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QUEEN SH*TTHE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/19 07:32 PM
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NICE FOR WHAT?THE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/19 05:20 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYTHE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/19 06:57 PM
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DUMP HIS ASSTHE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/19 10:40 PM
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THE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/19 08:31 AM
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THE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/19 01:07 PM
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STRATEGYTHE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/19 09:38 PM
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NICE FOR WHAT?THE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/19 08:55 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYTHE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/19 07:40 PM
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LIES MEN TELLTHE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/19 05:20 PM
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NICE FOR WHAT?THE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/19 10:07 PM
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LEVEL UPTHE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/19 07:43 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYTHE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/19 02:09 AM
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THE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/19 03:25 PM
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QUEEN SH*TTHE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/19 11:21 AM
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LEVEL UPTHE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/19 06:41 PM
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STRATEGYTHE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/19 08:04 PM
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DISCUSSIONTHE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/19 04:21 AM
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LIES MEN TELLTHE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 09:34 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYTHE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/19 03:59 AM
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THE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/19 07:24 PM
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SCROTES MADTHE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/19 10:03 PM
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THE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/19 06:58 PM
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STRATEGYTHE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/19 08:13 PM
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NICE FOR WHAT?THE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/19 05:06 PM
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NICE FOR WHAT?THE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/19 05:50 PM
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THE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/19 06:05 PM
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NAH, SISTHE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/19 07:36 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYTHE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/19 04:14 AM
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QUEEN SH*TTHE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/19 09:21 PM
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LEVEL UPTHE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/19 02:53 AM
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QUEEN SH*TTHE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/19 05:28 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYTHE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/19 03:37 AM
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QUEEN SH*TTHE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/19 03:23 AM
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NAH, SISTHE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/19 05:33 PM
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NICE FOR WHAT?THE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/19 07:51 PM
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NAH, SISTHE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/19 07:49 PM
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LEVEL UPTHE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/19 02:58 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYTHE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/19 04:16 PM
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STRATEGYTHE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/19 06:46 PM
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DUMP HIS ASSTHE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/19 09:33 PM
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SCROTES MADTHE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/19 03:57 AM
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STRATEGYTHE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/19 09:48 PM
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QUEEN SH*TTHE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/19 04:41 AM
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NAH, SISTHE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/19 10:01 PM
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NICE FOR WHAT?THE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/19 04:40 PM
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THE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/19 11:33 AM
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NAH, SISTHE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/19 04:31 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYTHE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/19 09:01 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYTHE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/19 06:59 PM
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NICE FOR WHAT?THE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/19 01:51 PM
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STRATEGYTHE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/19 05:53 PM
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SCROTES MADTHE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/19 02:24 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYTHE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/19 06:47 AM
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QUEEN SH*TTHE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/19 05:33 AM
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THE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/19 02:24 PM
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LEVEL UPTHE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/19 09:53 PM
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NICE FOR WHAT?THE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/19 04:06 AM
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STRATEGYTHE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/19 03:30 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYTHE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/19 07:04 PM
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STRATEGYTHE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/19 04:55 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYTHE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/19 07:15 PM
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QUEEN SH*TTHE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 01:49 AM
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DISCUSSIONTHE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/19 06:35 PM
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STRATEGYTHE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/19 05:27 AM
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QUEEN SH*TTHE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/19 03:29 PM
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QUEEN SH*TTHE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/19 10:21 PM
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THE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/19 10:34 PM
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NICE FOR WHAT?THE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/19 02:51 PM
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NAH, SISTHE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/19 08:01 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYTHE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/19 07:40 AM
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DISCUSSIONTHE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/19 05:59 PM
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STRATEGYTHE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/19 01:44 PM
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NICE FOR WHAT?THE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/19 02:57 AM
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THE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/19 07:06 PM
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NICE FOR WHAT?THE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/19 03:43 AM
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THE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/19 07:30 AM
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QUEEN SH*TTHE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/19 06:57 AM
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NICE FOR WHAT?THE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/19 09:23 PM
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NAH, SISTHE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/19 07:43 PM
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NICE FOR WHAT?THE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/19 03:28 PM
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SEEKING ADVICETHE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/19 05:47 PM
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QUEEN SH*TTHE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/19 05:28 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYTHE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/19 06:02 PM
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THE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/19 09:03 PM
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THE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/19 07:54 PM
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NICE FOR WHAT?THE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 11:57 AM
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NICE FOR WHAT?THE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/19 08:50 AM
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NAH, SISTHE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/19 01:46 PM
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LEVEL UPTHE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/19 05:55 PM
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QUEEN SH*TTHE_ANGRY_SHARTER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/19 03:21 AM
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It doesn’t matter what he thinks. She’s taking ZERO shit from him and it shows. If he won’t drop the necessary cash and time to see her, someone else will.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 01:35 AM
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You gotta link to that thread. I have to see it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 12:15 AM
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Derogatory term for "male"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/19 09:47 AM
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Oh my good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/19 02:11 AM
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And couldn’t believe he ‘chose’ someone over me. Thanks for pointing it out. Will keep your words in mind. I learned in CBT that if you don't get a grasp and handle on your own insecurities, other people will be able to take advantage of them and use them to manipulate you into behaving in ways which hurt you, and serve someone else's best interest. ​ I STRONGLY recommend Cognitive Behavioral Therapy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/19 09:29 PM
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It's your toxic thinking patterns. You feel like there's a competition and you're not winning. Stop thinking like that. It's self defeating and self sabotaging, and it doesn't help. Acting competitive and jealous in romantic settings is unhelpful at best and a complete disaster and turn off at worst. It'll destroy your self esteem
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/19 11:53 AM
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It's like men think once they meet a girl, they owned her since the day she was born. Yep. I've seen this over and over and over again. It's a recurring theme in relationships. Women are expected to be pure, and the second you disclose a past, you're out. They find a way to make you feel like it's your fault too, they can't just be nice about it. ​ :/ moids...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/19 07:33 PM
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Here's a copy of the post, since these typically get deleted/removed.... ​ " r/AmItheAsshole•Posted byu/One_of_Ten_Alts2 minutes ago AITA For breaking up with my girlfriend after learning she got an abortion? 📷 To clarify, this is about the fact that she got an abortion, not that she was pregnant. My sister is a single mother so I have learned not to judge about stuff like that. About three weeks ago I broke up with my girlfriend of eight months after the topic of past lovers came up and I learn…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/19 07:16 PM
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Guys who are progressive, support human rights and women are berated for no reason. On the other hand Chad can get away with anything. I'm looking right at that comic and the men appear to be on the OPPOSING side of the female protestors. If they were "allies" , then why aren't they standing and protesting against these injustices alongside these women, and also carrying/saying similar shit to support their cause??? ​ I'm just trying to see how far you're going to take the gaslighting attempts. …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 06:51 PM
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Like, just because she slept around in college, doesn’t mean that she’s not allowed to not sleep before marriage. People are disgusting and it’s all the more reason to lie, lie, lie. There’s no benefit to being open about your past. ​ This. ​ There is RARELY a positive response to a woman revealing her sexual past. DON'T EVEN GO THERE, EVER!!! NO WOMAN owes ANY MOID 100% honesty 100% of the time, ESPECIALLY if he's not 100% honest with you, 100% of the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/19 06:45 PM
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Here's a copy of the post... Something tells me it's about to get deleted soon: ​ " r/Advice•Posted byu/crookpat1 hour ago I broke up with my girlfriend almost two months ago. Something happened and I got blamed for it causing her to block me on all social media’s after she thought it was me. I miss her so much almost every day. How can I get over her and move on? 📷 For those wondering what happened to make her block me was. An Instagram account in our town appeared and started messaging a bunch…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/19 06:41 PM
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I grew up Muslim and I'm now an ex-muslim. YOU FUCKED UP MAJOR TIME BY EVEN ENTERTAINING SEX. If you're a Muslim Woman, you need to PRETEND YOU'RE A VIRGIN, unless it's obvious that you've been married before or have kids. If that's the case, pretend that your ex husband is your only partner. LIE, sis. LIE about your sex life. ​ Because here's what's going to happen if you don't. He's going to ghost you. The next guy? Will ghost you too, or lose interest and engage in the slow/fade and stop putt…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/19 06:35 PM
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I can't believe women put up with it and accept this level of treatment. But we ALL know a woman like this. WE ALL HAVE A FRIEND LIKE THIS, and IDK how to help them see that this is a shitty, garbage situation, and they can do better. I personally know 2 girls like this and.... It makes me sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/19 06:28 PM
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Now that I look at the comic again. Those things in the women's comment bubbles "don't rape me" "I owe you nothing" are all pretty typical reactions to a man's failure to handle rejection appropriately. It's supposed to be about politics, but it's really reflective of women's reality. Rejecting a "nice guy" who's unattractive can be dangerous, because they'll oftentimes react in a cringey, visceral, violent, and aggressive manner. A lot of them will not accept "no", and will continue pestering y…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 06:21 PM
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So why isn't it reflective of the populations which vote? Not everyone is a thin, attractive, female with long hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 06:12 PM
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This ENTIRE comic is from a "niceguy" perspective. Notice how the women in the original panel are all conventionally attractive, and are rejecting unattractive guys. Where are the unattractive women here? Hmm? Or does their opinion not even matter or count. The 3 women in the bottom panel are all on the attractive man's "league". Those short bald ugly guys in the top panel? Where are the women in their "league"? The women in their "league" might not have the same reaction . I'm just saying >_>
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 06:06 PM
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Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/19 04:32 PM
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My ex started balding at 26. He went from douchey monthly profile pic updates to having the same photo since May 2016. BAM! Wall's back at it again. IDK what he looks like now. Gross. Life's good. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/19 03:54 PM
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Yeah but I see a lot of women who will have any man's baby and I am just saying I'm not putting my body through this trauma for any moid :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/19 01:43 AM
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This is devastating. This is also exactly why I refuse REFUSE to have a child with any man who isn't my husband and who's not worth having a child with, period. ​ I can't understand how some women can put their bodies through this for just any man's baby. I can't fathom it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/19 10:46 PM
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"You seem like a really nice woman. You should be aware that Bob is a functioning alcoholic." Thank you, Sis, for confirming what I suspected. I declined further dates with him even though he was loaded. Next! You dodged a MAJOR bullet. Yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/19 09:52 PM
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Hence my question. How do you establish the line of what you’ll allow, and what you won’t? IT takes practice. Effort, patience, and persistence. First and foremost, you have got to filter out moids on your Online dating profiles based on a list of qualifications. Any moid which does not fit your list, is an immediate left swipe, no questions asked, no excuses or rationalizations, or "there's nothing wrong with him" type of justifications. IF HE'S NOT QUALIFIED TO MEET THE REQUIREMENTS ON YOUR LI…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/19 09:39 PM
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I guess I should have realized someone like him wasnt gonna want to be with someone like me. We clicked really well so I thought maybe it was going to be different but part of me wonders if I had a nice job like him he'd want me. It just sucks because it's not like I dont have anything to bring to the table, I'm funny, nice and fairly attractive but I'm a struggling waitress who has no idea what I want to do. This is extremely problematic, OP. Please PLEASE don't take this the wrong way. Your po…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/19 09:26 PM
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"He's not my rapist, so I should feel comfortable" Excuse me, wtf? This is a recurring theme. ANY mention of exes or a sexual past will cause most men to treat you worse. They'll use the information to degrade the woman, to victim blame, and to ultimately lose interest in the relationship and have an excuse to walk away. I see this over and over and over again, daily, all over dating, love, relationship and advice subreddits and all over social media. Almost always, without exception, no matter …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/19 09:15 PM
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I was raped when I was young and still try to get past the trauma. He doesn’t want to hear that. He’s not my rapist, so I shouldn’t feel uncomfortable. ​ This goes back to one of the golden rules of dating successfully. You NEVER EVER EVER reveal anything sexual from your past, to any man, ever. Even sexual trauma, sexual abuse, or rape. I strongly urge you to please find a licensed, qualified therapist to talk to, in a confidential setting, about this trauma and never ever speak of it with a ro…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/19 09:10 PM
