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Rant/VentingSyriz_/r/TheRedPill28/03/15 01:39 PM
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I am in the UK, originally from Pakistan. I have never been to the States but sounds like it is quite bad there for the "desi" boys. However in the course of last 4 years I have actively taken steps to down play my race problem (for lack of better word) and height issue (I am 5"8). In no particular order: Height - Accept the fact that besides shoes with a good lift and maybe an inner sole, there is nothing much to be done. Fix your posture so that you don't look shorter than you are Be (or striv…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/17 04:57 PM
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5'8" here, what are you on about? Yes height can be a factor but my question to you is that is it the ONLY factor? What about your dressing sense? Lifting stats? Diet and life style? You are more than just your height
/r/askTRP19/03/17 11:36 AM
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Interestingly enough I had a discussion with my friend who is a lawyer about this same topic. She was talking with me about a case in a night club where a girl threw beer (unprovoked) on a guy and slapped him. The guy slapped her back, and then kicked her multiple times in the ribs once she was down. The court has charged the girl for inciting violence, and the guy is being charged with "excessive use of force". Basically, in the eye of the law, as long as equal force is used, it's all okay. Thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 08:25 PM
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I remember telling my (male/female) friends that I don't believe in the 1-10 rating system. Instead mine is a 4 point scale: Will never fuck her Will fuck but not tell anyone Will fuck and tell friends Will make my girlfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/16 02:22 PM
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I can sort of relate but chalk it down to approach. When I am in slut mode its about banging as many girls as I can/want and yes its nice to have some repeats. But my approach when looking for a relationship is different. For starters sex is not as immediate as in other cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/16 01:09 PM
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There were serious discussions on how cricket needs to reform and what measures need to be taken to protect female reporters. No kidding
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 06:05 PM
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Or you know, I can just goto TRP, apply what I deem useful and get what I want. Because that is what I did, and it worked like a charm.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 11:53 AM
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Meanwhile, Chris Gayle (westindian cricketer) was banned and fined for this comment. Which was deemed sexist and degrading to the female reporter. Hint: It was just a single flirty line. The entire world lost it's shit and he was called out for it on all forms of media.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 11:46 AM
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How is this news to anyone? What rock do people live under?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/16 12:59 PM
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Till date the best comment I have received from a girl was something along the same lines. We were "seeing each other" but not dating publicly yet. At one point I asked her to come over to my place to just hang out ( I was bored and not really looking for sex at the particular moment) and told her the same. Her response? "I trust you will keep your hands to yourself, but can't say the same for myself" hnggg...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/16 11:57 AM
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Her body looks nice/average, but as I said she is definitely not my type at all. Also she is waaaay off on the wrong side of the crazy hot scale
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/16 11:50 AM
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Not to say that I fuck 8/10 models, but for the first time I googled "Emma Sulkowicz" and .. wow. She is definitely not my type, can't imagine who fell for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/16 11:35 AM
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Recently a friend of mine found out that I had slept with 4 girls over the span of 2 weeks (I was in the zone). She obviously was disgusted and said "you are such an arsehole" I had a simple reply for her "if that what takes to get laid then sure, I dont make the rules I just bend them to favour me" I was never the arsehole, never wanted to be but okay if this is what girls want then sure.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/16 08:18 AM
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TRP also has the mindset that the girl specially if a slut Is not yours to keep. It's just your turn
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/16 01:10 PM
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Also what counts as sex? The other day I had this interesting discussion with a "friend". She claims to have slept with only 3 men in her life (she is 21, serial dater) and I called her out on her bullshit. Turns out she doesnt count all the make out sessions in clubs, getting fingered doesnt count, heck sleeping with the guy and having oral (but not fucking) doesn't count either. She asked me how do I view/count my partners and I said, any act that will be considered as cheating if I was in a r…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/16 01:04 PM
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Just this weekend I was talking to my friend (trp leaning as well) and something about hookers came up. Very casually I said "do you realise how powerless girls will become if we could afford to have escorts/hookers at free will?" His mind was blown, he suddenly saw that in general, but specially in the dating/hookup game a girl brings nothing too the table besides her looks
/r/TheRedPill18/07/16 10:45 AM
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Mine was "if you want to get girls, look good while wearing whatever you want then exercise or just keep being a little bitch sobbing and wanking" worked like a charm
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/16 12:56 PM
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Now I really want to see his pictures.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/16 08:43 AM
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Lol. Go stand in line for the hate club. No where did I whine about race, I just shared examples of what works best for me and other indian/pakistani men. You have to be naive if you think skin color doesnt play a role. And yes I am not top tier, and I am working on it. My strategy will adopt as and when my means increase. That is basic business common sense, we play according to what is best available to us. At present I am getting what I want and working towards better. As for clubs I go there…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/16 06:05 PM
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I was thinking the exact same thing. 16 is the age of consent in UK, personally I wont fuck a 16 year old, not due to the age gap, but can't handle the jibber jabber. Lowest I have ever done was 19 and holyshit it was not worth it. Also Ephebophilia is the term you guys are looking for, not pedophilia. I remember a pysch doc did an ama on reddit and he pretty much said that in medical field, ephebophilia is not even considered worth discussing and is found to be a normal thing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/16 12:48 PM
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Men insult each other all the time but never really meant it, girls compliment each other all the time but never really mean it either.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/16 01:25 PM
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check out /r /bodyweightfitness
/r/TheRedPill09/06/16 10:59 AM
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To quote Jimmy Carr: "I am an equal opportunities offender"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/16 02:36 PM
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People also need reality checks, slap in the face (not literal), harsh reality and criticism. I know and fully realise the dangers of bullying and why safe spaces are necessary but running away and locking one self up on any little thing that challenges us is just not a very constructive way to live life. Also the guy asked you how specifically TRP burned you? In my experience, TRP is ammunition, how you use it is up to you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/16 02:35 PM
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Was on a date yesterday and it was lovely, I did escalate as such (kino) but never made an attempt to kiss her. For me there is no rule to kiss on the first date or not. I go with the flow, had a date last week and we did kissed, because the setup allowed for it and that is how it was going. Last night even though I had my hand around her waist and I had rubbed her back a bit (she was feeling cold) I didn't go in for the kiss. Situational awareness is a real thing. Also it doesn't have anything …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/16 10:44 AM
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Majority of trp, purple pill and bp is americans. Ofcourse they talk about their experiences only. I often find that a lot of things said across these subs are based in geographical location and what not
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/16 04:00 PM
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Thanks! Constant self improvement is the mantra trp gave me. And that is the one I live by
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 11:51 PM
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Seeing your hate just gives me happiness. You will always remain a beta bitch
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 08:54 PM
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Its almost like how white ppl fetishisize asian women. Although top of my list is to have sex with a latina. If stories are true they are very fesity in bed
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 08:53 PM
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Was meant as sarcasm. I mentioned white girls cos before coming to uk I had been with girls from my country. So ofcourse white girl is a scarcity for me. Also in my experience a brown (indian pakistani) usually plays the morale high ground more and doesnt easily agree for casual sex (unless you are white or black chad) white girls are more sex free. my point wasn't about skin color. It was more about "make the best of the hand you are dealt and play the game to your strengths"
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 07:25 PM
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I have run out of fucks to give. Try again tomorrow
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 07:13 PM
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No we wont. Its a concept of scarcity. You know how white men have yellow fever? Like that.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 07:09 PM
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Lol. What a fucking pathetic beta .
