This behavior is not how a relationship is supposed to be.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/22 02:58 PM
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Yup, one of the four horsemen of the apocalypse according to John Gottman.
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/22 02:31 PM
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Ok, come on. A little uncalled for.
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/22 12:45 AM
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My mom works from home as a hairstylist and does lice removal. Her biggest thing is keratin treatments. She makes a great living, but had to work hard to build a clientele.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/22 06:47 PM
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I feel you. I have gone through dozens of therapists because I never felt like I connected with any. Most of them flat out sucked. I’m glad this subreddit was able to help you and again, I think it is really great that you are owning up to your issues. That shows real strength and maturity. You should be proud of yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/22 12:57 AM
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This behavior is abusive. It’s good that you recognize it and are trying to get better. I highly recommend DBT therapy.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/22 04:11 PM
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Ask him about himself and be an active listener. Throw in some compliments and ask follow up questions. Guys like it when they don’t feel the pressure to be the ones to keep the conversation going.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/22 01:55 AM
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I have never heard anything good about IUDs. My mom had one and ended up getting pregnant. Had to have an emergency abortion and IUD removal. Hormonal BC terrifies me. It makes me suicidal.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/22 09:30 PM
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Yes!! I am BEYOND obsessed with my moissanite ring.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/22 07:45 PM
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Would I stay with someone who I believed was cheating on me? No.
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/22 04:28 AM
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His handiness and ability to make me belly laugh like I’m on drugs. Even when I’m depressed, he somehow manages to get me to laugh. No idea how he does it.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/22 01:36 PM
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Sure, but if you’re looking for a relationship she already told you she’s not, so you’d be wasting your time.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/22 12:41 PM
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We met on tinder! We are from the same area but lived far away. We both happened to be visiting home at the time. He was there for winter break, I was there before I started my seasonal job. We were on tinder just because we were bored haha. Our first date went on for 9 hours, and we hung out everyday after that until he went back to school. I visited him once a month. We became official after 3 months, but had to start off as long distance. We have the same career path, so I encouraged him to a…
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/22 05:53 PM
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I stopped at Eugenia cooney looks beautiful. This is scary and totally not normal. Please don’t make yourself sick for a man. I don’t care if he’s your husband. That is totally fucked up. I’m sorry I don’t have better advice, there is just so much to unpack here…
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/22 11:36 AM
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I am the same. We actually solve issues quicker over text
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/22 10:18 PM
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My husband and I started off long distance. We had to go long distance three years ago for a few months, and are currently long distance until October. Our career field is like that unfortunately It’s fucking hard, but he’s worth it. Edit to add- when we met, we decided to just be friends because of the distance, but that didn’t work out because I fell in love with him pretty quickly lol
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/22 09:50 PM
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If you are don’t want to go to the gym, a quick set of push ups, sit ups/crunches, and squats routinely will help you tone up.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/22 02:45 PM
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This or a guy who is into hunting and fishing. He’ll provide for you and your family on a whole new level.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/22 10:49 AM
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I initiated conversation and kept the ball rolling, but I’m naturally pretty good at engaging people in general. He said he found it captivating, made me interesting to talk to, and it took the pressure off of him trying to make sure the date didn’t suck haha. Our chemistry was so strong, our first date lasted 9 hours. It was like we had known each other for years. We waited about 2-3ish months until we became “official”, and I was the one who asked if he wanted to be my boyfriend because I was …
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/22 07:11 PM
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I find that men like your bf at his age date much younger than them because people their age don’t want to put up with that sort of shit. I recommend scrolling through this subreddit. There are many many many posts basically exactly like yours. Same age gap, same situation.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/22 05:19 PM
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I mean the excitement, anticipation, and unknown about getting engaged and married specifically
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/22 12:09 AM
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Try and enjoy the excitement and anticipation. It’s something you’ll never experience again after you’re married. That’s how I stayed cool after I found out my husband bought me a ring.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/22 01:54 AM
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I was all sweaty in a baggy shirt and joggers, elbow deep gutting a lake trout and my husband said I was so beautiful and he loved me.
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/22 02:17 PM
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Seriously! Where is the logic there???
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/22 04:01 PM
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I feel totally unqualified to give advice on this sort of topic, but the suggestions to watch porn WITH him seem like awful advice. If it’s an addiction, how would watching porn with someone help? That’s like, “just drink alcohol with him!” or “just go gambling with him!”. This will not help an addict.
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/22 07:26 PM
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I second this recommendation. Best book I’ve ever read.
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/22 08:02 PM
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We got engaged after two and a half years and then eloped three weeks later.