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"you should make the first move and communicate all your feelings to the guy!" I feel SO bad for the women on bumble and those "women make the first move" apps. Someone needs to release the numbers for those. Like how successful are they?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/19 09:07 PM
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"I'm LoOkInG tO mEeT nEw pEoPLe aNd sEe wHeRe tHiNgS gO fRoM tHeRe" means "I'm looking to smash and dash" ​ Stupid ass moids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/19 09:05 PM
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what's the point in giving them our time? I'm not hating or anything on this sub, . There isn't one. If it's your goal to never date, or never date longterm, or never to date longterm, successfully, then I 100% support you. You don't have to give them your time. You don't owe anyone your time. You're free and clear to be as single as you want, forever. ​ However, many of us DO WANT to date, and this information is geared towards them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/19 09:03 PM
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Like many users have said before, letting a man know your high n-count will only end badly for you. No matter how good, trustworthy and genuine you think he is. he will view you negatively. Period. The end. ​ This is an absolutely golden nugget of information. I've even read posts from women who've disclosed previous sexual trauma to their partners. Like posts where women tell a guy that she was raped as a teenager by a family friend or something, and it's had the same results... the dude "can't…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/19 08:59 PM
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Half the dudes who are "35" on tinder at LEAST 50 or have done hardcore drugs since the age of 13. Like dude, seriously? I have eyes. I can see your liver spots, and I'm swiping left. You look like a hop, skip, and a throw away from receiving Social Security checks. GTFOH with that bullshit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/19 08:51 PM
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I had to filter out bald men in their 40s and my neighbor who is in his 70s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/19 07:07 PM
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Why was it removed?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/19 01:03 PM
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Yes you can. You're a sexual being and feminism doesn't exclude your atypical kinks and preferences. I'm a rampaging feminist and I've had vivid rape and forced sex fantasies since I was a teenager. I still watch that type of porn sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 01:41 PM
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There are shredded men in their 40s and I'm going to date the shredded men in their late 20s over them. Furthermore, you wouldn't even show up in my Online dating app filter. No man over the age of 36 will and I'm 26.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 09:31 PM
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This.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 10:32 AM
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It kind of does. There's a distinct absence of female trolls and this "missing hostility" results in a significant disparity of views expressed online and it shows
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 10:31 AM
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Yep. There are a lot of subreddits for men who are balding and there are virtually no female trolls on there making them feel bad about balding (which is age related). Same with erectile dysfunction. But there are a lot of trolls on r/datingoverthirty telling women they've hit the wall and you'll see vicious attacks in the comments. Again, it's because both men and women hit the wall but men are the only ones being cruel about it. Men absolutely peak in their mid 20s and after 30, most men start…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 08:05 AM
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The wall honestly hits both men and women. But women don't go out of their way to make men feel bad about balding, dad bod, wrinkles, erectile dysfunction, and other male issues that are age related. Men go out of their way to make women feel bad about aging. There's a subreddit called r/Men_of_the_wall that shows how the wall hits men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 07:53 AM
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Excellent read. Most moids will tell you straight up that a woman's career doesn't matter to them when they're choosing partners and then turn around and ask "wHaT dO YoU bRiNg tO ThE TabLe?" When you have standards. Useless moids!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/19 09:46 AM
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Lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/19 09:40 AM
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RIGHT ON. This feeds into a concept that's very important: The security deposit principle. When you insist on him paying for dates, you're creating a security deposit requirement for dating you. If he's going to bullshit and waste your time, it'll cost him a pretty penny. This forces them to take you seriously or decide that your time is too expensive to waste and they'll bounce, leaving you free to date someone who is going to be serious about you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/19 01:22 AM
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YES!!!! ​ Every single time a woman moves on from a pathetic, low-effort, low-value loser, and discovers the SEA of opportunity that is online dating.... a small part of my hope for humanity is restored. I.... I'm so proud you guys. I... I CANNOT even, right now. I CAN'T even!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/19 06:05 PM
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Exactly. There's NO REASON to accept mediocre behavior and treatment from any one guy or to stay stuck in something unfulfilling and unhappy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/19 04:34 PM
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Don't post it to social media either. And clean up your social media before you get into another relationship. Delete all if the photos of exes and limit your past posts. Do a full sweep, lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/19 02:38 PM
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I agree with this. Put it on silent but let him see it light up every time you get a new notification.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/19 01:57 AM
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Shiiiiiiiiid! I am THIS CLOSE 👌 to creating a tinder for my feet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/19 01:56 AM
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It really is
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 10:25 PM
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but knowing my worth in order to stand up for myself without some fear or even broach a promotion is still in the works. This is exceedingly hard to do. NGL, I still struggle with defining what I want and what I need and communicating this clearly to folks, and taking no shit from people and holding others accountable. ​ Who taught us to collapse in the face of criticism and conflict like this???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 07:37 PM
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YOU DID GOOD!! He's retaliating. He tried dumping you and it didn't work. Now he's trying to lure you in so he could go cold / ghost after to punish you. Remember. He's used to you kissing his ass and being exclusive to him while he dates around. He's lost control of that, and he's going to want it back. He's going to try and "punish" you back into that mindset by going hot and cold, by showing off new girls to try and make you jealous and by trying to piss you off and hurt you, to trigger you i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 07:00 PM
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He's not being exclusive to her. He's playing games and she's not having it. She's got backups and isn't worried about this one moid. Remember. We want to maximize female benefit. Fuck his feelings. Especially if he's going to dump her and see others
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 02:37 PM
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Moids hate it when we advise women to take zero shit and to leave their dumpster fire relationships. They hate female standards and mass downvote them. We reinforce and support female standards and those are downvoted
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 02:29 PM
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Wanting to go out and have fun, basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 12:41 PM
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It won't benefit the woman to reveal her sexual past. I have NEVER EVER seen it work out for the woman's favor in my years of redditing on relationship, dating, marriage and breakup subreddits. This information almost ALWAYS used by men to justify treating women worse and Ultimately dumps them. Dude dumped her once already. He was probably thinking of dumping her anyway and wanted an excuse to make it seem like her fault.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 11:35 AM
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He's retaliating. He's expecting you to breakdown and cry and go running off to him and been for him back
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 09:32 AM
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I am so proud of you for ending that toxic relationship. I'm so sorry that you're feeling hurt by him and I am so happy it's finally over. I want to recommend these books by Dr. David Burns called "feeling good: the new mood therapy" and "when Panic attacks". They were tremendously helpful to me in my time of need. They're fantastic as audiobooks from the Audible app. They were particularly helpful for building my self esteem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 02:06 AM
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he beat me to the punch. After planning an extravagant trip out of state where he paid for everything, he randomly asked me to pay for an expensive lunch on the last day there. It was out of the blue. He then mentioned that he wanted us to go 50/50 on dates, and that's not something I can do. Its a deal breaker for me and I can not proceed with this relationship any longer. My mistake was not putting my expectations up on Tinder before he asked me to be exclusive. ​ It's okay. I'm learning and g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/19 10:45 PM
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And you're planning to break up with him because...he doesn't want to pay for 100% of your dates? Does he know you expect him to pay for everything? Have you brought this up with him at all? Because if you ghost him until Friday without addressing this issue at all, and then suddenly break up with him, you'll be dealing with a very startled ex-boyfriend who never realized why you were upset with him in the first place. ​ Absolutely. He actually asked me to cover the cost of a meal we had togethe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/19 10:42 PM
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I think it's short for "male humanoid". Either way, it's like a really nasty way to refer to a male.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/19 10:37 PM
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I reported him too. I am a stellar partner and I know it. Moids mad. Look at how charged and hostile his comment is. This is just one of the many many nasty messages I receive from pissed angry moids who are jealous and afraid that they're inadequate when compared to their peers. They HATE the fact that hot, successful men exist and are out there treating women with respect and go above and beyond in relationships. They gawk and are baffled at women's standards. I made this list of what I liked …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/19 10:35 PM
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Awww. He sounds like a good guy. 😄. It's okay. That's the purpose of this thread. Women need to see that good treatment exists out there and I hope a lot more users post examples of great treatment by their boyfriends or exes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/19 09:42 PM
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I CAN NOT recommend this book enough. It is directly responsible for restoring my self esteem and helping me deal with my destructive self-defeating behaviors. Because of this book, I've been able to: Quit smoking, TWICE. Quit drinking, several times, but finally for good. Lose weight (down from 5'8 150 lbs, to 5'8, 127 lbs) and keep it off. Leave a domestic violence situation, and deal with the nightmares, fears, and paranoia that come with the aftermath. The disarming technique helped me bette…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/19 06:39 PM
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I got BANNED from RPW for criticizing "male depravity". Mods on there argued that me insulting MALE DEPRAVITY was insulting red pilled men. Think about that for a second. It's a subreddit that's supposed to be "woman centered", being moderated by folks who think MALE DEPRAVITY is defensible. ​ Have you seen the red pilled men and r/asktrp subreddits? Red pilled men are obsessed with giving women as little as possible. It is a SHIT SHOW, over there. Red pilled men hate redpilled women, and redpil…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/19 06:10 PM
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Absolutely. I have never had a one night stand with a dude below 6 foot 3. They've been shredded personal trainers, ex-bodybuilders and male models. They all took me on amazing dates and ended up back at their place, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 02:00 PM
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Most people on Reddit will tell you that it's perfectly okay for women to lead the interaction. That a lot of men actually love it when women message first. ​ Are you on Online Dating? Because if you are, I'd like to share my experience with you in regards to "making the first move". Like you, I was curious about this. I lurk on relationship / dating / breakup / relevant subreddits and I'd read over and over and over and over again that it's okay to make the first move as a woman, that it's enco…
/r/seduction06/10/19 01:48 PM
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Right on sis. ​ Every single moment spent with a Simon Rex is a moment NOT spent with Prince Harry. Remember that, ladies. Every single second spent in a lackluster relationship is a second not spent in an amazing, fulfilling relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/19 01:05 PM
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" I’m 100% ready for commitment and being exclusive, but he has insisted that he’s not ready and can’t give me a timeline or what he needs in order to be ready. " ​ Your situation is exceedingly common in the dating scene. Men want the freedom to date others, while guaranteeing that their SO is exclusive to them. THIS IS A RECURRING THEME LADIES. NEVER BE EXCLUSIVE WITH SOMEONE WHO ISN'T EXCLUSIVE WITH YOU. ​ OP, You are doing EVERYTHING RIGHT. He's not exclusive with you. You don't even need to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/19 12:53 PM
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Moids mad. Lol. She's doing it right. Her time costs money. Exhorbitant sums of money. She's making BANK and moids are mad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/19 12:42 PM
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I'd like to nominate this post: https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/ddtw1f/todays_savage_of_the_day_this_op_and_her_ability/ ​ OP gets right to the point and summarizes everything in a concise and effective way.... rooted in experience too. The comments are also gold
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/19 12:55 AM
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Correct. I AM the table. I'm also the chair, and everything else ON the table. Moids fail to understand that. ​ The microsecond they fail to sustain my interest, they are discarded like a worthless napkin so the next one can take their place. After all, the next one might have been on tinder for 8 months, or 2 years, or 6 years. He's been humbled. Humbled by the lack of matches. The sex bots. The ghosters. The escorts, and the catfish. The 29,614 sent messages with no replies. They understand ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 10:33 PM
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moids are mad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/19 10:26 PM
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Exactly. They really do believe that wall shit.... Plus, they forget an obvious mathematical reality.... that there's another side to that coin. If I'm 30 and not getting the attention I want from 30 year old dudes, I'm entertaining 35+ and 40 year old dudes, who will fight amongst themselves to date me. You can be that younger one at any age.... it's mathematically possible as long as older men exist....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/19 10:20 PM
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Agreed. I swipe on what's hot, and then choose among them. Top 3 get to wine and dine me, the most competitive one wins.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 10:18 PM
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Honestly, it's too much work :(. ​ So I just lurk on reddit and passively share posts of others who had similar experiences and learned amazing things from it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/19 10:07 PM
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^_^ you're welcome. I'm so so SO glad I can help other women avoid the bullshit I've been put through. ​ I wish my best friend was on Reddit. Half the advice I espouse on this, I get from her. She's in her mid 30s, and is with a very very successful man who's 41. He just bought her a house, and she's living there rent free, in her own house, which he's paying for. She literally told me that she wishes she followed her own advice when she was younger. That the number one mistake was wasting time …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/19 09:28 PM
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Good one. ​ I straight up laugh at the ones they send me. It destroys their ego. Seriously. Men are DEATHLY afraid of a woman laughing at their dick. They'll think twice before sending it again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/19 08:56 PM
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But most reach a point where they'd rather be alone than put up with some zero effort man's shit. There is no dance and song about it, no wgto cult, they just do it. ​ Exactly. If being partnered up with a dude is worse than being alone, it's not worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/19 08:37 PM
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" Honestly? I probably did too much. I should’ve just left after 5 minutes that night and never talked to him again. I shouldn’t have even tried to start a conversation with him. I shouldn’t have worried about him feeling bad for HIS own actions. I had nothing to do with him “passing out”/ignoring me. But after my two small attempts at talking, I decided it wasn’t worth it, in part because of this sub. " ​ How do you think this sub started? Why do you think we share this perspective? Many of us …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/19 07:54 PM
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I am a survivor of domestic violence and my abuser was perfect in every regard, until he suddenly changed, seemingly overnight and began abusing me. It took me MONTHS to plot an escape and had to run for my life in the middle of the night and I still live with fear and always look over my shoulder. We do NOT seek out these men. They are professional PSYCHOPATHS and know how to choose their victims well, know how to trap them, and when to begin their abuse and how to stop women from leaving. If h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/19 05:38 PM
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You bet your sweet ass it does. Ladies! NEVER EVER reveal your n count or number of your past partners. They will use that info to shame you and to justify treating you like shit. You owe them NOTHING! Your past is your business and you're entitled to your privacy. If you insist on telling them something, tell them you've had 2 exes, pick out your best two and leave it at that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/19 05:30 PM
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I blocked every single asshole on that thread. I am committed to deleting, blocking, and removing ALL ASSHOLES from my life. My life has improved SIGNIFICANTLY since I began doing this. See a moid, report a moid!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/19 05:19 PM
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Disgusting delusional moids. I think I vomited in my mouth, a little from downvoting their drivel. I blocked every single one. Delete, ignore, block, NEXT!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/19 05:15 PM
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PRECISELY THIS. Let those other women deal with substandard treatment, cheap men, lazy romantic partners, man children, and deadbeats. Let them deal with the "Netflix and chill" and going Dutch on dates. Especially the women on redpill subreddits who attack and shame the standards of other women. Let them have it. You reinforce YOUR standards and boundaries and keep it moving!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/19 04:50 PM
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Seriously? I didn't know that. I thought it was "male humanoid" Fascinating
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/19 04:46 PM
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Moving on done right!! She's exceptionally good at taking zero shit from men and I hope she knows she's a ruthless badass for that move!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/19 04:44 PM