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 07:03 PM
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British colonization and years and years of mental conditioning. /s
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 05:44 PM
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Pakistani (almost similar to Indian) here, living in Oxford, UK for the past 3 years. Night Clubs are "not" for us, nope. I say this from personal experience and no I am not fat, actually I am decent looking (still need work) and dress well, speak well and know how to flirt. The thing is that a club is a lot like Tinder, women are quick to judge and you have only seconds to make an impression. I have felt it personally and seen it with another Indian friend who is way better looking than me (I a…
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 03:32 PM
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I grew up in a liberal religious family. I was very serious with my girlfriend and wanted to marry her. We were together for 5 years and both decided to save intercourse for marriage, we did however made out and had oral sex. Long story short we had to breakup (no she didn't cheat, nothing like that) and I came to uk. At age 25, not having lost my virginity was something not even worth mentioning in Pakistan. Most ppl were like meh whatever. In uk? Holy shit. I was in uni so maybe thats why but …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/16 01:17 PM
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If she genuinely wants training, she can find another trainer
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/16 10:02 AM
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Also what is meant by a bad girl hasnt been defined here
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 09:13 PM
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Each to his own
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 04:58 PM
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Depends what you are after. I will love a fuck fest but after all there is more to it. Im red, red leaning but I am open to a proper relationship mate. Emotional, social n sexual needs, need to be fullfilled
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 04:36 PM
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Yeah me neither. none of the extremes work for me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 02:58 PM
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This! TRP is the biggest slap you will recieve. No cushioning and no sweet packaging. But then they will also tell you how to pick your miserable self back again
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 02:21 PM
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Ruby rose? Sure. I wont.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 02:19 PM
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I think one thing OP missed was that liking bad girls and fucking them is one thing. A lot of guys will happily do that but nothing more in terms of relationship or ltr
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 02:08 PM
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Yes but ill gladly fuck a bad girl whom I am attracted to but she will never be my gf or ltr. Ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 02:03 PM
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To add to this and girls/bp pls dont burn me for saying so.. I will gladly fuck a bad girl. But thats about it. Im not going to make her my gf/partner and def not my wife. Call this my own insecurities or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 02:00 PM
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Give me a shout out if you need help. To think of this, I can do a post on cooking and cover cooking for dates. It is a seriously great life skill to have any ways. A friend gifted me the book "Jamie Italians Ministry of Food" and its been a revelation. Easy to do dishes with everyone under the 50 minute mark.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/16 09:03 AM
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I second this! Cooking is a great life skill and girls love a man who can cook. I however use this as a second date opportunity since that works for me. First date is somewhere outside like bar/coffee place and then for second date I invite her over for dinner. I always bring up food/cooking during my conversations since it is a universally safe topic and everyone can talk about it. Then bam! invite her over for dinner. Nothing too fancy, low effort, max 30-45 minutes of cooking. Plating is a ar…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/16 09:00 AM
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That might be your experience. I am sorry if this looks like I am putting down but the west in general (ime) is too materalistic. Not saying we (pakistan) dont have our problems. Here in uni at least what I saw was that girls (hot ones by anyones definition) were with fit and guys with personality. I doubt anyone wants to be in a relation with a decorative shell. ONS however or pulling or casual sex is a different ball game. Yes trp can and to some extent is toxic. I knew how to take what benefi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/16 10:20 AM
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Let me add a little perspective here and I hope the convo remains civil. I speak from a personal level only. When I foubd trp I was NOT what trp says a typical run of the mill beta, or maybe I was. I had a 5 year relation previously and some ONS as well. (I was 24 back then). Confidence was never an issue. I was also outgoing and well spoken and always had plenty of friends of both sexes. However, I was fat, didnt cared for how I dressed cos frankly my options were limited to whatever fits. Then…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/16 09:56 AM
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Cross posting from the previous thread for better visibility. My questions are: The doc mentions that initially men had high lust and females went only for the best looking ones while men went for whatever they can get hands on. Doesn't this suggest that women always had a higher standard/mating strategy and higher lust? Can the doc shed some light on concept of inner groups and outer groups and how it reflects in dating culture? For example is it true that a white/EU girl will be pre-disposed t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 01:21 PM
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saw your new thread for questions. I am assuming you will ask these or keep them in mind for the next session?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 01:17 PM
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I don't understand why is this so complicated for BP to get their head around. For starters the 20-80 rule is not set in stone, it is a spectrum but at that a good one. Secondly, ofcourse women will be more picky, they can "afford" to do so. Supply vs Demand, simple economics.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 12:44 PM
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Yeap. This type of girl has never even stepped in the RMV, and when she does after her looks have started diminishing its most often than not a disaster. Either that or she locks on some poor Beta
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 04:30 PM
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Hijacking the top comment for visiblity: In the first podcast (last thursday) the doc mentions that initially men had high lust and females went only for the best looking ones while men went for whatever they can get hands on. Doesn't this suggest that women always had a higher standard/mating strategy and higher lust?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/16 03:09 PM
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Here are a few questions, would be good to get a perspective on this: Is happiness and achievement/fulfilment of desires the same thing? how can we ever be truly happy if our desires are a moving target? How much does culture influence sexual market, dating game and marriage. For example eastern cultures still have a strong (relatively stronger) marriage system in place. Also does religion or lack of plays any role in this? What is promiscuity? Is a girl who sleeps with several men (one night st…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/16 01:38 PM
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Imo, Emma Watson nearly pulled it off, but even then I didn't like her look. She is my celeb crush, but if I met Emma with that short hair cut I wont be turned on. PS: I will still totally fuck her, cos emma watson
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/16 10:34 AM
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Thanks. It is a constant battle and I am lucky enough to realise the problems. I do desire to hookup with some random "hot" chick from the club, but I and most of my close friends agree that it will destroy me if I kept doing it. Not that I can pull a girl from a club (story for another time) but yeah. I do desire it, but I understand that the cons outweigh the pros. Additionally I dont drink at all, so it helps to keep me in check and as a rule I never sleep with a girl (on a few occassions tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/16 10:17 AM
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Basically most men or incels in this case see sex very differently. It is a two part equation. Sex + emotional intimacy. From a guys perspective most women can atleast get the sex part of it. Agreed that after a time for a women it must become meaningless and hollow. No one can keep having ONS forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/16 09:56 AM
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I think this applies more to American culture? Not sure but in Pakistan men are usually more open about their feelings and in UK (I have been here for 3 years now), at least in close circles men (uni friends) are open about their emotions and saying they feel lonely or sad or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/16 09:55 AM
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Because social validation works like a drug, it is impossible to escape it unless you follow Buddhism or some sort of Zen. One should not attach their value purely to this, but it does play a huge role
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/16 09:51 AM
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I hate labels (of all types) and I don't think I am an incel since I have had a five year relation, then some random hookups and then one relation/fling which went on for 3-6months. However I have been single for well over 3-4 years (since I broke up from the 5 year relation). While reading this post, that was my first thought. Emotional intimacy is what I want. No I am not ashamed of saying it out loud, it doesnt make me feel less of a man. NSA actually repulses me. A few times I did a ONS I fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/16 09:49 AM
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It is telling that people (majority) read Pride and Prejudice and went "yeap, that's totally how romance works".
