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Women tend to rewrite history depending on emotions at a time. If a woman suddenly is unattracted to her husband (e.g. he cries when his father dies) she may tell him "I never loved you, I never orgasmed during sex it was all fake, I never found you attractive". In the moment she will feel strongly that this is true, even if it really isnt. As a consequence she will feel angry for all the times she was nice to him or respectful towards him over the years. Suddenly there is a massive debt of emot…
/r/MensRights15/08/23 05:13 PM
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This woman got NO PRISON TIME after blindfolding her date and stabbing him twice in the neck for "revenge" against Trump drone striking an Iranian leader. https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-12363367/Nika-Nikoubin-says-previous-rape-stab-man-sex-Vegas-hotel-avenge-Iranian-drone-strike-avoids-jail.html
/r/MensRights09/08/23 10:29 AM
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I was here in 2012 (have many alts). The original 500 posters here were very smart and posting such original takes. It originally came from manosphere blogs. The quality of blogs was far higher than quality of posts here. But the posters here were of that calibre but with their own ideas and observations and frameworks. This place was super political. Strongly against Title IX. This place officially endorsed Trump and nearly everyone agreed. Just a couple years later it was 50/50 left wing right…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/23 07:14 PM
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I am pro abortion. But using your analogy to abortion: a better analogy would be the government forcing women to have abortions without their consent when the mother wanted to have the baby. That too is forced sterilisation and a form of genocide.
/r/MensRights21/07/23 08:55 PM
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Im not going to share or crowdsource it. There are too many people attacking me and namecalling me in this thread alone. If I collected evidence they would just grab the low hanging fruit and report it all as soon as possible, giving it to the misandrist moderators hands, instead of sending it to reddit admins all at one at a pivotal point in time (e.g. incoming IPO) while creating a public fuss and some memes surrounding it. Too many enemies within here.
/r/MensRights21/07/23 04:15 PM
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Some of you really need to read some Sun Tzu. I might have collaborated with people here to crowdsource a list of calls to violence on that subreddit. But you've all demonstrated: Inability to find the post even given exact instructions on how to locate it Pretending instructions were not given, as it would require you to do any work Inability to understand playing the long game Attacking me as "surrendering" or being a "troll" as you simply are not able to understand its best to compile these t…
/r/MensRights21/07/23 03:37 PM
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I understand you are from an African country. I cant begin to imagine what its like there. Thats very interesting to hear as an outsider and Im going to learn about how those laws are structured.
/r/MensRights21/07/23 03:29 PM
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Lol what do you even want? Ive told you how to find the post if you want to report it. Go win your little battle. Make a comment 4 months old that nobody is even reading disappear. Go protect the reputation of the misandrist subreddit
/r/MensRights21/07/23 03:26 PM
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My post would be taken down if I included the names. You can always find posts on google by using site:reddit.com/r/XXXX "some long piece of text in the image" But its in my longer term interests to not have them taken down. Instead over time collect them, make lists, create archive links to repeated calls to violence, and at a pivotal moment release it all at once I may or may not do that. Ill probably forget. I have many different goals I encourage you to seek to win bigger battles than the im…
/r/MensRights21/07/23 03:09 PM
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I dont understand your point? Can you be a little less vague?
/r/MensRights21/07/23 02:39 PM
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There are many more posts like this screenshot. Just google like this: site:reddit.com/r/BlatantMisogyny castration Or site:reddit.com/r/BlatantMisogyny vasectomy note: Do NOT brigade the sub - dont downvote/upvote or comment there.
/r/MensRights21/07/23 02:29 PM
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As an anthropologist on gender issues I have a strict no-interference policy. I screenshot and report the news on the ground.
/r/MensRights21/07/23 02:27 PM
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There is a chance that this reduces flake rate from e.g. 50% to 30%, but at the cost of being sat at the venue stood up 10 times instead of 0 times. There is a cost-benefit to that. Also I see this working better on ~18-22 year olds, as women see many tricks and games and with experience might see this as a trick to reduce flake rate.
/r/seduction20/07/23 08:34 PM
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The UK Green Party actrually had this as a campaign promise. I would bring it up as insane to my left wing friends and they would accuse me of telling lies. Then I would bring up the website showing: no prison for women (except extreme circumstances like murder) Then they would suddenly say well its obviously a good idea. It was amazing to watch the cognitive dissonance and was almost like witnessing NPC or chatbot programming but in a human being. It was like an anti-turing test. I could make s…
/r/MensRights30/12/22 08:43 PM
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TwoXChromosomes. To give an example there were comments saying that Afghan men should be castrated back for the safety of the women back when the USA troops were suddenly leaving Afghanistan.
/r/MensRights31/10/22 10:43 PM
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I saw way worse on 2XC than I ever saw on MGTOW. Like on 2XC I have repeatedly seen calls to violate the Geneva Convention with hundreds of upvotes. On MGTOW the worst I saw was... some guys venting and saying "all women are liars" type of stuff.
