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| 12 | 6 Signs Someone is Attracted To YouHow to tell if a guy likes you: He has a boner. | /r/seduction | 12/12/20 08:52 PM |
| 4 | If you’re still single, you should never cut ties with any woman unless she explicitly says she’s disinterested.I disagree; A lot of women are purposefully flaky or say they're too busy because they're simply not interested in you. Many women are indirect and aren't going to say to your face "no i'm not interested", and this confuses the heck out of a lot of guys. And because of this, lots of guys will make the mistake of chasing girls who aren't giving them any sort of investment in return. Iv'e been there, iv'e been led on and confused before. If you feel like you have to work hard and go through obstac… | /r/seduction | 30/06/20 11:23 PM |
| 1 | If you’re still single, you should never cut ties with any woman unless she explicitly says she’s disinterested.Reserved | /r/seduction | 30/06/20 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Porn doesn’t turn me onYou’re lucky. The moment I started, I couldn’t stop. | /r/seduction | 29/06/20 07:33 PM |
| 0 | As a woman, what can I do to gain positive attention and potentially find a good date?Don’t cut your hair short like a boy. Guys don’t find that attractive. Most guys prefer long hair. Also dont look or dress too masculine either; most guys like girls who look somewhat feminine. A lot of girls think they’re too fat when they’re actually not. Some guys actually like thicker girls with a bit of fat, especially if you have a big ass. But there’s a limit to how thick you can be. Obesity is universally unattractive. Lose weight if this applies to you. Girls should hit the gym too. Exe… | /r/seduction | 29/06/20 03:47 PM |
| 1 | As a woman, what can I do to gain positive attention and potentially find a good date?Try to be friendly to guys and make them feel wanted. Yeah guys like pretty girls but guys also like pretty girls who seem warm and friendly, not cold and unapproachable. That means saying hi to guys and calling them by name, showing interest in the conversation, asking them questions in return, etc... Basically practicing good social skills. Don’t be all negative. Don’t act like a moody high strung bitch. That’s a good way to kill any sort of attraction a guy initially had for you. | /r/seduction | 29/06/20 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Is it weird that my mom wants to help me get laid?What is this? The start of a mother-son porno or something? | /r/seduction | 25/06/20 03:59 AM |
| 2 | How Do I (24M) Tell Whether Or Not She (22F) Likes Me Or Just Sees Me As A Friend?Well if you're right, then that's not too surprising. Nobody likes me anyways :'( | /r/seduction | 06/08/19 03:59 AM |
| 22 | To those who spend days imagining a perfect life with a girl, but never met her...I agree Especially don't do this with girls on Tinder. I remember when I first signed up for Tinder and I got several matches, some of them were cute. With a lot of the girls I matched with, I would get super excited, I would build up in my head about us falling in love, becoming a couple, waking up next to one another etc, And I had never even met these girls in real life. Of course being Tinder and all, all of these women would eventually ghost me and I would be completely devastated every sin… | /r/seduction | 24/01/19 11:32 PM |
| 1 | They say men hit their prime at a later age than women, what does a guy's "prime" look like?If we're talking about looks, For women, their prime is usually between 18 to 30, and most women start to hit the wall by the time they're 35. For men, their prime is usually anywhere from 25 to 40. But it depends on the person as well. | /r/seduction | 21/11/18 06:55 PM |
| 1 | What Is The Ideal Penis Size, Ladies?I'm sure if you ask the majority of women, they would say anywhere from 5 to 7 inches. | /r/seduction | 17/11/18 04:05 PM |
| – | How do some of you guys hook up with 50+ girls in a Year?50 girls is only a average of 1 girl per month for 4 years. Are you telling me that the average guy can't achieve that?. Yes. | /r/seduction | 15/11/18 01:30 PM |
| 5 | How do some of you guys hook up with 50+ girls in a Year?Trust me, most guys arne't even hooking up with 20 girls a year, let alone 50. Probably less than 5% of men have even slept with 50+ women in their lifetime. The guys who are sleeping with 50+ girls in a year are either rich, famous, extremely good looking, in addition to doing a lot of pickup, or have fucked a shit ton of prostitutes. | /r/seduction | 14/11/18 02:03 PM |
| 2 | I got rejected but I feel so happy and alive.I actually got rejected today as well, by a girl I met at an event on campus. I saw her and thought she was cute so I went and introduced myself. I figured that even if she said no, I was never going to see her again anyways. It's funny because I thought that I would be pretty upset by her rejecting me (because in the past, I would get upset pretty bad) but I didn't really feel much. It hurt a little bit for maybe an hour? But after that, I was good to go. | /r/seduction | 02/11/18 08:21 AM |
