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| 2 | We’re done with these gamesit* | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 27/06/21 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Same old Epiphany Phase / Ticking Clock story you've heard a hundred timesThanks, now I got vomit all over my desk 🤮 | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 12/06/21 02:34 PM |
| 7 | She gets about 2 things right in this article: women are miserable and marriage rates are going down. The rest is garbage.There is no incentive for them to do so… that‘s basically asking ALL women to restrict their own options for roughly a 1:5 chance of getting with Chad, while any women who breaks rank first, can cheat the system. We all know this chippie would jump on the first opportunity she gets, she‘s not complaining about other women ruining it for society, she’s just complaining about other women ruining it FOR HER! | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 11/06/21 08:28 AM |
| 3 | Prematurely Greying hair at 25. How to deal with this?Went grey at 20 (I’m 32 now). I can assure you, chicks either love it or they don‘t care at all, never had a negative interaction because of it. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/21 09:47 AM |
| 8 | Gym bros, how long does it take to do reps of your body weight?I was exactly the same. Bodyweight of 70kg, benching 55kg for ~10reps. Took me around 6 months, going up to 78kg bodyweight (eating A LOT cause I‘m a hardgainer) to bench 70kg for 4 sets of around 8-10. Getting enough to eat!!! (this was probably the biggest factor), sleeping at least 7-8 hours per day and doing benchpress twice per week, did it for me. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/21 05:50 PM |
| 1 | GymBenchpress, Deadlifts, Squats. <— get these 3 down to perfection. Search for a Training routine online there are loads of it (personally I do a Push-Pull-Leg split, works great for me, others are upper body-lower body or 5x5 stronglifts for example, take one that works for you) Calculate your TDEE (Total Daily Energy Expenditure), google it, there are free online calculators you can use, and then add 500 calories to your TDEE to gain weight. Track your food intake with an app, so you know how mu… | /r/askTRP | 22/04/21 08:26 PM |
| 454 | Just found condoms in my LTR purse. WE DON’T USE CONDOMS.Have another look in her purse in a week or two. If there are less than 3 condoms by then you have your answer. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/21 06:59 PM |
| 8 | Tinder TrampHitting it raw with randoms is pretty much begging for STDs | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 09/04/21 01:08 PM |
| 13 | What is considered the “high” sexual partner count in today’s generation?The „Multiply by 3“ rule is actually pretty accurate. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/21 03:14 PM |
| 4 | Can I repair my marriage after discovering my wife’s lying and past promiscuity? It’s more the lying than the body count that makes me feel hurt and fearfulYou don‘t love her, you love your idea of her. And you are afraid to pull the plug because you have massively invested yourself into that idea. Look up „Ego Investment“ and „Sunken Cost Fallacy“ it fits your situation to a T. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/20 11:57 AM |
| 4 | Girl i like ignoring me?„The medium is the message.“ Why is it important to you at all if she‘s angry? You got rejected, drop her and go look for other girls. | /r/askTRP | 17/12/20 03:02 PM |
| 340 | Made "infamous" 73 Point Checklist for men to meet. 8 years later: still single!Point Nr.1: „loves me unconditionally „ ...proceeds to list 72 conditions for a man to qualify for love you can‘t make this shit up. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 15/10/20 07:16 AM |
| 3 | Do women go crazy with regret?I don‘t know... restraining order maybe? | /r/askTRP | 20/06/20 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Makes sense 😅So it actually is kinda logic, just not intuitive. Good explanation though👍🏻 | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 17/06/20 03:32 PM |
| 9 | Started my fitness journey way too late in life. Feel like I'm really behind.Never compare yourself to others, only compare yourself to the person you were yesterday. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/20 12:21 PM |
