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Fundamentals T1kiTiki/r/seduction05/08/25 01:11 PM
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Fundamentals T1kiTiki/r/seduction04/12/24 12:31 PM
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Fundamentals T1kiTiki/r/seduction27/07/24 04:21 PM
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ConversationT1kiTiki/r/seduction30/06/22 01:58 PM
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i’m not giving false hope, i’m generally a believer in the blackpill but unless he’s fully tried to looksmax his looks you don’t know what his potential was like 3~ years ago I was genuinely a LTN, I didn’t have a single redeeming or attractive feature to me. But after changing my style, grew out my hair, got a a haircut that suits me, cleaning up my skin, seeing what works for me (a beard and clean shaven makes me look bad, but a mustache or goatee ascends me well becuase I have a high philtrum…
/r/seduction29/07/26 05:34 PM
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it’s not completely over for him depending how he looks. I’ve seen a fair amount of indians look good if they’re leaned out, rock longer hair, and are clean shaven / rock the goatee and / or mustache
/r/seduction29/07/26 04:55 PM
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i don’t know what i’m doing wrong but im just straight up invisible now despite trying apps and social circle
/r/seduction29/07/26 04:51 PM
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I see, this is probably the biggest thing holding me back I'm in a smaller city where people kind of stick to their high school groups and that's it, I've tried to make new friends but people are super flakey and there aren't as much clubs for interests like chess outside of uni, I hope my prospects will be better when I move to a bigger city
/r/seduction20/07/26 05:02 PM
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i’ve tried concerts but it feels so awkward because almost everyone is in a group, how’d you do it? I might need to consider a club, did you do one in your school or outside like a hobby club? Book events like what?
/r/seduction20/07/26 03:59 PM
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i’m similar too i’m more nerdy but what situation can i put myself in to find women more similar to that? Where did you have the most luck in
/r/seduction20/07/26 12:28 AM
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you probably do need therapy there's probably some underlying reason you're like this, maybe it's depression, anxiety, adhd, who knows But also what has helped me is just forcing myself to be social as much as possible. Spending an extended amount of time in your house is detrimental for your social skills. So I try to go out as much as possible even if its by myself cause I know if im alone in my house i'll probably be a degenerate
/r/seduction22/03/26 02:38 AM
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the method is go back to uni and do something in the humanities / social sciences
/r/seduction14/03/26 03:15 PM
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this is such a banger comment and it’s honestly so true. I’ve noticed a common theme from women i’ve attracted online. They all fit a certain archetype of being nerdy / knowledgeable, “alternative” and in uni. I thought I was an incel but really my environment is just holding me back so hard because i’m in a more “hood” city and I work a manual job where the women are the complete opposite so women my type just don’t exist irl. At least in my social circle yet how exactly do you find environment…
/r/seduction13/02/26 04:35 PM
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ngl i’m guilty of the last paragraph, how do you actually create abundance?
/r/seduction05/02/26 10:33 PM
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this was a good read. I wonder how would you respond if the girl actually asks you though if you’re talking to other women?
/r/seduction30/01/26 02:20 PM
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how do you expand your social circle because i feel like this is the biggest thing holding me back right now
/r/seduction29/01/26 04:57 PM
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I used to be like you and while I still have a little bit to go before I'm able to get numbers, I can compliment strangers now anxiety free, which wasn't the case a year ago
/r/seduction15/09/25 12:53 PM
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would definitely appreciate that as this is my biggest struggle, exposure and finding the women that would be into me
/r/seduction07/09/25 04:25 AM
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i thought warm meant social, what exactly do you mean by warm in this context?
/r/seduction07/09/25 04:23 AM
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what is it actually that causes attraction, from what i understand is it basically being cocky / confident / playful?
/r/seduction23/08/25 01:47 AM
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how do you become low inhib?
/r/seduction20/08/25 07:47 PM
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women do the same thing too lol, they always have a backup option
/r/seduction17/08/25 04:11 PM
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well it doesn’t hurt to be realistic, he probably won’t be swimming in women or find a 10/10. But it’s not completely over. I’ve seen plenty of completely MID guys with nothing really standing out with them being able to have a girlfriend. She probably won’t be a bombshell and you kinda just have to pray she’s into you. But it’s not impossible
/r/seduction14/08/25 08:03 PM
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this is definitely the biggest thing holding me back. How long does it take to create a good social circle from scratch and how do you avoid “poisoning the well” since i can imagine you can only actually ask out a handful of the women before you get a reputation
/r/seduction14/08/25 04:06 PM
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i see, so how many dates do you want to go on before you know it’s time to cut things loose?
