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Swift_Dream/r/seduction26/09/18 03:16 PM
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The name of the game is to keep the conversation going with open ended questions based on their responses, while inserting how you feel about specific points of the topic being talked about (with context of what's being talked about in the moment), and eventually trying to get them to respond to your questions/statements emotionally (just nothing negatively directed at you), or in ways that either make the other person open up about important life experiences or things that tell you more about t…
/r/seduction29/08/21 12:28 AM
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To answer your question: if you see that someone you want to talk to, gives off vibes that they might not want to talk right now, I would ask a non-invasive, disarming question: if we're talking about sample girl, assuming I'm in a grocery store of some sort, I would ask of they knew where a certain product was in the store, if it was on the street, I would ask if they knew where a specific place was in the area. After that I would try and acknowledge the vibes I'm getting from her in a way that…
/r/seduction28/08/21 05:19 PM
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Yea, it isnt cool to try and hit on someone while they're at work, but it really depends on context of the situation. When you guys waved at eachother, was it because you've seen each other before? If not, the girl was just trying to do her job. I wouldn't try and date her, but if you do sense that she is bored, it could be a good opportunity to practice your small talk skills: like when you saw that she looked bored as she was telling you about the juices, you could've made a remark that direct…
/r/seduction28/08/21 05:02 PM
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Seriously, just going up and talking to some guys tend to be enough. If he's still not biting, then hint to him to ask you out: something like you're trying to find something to do on [insert day(s) here] and if he has some suggestions
/r/seduction28/08/21 04:33 PM
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Talk about school stuff man! You can literally talk about anything: if you or any friends/classmates share a class or a teacher with the girl you're trying to talk to, asking her about it is a safe icebreaker. Then react to how she responds: the name of the game is to keep the conversation going with open ended questions based on her responses, while inserting how you feel about the topic being talked about, and eventually trying to get her to respond to your questions/statements emotionally (ju…
/r/seduction28/08/21 04:25 PM
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And yes it's not a direct yes, but it seems like something she was interested in going to
/r/seduction18/04/19 10:08 PM
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You have nothing to lose if you're thinking about ghosting her anyway. Might as well try to confirm one more time
/r/seduction18/04/19 10:06 PM
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That kh3 lit
/r/seduction04/02/19 05:28 AM
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Do she like, live in the middle of nowhere? Shit you have a better chance gaming the neighbors
/r/seduction27/01/19 02:59 PM
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Bro she'll probably always see you as a cheater. You're willing to uproot your entire life to another country and learn french for 10 minutes of her time. License that story to Disney instead of following through with that
/r/seduction27/01/19 02:49 PM
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Keep it simple my guy. "Hey let me take you out for a coffee" replace a coffee with any events that sounds good. If theres resistance, you should frame it as a light hearted event and that shes escalating when you're trying to move things slower than her
/r/seduction27/01/19 02:44 PM
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Bruh distant your self at the moment, her wanting you to meet her ex in that context is petty couple BS that she could be using you for. I wouldn't even do the ultimatum, I would just chill on her and let her sort out her bullshit
/r/seduction27/01/19 03:34 AM
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Bruh good for you, start talking to people your interested in. I would avoid the girls who made fun of you when you were heavier. It's very telling of who they are as people
/r/seduction27/01/19 03:28 AM
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Bro talk to multiple girls to build up experience. You may find someone you may like more than her or she might start missing you if you had any impact on her life and start chasing you if you're not around as much
/r/seduction27/01/19 03:26 AM
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Bro, I dont see anything wrong with you. Just start going out and talk to girls you're interested in and see what happens through trial and error. You're only delaying work that you will have to put in at some point
/r/seduction27/01/19 03:22 AM
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Eeh I dunno, depending on what she said when she rejected you she may not be into dating you. but fuck it man i dunno the situation. Ask away
/r/seduction26/01/19 12:25 AM
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Maybe you should meet other women anyway. I would play it by ear with her.
/r/seduction26/01/19 12:20 AM
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Define ordinary girl
/r/seduction26/01/19 12:14 AM
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I couldn't tell you. It depends on what kind of girl she is and if she is receptive or not to the guy's situation
/r/seduction26/01/19 12:13 AM
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It's hard to say. Depends on what the first attempt was like. Do you guys talk pretty regularly?
/r/seduction26/01/19 12:03 AM
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Do you think it's her thing to try and attract orbiters?
/r/seduction25/01/19 11:58 PM
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I mean it depends, I dont think it's that cut and dry, how would a confident guy with no friends and no life sounds to you? It's all about how you sell yourself at the end of the day
/r/seduction25/01/19 11:54 PM
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Eeh not necessarily
/r/seduction25/01/19 11:46 PM
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Dancing with Spanish girls could change your life
/r/seduction28/09/18 12:49 PM
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Well so much for that. She lives in another country and wanted to talk to someone from the US. Thanks anyway bro, I should stick to face to face interactions
/r/seduction26/09/18 04:25 PM
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That is true. But I dont care, I wanted to see if I can get a number through one of these dating Apps, since I haven't yet
/r/seduction26/09/18 03:56 PM
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Haha, a pretty nice read though I had to take a break in between reading. It seems like if anyone was to train people on pickup, they should focus on someone's personality more than a routine approach for each interaction. So the whole bootcamp was only a week? 3000 is a steep price. Were you fed pickup lines to day to girls or was it just like, general stuff not focused on what you say?
