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TB12thMan/r/askTRP23/08/17 04:02 AM
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Ya that’s what I was getting at. Not on the dude, not saying he’s scum, but I’m saying that to truly be living TRP values I would think avoiding this kind of drama is a priority. Whores who are fucking you on the side usually lead to drama and stupid bullshit, something that can’t always be “dropped” as easily as a plate without these complex issues. ONS is one thing, but plating a married/taken whore seems like a stupid idea.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/18 02:31 AM
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Ya I agree with you on that. All on the whore, not on the dude. Shouldn’t guys have standards though? Not being a white knight, but TRP talk about chicks being whores and AWALT, but having a shred of decency is TRP in a nutshell, as this sub preaches self improvement and increasing your own value. Confidence, REAL confidence, not the peacocking kind, comes from having standards and not stooping to these whore’s levels when there are tons of available, hot women out there. Not attacking, but I’m …
/r/TheRedPill21/05/18 02:22 AM
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Ya I wasn’t specifically targeting OP, that’s poor phrasing on my end. More so speaking in generalities, as I was reading other comments and it seemed like some members of TRP believe it to be “alpha” when fucking married women
/r/TheRedPill21/05/18 01:58 AM
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Am I in the beta mentality for thinking this shits fucked up? Good for you and all, but it’s pretty low to stoop down to a married whore’s level. There are billions of women, many of which aren’t married. Those with boyfriends are one thing, but fuck man married women are all kinds of potential legal and dramatic problems from my perspective. Don’t feel guilty by any means, not on you that she’s a whore. EDIT: this isn’t a personal attack on OP, talking in generalities with regards to shacking u…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/18 01:11 AM
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They can probably smell the resentment. Have some fun and live life every once in a while man it isn't so bad
/r/TheRedPill11/02/18 06:53 PM
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I'm actually atheist bruh. Also you're the fucking idiot that is taking love as this ridiculous concept. It's an emotion just like anything else, being ignorant to the fact prevents you from controlling it. Don't be a naive idiot.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/17 06:34 AM
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Nah doesn't affect me the same way as masturbating; I'm a visual learner so having sex with a chick is enough to get me going.
/r/askTRP23/08/17 06:30 AM
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I was having sex every other day or so when I was in a relationship, but since I broke up with my ex last month I haven't been able to spin any plates. I am back home with family and don't have many opportunities to go out (my parents moved to a pretty remote place when I went to University), so I won't have any opportunities until classes start next week and I'm out on my own again.
/r/askTRP23/08/17 06:28 AM
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Can't worry about other dudes. There are always other dudes. Your job is to ignore that and be prime in your masculinity. When you get back to town, send her a snapchat of a landmark or something funny that she would let her know your location. If she's interested, she'll communicate with you and at that point you ask her what her schedule looks like for the next week. Based off of that, set a date to meet somewhere and don't talk to her again. Show up at that place, at that time, and if she's t…
/r/askTRP23/08/17 05:39 AM
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It can be easily misinterpreted, so there really is no way to simply read and comprehend everything. You can read as much as you want, but if you don't have experience and aren't willing to push yourself to actually try, fail and succeed you will not understand what it is you like/dislike in life and how to develop the frame necessary for you to implement TRP knowledge.
/r/askTRP23/08/17 05:33 AM
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Bro, how rich is this chick? Does she have enough expendable income to be buying tons of dudes ubers, food, clothes, etc.? She seems crazy as hell but I doubt that she has another dude that she is showering with gifts like this. Don't become a beta, but if you're a construction work show her that you're a man and build her something on the condition that you get something out of it (unlimited anal, threesome with her friend, whatever you want). Its pretty obvious you don't give a fuck about this…
/r/askTRP23/08/17 05:30 AM
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I like this one a lot, it also provides you with a line or two that can be interwoven into dialogue. If the chick picks up on which comedian it is, you instantly have an inside joke, so either way its a win-win and everyone is in a jovial mood.
/r/askTRP23/08/17 05:22 AM
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Empathy is an incredibly important tool, it allows you to sympathize with her emotions and understand her. That being said, you have to be willing to take care of yourself, and I think she realizes that. Her acceptance is something that she will deal with, as she will begin to realize you are doing this for both of y'alls sanity. Stay strong, its never easy to hurt someone that you love but you have to be willing to stick to your frame and continue living your life to the best of your abilities.…
/r/askTRP23/08/17 05:19 AM
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Okay, regardless of the control aspect, I am trying to prevent any type of addiction to porn... I have found the more I watch porn, the more twisted shit I want to do with chicks (eat ass, make them squirt, facials, creampies, anal, etc.) and continue to escalate things because I get bored of the same old doggy style and shit. Do you think this stems from emotional boredom or visual stimulus?
