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2- I had a really busy 3 months period last year that forced me to work day and night and I was so exhausted I didn't have energy to keep up with my usual TV shows/mangas/fanfics, I also discovered FDS then and let me tell you : by the end of these 3 months I was a changed person. Suddenly all these things I used to enjoy, they were all full of glaring toxic tropes. I couldn't overlook how the plots and characters were overly sexualised, how deneaning the feminine character (be it a woman or a m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 09:24 AM
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Absolutely agree! You have to be in touch with your emotions and be able to express them in a healthy way in order to take rational decisions and handle things calmly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 09:16 AM
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I don't see the point in getting religions involved. Because : 1) culture, économie, history and the population's level of education à lot more play à bigger part in how every country/family/person applies the same religion. I live in a Muslim country. Most don't wear the hijab, polygamy is illegal, all kinds of rape are illegal, women are legally equal to men. We practice Islam in a different way from say Egypt or Saudi arabia. By a general rule of thumb, a poor economy + a dictatorship regime …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 08:46 PM
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They're proud of it because it makes them "not like the other girlllsss"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 01:38 PM
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I would love to have a dependable older sister soo much. In fact I would love just having a dependable female friend that isn't a complete pickme, but it seems like at my age (around early twenties) everyone is trying to get a spot at the pickme Olympics xccc. I don't want to be completely alone, so i befriend the softer pickmes, and then end up having to pretend to be someone I'm not and act like I believe in shit I don't ("ofc à modern woman should pay 50/50") I know it sounds like I'm weak af…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 06:42 AM
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"so because he offered to take you out to dinner at Applebee's he's broke? -" Yes. Next question please.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 10:58 PM
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Ah but you can't really help having enemies, since it's more of a them issue. There are people that want to take what you have from you, want to simply destroy you or see you shamed simply because you rub their egos the wrong way. And you would have to answer to their poison and schemes with the same vigilance else you'll be done for. I'd say these people are my enemies, thou maybe I wouldn't use that term out loud 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 09:50 PM
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A guy that is not a teen dating a teen is always wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 10:40 PM
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Instead of cutting her out, since she's not negatively impacting your life, just stop initiating the hangouts. Let it be for a while. I would still text each other normally and act like always.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 10:38 PM
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It was tiresome. Dating was a chore and I lost any semblance of attraction to him because of how passive he was. It was my first time dating too so I didn't realise how negative the effort he was putting in was until I was speaking to a friend and she did this weird thing with her face that said "oh my God he's trash". She then told me so in much gentler terms. I wanted to break up so bad, but I kept it going for a few more weeks because I didn't want to be the "bad guy" (a stupid and naive thin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 10:25 PM
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Happened to me too, I was frozen and the metro was so full I couldn't move at all. An old woman who saw it, started hitting my leg with her embrella. It hurt af, and it made zero difference. Once I got down the metro the woman ran after me and told me that she saw him and was hitting my leg hard so that I'd move away. I ended up yelling at her that she should've hit him instead to force him to move the hell away. Ended up with bruises on top of feeling disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 10:19 PM
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I am confusion...🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 10:13 AM
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Had a date like this recently. 15 mins in, he immediately started telling me about his sob story. According to him, he used to be an overachiever in... Primary school... Was way under average in high school and yet he fully deserved that spot in a super famous uni in my country. Ignoring the fact that he had no actual interest in a particular subject or field, and as he later admits, going to uni at all, he still forced his parents to pay for his tuition and costs of living for an expensive priv…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 03:46 PM
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Honestly, at this point in my life, if a girl I know has way more male friends than female, i see it as a pick me flag 🚩. Especially if she has only male friends and other girls "don't get her" always "doubt her" or anything along those lines. Pick me confirmed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 08:07 PM
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Ohhh love this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 03:31 PM
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I see the same thing in my gen z cousins. Self degradation seems to be the new cool thing. Same for romanticizing mental illness because crushing clinical depression is "deep" and "aesthetic" and if u don't suffer from bpd at age 12 then you're superficial or smth. If it doesn't fuck them up later in life (hopefully) it'll pass with the hormones ig.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 07:27 PM
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No one is taking up the research for the scrotes pandemic vaccine 🤧🤧
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 04:42 PM
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Frida kahlo was a big pickme thou
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 03:01 PM
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Going from LV to HV is absolutely a lot of hard work, especially with a porn addiction which most lv's have to certain degrees. But the things that are worth it in life are always hard to attain, and becoming HV is definitely worth it! Let's hope pple strive to become HV not for the pussy/marriage which will come with the package, but with the goal of reaching self-satisfaction and living an enjoyable and meaningful life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 12:09 PM
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As long as you don't have AIDS, that's intimate info that no one but yourself is entitled to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 11:49 AM
