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THEMANWHOWASRIGHT/r/askTRP09/10/16 02:40 PM
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Yep, I too want to read your post on the language of violence. Great stuff.
/r/askTRP01/10/18 01:40 PM
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All women are children who happen to be legal to fuck. I said women you disgusting pedo, not 17 or less
/r/askTRP06/09/18 06:10 PM
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That's not disagreement - older women are more overt on average than are younger women, because the latter have more and better options.
/r/askTRP22/11/17 10:50 AM
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The defeatism of "I wouldn't be myself if I worked to become what I perceive others to be naturally." I believe this insight would be worth a post in itself, thanks.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 10:46 AM
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Don't apologise. She looks to you for guidance - like a child, she pushes boundaries to see whether you are fit to lead. Both will prod you for weakness in search of strength and neither will respect you for deferring to them on matters of importance. When you apologise, you defer responsibility to them - but neither woman nor child want to be responsible, least of all over you - for if in ease you defer responsibility to them, how can you be trusted to take lead in hardship? Because she wants y…
/r/askTRP07/04/17 06:05 PM
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Can't alpha widow her if she perceives you as beta. Year ago I knew what I had to do, didn't. Hope she'll find another. Till then I'll taint all others.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 04:44 PM
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The point of the post is that regardless of age women yearn to be girls. They want to be in the company of a man who sets her free from responsibility - and this is especially true of career minded women. Here's another way to think about it: is she happiest when leading or when led in bed? In work, have you witnessed many women in managerial positions who genuinely enjoy shouldering the burden of their responsibilities and those of their subordinates?
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 01:07 PM
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By keeping the relationship open to others, at her request and to his detriment. This 'man' provides her power over him, which she enjoys and resents at his expense. When she wants to feel powerless, she seeks out a man who is the opposite of him. In bed the men fake dominance and the women submissiveness, in life the reverse. BDSM is their crutch.
/r/askTRP10/03/17 03:41 PM
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If you fed a dangerous animal and it bit your hand - would you blame the animal or yourself? You would blame yourself, because you know the animal cannot help but be what it is, and do what is its nature. Hating it would be like hating the rain for making you wet. It is its nature. If I understand the nature of the animal and that of the rain I can safely feed the one and safely avoid the other. Neither will do me harm, unless I let them do me harm. You and I were sold a lie when it comes to the…
/r/askTRP28/02/17 02:57 PM
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Best comment I've read on askTRP.
/r/askTRP28/02/17 02:09 PM
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It's funny, the more you say no, the more you demand, the more they come crawling out of nowhere. I'll give you another tip while I'm here: never plead, never negotiate. When you're the one guy who never pestered her again after she turned you down or didn't answer you, you stand out. One primary concern of women is "will he be needy" - so when she ghosts you and you don't even acknowledge it there's a chance she'll come back days, weeks, even months later to hit you up. Good luck bud!
/r/askTRP27/02/17 01:55 PM
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I don't ask for pics, but if I did I'd frame it as 'you should' - not a question. She either will or won't, if she does I reward her, if she doesn't I don't. It's not a big deal. If you do meet ensure that it is on your terms, which she can accept or not. If not, move on. EDIT: to answer your question, I'd have said 'your call' probably. If I follow her train of thought the subject turns from her doing something for me to me being good enough for her. I am good enough, so I don't need to qualify…
/r/askTRP26/02/17 11:08 AM
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The longer you've known her the more slips you're allowed if you're over all solid. If she's getting cold, go ice cold. By this I mean reduce or cease contact. She doesn't want to be chased, she wants to chase someone worth chasing.
