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Basic QuestionTakeIIRP/r/askMRP26/09/20 02:38 PM
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TakeIIRP/r/askMRP29/08/21 10:17 PM
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Also, once you achieve your goal weight, you don't get to celebrate by going back to eating the way that got you fat in the first place. Agreed. I liked this trainers approach. Had been familiar with reverse dieting. Finally into a habit of prepping. Eating more protein. Etc. Feel like I found something sustainable long term. His goal is to teach me to fish instead of giving me the fish. On top of that he's helped me with my form checks and correcting my lifts. I'm calling this my Hail Mary pass…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/21 06:03 PM
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It is. During my training session last night I realized I can't keep trying to negotiatie desire. So focusing on tightening up areas that are in my control: dwelling, fitness, work, finances
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/21 05:09 PM
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Updated. Trainer has me reverse dieting. Been eating 2500-3000 calories daily and maintaining. I think we have another week or two of pushing calories. Haven't gained any. Still fat but trusting his process. Instead of eating 1600-1800 calories and only losing a couple pounds then going extreme caloric deficit. Tired of the diet yoyoing.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/21 05:08 PM
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Right now - you have one path that won't end in disaster which is to improve yourself. That's where I'll be focusing my time and energy.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/21 03:08 PM
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More of a slip. It's been a constant I clean up then the children become hurricanes on days I work then repeat. She apologies for not cleaning then is upset when I don't clean. More so I need to focus on that model again and assume she's dead and do things for myself and my boys. It's become a covert contract so I'll eliminate that.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/21 03:07 PM
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OYS#9 32 years old, Wife 31 years old, Married 8 years, 2 kids 3 & 1 years old. Stats CW 185lbs 5'5'' Current Lifts as of 10/19 Squat 205lbsx5 Bench 150lbsx8 BB Row 115lbsx8 OHP 105lbsx5 Deadlift 190lbsx5 Reading Finished NMMNG and MMSL. Added Black Belt Husband 1 chapter at night. Focus right now is self awareness, humility, and consistency from BBH. Next on the list is WISNIFG. - Starting this week with WISNIFG Mission Be better than I was yesterday. Lifts/health Eating more and lifting. Maint…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/21 05:00 AM
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OYS#8 32 years old, Wife 31 years old, Married 8 years, 2 kids 3 & 1 years old. Stats CW 184lbs Reading Finished NMMNG and MMSL. Added Black Belt Husband 1 chapter at night. Focus right now is self awareness, humility, and consistency from BBH. Next on the list is WISNIFG. Mission Be better than I was yesterday. Lifts/health Eating more and lifting. Maintaining weight. Few more weeks of maintaining weight and increasing calories then the cut begins according to my coach. Career Made a tough deci…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/21 02:38 AM
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OYS#7 32 years old, Wife 31 years old, Married 8 years, 2 kids 3 & 1 years old. Stats CW 184lbslbs Reading Reread NMMNG. Currently on MMSL. Added Black Belt Husband 1 chapter at night. Still deciding how I like it. Mission Be better than I was yesterday. Lifts/health Continuing to work with this coach. Correcting form. Increasing weight. Eating more and maintaining weight. Goal has been to create better habits, hit protein and calories. Career Still solid. Marriage Rereading MMSL and there's…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/21 08:49 PM
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That's debatable since it's a copy, paste, and edit. I don't hate my life as things could be way worse. I get what you're saying though.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/21 11:51 AM
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OYS#6 32 years old, Wife 31 years old, Married 8 years, 2 kids 3 & 1 years old. Stats CW 179lbs Reading Sidebar reading slowed to make room for career reading materials for a few weeks. Mission Be better than I was yesterday. Lifts/health Continuing a variation of SL5X5. Same lifts but at 3x5 with additional accessories. Overall still in the gym 3x per week. Coach put me on his program. I enjoy it and adding weight each workout. Coach I'm working with has me focusing on just tracking what I …
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/21 06:45 PM
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That's eye opening because I've never looked at it that way.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/09/21 11:58 AM
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True. When I talk to the lawyer I'll get more info on all that I'm sure on how fucked I am.
