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TCM-black/r/MGTOW19/10/18 07:13 PM
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Relying on one other individual for ANYTHING is the biggest mistake you can make. If you depend on one persons moods for your own well being, you're a slave to that other person's moods.
/r/MGTOW02/11/18 09:40 PM
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You have not refuted the idea that men and women are more alike than different. You have highlighted the areas where they ARE different, but the context of my point remains; the psychological underpinnings of "romantic" love are the same in both sexes, but their manifestations differ due to biological cost of reproduction and to the external cost factors manipulated by society. I never said that men and women are the same, I said they are more alike than different.
/r/MGTOW02/11/18 09:39 PM
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Having a desire to have a good wife and children of your own will is not blue pill, thinking that there is nothing wrong with the current system is. Not using principles and reason to judge a woman on her own individual objective merits and instead reacting emotionally is.
/r/MGTOW02/11/18 09:30 PM
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And maybe I didn't want to objectify women .... maybe I'm against the class struggle. ....I think that's about all the puns I could encapsulate in there.
/r/MGTOW02/11/18 09:24 PM
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"goto considered harmful" ​ WHATEVER, I go my own way. I'm crazy.
/r/MGTOW02/11/18 09:22 PM
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Several individuals voluntarily working together towards a common goal is one thing (and also still self serving,) and I don't have a problem there. I only say that your idea of an obligation to serve other people is a form of enslavement that you will be better off without.
/r/MGTOW02/11/18 09:19 PM
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I think you've got confirmation bias. Men and women do the same shit psychologically. The instinctual draw towards actions are the same, however the actions themselves are slightly different ( the biological cost of procreation, a few minutes for a man, 9 months for a woman,) and the rationalization is different, in large part due to culture, but the biological underpinnings of emotional love is infatuation and lust, and both of those are present in both women and men. You have to stop and creat…
/r/MGTOW02/11/18 11:28 AM
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Fuck that. Not worth the effort.
/r/MGTOW02/11/18 10:39 AM
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Depends on what you mean by pretending. All women, just like all men, have a biological urge to get varied genetic material for their offspring, from different sex partners. What matters is what actions they make. A woman who has never broken a commitment may have more or less difficulty refraining from fantasizing outside of her commitment, but until they actually cheat or otherwise break their commitments, they're not pretending. ​ But you do have some sluts that want to appear to be ladies. T…
/r/MGTOW02/11/18 10:38 AM
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I've thought about it, but they're not. Many are relatives, and those that aren't would not gain anything from me, and they know it.
/r/MGTOW02/11/18 10:29 AM
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Dick nothing, that's infatuation. Dicks don't get crushes. ​ Stop crushing; harder to do that to say I know. Any woman who has not made a commitment of effort towards you (putting in consistent effort to make a relationship with you work on your terms,) is completely fungible with any other bitch out there; go get another one because they're all the same at that point. Only when they start putting in that effort do you start caring in any way, and even then, couch the emotion in the understandin…
/r/MGTOW02/11/18 10:24 AM
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Go read "love and limerence" by Dr Dorothy Tennov. Infatuation, aka "falling in love", aka limerence, is an idealized fantasy that the subject transfers over the object to become emotionally codependent. This transference works in the gaps of uncertainty, and serves to exaggerate all of the perceived good qualities, while attenuating any negatives. If you are a nice guy that answers questions up front with direct answers, and act in a predictable manner, you are not an uncertainty, and will be s…
/r/MGTOW02/11/18 10:19 AM
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Viscous cycle? For me that's 10 Find a bitch 20 Spray her face with my viscous 30 goto 10
/r/MGTOW02/11/18 10:14 AM
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I disagree. The few times I've ended a relationship, I've said "This is the exact reason why I'm ending things, and I can never trust you again." ​ When you've got rock solid principles that you live by, make it clear upfront what they are and what you expect, and they choose to break those expectations, it's quite easy to end a relationship with them knowing exactly why. Be a rock, and petty little complaints against you mean jack shit.