/r/askTRP26/02/17 10:26 AM
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Because it reframes everything. She could sit in a bar with a bore who's mundane life allows him the time to dedicate to her, or take part in one mundane moment in the exciting life of a man who's time is dedicated to himself. It breaks expectations, takes her out of her comfort zone, conditions her to feel comfortable following me, shows her I don't put her on a pedestal, sets a tone of unpredictability, prompts a thousand questions that come naturally rather than forcefully as they would were …
/r/askTRP26/02/17 08:42 AM
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My success is inversely proportional to the effort I put in. 'I'm not going out tonight, but you're free to come.' There needs to be a basis of attraction, but the less said there on the more she works herself up to complete the picture. She wants to be depraved and putting herself at risk in the hands of a stranger is a turn on. When the door opens she's ready for sex. When I don't invite her to mine I tell her to meet me somewhere in the city. I do not tell her what we're doing usually. From t…
/r/askTRP26/02/17 07:04 AM
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You let her decide for the both of you, right from the start. She knows if you bend now over this, you'll bend later over all. Had you said 'no', risking never meeting her, you'd have demonstrated value and perhaps heard 'I normally don't drink,' 'I normally don't do this' instead. She specified none of these rules before as to not appear a hypocrite to a better man, and to have a plausible excuse to give a lesser one. I choose to do what I want, and she can come or not. I come late, she chooses…
/r/askTRP26/02/17 06:21 AM
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Sometimes they spin out of orbit and return months later. It can be insecurity on her part, or what she perceives to be better options. I've few rules, but if broken I'll not take her back. You'll probably find that with each 'reset' your standards increase, while your neediness decreases. You'll not worry as much when you've no one because you know how to get someone - and if you've not shown need when she asked to stop, chances are she'll come back - it's up to you whether to take her back or …
/r/askTRP14/02/17 02:27 PM
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That's my process too. I'd be curious to know what people's reasons are for disagreeing with this reply.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 11:55 AM
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A man's age is his potential. If you've no luck, yours was squandered. Start anew.
/r/askTRP30/01/17 01:37 PM
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'I don't date short guys' 'I hate gym bros' 'I'm not here for a hookup' There is no rule she'll not break for the right man. She wants a man who can dominate her, but assumes a short man can't. She wants a man built, but wants one who never needed work for it. She wants commitment, but only from the one who'll never give it to her. Become a man in all the ways you can and see her make you her exception.
/r/askTRP30/01/17 01:13 PM
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And she lived that week more fully than she would have had you bent over and taken it. With words and action you gave her the drama she yearns for but can't admit to, resulting in the excitement she can't muster for spineless men. Seems to me everybody came out a winner.
/r/askTRP30/01/17 10:16 AM
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You've generally more to gain by dropping it than not. You were hit up again when you dropped it in the past, because by contrast to the dozens of men aching for her attention, you weren't. If you're wanted, she'll go out of her way to make alternative plans. If you're not, she'll let you linger and watch how low you'll sink for her attention. It isn't always true, but it's often true enough that the best course of action is to ignore - and in doing so, stand out. If you want to, reply ok and mo…
/r/askTRP30/01/17 09:57 AM
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PM me your other favours hotcheeks
/r/askTRP17/01/17 12:43 PM
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These are the kind of words I like to read. Hope you'll stick around.
/r/askTRP17/01/17 12:14 PM
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I don't think you were. I don't think you think you were, either. A year ago you asked for advice about a girl who wasn't yours. You were told "if she'll cheat on him she'll cheat on you." Whether or not this girl was the girl who dumped you now is irrelevant. Only you are relevant. You are today as you were then, and will be tomorrow as you are now, unless you become what you weren't then and aren't today. You can drift through life waiting for the next girl to pedestalise for giving you the at…
/r/askTRP16/01/17 03:27 PM
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Only in the same way that a sports team supporter is on the same side as the sports team player. You can sit on your fat ass and applaud the player's success when he scores or you can join in and compete. Your call.
/r/askTRP14/01/17 05:00 PM
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You can pretend to be a man who's time is too valuable to obsess over girls' answers or you can become one. The value a man gives his time says a lot about him.
/r/askTRP14/01/17 04:37 PM
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Or make the most of it. It's good to be exotic - just not too exotic. Everything that distinguishes you does so either to your benefit or not. It'll be to your benefit if you own it, it won't if you don't. You can be a John among millions, or one of few Yolo, or whatever your backwards Eastern European name is again. When you make her say your name you know she'll not be thinking of another. If you are attractive, stand out. If you're not, become attractive or stand in.