/r/askMRP01/09/21 04:11 AM
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OYS#5 31 years old, Wife 31 years old, Married 8 years, 2 kids 3 & 1 years old. Stats CW 178.3lbs got lazy last week but reeled it back in. Reading Restarted NMMNG then going down all the prerequisites again. Adding in "What a year of OYS" Looks like because I've been inconsistent and lacking self discipline. Mission Be better than I was yesterday. Lifts/health 4th week of SL. Still continuing to progress. Career Still trying to shed the external validation that I get from my job. Otherwise, doi…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/09/21 04:06 AM
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I'm sure your lawyer has suggested that her having income only works in your favor. That's what I've gathered from here. Once I talk to the lawyer I'll gain some more guidance. Priority at the moment is my sick kiddo, everything else is noise in the background.
/r/askMRP30/08/21 03:23 PM
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True the math she did was she can't be PRN and live on her own. Money can be made.
/r/askMRP30/08/21 03:20 PM
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Yeah I will have to figure out with a lawyer what to do because as of right now I have no intentions of moving out. Planning to start recording things so they are not or not thrown back at me. Being in Texas I believe the recording law is one person involved in the conversation gives consent and my self counts. Things to discuss with a lawyer for sure. I'm going to put together budget tomorrow at work. She was previously doing it but I'm going to make one that is solely my income.
/r/askMRP30/08/21 01:27 AM
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I figured it would be something like that.
/r/askMRP30/08/21 12:35 AM
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First thing is she is no longer stay at home mom. She need to be working full time ASAP. If she is PRN I take it she is a nurse that good because she can up her hours anytime. I'm gonna let her figure that one out. Correct she's a nurse however employees cannot switch back and forth less than a year at a the current status which just changed in June. If you owned the house before the marriage it may not be marital property Nope we bought it together 3 years after getting married. So currently in…
/r/askMRP30/08/21 12:16 AM
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Oh yeah the plan was 1500 in the event I needed to hold up in a hotel. However I'm not planning to leave the house. It's in both our names. Her car is paid off and in both our names and my vehicle is in my name.
/r/askMRP29/08/21 11:12 PM
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Good to know. Didn't want to jump to assumptions till I talked to someone. Thanks.
/r/askMRP29/08/21 11:08 PM
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Oh yeah not planning to hide the money. Was going to take 20% of the current funds available and open my own account. Would present those documents whenever asked for. Won't be doing this
/r/askMRP29/08/21 10:38 PM
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All good advice. Thank you. I'm gonna keep at it.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/21 12:07 AM
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Yes there is... you're just using all these as excuses to why you don't fuck. You know...you're right that is an excuse. When's the last time you pulled your wife into a closet/side room. Before we were married. I'll have to work on my game because I have none and have had none for a long time.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/21 02:29 PM
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Literally a 10 blip from his speech at 21 con but ok. "Every time I have anxiety or nerves, go and crush the gym till I didn't have anxiety anymore. Every time the wife wouldn't fuck me, on to the gym, I have something better to do" and "when things weren't going my way and once I have something better to do I could start dealing with the source of it." It's just a strategy to try and start with. The focus isn't even sex it's the outcome independence. I have very little of that at the moment. I'…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/21 03:43 PM
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Yeah. I need a guideline right now. Something to start with and then adapt. Make the stay plan the go plan for now. This is what I'll focus on.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/21 02:52 PM
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It's just a start as Rian Stone suggested in one of his videos when starting to get shit together. Likely misinterpreting it but there's no a whole lot of opportunities due to little humans. More or evening when they go to bed or before they wake up. Same thing I train BJJ at 6am. https://youtu.be/91XSXFvCoAs strategy at 43:48
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/21 02:48 PM
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OYS#4 31 years old, Wife 31 years old, Married 8 years, 2 kids 3 & 1 years old. 180lbs biometric measurement said 33% bf vs home digital scale 27% I'm going to focus on the mirror. Either way I'm fat and short. Reading Restarted NMMNG then going down all the prerequisites again. Adding in "What a year of OYS" Looks like because I've been inconsistent and lacking self discipline. Mission I thought I had a mission. I thought I was doing it right. I have to toss what I thought my mission was. I sai…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/21 12:56 PM