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Tbh i don't know how reliable MBTI is even for personal development, since it can push certain pple into "boxing" themselves and forcing limits on their self (pple that use MBTI to choose careers, lovers etc...). And in my case, my test results always changed. I tested as INTP seven years ago, become an ISTP two years after (5 years ago) , then tested INTJ a year later (so 4 years ago) , afterward as ENTP (2 years ago), and last time I took a test a few weeks ago, I got ESTJ. So I pretty much we…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 09:40 AM
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Stay away from fetishes. You're asexual, you have nothing to get out of sex, much less fetish sex that ends in your own objectivation. I'm ace too, I get where you're coming from and what train of thought prolly ended up with you concidering this as a solution. But trust me, stay away from fetishists and kinks. Such relationships will suck your soul dry and give you zero satisfaction. It is precisely because you're ace that you should follow the FDS handbook well. I'm assuming you are not aro, s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 08:57 AM
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There are two cases : 1) he has a gf, so that would be cheating, and any self respecting person that loves their partner wouldn't cheat, no matter what main stream media seems to say. So yeah, he's a pos. 2) the girl is not interested, and he uses personal things she had told him out of trust for negging, guilt tripping her, or uses her vulnerable moments to push her into it. here too, a pos scum. FDS urges women to not be naive about the intention of their guy friends, to vet them well too for …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 08:17 AM
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Define "highly". A guy that takes care of his looks and is well groomed is awesome, but a guy that's obsessive about his looks is a big red flag. If you try to fluff his hair and he gets super angry at you for ruining his hairstyle, he's the obsessive type. Keep your eyes open 👀 and believe your intuition about him. Edit: I also notice that a lot of the macho personality guys, if they take care of their looks, tend to go the full on obsessive route and tend to project this obsession on their par…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 09:00 AM
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Don't waste your time with him. The fact that he found it appropriate to tell u that his friends think that he shouldn't get married and is a womanizer is sketchy af. Asking for your voice plus the baby girl and R-rated stuff... Seems like quarantine got him thirsty. You clearly don't share the same outlook on many things. I feel like he's lying about looking for marriage too (that's how he roped others in 'forever girlfriend' status). No point in wasting time on him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 12:47 PM
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She sounds like the cool girl wet dream, pretty sure it's fake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 09:20 AM
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Same! I used to be really into fandoms, Mangas etc, and with time the level of smut and unnecessary kinks went from harmless to toxic af and absolutely impossible to avoid. FDS helped me realise that it's OK to not like it, as well as the truth about the porn industry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 08:47 PM
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I agree. The way I see it, most lvms are too lazy to set up actual dates/cancel them often, and so most women in such relationships find that texting is the only way to confirm that their relationships are "strong" and keep their "bond".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 08:40 PM
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Stopped reading at "7/10"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 08:29 PM
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True, the first two also happen to be the most popular. 33 strategies of War is next on my to read list so I'll be checking that out too soon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 10:01 PM
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I second 48 laws of power, helped me understand a lot of the things that used to go over my head, and also the law of human nature. What I love about the latter is that it delivers exactly what self-help books promise, but in a very practical no nonsense way. it offers strategies in dealing with different toxic habits in one self as well as in others too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 09:57 PM
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Look up discord under this subreddit and you'll find the post + link about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 05:38 PM
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Clothes tell a lot about a person: Taste, lifestyle, and most importantly the image that this person wants to present to society and everyone around them, which in itself can give quite a bit of information. You dress below your means in order to give the image of an easy to connect to person. Another person might dress way over their means in order to give the impression of influence and get respect, they otherwise might not be given. Some women choose to dress in very féminine cuts, in order t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 05:34 PM
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You should check out the FDS discord.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 12:02 AM
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That's interesting, in my culture it's the other way around. Boys are considered a handful, less reliable in old age and girls are considered to be easier to raise and more reliable in old age, as in she is much more likely to make sure to visit her parents and take care of them in old age. Still a lot of pple prefer boys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 11:52 PM
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I find that too soon to identify him as HVM, so be careful and keep your eyes open for any flags. Otherwise the best way to stop caring about these things, is to date other pple at the same time. I really suggest reading the handbook if you haven't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 10:34 PM
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'Some'! ONLY SOME is fake! TF can he admit that and not feel disgusted by it all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 09:44 PM
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🤮🤮🤮🤮 Begone disgusting scrote 🤢✋
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 04:31 PM
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Instead of imitating celebrities, beauty gurus or the new trends, you're better off figuring out your kibbe body type and season first. Your kibbe body type will help you recognize what shapes and materials in clothes look good on you. And your season will help you figure out which colors will make you look amazing. You can find more info about these two in the internet or on YouTube. I recommend checking out Aly Art's channel on yt since she explains both well. Once that is done, you will have …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 04:15 PM
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How long have you been dating for?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 11:05 AM
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Bad behavior needs to be condemned. Shaming bad behavior is not "judgmental" and "mean", it's the only way pple will recognize their wrong doings and change for the better. Otherwise they will think they have the right to act like trash and do it with impunity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 10:52 AM
