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OnlyOnceThreetimes/r/seduction09/06/18 04:09 PM
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1

Eexxxxxxactly.
/r/seduction12/02/22 04:39 AM
2

Ya agreed or at least a sub where certain individuals that have a proven track record or some sort of coaching standard... haha I'm not sure. I guess it would be hard to curate that. But bottom line is to never ever go with a shit test. That's why it's called a shit test haha
/r/seduction11/02/22 07:46 AM
1

What I mean is to say that you are busy as well, but have time to make a date. If she declines, tell her to get 8n touch if she changes her mind. Becuase if you WERE busy, you wouldn't have time to chase her and if you WERE high value, a hot chick like her is a dime a dozen. So if she doesn't have time, you will give your time to one who does. Make sense?
/r/seduction11/02/22 06:00 AM
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It's a "shit test". The exact proper way to deal with this is "I'm busy too, but if you want to go out for a drink on Friday night, I know a great spot for cocktails. Let me know". If she denies, move on. It's lose lose and she just wants to treat you like the next sucker to give her validation. If she does give you the date, you've demonstrated low value anyways. High value men don't beg.
/r/seduction11/02/22 12:25 AM
1

Ya, it doesn't really work - avoiding the pain. It is actually better to be with it as opposed to running. Something tells me it was recent. A month or two?
/r/seduction10/02/22 02:52 PM
3

Banging girls isn't going to help you get over tour ex. You are dating way too soon and it is making you anxious. Every girl you meet you will contrast against your ex and she will win and you will become disheartened. You arnt just going to meet some banging girl right away, it is going to take time. You need to relax and enjoy life and eventually a good one will come along. Patience.
/r/seduction10/02/22 07:51 AM
0

I personally think porn us bad for our brains. I think it's better to learn to integrate your sexual urges and energy into other things. But if being horny us truly affecting your success in life whether dating or otherwise, ya you should unload the gun. Just not sure watching porn is necessary.
/r/seduction10/02/22 07:32 AM
1

Ok well then you don't want an extremely attratcive in demand girl. Anyone below a.... let's say a 7.2, is not just gonna meet you and bypass all the others randomly. Not consistently, that's for sure. This can be thrown off if by random chance you just completely present your looks an profile in a way that resonates specifically to her preferences. That happens.
/r/seduction21/01/22 07:10 PM
1

It's obvious when it works because people will gravitate towards you and you will rise in social status. Girls will move in to kiss you and touch you. If that isn't happeneing then it's not working. You seem scared to make a move because you first need to see it's working, that's the wrong way to look at it.
/r/seduction21/01/22 07:47 AM
2

It's not a correct answer at all. In fact it doesn't even make sense in a world of online dating. You have to first raise her interest level and stick out amount the other 10 dudes she is texting.
/r/seduction21/01/22 07:40 AM
1

In covid this is really difficult. Girls online want to text a bit before phone or meet up. And texting is very boring and the girls don't make it easy
/r/seduction21/01/22 07:40 AM
1

Why did you text her for 2 days? You should setup a date and time to meet and then say "I will message you the morning day of meeting to confirm" Wish her a great rest if her day and that's that. You should be investing in other girls while you wait for that date
/r/seduction21/01/22 07:30 AM
2

Not sure why you are down voted. This is legit paraphrasing from many of Jordan Peterons lectures. Straight up.
/r/seduction17/01/22 08:16 PM
1

You can make sense and still get an idiot. They aren't mutually exclusive.
/r/seduction11/01/22 11:21 PM
2

It'd all about abundance and umbing yourself. What makes you nervous is the idea that you have a GREAT deal riding on this. Usually number 1 is how much guys beat themselves up after and curl into a ball for weeks as they go through their head and recite just how STUPUD every word they said was. But know who else is thinking the same thing? No one. Literally no one cares and neither should you. You just keep doing it over and over and over. Then eventually when you are 25 years old you approach …
/r/seduction11/01/22 04:37 AM
3

In every social circle there is someone who doesn't drink. Just drink your club sodas with lime and don't worry/think about it. If someone asks just say "I gotta defend my PhD dissertation tomorrow" or some other hyperbolic joke. Or however else you wanna handle it that spins it off positively. No one will care if you are fun and don't bring the energy down.
/r/seduction11/01/22 04:34 AM
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If you wait for optimism, you will be lonely and insecure until on your deathbed when you wish you just let go of all that. A good looking guy that is 6'2" suffers the same problem. They are insecure ir don't know how to approach women. Even if women approach him, you see the issue all the time. All you have to do is build up a reliance. Know that NO MAN is going to land every woman. Just don't take rejection personally and just try try try try again. After months/years, you will develop a confi…
/r/seduction11/01/22 04:32 AM
1

Read read read read and write write write write. If you are an introvert you can be a wealth of knowledge. People travel the world, partake in many activities, meeting all sorts of people but they aren't saying anything original. Wisdom is what is interesting. Retaining and articulating on interesting topics makes you deaireable. Many girls love an intelligent man. Find sapiophiles.
/r/seduction11/01/22 04:09 AM
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There is a lot of power in beauty. Many time people don't want to wear nice clothes because it highlights the rest of their flaws. Many times people don't want nice furniture because it highlights the rest of their shitty apartment. And a beautiful woman lights all your insecurities like a Christmas tree. This is why to get one, you have to deal with your inner game.
/r/seduction11/01/22 04:07 AM
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Drinking is a HUGE component of our society. Going out for drinks is embedded in our social fabric and many people may think your are weird for not doing it. Ive often seen people get snubbed like you are bringing the energy down of the group if they are getting sloppy and you are deinking a seltzer. But like any hurdle, it doesn't have to impede you. Not sure why you'd wanna hang around a drinking crowd if you don't enjoy a drink
/r/seduction11/01/22 04:04 AM
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I suffer the same thing. But there is nothing wrong with saying hi, just remember that if you do say hi - you have to do 90% of the talking. If you see she is getting increasingly agitated you can leave politely if you are wanting to be respectful of her space. And before someone wants to say "That's beta", not all men want to merely ruin every woman's peace just because we want to "pick up"
/r/seduction11/01/22 03:47 AM
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Why are you being such an idiot?
/r/seduction11/01/22 03:37 AM
1