| 36 | Some have been ostracized for years thoPainfully accurate | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 25/04/20 03:15 PM |
| 3 | 30F doesn't want to settle, asks WAATGM?Maybe she is not a complete trainwreck like some of the other cases you see on here, but just because your life is not one big dumpsterfire it doesn‘t mean you can ask for whatever you want. She‘s probably just a year away from smashing into the wall, yet demands a man around 35 which is the absolute prime age for a man. She‘s looking for said men on FUCKING TINDER, aka she‘s not putting in any effort, she just wants shit handed to her. She‘s a career woman, meaning she has absolutely zero to of… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 13/03/20 04:16 AM |
| 1 | Saying "I know" instead of "Thank you"I do the same thing. Delivered with a shit-eating grin it works wonders. | /r/askTRP | 09/03/20 07:25 AM |
| 3 | Girl insulting herself shit test?Then it‘s beta-bait. Ignore or AA this. Don’t give her free validation. | /r/askTRP | 01/03/20 04:56 PM |
| 2 | Girl insulting herself shit test?Did you before? Why not „at the moment“? | /r/askTRP | 01/03/20 04:52 PM |
| 5 | Girl insulting herself shit test?If it‘s about her it‘s usually a comfort-test If it‘s about you it‘s usually a shit-test What‘s your relationship with her? Are you fucking her or are you her orbiter who gives her free validation? We need more info to give any good advice | /r/askTRP | 01/03/20 04:42 PM |
| 35 | How to handle ultimatumDEER -Defend -Explain -Excuse -Rationalize | /r/askTRP | 20/02/20 04:13 PM |
| 2 | Single mom ✅ Alcoholic ✅ No self esteem ✅ No hookups ✅Height Queen ✅ aaaaand that’s Bingo!It means she can keep drinking in a drinking contest until her opponent passes out and drops to the floor („under the table“) I didn‘t know americans use that phrase too. We literally say the same thing in germany. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 14/02/20 08:25 AM |
| 3 | I think porn turned me into a wimpAre you sure porn is the cause and not just an effect/coping mechanism in regards to your behavior? Your examples sound more like case specific social anxiety. Have you considered getting yourself checked by a therapist? | /r/askTRP | 12/02/20 12:23 PM |
| 29 | When did you start to bloom?Am 31. Can't tell if this the peak already but it's VERY different from 26 at least. | /r/seduction | 11/02/20 09:47 PM |
| 3 | Because height can’t be an insecurityNot really an „unpopular“ opinion imo | /r/PussyPassDenied | 05/02/20 04:59 PM |
| 2 | I think I’ll keep on truckin’What does 420 friendly mean? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 01/02/20 08:58 AM |
| 20 | Advice on handling 80+ hour work weeks?80+ hours per week that equals roughly 12h per day if you work 7 days a week. Normal sleep per day should be 8h, that‘s already 20h leaving 4h. Morning routine even when done fast (showering, shaving, eat at least a bowl of cereal, etc) is about 30 min. Average commute time is like 25 min, but lets be generous and say its 15min. Back and forth thats another 30min, leaving 3h. Now you have to do grocery shopping, cook/eat dinner, maybe put in some time at the gym if you dont wanna ruin your healt… | /r/askTRP | 31/01/20 10:30 AM |
| 7 | Obese woman seeking fit guys only, "Most of the guys I'm attracted to don't ever give me the chance to show them what an awesome girl I am because of my weight"The amount of cognitive dissonance in this profile is giving me brain cancer | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 29/01/20 05:04 PM |
| 3 | How do I truly brainwash “I am enough” in to me?your joining the 1200# club (squat/DL/Bench) whats that? 1rep max of all three combined? | /r/askTRP | 23/01/20 12:58 PM |
| 1 | LTR said she’s ready to do anything for me even kill herself.Call the cops because you are legitimately worried she might hurt herself. If she actually means it then it‘s a win-win, you‘ve shown that you actually did everything you could to help her and she gets the help she needs. If she‘s bluffing, well... play stupid games, win stupid prizes | /r/askTRP | 17/01/20 02:13 PM |
| 5 | How is a guy going to slut-shame women and then throw a fit if a woman has a three month rule?No one told these guys they were entitled to sex by pretending to care about women. Nor did anyone tell him to adopt a fuckboy mentality when they dont have fuckboy skills. Where exactly did I say anything about men being entitled to sex? I said it‘s a market and if you want something you have to trade for it. Nobody is entitled to anything, neither men nor women. What these guys are asking is no better than Lena Dunham demanding money for her nudes while complaining “Why are you giving money fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/20 01:45 PM |
