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I'm from Netherlands but living in Poland.
/r/seduction28/12/25 11:54 PM
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There are some, but quite rare. Since I'm mixed I don't belong to the major minorities here, there is no community.
/r/seduction28/12/25 11:54 PM
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Most of the psychologists here are mostly white women from upper middle class background who don't understand the struggles I face. I tried it twice.
/r/seduction28/12/25 11:35 PM
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Long story short. It's powerplay. Imagine you are talking with a set of 2 or 3 girls and suddenly some dude comes into the set and start talking. If he has game he is able to steal the attention in a way you are ending up as listener and third wheel making you losing value, and attraction.
/r/seduction21/12/25 06:35 PM
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You should be not too polite and friendly because that can come off as 'boy who seeks validation' and submissive. That is not high value behaviour.
/r/seduction21/12/25 06:32 PM
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4 guys with 2-3 girls.
/r/seduction21/12/25 01:17 PM
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Wha about group dynamics? Do you have authority?
/r/seduction21/12/25 01:08 PM
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Also you don’t want to risk your reputation since it’s a major risk you’re taking.
/r/seduction21/12/25 12:49 PM
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Are you not overestimating your attractiveness? Most guys I know who are doing good with women are already the ones who are getting attention and respect from their peers.
/r/seduction21/12/25 07:44 AM
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Being perceived as low value / low status. 1 you are too quiet, not able to DHV in proper way to get respect 2 giving off too nervous or submissive vibes 3 and in some cases being POC giving ppl the impression that you from a poor undeveloped nation
/r/seduction21/12/25 07:40 AM
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Also the fact that you can hurt your friends feelings and will lose this social connection due to competition
/r/seduction21/12/25 07:36 AM
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This Steph guy has 0 game but he has confidence and isn’t afraid to take risk. But it’s too naive to say that it doesn’t work because hot women are in limited supply and all men compete for them
/r/seduction21/12/25 01:44 AM
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Long story short: It is better to go DIRECT. There is this decades of discussion of should you do direct versus indirect daygame, BUT in my opinion I think that direct is working better for those who are already goodlooking and confident.
/r/seduction19/12/25 11:17 AM
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How the hell you end up there?
/r/seduction17/12/25 06:35 AM
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European living in Thailand. I’ve never been to India and I’m just curious since we have many many Indian male tourists in Thailand now.
/r/seduction15/12/25 12:14 PM
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And littering? I saw videos people just throw bags garbage out of the trains.
/r/seduction15/12/25 12:04 PM
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Come to Thailand, I’ll show you what good taste is haha
/r/seduction15/12/25 11:59 AM
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Come to Pattaya man. I’ll only go to India for medical treatment or for tech.
/r/seduction15/12/25 11:58 AM
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I used to live in Thailand and Indian tourist got the worst reputation, especially in Pattaya.
/r/seduction15/12/25 11:55 AM
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Are the videos true about people littering waste, overcrowded trains and public shitting true?
/r/seduction15/12/25 11:52 AM
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I disagree.
/r/seduction15/12/25 11:49 AM
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But people from the north are ruder, that’s what they told me.
/r/seduction15/12/25 11:48 AM
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Remember that most men don’t find Indian women attractive so I think you’re lucky to find your niche
/r/seduction15/12/25 11:45 AM
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Is it true about the smell?
/r/seduction15/12/25 11:36 AM
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I’ve never been to India but is it true that people urinate in public and shit on the streets?
/r/seduction15/12/25 11:35 AM
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True but Indians got a bad reputation in the West, even in Thailand where heaps of men show lack of civic sense. Can you do Daygame in India without getting harassed by annoying bystanders?
/r/seduction15/12/25 11:32 AM
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To be honest I would not call that dude a friend anymore. He knew that by dating her it would hurt your ego.
/r/seduction14/12/25 04:57 PM
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All the men here try to be 'the attractive guy' but for that you need to play a role.
/r/seduction14/12/25 04:54 PM
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Some people get annoyed of tired being with people who (want) talking all the time. Personally I like quietness.
/r/seduction14/12/25 04:54 PM
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She would give me “the eyes”, always asks me how I’m doing and how’s work, wants to hangout when I’m free etc Clearly signs that she is into you (which is quite rare for women taking the first step). However I would be cautious because its your workplace and not a bar where you can walk away.
/r/seduction14/12/25 04:53 PM
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Don’t you think giving her a compliment first based on dress is better? But in that case it would like i put her on a pedestal
/r/seduction13/12/25 02:05 PM
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Until you made the wrong assumptions, she only says 'no' or 'wrong' so you have to ask questions. Once I saw a taller girl and made the assumption she plays basketball. She said no and told me that she don't like that people make such assumptions. So that made me thinking doing such cold reads without knowing people is quite risky.