If you are beginner and new - you should ask, girls will not be off put "I kind of want to kiss you right now". Once you've done a lot of it, you can read when it's time - but go in slow and confidently.
/r/seduction11/01/22 03:36 AM
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Long distance is oneitis. Don't do it. It's a beta lack of abundance mentality and 99% of the time it ends poorly. Don't tell a woman how you feel about her until a true relationship has formed and she tells you that she has fallen for you. A woman does not care how you feel about her, she cares about how she feels about you. Telling her just displays you are too scared to flirt and you are low value, so you think telling her is a way to lock her in - but it doesn't.
/r/seduction10/01/22 11:33 PM
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If you leave everytime a girl pushes you away you are gonna be one lonely dude. Also you are setting yourself up for onitis. Girls can sense this a mile away. So you are a self fulfilling prophecy. First you come on too strong, second you are too insecure to fight through a woman pushing you away and three you focus only on one girl.
/r/seduction09/01/22 07:12 PM
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Tattoos display low socio-economic status. High value mature girls grow out of liking tattoos in early 20s. There's a reason why getting tattoos usually occurs in teenagers and most result in regret.
/r/seduction07/01/22 01:08 AM
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Lol fuck that. Nothing says insecurity and trauma physically manifested via a tattoo. Case in point, what OP just said.
/r/seduction07/01/22 12:57 AM
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Definitely text. Calling someone is intrusive in today's day and age. If you do want to call, ask first via text.
/r/seduction07/01/22 12:15 AM
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Isn't that kinda what I said? 🤔
/r/seduction27/03/21 12:11 AM
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I disagree - it is a nice reminder not to be a shallow cunt that lacks depth. So many dudes here need to learn to go out and spend less time thinking about girls and invest time in themselves to develop as a human and become interesting.
/r/seduction26/03/21 12:49 PM
1

So you want to build a brand for yourself and create content. You will need a theme that suits you and it has to be unique to you or you wont be able to keep it up. Have anything in mind?
/r/seduction19/01/20 05:43 PM
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If you want to form a close bond with your partner you need to be an open book to them without telling them they need to fix you. Tell her how you are feeling despite knowing it doesnt make sense. Ultimately you want to feel attractive to her and you feel loved and you want to be the one she feels that way about above ALL ELSE. So talk with her and let her tell you.
/r/seduction19/01/20 04:28 PM
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You sound insecure and meeting all these women is a way for not facing your inner emotions. From the story, it sounds like you have built a habit or addiction of moving from girl to girl as fast as you can. The girls have become nothing but objects to you such that the human component has almost been eliminated entirely - the process has been removed. You just want your 'ends' without the 'means' and human interaction, this is drawn for you own testimony that you if rejection is in it's way you …
/r/seduction19/01/20 04:24 PM
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Inspiration for what? Dressing? Personality? Pizazz? New persona?
/r/seduction19/01/20 04:08 PM
1

Not really, no. In fact there are more dead end jobs than NON dead end jobs. But only you know what resonates with you. I recommend a career counsellor
/r/seduction02/12/19 01:25 AM
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Something with a career path that goes up up up and makes more money with every year as you move up
/r/seduction02/12/19 12:35 AM
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Yiu need to be MORE proactive. Too much is still left to chance. You need a sustainable career path and you need to start ASAP
/r/seduction02/12/19 12:22 AM
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You have to get out of the absolute dump hole town you live in. Of course your life is going to go absolutely nowhere if you dont. So what steps are you taking to get out?
/r/seduction01/12/19 03:51 PM
2

Having meaningless sex is pretty boring. Especially once you have sex with someone whom you have deep emotional connection with. You never wanna go back.
/r/seduction01/12/19 03:50 PM
1

Okay, so do you know what your number one problem is? The thing you have to fir as soon as f'n possible?
/r/seduction01/12/19 07:27 AM
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So what are you waiting for? Like, what is holding you up?
/r/seduction01/12/19 01:25 AM
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What you mean "peaked" already through the aging timeline? You are 25 years old. Still just a baby 😂
/r/seduction01/12/19 12:51 AM
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Chatting to a stranger via text is bound to run dry after 20 or so texts. People on dating apps arnt looking to just text, they want to meet in person, so expedite it.
/r/seduction30/11/19 10:21 PM
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The idea is that you live an authentic life and in doing so you become radiant, happy and attractive. Since you are doing everything you enjoy and you dont NEED anyone, eventually someone in that same wavelength will bump into you. Of course it can take a very long time.
/r/seduction30/11/19 10:20 PM
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Guys always try to play these games artificially and it just results in limited success. And even if it does work, it is temporary. With each week that passes the game changes. The key is to get a life that you actually enjoy. If you are sitting around in emotional turmoil wondering about a girl, you wont fare well, period
/r/seduction30/11/19 05:49 PM
2

This. Look at any couple and you will see they are usually within 1 and a half points of eachother. Yes girls are less visual than men and sometimes you see and ugly dude with a hit chick, but it is the exception to the rule.
/r/seduction30/11/19 05:47 PM
2

When she requests stuff deny her. Q: "I wanna fuck" Potential Answers: "What makes you think you deserve it?" "What are you going to do for it?" "Ya? And what if you come here and I don't let you" "Oh? What if I want to do other things to you first?" "Sounds demanding. I may have to tie you up when you get here" - be sure you have enough rapport for this and she seems like the type of girl who is into it AND trusts you
/r/seduction30/11/19 03:34 PM
3

Lol if you are losing girls it is definitely not the phone. You'll get ghosted just as much
/r/seduction30/11/19 03:31 PM
3

You the champ!!!
/r/seduction30/11/19 07:21 AM
3

You guys have horrible game if that is your attitude. I do it all the time. It shows higher status.
/r/seduction30/11/19 07:09 AM
-2

You so cool. Pointing out there are numerous ways to go about things in different contexts. Way to go, you. Tell everyone how great you feel!! 🏅🏆
/r/seduction30/11/19 07:09 AM
7

Yup, if you built up some real rapport with her and she views you as a catch. But you just cold approached and didnt spend much time with her, nah.
/r/seduction30/11/19 01:48 AM
3

Black eye? Dude! If a fight breaks put in a club, GTFO. Ive seen bystanders get stabbed. Knocked out. Stray beer bottles smashing peoples teeth out. List goes on and on. GTFO.
/r/seduction06/05/19 02:15 AM
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Lol, not saying it isnt. Dunno where your from, but where I am from, it is a pipedream. More equity means absolute shit all if you cant afford to save cash as you build thay equity. So you are 65 and you have a home worth 1.5M, good for you... you have to live somewhere, where your savings at? And I dunno your age, but as you get older, the less you want to live with roomies.
/r/MGTOW19/03/19 09:14 PM
5

007 being a girl... FFS. Do you know how many girls I know cry and complain how "Men arent men anymore". Yes cause they cut our balls off every chance they get!
/r/MGTOW19/03/19 08:32 PM
5

The point is that buying a house with more bedrooms than one is absurd. 380k for a house would be an absolute bargain.
/r/MGTOW19/03/19 08:29 PM
10

These dollar values are cheap compared to where I am from. They forgot to factor in university costs and alimony.
/r/MGTOW19/03/19 08:27 PM
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Not to mention the immense risk. Alimony + Childsupport. Courts still greatly favor women. As much as qomen love to figjt for equality, funny how they dont seem to make any headway into that area. Gender paygap? Yea, so we can afford alimony and paying for all the dates 😂
/r/MGTOW19/03/19 08:26 PM
-4

Yes this is fine if LITERALLY all you want to do is have kids and watch TV. Oh and forget retirement.
/r/MGTOW19/03/19 07:49 PM
1

Ya, too much opportunity for things to go south real quick if you strike a nerve. On the 3rd date, you will likely have enough rapport to pull out of that.
/r/seduction06/03/19 04:37 PM
4