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 11:38 AM
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It is one of the most famous and notoriously known thread from Bodybuilding form. It is just hilarious and sad to see the responses.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 11:33 AM
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I remember talking to GLO on skype. It was almost an hour long session about food and fitness. Throughout I was thinking "at some point he is going to mention his tshirts". Nope. Not once did he mentioned it. He gave good advise, listened to what I was saying and thats about it. Oh and we had a great talk about ethnic cusines.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 10:46 AM
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On a serious note (RPER here, or def leaning heavily red). Do you think deep down people don't know this? I mean even in my "Beta" days I always knew that me being fat is a huge problem and I am no match for the type of girls I wanted. Sure I avoided that problem for as long as I could by making up excuses, but I always knew. Then came along TRP with a single hard hitting question, "would you date you?" the answer to which back then was a huge NO.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/16 11:00 AM
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ouch! feel the bern /u/GrayPillMan. Good one
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/16 10:57 AM
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I have made my peace with it.. dunno how much you understand but shia/sunni marriages are a bit hard to last. She is still my best friend but she is married now and I am happy for her
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/16 12:34 AM
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None taken. I know, im confident and witty so I am great in social circles. Mostly I dont go for brit white girls. In my experience eu girls are easier on the height thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/16 10:03 PM
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I dont believe trp endorses hurting anyone. I am an avid reader and writer and very well know the damage words can cause. Wont do it intentionally ever
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/16 06:27 PM
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This is literally how she saw me. She is now 30, and still single. I am 27, hotter than I have ever been and well getting fair bit laid
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/16 05:36 PM
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Spot on with the compliment thing. I will never forget, the one comment that truly pushed me into trp territory. "You will make a great husband but you are not boyfriend material" To this day I use it to feul my ambitions. She might be giving me a compliment but from where I heard it she was saying, "you are the type of guy a girl settles for after she is done fucking around" . At that time as now, I had a decent job, hobbies, I was witty. . The only diff is that back then my bodyfat % was 25, i…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/16 09:53 AM
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Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/16 06:33 PM
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Oh wow. I am currently gunning for the last image look..
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/16 05:46 PM
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Also I know you didnt ask but its only fair to share my images as well. So here goes. Pof
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/16 03:32 PM
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Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/16 03:30 PM
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Meh.. I respect your opinion but its okay. we dont live in an ideal world. I dont feel discriminated against in anyother walk of life and also I dont feel sorry for myself. One of the many good things trp gave me was to stop chasing white girls. I know social conditioning has ingrained the idea of "blonde white girl" in most men, specially indian/pakistani. Old me would whine and bitch about it, post trp me doesnt care much. Sure I still want one but I doubt I will get one nor do I put effort to…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/16 03:24 PM
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You are right, I went back home over easter break and my tinder matches were blowing up. Mainly because my pics are all from here (uk) which depicts a higher lifestyle, plus im in shape and skin color was not an issue. No need to give the explaination, being a 5'7 brown (pakistani brown not latino brown) guy in UK has a noticeable disadvantage. Specially because I am in oxford which is a student city. eu girls are still some what attracted and I was in a short relation with a german, but british…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/16 03:18 PM
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Thats a fair point but its mostly an exception not a rule. Basically the closer one is to social norms the easier it gets. For some reason im convinced if I wasnt brown (pakistani), with my current looks I would be attracting a lot more attention. I live in uk btw. Also I know this color thing might be in my head or me projecting
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/16 02:50 PM
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Thanks for posting the images. You are definitely fit (using the word how we use it in the uk, meaning good looking/hot). On a personal level, short hair is a complete turn off for me
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/16 02:35 PM
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As a brown (pakistani) guy living in uk, I feel white brit girls are a bit biased towards my type. Nothing wrong in having a preference though so tough luck for me I guess. Maybe its just an oxford thing? Care to shine any light on this?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/16 02:19 PM
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5'7 pakistani guy living in uk. I am now down to 13-15% bf and so far I think height plus ethnic stereotypes is a hinderance. the best I got so far was a german girl (hitlers wet dream level) we were in uni and I worked the friends > fuck buddies angle. Brit white girls in particular are hardest to crack in this domain in my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/16 02:14 PM
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If you dont mind, how are you on the looks scale (assuming all other traits you mentioned are found in you too)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/16 02:09 PM
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Any pics to demonstrate the muscluar vs skinnny thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/16 02:07 PM
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Exactly. IMO a lot of times society goes easy on women or treats them extra nicely due to their bodies/sex (as shallow as this sounds). Once it becomes possible for men to take that out of the equation, its a different ball game (pun intended).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/16 10:06 AM
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Glad we both can understand and see the different view points. Just to be fair, the girl had very early in the relation told the guy about weed and her strong objection to it. I have been cheated on once but it was a pre planned one. Cos in pakistan hardly anyone gets drunk and this was in uni. So I dont really know how others view drunk or under the Influence cheating. my case was different, but drunk or not I cant let it go. On a similar note a lot of my friends recommended me to read "museum …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/16 04:27 PM
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Okay yes. I sort of get what you mean but again it depends on person to person. It is a lot about breaking trust, intentionally or acidentally (as you put it) but it is still a huge dent in the relation. Personally I know a friend who cheated and his gf gave him another chance, but their relationship has been sour ever since and they are now breaking up. Both more bitter then ever. Every relation has deal breakers. Sure you hope cheating wasnt that big a deal but it is for me and several others.…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/16 03:54 PM
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one of the few cultural shocks I got when I first came to UK was how common and expected it was to cheat. I am in Oxford which is a cultural melting pot. It was insane, French (in my experience) being the most open and casual about cheating in relation (it is so expected they even have a word for it). Also in my experience cheating is frowned upon in eastern european part? (sorry if I get my geography wrong). People from UK, Germany, France, Denmark etc were usually okay with the cheating thing.…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/16 11:53 AM
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Oh wow, so now you are saying it's the guys/girls fault that they end the relation with the person who cheated? Dude/dudess, as I said before and the comment above this one says, it is about boundaries. For some of us, cheating is an absolute deal breaker. You don't get to define how I feel about it, it is a personal thing. Jeez. How difficult is to understand that?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/16 11:48 AM