/r/askTRP23/08/17 05:15 AM
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Right, I agree with this but would like to know exactly what I should be mentally stimulating myself with... I don't want to think about an ex or a chick that I've fucked in the past because then I could potentially associate all pleasure with that individual. On second thought, would using a past experience and simply rotating which experience I jerk it to help prevent that emotional connection? Do you think it would be better if I think about some celebrity? Perhaps use porn once a week as a v…
/r/askTRP23/08/17 05:09 AM
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Why do these have to be different things in your eyes? Love is important regardless of if they are family, a friend, or a lover. Attraction is what makes romance. You aren't attracted to your friends or your family (unless you're a freak).
/r/TheRedPill23/08/17 05:02 AM
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"some girls I would like to consider for a relationship," Wrong, you don't want to be separating chicks like this. You want to be meeting people, having fun, being a great person with high value, and learn how to flirt. Don't cater to women and their needs, they will come to you because women need men in the prime of their masculinity (not a beta male who plays the provider role). TRP is about knowing who you are, what you want, and how to get it. Go into meeting a girl without any expectations;…
/r/askTRP23/08/17 04:59 AM
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Does not mean they get a free pass for being naive.
/r/askTRP23/08/17 04:54 AM
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Man, you are using all of this terminology but are obviously missing the main point of TRP. Don't be so thin-skinned. If she HATES YOU, then ignore her. Don't give her a reaction, and don't make the same mistake again. Trying to fuck a coworker is a horrible idea, and in this case it made you into a beta who is getting shit on at the office because he let his emotions control who he is. If this chick is fucking with you, and you know it, why are you mad? You're mad at yourself. You're mad that y…
/r/askTRP23/08/17 04:52 AM
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Discussing things that are irrelevant to other people will lead to judgement and disconnect. Unless the guy is on here or had an Alpha role model growing up, he will head your words as misogynistic and will try to turn girls and other people against you because he does not believe in the same principles and will see you as an ass hole. A great way to mask TRP is contextual phrasing, such as "In my experience," or "As I've gotten older I've noticed," it seems a lot less preachy and if you do not …
/r/askTRP23/08/17 04:45 AM
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"I am forgetting about this girl until she wants to stop being cold and at least sext" "Until," so you aren't forgetting about her? Live in the moment. When you fuck something up with a chick, that does not go away. Give her space, if she wants you in her life she will come back. Until then, there are tons of other girls. Quit wasting your time and being desperate. This girl means a lot more to you than you do to her; take it as a positive that she was at least thoughtful enough to give you some…
/r/askTRP23/08/17 04:39 AM
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Older women want the confident ass Chad that they haven't had in a long time. My boy scooped a 35 peruvian chick simply by being the cock of the walk and showing her that he was not intimidated by her. He approached her, noticed that she was speaking Spanish, and started talking to her about where she was from. Got her number, probably would have smashed but we were all 18 at the time and the bold motherfucker started ordering drinks. Needless to say he got kicked out.
/r/askTRP23/08/17 04:36 AM
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Once you have established that she's open to you and you have started to game her, finding some way to graze her lower back with your hand is a great test to see if she's physically comfortable around you. Subtle, yet sexual and one of the most vulnerable areas on the body. If you can do this, she trusts you.
/r/askTRP23/08/17 04:29 AM
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Could not disagree more, one of the major motifs I have found in life is that feet freak most chicks out. Keep your shoes on, she will thank you unless she's some fucking weirdo.
/r/askTRP23/08/17 04:27 AM
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Would not suggest "keep holding onto her hand" that will lead to a long handshake. Ever had one of those? So fucking awkward. I would suggest grazing her palm with your fingers on the release of the handshake; if she pulls back then you are creepy in her eyes but if she maintains eye contact and returns your smile then you're in the clear.
/r/askTRP23/08/17 04:26 AM
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I have plenty of friends and am a very social person, and love to meet new people. Never have had a tough time talking to girls (I used to fall for them too quickly, but that's something I am aware of and working on) and I love to draw, surf, run, and lift 5-6 times a week. That being said, if I don't cum every three days or so Im going to have a wet dream, or I will get way too excited when I do end up hooking up with a chick and then I cum in less than 5 minutes (when Im masturbating semi-dail…
/r/askTRP23/08/17 04:21 AM
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She's telling you that she wants a relationship and needs to put clamps on your freedom for you to have sex with her; ask yourself, are you ready to get married? Are you ready to have a kid? Are you ready to lose half of your shit? Once you start down the path of sacrificing what YOU want, you're fucked. You already seem to be head over heels for this girl after only 6 weeks, and are admitting that you're seeing her too much. I would keep seeing her, back off a bit, and see if she chases you. Se…
/r/askTRP23/08/17 04:16 AM
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Gotta be willing to walk away if a chick is asking you to do things you aren't comfortable with. At least give the illusion of walking away, a take away strategy is useful if she tries to escalate things. If she wants to talk to you too much tho man, I have found that to be a red flag. Attention whores are usually a pain in the fucking ass.