Lol this is horrible advice for a 1st date. Great advice for a 3rd.
/r/seduction06/03/19 03:55 PM
8

More and more guys are doing this now and so many women from where I love keep parroting "omg men these days are like boys. They dont grow up. No good guys around!" All pissy because their resources are drying up like we OWE them something.
/r/MGTOW06/03/19 12:16 AM
43

Lol 70k. Try 250k buddy. And in todays day and age, it doesnt stop at age 18, so prolley more. + university $$
/r/MGTOW03/03/19 03:22 PM
7

This. I have no idea why there is no cut off. It isnt like the child becomes more expenaive as earnings go up. And do away from alimony. And then girls qonder why no guy want to commit lol
/r/MGTOW01/03/19 02:39 PM
1

Yup and to blow your mind even more. If you dont try, you are experiencing the rejection RIGHT NOW. Anything you worry about in your mind, you are living it. If I start thinking a loved one is gonna die, I am experiencing the sadness and anxiety as though they died. If you are scared of getting rejected by a hot woman, you are experiencing the insecurity and depression of getting rejected. Difference is, if you try, you have a chance to get out!
/r/seduction17/02/19 12:56 AM
3

It pisses me off that the host gives this "awww" sound like he took it too far lol. Those women are absolutely delusional.
/r/MGTOW13/02/19 06:46 AM
4

Damn, it still cuts off after that burn. I wanted to see more.
/r/MGTOW13/02/19 06:05 AM
3

Haha furthermore, alimony does not equal child support. Children have nothing to do with alimony. So that excuse is BS. Id love to see the rest of thar clip
/r/MGTOW13/02/19 05:58 AM
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Never seemed to make any headway into the whole "women should pay for dates" area though, have they? Any girl I talk to thinks if a guy doesnt pay on the first date he is not worth a second date.
/r/MGTOW13/02/19 05:53 AM
2

Haha ya, well it rains non-stop here. But it is +4 here right now so cant complain 😁
/r/MGTOW04/02/19 06:35 PM
3

Lol nope, Vancouver. Toronto is SUPER friendly in comparison.
/r/MGTOW04/02/19 05:32 PM
5

Guys who read shit like this are the ones that get friendzoned. Honestly, the key to not getting friend zoned is to not care about getting friendzoned.
/r/seduction02/02/19 06:37 AM
2

It is because girls can sniff the bullshit. They are actually looking for men who are being their best self as opposed to just pickup artist like deangelo and company. It is best to forget girls completely snd work on yourself. Ironically that will bring you more girls because youll standout amoung all the guys tripping over their feet trying to impress the ladies.
/r/seduction01/02/19 06:10 AM
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I live im a city where girls are EXTEEMELY unapproachable. Very rude. And it isnt just anecdotal experience. All men complain how hard it is to tslk to women. Very unfriendly and cold. Then you constantly hear girls bitch and moan about how guys here are pussies and they dont have the balls to approach them. But they sit around with that resting bitch face.
/r/MGTOW31/01/19 07:16 PM
1

First gf didnt much cate for sex. I thought all girls were like that. Second girlfriend wanted it ALL the time. Every girlfriend after that would always be tearing off my clothes.
/r/seduction13/01/19 10:46 PM
8

But then bitch at why men make more money. Unfair!
/r/MGTOW13/01/19 10:07 PM
8

One thing that pisses me off is how so many girls still think men should pay for dates. Seems like it is ALWAYS snowing on that front.
/r/MGTOW31/12/18 04:28 PM
2

If you get married your life has potential to be okay. If you get divorced you are fucked. If you stay single you can do whatever the fuck you want and make your life great!
/r/MGTOW21/12/18 04:32 PM
-15

Not really for tearing women down like that but that was fucking funny 😂
/r/MGTOW08/12/18 06:52 AM
1

Because people have been trained to think all men are sexual offenders from the media constantly taking a small subset of men and constantly conditioning the public that this is how we are. So it is okay for everyone to say this since we are "horrible people".
/r/MGTOW03/11/18 12:27 PM
41

If anything, feminists should be up in arms about girls that lie. It fucks up things for women who don't.
/r/MGTOW03/11/18 07:54 AM
2

Yup and in my 20s I was a sheep. Albeit i lived in a small shithole town and there was really not much else to do.
/r/MGTOW02/11/18 07:37 PM
5

Man, my 20s sucked compared to 30s. None of my friends club amymore, we actually do fun shit. Man i hated waiting in LONG lineups to pay 20 dollars cover to go to some SHITHOLE place where it is too loud to have a conversation and then buy overly priced drinks. Standing there like an idiot. The only time I could have fun is if i got drunk and foubd some sweaty girl equally drunk to makeout with because that is literally all you can do in that loud dumphole. Wakeup the next day with a hangover an…
/r/MGTOW02/11/18 05:00 PM
3

Im willing to bet these girls are very young. They want excitment and fun and to sleep around and travel. Then they turn 32 and NOW they want some nice sucker guy to treat like a resource. NOW they want the guys that were around when they were in their 20s. Then they get jaded and pissy and talk about how guys in their 30s are boys and none of them want to settle down and get married. The guys that DO fall for it dissapear from their life once the girl has a baby. It is Aaallll about her and the…
/r/MGTOW02/11/18 04:54 PM
8

I dont know where you are from but for me teachers are paid like 75k a year and they still bitch. That is over 100k a year if you factor in their 3 months vacation. And it isnt a secret about a teachers salary. Frankly they should be paid less
/r/MGTOW31/10/18 06:01 AM
6

If you fall of a chair wrong you can die.
/r/MGTOW28/10/18 12:03 AM
4

Yup. Women dont give a fuck about men when it boils down to it. I got into an argumebt with a group of women who think men should pay for the first date and if they dont, theyd not date him again. Lolsies
/r/MGTOW21/10/18 10:19 PM
1

Could you have took a worse picture? Haha
/r/MGTOW21/10/18 05:42 AM
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Yes and furthmore, it dicredits women who have ACTUALLY been raped. Women should be up in arms as well.
/r/MGTOW21/10/18 05:33 AM
3

OP had feelings for her, your response is inauthentic and just makes you sound sour. You guys try to hard to NOT be "beta", then fail.
/r/seduction25/09/18 05:58 AM
6

IMO, the juice aint worth the squeeze re: cold approaching. I got too many other things going on to do that.
/r/seduction24/09/18 08:55 PM
13