| 5 | How is a guy going to slut-shame women and then throw a fit if a woman has a three month rule?You mean relationship vs ONS? Yeah, if I just want sex, I'm going after guys I find immediate sexual attraction. Seen from your standpoint that‘s rational behavior. The problem is that most of the women in the western societies do exactly the same. It‘s not only you it‘s a societal trend. This behavior is taking place in an ever expanding and continuously deregulated marketplace (Female sex „traded“ against male commitment), and every „transaction“ being made influences that market. If women hav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/20 10:40 AM |
| 1 | Advice on how to handle the situationNumber 2 —> when you just heard that shit test one too many times. Brutal af, but I like it. | /r/askTRP | 14/01/20 09:30 AM |
| 8 | LTR wants me to turn on the last seen on whatsappRobert Downey Jr. I think | /r/askTRP | 13/01/20 12:41 PM |
| 9 | Soft texted on her birthday and she is ragingJust don‘t delete the texts she sent you, in fact you should save them, cause this sounds like the type of batshit crazy bitch who would bring up false rape allegations. Better safe than sorry. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/20 12:28 PM |
| 2 | Are women less rational?I think you are conflating two things here. Namely what‘s rational for the individual and what‘s rational for society. Rational behavior on a societal level is what would be called ethical / moral by that society, because it benefits the group even though it might be disadvantageous to the individual. Rational behavior on an individual level would be considered unethical / amoral by that society, because it only benefits the individual while hampering the society. Ethical / moral behavior in thi… | /r/askTRP | 10/01/20 10:45 AM |
| 3 | All those not-real-men walked right *passed* herBest comment! | /r/PussyPassDenied | 08/01/20 04:06 PM |
| 1 | What would you guys do?Do you even budget? Ask yourself the following: If you loose your job now, can you sustain your lifestyle for at least a year before you run out of money? Do you have any passive income generating assets? Obviously no property, but dividend paying stocks maybe? Are you saving at least 1/3 of your net income each month after all expenses? If the answer to any of these is no, you should definitely change something! | /r/askTRP | 07/01/20 12:17 PM |
| 1 | I think i am a depressed beta male.The only strategy that works against anxiety is exposure to whatever makes you anxious. Start small and gradually increase the „difficulty“ of your social interactions (google: Fear ladder program). If you have a severe case of anxiety, consider trying therapy. Lift and build some muscle so you feel comfortable in your own skin. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/20 02:49 PM |
| 5 | So what benefits do you bring to deserve a hard-working, good-looking country guy?I think it means Beers n Steaks | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 25/12/19 03:02 PM |
| 1 | Did I get ghosted?You fucked her, didn‘t you? I don‘t see the problem here, still less than you would pay even for a cheap hooker. But seriously, stop spending money on women in clubs! | /r/askTRP | 17/12/19 09:23 AM |
| 7 | Defending yourself physically from women?You enforced boundaries, good job OP! This needs to happen more often. As for defending yourself: I like the idea of equal rights—>equal lefts, but we all know thats not how it works... Still if she throws a punch, you are allowed to defend yourself. You don‘t have to straight out uppercut the bitch, but an armlock should still be within bounds Just make sure there are witnesses who can testify that you tried to deescalate! | /r/askTRP | 17/12/19 08:53 AM |
| 8 | Friend sliding into plate’s DMsI see 2 possible cases here: 1) She told you about it, because she doesn‘t fancy the guy and does not want to take a risk by keeping this from you.—> Best case scenario 2) She‘s shittesting you by applying dread. If it was the latter, I think your reaction in the moment was good so it‘s still game on, but you got to keep your cool now. Do not issue an ultimatum like „he or me“. Do not mateguard. Apply some dread yourself if you can. Problem is, she‘s a plate only so you cannot really blame her i… | /r/askTRP | 09/12/19 11:10 AM |
