SweetJ138 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	give it time or file?		SweetJ138	/r/Divorce_Men	23/11/22 03:34 PM
4	STBX is watching all my social media accounts including this one...		SweetJ138	/r/Divorce_Men	07/06/23 10:27 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Why do the responsible ones end up paying? accusations don't always help you. my ex handed in 28 pages of stuff on me, all of which was from before i got sober 11 months ago. He's an alcoholic, his mom is an alcoholic, he complains about parenting, he rages, he is mean spirited, he is this and that. There were some flat out lies in it that i would have fought, but her accusations got a frosty response from the judge. They don't want to see this bullshit. Was he ever arrested? No Were the cops ever called? No. That was it. It just made he…	/r/Divorce_Men	08/06/23 10:29 AM
1	Why do the responsible ones end up paying? if i had the coins to give you an award i would. so well said.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/06/23 10:18 AM
2	Having a really hard time this is a very good post. anti depressents are a strange and complex beast. the feeling extra bad could be the meds for sure.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/11/22 11:32 PM
3	My ex would say things like “the way you’re talking to me is very Alpha male and coming across negative” when does doing things for my son become negative? thank you for recommending that. i watched one of his lectures this evening. very enlightening. This will be very helpful thinking for me right now. i've been jackal AF.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/11/22 10:55 PM
6	My ex would say things like “the way you’re talking to me is very Alpha male and coming across negative” when does doing things for my son become negative? The modern woman wants a wealthy, powerful, fit man……..who turns into a compliant pussycat the second he gets home and never expresses his opinion or challenges her on anything. Then they’re shocked when they don’t get what they want. nailed it.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/11/22 09:39 PM
1	I couldn’t make it to work today drinking = amplified emotion + attenuated judgement 100% of the time. really think about that combination of things... it can really make for irratic results. also, that combination can stay with you well into the morning after a long night. that breakdown WAS your hangover manifested a different way. i'm speaking from experience, i've been you many times in that situation.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/11/22 01:54 AM
1	Its hard to get back in the dating game i get where you are coming from, but most men will eventually start to feel pretty shitty about themselves going down the porn/fap route as a means of sustainable sexual fulfilment. i used to love porn when i was younger. now at 40, being a dad, i feel like a creep when i have to resort to that.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/11/22 01:30 AM
2	give it time or file? well i do have alot of equity in the house, and its worth more than double what i paid for it 12 years ago. also im near the east side of detroit, and there is some cheap living here, but i get your point.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/11/22 10:19 PM
2	give it time or file? Believe me i know, my dad being fucked up all the time was what broke up my parents before i was old enough to know what was what. I swore i would always avoid that path, and i thought that only drinking and weed (ya know, the socially acceptable drugs) wouldn't take me that far down, but i was a blind fool and here we are. i'm thinking that whole too little too late thing too, shes just leaving me hanging with this whole "i don't know" thing.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/11/22 05:06 PM
4	give it time or file? thanks for that. she claims to be "Working on her", but when pressed as to what she is actually doing, i got "i'm going out, and doing the things i want to do", which just sounds like selfishness, as she was never NOT able to do anything. i wasn't controlling of her time.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/11/22 03:58 PM