| 14 | Is it a good idea to cold approach random girls in my college cafeteria?You gotta be careful trying to hit a bunch of girls up, you can quickly develop a reputation of being the weird and creepy guy if you're not careful, especially if it's in a confined social circle and you're hitting on every single girl there. Because women like to gossip, they like to talk to their girlfriends about the creepy dudes trying to hit them up and if you hit on them and you creep them out, they will likely talk about you too, and once you get labelled as the creepy needy guy, it's ga… | /r/seduction | 30/10/18 03:10 AM |
| 2 | So the good looking guy in my friend group is a virgin but the obnoxious one who pees on cars gets laid all the time?I know a guy who's 5 ft 3 and asian who has a cute white girlfriend around his height. So yes, even short guys can get girls. But it's just going to be harder. | /r/seduction | 24/10/18 11:48 PM |
| 9 | So the good looking guy in my friend group is a virgin but the obnoxious one who pees on cars gets laid all the time?You don't have to be super attractive to get girls. I know plenty of guys who arne't attractive in the conventional sense who have pretty girlfriends. | /r/seduction | 24/10/18 08:28 PM |
| 4 | Reminder to keep getting checkedIma virgin so don't have to worry about no STD's | /r/seduction | 23/09/18 01:33 PM |
| 1 | 7 Reasons Why You Fail With Girls (And to How to Fix Each One)!RemindMe 40 days | /r/seduction | 21/09/18 02:11 AM |
| 2 | 27 year old never been in a relationshipMy advice would be to start paying attention to other guys and see how they interact with women. Especially guys who are good with women. Pay attention to the way they speak, what they say, how the women responds etc... You can actually learn a lot just by watching other people. | /r/seduction | 19/09/18 11:23 PM |
| 2 | The 10-10-10 rule helps with approach anxiety (Tiny FR)RemindMe! 136 days | /r/seduction | 17/09/18 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Women, how would you like to be approached in college?hey baby, lemme get dem digits | /r/seduction | 10/09/18 04:03 PM |
| 1 | I'm 23 Years Old And Just Went On My Very First DateYeah, I did. So maybe 10 days later, we wound up going to a park. But I got there and her car breaks down, it sucks. So the "date" was waiting for the tow truck to arrive and then me driving her home, we never walked around at all. Pretty shitty time to be honest. She was yelling at me while we were driving, which is understandable since you're upset, but i'm nice enough to drive you back to your house, at least show me some respect. Anyways I tried asking her on more dates, but by that time s… | /r/seduction | 06/09/18 12:44 PM |
| 2 | How many girls do you typically approach before getting a date?Some women could be lying when they say they have a boyfriend to either get rid of you or they want to let you down easy. Not every woman is lying but some women will. | /r/seduction | 26/08/18 07:20 PM |
| 3 | I'm too scared to start cold approach.- Make sure that you look your best. On days that you know you're going to approach, wear your best clothes. Have a good haircut, shower, shave etc... - Smile, speak loud and clearly. - Stand up straight, look people in the eyes, smile. - Your opener isn't super important. It can be an observational opener, it can be a compliment, and if you can't think of anything, just simply open with hey whats your name? I'm Chuck Norris, nice to meet you. - If you want to catch a woman's attention when you'… | /r/seduction | 12/08/18 03:53 AM |
| 1 | I train with a really attractive personal trainerI was in the same situation as you. It's risky. For one thing, if you ask her out and ask for her number and she tells you no, it can get awkward super fast since you two work together. If you were to ask her out, it would likely be better to do it near the end of your sessions with her. Do you know if she has a boyfriend or not? If you know her name, you can try looking her up on Facebook. That can tell you whether she is available or not. Or it might be better to just keep her around as a frie… | /r/seduction | 10/08/18 06:46 PM |
| 1 | My brother is a 24 y.o virgin, how can I help?If you're good with text-game, have him sign up for Tinder and Bumble and then help him message girls that he matches with and try to help him set up dates. | /r/seduction | 10/08/18 06:20 PM |
| 0 | First time cold approaching, 30 day challenge!! (day 1)Good job, keep up the good work! | /r/seduction | 02/08/18 10:42 PM |
| 1 | How I Discovered The Best Place To Meet Single Women (After 10 Years Of Research)You have a low manly voice. | /r/seduction | 01/08/18 05:17 PM |
| 14 | What was your most brutal rejection? Have you ever had a girl just flat out roast you for approaching her?I'm a pretty short guy so one time I was at a bar and I walked up to this girl sitting at the bar and said "hey I think you're cute, and wanted to come say hi". She stands up, I didn't realize how tall she was, she must have been 6 ft 2, so she's towering over me. She looks completely down at me and says "not gonna happen" | /r/seduction | 01/08/18 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Stop Texting Her!I approve | /r/seduction | 21/07/18 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Best reasons to give her the excuse to come over to your place?Come check out my Pokémon card collection | /r/seduction | 07/07/18 02:21 PM |