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This comment made me irrationally happy today. Mace that creepy moid Lolol!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/19 04:42 PM
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It's not your job to teach him shit he should have figured out by 40. Why be nice and decent to someone who doesn't deserve it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/19 04:41 PM
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Me too. I'm so PROUD, I can hardly contain my excitement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/19 04:39 PM
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He had you so the way fucked up. Congrats again on taking ZERO shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/19 04:39 PM
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I just went on a moid blocking spree. One of them was following me around and instantly downvoting all my comments, within seconds of me posting. I think I got him. No downvotes in my new posts or comments yet. Hateful Moids can suck my asshole with that bullshit and report them on site ladies!! Report moid sympathizers on site too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/19 04:35 PM
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So glad to have you. Thanks for sharing your story and I hope you'll pay and comment and let us know what has and hadn't worked for you. Sending love your way. 😘🥰😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/19 04:26 PM
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My ex was PERFECT at 17%. He got down to almost zero with me and it was hot but not good for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 04:04 PM
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Lolol!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/19 03:59 PM
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Notice how he didn't want exclusivity until he knew she was fucking her ex. This is a recurring theme, ladies. Men move quickly towards monogamy and exclusivity when they realize there's competition for your attention and time. Never be exclusive with a man who wasn't exclusive with you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/19 03:31 PM
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What the actual fuck. "Maybe YOU should come here and get breastfed since I obviously live with two infants" is what I'd say to this moid. Disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/19 02:49 PM
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LOL!! Your username is hilarious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/19 01:55 PM
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The general idea is to have backups. This one's fucked up but there are better options out there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/19 01:53 PM
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Your tears will make FINE ADDITIONS for my ghostly pursuits in the afterlife. Enjoy your ban.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/19 01:49 PM
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I am so proud of you for throwing away the ENTIRE dude. Everything you did was right. Kudos to you for taking ZERO shit from this dude. Delete, ignore, block, NEXT!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/19 06:14 AM
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I hope Redpilledwomen is next. I got BANNED from that subreddit for calling out male depravity. Mods argued that me insulting male depravity was insulting Red Pilled men. Think about that for a second, it's a subreddit that calls itself a "women's space", banning users who criticize male depravity.... ​ "women's space", my ass ​ I hope it's next.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/19 03:58 AM
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First of all, not all heroes wear capes and I wish I had silver to award you. ​ Second of all, I love the username. LOVE IT. ​ Third of all, r/UsernameChecksOut Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/19 03:56 AM
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I'm going to try it. Thank you! <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/19 03:50 AM
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usually it's none of the above. It's because he's lackluster and isn't putting forth any real effort
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/19 03:50 AM
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I get a twisted amount of pleasure from reporting moids and excessive moid sympathizing. ​ Feels good to have this space you guys. I love this subreddit ^_^
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/19 03:46 AM
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Thank you so much for linking that. How do I link removed reddits? How did you find it in removedreddit? ​ I'm asking because I post so many posts that are later deleted by ashamed moids posts that I can never find again and a lot of users ask me to post it. I was thinking of maybe requesting that the mods of r/FemaleDatingStrategy create a bot which copies the text, in case something's removed (like the "r/AITA" one that copies the OP's post) , but IDK how that would help if the entire post is …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/19 03:43 AM
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Made me immediately uneasy, her pictures were all new as well so that made me think shes active on Tinder and already looking for other people. ​ This part. He EXPECTED HER to be off the apps like he was so special that she can't possibly date others and is now shattered and too depressed to go out there and date someone new, as fast as he was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/19 03:40 AM
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I (26F) was with my ex fiance (36M) because of exactly this reason. He had his own house, his own cars, and his own businesses. He was also a former male model and army vet. ​ He was the best and most intense love I've ever had. He was mature and perfect (at the time). There's NOTHING wrong with dating someone older. I say go for it, unapologetically, if that's what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 08:17 PM
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This is why I ALWAYS advise women to set up OLD as fast as possible after a breakup just to see what's out there. It doesn't have to be serious or a rebound, just being able to feel like others are interested in you and you have options does so much good for your mental health, especially at a time and place where you need an extra self-esteem boost. :( :( :( ​ I see a lot of advise that tells women they need to wait before moving on but honestly, I think that does more harm than good because yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/19 07:37 PM
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KNOWING someone is a misogynistic human dumpster fire and signing up to be abused by them anyway is just... Is just a mistake. ​ She can make mistakes and she learned from it and used it as an opportunity to grow. It's okay. We shouldn't demonize people who make mistakes :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/19 06:40 PM
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they really can't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/19 06:28 PM
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It was a shitty date and she dodged a bullet for sure
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/19 04:32 PM
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Insecurity. ​ The fact that women brazenly and boldly state a list of preferences for a romantic/sexual partner means that the women either had a higher quality man before and want that again, or that they're not thinking about the male in question in a romantic light, since he doesn't fit the list of qualifications. There's also an insecurity that men who have the qualities on her list are in abundance and the dude in question falls short, and is therefore .... inadequate when compared to his p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/19 04:17 PM
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I vomitted in my mouth a little reading it, and almost vomitted again this morning. It's great to see progress though. I'm formerly redpilled too :(. ​ The red pill is the default mode of socialization for women who grew up in strict religious households like mine (Islamic). It's really hard to break out of that mindset. It takes a lot of work, THERAPY, and lots of self-reflection and growth to break free of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/19 04:06 PM
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DAMN 9.5 / 10. DO NOT include: 3 include the rest
/r/askTRP04/10/19 02:19 PM
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I am doing this in the future if I get cheated on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/19 12:05 PM
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Lol!!! It's what they get for being traitors to women's progress. I'm having the most intense, gut wrenching orgasms, and anti feminists can go lick my butthole with that bullshit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/19 09:46 AM
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Unattractive but effective
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/19 03:58 AM
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Because men are simple creatures. You're rewarding their behavior with your behaviors. If he does a good thing, and it's rewarded, he'll continue doing that good thing. If he does a bad thing, and you reward the bad thing with your presence, your time, your effort, your energy, or WORSE, your listening ear and dry shoulder to cry on, or support, or affection, or praise, or ANYTHING OTHER THAN PUNISHMENT; you can GUARANTEE that he'll do that shit again, and again, and again. Until you leave. Once…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/19 03:24 AM
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This is the most disgusting, vile, depraved thing I've seen all day. NEVER LET A MOID DO THIS TO YOU, LADIES!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/19 03:19 AM
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What kind of impact? Take a look at this screenshot, OP. https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/dchd56/standard_shaming_is_the_norm_for_men_never_let/ ​ It's just one of many messages I receive simply for stating my preferences. I received another message from a dude that said that I needed to be some sort of goddess to attract a man with qualities that indicate basic DECENCY. Someone actually managed to hack my reddit account and change my buttons and languages to Hindi and the …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 02:29 AM
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Older men have deluded themselves into thinking that younger women are attracted to them. They need to be EXTRAORDINARY to receive the same level of attention as a man the same age as you. My ex was 10 years older but he was a male model, ex bodybuilder, and army vet who had his own house, cars, and business. These losers really believe all that wall shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/19 06:26 PM
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Excellent, magnificent advice. My new bf communicated with me via Google voice and didn't get my number until 2 weeks after we were official. Use Google voice numbers to your advantage. They're free and amazing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/19 06:22 PM
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My ex's neighbor came to the house after he saw my ex's truck leave and tried to get me to come outside and talk to him. I told my ex and locked the door. My ex called the dude in front of me and directly told him to never come to the house when he's gone again. Dudes betray each other all the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/19 06:19 PM
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The probationary period is the first 2 years. That's when he should be trying to court you the hardest. My rules are this. You get 3 chances per year to fuck it up. On the fourth offense, you're gone and you mean it. Some offenses (cheating, stealing, disgusting, embarrassing, humiliating behaviors) are a 1 and done. You wait for him to go to work, pack everything and disappear from his life, and block him from everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/19 06:15 PM
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Don't beat yourself up. You'll get good at it. It takes practice and failed attempts. Be kind to yourself and focus on learning and growing and you'll get there eventually
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/19 06:12 PM
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Because fuck their feelings
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/19 06:11 PM
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You just need practice. I remember the first time it happened to me. It takes about 5 times for you to just get the hang of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/19 06:10 PM
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Did you see the "I'm kind of a sarcastic asshole" part?? Moids are DELUSIONAL if they think that's what women want. Ladies, please use tweezers or FORCIPS to throw this one out of the gene pool. Thank God nobody has breeded with it yet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/19 06:05 PM
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He's on forever alone dating. Let us bow our head in prayer! "Oh dear lord we pray that the FOREVER ALONE in r/foreveralonedating is guaranteed!" Amen, y'all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/19 06:02 PM
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Same. Moids mad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/19 05:59 PM
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I am THIS close to posting screenshots of the drivel I receive from moids who subscribe to that subreddit. I wish they'd go their own way already. Why aren't they talking about mountains or monks or Jenga or whatever else "going their own way" entails??? Why do these losers talk about women and obsess about what women are doing??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/19 05:59 PM
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I downvoted their post and their shitty responses. Women who discuss their sexual history, n count and exes are making rookie dating mistakes. NEVER EVER EVER reveal this info to any moid, they'll always use it against you and engage in shaming.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/19 05:56 PM
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Keep doing what you're doing. If there's no commitment, and he's choosing to not see others, that's HIS CHOICE. Probably because of the low response rate and the fact that it's much easier for you to get dates than it is for him. Until exclusivity is discussed and agreed to by both parties, you're free to see and date whoever you want and so is he. Don't let it bother you or get to you. You've done nothing wrong. I'm kind of impressed by how you moved in with him without commitment. Just make su…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/19 05:50 PM
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Always the unstable ones for sure. They always have all the time in the world from underemployment or unemployment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/19 03:37 PM
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I've gotten so many random DMs from dudes. They truly are pathetic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/19 01:44 PM
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Eww! I remember those 40 year olds on Tinder
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/19 01:39 PM
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I AM the table
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 02:56 AM
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THIS!!!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 12:25 AM
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I love it. I'm stealing this. ​ Sometimes I think I've seen the peak of human brilliance and then someone from this subreddit opens my mind up to new heights of awesomeness. ​ I.... I cannot even right now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/19 12:22 AM
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I forgot about the veins. Good catch.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 12:14 AM
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precisely
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/19 12:03 AM
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Traits which I find explicitly sexually attractive? ​ Below is a list of my SPECIFIC, PERSONAL PREFERENCES, which turn me on instantly: ​ - Tall (6'3) - Dark - Handsome (sexy face) - Shredded muscles, shredded forearms, a 6 pack or an 8-pack of abs. Shredded calves. - Low body fat (my ex had about 17% body fat, and he was perfect) - A head full of hair, and facial hair that is no thicker than light to medium stubble - Straight, clean, white teeth and a Manly voice, a great smell/good hygiene - S…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 12:01 AM
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Don’t ever let them shame you for having standards. Those types of losers fear standards because they are bottom of the barrel males who couldn’t possibly meet any of them. ​ Moids all over Reddit will sit there and complain about women preferring taller men who are attractive, because "hEigHt iSn'T sOmEthInG mEn cAn cOnTroL", and then turn around and bash older women, forgetting that age is something that also can't be controlled. I've developed emotional nausea from lurking around too many moi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/19 11:51 PM
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exactly. BASIC DECENCY triggers moids into saying shit like "wHaT dO yOu bRiNg tO tHe tAbLe?" WTF??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/19 11:42 PM
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I've just described my ex-fiance. It took me about 1 week on OkCupid to swipe right on him. I spent about ~14 minutes / day on Ok Cupid at the time. Technically, (according to him) he messaged me 6 months earlier, but I was offline and ignoring everything and everyone so I don't know how long it might have taken me if I took it seriously. He might have also been lying. ​ I expect to find that again. It's not really hard for me. I have 2 dudes like this at work who are interested in me, currently…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 09:58 PM
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Solid, fantastic advice. ​ Moids will perform mental gymnastics trying to shame women for keeping their options open and having standards. You will receive HATE MAIL and VITRIOL from men simply for indicating that you, also, are seeing others and will not be with any one man who does not meet your standards. Don't let them make you feel like shit for daring to stand up for yourself, for reinforcing your boundaries, asking for what you want, and leaving unapologetically if the relationship is lac…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/19 09:39 PM
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He's attractive, tall, and handsome. He's romantic, warm, a great listener, and easy to talk to. He has a distinguished, established career that takes up no more than 40 hours a week of his time. He is thoughtful, kind, and caring. He is serious, mature, and empathetic. He is generous, thoughtful, firm, focused, and determined in his romantic pursuit of me. He is monogamous, honest, faithful, and an excellent communicator. He is responsible, accountable, and backs up his words with matching, con…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 08:35 PM
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Yes!!!! I wrote about it here: https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/dbdtej/my_reply_and_share_and_other_buttons_eg_view_full/ ​ I messaged the mods and they helped me fix it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/19 05:51 PM
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It's really not. We'd welcome red pilled women's perspectives and strategies for dating. We'd want genuine and legitimate information on which approaches specific to the red pill led RPW to success in dating and marriage.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/19 05:46 PM
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One of them straight up went through my post history and made comments about my ex-fiance and why I left him after what happened. This dude read paragraphs of my comments and made a throwaway account with like 79 Karma just to fuck with me. ​ The only infinitely renewable source of anything on this planet is male depravity. They are SO VESTED in attacking women's standards and women who stand up for themselves. IT is investigating into who hacked my reddit account and changed my buttons and lang…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/19 05:36 PM
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COMPLETELY. I'd like to invite some of you over to r/FemaleDatingStrategy where we literally discuss the bottomless pit of male depravity that's present on Reddit, especially on RP subreddits. Seriously.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/19 05:30 PM
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If he continues to badger you, then I recommend that you answer the phone, gather basic identifying info from him (his name, and where he lives, etc.) and go to the police and get a restraining order against him. They'll need a street address for him, and you'll have to have that info, but you can choose to withhold your address from the peace order. Make sure it covers your work address too, it can also be withheld.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/19 01:40 PM
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Disgusting male depravity. I hope she's okay and safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/19 01:32 PM
24