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Lifting. Adding weight each week. RPT style lifting the last 4 weeks. Going to see a sports medicine doctor soon about my knee. Back squat is the only issue. Had a buddy mention front squats so might give those a shot since knee problem was the same issue. I'm short at 5'5''/165cm so ideal body weight for me is around 135-145lbs. Lean and cut vs fat and jiggly.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/21 12:17 PM
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Fair point. At this point I'm good with it. I know we're set for a few months in the event I lose my job which isn't likely. There would just be a short time job hunting and my part time job would give me full time without second thought. Are they the high paying jobs? No but I'm doing what I love to do.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/21 10:35 PM
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OYS # 3 Summary 31 years old 5'5" 2 kids (3 and 1) wife 31. Lifts are not great I'm sure. Haven't tested them. Working on building my strength back up. Career beta. Too much verbal garbage and not enough STFU. Reading Focus has been on master's program and certification exams. Relationships Still have work today. Focusing more on my physical, mental, and career goals. Enjoying the time I get with my kiddos when I'm not at work. Career Pursuing resume booster opportunities. Leadership roles. Long…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/21 02:28 PM
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OYS # 2 Summary 31 years old 5'5" 176.4lbs 25.6%bf (-1.4lbs and -0.3%bf) 2 kids (3 and 1) wife 31. Lifts are not great I'm sure. Haven't tested them. Working on building my strength back up. Career beta. Too much verbal garbage and not enough STFU. Reading Not enough books. Relationships Losing frame = unattractive. I let my emotions best me and engaged when I knew better. Can't even remember what it all resulted in. Recommended dose of STFU way more. Career Still good here. Getting the experien…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/21 03:23 PM
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Only reason I've struggled is due to lack of discipline. And being a fat fuck. Been tracking 80% of the time this ĺast week so going to continue that habit even if it's a trash day. Intermittent fasting has made it easier to eat bigger meals and a plus at work when I don't have the time.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/21 02:20 PM
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No. This isn't something you "follow" it's a process for improving your process. You embrace it and participate. That's a better way to look at it for sure. Thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/21 12:15 PM
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OYS # 1 I've had so many number 1 OYS stopped for too long. Fornicating technicalities. Let myself get complacent due to my own lack of discipline. For fucking years. Summary 31 years old 5'5" 177.8lbs 25.9% BF. 2 kids (3 and 1) wife 31. Not even sure what m lifting stats are but I got back into the gym this week with a program and a plan. Reading Will need to make time to reread however, I understand the material. I just don't put it into action. Will start over with BPP's book Relationship We …
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/21 03:58 AM
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I'm in. Here's to the next 8 weeks and beyond. Picked a program and getting back to it. Too many excuses to count.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/21 05:18 PM
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Kind of had an epiphany reading this....I've been doing the same thing over and over again expecting a different result. Can't change what I've already fucked up. Might as well move forward and be cognizant of my world instead of expecting things to happen.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/20 03:34 AM
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What the literal fuck? I think everyone else has already posted advice. Continue at that weight and bf. I'm giving you 15 more years or so. Or you can start there with your weight and stop being a bitch.
/r/askMRP16/11/20 04:18 AM
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Plot twist they're both untrue.
/r/askMRP08/11/20 10:56 PM
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Assuming you meant this for OP.
/r/askMRP02/11/20 12:37 PM
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I know everyone is jumping on the formula train but some parents/moms strictly breastfeed. That being said you can always take breast milk. End of the day your mom is mortal and you're going resent yourself more than your wife. I resent myself for not having seen my parents more with the kids. My dad passed way last month and only say my kids a handful of times. Schedules conflicted, covid, and other excuses. Overall, I can't do anything about that now but be at peace with our relationship how i…
/r/askMRP01/11/20 11:32 PM
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Just go lift. Stronglifts 5x5 or any beginner programs. 3x per week. You'll get stronger. Also no one else cares how much you bench.