/r/MGTOW02/11/18 10:12 AM
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Meh, I would love to find a respectable women, mutually commit to a lifelong monogamous relationship, have kids, and raise them together. The current system makes it infeasible, and the amount of time and effort to pick through the trash to find a decent woman is not worth the effort. ​ I don't believe in AWALT, I have met women who act in an honorable way, I just don't know how to find and identify one that hasn't been married for 20+ years.
/r/MGTOW02/11/18 10:09 AM
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Wow, I'm glad someone posted a graphic so that I can know exactly how I'm supposed to go my own way .....
/r/MGTOW02/11/18 10:05 AM
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"Women don't love, they use" implies that love and use are mutually exclusive. I would say that I should have rather stated that love is to judge someone as valuable, but if something is valuable, then it's useful to you, even if in only an emotional way. ​ The pity party was probably uncalled for, I apologize. It's too often that people on this forum try to pain women as being inherently dishonorable or somehow lacking the ability to love a man for who he is, but there's no basis for it; critic…
/r/MGTOW02/11/18 10:04 AM
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There are two types of nice guys, 1) men who are genuinely nice and go out of their way to be helpful and caring, and are just looking for a girl to form an emotional bond with and 2) guys who act nice with the motive of getting sex in exchange for punches on their nice guy card; commonly called a covert contract, where the agreement of trading nice for sex is assumed by the guy with no explicit declaration. ​ Women instinctually place men on a spectrum from Boring and stable to uncertainty and …
/r/MGTOW02/11/18 09:57 AM
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Love is to judge someone as useful. All love is using someone. Stop redefining subjective words to throw yourself a pity party. Men and women both use each other for sometimes different things under the guise of love.
/r/MGTOW02/11/18 09:35 AM
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Love is a judgement of value. ALL love is "using" them. Some use the people they love for financial gain, some for emotional gain, some do so in a mutually beneficial arrangement, some manipulate vulnerability for parasitic gain. ​ Stop thinking women are somehow inherently evil and men are inherently virtuous.
/r/MGTOW02/11/18 09:33 AM
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ugh ..... men are not special, and women are not inherently evil. Bitches are bitches BECAUSE they have every ability to live with honor that other women and men all do, but they choose not to. ​ Men and women have biologically opposing mating strategies (cost of sperm vs egg,) and we just happen to live in a time where our society fucks over men's ability to execute their optimal strategy, and allows women's to run rampant. Men are no more "deep and exclusive" than women, and you're fooling you…
/r/MGTOW02/11/18 09:32 AM
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I kind of wonder if sex dolls have any appeal outside of emotional. If it's strictly physical, why would there be a need for anything more than a fleshlight with different sleeves? I get the feeling that anyone who's willing to spend the price difference between the two on an anthropomorphic doll is not doing so because of increased physical stimulation, and is instead trying to buy an object to project their emotional fantasy onto. ​ And I have zero idea why someone would become emotionally att…
/r/MGTOW02/11/18 09:24 AM
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You != men
/r/MGTOW02/11/18 09:17 AM
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"Love and Limerence" by Dr Dorothy Tennov. Read it a few times, and you'll understand just how perverse the entire "fall in love" and "unconditional love" narratives are.
/r/MGTOW02/11/18 08:00 AM
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Don't become a teacher; at least not public school. It is an immoral career where you leech money that is stolen from people and euphemistically called taxes, to forcibly indoctrinate the population using an ideology that substitutes reality with dogma worshipping collectivism. ​ Go learn a skill where you make a profit based on the value you create. When you can go to sleep each day saying "I didn't support the theft of livelihood from another man, and lived based on the sweat of my own brow" y…
/r/MGTOW02/11/18 07:58 AM
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Yes men do. Look at oneitis and the archetype of the disingenuous nice-guy. The behaviors will manifest there most obviously. ​ The fastest way to fool yourself and enter into a false nihilistic embitterment from MGTOW is to believe that men are inherently better than women. They're not. We have different biological imperatives, we have different societal roles, but the 2 sexes are more alike than different, and that includes the manipulative instinctual psychology. Hell, the entire idea of a "b…
/r/MGTOW02/11/18 07:51 AM
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"I honestly think I have an ethical obligation to help better society." ​ That's your biggest problem that you have to get over. You do not owe society ANYTHING. Become a nurse because you enjoy the work, do it for an interesting career, do it for money, do it because you selfishly like helping others, whatever, but you do not owe society. You are an individual. All of your interactions are going to be self serving in some manner, even if that self interest is that you like helping people; there…
/r/MGTOW02/11/18 07:46 AM
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.......... yes.