/r/MensRights31/10/22 03:29 PM
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I had a similar relationship. If I showed much commitment she would punish with ghosting for a couple weeks then sending a booty call. I recommend you continue to date other women for as long as possible unless there is an explicit exclusivity agreement. But I would bet she has not asked for exclusivity and probably wont. I dont know if spending the rest of your life with her is realistic. She is demanding to see only the most alpha side of you. You cant maintain that forever. Assuming she is ea…
/r/seduction28/10/22 04:17 PM
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They can fish like that. Did she workout unnecesarily close to you? Hitting on a woman in a hotel gym has much higher chance of success than a regular gym. She might be on her own travelling from work and you both have rooms nearby. Its literally perfect logistics. Some of the most forward interactions I've ever received from women were simply from perfect logistics. One of the best was a flat viewing. She was looking for a place to move into. Gave a 5 minute tour of my place. She was my 5th vie…
/r/seduction25/10/22 12:04 AM
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I don't think she'll ever fuck with me, because she has no reason to Dude its layoff season. Economy tanking. At any moment senior leadership can make a decision that would give her reason. Accusing someone makes it tougher to get laid off. I'll be deleting this in a few minutes/hours Make posts on throwaway accounts. Also you wrote nothing that can be used against you AFAIK.
/r/MensRights16/10/22 06:20 PM
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You should give more information. Your stats are good. So why do you think you are a virgin?
/r/seduction25/09/22 01:43 AM
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You can be bold and talk to girls but still not know how to escalate. Being bold and confident helps in the first 5-10 minutes. But then you need to be gradually escalating, handling logistics, handling objections.
/r/seduction22/09/22 08:56 PM
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I strongly disagree Lets say you are talking to a 22 year old. They probably went to university. They have spent 3/4 years mastering the basics of some subject. If I am an interesting (and interestED) person then I could enjoy talking to them about essays they wrote, subjects they studied. Ask them the most suprising things they learnt. But I would need to be interested in what they studied. And that is a "me" problem; not a "them" problem. Only boring people get bored. And if anyone thinks 99% …
/r/seduction14/09/22 12:45 AM
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Ill answer your Q here. Find a few ways to translate handsomeness into concrete social status. e.g. find a way to do a small amount of male modelling. That will mean you can DHV with "I did a modelling shoot a while back and XYZ thing happened <change subject>". It also means that any woman dating you can brag to her friends. Always give things women can brag about to their friends with - you are diong them a favour. You will likely get lots of tinder matches compared to what is normal. As a res…
/r/seduction13/09/22 11:04 PM
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If there are 2 of them: You need a wingman pretty much. Without a wingman you need to go for the number ASAP. You can always talk to cool (good looking) guys in the venue and flat out ask if they are interested in meeting girls as you are looking for a wingman. Then you could re-engage by introducing her friend to your new wing. Get to know the wing a little first. If there are more than 2: Isolate asap. One socially acceptable way to isolate is by taking her to the bar at the venue.
/r/seduction07/09/22 07:34 PM
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Frame is an abstract concept. Its extremely useful and not talked about enough. Its used in sales and other fields too. Verbally, frame would mean: You control what is discussed in the conversation. It doesnt mean you do all the talking. But you get her to talk about things and open up. You do not accept being interrogated. Sometimes will will shit test by continuously asking you long open ended questions. They might not be interested in your answers. They end up controlling the entire conversat…
/r/seduction07/09/22 05:58 PM
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This context is useful. I don’t want to outright say “so what’s the deal with us” You are right: Dont ever say this. YOU need to set the frame to be congruent to your shared history. Ultimately the first step is you just need to game well. Eye contact, smiling, touching, slow continual escalation. All following advice assumes you do this. She might give you a non-compliance test of "when we go back to my room you wont make a move". But she will be be resistent to communicate this non-compliance …
/r/seduction07/09/22 05:06 PM
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If she doesn't see you as a sexual being: Be witnessed talking to girls and getting their phone numbers on nights out. Or see her in a group of friends on the day after a night out and talk about the previous night without bragging. Just say matter-of-factly that you got a phone number. I've seen girls do a 180 in attraction to me based on this. If she thinks you just aren't into her: Eye contact, smile, touch her arm, tell her you love her outfit for X reason. If she think you are a sexual bein…
/r/seduction07/09/22 04:23 PM
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You dont need to go to upscale jazz bars. Just go to large 1500+ capacity mainstream music venues/clubs in your city. Most women are not acting insane there. Its only at meat market clubs where women are insane and screeching.
/r/seduction06/09/22 02:02 AM
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I wont go into detail but he looks good. And his look is congruent with the crowds at those places. He doesn't stand out as "not belonging". He is not a 6'6 gigachad either. But he is ultra charismatic with solid eye contact and touching immediately, and he opens within a split second of seeing anyone without a moments thought. You do need the right look for some of these places. Some of them will not let in a large group of black people for example. See the google reviews for some of the venues…
/r/seduction01/09/22 01:04 AM
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So in London the high end bars/clubs are usually considered to be along the lines of: Maddox, The Box, cirque le soir, libertine, tape, raffles There are others but if you google those you will find more. Its hard to get in as a guy unless you go on a Tues/Weds/Thurs/Sunday with a girl. If you go Fri/Sat you either need to be connected to a good promoter/manager AND have two attractive women with you (per male) OR you need to pay $2k as a group of guys to get a table. If you arent paying your wa…
/r/seduction01/09/22 12:39 AM
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I met an amazing wingman who was telling me he does this. As well as high density of attractive women he says they are way more open and receptive as you are kind of pre qualified by being inside. If you can already number close a bunch of women in a night then it's easily worth the $200 entry, especially considering what a few dinner dates will cost.
