Is long distance ever worth it?

Dandys3107 · 2024-12-04T12:41:37+00:00

Statistically from my experience long distance relationships were not really working out too well. But in some cases, when both sides were looking for some deeper connection, they endured time of separation and eventually got together at some point. I guess you need to ask yourself a question, what do you seek and if you won't be too bothered by obvious issues. Generally, put yourself in the first place.

Ballislife1313 · 2024-12-04T12:38:09+00:00

No, long distance is (almost) never worth it.

Necessary-Jaguar4775 · 2024-12-04T13:13:10+00:00

Long distance for a time can work, so long as you see each other semi-regularly. Lets says long distnace for 6 months or a year. But it has to transition out of long distance eventually, it cannot stay like that forever.

Western-Month-3877 · 2024-12-04T13:07:35+00:00

If you talk about a student living in another city but always comes home during break or after graduation, maybe.

But if she lives in another city all her life, heck even in another country, 99% not.

I just feel that a lot of guys are so hungry for a relationship that a long distance one would do. That is just a sad reality. You need physical touch on regular basis, let alone biological needs. Don’t lower your standards so low.

At this point idk which one is worse, having a long distance relationship that you both never meet each other physically, or having an imaginary/anime girlfriend like a weaboo.

DeejDeparts · 2024-12-04T15:26:11+00:00

My wife and I did long distance for 2 years before we were married. It was tough at time, but we made it work and have been together for 8 years and have an awesome one year old boy.

I had been friends with my wife prior to dating, so the chemistry had always been there. On our first date the passion was so high it just felt natural to esculate it sexually. I just knew that day I wanted to be with her forever, it was weird man. You just knew.

But considering you don't know this girl, I'd lean more towards moving on from it if you don't really feel a connection with her.

Wait have you met this chick in real life yet?

grldgcapitalz2 · 2024-12-04T13:11:20+00:00

one of you have to comitt early on who is moving towards who or if you have a destination in dream, shared.

Informal_Sherbert251 · 2024-12-04T14:11:01+00:00

If you can afford it, some people can’t afford it physically or mentally

norwegiandoggo · 2024-12-04T14:13:38+00:00

What are you looking to get out of the relationship, and is that feasible? Ask yourself.

Sharp-Particular-145 · 2024-12-04T21:15:26+00:00

As long as you have a definitive plan to be physically together within like 1-3 years max. Otherwise its not worth it.

PeterLamb87 · 2024-12-04T21:40:23+00:00

Not really.

loosetingles · 2024-12-04T21:51:30+00:00

Not unless its temporary. I see so many friends, myself included, get jealous, insecure, suspicious, etc when they are in one. Its fun for a bit but it gets old quick. Especially if you have to get on a plane.

sinnersoul1980 · 2024-12-04T12:50:31+00:00

Can long distance work - possibly. Does it work - probably not. Possibility vs Probability. Which one do you prefer?

I personally choose the path that gives me the best chance of success

SuperPoop · 2024-12-04T16:23:40+00:00

yeah, married mine. she was worth it.

RhubarbRubberToe · 2024-12-04T19:08:07+00:00

My long distance relationship ended 14 months ago and I have never loved a woman more than I did her, I still think about her everyday

doubleup___ · 2024-12-05T01:23:28+00:00

Depends on how long the distance is lol. I’ve done long distance just from different cities (I’m in California… this state is fuckin huge), and I wasn’t a big fan of it at all. I wouldn’t put my heart into it, only my mind…. This is a good way to work on your game tho

SalamanderNo3872 · 2024-12-05T02:46:29+00:00

Nope

Basic-Parfait3122 · 2024-12-06T10:07:12+00:00

No. Don't do it. It signals a lack of options.

lvl2javapaladin · 2024-12-06T22:07:02+00:00

LDR is only worth it if you're into being cucked.

TripleDigitNomad · 2024-12-04T14:08:20+00:00

Long distance is worth it if the relationship is open

Title	Is long distance ever worth it?
Author	T1kiTiki
Upvotes	7
Comments	40
Date	December 4, 2024 12:31 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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