/r/MGTOW02/11/18 07:39 AM
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God dammit ... there goes my appetite. Thanks a lot dude.
/r/MGTOW02/11/18 07:38 AM
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What the fuck is this?
/r/MGTOW02/11/18 07:37 AM
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Go read "love and limerence" by Dr Dorothy Tennov. "Romantic Love" ( re-termed by Tennov to Limerence,) is a state of subjective idealization where someone projects an idealized fantasy onto an object and "falls in love" with their illusion. The only way for this to happen is for there to be enough uncertainty for this fantasy to work into; gaps to fit the fictional narrative. ​ Women (and men; it's not specific to women, and you probably do it to, to some extent,) will use ambiguity, proxy ques…
/r/MGTOW02/11/18 07:36 AM
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Because they can be. ​ If you are a woman, and have an attractive man who loves you "unconditionally" (aka emotional codependency,) why would you put in the effort to maintain a fit body?
/r/MGTOW02/11/18 07:30 AM
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Love is not a distinct objective concept. Love can be reduced most effectively to a declared judgement of value; you value your dog, you value your pc, you value your parents, etc. What are the underpinnings of that value? What principles form the basis? ​ Most people base "romantic love" on nothing more than infatuation, which IS a distinct psychological complex, but it is based on the subject not the object. Other people base it on something less ephemeral and more specific to the object, such…
/r/MGTOW02/11/18 07:27 AM
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"Real men" are people who have an X and Y chromosome. Everything else is subjective and irrelevant. Also irrelevant is the length of time you've known someone in regards to judgement of virtue; if a friend starts associating with people of ill repute, the only thing you say is "this woman is acting in a dishonest and immoral fashion, and you are endorsing her behavior by associating with her." Then leave it alone and shut up. You've made the case, it's up to him to figure it out or not. Harping …
/r/MGTOW02/11/18 01:30 AM
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“Only a fool learns from his own mistakes. The wise man learns from the mistakes of others.” -- Otto von Bismarck
/r/MGTOW01/11/18 03:15 AM
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Stop trying to exclude people based on your own limiting mindset. Any man who decides that following others' plans for him is not rational is mgtow.
/r/MGTOW01/11/18 03:14 AM
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Silly me, I thought men going THEIR OWN way meant that we all have different goals and desires, but we respect all men who would live according to their own will (assuming they respect the rights of others.) ​ You have boxed yourself into a singular world view that may work fine enough for you, but not everyone has to have the same value structure as you. I don't disagree that this woman is a slut (I don't like disparaging whores by comparing sluts to them; whores are women who voluntarily excha…
/r/MGTOW31/10/18 09:20 PM
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I like pasty. To me there's no sight more beautiful than a pasty white redhead after you've made her ass match her hair.
/r/MGTOW31/10/18 08:07 AM
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Won't happen. Feminism is based on the ideology of being oppressed. Nature is not oppressive, it is an unconscious procession of natural forces. Feminism requires an agent (or class) to demonize. ​ Nature is not misogynist for the results of sexual dimorphism, men are misogynists for acting within the rules nature laid out.
/r/MGTOW31/10/18 08:06 AM
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You're confusion I think is not understanding that people (not women, people,) generally make decisions before they realize why, then come up with an answer to retroactively apply. They were not attracted to you first, then picked a reason to tell. The reason why "never listen to what women say, listen to what they do" is because one of the PUA guys figured out that they got better results that way; incite the tingles with your actions, ignore what their verbal response is. ​ You should read thi…
/r/MGTOW31/10/18 07:25 AM
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I love that one :)
/r/MGTOW31/10/18 07:17 AM
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I want them to make me a Goddam sandwich the first time I ask for it.
/r/MGTOW31/10/18 01:42 AM
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What happens in vegas stays in vegas .... except the herp .... that comes back with you.