/r/askTRP14/01/17 04:31 PM
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But THIS one is special!
/r/askTRP14/01/17 04:04 PM
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If only you'd just been yourself! I want you to be yourself, because I am naturally predisposed to desire a man who never needed to improve, and loathe those who did. He was strong because such was his nature. He was careless because he never needed to be otherwise. The man born weak and caring but who grew otherwise is not unlike the woman who has only makeup and plastic surgery to thank for her appeal. Both are frauds in their own way, both hope to be what they're naturally not. Don't break th…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/17 12:51 PM
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Asking those who aim to win whether you should withdraw from the competition is always a recipe for success.
/r/askTRP30/12/16 01:51 PM
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Do you know why they made up this story?
/r/askTRP30/12/16 01:12 PM
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Best LTR I had lasted 9 months, which is about as long as they ever did. Never shit tested, or if I was I passed them all without noticing. Distance took its toll eventually - had it not something else would have. It was both easy and healthy, and lasted as long as it was meant to. This is the mindset I had when I entered and left it, and the one that allowed it to blossom into what it became. I grant commitment in exchange for ease in companionship - I am upfront about what I am and make it cle…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/16 01:07 PM
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The more comfortable you are the more comfortable they will be, which will make these things less likely to happen. The more roughly you treat her the more comfort she'll require, usually. It's why I rather a regular than a one night stand when it comes to this. Steer clear of damaged girls, ones who have a long line of 'abusive exes'. Feminists, who's definition of rape is generally as loose as their vagina are also to be avoided if you're afraid of this. The alternative is holding back on givi…
/r/askTRP30/12/16 10:53 AM
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Especially feminists.
/r/askTRP30/12/16 10:33 AM
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You got it. She wants to sort out the weak from the strong - to be had by one who wants her enough that he'll transgress boundaries in order to have her. ...Providing he isn't 'creepy'. If she tells you what she wants her fantasy is ruined - it needs to be guessed and acted upon or it won't be real. Much like asking someone what they'd like for Christmas - it'll never have the same effect as if you simply knew, and did. I'd recommend sacrificing some of her fantasy for peace of mind, by taking i…
/r/askTRP30/12/16 10:24 AM
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If you whinge over her loss, she knows you're not a man and accepts the breakup. If you don't offer her this validation, you remain attractive and she keeps thinking about you. By blocking you, she gives herself an out: "The reason he isn't contacting me is because he CAN'T, not because he doesn't WANT to." Either that or you're a painful prick.
/r/askTRP28/12/16 03:01 PM
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Women sooner admit it than do men, I've found. To one it's a 'naughty admission', to the other it's a serious risk to their reputation. Much the same way that a perceived alpha can get away with sexual talk while another man cannot, the former is 'daring', the other a creep.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 02:24 PM
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My thoughts on round 2: She enjoyed round 1 but felt ashamed, decided she was now a Person Of Strength (POS) who wouldn't be used again. Sadly, she was not enough of a POS to take responsibility for her own decisions so she did the next best thing: lay it on another. You didn't give her enough comfort to make her rationalise her own behaviour. Had the sex been less rough she'd have likely managed it on her own, but had it not been rough enough she'd perhaps not have been up for seconds.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 02:10 PM
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I appreciate the answer. I've two questions: 1) If I am a fat slob sitting on my couch watching people who can run ten feet without losing their breath score a goal for the country I happened to be born in, am I crazy for feeling pride though the achievement was none of my own? 2) Do I need to be a sheep in order to understand sheep? 3) Were I to want to be a shepherd, would it be in my interest to understand sheep? I lied, it was three
/r/TheRedPill25/12/16 06:30 AM
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Did you assume I was white because I was right? Thank you. P.S. White men invented butter.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/16 10:41 PM
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I was waiting for a train late at night in a rough area. There were three of us, another man and an old woman, none of us knew each other. Because the best way to not be fucked with in these situations is to appear to be one with whom not to fuck, he and I put on a stern facade to dissuade the other. The old woman walked up to him, asking for directions. He spoke and broke the illusion: his voice and attitude conveyed that he was no threat to anybody. Had I been the kind to start shit, he'd have…
/r/askTRP21/12/16 01:37 PM
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Pride. When shamed for that which can't be controlled, people will tend to either embrace shame wholly or go the opposite extreme. "If I'm to take blame for all the wrong in the world on account of the colour of my skin, oughtn't I take credit too?" When the demand for racism exceeds supply, the kind-hearted warriors for equality have no choice but to create it. This is how.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/16 06:17 AM
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Then you have your answer. Good luck.