| 3 | If a pretty girl extends a conversation with me, is it most likely romantic interest?Are you that stupid? Dude, she’s into you. Ask her out on a date bro Being that oblivious is going to make you miss a ton of opportunities, hell you probably already have missed a ton. Ask her out on a date, do it now or you’re going to regret it in the future, trust me. I’m from the future... | /r/seduction | 07/07/18 02:14 PM |
| 2 | I'm 23 Years Old And Just Went On My Very First DateI will message her tomorrow seeing if she wants to hang | /r/seduction | 05/07/18 11:54 PM |
| 1 | I suck at getting dates off Tinder.Yup, being tall is considered an attractive trait for men in almost every society. | /r/seduction | 02/07/18 02:00 AM |
| -1 | I suck at getting dates off Tinder.Your friend is right, Tinder is all about looks. Think about it, when you're swiping on someone, you basically can only judge someone on a couple of pictures and a short bio (oftentimes which says nothing about the person at all). Tinder is basically a beauty contest. Every society has a physical ideal. In many cases, this is being a 6 ft tall athletic good looking white guy. The closer you are to this ideal, the better off you will generally be on Tinder. I would say Tinder is really only worth… | /r/seduction | 02/07/18 01:32 AM |
| 33 | My two cents on “Models”The book itself doesn't go into sheer detail in how to attract a woman, it's not a hugely technical book. But it definitely does give some good advice. | /r/seduction | 30/06/18 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Need Help With Determining Whether Or Not I Should Ask Out This Girl In My ClassShould I wait until the end of the semester or no? It ends late July. | /r/seduction | 29/06/18 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Need Help With Determining Whether Or Not I Should Ask Out This Girl In My ClassShould I wait until the end of the semester or no? I have her Snapchat, should I talk to her this weekend? | /r/seduction | 29/06/18 04:29 PM |
| 1 | How often do you get approached?It was the first month of living in the college dorms and I was sitting by myself at the cafeteria. A cute girl walks up to me and says "hey come sit by us", so I go and sit by these girls at the lunch table. In my mind, I saw this as an opportunity so I instantly broke out of my shyness and became talkative. Anyways, we talk and seem to connect. When we are done eating, they all actually asks me for my Snapchat. Long story short, they had boyfriends, but I did become friends with one of them wh… | /r/seduction | 28/06/18 01:49 PM |
| 3 | My luck with hispanic women has been ridiculous.32 women at the age of 21? You must be really good looking. | /r/seduction | 23/06/18 01:28 PM |
| 1 | 21 Life-Changing Lessons I’ve Learned From Over 5 Years Of Doing Cold Approach Pickup & Developing My Own System For Meeting And Attracting Beautiful Women At Will"Women are attracted to men they can’t have (she wants a challenge)" "Never chase a woman" What do you mean by these? Because if you think about it, if you take these things literally, and you don't approach and talk to her, you will never get the girl. You actually have to talk to a girl in order for her to become interested in you, am I right? You actually have to talk to her and willing to spend time with her? Or am I wrong? If you act aloof, then she just may assume you are uninterested. | /r/seduction | 22/06/18 03:06 PM |
| 9 | 21 Life-Changing Lessons I’ve Learned From Over 5 Years Of Doing Cold Approach Pickup & Developing My Own System For Meeting And Attracting Beautiful Women At Williv'e got burgers up my ass | /r/seduction | 22/06/18 03:02 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with a negative reputation in collegeI get exactly what you're saying. I have aspergers too and have known plenty of other people with aspergers. And yes, some of the people I have known with autism/aspergers tend to come off as the weird or creepy person, to people who don't understand them. What do these particular people with autism/aspergers that come off as weird and creepy have in common? They tend to either neglect their appearance (they look unclean, untidy, or wear sloppy clothes) or they dress very eccentrically which doe… | /r/seduction | 19/06/18 08:31 PM |
| 2 | To all the"Funny" guys. There is no need to perform or make other people laugh ALL THE TIME. Just have a normal conversation with a joke here or there and you'll be okay.I used to be the "funny guy". I was pretty impulsive; I would walk up to people and start saying stupid and funny stuff, I would do and say mischievous things at school and work because I thought it was funny. I was the crazy-stupid-hyper funny guy, simply because that was the only way people actually liked me. The problem was that because I was so funny and mischievous, nobody took me seriously at all. Many people were surprised when I actually said something smart, because they thought I was a… | /r/seduction | 19/06/18 03:03 PM |