/r/MGTOW31/10/18 01:41 AM
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Why do you care? Furthermore, why would he care? If he turned her down for sex, then he obviously IS getting something out of the relationship that is not sex (assuming he is not clinically insane.) It'd be one thing trying to wake up a guy spending money on a girl that will never put out, but this guy is getting exactly what he is expecting to get out; or to put another way, he is acting rationally. Why are you so bothered by this?
/r/MGTOW31/10/18 01:37 AM
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He's talking out his ass. There are several neurotransmitters that are involved in the complex of brain functions; two of which are seratonin and dopamine. During an orgasm, several of these neurotransmitters are excreted and bound in various neurons, along with pretty much anything else we do. A deficiency in any of them can lead to various disorders, such as anorgasmia, so people assume the opposite, that orgasms are associated with that one chemical. What's funny is that the "cure" for low se…
/r/MGTOW31/10/18 01:32 AM
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It does sting, but if you crawl through the mud long enough to get to the other side, you realize that you're actually a better person for rejecting these tropes. It takes a strong personality to throw out everything they've ever learned, starting from nothing, and building their own individual philosophy form ground zero. Renee Descartes is a good model for the method behind the process, even if I disagree with a lot of his conclusions; but I say all the better for that disagreement, because it…
/r/MGTOW29/10/18 08:17 PM
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Love for children is not unconditional; the condition is that they're children. We value children mostly for three reasons 1) we take responsibility for the things we create, and if we create something so dependent on us, we are obligated to care for it long enough for it to become self-sufficient and capable of independent reasoning. 2) because we put value into their future potential. Not in a financial sense, but in the hope that they'll develop into mini-us, but without our flaws, and hopefu…
/r/MGTOW29/10/18 08:08 PM
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Highly unlikely. IP addresses don't really work like that. It's possible that Reddit could be tracking IP addresses, but depending on IPv4 vs IPv6, it is not possible to associate an IP address with a unique individual, or with IPv6 it's so easy to generate a new address that it wouldn't be worthwhile. ​ Easiest test is to change your IP and test it out; connect to WiFi and use a different network.
/r/MGTOW29/10/18 06:38 AM
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The nail polish has a chemical reagent that reacts with known date rape drugs to produce a drastic change in color. Often called an "indicator", other examples would be litmus or phenolphthalein that change color based on pH (origin of the generic phrase "litmus test" for a quick indicator/test of something.) ​ Basically a girl would wear the nail polish, and stir their drinks with their finger. If the polish changes color, you don't drink it. The chemistry behind it is actually pretty cool.
/r/MGTOW29/10/18 06:29 AM
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Fill the airwaves? That's not an imperative in any objective other than attention seeking and profitability. In any speculative format, you have 2 options: rationally deliver your theories with evidence to support your assertions, or get zealously fanatical with emotional appeal and sensationalism. He made his choice, and on that choice we can judge him; he is NOT better than most, he just has a different angle.
/r/MGTOW29/10/18 06:23 AM
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Alex Jones IS a radical. He uses emotional appeals and irrationality to radicalise his viewers into a frenzy. Anyone who has to scream and rely on flamboyance is not someone who you should look to for objectivity.
/r/MGTOW28/10/18 10:05 PM
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These are all problems with your own view. You expected society to work in a way that's unrealistic. ​ WHY should someone be loved unconditionally? If you love unconditionally, your love is meaningless. This is a myth that boys (and girls) buy into for some reason, and you need to cut that shit out ASAP. Love is a value judgement, and if your judgement of value has no conditions, then you're irrationally emotional and have no ability to judge. ​ Women can say love is whatever they want and apply…
/r/MGTOW28/10/18 10:00 PM
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Especially homemade. If someone says you're not manly because you made your own fucking homebrew, hand them a bottle and tell them where to stick it.
/r/MGTOW26/10/18 05:44 PM
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It would be, if it weren't on 4chan YEARS ago.
/r/MGTOW26/10/18 03:32 AM
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How are you going to watch the kid when you're at work? If you're passing him off to a random surrogate mother, aka daycare, just don't bother having a kid. ​ Single fathers are no less child abuse than single mothers. If you cannot maintain a 2 parent household, don't have the kid.