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The key term here being "for you". I don't give a fuck if it was a momentary lapse of judgement, or a pre-planned cheat session. For me, on a "personal" level, cheating is an absolute deal breaker. You do that shit and it goes directly to point of no return. Again this is a personal thing, different people have different limits.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/16 11:44 AM
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One of my main argument with the last girl I was with was around what constituted of sexual contact. She is German and did Bachata (dunno if that is the right spelling) dancing and was pretty good at it. I saw her dance once with another guy in the club (I can do club dancing but not salsa, bachata or anything) and although it lasted for one song (5 mins roughly) I got mad and to be frank insecure. I had to go and kiss her and kept her real close all night. Later I brought up the point and she t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/16 11:39 AM
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Yes. I am 26 and we are friends for 20 years, we literally grew up together. Would have actually married her (she is hot, at a time even out of my league, then I got my shit together in terms of looks). We both know and agree that our couple would be an awesome one. However, couldn't be with her long term cos I am a shia and she is sunni (dont even ask, religion and family issues). She got married a few months ago
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/16 10:43 AM
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What is the N count of each population. Just out of interest, how many women fall in the age category of 15-44 and how many men fall in the same category? Also the report data is from 2008.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/16 10:34 AM
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This is a different perspective and interesting for me. I am from Pakistan (living in UK) so family system and marriage as an institution isnt as fucked up as in the West. One reason however behind decline in marriage I see, apart from sex being readily available and cohabitation being more acceptable is the rate of divorce and how much men (in general) get fucked over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/16 10:31 AM
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Hey it's not only in America. Here is the UK as well Indian/Pakistani/Asian men in general have it tougher than rest. Add to that our generally short height and its a shit show. Also, and I know its a mass generalisation but UK/British girls are way worse towards Indian/Pakistani guys compared to other EU girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/16 10:28 AM
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On something of a similar note, I have a female friend who is now into her 30s and was over a year ago dumped by a guy who was 25 btw. So yeah, in RP lingo she is an alpha widow. One day she was moaning and complaining as usual and for once I had enough (she has since moved to a different city so no more contact) and I told her "hey maybe if you hit the gym a bit, it will help you and make you feel better". I made a point not to mention her weight (she is 5'5 and is fat if not over weight), I me…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/16 10:25 AM
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Best tip for success in the dating game, specially online dating: Be a white skinny girl
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/16 10:21 AM
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I do kickboxing and this is a regular thing. "Learn from each other" and "take care of each other" is one of the most repeated mantra by our coach and we live by it. I am 8-10 months into kickboxing and the moves I got hit by because I had no idea what was coming, are moves I am now either best equipped to counter or can perform them very well. That is literally how it works. We get paired up with higher experience guys, who then in a controlled manner beat us/rough us up (sparring) and we learn…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/16 10:58 AM
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You have hit the nail on the head with this one. It amazes me how little people seem to know about basic psychology and sociology. Any movement, group, tribe, clan (whatever you want to call it) which is based around a central "core" theme or message will always grow stronger when faced with blatant criticism and ridicule. It's that simple. Every time I read things like "butthurt losers, virgins, men with insecurities, nice guys trying to get laid", all of it amounts to me thinking "see, I asked…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/16 10:44 AM
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Exactly. I remember my early days of hitting the gym, oh God the anger! It was the only thing that kept me going. It was not even one particular girl, it was all of them (who had rejected me, or done me wrong as per the then beta me). It felt so good! Whenever during running I thought of giving up, I would look at my reflection and think what one girl said to me "you will make a great husband but not a boyfriend". Loved the surge it gave me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/16 01:18 PM
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So most guys don't really have a chance when it comes to a quick yes/no situation with a girl. It is difficult to explain without actually facing it, but several factors are at play. One example, as a brown guy (Pakistani) living in a pre-dominantly white country (UK) casual sex (pulling girls from clubs/parties) is really difficult. It is not because I am shy, nerdy, maths major (no offence). I actually have hobbies and take care of my body. It is not even purely a racist thing, I will not go i…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/16 01:12 PM
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I so hope the guy sues the shit out of yale and drains them as much as possible! Fuck them
/r/TheRedPill14/03/16 07:54 PM
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Good. Still gives us a right to complain. Still doesnt mean that if we complain its only because nothing is going for us. Also yes, if you are short and constantly complain about it, you are a whinny bitch. Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/16 05:35 PM
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Agreed. However, that still doesn't justify your claim of only those short guys complain who have nothing going for them. The last girl I was with, she was taller than me, sure. However, it does put you at a disadvantage. Don't give me this bullshit of "it's only a barrier if you let it be". Again, it is fine to have preferences, just not fine to lie about it. Also it is a relative thing, most girls I come across do have a height requirement. I remember one time a friend mentioned that she dates…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/16 04:53 PM
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Short guys who complain about being rejected are men who have nothing going for them. Okay I have to disagree with this. There is no harm in accepting that certain biases exist in our society. I rarely comment but your statement is a generalisation and a wrong one. I am a short guy (5'7) and even though no one will say it out loud the actions are clear. Before you think of me as another whiner or TRP loser. I have a job I love, hobbies I enjoy (cooking, writing, kickboxing), friends who are fun …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/16 01:22 PM
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Thank you for saying this. I have come a long long way in terms of how I look, but that little voice going in my head "she surely will never be interested in you" just does not shut up. It is def the hardest thing to overcome. Even after dating/being with a "typical" white german girl (I am brown/Pakistani), this mental barrier still exists. TRP has helped me so much!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 10:47 AM
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I would like to add some perspective here since I am from Pakistan, have been living in UK for a few years and have essentially transitioned from your typical run of the mill "nice guy" (but not dormat type) to a person who respects himself more now and doesnt take shit. TRP has played a huge role in this transition, from a 94kg land whale to 76kg with 13% body fat. There is a lot of stigma around Indian/Pakistani/Asian guys. Height is one area where I am personally still not okay. I am 5'7 and …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/16 05:13 PM
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I felt this change when I started kickboxing almost 6 months ago. Going to the gym is great for you and your looks but getting punched in the face or taking a blow on the thighs well the entire room looks on? Yeah only two options. Either you man the fuck up, take control of the situation and maintain frame or you get hit, and feel air leaving your body. The first time I sparred, it was the longest 2 mins of my life! The other guy wasnt hitting me so hard, but just the pressure of being in the r…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/16 01:48 PM
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I actually want to buy a Polar M400 watch, might give this strategy a try
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 09:57 PM
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Sure. That wasn't the intent, even if it came across such
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 08:37 AM
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As a Pakistani muslim in UK I support this. Wtf were these people even thinking?