/r/seduction05/08/25 11:54 PM
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this makes sense, i definitely do think the lack of a vibrant social circle is the biggest thing holding me back now. I’ll give your suggestions a shot, thanks
/r/seduction05/08/25 10:34 PM
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well i’m able to make them laugh so i guess either the problem is me not reading the signs or me not being able to escalate / flirt enough to make the conversation sexual. How can i steer the convo away from being platonic without coming across as a creep?
/r/seduction05/08/25 02:48 PM
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will try. thanks for the advice
/r/seduction05/08/25 02:30 PM
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while i can always improve on being interesting the main point of the question is how to find more women. Even if I max out being interesting that’s not going to help me if i have no clue where to make new leads
/r/seduction05/08/25 02:29 PM
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it’s definitely a food issue for me, i’ll try to employ more liquid calories thanks
/r/seduction05/08/25 03:19 AM
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what helped you to stop being a twig?
/r/seduction05/08/25 02:33 AM
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i’m trying to bulk up right now and it’s a challenge, do you have any bulking tips?
/r/seduction05/08/25 02:33 AM
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thank you for the in depth explanation, i appreciate it
/r/seduction05/08/25 02:32 AM
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fair, that part makes sense but then for the dm what should you say? (be patient i’m starting at the beginning for seduction)
/r/seduction04/08/25 11:22 PM
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when you have the profile what should you do, just mass add girls from the recommended following or what
/r/seduction04/08/25 04:28 PM
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i see, my reaching out to the local community do other mean like your cities fb page?
/r/seduction02/08/25 05:32 PM
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my brother i’m starting from level 0 so this is too vague for me. Did you do like clubs in uni, hobby social clubs, just tried to expand your social circle? What were the groups that gave you a lot of success
/r/seduction02/08/25 04:54 PM
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what kind of groups would you join?
/r/seduction02/08/25 03:43 PM
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i might have to try this more, how'd you approach? Would you just say they're pretty or you like their clothes or whatever, start a convo, then ask for their number?
/r/seduction29/07/25 03:54 PM
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that’s nice you’re not facing any issues, where do you mostly meet women at, do you find most of them from dating apps, cold approaching, or what?
/r/seduction29/07/25 03:02 PM
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then let this be our motivation to grind my friend, 1-2 year is really all you need to max out on newbie gains and combine this with good clothes that suit you? You'll probably be drowning haha
/r/seduction29/07/25 02:05 PM
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what food did you eat to bulk because i struggle on the nutrition side
/r/seduction29/07/25 12:07 AM
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i suppose this is the biggest struggle for me because my face isn’t bad but i’m invisible to women. How long did it take for you to bulk to a good weight
/r/seduction28/07/25 11:25 PM
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seems like in my case it’s better to not nut, i actually get the energy to talk to women from being horny
/r/seduction26/07/25 12:55 AM
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if you want to punch above your weight class and date attractive women when you’re not the best looking you need status and/or money
/r/seduction24/07/25 10:26 AM
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what are the main ways of boosting your status?
/r/seduction24/07/25 10:07 AM
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trust me no guy is gonna be like “damn i wish she got fucked by someone before me” you’re 100% fine
/r/seduction21/07/25 11:08 PM
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did you reverse it? Cause i thought women hit their “peak” earlier than men
/r/seduction21/07/25 09:40 PM
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can you elaborate on why this is the perfect age? I like your optimistic outlook because i just turned 21 and i feel like im behind compared to my other friends who already have had relationship and sexual experience in their teen years
/r/seduction21/07/25 06:33 PM
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how do you do that
/r/seduction19/07/25 07:55 PM
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depends, what ethnicity are you
/r/seduction18/07/25 01:09 AM
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what’s the work you have to do in order to become that man
/r/seduction06/06/25 12:16 AM
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this is what i’m struggling to figure out, my social circle is all guys from high school, how the hell am i supposed to run social circle game with that? and because i just work full time with people i dont relate to i cant really generate new leads, how am i supposed to get to this elite social circle
/r/seduction31/05/25 01:28 PM
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how you achieve that if you’re starting at 0
/r/seduction31/05/25 01:20 AM
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This is the biggest thing I’m suffering from, I’m not sure to get the volume of women needed when my life doesn’t really have women in abundance besides the gym
/r/seduction26/04/25 09:03 PM
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I realized I’m going down this route. How do I stay independent and not needy
/r/seduction19/04/25 01:20 AM
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Same
/r/seduction22/02/25 11:53 PM
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I third this question
/r/seduction08/02/25 04:03 PM
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What are those signs of cheating?