/r/seduction13/12/25 01:45 PM
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There is a reason why most people prefer to be around popular and influential people
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 08:01 AM
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Exactly! This is what I was trying to tell. The concept is that you need to have something to offer, because most young women already got tons of men approaching her on a daily basis. So she will compare you to those other men and if she is perceiving you as lower status, you'll lose because others are able to bring more to the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 07:55 AM
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Questions like?
/r/seduction13/12/25 06:25 AM
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I know what im doing wrong but i tried to hire a coach but most of them ask bizarre high prices
/r/seduction13/12/25 06:18 AM
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I asked my friend what went wrong because he saw it happen. He explained me the concept of bringing value versus taking value as man from a women’s pov.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 01:04 AM
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It was an informal pub crawl of all different hostels in the neighborhood. We all don’t know each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 01:02 AM
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No. The fact she walked away was intentional. Its was more like in a vibe, 'you are below my standards' Bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 12:56 AM
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Everybody in the group was a stranger and she was social to everybody. That was the reason why I was starting to talk with her because I saw that she was social and that this was low risk for social rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 12:55 AM
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I know some really wealthy guys but some really suck with women. Why? Because its all about the perception what she has about you. Money doesn't matter, because she isn't gonna ask you how much cash you have. Most women make their decision within 10 seconds or without convo.
/r/seduction13/12/25 12:45 AM
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Yes, she wasn't nice to me. I mean, if I meet people whatever the person is a CEO or unemployed I would still be respectful and ask questions. But in this case I can understand it also a bit since young women get approached all the time, so they can be rude against lower status men because she gets away with it without consequences. If I would be rude against women at a party I'm sure that would have consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 12:44 AM
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Just a little bit. Its more the fact that he is a popular guy and gets more respect from people. It's like a social hirarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 12:41 AM
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I invested a lot in clothes and watches to look high value. Learned Dale Carnegie "How to make Friend and Influence people'. But indeed, the verbal aspect is way more important. The reason why I was starting to ask questions is because I don't know her and was looking for stacks to talk about. The reason why I avoid talking in this stage is because I fear that I talk too much and too fast and that she will walk away anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 12:40 AM
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Japanese women who like foreigners often go for white or black guys. But not those who are coming from Africa since they got a bad reputation there. They barely use dating apps there. Just go the for foreigners friendly bars.
/r/seduction13/12/25 12:36 AM
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Winters are always shit in Europe. I even sometimes tell guys you can better spend a couple of months in Bali and come back in spring.
/r/seduction13/12/25 12:33 AM
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bring value I often hear from other men that I need to bring value instead of taking. I try to find out how.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 12:31 AM
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After the first venue we went to another one. We walked all together on the street (everybody was talking with everybody) and I tried to get some smalltalk with her since she was free. She answered my question and starts to walk faster in a way that she walks away from me and tries to connect with the 3 guys in front of me. It was a bit of weird interaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 12:27 AM
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Seems that you are the exception. Most men don't get much matches on the dating apps.
/r/seduction13/12/25 12:20 AM
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I would avoid boring topics that everyone is going to ask... like "where do you work" "Where do you live". But they are the easiest to stack a conversation about. What is not a boring question in your opinion?
/r/seduction13/12/25 12:17 AM
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Men always have low standards. For women its the opposite, they are way more selective. As long they don't see it you can just like everyone. What do you have to offer?
/r/seduction13/12/25 12:16 AM
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What do you mean with boring?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 12:09 AM
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It matters because her perception of me was that I was a low-value man. My friend also spoke to her, was totally different. I would like to know which variables matters here what makes a women label a guy as low value.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 12:09 AM
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I haven't done nightgame or social circle game long time because I don't like the group dynamics coming with it. Doing daygame only now for couple of years but unfortunately still 0 success. Women are busy, no time... and in best case I get a IG but getting ignored or blocked. Same issue, that I'm broadcasting in my verbals or body language that I'm low value.
/r/seduction13/12/25 12:00 AM
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he was desperate to be liked and to talk to someone. And you could tell that he was scanning you for an entry. I doubt if you can spot that easy since most people just start with smalltalk to feel if there is a connection. But some people broadcast some vulnerable traits what can be perceived as weak by women. You could tell he had nothing of value to offer you. What is your definition of value? very interesting, very socially competent, very popular guys. Those guys have options but often women…
/r/seduction12/12/25 11:32 PM
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Often guys dress up, get tattoos and wear accessoires to impress and appear 'higher value', I get that. But what I don't understand is why women already made the decision to reject him without knowing anything about his background. Without conversation you can't know if he has the value you're looking for.
/r/seduction12/12/25 11:03 PM
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Sausage fest
/r/seduction12/12/25 10:42 PM
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Most books read as romans or memoires. Most guys who want to learn are not interested in that and look for are more technically written instruction how to approach and what you should exactly do.
/r/seduction12/12/25 10:39 PM
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I never had any hookup and I think its not that common among most people. The only group of men who can get easy hookups are those who are above average hot or/and socially skilled.