Sorry, but you parting statement reaks of sourness and self-preservation. Ironic you end up delivering a beta statement while trying to sound alpha. You merely solidified her decision in her mind.
/r/seduction24/09/18 08:47 PM
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Take it with a grain of salt. There is good info out there. Just be wary of the guys that talk about beta/alpha. Many get that concept very confused and dont have a grasp on what confidence actually is. If nothing else, it can really hit home what you DONT want by listening to a lot of them. But yea, guys like these are doorknobs. Make it difficult for the rest of us.
/r/seduction24/09/18 08:45 PM
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What a dick thing to say honestly. Really takes the humanity out if the interaction. People sometimes equate ALPHA with ASSHOLE. There is absolutely NOTHING beta about being nice, open, honest and parting ways while leaving the door open. "Im sorry to hear that, was really starting to like ya :). But I really appreciate you being so up front with me - I understand. Probably good to take some time off but feel free to get in touch if you want to hangout sometime."
/r/seduction24/09/18 08:43 PM
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Catcalling is just idiocy. It is rude and disrespectful. Guys have no idea how demeaning and annoying it is for a girk to have rhat happen to her constantly throughout the day. And you know who ISN'T approaching her? Nice guys. Because nice guys are too scared. So you get a plethora of douche bags who just want her for her ass, and it all mixes into one so when a good guy DOES comes around, he is just the next one so he gets labelled right away. A lobg while back I moved to a neighborhood that w…
/r/seduction22/09/18 03:38 PM
9

It needs to be capped. I pay child support and Im proud of it. My son needs money to live. But there needs to be a threshold. Why the fuck should I have to give more money because I get a raise? Fuck that shit. That is when my money starts going to her and not my son.
/r/MGTOW22/09/18 03:52 AM
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Wedding = dick retirement party. The whole act of it just makes the guy look like such a fucking dipshit. No one and I mean NO one cares about the groom. Literally a 25k party for her to dress up and prance around like a giant attention whore for one whole night.
/r/MGTOW22/09/18 03:39 AM
1

What a fucking idiot.
/r/MGTOW22/09/18 03:36 AM
2

Well basically those crazy annoying 20 year olds who cant seem to get it together.... those are the ones in their 30s who are jaded, emotionally unstable and sour. It is just more apparant and immediately recognizeable. The gap has widened. 20 year olds it isnt apparant who is crazy and who is not. I prefer it to be all weeded out. Furthermore a 20 year old is broke assed. Youll pay for her. Wanna go on a trip together? Likely gonna be a 3 star resort in mexico. To each his own though haha.
/r/seduction21/09/18 04:41 PM
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Haha too true. But the difference in life experience and being the teacher gets draining. Ego boost is great for a while
/r/seduction20/09/18 07:11 PM
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30 year olds are where it is at. If they did things right, they still have the looks of a 20 year old minus the mentality of a 20 year old. They are finally starting to get a clue and have interesting things to talk about.
/r/seduction20/09/18 04:16 PM
2

Stop dating until you enjoy things despite girls. Join public speaking and take an inprov class. Done. Why? You lack confidence. Find your centre. Facing your fears is what you need
/r/seduction15/09/18 05:04 PM
1

Nah, that isn't true. Depends on your mood, deliverance, looks, who you are. I can get away with it because I have a very disarming nature. I have a harmless gay vibe, but not gay.
/r/seduction13/09/18 03:17 PM
5

Lol I actually did this exact thing. It was a sex dream and I just layed it all out in the first message without telling her the ending. Drove her wild to find out the ending. 😎 Risky move though; know your audience.
/r/seduction13/09/18 05:22 AM
5

I live in a big city and I observe my friends who are heavy Tinder users both male and female and there is a CLEAR distinction between the quality of people who use Tinder and those who dont. Furthermore they perpetually bitch about not finding a good guy/girl. Stable, healthy people who have active lives and are part of sports teams, classes and social activities are too busy meeting people naturally as opposed to sitting at home swiping.
/r/seduction06/09/18 03:12 AM
2

Does what change at 30? Lots does, but what specifically?
/r/seduction21/08/18 12:31 AM
2

Focus on life; not girls. Like everything in life, it is about balance. Focus on hobbies and friends and put sex/romance on the shelf more often than not.
/r/seduction20/08/18 09:25 PM
2

Do the best with what you got. You are ten times better looking as a baby faced confident guy who rocks it than a guy with a baby face who tries to make it look different than it is. Are you a shy awkward nerd? Rock it. Hair falling out? Rock the fucking horse shoe. Big assed nose? Rock it. Guys have it so easy when attracting girls. All you have to do is fucking rock it, god dammit! Quit making it more complicated than it is.
/r/seduction14/08/18 03:25 AM
4