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/22 04:25 PM
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That makes no sense. He’s full of shit. He sounds like a miserable person, and misery loves company. He’s wants you to be miserable too to make himself feel superior. Pathetic. You will live a sad lonely life sticking with someone like that.
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/22 10:06 PM
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Genius
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/22 05:27 PM
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After I was old enough to move out of my dad’s house, I promised myself that I would never let anyone yell at me again. Instant dealbreaker for me. Yelling and name calling of any sort is verbal abuse. You are being verbally abused. If your sister/best friend came to you and told you her boyfriend treated her like this, what would you tell her? Edited wording Edited again to add: I understand how difficult it is to pick up on red flags after growing up with an abusive parent. One of the biggest …
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/22 01:03 AM
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I stopped at “I said something disrespectful and he hit me for it”. The fact that you are blaming yourself for this is concerning. His physical abuse will get worse. He now knows what you will tolerate, so he will do it again because he knows he got away with it the first time.
/r/RedPillWives10/05/22 11:37 PM
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Walk around standing up straight with your shoulders back. You’d be surprised at how often you’re “checked out” or approached by this simple change.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/22 04:22 PM
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My husband is good at fixing things. I say stuff like, “you’re so smart to be able to figure that out by yourself. I’m so happy to be with someone handy like you are!”
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/22 11:27 PM
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When I was a kid, I used to sleep with a pillow against my back to pretend someone was cuddling me. Had a rough childhood. I’m so grateful that I now have someone who loves me and wants to cuddle every night.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/22 03:11 PM
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Sounds like anhedonia, which is a symptom of depression. It takes the joy out of life, and everything you do. When I’m having a depression episode (I’m bipolar), I completely lose interest in everything. Even the things I know that I love most.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/22 09:52 PM
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From the day I moved in, about two-ish years ago, I don’t think we’ve ever gone to sleep at night without cuddling. Been together 3 years, got married 8 months ago.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/22 08:55 PM
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I went ring shopping with my friends. The jewelry store kept notes on what I wanted so my husband knew exactly what to get. The store was having a month long sale, so I knew the ring would be purchased by a certain date. From there, I didn’t know anything. I tried to just enjoy the unknown, staying giddy and excited while accepting the fact that I had no control over what would happen. I didn’t want to ask about it because I didn’t want to pressure him. I knew it would happen when he felt it was…
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/22 10:56 PM
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What kind of vacation is it? Is it in some sort of place where there is a lot of nightlife and “partying” (for lack of better word)?
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/22 05:42 PM
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Do your ILs notice that you aren’t coming?
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/22 04:08 PM
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So his brother is allowed to bring his wife, but your husband can’t bring you?
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/22 04:00 PM
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Something really easy you can start with is spaghetti with meat sauce. Learn to brown some ground beef (a very simple task). Once the meat is cooked, pour a jar of whichever pre made tomato sauce you’d like into the skillet over the meat and let it simmer for a few minutes. Once you get the hang of that, you can experiment with adding extra stuff like sautéed onions, mushrooms, garlic, peppers, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/22 02:58 PM
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I don’t either. It’s ok though 🤷‍♀️
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/22 12:06 AM
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Sounds like he could possibly be a passive aggressive covert narcissist. I’m reading a really interesting book on the topic right now. I’m not claiming to be an expert by any means, but this post reads just like some of the examples described in the book. Edit: this is the book
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/22 10:22 PM
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We discussed an article in my environmental physiology class stating children are more likely to have a mental illness as the age of the father increases. Edit to add before I get downvoted: obviously this includes other factors, such as genetics. I’m not saying old men always beget mentally ill children.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/22 10:05 PM
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I guess it depends on the age and life experience. I think it says a lot when an older man (30+) goes for younger women (early to mid 20s). This raises a major red flag. In my opinion and experience, it is super hard for me to call him an HVM. Why does he bypass women his own age, who have similar life experience, for a women who is more naive, making herself more vulnerable. Sounds like a recipe for disaster in my opinion.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/22 06:00 PM
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When my husband helps me with something, I thank him and add some sort of positive reinforcement like, “thanks for cleaning the cast iron skillet! You’re always so good at making sure it stays seasoned. I love you!” or “I love how you’re able to figure out how to fix the car on your own. You’re so handy and smart, that’s why I married you!” It makes him feel good about himself, thus he does things more often. Positive manipulation 😈
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/22 05:04 PM
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When I first started dating my now husband, we would send each other memes throughout the day. Frequency depended on how busy we were.
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/22 09:04 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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