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I was watching a show with a female friend a few weeks ago. There's a scene where the wife of the main character finds out her husband is still cheating on her. We hear her inner dialogue after she confronts him again. She says something to the effect of "I realized that even though I hated him, I was still very attracted to him, and I always would be". My friend responded with "OMG he's manipulating her!" Even though the male character had done nothing. This same friend of mine had complained i…
/r/askTRP30/04/18 03:28 AM
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This is weird, you should make it clear that you're not comfortable with what he is doing. Even if he backs down I would try to find out what he is trying to do because I doubt something like this will just go away.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 11:26 PM
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Thanks for sharing. This sounds a bit like Dale Carnegie's "How to Win Friends and Influence People". I tried reading that book but found it too dense to process. This seems much simpler and easier to follow.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/18 02:07 AM
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I would up the calories to increase the amount of muscle you're putting on. You look pretty skinny and your goal right now should just be to increase muscle mass as much as possible. I weight 157 and try to eat 2,900 calories a day. That's with working out 3 times a week. If you work out more you should eat even more.
/r/askTRP12/04/18 04:12 AM
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Got it, thanks!
/r/askTRP11/04/18 01:59 AM
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First, the idea that any other girl is "new girl" means you are already over-investing in this encounter mentally. It doesn't mean "fuck this girl", in fact the opposite. Just means you are the puppy dog in this dynamic. Not sure I follow on this one, can you expand on what you mean? What's "escalate"? Trying to pull a number or make out in the first 10 is fine at 2am but before then you're pushing the wrong buttons. I just mean get more physical and get comfortable touching, having my hand arou…
/r/askTRP11/04/18 01:18 AM
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Thanks, you're right that I needed to engage the second girl more. My ego is getting in the way and saying "I shouldn't have to talk to her, i don't care about her". Also when I'm engaging I try to escalate within the first 10 minutes, and if it's not moving forward (failure to separate/escalate kino/etc), I feel like I should just drop it and find a new girl to game. I think this is the main reason conversation went nowhere, I lost interest because it felt like there was no way to move the inte…
/r/askTRP11/04/18 12:29 AM
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There's no increased risk if you're keeping it wrapped.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 04:21 PM
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Seriously what is the point of this post. Just a bunch of hate being spewed. Everyone picks up interests, behaviors, etc from people they spend time with.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/18 12:05 AM
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I'm not sure I agree. You can choose to use your social clout to put Cunt down. But you should do it in a lowkey, lighthearted and fun way. Great way to establish your dominance and maintain a happy social dynamic. Everyone will want to follow you because you are a good leader. However, if you were trying to game Cunt, I'm not sure how she would react. Get turned on because you took control of the situation and lightly teased her? Or get angry and resentful for ruining her fun.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/18 04:26 AM
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As a former 130 pound guy I can confirm. Download "My Fitness Pal" to track your calories and DO IT EVERY SINGLE DAY. Eating right is 70% of bodybuilding. So if you're only doing the gym part that's a maximum score of 30% aka complete failure. Went from 130 lbs no one would even give me a chance to 155 lbs lots of girls give me IoI's every time. If you have a skinny frame like me then you're actually in luck, even with just a bit of weight gain you'll look really muscular. Can't wait to see my r…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 03:18 AM
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I disagree and think she's interested. You have to keep in mind cultural expectations, especially when her mother is around. There's no way she's going to show that much interest in a conservative culture, when she's just met you, and parents are around. The fact that she pulled away later is probably because she was scared to let other people see. Great move playing footsie under the table. No one else knows and you two have a secret between the two of you. If she played footsie back I would sa…
/r/askTRP15/03/18 01:03 AM
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You weren't even trying before. You were denying yourself the chance to fail so you never did fail and never felt any anger. Now you're actually trying and failing, and it's causing the anger. Push through it, just keep getting better. Your mentality is very important: Set mentality= I suck at picking up girls and I'll always suck Growth mentality = every time you try something you learn and get a little bit better. Keep a growth mentality in mind.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 12:54 AM
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Whenever I go out to bars I make it a point to look for the girls that are dressed the most provocative. Focusing my attention on them increases chances of getting a lay that night.
/r/askTRP09/03/18 09:19 PM
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Also Nicolas Berggruen. Billionaire philanthropist type. Has two kids through surrogates.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/18 08:58 AM
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Both genders have strengths and weaknesses. No one is saying that women are less than, we are saying they’re biologically not as likely to be leaders. Unfortunatley I have no idea how you could get this across to her. Common suggested wisdom it to not try and convince her of things like this.
/r/askTRP28/02/18 10:29 PM
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Both of them should be raised to be strong, but its important to keep in mind the roles they will be expected to play and the strengths they are naturally ordained with, given their gender. If your daughter is so "strong" that she does not have a feminine touch, she has actually given up one of her biggest strengths as a female. Also, if you let your son be weak he will be walked all over and grow up to hate his life. The reality is that every women expects her man to be better than her. The opp…
/r/askTRP28/02/18 07:18 PM
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I'd also like to hear some clarification on your thoughts, it would be very helpful.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/18 05:03 AM
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So your problem is that she banged other guys while you weren't seeing her? What did you expect her to do just sit around and build a shrine to you? Sounds to me like you're creating problems that don't exist.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 01:13 AM
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What is the proper way to respond in that sort of situation (she's not available in that time frame)?
/r/askTRP18/02/18 02:56 AM
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I've had very similar problems and I still struggle with it from time to time. It's a long process and I can't say I have a 'silver bullet' so to speak that will cure you. Here are my tips: Realize that by living in the anger 24/7 you are only hurting yourself. Not the people you want revenge on. It is ok to use anger sometimes but if it's all the time you are not using it, it is using (and destroying) you. Read "Feeling Good" by David Burns to understand how to better control your thoughts and …
/r/askTRP18/02/18 01:43 AM
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I call bullshit. Destroy your limiting beliefs. If you keep telling yourself you're too ugly then that is the reality you will live in. Work on your game and stop bitching.
