What brings you to this sub?

Seddit_Only · 2018-06-09T16:18:01+00:00

All of the above.

Right now I am young. Early 20's. Of course I want to bang a ton of beautiful women.

But that is a secondary goal. (it was primary when I was 18 and 19!)

I have gone through several stages of self-development and self-realizations over the past 7 years.
The main thing I realized is that I want a fun and interesting life, and an active social life. The techniques you learn here are not just for getting laid, they also help you make friends and be your best self.
You learn to be happy with yourself, which is a plus in the eyes of others. And you learn that it's not about impressing others, it's about being self amused...

That's why getting laid shouldn't be a primary goal. It should always be secondary. Or Third-dary lol.

LimitedContributor · 2018-06-09T19:47:48+00:00

I have yet to have a girlfriend at the age of 27 and realizing it makes me lonely as f. People experience this like by 13.

ThrowawayPUA · 2018-06-09T18:12:14+00:00

The girl I loved snubbed me and instead, took up with a homeless junkie and became a homeless junkie herself. I decided I was tragically mistaken about women.

BoldAndStupid · 2018-06-09T16:48:07+00:00

26, wasted 5 years of my life in a relationship. Got fat in that time. "Woke up" after the break up. Got thin. Started working out. Now I want to be attractive and be wanted. I'm missing the social aspect hardcore and a lot of the posts here boost my confidence to go out alone.

WIA20XX · 2018-06-09T16:33:33+00:00

I was looking for an active pickup forum, but seems they're all dead, or not talking about actual pickup.

wonyeh3 · 2018-06-09T20:55:41+00:00

Wanted to lose my virginity so I started reading this sub and a few others to pick up the slack. I lost it a few weeks ago actually, so I'm on the right track. Now that the v-card monkey is off my back, I just want to get better with girls in general. I can make initial approaches, but I usually struggle with sealing the deal, so that's my focus now and this sub has a lot of info about that. This sub has given me more confidence towards women in general and I just need more practice. Without this sub, I wouldn't have ever thought to make a move on a first date which resulted in me losing my v-card, so this sub has been good for me. Even if you don't want casual sex, this sub has a lot of good stuff about having confidence that is beneficial in all aspects of life, not just getting girls, so browse around and maybe you'll be surprised.

ElDinerio · 2018-06-09T17:57:21+00:00

I want all of the above. I want to step into any given situation and just know that I have options. I seek the abundance mentality because I believe having that thought process and experience allows one to make more informed decisions when seeking higher quality relationships be it for friends or significant others. I want to be able to dive headfirst into fear and swim confidently despite the very real threat of drowning.

Meh. Maybe I just need to calm down. A Failed engagement and then a failed marriage later (different woman) I probably seek clarity just as well.

artimis_ficial · 2018-06-10T06:45:26+00:00

I figured I could find ways to express myself clearly. I don't want anything romantic presently, but if I did I wouldn't feel confident in my ability to act on it. I wanted talk about getting together with people.

muse933277 · 2018-06-10T15:48:07+00:00

Cuz i'm a lonely and horny son of a bitch

idontvapebro96 · 2018-06-10T23:12:22+00:00

Because my teens were full of meaningless hook ups and I never developed relationship skills. Now 22 trying to not be boring asf to women but it isn’t working lol

Title	What brings you to this sub?
Author	OnlyOnceThreetimes
Upvotes	11
Comments	10
Date	June 9, 2018 4:09 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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