| 3 | Go lifting is great advice....but you know what is even better advice? Go eat right.Have you done it? I made a halfass try on it once, but I‘m really struggling with keeping out the carbs. Do you have an example of what you ate on a normal day? | /r/TheRedPill | 29/11/19 04:50 PM |
| 1 | What to do if she keeps texting me after she rejected me?The real question is“Why do you even care?“ I don‘t see a lay happening here for you and personally I have zero patience for playing games, but it‘s up to you. If you share a social circle just do the „I was so busy lately“-thing and keep it short. Otherwise it really doesn‘t matter which one you do | /r/askTRP | 29/11/19 04:41 PM |
| 1 | What to do if she keeps texting me after she rejected me?She gave you the LJBF line, so do yourself a favor and ghost. Maybe you had a shot, but you fucked up somewhere along the line, who knows it doesn‘t matter now. Besides, if you‘re famous enough so that girl would post pictures with you to brag, you should have absolutely no problem lining up other girls | /r/askTRP | 29/11/19 04:13 PM |
| 2 | How do i stop eating sugar?A little thing that might help you (although its not the solution to it all, just a crutch). Whenever you feel like eating something sugary, go do something else instead. I mean literally anything. Go for a walk, write something down in a diary, watch a youtube video, whatever. Often its just your brain telling you to get sugar because of ingrained behavioral patterns. By occupying it with something else you can keep it busy until your craving dwindles. You still have to put in the work and be d… | /r/askTRP | 28/11/19 12:25 PM |
| 4 | 35 year old mom of two looking for friends. She knows her worth, so you “would have to be pretty impressive” if you want a shot.Shit, that‘s so accurate and yet its so funny XD | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 13/11/19 02:52 PM |
| 1 | what age do girls get nervous being single?Probably true. So I might add that my observations are referring to the situation in a „big“city (big by european standards at least) | /r/askTRP | 12/11/19 06:07 PM |
| 3 | what age do girls get nervous being single?Maybe there‘s still a slight difference between europe and america but from my personal experience I‘d say around 30-32 is when you really notice the big flip in the SMP here. The wall really hits them at around 35 imho, sure their looks start to decline before that and marriage scenarios become increasingly unlikely, but they are still reasonably pretty until then. | /r/askTRP | 12/11/19 08:48 AM |
| 2 | Sued old plate who owed me $2500 and things have gotten really nasty - how to proceed?Goes without saying that your first error was lending money to her. But then she‘s got the audacity to bail on the payment and slander you? I‘d have a hard time keeping my cool in your stead. I don’t know why you’re not going nuclear on this woman (cause I know I would, but whatever), so give her a choice: Full repayment in whatever rates you see fit, no matter how long it takes OR complete and total destruction in court. Bitches need to learn that actions have consequences. | /r/askTRP | 08/11/19 06:20 PM |
| 3 | Mods are going camping for the three day weekend! Get your quality memes in now! (Special thanks to u/TheBronzeCommander for this Photoshop job.)Just not death by snu snu... | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 08/11/19 05:02 PM |
| 4 | Ran into a plate from a year ago and wanted to ask why she lost interestI‘d argue that self-perception matters too in this regard , but that‘s my personal opinion. Otherwise I agree with you | /r/askTRP | 08/11/19 01:07 PM |
| 36 | Ran into a plate from a year ago and wanted to ask why she lost interestI did exactly the same shit back in my BP-days. Trust me, best-case scenario she will give you a load of made-up BS about how „it was not you but me“ and the like. You won‘t get an ounce of truth out of her and look like an insecure, needy little bitch in her eyes. Don‘t do it! You have been warned. | /r/askTRP | 08/11/19 10:57 AM |