/r/askTRP15/02/18 06:34 PM
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You can either try to lie to yourself or you can use your reality to drive you to work harder towards your goals. If you are working hard on your goals you will feel content. Just know that you are still very young and have lots of time to enjoy life. Putting in the work now will mean that in 5 years you are more successful than 90% of guys will ever be.
/r/askTRP15/02/18 06:40 AM
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To me it sounds like you need to work on your game and fix your mentality. You had three HB7-8 and got friend zoned or pussied out. The fact that you developed oneitis tells me your mentality still needs work. If you're getting friend zoned it could be because you're ugly or it could just be because your game was weak. If you're pussying out it's definitely your game/mentality. As for your grooming / lifting: Grooming - Hard to say without knowing your social context. Lifting - Do you get compli…
/r/askTRP15/02/18 06:36 AM
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Thanks. I've actually done this in the past but for some reason lately I've been trying to get even with girls who have BFs. Its a good reminder to chill out sometimes.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/18 02:54 AM
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Going off of this. Lets say a girl says she has a boyfriend and I respond "Oh yeah what's his name" or "But does he make you happy". Would this be coming on too strong or is it good? For example instead of acknowledging the rejection should I just ignore her and talk about something completely different?
/r/TheRedPill12/02/18 09:00 PM
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You did good in ignoring her afterwards. I don't really understand why people see the need to unfollow/unfriend people. Can't you just leave as is and ignore their postings? Also, if I were you I would not have brought up that you had unfollowed her. You should have just acted like you don't even remember (like she did), no good comes from bringing things like this up. With that said it seems like she was just going to lead you on anyways, so don't think any harm was really done.
/r/askTRP31/01/18 12:15 AM
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If you ever want to cuddle just fall back in bed and relax. The girl will slowly lay down next to you, then you pull her in close to you.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/18 05:38 PM
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Apply dread game. Hang out with other people instead of them and let them know it.
/r/askTRP29/01/18 03:55 AM
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Sent you a PM.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 07:45 PM
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Don't try to get into a logical discussion about it, she will spin the hamster and rationalize. Tell her sternly that she should stop. If she asks you "why", just ignore her and show disdain. If she doesn't comply then dump her.
/r/askTRP23/01/18 03:52 AM
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Leave her.
/r/askTRP23/01/18 03:50 AM
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I can’t right now no access to Skype for the next 12 hours or so. Could we set something up for later? I’m trying to message you but can’t figure out how to do it on the mobile site
/r/askTRP21/01/18 08:09 AM
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If you’re serious I’ll take you up on it. I’m not looking to complain just want strategies to deal. Edit: PM me?
/r/askTRP21/01/18 08:02 AM
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My wording was not clear, I'm talking about 5 to 6 lines on an iPhone, so 2 sentences each.
/r/askTRP12/01/18 03:04 AM
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We had 5 back and forth messages (I text + she responds = 1) before I tried to set up a date. She was texting pretty long messages (5-6 text lines) and I would respond in a similar length. I'm assuming that's not too many.
/r/askTRP12/01/18 12:44 AM
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Thanks guys. I just went with "No problem, take care".
/r/askTRP11/01/18 10:34 PM
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I did call and she didn't pick up. I think she actually was sick as there's a flu going on right now but not very important I'm just gonna end it.
/r/askTRP11/01/18 10:33 PM
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You need to stop focusing on the bad and focus on the positive, even if the positive is very limited. Read "Feeling Good: The New Mood Therapy" and use the exercises in there every day until you just naturally feel good.
/r/askTRP07/01/18 10:30 PM
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Get comfortable with yourself, the reason you're acting weird when pictures are being taken is because you're afraid of how it will turn out and that people will judge you. Instead, be comfortable in yourself. Never shrink up, you are a man and you should claim your space. You can always practice your smile in mirrors and look up youtube videos if it's really a concern. If you are alone, you arms should be at your sides - there is nothing weird about just having your hands at your sides. It only…
/r/askTRP07/01/18 10:26 PM
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My entire life, in my relationship with my sister I have been the "sacrificer". I would never buy anything/ask for anything while she would spend hundreds of dollars on makeup and clothes (we grew up pretty poor), I would always get the worst seat at the table, my sister would constantly be asking me to do her "favors" which were really her bossing me around constantly, and on and on with hundreds of small examples like these. I had many fights in the past with my sister, but because I didn't kn…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 08:25 PM
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Have this same problem. Does anyone have recommendations for where to get custom tailor shirts that are NOT tucked it? I don't go to many upscale places so I'm stuck between wearing a T-shirt that looks great on me but is very casual or a semi-casual dress shirt that doesn't show form.
/r/askTRP04/01/18 08:14 AM
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My suggestion would be hire fast fire fast. Try to ask them some questions even before you start seeing them and be stringent with how you perceive responses. If you can't find any red pilled therapists physically close to you use apps like BetterHelp or Talkspace. Where you can easily switch therapists if you don't like the one you have.
/r/askTRP04/01/18 02:05 AM
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In the past when I saw a therapist I struggled to find a red pilled one. Tried 2 and quit both because they kept trying to feed me blue pill BS.
/r/askTRP04/01/18 01:55 AM
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Thanks dude!
/r/askTRP04/01/18 12:30 AM
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Awesome, for some reason I'd just skipped ever doing this. Will try it out this weeked. Do you have any links/websites with routines you'd suggest?
/r/askTRP03/01/18 07:33 AM
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Makes sense, thanks!
/r/askTRP24/12/17 06:38 PM
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