Believe me, after my ex, I TRIED. I seriously tried, and no, I'm not. ​ TRUST AND BELIEVE ME when I say that if lesbianism was optional, I would opt into it immediately. I would NOT choose to be attracted to men if it were optional, I swear by that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/19 01:23 PM
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This is a disgusting display of displaced male arrogance. They're COMPLETELY delusional. Newsflash! I've been on the r/OLD app subreddits and they're riddled with men bitching about the low response rate, the lack of matches, and the bots, escorts, and women who ghost or are on there just for attention. Not women. MEN. Not one woman is bitching about the lack of matches. NOT A SINGLE ONE. ALL MEN, even "Chads", are bitching about the low response rate and low match rate on OLD. He's delusional a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/19 12:28 AM
7

This is a STELLAR, FANTASTIC post. Thank you for sharing your experience, and I AM SO GLAD you found this sub. My favorite sub :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/19 09:03 PM
4

NEWSFLASH: It's technically an opportunity to give someone ELSE a shot, who has better qualities, who is less willing to disappoint me., a chance. Why tell 9.5 "No" when another 9.5 is around the corner, again?? ​ I reported him for breaking r/FemaleDatingStrategy rules: Advice given doesn't maximize female benefit. I LOVE THIS SUBREDDIT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/19 08:26 PM
34

Always remember that there are dudes you're ignoring, for him. Dudes waiting, hoping and praying that he fucks up so they can get a chance. That can and will change at a moment's notice. No second chances. No bullshit. ZERO tolerance, ladies. ZERO!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/19 07:14 PM
6

Good bot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/19 03:46 PM
18

They are COMPLETELY delusional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/19 03:46 PM
27

They are UTTERLY DELUSIONAL about dating and age gap relationships. Check out these powerful nuggets of data: ​ About 7.4% of heterosexual married couples are in a relationship such that the husband is 10+ years older than the wife, leaving 92.6% of all married men to be married to women who are within 9 years of their age. These 7.4% of men who managed to find and land a woman who's 10+ years younger than they are, are the Donald Trumps, The George Clooney's, and the Leonardo DiCaprios of the w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/19 03:04 PM
14

They're definitely beyond help. I had IT place all kinds of virus protections on my laptop so the person responsible could be tracked and located the next time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/19 02:58 PM
5

😭😭😭😭😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/19 01:42 PM
5

Yeah. No ambition and no game.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/19 01:42 PM
1

A lot of people here are utterly bored and are looking for the next edgy thing to make them unique and quirky. A LOT of teens are identifying as conservative because of the sheer shock factor and the amount of attention they receive in terms of positive and negative reactions.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 04:09 AM
23

"with REAL engine de-greasing power!" ​ I am dying. I CANNOT with ya'll tonight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/19 03:34 AM
1

There's absolutely nothing logical about some of these dudes who've deluded themselves into thinking that after 10,000 swipes, and about 2% of those matching back, most who are robots, IG follower solicitors, escorts, and fake accounts.... That they're going to just up, leave, and replace a high quality woman as quickly as she will replace him. ​ ..... It does not fempute.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 03:33 AM
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" Never abandon your standards, regardless of your age. " ​ There's an ENTIRE BREED of men now, who are online dating. They'll do and say anything to get you to commit to them and be their GF, and once they have you bagged, they start working on chipping away at your standards. They're so fucking egotistical and delusional, and have no idea that they're 4.5 minutes of Tindering away from being replaced like, MOTHERFUCKER I WILL THROW YOU BACK TO THE SINGLE VOID FROM WHICH YOU CAME to remind you …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/19 03:30 AM
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Little do they know that we've been moisturizing and wearing sunscreen since our teens, while the average male looks like warm coleslaw by the time they hit 25. OP HAD ME ROLLING ON THE FLOOR LAUGHING at the "Axe 3 in 1 face, hair, and body wash". I am still dying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/19 03:26 AM
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This is a PHENOMENAL, OUTSTANDING post, and I wish I could upvote more than once!!!! ​ These worthless, low-value men brigading this subreddit have hacked my account (check my post history. I'm an avid poster of r/FemaleDatingStrategy and I report moids at every turn and downvote their drivel every single time. Some miserable incel hacked my reddit account and changed my fucking buttons and fonts to HINDI. WTF??? ​ WORTHLESS, LOW-VALUE MEN need to fuck off the face of this planet, I AM GLAD that…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/19 03:24 AM
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Literally, all I'm doing now is dipping, dodging, diving, ducking, and dodging him. Sorry. I am an introvert. I have a TREMENDOUS time staying at home by myself or with other friends. No room for that shit with a romantic partner. ​ Him: "You wanna come over to my place and ...." "no thanks, I'm tired today" ​ Him: "Can I come over and ...." ""hey, I already had previous plans, but you have fun, okay?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/19 06:43 PM
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Right on, Sis. Daily reminder to take ZERO shit from men. ZERO!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/19 06:35 PM
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It's 100% untrue. Aging sucks for BOTH men and women. The fact of the matter is that only ONE gender chooses to make the other feel like shit about it. Men choose to make women feel like shit about getting older when age is NOBODY's friend. ​ This guy here, who's balding, hates it because it means that most of the 20 something women he's after are ignoring him. That's why he's trying hard to hold onto what little hair he has left. Seriously. Men, especially the ones on INCEL subreddits, MGTOW, r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/19 03:58 PM
2