/r/askTRP18/12/16 05:26 AM
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I take pleasure in slowly, but surely eroding a woman's view of the world when she disagrees with me on everything. I sooner grow bored of agreement than I do challenge. It's possible that they revert to their ways when it ends, I wouldn't know. You can make her yours, for a time, and shape her as you see fit - or take the 'moral' stance and cease contact. In doing so, you'll spare her the turmoil she yearns for and spare yourself the stimulation you enjoy. Whichever way you go, go all the way -…
/r/askTRP17/12/16 07:23 PM
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To distinguish the real from the fraud.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/16 04:41 PM
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Providing there are men in your workplace who do not undergo this treatment - can you tell me the difference between them and you?
/r/askTRP15/12/16 02:29 PM
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Give me back my line you son of a bitch
/r/askTRP14/12/16 03:01 PM
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Old acquaintances will see you as you were, regardless of what you are. New people allow you to be whatever you want to be, providing you can be what you want to be. One way of overcoming your situation is to break contact with the old, and shape yourself with the new. To never allow them what you've allowed the others. This way, you'll establish a new threshold for respect. However, were they once to see you treated with disrespect by an old acquaintance, they'll feel cheated and will think "if…
/r/askTRP25/11/16 05:11 PM
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In private women will accept the unacceptable and speak the forbidden - but only to men of worth. She says to one 'just be yourself', to another 'I'm glad you're not him'. To one she says 'always respect women', to another 'I want you to rape me.' With you she feels this freedom because you are different and careless. Because you've more courage than she has you infuse her with yours. When you stand by your beliefs, right or wrong, she admires your audacity. And whilst calling you selfish, narci…
/r/TheRedPill01/11/16 04:44 PM
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Les Parisiennes prétendent être fortes mais ne veulent pas l'être - les Parisiens sont faibles et l'admettent. Elles le sont parcequ'ILS ne le sont pas. Il n'y à pas d'endroit plus propice que Paris pour accomplir ton ambition - nulle part ailleurs trouveras-tu des femmes si frustrées par le manque d'hommes qui se tiennent droit et qui ne leur demandent pas ce qu'elles veulent, mais qui plutôt décident pour elles. Car pour elles, toute décision est préférable à l'indécision. Fais nous part de te…
/r/TheRedPill01/11/16 03:15 PM
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Your life brought you here. Every decision made, all chances taken or omitted culminated in this moment. You've both had and missed out on good, as you have undergone and been spared wrong. At this very moment, someone who has led the life you yearn for is wishing for yours: where his were immediate gains, yours are future ones. It keeps you up at night because you see only the surface of his life, as he does yours. He is as oblivious to your past struggles as you are to his future ones, and whe…
/r/askTRP28/10/16 03:13 PM
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Make them feel small. walk through crowds as though there weren't, own the room you enter with your presence, have expectation of each and all you interact with, in each and all things show calm resolve and determination. You'll not be taller, you'll feel taller. To achieve this, expose yourself to risk - when asking yourself "should I?", do. When messed with, stand your ground. Take a punch. Stare down a man twice your size. Grow the confidence that comes to those who do what others can't - you…
/r/askTRP26/10/16 01:23 PM
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