| 2 | Here’s How To Approach A Couple For Sex Online. The Right Way…it's funny what you can find in the seduction subreddit. | /r/seduction | 12/06/18 02:25 PM |
| 1 | What do guys look for in girls?Don't be obese, that's one of the biggest deal breakers for men. If you're obese, then consider changing up your diet and getting a gym membership. | /r/seduction | 11/06/18 02:47 AM |
| 1 | What brings you to this sub?Cuz i'm a lonely and horny son of a bitch | /r/seduction | 10/06/18 03:48 PM |
| 2 | Was This A Missed Opportunity With A Girl?Well thanks for raising my confidence guys... not! | /r/seduction | 10/06/18 03:46 PM |
| 1 | A guy asked me out , how to decline politely ?If a guy asks you out and you're not interested in him, saying you're too busy is one of the worst ways you can possibly reject someone. For one thing, you're not making it clear that you're either uninterested or unavailable, so he's going to keep asking you out since he's probably just going to assume you truly are too busy and then just ask you out again. Just be direct with him, tell him whats up. Here's what you should say to him next time he asks you out. "(Name of guy asking you out), tha… | /r/seduction | 07/06/18 09:29 PM |
| 15 | I’m Flattered but I’m Engaged - 100 Women in 50 Days - Day 5When you approach these women, how do you usually start the conversation? | /r/seduction | 07/06/18 09:17 PM |
| 7 | Can insecure guy (22) be non-needy?Being needy on a fundamental level means that you are basing your worth and value on the approval from women, when you place a higher importance on what women think of you than what you think of yourself. The key to being non-needy is to not base your happiness on the approval from women, but on what you think of yourself. Neediness is a mindset. To be non-needy, you need to change your mindset. Here are several ways to naturally become more non-needy: -Develop a life for yourself. - When you're… | /r/seduction | 05/06/18 08:37 PM |
| 2 | Will my SMV increase because of my hot girlfriend?Oh yeah dude, all of your female friends will be throwing themselves at you. They'll all be thinking "woah his gf is hot, he must be a super alpha greek god." Don't be surprised if you get flooded with Snapchat messages from girls who start apologizing for friend-zoning you. Just tell them you're a professional goalie and then block them. | /r/seduction | 28/05/18 02:19 PM |
| 1 | Where to meet women-Volunteer somewhere (If you're sporty, live in a decent sized college town, and looking for girls in 18-22 range, you can try special olympics) -Taking classes -Go to meetup.com and look for groups to join in your area -Get a dog and head on over to the dog park -If you're in college by joining clubs -Through work -Through your friends. Invite your friends out and get them to bring their female friends along -Online dating. There's the traditional Tinder, Bumble, OkCupid, Plenty of Fish. There'… | /r/seduction | 28/05/18 01:54 PM |
| 1 | Saw this on r/getmotivated and it really hit home with meI'm the one who actually wrote that comment on Pornhub, i'm Manoflovexx1. I wrote it on an amateur hotel video posted by amateur star Lindsay Love. Anyways I saw this guy who wrote a comment saying how he wished he had a beautiful girl, and I replied to his comment by just saying stuff from personal experience. | /r/seduction | 23/05/18 03:16 AM |
| 1 | Going To Do Some Cold Approach At College This Summer, Should I Ask For A Girl's # Or Snapchat?You're starting community college? That's cool, good luck. You should try something this semester. In all of your classes, try to make a new friend or aquaitence in each class that you're taking. Sit by someone and talk to them and get to know them, then maybe you can help each other out with study guides and stuff. Hey if there's any cute girls in your class, you can try sitting by them and talking to them. Just try to find out if they're single or not beforehand so you're not wasting your time… | /r/seduction | 23/05/18 02:38 AM |
| 5 | So Many Missed Opportunities With WomenWell I mean yeah you're right, there are billions of girls out there. But out of 3 billion girls, how many are realistically dateable? Let's just say you're a 25 year old man, you probably arne't going to date anybody younger than 18, and don't want to date anybody over 40, that takes away a huge chunk of women. And let's just say you're looking for girls in the 18-30 age range, they have to live near you, they have to be single, and there has to be some sort of mutual attraction between you two… | /r/seduction | 20/05/18 08:56 PM |
| 1 | The Unexpected Cause of All Your Insecuritiesi approve | /r/seduction | 19/05/18 03:06 AM |
| 1 | Step-By-Step Guide to Attracting Your Dream Girl… If You’re Underachieving with Women, This Is All YOU’LL Need… Or If You Are Experienced, You Can Use This To Attract An Abundance Of Beautiful Women, GUARANTEED!i approve | /r/seduction | 11/05/18 03:39 AM |
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