Lmao!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/19 02:32 AM
2

Yeah fuck that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/19 02:31 AM
2

That's why he will keep doing it. There's no consequences
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/19 07:13 PM
2

Cognitive behavioral therapy
/r/askTRP28/09/19 04:01 PM
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He is being passive aggressive. By worrying and calling him, you'd be rewarding this behavior with an outcome. The outcome is probably what he wants you to do. If you're anxiously texting him or apologizing for shit when you did no wrong, CUT THAT OUT IMMEDIATELY. Don't reward the behavior, otherwise it'll continue to happen. Instead, find something he hates and punish this behavior with it. For example, if he HATES it when you hang out with another guy. Definitely hang out with that guy EVERY T…
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/19 03:35 PM
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"please, baby. Give me a chance to treat you like shit. I swear I will."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/19 03:14 PM
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Lmao I'm glad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/19 09:29 PM
5

Yes you do. This is my favorite subreddit 😁😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/19 09:28 PM
3

Higher N count women know this and a lot of them market themselves as low N count
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 07:45 PM
75

I told my best friend that I want fuckboy tears to be poured on my grave every year on my birthday.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/19 01:00 PM
50

I wish I could upvote more than once. Nice comeback
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/19 12:59 PM
5

Exactly. I'm dumbfounded by women on Reddit who are upset, crying, devastated, and shattered by men and they feel like they're going to end up alone when there are THOUSANDS of men out there and they're not unique or special
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/19 12:54 PM
5

Damn the comments are bitter and brutal. Dudes are mad that her match rate was 56% and a man's is like 2%
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/19 10:46 AM
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I should NOT have Googled that >_<
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/19 12:01 AM
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" the consensus from men seems to be women are whores if they like sex (n count), but they want their female partner to like fucking. " ​ Yep. Some men actually succeed in finding naturally "low N-count" women and marrying and ending up with them. What they don't realize is that there's a reason behind that. Either it's hormonal, a naturally low libido, or sexual trauma/abuse from the past, or a general upbring that's changed her view / perspective on sex, or a shitty ex. ​ Regardless, many have…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 10:15 PM
1

Whatever it is that I find out, I'll learn from it and improve myself for my next boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 10:08 PM
1

You VASTLY overestimate how important sex is to me. Also, just because my ex was good at this one thing, doesn't mean my current BF will also be good at that one thing. Finding out would mean shittier treatment. Again, it's just the way men are. IDK why, it's just the way they are. If I had to choose between the thing I was talking about, that I prefer, and being treated well, I'd choose being treated well, and it's his loss, really. ​ I don't want to share my past or those parts of myself. Peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 10:02 PM
1

Just seems to me like you now have a relationship based on fear and dishonesty due to a fear of loneliness where every party gets less than they want. I have a relationship rooted in security and a basic bargain which works for both parties. He's getting what he wants and needs, and is choosing to stick around, and I'm getting what I want and need and am sticking around. ​ You only perceive it to suck because it's not maximizing male benefit. It's a compromise that's working better than my previ…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 09:45 PM
1

Again. I doubt her BF knew or knows about the other men. Don't get it twisted. Women like that keep men wrapped around their fingers and the men LOVE IT and are crazed and obsessed with them, and they're happy together. IDK what to make of it. People tell you it should be miserable but then it isn't. They're happy and in love.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 09:43 PM
1

That’s not that bad compared to a lot of women on here (no hate). I have friends who've slept with between 50 - 100 dudes and they share a lot of info with me and NGL, I've definitely had coaching from them. They're with the highest quality men and got married way WAY before me. One of my GFFs was a college roommate who cheated on her boyfriend with his best friend and ended up marrying the best friend. They've been married for 12 years now and I'm convinced the highest N women get married first…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 09:39 PM
1

Think about it like this. A woman with enough experience to bag 150+ dudes is going to know EXACTLY what type of man she wants, and what type of man is out there. How good he is (or isn't) compared to whatever else is out there. What strategies will (and won't) work on him. She would be able to devise a custom-tailed approach, specific to that man's psychology, and probably be right, and good at it. ​ Think about that, objectively. A lawyer that has defended 150 clients will be better in defendi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 09:15 PM
1

It's not just sex for sure. It's contact. Minimize contact. Minimize interaction, minimize sex. Give as little as possible as infrequently as possible, is the best strategy, unfortunately. I've gotten the best results with this, and IDK why. ​ If I was GUARANTEED the same outcomes, I'd give as many blowjobs as possible, at least daily, same with sex. Sex in public places would be more frequent, and so would sex with another girl involved. The frequency would increase dramatically. As it stands, …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 09:03 PM
1

There's a local radio station where I live. They do a "confessions" segment and a woman called in and talked about her deeply religious husband who thought she was a virgin on their wedding night. She confessed to sleeping with hundreds of dudes. Her exact words were "I lost count after 150". ​ She described her experience as "biblical". It really really stuck with me. IDK what to even make of that. A dude who has an n=1 would not have the amount of experience needed to catch a woman like this o…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 08:24 PM
1

I want you to imagine a robbery at gunpoint. You didn't see the gunman coming, you weren't aware you're going to be robbed of your wallet and all the money you had on you, or your phone, or your jewelry. The gunman escapes with your wallet and you're out $3,500. Because he stole your wallet, your iPhone 11, and your jewelry, watches, etc. ​ I want you to imagine leaving that situation, getting to safety, and moving on. You lost some shit but whatever. You buy a new wallet, new phone, and life go…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 07:24 PM
1

Fair enough, but this and other subreddits like it, make innocent, inexperienced girls the enemy. When they make rookie mistakes because they just don't know any better, you guys weed them out (for being clingy, or doing the wrong shit during a date, because, again, innocence and inexperience). Chances are, you will be a sucker, and you will end up with a woman that has had 50+ or 70+ or 90+, who's COMPLETELY perfect at hiding her tracks. ​ That's the downfall of subreddits like the red pill. Yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 07:09 PM
2

Lol, again, a rookie mistake. The most experienced ones will sell you that shit, lol ​ I feel like I'm snitching on my married GFs at this point. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 06:57 PM
2

every time i run across a woman on a first date who has some silly rule or indicates that we'll be hanging out for awhile before we're having sex because she's been burned in the past... This is actually an inexperienced woman making a rookie dating mistake who likely has a low N count. The most experienced women will captivate you because they know what they're doing, and that ain't it.... ​ You'd be accidentally weeding out the virgins and the Low N count women doing this. Which goes back to m…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 06:53 PM
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When people voluntarily spend time and effort on other people's offspring, that's their call, and not "cucking" in my book. ​ IF you're raising someone else's child, you "chose" to be cucked, while fully informed, which is worse than being deceptively cucked and not seeing it coming. ​ IDK what to make of that. You make of it what you will make of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 06:52 PM
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I'm in a very healthy relationship. We're going on a trip to CA this weekend, his idea, to meet his family. It's going to advance and progress, and things are going well for us. ​ NGL, dude. There's no way any vetting would weed me (or women like me) out. There just isn't. Not if she's experienced, for real, and truly knows what she's doing and how to cover up her tracks. Chances are, if it's working on you, she's experienced enough, lol... ​ I came here to be honest because that's what internet…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 06:48 PM
1

This is precisely why women aren't honest to begin with. It's explosive, gets us treated like shit, and never ever works out for the woman's favor. Look at how hostile and rude this comment is. It's what I get for being honest. Whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 06:43 PM
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I vetted the shit out of my current boyfriend and I'm too experienced to fall for bullshit again. The MICROSECOND the treatment changes, I'm learning from my mistakes and moving on. ​ ... I am going to state the obvious here. AND AGAIN, I AM BEING COMPLETELY HONEST. Men don't really want innocent girls. If they did, a LOT more virgins would be married. ​ What men really want, is experienced women, who know what they're doing. Experienced women know to lie about their experience, and put on a fla…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 06:10 PM
1

I disagree with this 100%. Any woman who dates a single dad is being "cucked" to use your terms. She's spending time and effort on the other woman's child. At the very least, her children will have to share their father's resources with step-siblings and receive less time and attention and resources. ​ Women can absolutely be cucked, you just don't think about their experiences or perspectives deeply enough to notice when it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 06:03 PM
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Nope. The inexperienced woman will be more likely to fall for bullshit and have her time wasted by men because she doesn't know better. She's innocent and inexperienced, and will think (just like I did when I was a virgin) that being freaky, learning, exploring, and "keeping him satisfied" by doing all that stuff for him, will keep him around. ​ It's actually the opposite. It's how and why a girl goes from having 1 ex, to 7 exes :) :)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 05:58 PM
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I've heard that too, from dudes that didn't marry me. I honestly don't even believe it anymore because it doesn't work. It doesn't matter what men say, it's what they do. A man will say and promise anything and everything, and then proceed to not marry you. Obviously, I don't divulge my sexual past or my level of experience because I've learned (through experience) that you get shitty outcomes and shitty treatment from a man the second he figures out you're not a saint, so you avoid that, as a w…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 05:55 PM
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At the same time, a woman who's fucking a dude who is not going to stick around is being "cucked" herself, by the woman he ends up marrying, eventually. They figure it out sooner or later and honestly I can't blame women for changing the way they do things to avoid being the girl that's always a bridesmaid and never a bride.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 05:46 PM
2

Yes and it's working. He's taking the relationship more seriously than my ex and really putting forth an effort. I really really hate to say this but witholding sex works, unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 05:42 PM
2

I have long hair and I'm black. No weaves. Like I said. I'm a show stopper and it is the weight. I lost that weight over the course of 2 to 3 months and noticed the amount of attention I get from black men decline steeply. It's obvious from my old dating app messages too. To have my inbox full of mostly black men go to ALL WHITE MEN, ONLY, is a difference I can't ignore. It was the weight 😒😔.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/09/19 04:21 PM
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I agree with that. I just wish I knew that black men were going to treat me that way after I lost the weight. It's new to me and it takes getting used to. 😒😔🥺
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/09/19 04:18 PM
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Woman here. I've had 8 partners, one of them for over 9 years. I'm very very good in bed, really experienced. Sexual experience teaches women that men hate sexual experience. Seriously. If she didn't act like she wasn't going to fuck you, you would have never married her. If she didn't have restraints with you, you would have treated her like her exes did. I've had previous partners who promised me that we'd be together forever. I gave them everything, and surprise! They didn't want to marry me.…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 04:13 PM
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I'm black, 5'8 and 127 lbs. I went from 150 lbs down to 120 lbs. 90% of black men would notice me before. I am a show stopper and I knew it. Since I lost the weight, only about 30% of black men notice me and the attention I receive comes exclusively from White men. My current boyfriend is white. It's the weight. Black men love larger women, and I can't pretend they don't. Not after losing weight and becoming invisible to them when they used to go out of their way to interact with me :(
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/09/19 02:34 PM
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Lmao! It's true! It's all true!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/19 01:43 PM
8