/r/seduction24/09/18 06:55 PM
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She could just be living life (edit: becoming bored of the back forth), as well as talking to other guys. Try to limit anymore questions like 'is everything cool?' Unless she told you about a tense situation before. It could start looking needy and annoying. If you feel urges to talk to her when shes not being as receptive, start talking to other girls
/r/seduction24/09/18 06:17 PM
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Approaching alot of girls doesn't really mean anything. You should be honest and say you like meeting people. If she does shit test you, it gives you another opportunity to tease her, and make it playful. If she acts like she wants nothing to do you because of that, she probably wasn't a good fit for you anyway
/r/seduction24/09/18 06:03 PM
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I doubt she would say, can't tip the creeps off lol
/r/seduction23/09/18 05:54 PM
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Go for the girl you think you could have the most fun with, in a non sexual way. Which one can you joke with more or get the most good vibes from? It may seem like the girl you have most in common with, but that's not always the case.
/r/seduction21/09/18 08:41 PM
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Oh yea try to get some ppl from your school to be extras in your upcoming films, bring your peers to your world and they will find what you do interesting
/r/seduction21/09/18 08:30 PM
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Well, you're in high school, people tend to act very superficial during this time when in a few years it wont matter much. I'm not saying stop your endeavors of reinventing yourself, but I personally think trying to buy trendy items would be more for the people around you than for you, unless you're really into fashion. You should try joining more clubs and try talking to kids you dont talk to often in the cafeteria. And try to bring good energy. I feel like anyone in any age range loves good en…
/r/seduction21/09/18 08:26 PM
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Well, it sounds like you reach the part of your life where you care more about social connection versus sexual experiences. I couldn't tell you what to do that won't result in mostly likely seeming like an asshole unless she didnt catch feelings like you think she did. I would say let it fizzle out and if she hits you up, you could be honest and say you dont think you guys connect well and you dont wanna feel like you're using her for sex.
/r/seduction21/09/18 08:09 PM
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Go for it!! Fear is the worst part and that bastard doesn't know when he's overreacting. I wish you luck
/r/seduction19/09/18 03:30 AM
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Hmm I mean it seems like you cant really riff off anything you guys say over text, I think you could try sending something a bit wild and add something you dont normally send when texting her. Like "you really dont think I see you checking me out every day? You know I be looking like a snack 😋😋" . She'll definitely be thrown off. Whatever she sends, you should reply with "oops, wrong person lol". If her response is negative (like eww or Lmfao. "Lol" response's are iffy/borderline neutral), you c…
/r/seduction19/09/18 03:13 AM
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Depends, how often do yall text? Does she hit you up occasionally?
/r/seduction19/09/18 02:36 AM
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It depends how often and for how long you guys text each other. Also how playful are the texts? I know you say you guys normally just talk about class stuff, but is that the extent of the conversations?
/r/seduction19/09/18 02:30 AM
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Yea she seems like a yellow flag. She could be flirty to pass the time if your class is pretty boring or there's a chance that you can smash. You could try testing out a few questionable but harmless things to confirm that she likes you. My brain is kinda fried so I cant really think of ways for you to do that right now Edit: oh yea, she could also be out for your classwork/ homework.
/r/seduction19/09/18 02:21 AM
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This. I have a friend that's a girl get hit on when we were out grocery shopping. She met up with me and told me what the deal was and she stayed close and held my hand so the guy would stop advancing
/r/seduction14/09/18 07:32 PM
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Perfect. Yea invite her over to smoke. Try to get your roomie to not be there or just be pretty cool if he interacts but stay out the way
/r/seduction14/09/18 07:20 PM
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I feel like he shouldn't completely trash his friend, because he's still associated with him. Yea mentioned the friend fucked up, but hes cool (you hang out with him for a reason).
/r/seduction14/09/18 07:16 PM
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Yea you should be a bit direct about the situation. Try to make small talk again and if you notice the same patterns, get her attention, and bring up what you feel is causing the subtle awkwardness, hey I wanted to apologize about my friend, he can be a dick, but he's usually cool, blah blah, I actually want to have cool neighbors for once, blah blah, catch you later
/r/seduction14/09/18 07:12 PM
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Bruh I think you could smoke at her house instead of at a park. It sounds like she wants it and it's not weird to go over her house if yall work together. Just keep acting chill if you do go over and find opportunities to validate suspicions of interest
/r/seduction14/09/18 07:01 PM
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It sounds like she's playing hard to get. how were the dates when you met up with her?
/r/seduction13/09/18 12:57 PM
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I ain't no expert but one, when you talk about the taekwondo classes, it's like you crumbled and didnt stick to your guns. I think you should've. Also them smiley faces every second didnt help. When messaging you should try to talk in complete sentences grammar wise or that could be a turn off. Also, outside of the class thing, Where's your true thoughts? Like you were stuck on movie genres which she has a point, you can like multiple movie genres, but it seemed you cared too much about making s…
/r/seduction13/09/18 12:33 PM
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I think you feel it by risking rejection. The more you put yourself out there and go for it even if you feel like you will fail, you'll be shocked when you get some success and it'll validate the process for you
/r/seduction13/09/18 11:57 AM
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I think it depends on her personality. You used to talk to her every day, as soon as you heard she had a boyfriend, you stopped talking to her, or did she tell you about the new relationship with it seeming like she didnt want to talk anymore? After knowing that, it's all about how much resistance you want your path to have. If it was a hard cut off and she tried to message you, you might have a bit of shit to deal with, if it seemed like she didnt care, just hit her with that "hey stranger" and…
/r/seduction13/09/18 11:53 AM
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Maybe you're being impatient and want results on your time. Life rarely works like that in my experience. I'm no casanova, probably older than you and get less girls than you, and yea it sucks and can get you down, but I don't let that keep me down. My first relationship was a disaster because I was too inside my own mind about how shit my situation was to keep that relationship. If you have the mindset where only a gf can make you happy, it could act as a catch22 as you could appear needy once …
/r/seduction10/09/18 12:16 PM
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