/r/seduction31/08/22 08:35 PM
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ToddV overcomplicates game a bit. Many go through his bootcamps and end up with lots of mental models and rules of thumb which can contradict each other. I started using ToddV's stuff when in a dry spell. It lead to me not escalating as I was trying to fit interactions into frameworks. I thought way too much about qualifiers and disqualifiers. I now think you dont need to think about qualifiers/disqualifiers at all. I recently started following John Anthony more. Anthony is kind of toxic. But he…
/r/seduction29/08/22 06:31 PM
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You talk too much over text. Just focus on conversion to meeting irl and if she doesn't then move on. Message her "I'm going to similar-artist gig on some-date-soon come join me" If she says yes then figure out logistics. If she doesn't respond then ignore her. And stop watching her stories and liking her photos
/r/seduction29/08/22 06:12 PM
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Woman demanded my seat on a London underground "because I saw it first" - which wasn't true as I walked a long way to it. I refused and got death glares for it from most of the carriage. Another man offered his seat to her. Which she refused, she seemed to only want my seat. Turned out she only was on the train for 1 stop which was like 45 seconds away. She was just demanding it for power. Not pregnant or old or disabled otherwise I would have offered it - same for an old or disabled man.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/08/22 09:11 PM
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It’s basically admitting you cant get laid People I know who have gone to Thailand have no problem getting laid or having relationships in the UK/West Of course thats wrong. It isnt a crime but it’s clearly a bad thing No it isnt. Thats like saying rich people shouldnt be allowed to date poor people within your own city. Or that tall people shouldnt be able to date short people. it’s clearly a bad thing. Otherwise nobody would have the term sexpat. "The existence of a smear/label must mean that …
/r/seduction17/08/22 05:05 AM
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You likely said too much already to either your buddy or his gf. Using a dating app isnt any really different to chatting up women on the street. There is a general rule that if you go then you end up paying for sex by accident. Friend of mine went and chatted up girl. Got her number. She invited him to a VIP event. Then they banged. But effectively he paid a lot for entering the VIP event and that meant he got laid. There was no arrangement and he didnt even realise it. If you go then focus on …
/r/seduction16/08/22 11:39 PM
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Its easily googleable... A Western Male who travels to countries like Thailand/Columbia/Poland/Romania, has much higher relative status/wealth than he does in the West (especially if he is white going to Thailand), who has a primary motivation of sleeping with more attractive women than he normally would due to his new advantage. There is actually nothing fundamentally wrong with doing this. But you will get reactions of disgust or shaming or distrust from most women and many men. Its all the sa…
/r/seduction16/08/22 11:28 PM
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It will be easy mode and might help boost your confidence. You might also be very depressed and bitter when you return to the West and find less attractive women are rude and hard work work after your experience in Thailand. Its a great place to travel to in general. Very high quality of life for low cost. By going you will increase your status when you return as you will have travel stories. Do as many adventurous things as possible there. Be wary that you might get "sexpat" comments when you r…
/r/seduction16/08/22 11:18 PM
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My hair is starting to thin, my chances are going to be non-existent I cant recommend Toppik enough. Thickens your hair. Rub it in. I buy a cheap alternative brand. Literally cant be seen without it, I am living a lie LOL.
/r/seduction09/08/22 03:55 AM
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You work remote so have some freedom. Move to a nearby city. Then go to meetups, join social groups. In London there is a website called spareroom which many use. You join some flatmates. Some houses are very social and expect you to be social, whereas others are more keeping to themselves.
/r/seduction08/08/22 08:00 PM
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Look up hair system. You can instantly have perfect looking hair without taking fin and getting the side effects. Look at the top posts on r / hairsystem to see what they look like.