| 3 | How do I stop being a lazy fuck?Get someone to hold you accountable. When I started going to the gym, I was working out alone and my discipline was lacking. I was struggling to get into a routine. That changed instantly as soon as I started working out with a buddy, because we kicked each other in the ass when one of us „did not feel like training today“. I nearly have a 2 year-streak of never missing a workout now. Trust me, this works! | /r/askTRP | 08/11/19 10:45 AM |
| 1 | The Up-Down Cycle of Self Improvement?Sorry for being so harsh, but this is exactly the kind of infantile thinking that got us into this shit in the first place. I want to be free and do whatever I want. But I also want to want positive things,... Jeez I wonder where I heard that line before,... oh thats right, WOMEN Pick one! You can indulge in short-term pleasures all you want, but then you don‘t get to bitch about not reaching any of your goals. | /r/askTRP | 08/11/19 10:02 AM |
| 1 | A girl on tinder said I look like a “my daddy will sue” kind of guy.For someone who doesn‘t know, what does“my daddy will sue“ actually mean? | /r/askTRP | 08/11/19 09:28 AM |
| 4 | "I'm done dating all men until these 6'2 fuckboys treat me with respect!"„Why do you think I owe you commitment just for having sex with me?“ | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 08/11/19 08:11 AM |
| 2 | Can you get girls without chasing them?He means if you get a (positive) response from the girl, she will have a harder time pulling a #metoo-move on you if she changes her mind afterwards. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/19 06:17 PM |
| 3 | Prefrontal cortex: am I a joke to you?I‘m dead XD | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 07/11/19 06:55 AM |
| 1 | Plate asking for money after losing job.Do you live in a country where people are literally starving to death? How is this even a question? | /r/askTRP | 04/11/19 03:49 PM |
| 9 | Shittests from other males?Jesus Christ, thats some weapon-grade pressure flipping right there. Will save this one for future use! | /r/askTRP | 01/11/19 10:14 AM |
| 1 | Attacked my "Brother in Law"You kicked the guy while he was down...? Yeah, if I were the father I would make sure you never get nowhere near the daughter again, cause I would be scared af you „loose your frame“ with her at some point. If you really are professional fighter you should know how to enact some fucking restraint. | /r/askTRP | 31/10/19 04:49 PM |
| 2 | Advice for a 22 year oldI recommend you also pick up a book about reading body language. It‘s a fun pastime and it has great potential benefits for all sorts of situations. | /r/askTRP | 30/10/19 12:31 PM |
| 5 | Did I soft next this plate correctly?She was a plate, not a LTR. And as far as I could read out of his words, he‘s not planning on making her a LTR if she comes back around. | /r/askTRP | 28/10/19 09:05 AM |
| 5 | Any success stories of guys who were losers in their 20s and then went on to have high smv?Wouldn‘t consider myself „high“ SMV yet, at least not the 20% bracket, but considering where I came from I‘d still call it a success story. Never had a girlfriend, only got laid a few times in my 20s and probably only because of my looks (I‘m actually good looking but was never able to capitalize on that), BP af, moderate social anxiety, had no direction and no purpose in life, had a breakdown at 29 (luckily after I graduated from uni) because of all the cognitive dissonance I was fed, was at my… | /r/askTRP | 25/10/19 07:09 AM |
| 11 | Facebook ThotsNEVER GO FOR SINGLE MOMS! Even if you‘re smart enough not to LTR them, the danger of getting babytrapped is real. Not worth the risk imho. To answer your question: Yes they know they fucked up their SMV big time, so they put out easier to attract a guy. It‘s the only way they can still compete in the SMP against younger women with less baggage. | /r/askTRP | 21/10/19 02:46 PM |
| 1 | How many hours a week do you work?8+ per day/ Mo-Fr , usually end up around 50 hr per week. | /r/askTRP | 21/10/19 11:35 AM |
| 1 | Girl telling me she thinks a guy near us is cuteNormally I‘d agree with you but I had the same thing happening to me with girls I did actually fuck (before and after they said that to me) My take is those are highly promiscuous women and/or this a hard shittest they are throwing at you. Treat it exactly like that, they are not LTR-material but good target practice and from my experience often an easy lay. | /r/askTRP | 19/10/19 03:38 PM |