/r/seduction12/12/25 10:37 PM
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Speed dating is very competitive. I did it once and I was surprised that there was a female majority. But in the end I wasn't chosen but turned out that the majority of the women had the same matches, so they competed for the 3-4 best performing men.
/r/seduction12/12/25 10:35 PM
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No, she will friendzone you.
/r/seduction12/12/25 10:33 PM
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we cross paths again they don’t greet.. They are not your friends since they seem not interested in you and there is no reciprocity
/r/seduction11/12/25 07:53 PM
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First, build a social circle with friends and fix your mental health. No women wants a lonely loner with troubles.
/r/seduction11/12/25 05:43 PM
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He gamed London. But the demographic matters, tourists are way more receptive than locals
/r/seduction06/12/25 11:56 AM
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Why? My focus are locals and Krakow is the touristic capital of PL.
/r/seduction06/12/25 10:40 AM
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This is power play. Call him out on the spot and he will look as the rude guy.
/r/seduction06/12/25 10:06 AM
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Well done! Where do you game?
/r/seduction05/12/25 10:58 AM
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If your male peers seek validation with you, it will boost your status. But when they disrespect or AMOG you it lowers down your status. What to do when other men try to disrespect you in front of the girl you like?
/r/seduction29/11/25 09:44 PM
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Do you think I said something wrong? Because I made the wrong assumption, turned out she didn’t play any sport.
/r/seduction28/11/25 09:23 PM
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Lastly I noticed a tall girl. I complimented her confidence. Or in other cases I make a compliment about her style, jacket. Following with a question… as example with the girl lastly, asking her if she is playing a sport like basketball. But she told me that she got this question every week and was slightly annoyed by that. So I wonder what I could say better?
/r/seduction28/11/25 09:17 PM
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Which country?
/r/seduction28/11/25 07:19 PM
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It’s called naturals. And the fact that he is 185 is not average for Indian standards since I often see those guys not taller than 165cm.
/r/seduction28/11/25 02:58 PM
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IMO the most important thing is that you need to have the ability to win peoples trust fast. I think that is a very valuable skill.
/r/seduction23/11/25 03:51 PM
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This is a underrated topic in Game. This is why I prefer daygame because that is just 1:1 or with some girls with a lower risk of some (often male) intruder butts in and lowers down your status. But in social (circle) game and nightgame women are often more open for conversation. But there are always other orbiting men around. I tried couple of time to join a group with 1-2 dudes and 5 girls. I wasn't that much interested in flirting but wanted to join the party. But I noticed that the girls wer…
/r/seduction23/11/25 03:50 PM
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Isn’t that tall men look more threatening towards a women?
/r/seduction23/11/25 12:03 PM
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Don't get me wrong but the point is that I can talk with women, but they seem not interested in me. I need to learn the process of being more interesting, and dealing with other men who play better in my sets.
/r/seduction23/11/25 02:35 AM
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The few girls I vibe well with, I lost them after other men came in and appeared cooler. That made me realise that majority of the men are cooler and that I need to find something to be better than the competition. With most of the women I noticed, especially during the night that multiple men chase them.
/r/seduction23/11/25 02:33 AM
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I did a bootcamp but learned nothing special, most knowledge I already knew from the books. The bootcamp felt more like just going out with bro's. But I got feedback that I appeared too nervous and timid, making AMOGS will interveine and women see me as boring.
/r/seduction23/11/25 02:26 AM
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In my 20s, money was an issue since I was in debt. Now it is the opposite but I don't know where to start since I tried nightgame and daygame here locally but 0 results. City here is that small that I often see the same people in the bars and malls.
/r/seduction23/11/25 02:24 AM
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I don't want to visit any hookers. I want to get skilled in seduction and be able to show my value and make her like me.
/r/seduction23/11/25 02:22 AM
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It is not about just sex. I want to experience to be likeable that that she wants me. Not to just have quick sex and pay.
/r/seduction23/11/25 02:21 AM
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No because it doesn't make me more likeable in the sense that women want me.
/r/seduction23/11/25 02:19 AM
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I have savings to travel for 1 year. Since I live in a smaller city now, options are limited. Working from 9 till 6, being in a smaller city is too limiting.
/r/seduction23/11/25 02:16 AM
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The reason behind is to move to other parts of the world and try and error, find better place where women are more receptive.
/r/seduction23/11/25 02:08 AM
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I live in a smaller city where options are limited. My reason to quit is because it gives me the ability to travel. I mean, I would have more time to prioritise my goal. Learn game first and treat anxity. I used to work a lot but now I realise I need to catch up because at 35 most women of my age starting to settle down, some already married and even have kids.
/r/seduction23/11/25 01:49 AM
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It is not just about getting laid.
/r/seduction23/11/25 01:48 AM
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I was, but more focused on academics and career since I got a debt during that time. Now I have much more savings, finally be able to quit. As I told you, I already being in crisis for more than 8 years but without result. That is why I take the next step now.
/r/seduction23/11/25 01:44 AM
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