Poor effortless texting often translates to poor conversation IRL. Not saying to carry out long drawn put convos via text, but typically if texting is boring all the time, so is she.
/r/seduction14/08/18 03:21 AM
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You think you are competing with them but you arnt. You come at it from the wrong angle. You come from the mentality of scarcity, fear and anxiety. You over analyze and instead of looking to the positive of what I said you waste time pointing out what is wrong. That is the problem with you analytical types. This is why you talk tourself out of things amd have trouble with girls. Go out and do things. All things. Girls will rise to the surface. One that matches you will come to you.
/r/seduction03/08/18 03:43 PM
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Depends where you live & go. Or what you do with it. I live in a large city. Definitely mostly girls.
/r/seduction03/08/18 04:28 AM
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Do whatever. Join a meetup.com around you. Take some classes un your area. Where I live they offer all sorts of classes. Just google it up.
/r/seduction01/08/18 05:34 AM
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I actually find Yoga to be horrible. Mainly because it is very zen focused. People are encouraged to be quiet and focus on their practice and often it is an escape from the busy chattering life. No doubt it is 90% girls, but I try to partake in activities that encourage conversation and interaction. Yoga doesnt.
/r/seduction31/07/18 03:42 PM
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Dance class, dont be shy. It is super fun and girls LOVE guys who can dance. Dont worry if you have no 8dea how to do it, the fact you have now idea how yet jave the balls to learn makes girls swoon. Photography. Girls love it. Also girls love gettibg treated like models. Meet models. Co-ed sports teams are bear. Vball. Dodge ball. Ultimate frisbee.
/r/seduction31/07/18 05:56 AM
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That is great, it sounds like you have it down. For me, I find idle chit chat painfully boring. I am horrible at it and would rather just go about my day. Of course I know I miss out on opportunity and of course I qish I coyld just walk up to the hot girl at coffee and strike up a convo. But fantasu is different than reality and the fact is I just cannot be bothered to go through that process. Meet, talk, get number, text and build rapporte, maybe she ghosts or maybe she doesnt, a few dates, may…
/r/seduction30/07/18 04:13 PM
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They were just examples. Join what you like. And i didnt say just to meet girls. You do something fun and meet people in the process. Win win. Take what you want from what I said.
/r/seduction30/07/18 03:59 PM
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Ya I agree. That is why I put it in quotes. Most people have a very skewed idea of what alpha male actually is. But you get it :)
/r/seduction30/07/18 03:57 PM
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Yea, I tried it. It isnt for me :) I just really cant be bothered and havent had issues picking up girls
/r/seduction30/07/18 03:56 PM
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Cold is not necessairly great for self esteem. It works for some and not for others. It is skill, but not necessary. Cold pickups are awkward and unnatural, and some just dont have the time because theyd rather focus on other things in life. If you work on bettering yourself then nothibg lost if you dont meet anyone in the process. I find guys who are good at cold pickups have a very high drive for sex. I love sex too, just with girlfriends and not randoms. I much prefer to get to know someone f…
/r/seduction30/07/18 03:19 PM
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Nice limitted belief and defeatist attitude 👌🏻. Salsa dance is more girls than guys. When I volunteered it was mostly girls. Photofraphy was mostly girls. And the conpetition was not stiff. Maybe actually go out into the world and try a few things instead of coming to uninformed conclusions and giving advice you have no place giving.
/r/seduction30/07/18 01:49 PM
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So start one! Be a leader you miserable human being!
/r/seduction30/07/18 06:48 AM
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Lol you are one miserable dude. All the coaches at S.O. were female. They are intelligent, successful, eeucated, active and great personalities and compassionate. Know what else? They aint on Tinder. Like most girls of quality, they are out doing shit. I used ot as an example. Volubteering is a great way to network. Anyways, please stop messaging me. You are a sour individual who gets mad at the world aroubd them because they cant fix their own shit so make excuses. Take care, brother.
/r/seduction30/07/18 06:47 AM
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So start one? Think of all the people around you that want to go do something? So be a leader!! There are thinga going on no matter where you live, I wont accept excuses.
/r/seduction30/07/18 06:43 AM
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I 100% would urge you to join things you arbt interested in. I hate dancing and knew nothibg of sals. I joined. I was so nervous I almost ran out and never came back. Looking back it was one of the best things ive ever done. Met 2 amazing chicks. I went to a buddhist meditation group when normally I wouldnt and had one of the most amazing eye opening experiences Ive ever had in my life. You NEVER know who you wull meet or when. Join everything you can. The best thing? People who go to these thin…
/r/seduction30/07/18 06:42 AM
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Your attitude is so sour and negative not to mention presumptuous and full of anecdote based evidence and advice you have no business giving. I play meetup vball for free on the beach all summer - free. People bring out nets and balls. Every Wedbesday I go out with a groyp of photographers and models donate their time. These are photographers that give free lessons for fun. Hackspace is a rpbotics club where you can use their facilities for FREE! I coached special olympics - that is volubteer wo…
/r/seduction30/07/18 05:17 AM
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See? You dont have to be this big "alpha male" guy. Girls who are out doing stuff are compassionate. They want real people/men
/r/seduction30/07/18 05:12 AM
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Being in classes and socializing is a very normal natural way to build relationships/friendships. It builds confidence and social skills and in turn helps with self esteen issues. What destroys self esteem is coming to a place like this thinking you have to study tricks and pickup lines and learn how betas become alpha etc. That isn't even necessary and clubs and Tinder is certainly not natural or healthy long term behaviour. It is great if you wanna just go and cycle the girls and bang, but it …
/r/seduction30/07/18 04:03 AM
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You are on the wrong sub for your personality type. All these guys think cold approaching at clubs, malls, coffee shops, etc. is the only way to do it. Ignore them and their downvotes, it isnt for you. You need to setup a system that puts you in the proximity of girls frequently. Take advantage of the "mere-exposure" effect. It is a psychological phenomenon where people tend to like other people who are familiar to them. This occurs after being in someones presence day after day. How you do this…
/r/seduction30/07/18 03:33 AM
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There have been psychological studies to show that when people read too much "self help" it actually decreases their liklihood of taking action. This is because the mind starts building a fantasy and this fantasy can be JUST rewarding enough that it removes the drive to carry out action. This is why the most likely people to buy "self help" are people who consume lots of "self help".
/r/seduction21/07/18 02:15 PM
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Stick to jerking off, bud. And try to settle tf down. At this rate you are headed for trouble in more ways than one.
/r/seduction01/07/18 05:33 PM
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Try not to read into these things, it is pointless. There is always a multitude of things that contribute to why a girl or guy leaves a situation. Maybe she only wants to bang. Maybe she has another 2 guys that shed ratjer spend time with. Maybe you were a bad kisser. Maybe your breath stunk. Honestly girls can get VERY offended if they put themselves out there and a man doesnt jump on them. They almost always take it as "I am not attractive enough" and they will do anything to just sweep it und…
/r/seduction09/06/18 04:15 PM
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So? Go to the next one. 😊
/r/seduction02/06/18 04:15 AM
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It is an "in" but could go either way. Girls dont explicitly say stuff like that unless they want more of what you got.
/r/seduction26/05/18 06:16 AM
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Guys, please leave girls at the gym alone. Top complaints of why the dont work out is because guys hit on them. I get you guys want to approach girls and the like but also think of what might be going on for her what that she really may want to keep to herself.
/r/seduction13/05/18 05:35 AM
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The most senstive part pf your body should be your ears. So you can listen to what the fuck she is saying and hinting at!
/r/seduction09/05/18 12:03 AM
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She should cum first... Also be PERFECTLY okay if she doesnt cum. Sometimes she just is not mentally there or you arent doing things right. Doesnt mean she doesnt like it or that you arent good. And trust me, if you think you can get every girl to cum, I hate to tell you, but you have been faked on more times than you know just so she could get you to stop.
