First time poster(all of Reddit and here)

and I wanted to share my story a bit and hopefully get some thoughts.

I have been through a few relationships here and there. Some long-term some short term. They always ended the same, they would abrubtly leave me, and say either "they have a lot going on" or something of the sorts. Then to find out years later, it was because I was "boring"..

One of the three said, and I quote "you were too perfect, you always made me happy, but. It was like it was too good to be true and I honestly got bored. Maybe it was for the best" the others said things along the same line.

And then it hit me.. these girls I've dated, and girls that I seem to hit it off with, don't want to be happy. They want drama, and fights to tell their friends about. They would always try and get me to yell and argue, and would be so frustrated with my ability to calmly say "listen, we should talk about this later when we are both calm, I'm not gonna yell at you". I grew up watching my parents scream at each other all the time, and I have no interest in fighting like children.

They always say, nice guys finish last. And I suppose this is true. In today's world of tinder, and encouraged anti-monogamous sexual relationships. Females no longer want a stable secure mate. Ever notice how the men that are unemployed and broke always have the 10's? Its because they are available and reliant on their female.

I said to myself, Fuck that shit. I'm not gonna be an unemployed "let me borrow your car babe" ass looser. I started working hard, going to the gym, got my own small apartment, bought a badass Ford focus RS, have so much time to myself, absolute freedom to do what i want with my day, and loving my life.

Women recently have been taking an interest in me, however I'm loving being single so much, I have been brushing them off, ignoring, almost to the point of being an absolute asshole to them, that its almost counter productive and causes them to pursue me even more...

Then it all came together in one giant thought. I could hear the theme from the "SAW" movies playing in my head.

Those douche bags, that love the gym, that women seem to flock towards, and cry to their "guy" friends(slaves) about, once were nice guys. and had their heart ripped out by soulless women looking for quick drama, and instagram photos.
I really really want to be a nice caring partner to a woman, But those days are long gone. Out of fear of being boring, or "perfect" and having my heart ripped out, I am a complete asshole as a defense mechanism, and refuse to ever be in a long-term relationship again.

I have become everything I once hated, a sports car driving, single asshole to woman, that gets laid here and there. And I'm loving every single second of it.

Women complain they can't find any "nice guys" anymore, and it's all because some soulless woman, crushed his kindness, and made him cry real tears of depression and jealousy. They turned broken men, into warriors who rose from the flames of their childhood fantasies of being happy, that have now become too good for their wicked little ways.

Keep at it boys. #MGTOW