| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 768 | Don’t worry about a man who doesn’t appreciate your value. | MINDSET SHIFT | Swoleunicorn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 01:44 AM |
| 617 | Stay Busy | QUEEN SH*T | Swoleunicorn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 04:27 AM |
| 591 | Love bombing is a red flag 🚩 | RED FLAG 🚨 | Swoleunicorn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 03:55 PM |
| 422 | A huge piece of the puzzle that is misogyny is mothers. | CULTURAL MISOGYNY | Swoleunicorn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 12:35 AM |
| 120 | This would explain why women like Beyoncé get cheated on. The other girl is just easier, not better than you. | LVM LOGIC | Swoleunicorn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 12:00 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 7 | Confused about our relationship - DESPERATE for helpHonestly, don’t do online long distance relationships that start out online first. I did that and found out he had a girlfriend. It was a big mistake. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/22 04:30 AM |
| 11 | Vetting Vetting, imagine being with a man for 30 yrs plus and he doesn’t love you, only as a best friend…. This is sad.This is proof that men don’t marry the woman they love. They marry the woman that is around when they are ready to marry. Also, who is giving this man awards?? Like really?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 10:26 PM |
| 159 | Strangest icks and dealbreaker?Not sure if this is strange but it is happening a lot recently. Men drastically lying about their height. I’ve been on quite a few dates where his profile says 5’9 and shows up and he is shorter than me! I’m 5’4. I can’t find a guy who is taller than me because so many lie about their height. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 11:18 PM |
| 85 | Quick unmatch after one early text. I’m finally learning to not waste time by trusting my gut.Yup. That’s pretty much what he meant. Probably because I wasn’t sending any sexual messages. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 03:06 AM |
| 270 | Quick unmatch after one early text. I’m finally learning to not waste time by trusting my gut.Wow. That guy is rude. I just unmatched a guy that said, “To be honest, this conversation is boring. Do you feel you have a connection with me?” I was asking him questions the whole time and putting effort in. No thanks. That’s just rude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 01:11 AM |
| 227 | Second self aware man I've seen in that thread. And all the angry scrotes downvoted himI commented on a TikTok of a guy that explained why men take fish pics. It is because they don’t have other photos to use. I commented “Why don’t men just get someone to take pictures of them?” I got attacked by men. They said men don’t do that. They don’t do photo shoots and can’t find someone to take photos of them. They are full of excuses!! Then they wonder why they don’t get matches or messages and the guys that do take good photos have more success than them. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 12:16 AM |
| 13 | Now is not the time to be dating. Men are way more desperate and dependent than ever. Use this time to better yourself rather than attaching yourself to someone through desperation.I went on Tinder and the compliments about me are off the charts. 🙄 So many dudes wanting me to come over. I hate it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 01:22 AM |
| 6 | Now is not the time to be dating. Men are way more desperate and dependent than ever. Use this time to better yourself rather than attaching yourself to someone through desperation.Yeah seriously so many desperate men in relationships now. I know one guy who met someone else in September told me in December he already has a gf. Like how?? You haven’t been dating anyone else since meeting her! You shouldn’t be that invested in someone that early on that you are exclusive since meeting her. It’s like he just wants a sex buddy. That’s the stupid thing is that these men are exclusive the day they meet her. Finding good long lasting relationships don’t work that way. Another gu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 01:19 AM |
| 1 | This would explain why women like Beyoncé get cheated on. The other girl is just easier, not better than you.The post is deleted anyways. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 05:09 AM |
| 1 | This would explain why women like Beyoncé get cheated on. The other girl is just easier, not better than you.She never said bad women but ok. Nobody is excusing his behaviour. An explanation is not an excuse. Have a nice day!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 04:35 AM |
| -1 | This would explain why women like Beyoncé get cheated on. The other girl is just easier, not better than you.How is saying someone may be better for him doesn’t mean they are better than you blaming women?? How is saying he has low self-esteem blaming women? THAT’S THE POINT. NOBODY IS BETTER. NOBODY IS BETTER THAN ANYBODY. There is no point in the video it was blaming women. This subreddit talks about guys trying to date women out of their league all the time. A lot of women who have been in a triangulation situation do feel worthless and do feel like the other woman is better than them. This video is… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 04:14 AM |
| 16 | This would explain why women like Beyoncé get cheated on. The other girl is just easier, not better than you.Yeah sorry I realize the title I wrote for the video wasn’t the best. I should have said the other girl is easier for him since he feels insecure and has low self-esteem so he needs to seek out other women to make him feel better about himself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 01:03 AM |