Exactly. They turn around and shame women for wanting someone who's easy on the eyes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/19 01:40 PM
2

Oh no. That part was not glossed over at ALL. That exact point was actually made.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/19 01:39 PM
2

He's average looking (I'm being kind) and his ex Girlfriend was easily the prettiest girl in the room and she dumped his ass probably because he's a fuckboy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/19 01:38 PM
12

Exactly why I shared this. They deserve to suffer for being that way. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/19 01:45 AM
17

Yeah but still. The Savagery is admirable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/19 01:08 AM
3

DISGUSTING behavior. No wonder she peaced out and decided "to just be friends".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/19 09:31 PM
8

LOL!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/19 08:59 PM
12

I went through that thread and haven't been this disgusted in days. Then they turn around and bitch "aVeRaGe LoOkInG dUdEs dOn'T sTaNd a ChAnCe aT oNLiNe dAtInG"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/19 08:59 PM
10

Brought to you from the bottomless pit of male depravity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/19 07:51 PM
14

I'd like to recommend another book called "Why men marry some women and not others". It pretty much reinforces this notion that women who demand and insist on their standards, wants, and needs, are more likely to get and be married than other women and it breaks down the statistics on it.
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/19 06:00 PM
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You're completely right. ​ I (24F) fucked my ex (34M at the time) within the first 24 hours of us meeting. He moved me into his house, effectively, that day in the sense that I never went home after that, only to pick up a few items so I can go right back to his place, lol. We were inseparable. He gave me a ring at the 1.5 year mark in our relationship, and then .... nothing. I left him essentially at the 2.5 year mark because of this (and the domestic violence, and him stealing from me). ​ I en…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/19 12:39 PM
19

Oh god. Say goodbye to him, romantically
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/19 11:04 AM
6

Being cheap and undecisive. Being flaky and unassertive
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 07:58 PM
8

I am VERY PLEASED that 20% - 40% of the male population never pass on their genes to the next generation. ​ The world is becoming more and more feminist whether they like it or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/19 07:12 PM
5

Eww, that too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/19 03:26 PM
6

Agreed. Sucks for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/19 04:14 AM
14

He wanted to be rude and shitty. She reminded him that he's easily replaceable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/19 02:58 AM
7

I wish I could upvote more than once
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/19 10:58 PM
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I feel so SO SO bad for her :( ​ NEVER EVER relocate your life for a man unless the wedding certificate was signed, notarized and officiated....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/19 10:01 PM
4

Lmao!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/19 04:28 AM
3

I am dyiiiiing! Lmao!! It's even funnier seeing it in quotes 😭😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/19 04:28 AM
4

Damn you tore him a new one. Today's "Savage of the day"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/19 04:26 AM
1

You're welcome!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/19 04:23 AM
3

Exactly. It's probably the content of his profile too. Probably low effort, just like his lies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/19 04:22 AM
7

Exactly. This is why I advise women in this sub to be RUTHLESS when dating. Seriously. We are too nice to some of these assholes, bend over backwards to avoid hurting their feelings, and it needs to stop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/19 04:19 AM
1

Did he add or remove 6 years? That's crazy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/19 04:18 AM
8

"I'm not looking for anything serious" I can just FEEL this statement being in said profile 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/19 04:17 AM
8

A lot of them are train wrecks. And height isn't all that they lie about. A lot of them lie about their income, employment, life circumstances and where they live too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/19 04:16 AM
3

We definitely notice. So many of them lie about their height and think we don't notice. That's fucked up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/19 04:14 AM
4

😁😄 thanks. This is my favorite sub. I want it to succeed!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/19 04:10 AM
11

Keep doing that. When he texts you, remember the 1 hour rule. For someone who treats you like shit, add an hour of waiting time for each instance of shit treatment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/19 08:24 AM
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Yes. Has exclusivity been explicitly discussed and agreed to, by both parties? If the answer to #1 is YES, then back off. Begin the slow fade. STOP texting him first. Cut that out IMMEDIATELY. NEVER DO IT AGAIN. EVER!!! When he texts you back, NEVER EVER EVER EVER respond immediately. Always make him wait at least 30 minutes for a response. An hour is ideal. If the answer to #1 is NO. Do NOT assume exclusivity. Do NOT be exclusive to a man who isn't exclusive to you. NEVER EVER EVER DO THIS! ALW…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/19 07:51 AM
1

Yep. They ALL care about sex. Some of them don't want a girl fucking other men, so they enter a monogamous relationship with her. Some of them don't give a shit who the girl is sleeping with so they scour OLD apps promising women the moon and all of the stars and they ghost her after sex. ​ Some of them need an emotional connection to a woman so their sexual insecurities can be calmed enough for them to perform, those guys also enter relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 08:15 PM
31

she's going to regret that. The dynamic is already established. He already knows she'll accept this type of treatment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/19 08:05 PM
5

Disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/19 05:57 PM
7

Agreed. Other women are spoiling then
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/19 12:30 PM
2

No, you can't give men what they want. By "kissing a man's ass", you literally eliminate yourself from ever being "marriage material" in his eyes. ​ I was so pissed when I read that book! I couldn't even refute it, since it was done in a statistically valid way. :( :( :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/19 09:59 PM
14

" I couldn’t help thinking “this is why you’re unlucky in the SMP/RMP, dude. You want to be treated like a woman” " ​ This is probably the most sensible thing I've read on PPD in a while. There are SO MANY POSTS about dudes whining about women NOT making the first step. Posts about men waiting for women to make a move. WTF??? Most women are used to men making the first move, and sorry to make it seem or sound awful but if a man can't even muster up a simple text message on an online dating site,…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 09:51 PM
8

Yep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/19 07:32 PM
1

Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/19 02:32 AM
10

Exactly. Man we need a "savage of the day" award, lol. Wish she knew she did such a great job and is being used as an example of female dating strategy done right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/19 09:32 PM
3

I did that with my own brother effective Friday. IDK WTF was wrong with him but he showed up to pick me up from work that day with a shitty attitude. He proceeded to call me names in the car, and then called me names at a Subway restaurant. He specifically, kept calling me stupid at every turn like he was out for revenge or something. I called him out on it, and he hit me with the silent treatment, and I counter-silenced. We haven't spoken since. I'm done with him. He'd rather end our friendship…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/19 06:59 PM
4

YOU'VE GOT TO BE KIDDING ME. If he's taking overnight and weekend trips with female friends, I am 100% doing the same, with male friends. ​ Men have got women fucked up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/19 05:30 PM
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There's a special place in hell for women who put other women down, instead of uplifting them. ​ In fact, I like to follow these types of women on Reddit and watch them bitch and whine and complain when their "strategy" of kissing a man's ass fails them. ​ This specific OP, who's man wants "a sexual phase" can still salvage the situation, if she wants. A CORRECT response to this situation is "Wait, so you want to fuck other women? Are you CERTAIN that's what you want?? I'll agree to it, 100%, on…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/19 05:28 PM
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I AM SO PROUD OF YOU for reciprocating the energy! ​ Next time he texts you, take an additional 2 days to get back to him and watch the magic fly. It drives them nuts. This is how you train them. He does good = he gets a text back within an hour (NEVER text back immediately), and he gets to see you. He does bad = You don't respond. You don't acknowledge his existence, he doesn't get to see you. When might hear from you again? Bitch, NEVER, if he doesn't fix it. ​ When he DOES fix it, take 24 hou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/19 05:21 PM
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It absolutely does belong here. I see women have always been wise
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/19 05:16 PM
5

I am afraid so
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/19 04:46 PM
1

Maybe. But distraction works. But whatever works best for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/19 11:06 PM
2

Damn. I was too late in copying and pasting it. Maybe I should copy the post from now on incase moids delete their shame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/19 08:36 PM
5

Exactly. What a shitty dude and awful situation she's in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/19 08:35 PM
7

Too many of them are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/19 08:34 PM
6

HARD pass!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/19 08:34 PM
4

Oh my God. I'm so sorry 💔. I hope she breaks him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/19 08:33 PM
6

I'm not here to assume or judge anyone. The ladies who do this know who they are, lol. I'm simply urging them to stop because it RARELY works out, and rarely works out longterm. ​ Again, not here to shame anybody but choosing to pursue a taken man (and obsess over him) is a guaranteed recipe for mental health decline, self-esteem destruction, and preventable heart break :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/19 08:25 PM
6

LOL!!! ​ Trouble in paradise already. Pretty soon, he'll throw her in a DB because "it's not kinky enough". /hairtoss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/19 07:53 PM
3

"hOw cOuLd sHe tHrOwAwAy eVeRyThINg wE hAd aNd mOvE oN sO qUiCkLy?" ​ mass spammed to r/ExNoContact, r/dating_advice and r/relationship_advice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/19 07:37 PM
1

:( ​ At least she isn't saddled with his worthless crotch spawn, mired in obligation and single motherhood :( :( :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/19 07:35 PM
2

I legitimately feel bad for her. I wish there was a way we could make this go viral or something so she could see it, recognize the story, and break this asshat's heart like a pencil.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/19 07:34 PM
2

Disgusting behavior. I hope you threw the entire man away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/19 07:34 PM
5

I'd break this dude's heart like a pencil. Fuck his brother, his best friend, and then ghost him. He'll have to guestimate when he'd be single. Probably find out on Facebook like my ex did. FUCK, sometimes I wish I could teach these men a lesson or two.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/19 07:33 PM
3

It'll be from a throwaway account and it won't even identify why she dumped him. It'll be all sad like "sHe LeFt mE aFtEr x yEaRs. ALL I wAnTeD tO dO wAs LoVe hEr FoR tHe rEsT oF hEr LiFe".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/19 07:31 PM
5

Love you too ^_^
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/19 07:30 PM
6

same here. You can tell this is the type of dude posting "sHe fInALLy LeFt mE" from a throwaway account on r/breakups and only telling one side of the story. ​ Seriously. Some of the posts are legitimately sad and over Half the posts on there make you ask "what did you DO to deserve being dumped??"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/19 07:30 PM
5

AMEN to that, sister. ​ I just came back to review the comments on this post and I think I vomited in my mouth a little.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/19 07:29 PM
10

I hope she's okay! This is such a painful position to be put in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/19 07:07 PM
2

never ever ever ever!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/19 03:33 PM
5

Yep
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/19 09:46 AM
12

His ex is a Savage. I'm taking notes, lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/19 04:15 AM
3

Wasn't* Can't edit the typo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/19 04:06 AM
2

With a guy like that, you literally ghost him. Let him figure out that he's single at some point once the hint is received
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/19 03:46 AM
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Check his most recent post. I wish we could congratulate this chick for handling the breakup very very well. Never unblock, never look back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/19 03:44 AM
2

Same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/19 03:33 AM
7

Good riddance. It sounds like the trash too itself out! Block him on everything and never look back
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/19 03:33 AM
9

Good. If you see it in your relationship, RUN!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/19 12:53 AM
7

me too. It's my favorite sub on all of Reddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/19 09:47 PM
4

I literally fucked my boyfriend last night and this morning. I've been cleared for birth control so we can start fucking raw. ​ .... you WISH we were female incels. Enjoy the ban.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/19 09:45 PM
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this is why we share it on this sub. KNOW IT WHEN YOU SEE IT. Take steps to prepare for a breakup and brace yourself to check out / exit as fast as possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/19 09:37 PM
2