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 01:20 AM
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Congratulations. A lot of us if given the chance would want to swallow the pill at a younger age. Start lifting earlier, but you are at a great age. Your time in the gym is double effective compared to me at 25 years old. Good. Remember this is not the end goal, its just the start. Constant self improvement. Cheers and good luck
/r/TheRedPill13/12/15 10:16 PM
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its great to see someone taking it light for once
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/15 12:51 PM
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but that is the thing, anyone can say it but no one is saying it really. That is why trp strikes a chord with a lot of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/15 12:49 PM
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this made me lol literally
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/15 12:27 PM
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Agreed. Think of it like when in text game she disagrees with you or says no to a date etc. Just reply with Okay. Nothing more. Same logic here
/r/TheRedPill17/11/15 07:37 PM
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5,7 reporting in. I have exactly developed this approach
/r/TheRedPill15/11/15 12:12 PM
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I would recommend looking at a proper program. Read the side bar for lifting advise. In my experience start with Strong Lifts 5X5 and build from there.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/15 06:18 PM
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Body weight lunges was an example and are effective for beginners and isolation. When I started with SL there were no isolation workouts. Only the big 5. Squats are the most important compound exersice you can do. What is your routine like atm?
/r/TheRedPill02/11/15 09:32 AM
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How much do you squat? I found out that as the weight increased so did the stress/work on my glutes did. I am by no means qualified enough so its just my experience of doing SL and now ICF. Proper form is key. For seperation, try doing basic body weight exersice like lunges. Again key is form. Add weight as you get better. Another one is barbell glute bridge but I have never done it as it looks risky and injury prone
/r/TheRedPill02/11/15 12:53 AM
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Hope so! I have only once had a chance to meet a trper in real life. Just a random guy I bumped into a house party. there was instant connection, we meet up for coffee whenever the time allows.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 09:42 PM
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Yeah exactly. In real life I am sure his legs would snap from all the upper body weight
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 09:11 PM
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Not OP. The problem with that is that training only for arms and chests firstly gives your body a strange shape (think like johnny bravo) and secondly shows that you are wasting time and effort. Legs/glutes are the biggest part of your body. Training them makes for a solid foundation (pun intended) and helps shaping up the overall look.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 09:01 PM
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Yeap. That is why I am in love with this city. Although being from outside (I am from Pakistan) exposes you to a totally different side of things. Just yesterday I commented on another post how even with a good smv its difficult for brown guys (indo pak) in Oxford/UK.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 05:29 PM
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Hey welcome to the big smoke. I live not so far from London and get what you mean. Funny enough in my city (oxford) due to the high number of students the dynanmics are different. Maybe work place culture impacts male thinking later on. You are spot on with the sprayed on jeans look though! PM me if you ever want to meetup or make your way down to oxford.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 03:53 PM
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True. I found that French German and Greek girls are easier. Spanish are hitches and so are English. Personally I am neither fob nor my accent is thick in fact my English is really good. I think my height 5'7 and the fact that I don't drink at all act against me. I am however still working hard on myself. That's besides the point, I do it for myself
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 11:24 PM
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Adding perspective from UK, similar experience. Out of all the places I could goto uni, I picked god Damn OXFORD! It doesnt get more elitist than this. I personally know Indians and American Indians of much higher SMV than me (I am pakistani, working on my body and improving, bf% around 12-14%) and they struggle badly. I actually have it slightly better because my social circle is huge and I actively avoid hanging out with brown guys and girls (indian/pakistani etc, sorry). Still in 2 years, I o…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 07:53 PM
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wait, since when are we posting other users name in comments? and why?
/r/TheRedPill05/09/15 04:49 PM
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I am currently in month two of a three month strong lift 5x5 program. So far it looks good. Once I finish it I can either carry the same program or look for a new one. Any strength training program you recommend?
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 10:44 PM
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What do you think about the 5X5 strong lift program?
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 10:42 AM
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In all of the video the MGTOW guy made me cringe the most. Seriously?