/r/seduction05/02/25 12:31 AM
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This honestly seems pretty accurate, current girl im talking too has around 400~ followers, nothing sexual, like 7 photos and highlights, only downside is that it's long distance
/r/seduction26/01/25 04:04 PM
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then I’m not sure what to say, maybe you can try Instagram and following mutuals, if you have a good looking ig page you might have women sliding into your DMs, that’s how I found the current girl I’m talking to
/r/seduction23/01/25 05:21 PM
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Honestly I don’t think cold approaching is the best route, a lot of women are just trying to go about with their day and don’t want strangers hitting on them Your best bet in my opinion would be social circle game, level up your social circle. Get a lively social circle that could potentially introduce you to women Also it helps going to places that you frequent so you could build comfort with the women there that’ll see you often. That’ll probably make them more receptive to you
/r/seduction23/01/25 10:55 AM
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How can you be sure she cheated?
/r/seduction10/12/24 06:25 PM
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How does it mean you’re getting cucked?
/r/seduction08/12/24 12:23 AM
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I’m sorry to hear, if you don’t mind me asking what caused it, was it the distance or something else?
/r/seduction06/12/24 12:49 AM
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That’s great to hear, congrats. I wonder for you how long were you long distance for and how did you keep the ldr interesting?
/r/seduction04/12/24 04:37 PM
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Congrats on things working out between you and your wife. I mean I do know her though, I was vague in the message but we’ve been talking for three months now everyday and the chemistry is there. I just feel conflicted with the long distance part because I can only imagine how difficult it must be. It wouldn’t be too long in the grand scheme of things, probably 3 years? But it still sounds so dreadful since I’m a very affectionate person. I haven’t met her in real life Also I wonder for you, how …
/r/seduction04/12/24 04:36 PM
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Trying to find a woman that’s wife quality, which I think she is. If she was just girlfriend quality I wouldn’t consider it
/r/seduction04/12/24 02:16 PM
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I’m not trying to do open
/r/seduction04/12/24 02:10 PM
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there eventually would be but that’s probably not happening until 2026 so I guess I’ll have to just approach this casually and see where this takes me. I messed up before by having too much expectations since I was really eager but I realized I’m probably setting myself up for some hurt for thinking this has more than a 5% chance of working out
/r/seduction04/12/24 01:39 PM
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well I haven’t really brought up the subject too much because I haven’t been out meeting other girls right now (work and college got me cooked so I have no willpower to put myself out there in the moment) but honestly I’m not sure how she’d respond. She seems like she’d disapprove since she keeps hinting and asking like am I talking to other girls so I guess that means she thinks I’m some player lol. but how would you bring that up? Wouldn’t it be a turn off for a girl looking for a serious rela…
/r/seduction04/12/24 01:37 PM
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true, I feel like if she’s trying to a deeper connection too I might be willing to do it, because that’s very rare to find. But it’s incredibly hard to shake the feeling that I’m a placeholder, how can you know for sure if you’re a placeholder or if she genuinely wants you?
/r/seduction04/12/24 12:46 PM
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Seconding this
/r/seduction15/11/24 03:24 AM
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how do you achieve edginess if you’ve lived a sheltered life?
/r/seduction12/11/24 08:59 PM
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What resources like vids or books helped you out the most?
/r/seduction13/10/24 04:48 PM
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so you could get a bad cosplayer just by being a normal guy? my anime love will finally become useful
/r/seduction04/10/24 08:58 PM
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Did Diddy’s alt write that title?
/r/seduction26/09/24 05:13 PM
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How can you combine both traits? Is it just mostly looking physically sexy while acting “classy” and charming?
/r/seduction26/09/24 05:09 PM
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So how do you achieve social freedom?
/r/seduction13/09/24 08:08 PM
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I feel like to have that view you gotta achieve stuff to actually think that, but I don't think it's too complicated right, if you just learn to be social / charismatic, have a good body, and maintain smell good / have good hygiene that should be enough to actually justify the frame that you're worth something to chase right
/r/seduction29/08/24 07:08 PM
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This is something I need to work on, my flirting skills are so hard because I’m too serious with my convos and idk how to be playful
/r/seduction15/08/24 11:18 PM
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How can I create social circles?
/r/seduction27/07/24 05:41 PM
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What kind of status would you need to get into those kinds of places?
/r/seduction25/07/24 02:36 AM
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I don’t know how to flirt / be playful. I’m too platonic and too friendly
/r/seduction30/06/24 08:30 PM
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Lmao I have to ask but can I also get it too? I’d appreciate it 👍
/r/seduction18/06/24 03:08 PM
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I can dm you a link if you want
/r/seduction20/04/24 07:06 PM
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Can you send a list of the reads? I’d be interested in reading them
/r/seduction19/06/23 10:19 PM
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