We are figuring things out. I feel guilty if I text others, which I have not felt in a while. However I am trying to not put my eggs in one basket. Are you "figuring things out" monogamously, together, as previously discussed (and agreed to by both parties)? ​ If not, then I'd say seeing others is part of figuring out which option is best for you. DON'T feel guilty for texting others during this non-exclusive phase.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/19 08:53 PM
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Don't beat yourself up, OP! ​ " Should I be surprised that he treats me like nothing now? No. Did I learn from the experience? Yes. " ​ The most important thing that happened is that you learned from this. And don't beat yourself up, OP!!! This is a learning experience! You have to experience some of this stuff first hand to move past it and learn how to prevent it in the future!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/19 08:33 PM
1

NO. We advocate for women learning how to navigate the dating world with their own best interests in mind. We share posts of women successfully doing those things that help them towards finding romantic success, and help steer them away from time wasters, or at least, we arm them to know when their time is wasted so they're not devastated when a time waster well... wastes their time. ​ We teach women to take no shit, from any man and to find self-esteem and learn their options. We outline and hi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/19 08:22 PM
1

Everything in this video is absolutely GOLD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/19 08:18 PM
1

You go ahead with that then. I'm happy with my boyfriend... ​ Idk what triggered you to coming here and attacking the ladies on here.... ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/19 08:04 PM
1

that would be an example of a successful dating strategy, for a female. So what's the problem again??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/19 07:57 PM
2

Trouble in paradise. LOL, she's desperate and getting left on read. Or he's out cheating on her. Notice the way her bitterness radiates from her rando post. ​ This dumb bitch. Bitch I have NEVER been dumped. I have always walked. The fuck you coming at me for???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/19 07:54 PM
2

Suit yourself. If you're a dude, eliminate yourself from the dating / gene pool with this garbage view. ​ If you're a chick, you'll be back on here after all the desperation, begging, insecurity, and red pill behavior fails you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/19 07:44 PM
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Note that NOWHERE in the post, does OP mention if they're exclusive or not. She's worrying about this ONE guy. Why she's not texting other dudes is beyond me. Why she's feeling "Stuck" on this one dude is also beyond me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/19 07:41 PM
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There's an amazing book called "Why men marry some women and not others" which outlines this exact fact. Red pill women are wasting their time. Below is the "Cliff notes" edition of this book. It literally says: ​ "Women who withhold doing household chores usually get more respect from men. The women who insist on being treated well are 2x as likely to end up marrying their man. No one marries a servant. " ​ Men do like "nice girls" in the sense that they're attracted to a pleasant, easy to talk…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/19 07:13 PM
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Correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 04:20 PM
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Because a lot of men are egotistical hypocrites that cannot take what they dish. ​ Also a lot of low-quality, low-ambition, average looking men will only go after the prettiest women, and then get their manties in a bunch when the pretty girl wants a handsome dude that's successful instead of a loser that can't get his shit together and won't even commit when given a chance. ​ Listen. We don't apply this standard to any other area of our lives. If an employer is hiring for a job, only the most Q…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 03:22 PM
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Oh, He wanted YOU to get off of dating apps, and he wanted to continue being on them??? ​ I SWEAR to god the only infinitely renewable source of anything on this planet is male depravity. They CANNOT handle what they dish and I'm so glad you blocked this cockhole when you did. ​ Bravo to you. I AM PROUD!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/19 02:54 PM
1

Exactly. That's not how ANY of this works.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/19 02:51 PM
6

Yes. It would benefit women who are in sex work, would reduce child and adult human trafficking since prostitutes could come out of the dark and work with police to turn in "their competition", and it could be regulated and taxed. We could impose requirements for STD testing and mental health care like we do with the porn industry and fuckboys and bitter incels can go pay to fuck them instead of wasting the time of other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 10:27 PM
1

The same way you do when you're trying to get more call backs from a certain type of job. By making yourself aore attractive, more competitive candidate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 10:19 PM
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I think it has more to do with the fact that more men than women are cheating on their partners and taking women out of the dating pool (that would otherwise be available to date a truly single guy)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 10:10 PM
5

LOL!!!! Good one ^_^
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/19 05:14 PM
8

Anyway, he did something that really pissed me off and was unforgivable so never spoke to him again. Zero contact. Then he sends me a drunken text on my bday a few months later. Still no response. Not amused. Then a few months after that, he sends me a very long text pleading with me to give him another chance, nope, no response. Then last week, a full year after our break up, he wrote me the most heartfelt texts he’s ever written in his life. The tables turned lol. Now he gets to feel what it’s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/19 05:13 PM
2

Yes. When men lose their hair. I have seen it. Not all women are attracted to bald men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 11:42 AM
2

You need to try online dating. There are way more men than women on there and you can filter out men that don't fit your needs much easier
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/19 09:40 AM
5

Because they cannot take what they dish. Seriously. Moids are so fucked up that they're willing to only go after the prettiest women and won't entertain someone "in their league" and then proceed to get their manties in a bunch when women do the same. "mOnkEyBrAnChInG" yes motherfuckers. Correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 05:58 PM
5

Just goes to show you that r/Femaledatingstrategy doesn't stop at marriage. ALWAYS be ready for their bullshit and ALWAYS have a backup dude ready to act right when he fucks it up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/19 05:48 PM
6

She got bored and wanted to change her hair..? Maybe she only kept it long because he liked it and she's been wanting to do it for a while. I colored my hair before leaving my ex. It went from brown to jet black (shiny). IDK. You just feel like getting a makeover.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 05:33 PM
1

"it's just my preference" it has been my experience that most folks who avoid social media are extroverts and most people engaged in it are introverts. Maybe communicate this to her. "I'm am extrovert and I enjoy face to face interaction more than social media" If you never set it up or don't know how to use it, let her know that too. Sharing this information will make her feel better because you're communicating your vulnerability and admitting that you don't know how to do it.
/r/askTRP15/09/19 05:26 PM
3

You ghost and get back on Tinder. unless monogamy is explicitly discussed and agreed to by both parties, you're free to date others. DATE OTHERS UNAPOLOGETICALLY. BE UNAVAILABLE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/19 05:19 PM
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This is the impact you can have on a relationship that doesn't work for you. A lot of women are told to wait before moving on. Healing and moving on aren't mutually exclusive. You can do BOTH. Telling women to wait before moving on wastes a woman's time, predisposes her to dwelling on her ex and makes it more likely for her to take his sorry ass back. IT BENEFITS MEN. Do not wait to move on. Move on immediately. BENEFIT YOURSELF
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/19 05:11 PM
3

No. If you're "unattractive" AND INSECURE about it, simply put in the work to present yourself in the best light possible and it might take you longer to find someone but you'll still find someone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/19 04:19 PM
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Here are a few good ones. "Why have you lost your hair?" "Are you still 4 foot 9?? Don't you grow out of that? " " Why are you so fat? You used to be slimmer. " The NERVE of some moids!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/19 04:07 PM
2

Good. She would have successfully eliminated a weaker potential partner
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/19 03:59 PM
9

:( ​ Fuck!!! You are so right about this! ​ :( They KNOW when you're "too hooked" to leave. Unfortunately, from what I'm seeing online, this is the perfect time to leave them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/19 05:35 AM
8

For bios. Make it sweet and to the point. First paragraph. State yourself. "I'm mindy and I like to do XYZ etc. etc." This is your "elevator pitch" 2 to 3 sentences MAX. Second paragraph. State what you're looking for CLEARLY. POINT IT OUT. Ideally, this is as close to the top as possible. Expecting moids to read your entire profile will let you down. ​ If you're looking for nothing serious, state that. If you just dumped your ex and want to make him jealous, find a way to embellish this somehow…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/19 05:17 AM
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In this post he admits that he doesn't see a future with her: https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/d3yjj8/my_22_girlfriend_21_talks_about_marriage_and_kids/ ​ and now she's getting ALL kinds of attention from other men and it's "bothering him". She sounds like she's checking out from this relationship. I can tell She's on her way out. It won't surprise me if we did a !remindme 1 year from now and saw him single and on breakup subreddits complaining.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/19 04:56 AM
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It helped me revise my dating strategy to see posts of men bitching and whining about certain women and how they couldn't get these women off of their minds. How no matter what they did and who else they banged, their thoughts ALWAYS came back to that one. After I saw DOZENS of examples on relationship and dating advice and breakup subreddits. I began to ask myself "what are these girls doing??" ​ in almost EVERY posting, they took ZERO shit from the man. They walked. Left. AND STAYED GONE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/19 04:42 AM
14

There's a book called "why men marry some women and not others". It literally stresses this out. ​ I also make it a point to emphasize the posts in r/BreakUp subreddits and relationship advice ones. NOT ONE MAN is crying over a chick that does all of his chores and laundry. The ones that do everything except wipe their asses. That's not what they miss or want back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/19 03:57 AM
1

If I were financially independent and able to afford it, the high quality sperm donor. Then when my child's 2 or 3, I'd set up OLD profiles and start swiping. It would take more time but I'd still end up in a 2 parent household. ​ win/win.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 03:28 AM
10

Be on the lookout for bullshit! Put a timeline on the relationship. Have a purpose for each relationship and an expiration date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/19 12:13 AM
1

She might have a creampie fetish like I do.
/r/seduction14/09/19 11:19 PM
4

My ex did the same shit. I wanted to marry him and get married. He didn't give a fuck until I packed my shit and found another place. When the wedding date got closer, he acted distant, he pretended to not give a fuck when I left, but when I made it clear I was "single" and so was he, he suddenly got triggered to act. I never went back. Now that I've moved on, he's suddenly friends with my boyfriend. He came crawling back more times than I can count, and I ignored him. I "wanted to just be frien…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/19 09:49 PM
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He did but the main takeaway is that he never seriously considered being with his ex, and didn't really think about her when she was DESPERATE for him. She only haunted his thoughts when she got married and moved on. He specifically uses the words "But now that window is closed and I don't know how to deal with it. " Men think about women as options. WE CHOOSE TO ALLOW OR DON'T ALLOW THIS. His ex finally moved on and married someone else. She didn't ALLOW herself to be an option and that's when …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/19 09:39 PM
0

Based?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/19 09:29 PM
1

This was her over a month ago. https://www.reddit.com/r/love/comments/cninf2/i_cant_stop_thinking_of_you/ ​ She healed herself and moved on and oh look, he came CRAWLING BACK. NO! I'm singing u/SllmJlmTlm 's praises. She did this RIGHT! Good work, u/SllmJlmTlm !! ​ FUCK THAT SHIT. Keep it moving, ladies!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/19 09:25 PM
2

Yeah. They're depraved. I can't believe some of the shit these men are posting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/19 08:13 PM
4

If you read the red pilled men's posts on dating TRP and relationship subreddits. You'll notice that NONE of them miss or want a red pilled woman back. The women they want back. The ones occupying their thoughts can be described as feminist bitches who had the gall to leave and not put up with their shit. Many of these women are master minds if dating strategies and leave them for another man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/19 07:23 PM
8

Exactly. There are SO MANY men. We have ALL the power. ALL of it. It pisses me off to see women letting themselves get destroyed by one guy who isn't even that amazing to begin with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/19 07:16 PM
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Ladies, pay attention. He didn't give a fuck about changing when she asked him nicely. She probably tried begging, pleading, and probably cried herself to sleep on multiple occasions. ​ The sooner you put your foot down and reinforce your boundaries, the sooner you can eliminate the shitty ones from your stack of dateables.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/19 06:47 PM
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I agree with this 100%. You should check out r/FemaleDatingStrategy ​ Even women in their mid to late 30s and 40s can get on an OLD app and have tons of men to sift through. They just need good photos and bare minimum texting skills. Incel ideology is outdated and I think a lot of it comes from men in Muslim countries or Countries that are very very very conservative.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 06:42 PM
4