/r/MGTOW26/10/18 12:27 AM
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Bad reasoning IMO. There has never been a better time in human history to be born; especially not to a parent that's able to access the internet. The world isn't full, and 1 more child won't make a difference. Energy is not a looming crisis, the sun puts out more energy than we could ever use, it's just going to cost different when oil isn't as easily accessible (I'm still waiting on peak oil .... ). Climate, maybe, who knows, but it won't change so drastically to affect an individual that much.…
/r/MGTOW26/10/18 12:26 AM
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After 8 generations, your offspring will have 1 / 256 genetics contributed by you (and continue to dwindle in subsequent generations.) They will also have zero clue who you were or what you believed in. ​ Children do not leave a legacy. The only reason to have children is because you believe they will make you happier in your own lifetime. Anything else is irrational. Good luck finding a woman who will be helpful in the task of raising them, and if you want to put them in daycare just don't both…
/r/MGTOW26/10/18 12:22 AM
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I agree with this guy. You seem to be under an impression that "digesting" the red-pill will make the world comply with what you think makes sense. You resent that this guy does better with women despite not being red-pilled, which makes me think you haven't really integrated the core message yet. You will not be successful with women by doubling down on what you WANT them to be attracted to. Part of "going their own way" is acknowledging that focussing on yourself how you want to will often lea…
/r/MGTOW26/10/18 12:13 AM
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People are disappointing; get used to it. Just because someone makes a funny movie in no way means you should put them on a pedestal. There's only one person you should ever elevate to such a status; yourself. Especially not some dude you've never personally met before (I assume, or else you'd mention it.) Why do you care what his opinions are?
/r/MGTOW26/10/18 12:05 AM
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As long as you have an addiction that is controlling your life, navel gazing about the rightness or wrongness of prostitution is irrelevant. ​ MGTOW above all else means having your own preferences and acting according to your own needs and benefit. If you take a drug because you want to, then fine; many men (myself included,) think they're a stupid waste of time and money, but do whatever you want. Being addicted means surrendering your own free will over to a compulsion, and that is the antith…
/r/MGTOW26/10/18 12:02 AM
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My message was a joke of course, and in all seriousness I would recommend you immediately block any woman who cheats on you, or in any way unrepentantly disrespects you (I make SOME allowance for mistakes that are regretted when they show serious effort to remedy .... the first time.) ​ It's humorous to imagine getting even through schadenfreude, but it's a lot better for your own psyche to just cut all contact.
/r/MGTOW24/10/18 12:55 AM
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Seems like you need to reply with a solitary ​ "meh" ​ If she responds back more than a simple acknowledgement, follow up with ​ "bored ..." ​ THEN, never message her again.
/r/MGTOW23/10/18 04:12 PM
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So true. It's not even that I like the one bitch so much more than the other; I think they both want to restrict our rights in some way that is not the role of a benevolent government. But I am so sick of the absolute disdain for men / masculinity that's pushed by, almost universally, the left. Tolerance, acceptance, and diversity ... unless you're a straight white man, then you need to be silenced and marginalized.
/r/MGTOW23/10/18 02:38 AM
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I find Mr Money Mustache has better financial advice for people who are close to zero net worth (neither in debt nor large savings already.) You have to avoid his obviously leftist rhetoric on some posts, but his strictly financial writings are pretty good. Just make sure you recognize each piece as individual optional choices, and not an all or nothing cult. ​ Dave's advice has always struck me as non-optimal plans that appeal to the psychology of the people who are capable of getting $150,000 …
/r/MGTOW20/10/18 04:38 PM
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If you are willing to sign up for marriage, it does make sense though to use savings to pay off debt. You have to take his advice in the context in which it's given. Having savings that is making minimal interest while you have debt accruing a greater amount of interest is no financially smart. ​ Once you get married, it's not HIS savings and HER debt, all finances are THEIRS, together. A good reason to not get married (I cannot imagine any bitch being worth $150,000 loss of net worth,) but Dave…
/r/MGTOW20/10/18 04:35 PM
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You've missed the point. MGTOW just means not following other people's narrative for what you should do with your own life. Fuck women without commitment? That's MGTOW. Disregard women and voluntarily stay celibate? That's MGTOW. Have a few girlfriends that come over for a night and then leave? That's MGTOW. You can even get married if you think it's beneficial to yourself, while maintaining decency towards men who choose not to, and still be MGTOW. ​ The only thing that is not MGTOW is choosing…
/r/MGTOW19/10/18 11:54 PM
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I'd get behind even an attempt against the constant low effort copy-pasting of memes that have already been on here several times before. Search before you post, and stop reposting the same shit over and over again. ​ But yes, the over the top toxicity is irritating. We get it, you don't like women, but start having a personality of your own, and not just a negation of women.