/r/seduction05/08/22 07:20 PM
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Going to bars/clubs early is goated with the sauce. So often I see two attractive women who have arrived on their own, are open to meeting men, and nobody has talked to them yet. Can easily start bantering, moving to the bar, then dancefloor, and youve already had a great night and possible close before 90% of people have even entered the venue yet. It is so much easier having a great interaction at the start when you are the first person they talk to. Also nobody has drank anything yet so you c…
/r/seduction01/08/22 08:57 PM
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unpopulated places with poor cell reception Because of the implication
/r/seduction01/08/22 03:27 AM
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I think that would be seen as controlling. A lot of reddit advice is just not going to be applicable to you. You are dating a 10/10 model and 99.9% of people cant really give you applicable advice. Your options are: Enjoy the time with her as much as possible, knowing it wont last forever. As if they are going to top night clubs they are mingling with men worth $5-100M with high status, wealth, fame, and likely looks and good game too. If she is 10/10 then many of these men are likely for wives …
/r/seduction01/08/22 02:11 AM
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Its not a long term solution. I've heard withdrawals are very tough when quitting
/r/seduction30/07/22 05:58 PM
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Propranolol for anxiety The nootropic piracetam have me crazy good game but made me a little manic and reduced work performance Meditation is very legit but tales lots of upfront work. For instant meditation results wim hof method is fast Dancing completely changes my mental state and improves my game. Dance to music in venues
/r/seduction30/07/22 05:57 PM
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I have pulled on cruises before. All the conventional advice applies, but here are cruise specific things: You will keep bumping into the same people. Especially if you are going to the only nightclub on the cruise ship, or the main open til late bars. As a result of this its important to not be timid or slow in your first interactions. The first night or two are the most important. Some people will make cruise friends who they keep for the rest of the cruise. You want to be the fun guy they mee…
/r/seduction28/07/22 11:17 PM
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Definitely in your early 20s it's good to have roommates. Just for the parties and fun life etc. I've done zero online dating. I've always been a night game and social circle game guy. I really should use OLD. But I'm fixing my logistics first before OLD as my logistics suck. Then I will night game for a few weeks and see how that goes before I use OLD. I was going to get good at day game before OLD but Anthony says OLD is better than day game. His advice resonates with what has always worked fo…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/22 08:18 PM
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Its all about context. In some cultures and cities its very normal as there is an expectation of meeting people you already know (small social cities like Bristol in the UK). Or there is a culture of everyone talking to everyone and ending up at house parties later on in in the night (e.g. in Spain). Or it is a popular travel destination and people travel on their own a lot so turning up to a bar alone to meet people is socially acceptable. In London it can be seen as weird to be in a bar alone …
/r/seduction28/07/22 07:12 PM
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The whole point of my post is the numbers. 1 minute walk, 25 minute cab right. You've not responded with anything explaining why those numbers are obvious - youve just explained why lower numbers are better. Youve explained the most obvious part and called it obvious, while dodging the main point of the post which is the optimised sweet spot numbers.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/22 07:08 PM
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I am trying to figure out whether to buy or rent right now. This advice is for really optimising dating, which I only intend to do until I find a good long term partner. He really stresses the importance of being as short a walking distance as possible from a date spot. 15-20 minutes cab is bad. Its fine if a huge nightclub is 15-20 minutes away by cab. But you need bars and nice cafes just a couple minutes walking distance from your place.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/22 09:45 PM
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Damn did you go to school😂 Make fun of specific things rather than her as a person. Also you can be meaner when teasing in person than over text. Over text you need to play it safe more. Because the message just sits there. Whereas in person you can recalibrate immediately if she appears offended or something. Over text Im mostly just getting logistics sorted in order to meet up. Or Im building tension in a safe way by creating and describing frames in which she is chasing me, and how every one …
/r/seduction27/07/22 06:52 PM
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There are 6'6 attractive male virgins age 25. And there are short ugly men with a lay count of 100+. Being tall and sociable is easily enough to sleep with women. Even just being sociable and not tall is enough.
/r/seduction27/07/22 06:13 PM
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I have had friends drift away and come back. Unless they did some horrific betrayal (like sleep with you gf) I always welcome people back. I remember going to a party with a friend and another friend being super offended about it ("but WE are your friends why arent you hanging out with us?" - when they were just sat in their room drinking like most nights). People can have multiple groups of friends who cares
/r/seduction27/07/22 06:11 PM
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You seem to want it to all be about looks. 6'3' and very sociable is absolutely enough to get with girls even with a below average face and body
/r/seduction27/07/22 05:27 PM
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He didnt know the deal with his old friend until that friend kind of tricked him. Then I saw no evidence of him continuing to help out the old friend. Its not OPs fault at all. Old friend might have been cool.
/r/seduction27/07/22 05:25 PM
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I hadn't heard of him until I saw a seddit comment mentioning him 2 weeks ago. I watched some videos and saw him criticise Todd v and everything he said were things at the back of my mind. Then I saw his simple system and advice and applied it on a night out and it was great. I have never paid for any of his products and most likely never will.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/22 03:14 PM
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I summarised his advice into notes. Then decided to share those notes and source them. With a quick qualifying statement on the source. I have never seen so many emotional reactions by men before. Not one person has backed up anything with a source or anything. Such name-calling and shit too. Truly only the dregs seem to be left on TRP, it's not at all the quality I remember from 2012 to 2016
/r/TheRedPill24/07/22 12:26 AM
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The hell are you people even talking about. This is a discussion about improving logistics to reduce objection handling and make the process simpler and smoother. It's reducing "simping" if anything, using your bizarre definition of simping I just wanted to talk about logistics optimisation but not one person is able to
/r/TheRedPill23/07/22 07:18 PM
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He has lots of footage of him gaming in USA and europe. Man not a single person here is going to debate the actual key points are they? I just wanted to discuss location strategies and experiences
/r/seduction23/07/22 07:13 PM
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The point is he has optimised conversion rates. If for a short period of time you want to date and sleep around a lot then the advice is useful. This is true for me for 6-12 months. The reason he wanted 1k+ was largely for bragging rights and because its his career. Or he wanted to "compete" against other men on it. I doubt anyone here has 1k as a goal but it makes his advice more useful than people at a 50 count.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/22 06:21 PM
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I dont doubt he has used hookers. But ive seen old RSD forum posts where many people say he is very legit. and his advice seems pretty solid. But I dont know how is a fraud and a loser? Like do you think he hasnt been in game for 15 years and closing a lot in that time? You say youve seen him legitimately cry about his girlfriend beating him. Can you post a link to this or something? Im open to legit criticisms, I have a few of my own, but I feel your post is hyperbole and want to see some of th…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/22 04:52 PM
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Can you explain why a 25 minute cab ride vs 45 minute cab crossing some kind of significant threshold is obvious to you? How did you already know the existence of this threshold and where it was?