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That's a major red flag for me. The fact that I have to beg for something means a) I really need it b) I have probably hinted/told him that I do c) he didn't give a shit about that. Definitely not someone that respects and loves me. I don't want that kind of partner. And for those that ask you to?? TF. What kind of psycho creep gets satisfaction from asking you to beg? RUN.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 11:20 PM
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It's the other way around: LV traits definitely cancel out HV traits. And ur bf screams major LV. Run.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 12:09 AM
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I think it's more about the upbringing than religion itself. Could be the religion in question too, but tbh I know so many super religious guys that will only have sex with their wife, but expect to get sucked on dates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 03:02 AM
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You'd have better luck screaming at a wall. And 8 times out of 10 you'll become the 'jealous bitch who thinks she's better than everyone'.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 12:15 PM
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I watched one called "the danger of her" lately and the female protagonist is such a HVW!! It was a breath of fresh air and I hope I can find more dramas with such a main character
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 02:58 AM
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It's the whole "edgy geek weebo" culture that's tightly connected to tech fields imo and it's very prevalent so hard not to be affected by it to some degree. But from what I noticed the LVMs in tech fields tend to fall in two categories : the sleazy and creepy emotionally stunted but tech savvy (and also major kink lord) persona. This one is pretty shameless and is easily spotted. or the charismatic and equally emotionally stunted workaholic entrepreneur with a (fake) concern for social causes a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 02:34 AM
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You weren't overacting and you did exactly what u needed to do. He was hoping to guilt you into sex and you didn't take that shit. This is deal-breaker for me. I would break up and block. A HVM would've backed off and tried to make you feel better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 05:12 PM
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It's the same guy that made the 'have any of you met an FDS woman in rl' fanfic post 🤮🤮🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 03:26 AM
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Lololol the only way OP can comprehend a reality different than what he, probably white definitely male, is accustomed to is by pushing it to the most extreme 'other' category he can think of. Hence the 'Black and Hispanic poor hungry women' 🤷‍♂️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 03:23 AM
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You deserve so much better. You deserve someone who genuinely likes you, cares about you, respects you and actively does things to make you happy. And your bf is none of this. You're streaching yourself so thin to appease him, while he put in negative effort. You sound miserable because of it and rightfully so. You deserve to be loved and respected. He doesn't deserve you. For your own well being, leave him. Don't explain why to him, don't hint at it and don't bother communicating your feelings …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 02:12 AM
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Pedophilia wasn't as stigmatized then as it now, which gave disgusting scrotes so much leeway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 07:36 PM
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You should check out the FDS handbook. It answers the question in your post and probably a lot more questions that you have in mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 06:52 PM
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Exactly. It's hypocrisy at it's finest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 03:23 PM
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This is gold 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 05:20 PM
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I don't think it's a good idea to hold on to it. The idea of soul mates is nice and very heartwarming, but it's very dangerous and risky to believe in it. Once you find your "soul mate" everything they do can be excused. There's also the popular notion that soul mates reflect your bad habits, so if they annoy you or make you feel bad, that's on you 'cause he' s a reflection of your true self.... Sounds like hardcore victim blaming. I used to enjoy soul mate fics but lately it all follows the sam…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 05:17 PM
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Queens gotta queen!! Yess OMG I love that 😍😍 congratulations!! I'm so happy for you ❤️❤️ that's an amazing level up that you put blood and sweat in. To anyone that might say ' nobody cares about a woman's achievements' fuck them, that's one hell of an achievement these scrotes can only dream of ! Hope your family is proud af of you and that you get a well deserved party! Keep slaying queen 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 03:18 AM
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Pple that I had legit met and befriended a few days ago, men and women, where checking up on me, asking me to hang out and just doing an overall better job at being attentive and making enthusiastic plans to see me than my "friend" of 6years turned boyfriend. He showed zero interest unless I reached out, completely unlike when we were friends because "he didn't want to come off too strongly". Ofc looking back, he made me wait an HOUR on our second date, doing it again later on, canceled in the l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 03:08 AM
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A hard pill to swallow, but as a woman you can't afford to be naive in life. Whether in work or in relationships. It will destroy you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 11:58 PM
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They also don't seem to understand what sarcasm even is lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 04:11 PM
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🤮🤮🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 02:23 PM
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I checked this sub out of curiosity because a "female incel group" made zero sense to me lol. I couldn't envision it. Reading through the handbook I found that I agreed with pretty much everything, as it made sense to me and mirrored the advice my grandmother would tell me as a kid. But I never really put that advice in practice because I felt like "times changed" and my grandma suffered a lot from internalized sexism. For bg I'm also from a third-world country so the urge to be "modern" and cut…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 02:15 PM
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Pretty sure there's a porn category for that too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 11:46 PM
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