/r/askTRP23/08/17 04:10 AM
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Well, I think your definition of a "relationship" is the problem here. All interaction is in some form a type of relationship; therefore not all relationships need to be grounded in sex. Showing people love isn't a bad thing; being insecure and needy for that love is however as you become desperate and clingy. Abundance theory is an important concept to TRP, and having an abundance of people who enjoy you and your relationship with them (your family, your friends, coworkers, etc.) is important t…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/17 03:31 AM
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It's fucking hard so be patient and be willing to put in the work; try your best to listen to people and develop strategies to get out of your own head. Best of luck.
/r/askTRP22/08/17 05:37 AM
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I'm not going to read the entire post, because that shit seemed like a "feel sorry for me" post. Use the take away strategy, stand up for yourself, and realize this girl does not respect you. You do not respect yourself and that's why she wants Chad. You can't rationalize or restrict her, you can only change what YOU do. Take control of your life.
/r/askTRP22/08/17 05:35 AM
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Male, about 45, also a previous patient of therapy so he could empathize with my emotions and mentality. I had an ex-girlfriend who basically told me that I needed to go to therapy or I would never get past it. I approached my parents about it and so the journey began when I was 17. I had that eventual breakthrough at the age of 22 just a little under a year ago. Ya I paid for it, but it was reimbursed through my insurance. Sessions were about 150 per if I remember correctly, but mental health i…
/r/askTRP22/08/17 05:32 AM
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"Or do you mean that I'm going to put in a lot of effort and in the end nothing will happen." Bingo.
/r/askTRP22/08/17 05:26 AM
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Ignoring a chick is a surefire way to turn them off. Read receipts are a dangerous game. You're also probably being used as an emotional crutch. She obviously still wants her boyfriend in her life and is an emotional wreck. This whole situation seems very dramatic and I would ghost her until she seems like she wants the D (she most definitely does not right now or you would be in a lot better place; actually you would never be in this situation if she were actually attracted to you). Don't call …
/r/askTRP22/08/17 05:23 AM
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You're probably lifting too much. If your body is exhausted, it's not going to function optimally. I was having a tough time cumming when I was exercising 6-7 times a week. You also seem to be in your own head and are more worried about your performance than the pleasure. Stay away from masturbating for a few days, cut down exercising to 4-5 times a week and see if that helps
/r/askTRP22/08/17 05:18 AM
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What would you like to know?
/r/askTRP22/08/17 05:14 AM
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Women love competition. Abundance, or at least the illusion of abundance, is incredibly important. Chicks don't want some creepy loser who is going to go gaga after them, they want to see if they can fuck the dude who is worth locking down.
/r/askTRP22/08/17 05:13 AM
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You have to start somewhere. Work in fast food or the service industry, don't let your pride get the better of you. If you need more cash, you can find odd jobs on Craigslist. Without job experience or any verifiable skill set, you will not be able to get your dream job right off the bat. If you are serious about your future, it will be a difficult road but save up your money, look at trade schools, and learn a skill. Become an asset. Edit: ignore the fucking morons telling you to fake it till y…
/r/askTRP22/08/17 05:09 AM
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Brother, I don't mean this as an attack, but I would try professional help. This seems like a very deeply rooted issue that a message board on the internet will be unlikely to solve. I for one had a lot of childhood issues that really fucked me up, and was only able to get past the self-loathing and self-deprecation with an expert therapist (the 7th one in 5 years finally did the trick). There is hope, but these thoughts are coming from a place that only you and a professional psychologist/licen…
/r/askTRP22/08/17 05:04 AM
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She is partially to blame; but in reality, the dude should have realized that he was in a toxic relationship that was causing him emotional stress and torment. He was making sacrifices for what, friendship? Why be exclusive? Why even have that girl in your life at all? You have to realize that she did not respect you and that's on YOU for letting someone disrespect you and stay in your life. It's very tough to realize, but once you shift the blame to yourself and figure out where you went wrong,…
/r/askTRP22/08/17 04:57 AM
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Ya man anytime, I know its tough to have an objective point of view when all you can think about is how hot this chick is, but fuck man don't waste your time. There are tons of chicks out there, and if you're in a place where your ideologies don't align with the public majority (I.E. in this case this chick is very conservative) then don't waste your time on getting emotionally invested. See all of these chicks as play things that you can have fun with and enjoy the experience. I go to a very co…
/r/askTRP22/08/17 04:49 AM
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Wasting your time dude. She is literally telling you what she is; a girl that does not want to fuck you. Tell her that you're not interested in being church-going friends, but if she changes her mind to give you a call. Ghost her until that phone call. Edit: "I'm contemplating calling her up to get her to be around me again." dude you think too highly of this girl, she doesn't give a fuck about you and you need to move on. Get out of this oneitis mentality. She says hi to you because she doesn't…
/r/askTRP22/08/17 04:34 AM
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Putting pressure on yourself will turn a good night into a work night, which stresses everyone out. Have a couple drinks, talk to the cute girl who's dancing with her friends, break down some barriers. The nice thing about a club is that it isn't a big deal if someone rejects you; you can immediately blend into your surroundings and reevaluate what your next move is without having to worry about any uncomfortable social situations. Going out and expecting to find anyone decent when they are alre…
/r/askTRP22/08/17 04:30 AM
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She doesn't WANT you to become less attractive. She NEEDS the validation though, and so she'll test your frame. She wants to see if you're a man, or if you're her bitch.