They don't and won't ever see it. They'll go for the most beautiful beauties and then foam at the mouth because the hottest women aren't going after men who look like warm coleslaw??? ​ Also: r/FemaleDatingStrategy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 06:37 PM
2

Please do. I'd love to read it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/19 06:35 PM
7

Exactly. The sheer number of mediocre men who have fragile egos is astounding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/19 06:25 PM
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Said by a fellow women, not a guy who has infiltrated this subreddit out of curiosity; if you need proof of my womanhood, slide into my DMs. P.S I am a women Username checks out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/19 06:13 PM
1

You fucked up majorly. You initiated a lot and have him the power and he doesn't give a shit anymore because he knows you're hooked and won't leave
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/19 04:10 AM
11

This. If they don't like it, they can go back to Tinder and swipe 2,500 more times until a sexbot replies. You can have another him in an hour. /Hairtoss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/19 03:54 AM
2

Oh yeah. It's all coming together
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/19 03:52 AM
5

The women that broke their "hearts" are NEVER red pilled women. They bitch and belly ache over women that won't put up with their bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/19 03:48 AM
2

You have served me WELL, moderator. Sick em', Lou!! Woo! Fuck yeaaah!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/19 03:46 AM
4

Look at the type of women they complain about. The type that won't put up with his shit. The ones who dare to revenge cheat on them. I have never seen an MGTOW miss a red pilled woman. The irony...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/19 03:38 AM
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The MGTOW's worst nightmare is a level 10 blue pill woman who knows her value, is experienced, and knows what she's doing. I've broken one or two. They're fragile, like toothpicks. They break like toothpicks, too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/19 03:35 AM
5

Lmao!! I love this Subreddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/19 03:31 AM
6

Wish they would just go their own way already. Or must they string us along for that, too??? 🙄🙄🙄😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/19 03:27 AM
1

Good bot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/19 03:25 AM
6

Aaah yes. You must dabble in the art of social media stalking
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/19 03:16 AM
4

This. THIS. A lot of men lie about their intentions with a girl. If they have something to lose, they think twice about it. If it costs them money, sometimes it's like a security deposit requirement. Just in case.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/19 03:00 AM
3

Lmao! This thread is wild
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/19 02:42 AM
3

"not if I stuff you into MY trunk first. 😆😆"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/19 02:41 AM
2

This is EXACTLY my point. Wonderfully phrased.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/19 06:53 PM
1

LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/19 06:14 PM
7

my parents also NEVER taught me this. They taught me red pill ideology :( :( I learned this the hard way from my "slutty" friends who were married before me. They pass on their wisdom to me, and some stuff I discovered on my own by being slutty myself, lol. ​ Literally. Think about that. Think about the sluts from your high school and college. I bet you they were married before you and to better quality men :( :( this is what they know that we didn't know. Also, NEVER reveal your true N count to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/19 06:08 PM
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You don't. in your 20s. Literally live it up and focus on "having fun". Let THEM worry about getting you to commit to dating and seeing them only and exclusively. You don't worry about marriage until about 27 or 28. By then, you'll have plenty of time to find someone, you'll also have the experience of knowing what bullshit to avoid, and when to cut loose and RUN (not walk) from a man. ​ THIS IS THE NUMBER ONE MISTAKE THAT LOW-EXPERIENCE WOMEN MAKE IN THEIR 20S AND TEENS!!!! STOP demanding commi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/19 05:12 PM
1

:D LOL thanks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/19 02:14 PM
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Oh god. You're so fortunate to not know. I'm going to tell you but be warned! It doesn't work as effectively as they claim and some of their ideology and "strategies" are actually counter effective in securing and maintaining an LTR relationship and marriage. Red pill is a traditional ideology where women work on conforming to traditional gender roles. Basically dedicating themselves to cooking, cleaning, and being a wife and mother and stay at home motherhood. The women also adhere to submissiv…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/19 02:00 PM
4

This is so very very very miserably true 😒😣😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/19 12:26 PM
22

I agree with this 100%. NEVER date only one man. Always date at least 4 at the same time until one of them brings up commitment. If one gets ghosty, drop him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/19 12:23 PM
3

John T Molloy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/19 02:41 AM
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I feel so bad for them. I was red pill for almost 10 years and wasted that time with someone who strung me along. It. Doesn't. Work. There's a book called "why men marry some women and not others". It defeated red pill ideology for me using statistics I wish I dated around and treated them as disposably as they treat us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/19 12:58 AM
5

I'm sorry! I just realized my post wasn't clear. It took 7 months
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/19 09:55 PM
2

I asked him if he meant it and he said yes. IDK. It feels like he meant it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/19 09:40 PM
3

IMHO it adds points to your attractiveness score. Like it adds +4 points to your score to be upper middle class or more. Like if he was a 3 in the face, he'd be a 7 if he was upper middle class or better. If he was already a 7, he's now a 12, etc. Stability and financial security attract women. It's just how we operate. It's like tits and ass for men. But for us. I think the guys who complain about this may be over hyping how attractive they
/r/askTRP12/09/19 08:36 PM
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I really really really do love my new boyfriend and I don't want my current relationship being ruined by my ex. ​ :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/19 08:22 PM
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I don't know and I'm scared. I was upfront and forthcoming about my ex and why we broke up. My new BF wanted to have "the talk" on our second date before he wanted to be exclusive and we put it all out there. What we wanted. Goals. I told him I could not see myself in a relationship where I am a girlfriend forever, and that this was the reason I dumped my ex. Then I gave him a short/sweet version of this story. Basically the TL;DR and we agreed to be exclusive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/19 08:01 PM
1

Exactly. I left him because of this and now he's adding my BF (who wants to be married / have kids btw) on FB? ​ Like why? Why didn't he continue not giving a shit until after I walked out. And let's be real here. He dated me KNOWING I wanted marriage/kids. I mentioned it on our first date, he pretended to be into it when he first messaged me and then he admits THIS 1 year later?? Then acts SURPRISED when I actually leave him and then starts actually giving a fuck after that FB status update??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/19 07:46 PM
1

I recommend you all check out r/FemaleDatingStrategy
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/19 04:34 PM
1

Yep. Here's the source btw https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Age_disparity_in_sexual_relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 06:10 PM
3

Younger women don't really want older men in the numbers that older women do and older women don't want younger men at all. Over 80% of relationships are between men and women within 5 years of age and less than 3% are between men and women who are 20+ years apart. Statistically, it's not a big problem. The numbers just aren't there.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 12:55 PM
1

"To check the weather"
/r/askTRP16/08/19 03:40 PM
13

" My phone was on the charger and I wanted to look up the weather on her phone. So I pull up google and type in the search bar. As I’m trying to think of the exact words, her google history pops up. My eyes wonder to it and one of them say “does plan b cause —-“. That’s all I needed to say. It caught me off guard. " ​ .... Why don't you guys just admit you snooped through her phone because you were gone for a week. The olympics-level wording gymnastics I see are out of this world.... ​ .... "to …
/r/askTRP12/08/19 10:11 PM
4

I definitely do want to be dominated in bed. Literally NO MAN wants to do this. They all want me on top, and IDK why. Doggy style and ass slapping is something I have to ask for.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 10:03 PM
1

Why most girls have no hobbies ? Its just like my ex gf, she spend all her time on netflix or phone liking stupid shit on instagram and twitter ​ So what would you consider "a hobby"? I'm genuinely curious. If the above don't meet your definition of a hobby, what are 5 things a girl could say, which you would consider "a legitimate hobby"?
/r/askTRP12/08/19 02:50 PM
2

" The idea that men want to fuck and women want to make love is complete bullshit. I have no idea where that bizarre idea came from. " This weekend I had sex with my new boyfriend for the first time, twice, in the same night. I can't stop masturbating to it, and Oh god, it was so hot. I have a high libido. I'm so horny a lot of the damn time. I masturbate at least twice a day, on some days over 10 times, and it sucks to be a woman with high libido. If you express it to a guy, they automatically …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 02:39 PM
2

exactly!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/19 06:24 PM
18

This, and the below gems of knowledge too: - 1% of marriages involve a husband who's 20 years or more older than the wife. - 1.6% of marriages involve a husband who's 15–19 years older than wife. - 4.8% of marriages involve a husband 10–14 years older than wife . - 11.6% of marriages involve a husband 6–9 years older than wife. - 13.3% of marriages involve a Husband 4–5 years older than wife - 20.4% of marriages involve a Husband 2–3 years older than wife - 33.2% of marriages involve a Husband a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/19 05:54 PM
1

Yes.
/r/askTRP09/08/19 08:43 PM
32

It's a weird ego-stroke / insecurity rebuffing. If she's the hottest one, she's used to getting ALL the attention. When attention is given to someone else, who is not her, who she might already have a small twinge of jealousy for.... it sets them off. They snap you out of it and sabotage the attention that the other girl is getting so they can feel like "the prettiest" all over again. It's exhausting. IT. IS. EXHAUSTING, to deal with this. Especially if you're an introvert. ​ It's SO ANNOYING to…
/r/askTRP09/08/19 04:11 PM
2

They are both on the Audible App, which is free with your Amazon account. They cost 1 credit, or like $15-ish bucks. I PROMISE YOU, it'll be the best < $20 you've ever spent. I used CBT to advance my career, assert myself in the workplace, derail those who are holding me down, and eliminate my hostile competition, and secure a raise. FUCKED UP knowledge, but very very effective.
/r/askTRP09/08/19 04:00 PM
1

Sometimes
/r/askTRP09/08/19 06:07 AM
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If she wants you back and you've fucked someone else, you can leverage her jealousy to get what you want out of her. Especially if the new girl you're seeing is skinnier, prettier, or more feminine, or younger. Or has clearer skin, or longer hair, or anything else you can think of, that would make your ex jealous. ​ For example. If your ex always wanted to get into Harvard, and never made it, but you're dating a Harvard grad, that would be something you could mention, if and when it comes up. Th…
/r/askTRP09/08/19 05:25 AM
0

I’m not a girly girl. I don’t wear make up. I hate the way it feels. The way it smells. And the way it looks. If I wear a dress, I wear shorts under it. 😬 I can’t walk in heels - I look like a newborn baby deer. He seems good with all of this. The only feminine trait I have is my desire to serve. ​ OP. Don't knock it until you try it. It's easier than you think. Literally start liking nail polish. Wear DRESSES and SKIRTS. Make use of the website "photofeeler". It'll teach you what photos men lik…
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/19 04:03 AM
32

This is 100% true. ​ I also hit them with this little gem of knowledge.... men hit a wall too. If hitting the wall was only a phenomenon that effected women, only, then we would see the divorce rate, being led by men. Unfortunately, most of divorces are initiated by women, and not men. Also: "By age 35, two-thirds of American men will have some degree of appreciable hair loss and by age 50 approximately 85% of men have significantly thinning hair. About 25% of men who suffer from male pattern ba…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/19 09:53 PM
3

Maybe. The arrangement seems fair tbh. But you shouldn't be surprised when she suddenly meets a guy who wants a relationship with her and breaks up with you. If I were you, I'd brace myself for this very real possibility
/r/seduction17/07/19 10:45 PM
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I think the arrangement you have is working fine for the both of you.
/r/seduction17/07/19 07:19 PM
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