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 12:03 PM
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Yes. I sort of get it why the newbies feel the urge to spit out all they feel, but amongst other things I have learned to be stoic and keeping my mouth shut unless necessary. I am loving and enjoying the trp way of life and actually seeing self improvement. No need to scream about it to everyone. Again, unless I feel I can make a valid positive contribution I will stick to reading trp or side bar material daily and improving.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 04:59 PM
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I so agree with this. I am almost an year into TRP and have only just started commenting. Why? Because I understand that I am in the early stages of transformation, I dont have enough experience behind me to start spitting out FR or discussions. For now I am keeping my head down, lifting, eating proper, dressing proper and enjoying the new attention I receive due to my progress. I am observing the trp teachings in real life and using it to my advantage, I am doing all of this but I am not postin…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 11:44 AM
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I say good for the guy, lets hope he learns the rp way. He is 15, learning now will work wonders for him. Someone introduce him to trp
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 06:59 PM
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Yes I can verify this again from personal experience. I commented elsewhere on RP about this, confidence was never an issue for me even when I was a fat fuck but shaping up has given me a totally different kind of confidence. People used to talk to me and enjoy my company before as well, now I notice they respect me and recognize me for what I have achieved (and still working towards). Again, men must need to display some achievement before they can be appreciated. Social proof also helps in sho…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 04:21 PM
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Social proof like everything else starts to work once a respectable SMV has been established. I experienced this first hand, social validation was never an issue because I was the guy who knew everyone and got along with most people easily. However, in the post trp phase of my life after working myself upto a decent smv, social proof has worked wonders. Its amazing how much boost to your smv (or short term smv for the night) it ads if the female bar tender knows you or stops to talk to you even …
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 11:12 AM
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Yeah I understand. Thankfully im here in the UK where its a common word and context is not misunderstood
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 02:00 AM
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hah! no idea what is going on in the second pic. Punting is quite popular here where I live and is often regarded as a classy hobby
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 04:59 PM
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yeah there is a lot of things that can go wrong, i will worry about it when the time comes. At the moment I am just keeping my head down and living right
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 04:32 PM
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I would consider punting a suitable pic why not? if you have the right body type it looks good and the water and some of the scenes you get to witness make up for a nice picture.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 04:31 PM
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I am so using this, meeting someone saturday and she is your typical shy girl
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 11:50 AM
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this is one of my current goals, been hitting the gym hard and eating proper for months. Want to pull off a shirtless picture (not posing, just doing something like punting or moving stuff so it looks natural)
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 10:20 AM
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thank you for this, I just noticed my first (main picture) is a group pic which is not a good way to go. Again which one is syriz? changed that. I am still working out lifting, but it will take atleast couple of months before I can take a shirtless pic.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 10:26 AM
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Found my name too and seriously I dont care. There is zero personal information that I have posted on reddit so yeah. I dont and will not use alt accounts. Kind of amusing and creepy actually, to see how they are using this "hit" list.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 09:42 AM
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As far as I am aware it wont mainly because its a fantasy genere but I havent been doing it for a long time now
/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 01:06 AM
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that was my thought exactly.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/15 08:00 PM
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Until recently (6 months back) I didnt understood it. I was never obese, but was for sure over weight. Now, 6 months of hitting the gym hard and taking TRP (still doing so) I realize what I was missing on. Fashionable clothes? Sure. Enjoying a good run with friends? Bring it on. Looking in the mirror and not feeling shit? Yes sir! Walking without panting like a dog or sweating like a pig? You bet. Sleeping better? Like a baby!
/r/TheRedPill24/07/15 12:47 PM
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I am just surprised that Git Hub now has moral policing? Wtf?
/r/TheRedPill24/07/15 12:13 PM
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I was looking for a similar comment to post my experience. I am from Pakistan, so obviously wheatish color skin (not too dark, but brown none the less). So here I am in UK, siting with a bunch of friends (mixed gathering) and somehow sexual preferences and what we look in other gender come up. At my turn, amongst other things I say I also comment how "at this point" I am not looking to date Asian/Pakistani/Indian girls and that I will most certainly not date a black girl. As I see it is a prefer…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/15 12:03 PM
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I looked at the title and went "please let it be that the guy moved on"... nope.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 09:30 PM
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I remember this one, damn the amount of cringe and hamster shit!
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 06:57 PM
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Yes more or less. Its all out there, just the trp lens is required to actually see. Personally I know two girls both post wall. One is dealing okayish the other is a text book crash n burn case
/r/TheRedPill14/07/15 08:36 AM
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Trp has given me the ability to see this "wall" . Old me would have felt sorry but now when I see a girl hitting the wall I just smile on the inside
/r/TheRedPill14/07/15 08:27 AM
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I am not new as per say. But yes this is me in the gym after 2-3 years break. I am starting the 5x5 come monday. Did legs today. Want to finish this week first
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 11:20 PM
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Thanks for the advise. I have replied to a comment abobe wont repeat but I do mostly machine free exersice. Chinups lats back chest legs etc. But I am now going to switch to the program as you guys are suggesting. Biceps triceps etc I work as well. Plus abs n cardio
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 10:38 PM
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Oh okay. I do most of these just on individual days. So when I do chest I do bench press, incline bench press, fly (manual), pushups, chest press and fly (machine). So I am not so much machine dependent. I also do planks, side planks and russian medicine ball sides daily so my abs n back are strong. Also 30mins of cardio in form of treadmill. I think next step for me is to start a programme as you and others here are suggesting
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 10:35 PM
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Thanks for the advise. I will finish this week with my regular schedule and then monday ill start 5x5. Meanwhile I will read up on it to understand better. At the moment I dont know what you guys mean by compounds
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 07:35 PM
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I have been lifting for one month know, before that I was on pure cardio and ab workout and managed to drop from 94kgs to 80kgs. At the moment I am lifting one part one day that is chest, back, legs, shoulder, biceps, triceps, abs. Do I continue on this for a while or should I look into any program like SL, 5x5 or 3x3?
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 06:12 PM
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That's so beta I physically cringed. I stopped reading at this point in the original post, closed the window and said to myself "what the actual fuck". Seriously. How can someone even stand such shit
/r/TheRedPill26/06/15 07:19 PM
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Good on you bro. Keep working. I view my old pics and it scares the fuck out of me. I was 94kgs at 5'7. Now I am 82kgs and not planning to stop anytime soon
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 10:44 PM
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Oh you are "that" guy. Every group has that one person who can eat n eat and doesnt get fat. Good for you.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 10:26 PM
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I have been IF since four months now and it works wonders. I eat twice a day (lunch at noon and dinner at 7) and so far there have been zero problems. Fully agree that IF is a lifestyle and not a diet. I eat healthy and make sure to balance all the necessary foods, My Fitness Pal is a great app to keep track of that.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 07:16 PM
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Cardio is a matter of personal choice Strongly agreed. I am a newbie (lifting for 4 months, long time trp lurker) and I do cardio (running) and ab workout in "addition" to strength training. This is because cardio has helped me cut down weight incredibly, although to be fair most of the weight loss is due to maintaining a healthy diet (greens, eggs, chicken, beans, fruits etc) and avoiding crap food like its poison (it is). I usually run for 30 mins, and row for 5-10 mins. That is enough cardio …