| 25 | A huge piece of the puzzle that is misogyny is mothers.Thanks! I think it is important to remember that there are a lot of shitty pick me mothers that are manipulative, and abusive towards their sons. While men are to blame for a lot of misogyny that goes on in the world, some women also play a role in internalized misogyny. A mother is the first woman a man sees in his life so his relationship with her and his upbringing can tell you a lot about how he treats and views women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 07:44 AM |
| 9 | A huge piece of the puzzle that is misogyny is mothers.I think specifically in this video she is talking about emotional incest. It is where the parent looks at their child for emotional support that is usually given by a romantic partner. Basically, the mother treats the son like a substitute for a romantic partner and there is nothing physically sexual involved. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QByahY5fuyo&t=380s&ab_channel=KatiMorton | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 03:21 AM |
| 22 | A huge piece of the puzzle that is misogyny is mothers.True. I do think fathers are to blame too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 01:58 AM |
| 13 | Stay BusyThis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 01:02 PM |
| 17 | Online dating in a nutshell; heads men win, tails women loseHinge is the same as the other apps. I have gotten so many fuckboys on there wanting to hook up and sending me sexual messages constantly. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 09:37 PM |
| 20 | Online dating in a nutshell; heads men win, tails women loseYes this!!! They only want a relationship for regular sex. Not because they actually like the person or are compatible with them. Men will tell women that they want a relationship but in reality are just using them for sex. I noticed during the pandemic there are a lot of fake relationships appearing and we know damn well they are just picking one woman they can use for regular sex and company since they can’t sleep with multiple woman right now. That’s why dating during the pandemic sucks right… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 09:32 PM |
| 6 | Online dating in a nutshell; heads men win, tails women loseWhat they say in the beginning is how it well end. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 09:19 PM |
| 13 | Men are getting lazier and lazier when it comes to dating (found on tumblr)Yeah exactly. I've been focusing on doing things I've been putting off and don't normally have the time to do. Great time to work on learning about dating and relationship strategies too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 09:24 AM |
| 3 | FAR TOO COMMON: Men with girlfriends who still hit the DMs to flirt and beg for nudes - you think I won’t snitch?Omg I was literally just in a situation where a guy I previously dated started messaging me while in a relationship. I was so mad at him. I told him I am contacting his girlfriend and stay away from me since I know you still like me. I blocked him and after I told him I was contacting his girlfriend he blocked me everywhere. LMAO what a loser! I am literally disgusted since I was still was attracted to him and I got my hopes up thinking he wants to date me again. This post came at perfect timing… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 12:02 AM |
| 34 | Am i the only one whos experienced a NVM get angry if i study my degree, or read?Yup. I unmatch men on dating apps who make passive aggressive comments about my education. I have had guys say things like, "Oh you are highly educated. That's a bold claim!" or "Having a degree does not make you smart." or "How do you have time for all of that?" or "You don't need a university degree." They are always jealous and they are always uneducated and not ambitious themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 11:36 PM |
| 2 | For real thoughIt shouldn't even be just his parent's job to teach him to be a man. Even if his parents didn't teach him he needs to teach HIMSELF to be a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 05:39 AM |
| 1 | It’s the “active in” communities for me 🤣 (blocked this rumplescroatskin immediately after my response)Lmao!! Projection at its finest! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 12:06 PM |
| 2 | HVM are secure in their masculinity... he’s taking dancing lessons from another guy without me 😂I agree. I have had guys on dating apps who I haven't even met yet suggest going dancing or going to a swing class for a first date. I went dancing with one guy and he turned out to be a LVM. These were men that I wasn't even in a relationship with. Many men who suggest dancing as a date or do dancing on their own are LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 01:51 AM |
| 8 | People who say their partner is HV before 6 month in, and people in here supporting it?I remember reading a comment a while back on this sub of a girl talking about her HVM that she has been dating for 6 weeks. She said he was buying her a ring and said he already knows he wants to marry her. Like uhhh no, that is love bombing and future faking. That is not HV, that's a red flag after 6 weeks of dating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 11:58 PM |
| 2 | Words of WisdomA guy I was talking to said he had family issues going on and he told me a bit about it. I have Psychology degree and I told him therapy may be a good idea IMO. He ended up blocking me after that. Clearly I hit a nerve with him and clearly I was right.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/20 10:19 PM |
| 1 | “Womanly” activities are cooking, cleaning, caretaking & appearances 🤢Is this a parody of the Shania Twain song Man! I feel like a woman? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 11:15 PM |
| 1 | Thankfully I’m doing splendid on my ownThis is why I got a new kitten. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 04:47 AM |
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