/r/TheRedPill23/07/22 04:28 PM
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Man why did you write all this. The 25 minute taxi rule and 1-10 walking distance rules (not cab) from bars are not obvious and useful rules of thumb Ive never heard anywhere else.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/22 03:18 AM
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People move to places for all sorts of reasons. Optimising for successful dating is a pretty decent reason to live somewhere. You dont need to be an addict to have a desire to sleep around a bit. I havent dated so much during the pandemic and have been living in suburbs. I now have more free time away from work so am looking to date a lot. I want to meet many people quickly. To ultimately find the right partner. But if I have lots of sex with many women in that time I wont mind so much. I also l…
/r/seduction23/07/22 12:42 AM
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Always nice to see some old school Gambler
/r/seduction20/07/22 09:29 PM
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It matters much less for men than it does for women. A lot of your X out of 10 rating is not appearance. If you open a group of a women and charismatically control the conversation and handle all shit tests and tease them all, while handling logitics and stuff: they will all see you as an 8+/10 minimum. If you are seen dancing and having fun with 2 hot girls in a nightclub then you are 8+/10 minimum. That said it really helps to have a good haircut, dress better than other men, smell good.
/r/seduction20/07/22 06:31 PM
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Yeah that line "i hate to break promises but I would love you to have sex" isnt an actual line I would use, it was the template to be communicated. The lines I have used have been like "maybe a little bit wouldnt count?" or "you wouldnt mind if i broke that promise?". Those might not be that smoothest lines but we are at the point of sex and the actual words dont matter so much except for hte fact you have verbal consent
/r/seduction20/07/22 06:10 PM
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I have heard that like 0 out of 50 or so times Ive used that line. The only time you might ever hear it is when a woman is VERY upfront about wanting to fuck. In which case I would not say "no sex though" in the first place. But if she is afraid you wont fuck her and she is wasting her time going home all you need to do to remove those fears is be more physical there and then. Put your hand on her ass and squeeze while looking into her eyes. Thats the signal that you arent going to be afraid to …
/r/seduction20/07/22 06:05 PM
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With experience it becomes muscle memory. You will feel like you are chatting to a friend openly and enjoying yourself, but also have to figure out a few logistics. The more attractive relative to the girl you are the less shit tests and logistics tests it will be. If you are a 7 chatting up a 9 then that is hard mode but you dont need to be doing that starting out.
/r/seduction20/07/22 05:59 PM
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Ive learnt many skills over my life. Some languages, some maths, software. We spend years learning skills. Some pay off and help our jobs and some dont. Some make our lives richer and some were not worth the time to learn them. This is the only skill giving the reward of sex with attractive women and it has added richness to life. You end up will all sorts of fun stories. Its especially great in your early 20s when all your friends see you winning at this game and you get respect for it. It can …
/r/seduction20/07/22 05:54 PM
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OK that wasnt a good example of small sexualisation I gave. One from Saturday was a girl did a pull up on some bar on the ceiling in this nightclub and I helped lift her up then I touched her lats and talked about how hot I find back muscles on women. I talk about the two lines running up the spine and how its so much hotter to have a small amount of that than no muscle development. Also, you sound quite smooth and into health and fitness... what do all these boneheads do who have no charm and d…
/r/seduction20/07/22 05:51 PM
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Its very hard to give a verbal example, as I have zero canned lines for this and having canned lines for this is very bad (very game-y, very insincere, treating seduction as a videogame and thinking you can use a cheatcode, not tailoring your words to make it personal for the woman and the context). If Ive had a few green flags and am already touching her then I will say something that comes to mind spontaneously. To give a strong example: one time a girl showed off how flexible she was so I hel…
/r/seduction19/07/22 08:58 PM
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She was pretty receptive and I asked about what she is studying and talking about what she and her friend did during the evening. Those are boring questions. Practice coming up with snap judgements and tailored unique lines based on her physical appearance but only things within in her control e.g. If she has pearl earrings ask if they are real. Instantly you can now talk about buying real vs fake stuff and tease her for being fake, or you can talk about pearl diving and lead that into all swimm…
/r/seduction19/07/22 05:03 PM
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You are good enough but not seen as sexual. You need to do more eye contact, teasing, flirting
/r/seduction16/07/22 10:19 PM
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They have very hot women. I've seen the women queued up outside and they are stunning. And they have something like 7:3 gender ratios. Also once inside gaming is very easy because you have qualified yourself a lot. I would also network and become part of the scene for bit. Im likely joining equinox to meet people. The only part I cant be bothered with is the Instagram side of it. I might not do any of this though. Im just assessing the ROI on time/money and entering the mindset of doing it.