/r/seduction09/05/18 12:02 AM
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Haha 2 weeks? How the hell does anyone build a life in 2 weeks? I totally agree with your advice, but usually finding your center takes many months.
/r/seduction01/05/18 11:54 PM
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Love your honesty in the way you wrote it. Good job 👌 Also, try not to think of these things as failures. Remeber these people are human beings and meeting them can be rewarding in its own right. Constantly thinking of them as sex = success can become maladaptive.
/r/seduction29/04/18 03:49 PM
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He alrrady said he wasn't that good looking.
/r/seduction29/04/18 11:41 AM
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Was waiting to say this. Don't hug agirl until she is comfortable. It usbt natural, it doesnt buy you much at all and more likely to ruin your chances.
/r/seduction29/04/18 11:40 AM
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Confidence is being perfectly comfortable with your weaknesses. People think confidence is just being good at everything and not awkward or shy, no. Awkard and shy? Fine. Own it. Confidence will make your awkward shyness endearing. Confidence is moving ahead despite your fears. Not saying you are awkward and shy but it is a typical example.
/r/seduction20/04/18 06:45 AM
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Bullshit. Go somewhere where there are girls, be goodlooking and just dont say anything stupid and girls will flock.
/r/seduction03/04/18 09:31 PM
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The problem is that you ASKED her to fuck lol, what is that? Guys who ask girls to fuck or date or kiss, etc. Do so because they are too scared to flirt. Fear, lack of confidence, nervousness, etc. The most unnattractive quality in a man - and yoi exhibit it when you ask. Mix that with a palpable infatuation amd anxiety and you got yourself one DEEEEEPLY friendzoned dude. Work on your inner game my friend. Forget this girl
/r/seduction31/03/18 02:30 PM
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You gotta just dig in. Start with something. What specifically do you want, that is a good start. How would an ideal date go? What would the girl look like? What would she act like? Youve done nothing but give evasive answers in this thread and accomplished nothing.
/r/seduction25/03/18 06:50 AM
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They all wear that. Girl workout clothes are all like that.
/r/seduction21/03/18 03:30 PM
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Have some respect gentlemen, please give space to women who are just trying to workout. If she isnt looking at you and smiling, stop staring and making her uncomfortable. Damn near 90% of girls I know who worked out at a gym stopped going because of guys oogling them or picking them up. It really annoys me.
/r/seduction21/03/18 02:06 AM
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Haha buddy, you have missed out on zero. If you play your cards right and stay in shape, get a good career rhat pays well and dont get married, your sex life in yourb30s will make any sex you had in your 20s seem like fucking a warm cup of water. You are 22! You are just a kid. You have decades of good sex ahead of you lol
/r/seduction16/03/18 06:02 PM
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People like to TELL other people theg like them only because they are too scared to make a move. Dont do it this way. Next time just SLOWLY move towards her and just kiss her. She likes you. She will let you.
/r/seduction08/03/18 03:42 AM
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Haha I disagree with this. I intentionally ignore these signs. Rejection builds obsession and to not jump on these right away means you seperate yourself from aaaalllll the other meat heads out there. Ive always just done this naturally. If you want her following you around like a lost cub searching for ifs moma at a party, you acknowledge her IOI, but being so rigorous as a lion attacking its prey is beta desperate behavigour. Waving a piece of steak in from of a dogs nose is going to create fi…
/r/seduction06/03/18 03:41 PM
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Wow, the insecurity and over compensation is thick enough you could cut it with a knife! Lol
/r/seduction04/03/18 05:28 AM
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Usually Id just leave and move to the next. You could throw her a text another week and be like "hey want to grab a drink sometime this week?" If she declines then REALLY move to the next.
/r/seduction27/02/18 08:52 AM
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It's true. I feel bad for the women out there 😑
/r/seduction21/02/18 05:15 AM
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How to be told to be a basic cable, entry level guy in over 7 minutes.
/r/seduction20/02/18 08:21 PM
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I couldn't listen for more than 30 seconds, the guy is such an annoying bro. How about trying to talk like a normal human being? Terrible advice anyways. If you aren't good looking a girl isn't going to give you those signs. You are going to have to EARN it.
/r/seduction17/02/18 06:54 AM
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Can you explain this more?
/r/seduction22/01/18 03:50 PM
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the 80% rule is great, but it should also be noted that part of being mentally healthy is to not put too much pressure on yourself. On of the biggest pieces of confidence is being okay with your faults and acknowledging them. Sometimes even 80% is not achievable. Being okay with this and being outward with it can, ironically, actually be inspiring to people. It shows you are human. I'd say a good 90% of people wear masks (maybe 95%), showing them that it's okay to be weak shows that you are stro…
/r/seduction22/01/18 03:49 PM
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No question those highs can be fun and exciting, I just think it's important to make the distinction. There's nothing inherently wrong with indulging in the ego a little bit - it can even be tremendously productive to compare yourself to others. It is important to understand what true confidence is. It isn't a high. Often people think confidence removes all fear, it doesn't. Confidence is largely about not only acknowledging your faults and weaknesses but also showing them and vocalizing. And li…
/r/seduction03/01/18 10:31 PM
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Lol yup, exactly
/r/seduction03/01/18 04:38 PM
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I used to be this way too
/r/seduction03/01/18 04:32 PM
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That is linked to insecurity. When an insecure person is given the power of confidence "a high" they tend to flaunt it. It is likely more of a dopamine rush. A sustainably confident person doesn't act this way.
/r/seduction03/01/18 07:28 AM
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I don't keep company of empty friendships. When I was younger Id hang with anyone; it didn't matter. Now I only have time for close friends. Is that hard to believe for you? It seems so... Do I have other friends that are just for fun? Volleyball? Parties? Fun events? Of course I have those too. They come and go. They still care for me and I them. But 20% Of those become long term meaningful friendships
/r/seduction30/12/17 07:19 PM
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Two things stand out to me. The assumption single women are most likely free every night... huh? You talk to them 1-2 hours on the phone? That seems odd. If you are having issues with "closing" then attraction levels are not high. There is no set amount of time. I usually wait weeks, only because I value sex as an emotional endeavor. I have never had a problem keeping a girl around.
/r/seduction27/12/17 01:59 PM
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Don't concern yourself if you are friend zoned. Assume you aren't until you know that you are.
/r/seduction27/12/17 01:54 PM
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Why do you care? I ask only because I don't understand the point of this post. And what is there to be paranoid about? Paranoia usually requires afear that something bad is going to happen. What bad could come of this?
/r/seduction27/12/17 01:52 PM
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What the hell are you guys taking about??? 23? Old? Lol I am 38 and I have made boatloads of friends and continue to do so. What is with this limitting beleif you cant make friends? What steps are you taking?
/r/seduction27/12/17 01:46 PM
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The best way to not get played is to not sleep with a guy for a few weeks and spend that time getting to know him. It irks me when girls say they were played. This is after she sleeps with him on the first date and continues to have a sex based relationship for weeks afterwards and then to be dumped after she wants more. He was enjoying the sex and so was she. I Don't know why girls think if she gives sex that it should progress into a relationship. She was obviously enjoying it too. Getting pla…
/r/seduction26/12/17 07:15 PM
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It doesnt really matter what you think. What matters is what science says. What do you think lubrication comes from? What organ would be responsible for expelling the "squirt". Explain it to me on an anaromical level.
/r/seduction26/12/17 02:14 AM
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Oh trust me, there is PLENTY of people under this illusion. Bruh. Call it what it is. She is pissing on your nuts.
/r/seduction25/12/17 10:38 PM
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I'm assuming because you are assuming people would be scared of the rock if he walked in the room. Sounds like projection. If they are going into panic mode it is because you are allowing that to happen. Just try what I said. Walk up to them and start asking them ascot themselves.
