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This is fantastic!
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/16 09:17 AM
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If I recall correctly, the Rules suggest using a one year cut off if you're over 25 and a longer one (like 2 or more) if you're under 25. I think that's a great system. Women really do spend years on inappropriate men and then suddenly discover they can't have babies anymore. It's a sad but self-inflicted situation. That "rule" doesn't mean that you can't/won't become engaged after a year. It simply means that you're going to find life easier if you follow it. Who doesn't want an easier life?
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/16 06:23 AM
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maul Hahahaha. I agree.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/16 11:56 PM
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This is great!
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/16 07:16 AM
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Just chiming in to say I'm neither black nor white. In my very image oriented field, a few black coworkers confided in me that clients specifically asked them to not wear their hair naturally. From what I've read online, this is an issue that pops up in other image oriented fields. I imagine that must make things difficult.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/16 09:00 AM
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"I can't wait to see you again, will you please kiss me soon" I'm not clingy and now I want to be clingy, just so I can say this! lol. I'm going to use this once in a while.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/16 06:32 AM
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I think you did well! I agree about the MJ use. Overall he doesn't seem your type. Isn't it wonderful that you found that out on the first date instead of later? :D Great advice :) and yea, let us know how your future dates pan out.
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/16 02:08 AM
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So, this is a little funny to me because I have a soft, feminine voice and I'm trying to be louder! ;) Experiencing positive effects of your attempts is a great motivator to keep going. I have a few suggestions: Take voice lessons. If you can't afford them, find some free ones online. Find voice exercises. Learning to sing properly will help you gain control of your vocal chords and change them over time. Sarcasm can be fun sometimes but it's a negative way to put someone in their place. It's of…
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/16 03:37 AM
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I'll do that :)
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/16 02:13 AM
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I like the story of how it led to your first date :) My advice in general about first few dates: 1) Drinking: I rarely drink (and never on the first few dates), but if you do, then eat half a protein bar or half a banana before you go in for the date (that's small enough to not fill you up fully). Don't have a first date drink on an empty stomach. If someone offers you a drink before you've had a chance to eat anything, say nicely, "I'll wait until I've had a bite to eat, but don't let that stop…
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/16 12:10 AM
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Post on your profile, either in the ideal first date section or elsewhere: "For first dates, coffee isn't my thing. But I'd love to play pool, go to a bowling alley, meet for drinks, dinner, listen to live music or (write whatever else appeals to you). You can always delete it later. If despite that obvious message, someone asks you to go for a coffee date, just copy paste the above in your communication.
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/16 08:27 AM
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I'll try that approach. Edit: I thought about it a little more and this is exactly what I need to do. Thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/16 10:48 PM
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She's learning to be more dominant on the outside, but around me she knows her place and wants my protection. This is interesting to me because I struggle to do the former if I'm doing the latter. What are some ways you two make this happen? Does she struggle with switching from submissive to dominant at work? Let's use a hypothetical situation. You put her in a very submissive frame of mind one morning and then she goes to work. She has to deal with a very frustrating customer who needs to be h…
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/16 05:05 PM
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haha. Maybe we're on the same page then.
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/16 04:42 PM
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I've always known what I wanted, so finding the words was never an issue ;) It's not enough if two people who like each other are kinky because kinks and desires have to match (on top of everything else). My preferred dynamic isn't necessarily what most people seek, even within BDSM. It appeals to a small subset of people. I'd rather not go into details about my preferences publicly. But yea, that is what I look for.
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/16 03:48 PM
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*Couples who got married very young are more likely to divorce. *Couples who got married after 32 see are more likely to divorce as the age of marriage grows *People from divorced families tend to get divorced more often than people from married families. *Couples who got married with debt divorce more often than those without. So, basically everyone? :/
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/16 08:42 AM
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Good to know! Thanks! That explains why I disliked the website but not the newer book which is probably based on the FW course (I assume).
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/16 01:42 AM
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Gotcha. So, each type gets 4 functions. We're all a combination of the N/S axis (intuition/sensing) and T/F axis (thinking/feeling). Your two most prominent functions are N & F (if you're an ENFP). Because you're an E (extrovert), your first function (aka dominant function) becomes extroverted -> E + iNtuition = Ne dominant. Ne doms are great at brainstorming and pattern detection. They can, for example, come up with lots of ideas on the spot, find unique ideas, detect patterns others can't as e…
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/16 08:13 AM
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Hi, were you referring to the part where I spoke about the inaccuracy of the tests or the 4 functions of individual types?
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/16 06:53 AM
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That's a good question :) I'm short and busty unlike the tall models, so this definitely affects my decisions. There are a few factors: 1) Have I shopped in the store IRL and how did the clothes fit me? I also read product reviews for relevant sizing info if the item has been out for a while. Some stores love product reviews while other stores won't let you review products at all :/ Some stores size up/down, but certain items might be designed differently despite that (product reviews will often…
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/16 09:53 AM
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I buy almost everything on sale online. Sometimes I'll pay full price. Most stores have frequent sales (40%+) so it works out :) I try to keep my clothes heavily skewed towards skirts +minis + dresses. NY&Co (lots of cute dresses on there, but I primarily buy their tops and coats), Bebe (for bandage miniskirts, other miniskirts and bandage dresses, occasional coat), MyHabit.com (they have great designer sales - I buy clothes, jewelry, hats! even designer lingerie on sale!), Ann Taylor (for some …
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/16 08:43 AM
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You know, its strange. I always assume ESFPs are more feminine than me :) But hey, we can both take the compliment and enjoy it, right?
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/16 02:45 AM
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It's cool that you're an INTJ! ENFP here. I wouldn't use the online tests as an accurate standard ;) They tend to get a few things wrong (although they can type people correctly as well - it can go either way). I'd first read the descriptions of the types and see which ones you relate to the most. And then, I'd rely more on the function stack for each type you relate to and see if which functions fit you best. For example, my functions are Ne Fi Te Si (iNtuitive, Feeling, Thinking, Sensing in th…
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/16 02:44 AM
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