/r/seduction14/07/22 03:32 AM
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I'm looking at the fake followers you can buy. For $250 you can buy 50k followers and for $90 you can buy 10k likes. For $360 you can make anyone think you are insta famous! I might do it on a new account just as an experiment until it gets banned.
/r/seduction14/07/22 01:19 AM
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women naturally neg men They naturally neg each other too. See this 30 second Family Guy clip - its funny because there is some truth. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jKbDpp84dhk Natural negging comes from the fact that women have to appear nice more than men do. Becoming an outsider is very damaging to them and there is a lot of fear around it. But also they play power games against each other as teenagers. So they need to insult and put down each other to play zero sum status games in many (bu…
/r/seduction14/07/22 12:27 AM
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That sub is largely controlled by women. AITA is the same. I remember the early days of reddit when it was all 90% men. Its only relatively recently that huge internet forums have female majorities.
/r/seduction14/07/22 12:18 AM
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They are also called zoomers because its a merge between Gen Z and Boomers.
/r/seduction14/07/22 12:17 AM
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There is a thing called gameglobal. They have Telegram groupchats. There is one in my city I just checked out and every day there are 4 or 5 people out saying "come join and wingman". The actual leaders have quite bad youtube content but their community is the most active ive seen in 2022. I think Telegram group chat makes so much more sense than forums and reddit in 2022.
/r/seduction14/07/22 12:02 AM
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Something I only just appreciated recently is: in order to get into the top night clubs these days they will be checking your Instagram to qualify you. By top I mean some of the elite ones in London, NYC, HK, LA, Vegas etc. Michael Sartain teaches it as step 1 of his strategy. There are several other factors they consider when letting you into these clubs: did you arrive with 2 girls for each guy? do you have the right "look"? and do the girls? how busy is it inside? and what are your connection…
/r/seduction13/07/22 11:53 PM
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Its a treated as a red flag in London so you need to have an answer prepared because you will be judged for it. When out alone I sometimes lie and say I lost my friend (works better when its late and busy). But my general go-to line is this: "I came out on my own. Most of my fun friends are on away a stag do (bachelor party) this weekend. I got a last minute ticket to dance and see some music. Met some fun people here too" Its different in different cities. Even in other cities in England you wi…
/r/seduction12/07/22 08:15 PM
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He just has mega status and extreme social proof. Being known for dating Ariana Grande means that nearly every woman on earth is now a 'yes'. What's interesting is how did he seduce Grande. Everything after that is autopilot.
/r/seduction18/02/22 01:57 AM
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Opening up about mental health struggles is usually a losing move. I have a lot of experience and have tried many things. For many women a switch in their head will flip and they will see you as totally different and resent or hate you from that point on. Even when my struggles were far in the past it didn't matter the damage was done. Give minor vulnerabilities, sure. Like a fear of spiders or whatever . Only talk about mental health with a solid therapist. I usually regret even talking to frie…
/r/seduction18/02/22 01:54 AM
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I hate inner game chat, but honestly you need to fix your mentality before you can date as women will sense this in you and run away. Fix your diet, start lifting weights, get the clothes and haircut. Focus on anything constructive and keep going over wins in your head. You need to do CBT to cut the negative thoughts as they are destroying you even though they "feel rewarding" to think.
/r/seduction10/02/22 04:10 AM
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What a username to manage to get, wow.
/r/seduction30/01/22 12:57 AM
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Find a single friendship group with hot women in it, then arrange a group holiday to somewhere exotic. Take as many photos and have as many experiences as possible in that week. Then drip market those photos across your Instagram for the next year.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/22 07:21 PM
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For men having sex with women: Learn Sex God Method: Dominance, Immersion, Variation, Emotion Different women prefer different parts of that. You gradually test the waters on each of them and see how they respond. With experience you learn patterns and combinations that work in different settings with different women. e.g. dirty talk while telling her to look you in the eye and not look away, while having sex slowly and deeply. Thats dominance and immersion - and likely variation for her as no m…
/r/seduction15/01/22 11:06 PM
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Dated a women who was progressive, feminist, mental health advocate, blah blah blah. Listened to her vent all the time. She talked about mansplaining and emotional labour. Complained about her period paid and I was there for her One day at brunch she got me to open up. For 30 minutes I told her about some trauma I had. Years prior I saw a guy get run over by a truck. Gave me mild PTSD, nightmares and anxiety for a long time. Was mostly over it though. She dumped me a week later. Wouldnt tell me …
/r/MensRights28/12/21 02:45 AM
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Some forms of mental illness can be overcome, whereas others are with you for life. It will be hell dating someone with Cluster B personality disorders (BPD, NPD, ASPD (sociopaths)). Whereas dating someone with a bit of anxiety/depression is not too bad at all and you might have a healthier and stronger relationship as they get passed it.
/r/MensRights24/12/21 12:21 AM
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Apparently she "solicited bids" from 10 or whatever suitors and "took the best offer". A girl I know does this. But not just to strangers and dates, but her to friends. She will quadruple book on friends and pick the funnest offer then just flake on the others and not reply to them for weeks. Then message them as if nothing happened.