/r/seduction25/12/17 10:31 PM
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If you really want to have better energy, walk into a room and walk over to the most "beta" guy in the room with a smile, shake his hand. Compliment him and ask him about his day. For someone so "alpha" You sure lack some basic social skills. It isn't hard to make someone feel comfortable with you. You seem like you are the one that is scared Mr. Alpha.
/r/seduction25/12/17 10:03 PM
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This is totally wrong. First, there is difference between confident and cockiness. Cocky people are insecure. They feel a need to overvalue What they are good at to make themselves feel more important and not have to face what they are not good at. Confident people have a calm about them. The most tell take sign of a confident persom is acknowledging their weaknesses and not being afraid to show it. A cocky person cuts people down. A confident person welcomes challenges. What you are taking abou…
/r/seduction25/12/17 09:58 PM
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Just the fact you say they are doing this "beta shit". Who says that? Insecure betas are the ones always pointing out who is beta and who is not. A real alpha doesn't think of these shorts of things. Furthermore an alpha has the ability to make all people comfortable. If Someone is uncomfortable around you it is because you yourself are giving of stone bad energy and it seems you ate someone proud of it. If you face this problem often, it is most certainly you.
/r/seduction25/12/17 09:43 PM
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K, girls dont squirt. Why do people continue with this? If something is coming out, I hate to yell you, but it is PISS. What exaclty do people think is doing the squirting?
/r/seduction25/12/17 09:35 PM
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It is just a round about way of saying just go out and do something productive but taking 20 minutes to say it. Oh and also giving you "tools" that never work but make you think you have some way to mentally avoid just "doing what you know needs to be done."
/r/seduction19/12/17 10:44 AM
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Im in your boat. Sex with random people is extremely boring, linear and risky. What so you mean fuck some souls?
/r/seduction14/12/17 01:47 PM
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If depends what you are looking for. I think a lot of people on this sub just want to get laid. So being someone they arent is the bread and butter if you want to attract maxmimum number of girls. I mean, seduction is the name of the sub.
/r/seduction13/12/17 08:39 PM
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Giving or getting a number means nothing. If you have good rapport, you will hear from her again. He is getting downvoted because the strength in how he is saying it. He is saying not getting their number is a TOTAL waste. It isn't. If you are interestinv and stand out amoung other guys, she is going to text you. It is power vs. Force scenario. Power is always better; in all aspects of life. Remember that!
/r/seduction08/12/17 08:09 AM
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If you are being agressive yes. If you are laid back and relaxed and interacting edge wise, it isn't the case.
/r/seduction07/12/17 05:14 PM
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This isnt true at all. If the girl asks for your number she is doing it with intent. She really likes something about you. I have a very passive attitude when it comes to meeting girls. I can take it or leave it. What I have found is that it leads to girls asking my number. A theory that I will pull out of my ass is that I think they wonder why I am not hitting on them so it garners their interest. I'd say it 8 times out of time they message me asking me to do something. Many of my friends who g…
/r/seduction07/12/17 05:02 PM
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Well what are you doing currently? Where are you wanting more success?
/r/seduction06/12/17 10:18 PM
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Then what is the point of.making the post at all? I think what it is, is that you know what the answer is but you dont like it because it means you actually have to go do something. Something you dont want to do. The methods used in this sub is not for everyone. It is mostly about agressivelg persuing girls. That might just not be for you. It might not motivate you.
/r/seduction06/12/17 05:13 AM
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Just the fact you dont think to give any more detail on what you have already been trying and the lazy attitude of your post and reponses says that you arent having any enthusiasm. That can be the biggest reason you arent improving.
/r/seduction05/12/17 11:43 PM
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Haha everytime I write a text I CANNONT NOT add "Haha" to almost everything. I am ALWAYS joking around. ALWAYS haha
/r/seduction10/11/17 07:44 PM
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Hehe probably for the best that it isn't that way.....
/r/seduction04/11/17 08:46 PM
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My gay friend often tells me crazy stories about how easily he can hook up with a guy. At his gym be sucks guys off in the shower whom he just met IN the shower. He'd walk down the road and make eye contact with a guy and theyd stop and say "Your house or mine?" Many guys have no problem with having sex on the drop of a hat. Girls are not this way. They DO want sex and hookups but they will run at the thought of a guy jist saying "I want a one night hookup." So you still gotta do whatever routin…
/r/seduction04/11/17 05:09 PM
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Ahhh okay, gotcha. I had a similar problem (kind of). I grew up in a very rowdy area of town. There waz fighting all the time. People were extremely mean to eachother and lots of bullying. It was either hangout with the tough crowd or get beat on. I got into fights constantly. All my "friends" games were basically fighting. We'd make a circle called "ring of fire" and two people got thrown in and had to fight or everyone would beat them up. Burning eachother with cigarette lighters. Etc. It was …
/r/seduction17/09/17 03:00 PM
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That you are an actor and so good with improv, yet still seem to struggle a bit with the charisma or keeping people engaged. What do you think the issue is?
/r/seduction17/09/17 08:05 AM
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That is very interesting
/r/seduction17/09/17 03:00 AM
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It sounds like you are lacking charisma. If people are looking at you oddlg or walking away it is because your energy or what you are saying is off putting. May I recommend improv comedy lessons? Beginner lessons arent as bad as youd think. They teach you how to use your surroundings to start to see things differently. How to take what people say and twist it around in a way that is entertaining. It is great practice for people who are terrified of approaching slcial situations.
/r/seduction16/09/17 06:52 PM
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Well I mean, good on society for liking pussies. I think with every generation that comes and goes, men become a little less manly. But I am all for evolution.
/r/seduction28/08/17 06:37 AM
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Basically be nice, but dont be a pussy. The typical "nice guy" that gets friendzoned is a pussy.
/r/seduction27/08/17 11:01 PM
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Haha when a guy gets horned up for another woman it isnt like his wedding ring burns like a cross on the skin of a vampire. He is fidgetty. When I wear a ring and I slip it on and off constantly and put it on other fingers, flip it around, etc. Means nothing, just a ring.
/r/seduction18/08/17 04:59 AM
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Did you even take the time to read what OP wrote in his post? It doesnt sound like you did...
/r/seduction13/08/17 09:08 PM
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Sometimes being smart is a disadvantage, we ten to overanalyze everything. Leads to a lot of analysis paralysis. But yea, it sounds like you are on track with the other things. Id still recommend a dedicated studio for fighting, not just gym classes. You are more likely to stick with it paying for an actual jiu jitsu place. Also, Id say to not do the escort route, it may technically change your label, but it wont change anything else than that.
/r/seduction01/08/17 03:22 PM
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I wonder if you could start phrasing things differeny. Instead of saying things "weak unconfident nice guy." You could say "Someone who needs practice in certain areas." Start with your strengths. Being a nice guy is not at all a bad thing. Women look for this. What you will have to work on is refining your "edge." But dont think of it in a negative context, look at it that you need to hone. Be careful how you talk to youself. Think if you had a son, how would it make him feel if you called him …
/r/seduction01/08/17 01:37 AM
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So what do you think is hindering you? And why an escort? Is it just the label of beijg a virgin that bothers you?
/r/seduction31/07/17 11:21 PM
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Go to an event that includes a lot of people just standing around having drinks. Im not talking the bar, the bar sucks. I am talking an event. A charity. A fashion show. An art gallery. Etc. Look in your local news paper. Go with a group of people. If two girls walk by, lightly touch her arm to get her attention and just say "Hey, how are you girls doing? I am so-and-so." Then let the conversation develop. Introduce them to the group. Get it happening. But dont force it. Not everyone is your cup…
/r/seduction26/07/17 04:08 AM