| 5 | I can't get out of my head. It's always fucking running. I fucking hate it. So then even if I don't think like a BP or if I try to be present in the moment it's like as soon as a thought comes in, like Pavlov's dog, I cave in. Has anyone had this issue and permanently solved it?Give yourself time! Thats the most crucial advice I can give you. You are trying to actively break the conditioning you endured for half a lifetime, that‘s incredibly hard and will take time, but you’re doing the right things already, so stay the course! Set a small goal for yourself , like jumping in on the set next time in the gym, don‘t be discouraged if you can‘t do it the first time, keep trying. The hard part is not getting it right, the hard part is keeping on trying until you get it righ… | /r/askTRP | 16/10/19 11:24 AM |
| 1 | How to stick to a diet? What's worked for you guys?Get a calorie tracking app and religiously put EVERYTHING you eat in there. It takes a bit getting used to it, but it works. If you‘re cutting try combining it with intermittent fasting to help you sticking to it. | /r/askTRP | 14/10/19 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Girls saying they hate abs...?How you pass any other shittest. A&A, N&A, pressure flips or flat out ignore. But if its a girl you don‘t even wanna fuck, why bother passing her shittests in the first place? | /r/askTRP | 11/10/19 01:38 PM |
| 2 | How do you get over the regret that you haven't lifted and gotten ripped sooner?27? You should consider yourself lucky you found TRP so early in your life. You‘re not even in your prime yet mate! | /r/askTRP | 11/10/19 11:31 AM |
| 1 | Girls saying they hate abs...?It‘s BS. Either it‘s part of their ASD or they are projecting their insecurity in this as a guy with abs definitely would instill a shitload of dread into them. Bottom line: Get those abs! | /r/askTRP | 11/10/19 11:14 AM |
| 2 | Emotional fluctuations while in field and instant blowouts (rejections)Try and imagine a laughing baby! Seriously try it. Imagine a happy, giggling, laughing baby, who‘s having the time of his life playing peek-a-boo or something. You literally cannot do that and be in a bad mood at the same time. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/19 07:35 AM |
| 2 | Have you gotten laid more since following TRPYes, although it would have been hard NOT to do any better, since my trackrecord before TRP was horrible to say the least. Nevertheless it works for me. I‘m far from being complete in my development but for the first time ever I feel like I am moving in the right direction. | /r/askTRP | 07/10/19 10:03 AM |
| 1 | If I'm single at 70-something, will I be lonely ...or having lots of divorced/widowed women bugging the hell out of me?For someone who doesn‘t know... what‘s TRT and GH? | /r/askTRP | 27/09/19 12:54 PM |
| 7 | I'm a Beta in LDR with Filipina, Life in ShamblesLeave this leeching bloodsucking whore immediately. Block her from all channels of communication, uninstall every app and change every number she could use to contact you, because I can guarantee you she will try to guilt-trip you to come back so she can leech some more of you, like she already did. To be absolutely clear: NUKE EVERY LINE OF COMMUNICATION FROM THE FUCKING ORBIT! NO CONTACT! NOT NOW AND NOT IN THE FUTURE! NEVER! Next: My advice would be for you to go full monk mode. You need to g… | /r/askTRP | 27/09/19 08:51 AM |
| 1 | Talked to a group of women at a bar yesterday. Told them that I’m a software engineer making 6 figures. Now a few of them won’t stop bugging me on trying to take them out for dinner. Did I fuck up?„If you go fishing with gold, the only thing you‘ll catch are golddiggers“ Not my quote, but fits here | /r/askTRP | 23/09/19 03:05 PM |
| 9 | What do I even do in this situation?Dial back the attention you‘re giving her. And for f..sake stop listening to her whining about another guy, you‘re not her emotional tampon. Ask yourself what you want out of this. If its just sex then congrats, you got that, why put up with her BS? Plate material at best. | /r/askTRP | 09/09/19 03:50 PM |
| 5 | Before I found TRP I read something about how “Congruence” is the most attractive thing about people and it’s mainly what you should strive for. studies have shown congruence is one of the most important things in attraction. How can one become more congruent??Correct me if I‘m wrong but isn‘t this what shit tests are all about? To see if you still act „congruent“ to the image you gave, when you‘re under pressure? | /r/askTRP | 27/08/19 04:58 PM |
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