/r/PussyPassDenied06/12/21 11:19 PM
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/r/seduction01/12/21 11:46 PM
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Original comment is edited with new details
/r/seduction01/12/21 11:45 PM
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I cant find it. This was 10 years ago and was top of bestof for a day back then. Trying to hit it with lots of keyword combinations on reddit and google and its not coming up. Google says some search results have been removed due to data protection. I wouldnt be surprised if the lawyers scrubbed it. I'm 90% sure it was Miley Cyrus. edit: This was wrong, it was Peaches Geldof I'm 90% sure the redditor's name contained "BigBen". I'm 100% sure he woke up in a rehab center in Hollywood, posted about…
/r/seduction01/12/21 08:32 PM
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I hope you never washed that cheek
/r/seduction01/12/21 05:28 PM
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Anyone remember the redditor BigBen Thatcoolguyben who unwittingly seduced Miley Cyrus Peaches Geldof and woke up at a high-end Hollywood (edit: Scientology-ran) detox facility? And he posted a (edit: nude) picture of them together and redditors were like "WTF thats Miley Cyrus Peaches Geldof" edit: ElephantEarwax found it! https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/bhg3r/whats_your_most_wtf_one_night_stand_story/c0mt9l0 https://www.mirror.co.uk/3am/celebrity-news/peaches-geldof-denies-drug-tak…
/r/seduction01/12/21 05:28 PM
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Watch every video on this channel: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JAgl2OkbKx8
/r/seduction28/11/21 08:46 AM
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They are disinterested as you've not communicated enough value to them yet. The reason why you haven't is a mixture of not believing you have enough, lacking the communication skills to communicate your value, not teasing enough or being too serious
/r/seduction28/11/21 12:05 AM
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It worked on the SJW juror though. That juror went in thinking "not guilty" and had to be persuaded by the other jurors. "everyone - more quickly than I - came to the decision that she was guilty" at 4:46. Then she says she feels bad about her going to prison.
/r/PussyPassDenied09/09/21 05:46 AM
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Learn body Language from this: https://westsidetoastmasters.com/resources/book_of_body_language/toc.html Then watch The Behavioural Panel on youtube for more body language knowledge. But if you are walking into a room with strangers and need to rapidly assess status: look at where people's bodies are facing.
/r/seduction05/09/21 09:09 PM
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The title suggests the baby was trying to commit suicide. The baby wasn't; it was about to be murdered by the mother as she killed herself. "She just wants to be loved" paints the woman who nearly murdered her baby as a victim. And the top reply out of nowhere speculates that the father abondoned them. Suggesting that by not being in the picture she was denied of love and thats why she was suicidal.
/r/MensRights31/08/21 10:09 PM
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This is alcohol + a mentally unstable girl And what if she swears off alcohol forever? Do you still leave?
/r/TheRedPill29/08/21 10:50 PM
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Good point. He likely failed shit tests for a while before it got to this point. He failed a couple I listed in the OP (like qualifying himself to the AMOG stranger by showing ID) so probably is kind of blind
/r/TheRedPill29/08/21 10:15 PM
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A smart and well argued point. Given the context of a 5 year relationship it can be seen as a nuclear comfort test. You've opened my eyes and I'll be thinking about this framing.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/21 10:11 PM
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You have good points. I like the ultimatum though as it makes the situation clear to someone who is currently deluded on a weird powertrip. It says "this is serious and you are making an important decision right now" If you dont say it then she will come back later and try to argue she didnt know blahblahblah. It also shuts up flying monkeys when they come for you
/r/TheRedPill29/08/21 07:46 PM
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you go nuclear back Elaborate? I said about throwing her stuff out and sleeping with another woman already.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/21 07:26 PM
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The best way to understand her actions are that it was a nuclear shit test on her boyfriend. And like I said he can choose to leave. But if this is a perfect 5 year relationshp so far and he believes it to be a one off if she changes behaviour - what actions does he take? Thats the point of this thread. If you have a more apt mental model to explain the motive behind her actions then please state it. IF its not a nuclear shit test then what agenda did she have to do this?