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Track suits? Lol who the hell wears that? You actually have to look real hard for all that ugly shit. A hoody? Who is going to workout in a hoody? Sweat pants are hot. You expect her to dress in a snow suit just so creepers like you wont hit on her? A girl would have to WORK to find all that ugly attire. Here is a different approach. How about stop being a selfish dolt and stop objectifying women such that you think because she looks good she wants your attention. Trust me, she doesnt, especiall…
/r/seduction22/06/17 03:26 PM
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Yea im so sure the hot girl at the gym is looking to talk to a bunch of over-analytical nerds that try to learn how to pick up girls by reading on how to do it from reddit 👌👌👍👍 You have the social IQ of a gnat if you dont see how you are selfishly objectifying girls who "dress nice". There are a plethora of reasons and, likely, talking to you is not one of them.
/r/seduction22/06/17 12:33 AM
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😄
/r/seduction22/06/17 12:31 AM
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Im not following.
/r/seduction22/06/17 12:26 AM
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Many girls only go to gyms that have girls only. And no, I did not explicitly say that all gyms have it. They most certainly do not. Happy?
/r/seduction21/06/17 08:26 PM
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I guess we just value our time differently. I dont value spending effort and time solely with the intent on meeting girls. I also have ridiculous standards. I am perfectly happy being alone so if a girl is going to take my time, she better be something REALLY special. Looks are the starting point. She better be smart, funny, independant, have a good job. Etc. Being around groups of girls, they rise to the surface quick. And you flirt, etc. Also for me, one of lifes greatest delicacies is the ant…
/r/seduction21/06/17 06:38 PM
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Fair.
/r/seduction21/06/17 06:32 PM
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I beleive success is built upon creating systems that are somewhat effortless and produce success. Volleyball, rock climbing, salsa dance classes, etc. Girls are all doing these things and it promotes mutual interaction. Clubs, the gym, etc. These require you to go up and cold appraoch a girl. You then have to put on an act and carry out all these tricks to get her number. Then what? Text her? Setup a drink? What if you hate her personality? It is a waste of my time and horrible approach. Takes …
/r/seduction21/06/17 04:25 PM
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Haha I didnt change the subject. And im not saving face. I am a anonymous stranger on the internet. Lol the mentality in this sub is mind numbing. The exact example of why girls are standoffish. Haha bunch of losers.
/r/seduction21/06/17 04:07 PM
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Obviously there is a social component. Dont take it so literally. Women dress up for status too. Plenty of psychology surrounding easthetics and humans. It is much more complicated than what people are saying. Trivializing it that they want to be gawked at and approached. Simpletons.
/r/seduction21/06/17 04:05 PM
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Go outside, do things that promote you to naturally socialize with girls. If you are attractive then they will gravitate towards you. You wont need all the tricks you guys attempt to learn in sub like these. Has nothing to do with schooling me.
/r/seduction21/06/17 03:56 PM
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Kk thanks!
/r/seduction21/06/17 03:54 PM
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They are, yes, but overtime you form a friendship and bond. Attraction builds normally. If you would go outside you would see you dont need subs like these to seeuce women. They will actually just gravitate towards you if you get a personality.
/r/seduction21/06/17 03:54 PM
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The fact you have such a deep need to prove to a complete stranger that you are not a loser pretty much says it all. But sure I will live youtube chat with you out of shear curiosity lol how do we do it? Guys that are good with women dont hang around in subs like these. Why? Because they are good with women. I dont even know why I am subscribed to it, first time I have ever posted in it and it will never happen again haha
/r/seduction21/06/17 03:49 PM
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You are so narrow minded.
/r/seduction21/06/17 03:37 PM
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You are just another over-analytical engineer type dude that sits in subs like these reading and intaking tonnes of knowledge with the delusion that he can think his way into figuring out how women work so that he can get one. You log what I said into some formula you read and because you are insecure you want to try to slot me into some "bad with women" catagory to make you feel better about yourself. If I am less than you, you must be better, right? Do yourself a favor and unsubscribe to this …
/r/seduction21/06/17 03:36 PM
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It doesnt seem weird if you hang out in this thread long enough haha
/r/seduction21/06/17 03:28 PM
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Yea, most gyms have that. It is co-ed section and then womans only.
/r/seduction21/06/17 03:28 PM
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It is not fear at all. It is respect. If there is ONE hot topic amoung female groups, it is annoying guys at the gym. Most people are there to workout. When im there, I am sweaty, I am out of breath, I am focusing on getting my shit done. I dont want to talk to anyone, so I have empathy for her.
/r/seduction21/06/17 03:27 PM
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I didnt say there was a chance. If you want to post aome absolutely ridiculous outlandish sce ario to prove the point that she may want .2% of males to talk to her, then yes, there is a counter example to everything. However 99% of the guys in this sub are the exact ones she doesnt want to approach. Every guy thinks they are special but no, they are just the next selfish annoying bag of dicks objectifying her at the gym and interupting her workout.
/r/seduction21/06/17 03:25 PM
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They just wanna workout dude. Every guy thinks the same thing, so you are just the next annoying guy interupting her. It is just selfish and annoying to do.
/r/seduction21/06/17 03:22 PM
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That sounds more accurate.
/r/seduction21/06/17 03:03 PM
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I'm glad you said it. I was thinking the same thing; you just wrote it better.
/r/seduction21/06/17 03:02 PM
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In what game?
/r/seduction21/06/17 02:55 PM
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There isn't a lot of choice on what a girl can wear at the gym. It's tight, it's stylish and it's sexy. The reason there is a 'girls only' portion of the gym is because hard headed people like you rationalize that if a girl looks good, she wants to be gawked at. The mentality of the people in this sub is atrocious lol I don't even know how I am subscribed to it.
/r/seduction21/06/17 02:55 PM
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I dunno where you get all this info from, but you speak like it's fact. I know a lot of girls hate being stared at - that is why there is a "girls only" portion of a gym and if you ever see girls that go in there, they look the same as the girls that don't. That is because there is not a lot of choice on what to wear for gym attire for girls. It's tight, it's sexy and that's pretty much that. You need to stop read so much of this crap and go out there and actually learn from real girls what they…
/r/seduction21/06/17 02:52 PM
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People who make friends at the gym never workout. They just sit around and chin wag. Just go there and pump yo iron and build those muscles and then go out and meet girls. Terrible place to meet girls.
/r/seduction21/06/17 02:48 PM
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Or use the gym to workout and and then go out and get a life. That works too.
/r/seduction21/06/17 07:28 AM
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Sometimes you just wanna look good for yourself. I know I do.
/r/seduction21/06/17 07:27 AM
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This is so true. The biggest problem with people wanting success in this area is by over analyzing the situation. It is like someone looking for steps on how to be happy. The group of.men that are the worst with women are intelligent white analytical men (engineer type) that are extremely nice. They over analyze everything. They think they can solve the problem with their mind. Then you get some guy from brazil who doesnt even CONSIDER rejection with women. You think that guy needs to go through…
/r/seduction13/06/17 02:32 PM
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Just keep on keeping on. No reason to bring it up. Whenever you see yourself analyzing a situation just STOP. What do you want to do in the PRESENT? Wanna take her out for a drink? Then ask her. Want to invite her over? Invite her. Do what you want to do. Never analyze. Just do.
/r/seduction09/06/17 12:00 AM
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Go to restaurants that have hot waitresses and are paid to be friendly. If you cant get comfortable chit chatting with a hot waitress then you wont be able to do it on a cold approach to a rando stranger.
/r/seduction22/05/17 03:46 PM
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Curious where you are approaching? In a club?
/r/seduction10/04/17 10:05 PM
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Where I am from, any girl you talk to just out and about just snubs me off. They are more interested in going where they are going. Do you get a lot of that?
/r/seduction22/03/17 01:29 AM
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