/r/MGTOW19/10/18 08:57 PM
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r/https://www.amazon.com/Love-Limerence-Experience-Being/dp/0812862864 ​ Go read it. Then read it again. Then contemplate the implication, and read it again. ​ There is no concrete thing "love", it is an abstract notion that is highly subjective. Learn to remove it from your vocabulary, and replace it with more representative terms. Do you want a girl to be infatuated with you? Do you want a girl to admire and respect you? Do you want a girl to jump your bones? Each of these have different paths…
/r/MGTOW19/10/18 07:41 PM
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What do you hope to contribute by this? This looks like nothing more than an attempt to assassinate the character of a group that is marginalized by the same system we rebel against, to make yourself look superior. It honestly makes you look like a pathetic faggot.
/r/MGTOW19/10/18 07:33 PM
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Under-rated comment. Reach out to him and keep track. If he gets into another management position, make it clear that you're looking for a new position. ​ Career is 90% who you know, with 10% talent to impress more people.
/r/MGTOW19/10/18 07:28 PM
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Why the fuck would any man voluntarily choose an action that lowers his net worth by $150,000? If you get married, all finances become common; I don't care what imaginary belief to the contrary you have. If you marry someone that has that much debt, you may as well throw that money into a fire and not get married at all. $150,000 will buy you a lot of hookers.
/r/MGTOW19/10/18 07:26 PM
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Men and women both do the same shit, don't be fooled into thinking one of the sexes is biologically better. The projected infatuation (look up the book "Love and Limerence" by Dr Dorothy Tennov,) is done by both men and women, in men we call it oneitis, in women it's chasing for chad / alpha widow depending on phase of life. The subject projects an idealized image onto the object, and no real person can compete with the fantasy. People chase after the thing they can't have while ignoring the thi…
/r/MGTOW16/10/18 12:34 PM
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Having huge tits because you're fat is like having a fast car because you drove off a cliff.
/r/MGTOW16/10/18 12:25 PM
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Get bigger condoms. Until I found the right fit, I actually went limp after putting on too small of condoms. ​ It still doesn't feel as good as raw dogging, of course, but it feels better than taking home less than 40% of your paycheck. If you want better, get a vasectomy.
/r/MGTOW15/10/18 01:18 PM
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I remember watching My Name is Earl when it first came out, 2005. The gist of the relevant story is that a pregnant trailer trash girl suckers a drunken trailer trash guy (Earl) into marrying her to take care of her first baby. Couple years later she pops out another, now half black, kid that Earl thought was his up until that point. She kicks Earl out of HIS place (though to be fair he was squatting there, but had it first,) so that the black guy she thought was the father could move in. ​ I th…
/r/MGTOW15/10/18 12:56 PM
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Technically, in women, one of the X chromosomes is always inactive (called a barr-body ). This is because the X chromosome has genes that can only ever be expressed one time, and the activation of multiple copies of those genes lead to deleterious effects. ​ Men however have that same 1 active X chromosome that women do, AND an additional Y chromosome. So men have more expressed genes, men are therefore by her metric superior. ​ In truth there are actually some rare detrimental effects of having…
/r/MGTOW15/10/18 12:44 PM
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Democracy is a lie. In truth, it will always lead to either fascism or communism because you cannot rally a group around "Let's just leave everyone alone." ​ Collectivism wins the popularity contest because you can always emotionally manipulate people to radicalize around "THEY'RE destroying the country, and WE need to do something about it." ​ In the communist countries, the in group was poor low class people, and the excluded group was the people who owned any property. In Nazi Germany, the in…
/r/MGTOW15/10/18 01:29 AM
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I think I'm going to have steak for dinner.
/r/MGTOW15/10/18 01:19 AM
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