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 07:05 PM
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I think OP had a good run, 2 years is more than enough. I agree that he should vent out his anger and as such going abroad might be a good idea. Or hit the gym extra hard. Come to terms with what happened, and then put himself out there again. Avoid LTR this time though
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 12:37 PM
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I dont think everyone is facing this problem, I have been commenting and have so far not faced any problem
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 12:21 PM
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My mom is a principle in one of the schools back home. She has been there for a long time (14 years or more). The stories I have heard from her about female teachers getting on each other. Ridiculously funny and dangerous. Enough material to make a decent tv show about scheming, lying and backstabbing
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 07:34 PM
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what is this? My brain is literally hurting.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 07:30 PM
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I just read the original link and literally yelled "holy fucking shit!" I mean wtf... wtf! The author who ever the hell.she is, is fucking blaming the guy for it! Wow. Just wow. This makes me angry and sad. Sure he wasnt expecting her to be virgin but moaning out your exs name during sex that too on wedding night! Fuck it. The guy has massive balls and respect to him. The girl played the "I dont have sex before marriage" card without telling him reasons... un fucking believable
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 01:06 AM
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Okay wow. I had never heard of comfort tests before. Most likely because I am relatively new and working on myself these days (4 months and counting). I dont think it will be of use to me anytime soon as I still am learning how to pass shit tests but still its good to know.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/15 12:44 PM
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Word. I had this exact same argument with a BP guy and as soon as he pulled the bullshit of "women shouldnt need to take precaution, men should learn to keep to themselves" and I used the exact same analogy of "just because you shouldnt steal doesnt mean I wont lock up my house. There are bad people in the world who will do bad things. Why not protect myself as much as I can?". and do you know his answer to this? "thats victim blaming"
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 05:30 PM
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yeah she should come and visit Pakistan. If you are a female and walking alone at night you are more protected than a guy walking alone under same conditions. Reason? Because rape is not a big problem in our country (that's India) and mugging (money, bike, mobile phone, personal valuables etc) is common place. Men usually carry around this and or ride bikes (female bikers are rare) and also there is a sense of "respect" (dont even ask) when looters deal with females.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 05:26 PM
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UK guy signing in. Here in Oxford I think its a tad bit difficult because of the variety available. I am on PoF as well and have improved (still working on) myself. One thing important is to mix it up. Openers which worked for OP may not work for you, usually I try and innovate something from the existing line so that its different. Like one girl said she loved cats and I wrote "one day cats will try and take over the world and dogs will be our best bet". It worked, she replied and we chatted th…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/15 07:14 PM
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I read the guys reply and it had me smiling ear to ear. Damn bro! good sweet revenge
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 06:05 PM
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I just started a fbk debate with one on my femnazi contacts. Already regretting it
/r/TheRedPill12/06/15 04:53 PM
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As I said earlier, I am still learning and applying as I go. I do understand that I could have done it better. Maybe next time
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 07:40 PM
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Related. Just yesterday I was in the library doing some work, a female friend was sitting next to me. Now this girl is someone I have been working on, I am still learning so it is taking me time to close her. Anyways, I mention to her that "I am feeling tired.. maybe I should skip gym today" and immediately her response was "yes, stay here with me". As soon as I heard it, I came back to reality and said "unh would love to, but gym is important". Promptly left after 5 - 10 minutes.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 06:23 PM
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Yes you are right. I tried reason and logic which back fired on me because obviously I have low moral values if I hit on a 19 year old
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 07:57 AM
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This is a good question to ask. Also there are back ups plus save the side bar info
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 07:56 AM
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Keep reading, keep following and keep improving. Its been 3 4 months since I have started working on myself and the change is just amazing.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 10:45 PM
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Its okay. I cant even begin to explain what trp has done for me. I will one day post a detailed transformation report or rant. For a brown pakistani guy living in oxford trp has been a blessing. Physical appearance was literally the bane of my life but it was the mental adjustment trp gave me that lead me to the path of constant self improvement.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 10:13 PM
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The best part about this is that the BB who were shaming me, in private (when its us guys only) openly comment on how hot she is and how good she smells (actual quote)
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 07:32 PM
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If trp does get banned, I want to thank every single one of you here. Seriously, this sub reddit has influenced and changed my life so much for the better and I dont mean just in case of getting laid, no just overall improvement. Thank you gents!
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 07:23 PM
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add picsofdeadkids to this and abortionporn
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 07:21 PM
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I agree, the use of "16" year old example was to deliver shock value and also kind of make a point. By law there is nothing illegal in having sex with a 16 year old here in UK and I dont buy moral bullshit. I doubt they told her anything about my age (she knows my age) more like just pissed and said something to malign me
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 06:40 PM
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This is such bullshit and just shows the level of hypocrisy. I am 26, and just a few days back I was getting on with a girl who is 19 (turning 20 soon). We were in the club (I know her via friends of friends) and the only reason I couldnt close the deal was cos a couple of girls from our group and some asshole BB were constantly shaming me.. "she is so young... you cant be serious". I shot back by saying "16 is the legal age of consent here in UK, anything above that is fair game". The looks of …
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 05:56 PM
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I have experienced this first hand and what is appalling about the incident that she was not even my GF. I was trying to spin her but no where in my mind was to make her my GF, more like pump and dump or keep as a plate. Any ways, she was more than comfortable with me when we went to clubs etc together, this includes her grinding me, hugs, kisses (mostly on cheeks, sometimes on lips) etc. We had a small argument over some petty bullshit thing, she stops talking and I am not one to give a fuck so…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 05:08 PM
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Just read this and thank you so much! I am still on the path of trp and improving and this right here is the slap I needed on my face. Never realized I am a slut, yes thats how females view me. I take too much interest in listening to them and their problems and offer my advise. What an idiot I am, she fucks her boyfriend then complains to me about how is not treating her nice. Fuck! I disgust myself. I now understand the concept of transactions. I have time and attention to trade for sex. If sh…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 05:22 PM
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Thank you for saying this. Its amazing and also the reason I browse trp daily. Its totally off topic but I am fairly new and have been working on myself for almost 3 4 months. Recently I have started gaining smv and respect from my social circle (guys and girls). One thing I noticed about myself and I am working to change is that I am always surrounded by girls, girls who arent my plates but just friends (bp i know). I have started making an active attempt to be more around guys with high smv or…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 08:40 AM
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This is something I noticed too. The pre-trp me was never shy, infact confidence is one thing I didnt need more of BUT once I started hitting the gym (its been 3 months now, have not missed a day) and improved my diet and my overall life style.. I found a new sort of confidence. I walk with better posture, I want to and like dressing nicely. I give more attention to how I am looking and my definition of "girls I can hit on" or "girls in my league" has changed considerably.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 07:22 PM
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any link to the original post or news item?