/r/askMRP28/10/20 10:04 PM
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OYS 1 31, together 11yr, married 7, and career beta, spawns 2 yo & 3 mo. 5'5, 170.4lbs 24%bf. Current SL5X5 working weight - Bench 155lbs, Squat 180lbs, DL 230lbs, Row 125lbs, Press 95lbs. ​ Physical SL5x5 till I can't. Been retarded and inconsistent all year. Focusing on the basics. ​ Career Steady. Working on certifications to make a slight career change. Same field. Different area. Waiting on grad school admissions. ​ Marriage Lots of work to do on myself. Ramboed and jumped into 75Hard witho…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/20 02:13 PM
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I think this was what I was floundering with. I truly am processing all of this but I'm relaxing and letting myself grieve but not fall to pieces. I don'tlike crying infront of people but I know it'll happen. It's all still fresh. I've opened up more and I think it's helping me. Push comes to shove I'll sit with a counselor. I know I'll need to find one for my mom if she wants one. Thanks Bobby.
/r/askMRP27/09/20 05:36 AM
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Go ahead and fucking cry. If you're worried about her testing you're already in her frame. Embrace your grief. Its necessary. True. Very true. Just not gonna worry about anyone else for the time being.
/r/askMRP26/09/20 04:01 PM
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I believe this is more along the lines of what I was trying to shed light on. I'm not running around crying like that because to be honest, for the most part I'm learning as I go.
/r/askMRP26/09/20 03:34 PM
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Incorrect, I just don't like falling apart in front of others. My mom especially because I'm trying to be strong for her during this time. Although their marriage was not the best they were still together for 32 years. I'm at peace for the most part because I talked to him tha morning and was able to be with him in the end at the hospital.
/r/askMRP26/09/20 03:31 PM
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I know I'm in a shit place right now. Just hoping that I can unfuck myself.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/20 03:02 AM
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Putting it that way I see how it all sounds. Crying poor me does nothing. Actions do. Overall, I had accepted defeat before and made it sound like I was ready to accept defeat by victim puking. Guess we will see what I do with OYS 1.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/20 10:36 PM
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Dude you sound like you hate yourself. I hate what I let myself become. I hate that I've stopped trying. I hate that I've floundered around. Myself? Sometimes. I'll know I'll gain back some confidence through lifitng and getting myself right mentally. Just going to take it each day and reset myself each day. Picked leangains. Simple for me. Programmed into my app already. Did 5x5 shortly but the squats 3x per week really was wrecking my knee. For now I just need the win of lifting 3x per week. A…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/20 10:33 PM
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Dude you sound like you hate yourself. I hate what I let myself become. I hate that I've stopped trying. I hate that I've floundered around. Myself? Sometimes. I'll know I'll gain back some confidence through lifitng. Picked leangains. Simple for me. Programmed into my app already. Did 5x5 shortly but the squats 3x per week really was wrecking my knee. Are you working right now or are you using "I guess I'll go back to school and/or get more certifications" as a way to delay actually having to g…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/20 10:20 PM
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This is also just OYS #0. Not 10. Planning to make adjustments. Each day and each week. Start putting in some effort. You can't fake your way through this and find success. That's the idea
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/20 09:19 PM
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This was my self-realization moment. I expected something just for existing. . Build some discipline this time around and maybe you’ll see results. 100% this. I haven't put in effort so going back to the drawing board.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/20 09:17 PM
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OYS #0 was going to make a new account but fuck it. I've sucked and haven't been "the man" for a while. I've been trash so my results have been trash. I make gains when I track my progress however, I let small progress derail me and allow me to become complacent. Stats: 31 yo, Wt: Fat 173.4lbs bf: 25.4% fitbit scale Ht: 5'5" Lifts - Will mention below Read: Doesn't matter what I've read when I couldn't apply things Currently reading: Starting with NMMNG again Mission: Get up and move forward. St…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/20 02:03 PM