/r/TheRedPill29/08/21 07:24 PM
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Dumb take, she had no red flags for 5 years. Thinking WWYD is not a waste time, its a useful skill for handling your own relationships.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/21 07:20 PM
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Quit drinking yes. Seeing a therapist is too easy - and OP will be the one paying for it since he is the only breadwinner. It doesn't remedy the level of disrespect directed at him and their relationship. She would need to show a lot of respect for a long time and make up for it in many ways within the relationship. One thing (just added in an edit) would be the sincere written apology listing everything she did wrong. No excsues allowed, just a list of each lie told, each disrespectful bahviour…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/21 07:12 PM
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Yes that can work. But what do you do when she wants to talk after 2 or 3 days of silent treatment? Remember this is a 5 year relationship and the first real major red flag. Lets say she was perfect in every other way and you believe you have to power to stop this happening again. What do you do next? If you simply leave after every huge power move in relationships I think you will always end up walking away. I understand people say "Yes, do that, spin plates". But what if you want to raise kids…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/21 07:05 PM
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Urgent: I just got a DM from someone after posting to TRP. The DM links to a google document. Its about an essay they want me to read in order to help them w.r.t. self improvment. If I click on the link it will doxx me. Because my google account is my IRL identity. I didn't click it but realise this is a potential risk for getting TRP posters doxxed. They might have messaged many TRP posters. I can send more info if needed.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/21 08:15 PM
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I would like to settle down and have a family. I was ill in my late 20s which postponed these plans a bit. When I was in my early 20s I just wanted to maximise my experiences and sleep around a lot because: I didnt want to look back and regret not doing it I felt that I was learning a useful skill by doing this and becoming more attractive to women and therefore a dating dating prospect when I found the right partner I got respect from my friends and was seen as "cool" and this felt nice in my e…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/21 03:59 PM
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I agree and would add: you need to know the right experiments to try by learning some core concepts. Then you mix and match those concepts and try combinations of them, and see the boundaries of where they break. Then you look at your failures and successes and use the signals you learnt in order to diagnose where they failed and what patterns worked for you and in which contexts. Sales concepts: social proof, limited time constraints, reciprocity Machiavellian concepts: reinforcing social statu…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/21 09:16 PM
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My first year of university I was a virgin. I had a girlfriend who made me wait 8 months to have sex. She cheated on me with a guy she hardly knew at a party. She also was not attractive. I then started to learn game and pua stuff.
/r/seduction01/04/21 06:25 AM
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Never took classes. Not sure of any other resources but I'm sure youtube has good stuff. I learnt from trial and error from clubbing a lot. When groups of girls started to surround me while dancing and I started to get compliments I used that to know I was doing the right things.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/21 09:44 PM
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To dance well in clubs master the basics. And the basics are: https://www.deephouseamsterdam.com/science-has-officially-categorized-good-and-bad-male-dancing/ Then dance a bit in your room in front of mirror to music you like. Some of the moves in the good dancer video are silly, but the important parts are about swaying your upper torso occasionally, moving hips more, getting the rhythm right. 90% of men don't know the basics. Just knowing the basics and doing a couple hours of practice puts yo…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/21 08:21 PM
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My stats when I was age 22 and doing this the most: 5'11 white terrible hair cut bad clothes skinny good facial aesthetics great eye contact, charisma, kept head up while smiling excellent dancer
/r/TheRedPill31/03/21 06:33 PM
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The absolute lowest my number was at age 24 was 45, because I once named each girl I could remember and wrote them down. But I kept remembering other occasions so it was really about 70. Some of them were less attractive or I didnt perform well so I never made an effort to keep remembering the night after it happened, and I would only remember it after walking past a trigger (e.g. re-entering that dorm building for dinner party and realising I recognised it from a drunken night with someone). I …
/r/seduction31/03/21 06:29 PM
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I have not been out at all during corona, for a year. I've been in monk mode working. But the rules are just getting relaxed where I live and Im ready to get out again. I was recalling strategies to use and when I do that I like to write them up.
/r/seduction29/03/21 11:41 PM
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I became a very good dancer which helps a lot. Never did dance classes, but the basics of general good dancing (based on scientific research) are here: https://www.deephouseamsterdam.com/science-has-officially-categorized-good-and-bad-male-dancing/
/r/seduction29/03/21 11:38 PM
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There are 3 scenarios: she is there alone, in a pair of girls, or with a group of people. If a girl is genuinely in a club alone she is likely DTF. Its pretty rare to see a girl in a club alone. Often they aren't really alone but their friends have broken off for a minute. They will either seem to be scared or intimidated when alone (their friend/BF might have gone to the toilet or something), or sometimes they are incredibly bold and in a "Im DTF and not looking to make friends" mindset. In the…
/r/seduction29/03/21 05:23 PM
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If you have fun friends then going out with friends is great. You can leave the group, try this, then move back to the group. But lots of friends are weird about it. My friends would always hold me back, get jealous, try to sabotage. Some of the best success comes from having one solid male friend who is trying to do the same thing, but often I did not have one available. I still get nervous approaching. Its all about momentum - if I just make a few approaches then even if they bombed my nervous…
/r/seduction29/03/21 05:10 PM
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Its a replica so more like $350
/r/PussyPassDenied11/02/21 02:55 AM
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She does in many other posts made afterwards that are not in the screenshot.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/02/21 11:39 PM
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There are only a few watches I like the design of. One of those is an AP royal oak. A real one is $40k, or you can get a very close replica for $400 and put your savings into bitcoin or equities. Thats the thought process. Many people who wear these openly say they are fakes. A high end replica also is cheaper to maintain and just as accurate. And the quality/finishing of the $400 replicas is actually far higher than the quality of a $400 genuine watch.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/02/21 11:35 PM
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She is likely a psychopath and the victim has been gaslighted into submission. She has likely cut out his contact with family and friends and totally fucked with him brain and sanity. He doesn't deserve to die.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/19 02:50 AM
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You will be better suited for day game than night game.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/19 05:40 PM
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Wear insoles for 2 more inches.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/19 05:39 PM
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