/r/askTRP22/08/17 04:23 AM
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What's worse is some women will try to make you feel like the only way to improve your relationship is by opening up more so; meanwhile they will become more reserved the more open and willing you become. Doesn't matter how good your pipe game is, if you start becoming too emotional and open they will stop finding you biologically attractive, will shut down, and make you feel guilty because they don't understand that they are driven by emotion. Keep it to yourself and figure out how to use your …
/r/askTRP22/08/17 04:21 AM
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I would go even further; talk to your father. Talk to your brother. Hell talk to a therapist. By opening up to your friends, they may respect you at first but if you are a deeply rooted beta or have actual emotional problems your friends will begin to see you as needy and weak, and will learn how to pull your strings. Edit: changed councilor to therapist
/r/askTRP22/08/17 04:16 AM
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Being too open with my emotions and past. As some have stated before this, I expected that women wanted honesty and that being a good guy and being as close to perfect as possible would allow me to find happiness. Even when I was a complete alpha douche, I was actually incredibly insecure in my frame and emotionally unstable. I lifted frequently, almost obsessively, but for the most part this hobby was a facade for me to cover up the fact that I put all of my value in pussy. Leads to you getting…
/r/askTRP22/08/17 04:14 AM
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If she is comfortable around you enough that she will let you walk her home late at night, she's going to be willing to give you her number. Confidence is key man, if you're killing the game right now then you need to give yourself some credit and capitalize on it. Tinder is a great way to augment your game, but its too easy to let yourself fall trap to digital media. I myself have fucked a lot of girls off of Tinder, but it's never as satisfying as plating someone in real life. Don't be afraid …
/r/askTRP22/08/17 04:06 AM
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Cut out foods that are heavily processed; download MyFitnessPal if you are serious about dieting. I would recommend it for the first couple of months if you are not used to cooking/eating properly. This app will allow you to regulate your calorie intake and see how much food you need to be consuming daily. Avocados, fish, almonds, peanut butter and foods that are high in healthy fats (Omega-3, -6, -9; most poly- and mono-unsaturated fats) will boost testosterone and regulate your hormones. Carbo…
/r/askTRP20/08/17 09:44 PM
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I got out of a toxic relationship about a month ago. I was internalizing the issues I was having with her because I thought it would help things; complacency kills attraction right? That mentality allowed me to be used. My LTR went to med-school, and (same time frame) two weeks in she started having feelings for someone else. She wouldnt admit it, but thankfully her friends liked me and told me the truth. My intuition had been screaming at me for months that something was up, and because I ignor…
/r/askTRP20/08/17 08:30 PM
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Definitely see the disrespect. I let my emotions take the backseat to hers, and I should have deuced out way early in the relationship. I am by no means over this situation, as this is the first LTR I had in college (something I had told myself I would never do). I started to settle and definitely see that. Thanks for the reply, seems a bit obvious now that I read it again lol.
/r/askTRP20/08/17 06:23 PM
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From what I have seen, people can tell when you're trying too hard. Humans like to be challenged, and they can tell when a social chameleon walks in the room. If you aren't your own person, people won't respect you and will assume that you do not belong to a group. 'Fitting in,' is an illusion; everyone has problems and everyone has a life that they have to deal with. Trying to make the best of situations, being funny, and taking advantage of opportunities while improving yourself will make othe…
/r/askTRP20/08/17 06:19 PM
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Thanks for the reply; what leads you to believe I will fall hard for the next woman? Not that I disagree with you, as it is a problem I have had, but I would like to see what gives it away so obviously.
/r/askTRP20/08/17 06:04 PM
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