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 06:01 PM
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ah yes.. thanks. That makes sense, personally I know several such females who are "looks dont matter, we want the nice guy etc". I never took them for their word even in my pre-trp days. Its just not realistic.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 06:00 PM
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I am smiling ear to ear. I started watching SOA just a few months back, and all through the seasons I would find myself saying "thats so in line with trp.... oh look alpha behavior.. oh yeah she is throwing her life away just to be with the alpha.. and defending him.." The show is recommended to anyone who wants to see TRP in action
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 05:13 PM
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I am relatively new over here, and have been slowly sallowing the pill. One thing I want to understand is that as mentioned in the comment, wont men be the same? Okay sure height is not a big issue among men when considering a female partner but we would also rate physical attributes similarly. Given the choice I too want to date a hot looking girl, ideally however I know my range limit (with current position I have, I am working on it) is between 5-6 on a scale of 10. No way I will date a 3, or…
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 05:09 PM
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I am in uni.. Update. I did get cosy/touchy in the club and we also kissed for a good time but couldnt take her home. She was not up for it and I think I lost frame. Still have a second date with her lined up. Lets see
/r/TheRedPill19/05/15 10:21 AM
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thanks. We share similar social circles and I know she loves to dance, I am going to try and use the club as my opening to escalate (make a move)
/r/TheRedPill18/05/15 07:44 PM
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This is happening to me literally right now, and I am happy that I remembered to make decisions. So this girl and I had already decided that we are meeting tonight, but the place wasnt decided. She messaged me: her: where should we go? me: <xyz> at 9:30pm (small definite reply, place and time) her: isnt that a bit too late? (she is okay with the place, its a bonus its near my home) me: I am busy till 9:00pm, we can goto <club name> after a few drinks. (I am still practicing but this was me tryin…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/15 07:24 PM
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got a ban notification today. I had never cross posted and used that sub for what it was for. Any ways they can go fuck themselves.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 05:44 PM
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Its used to be a huge deal in Pakistan as well. Has slightly improved with the younger generation but still 7/10 times people will back the fuck off or at max call the police. The problem is that dealing with the police is such a big piece of crap that people rather just look the other way
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 05:41 PM
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the funny thing is I didnt post any trp theory or such on there. Its a general clean up they are doing. pathetic
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 04:28 PM
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I just got banned from /r/offmychest not for violating any terms but simply because I am a member here. Just read a comment yesterday about another guy who got banned.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 09:52 AM
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Let see. I suffered from serious self hate to the point where I would punish myself by doing things which I hated most about myself. Things including eating like a whale, dressing stupidly and just hating every inch of my being. I was at a point where I wouldnt look in the mirror while brushing my teeth. What changed then? nothing really. I decided on changing the punishment. My fat body doesnt like running? Fuck ill make it run in the gym. Seriously. I have dropped 6kgs in under two months and …
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 07:50 PM
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Its amazing. Ever since subscribing to TRP, my outlook has completely changed. Its like a "bullshit detector" switch has flipped on in my head. I am amazed how I never noticed this before, its so obvious. Not that they try to hide
/r/TheRedPill06/05/15 05:59 PM
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It was more as a slap on the face comment, but I am glad she said it.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 06:25 PM
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Yes, that there is the mind set. She could marry you, but not be in a relation (girlfriend or otherwise). Because while people like you and me are great for providing and caring post-wall, at that time we arent the "show piece" they are looking for
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 06:25 PM
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Yeah thankfully the girl who said this to me I didnt hang around her after this. Got the fuck out of there
/r/TheRedPill26/04/15 01:21 PM
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To give it a personal touch, back when I was firmly rooted as a BP a girl once told me "you will make a great husband but not a good boyfriend". That sentence has ever since stuck with me. That was when I realised what girls saw in me. Provider. Thats it. I was an emotional dumping ground where they could come and talk how hard it is to be with their alpha boyfriend and how they totally want to leave them but just cant. Shit I was shit. At least now im on the path of self improvement. I cringe w…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/15 09:35 AM
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I am experiencing this very same thing at the moment. Joined the gym about a month and half ago, the first few weeks I literally came home depressed. Why? Cos While i was sloppily running on the treadmill at a meager 5 speed, there was an insanely hot girl next to me going 12 with a vertical incline. I looked at everyone and felt disgusted and pathetic. I am never going to be that good looking, or that physically fit, or look at that guy his genetics favor him, ofcourse he is going hot with a ho…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 07:49 PM
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This! For as long as i remember ignoring the most popular girl in class has always led to her seeking validation. To be clear I am really sociable and make friends easy, so when the girl feels she is getting zero attention she seeks validation. Damn! I was good growing up dont know when and how I went down the blue pill road.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 08:08 AM
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As someone who is working on his cold approach, and the general skill of "asking her out" should I try this? Or should i give some time to improve my game? I understand its trial and repeat.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 08:03 AM
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planning to do so tonight.. wont bullshit or move around the bushes.. usually due to the timing when i meet her its just her and me. at maximum what can happen, she will say no.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/15 04:25 PM
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Okay so i accept your point of abundance mentality. Im still working on my game. Also this is not my permanent work place, im not that stupid. This is a part time thing and will end in two weeks.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/15 08:37 AM
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I think you guys didnt read my comment. Its not my original job. Just a part time thing for two weeks. So we wont be co workers
/r/TheRedPill02/04/15 08:35 AM
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Well for me its a part time thing. So after two weeks she wont be my co worker
/r/TheRedPill02/04/15 08:34 AM
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well cold approach makes me uncomfortable anytime. I am doing a part time job (other than my own job) at a place, there is this girl that works there with me. She is cute, not hot and is nearing the wall (she is around 25, I am 26). We have been talking, nice and friendly but nothing more than that. i want to approach her....
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 04:51 PM
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Thank you for this advise. What seems strange to me is that my social circle is huge, and confidence is one of my strong holds. However, when I think your point applies more to how I value my self. I will def get these things done.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/15 04:50 PM
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so you guys are suggesting I should try a light/mild med? (ofcourse as prescribed by a shrink/doc)
/r/TheRedPill28/03/15 03:23 PM
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and im getting it for myself anyways.. so in a way im doing it for myself :D
/r/TheRedPill28/03/15 03:22 PM
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hey thanks.. I understand its an uphill battle but I do not want to play the "im pakistani/brown" card.. as for the nice guy attitude I did/do have that which I am shredding as quickly as possible
/r/TheRedPill28/03/15 03:21 PM
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hey thanks for the advise.. is there an e-version of the book or a downloadable source?
/r/TheRedPill28/03/15 03:19 PM
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despite all what I feel i have been going to gym, watching what i eat and well was planning to go on a complete shopping overhaul (i will use some of my savings). i understand its a long term, heck life time commitment, its just that sometimes it boils down in frustration. thanks.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/15 02:17 PM
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thanks, from the general response here it seems as if I need to invest way more time into myself and i do get it. yes i am in a way doing it for myself, maybe its part of the pill, to realize that "fucking a hottie" is also something I want for "myself"
/r/TheRedPill28/03/15 02:15 PM
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