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OYS 30yo, 5'5", 170.2lbs (weekly average) Married 6 years, 1 kid and another on the way - Wife is pregnant so not going to make drastic changes now. Slow steady changes for the long game is my plan of action. Physical Up and down with the diet. That's on me. Just need to stick to my eating window and calorie deficit. No other excuse. Work No issue here. Looking to further my education in the next few years for my master's degree. Reading Slowly rereading through sidebar material again. Relations…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/20 04:10 PM
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OYS 30yo, 5'5", 171.6 lbs, BF 24-25% Married 6 years, 1 kid and another on the way - Wife is pregnant so not going to make drastic changes now. Slow steady changes for the long game is my plan of action. Physical Lifted 3 times last week. Going to continue to aim at 3-4x per week. Increasing weight each session. Actually tracking my intermittent fasting again. Work No issue here. Looking to further my education in the next few years for my master's degree. Also, pursuing a different area in my f…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/20 01:45 PM
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OYS 30yo, 5'5", 170lbs, BF 24-25% buying a calipers today. Married 6 years, 1 kid and another on the way - Wife is pregnant so not going to make drastic changes now. Slow steady changes for the long game is my plan of action. Physical BP 170x9 lbs OHP 105x7 lbs SQ 190x10 lbs DL 280x4 lbs I don't test 1RM or 2RM. Just set rep goals and if I hit them I'll I'll increase the weight the following session. Home gym so no excuse to not lift 3x per week. Fucked around some trying to find a program that …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/20 03:53 PM
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As noted by my title. Gotta get my ducks better in a row. Any explanation is just filler and doesn't matter. Between this and tomorrow's OYS should help me get back on track. Can't unfuck something without putting in the work and doing the same thing over and over again while expecting a different result is the definition of insanity. So might as well do something for once with effort.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/20 01:58 AM
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Personally, can't imagine going through that and it's something others have gone through. Best of luck to you OP on your journey.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/19 05:16 PM
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Those well wishes I can appreciate. Thank you.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/19 08:27 PM
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You had to twist my statements in order to respond. Fuck you and your permission. You don't tell me how to live my life.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/19 08:11 PM
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Stats Age: 29 Height: 65 inches Weight: 152.6 lbs BF: Fitbit scale 20.4%. Wife: 29, Married 6 years, Together 10 years, 1 Child - 1 Year old Reading Have read prerequisites. Still refer to them for refreshers. Need to pick up on TWOTSM and 48 Laws of Power. Got side tracked with Jiu Jitsu University. Physical/health Weight loss is up and down of course but the weekly average is steadily dropping. I saw a normal BMI for the first time in my adult life. Not the end goal but something to be proud o…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/19 12:44 AM
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Ha. Was up to WotSM. That will be my next book. Otherwise have read side bar up till graduate level. Words are hard at 2am.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/08/19 10:12 PM
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Stats Age: 29 Height: 65 inches Weight: 154lbs last post I was at 166.1lbs BF: Fitbit says 20.1% probably pretty close. Wife: 29, Married 5 years, Together 9 years, 1 Child - 1 Year old Reading have read the prerequisites but changed my focus recently Physical/health Finally getting down in weight. Lowest I've ever been. Once I hit my goal weight I'll reevaluate. Blood pressure was horrible previously. Lost 12 additional pounds changed to HIIT workouts for the time being. BP is now more normal. …
/r/MarriedRedPill14/08/19 03:47 AM
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Make sure you focus on yourself. Read the sidebar. If you're not lifting, start lifting. If you haven't had a physical in a while with blood work get one. Make sure you get your hormones checked too. R/testosterone wiki has a list of labs that are recommended to be checked. If you're "exercising" but not lifting you're wrong. Power walking, spin class, anything else besides the barbell is a waste of time and you're not guaranteed past the present. If you're doing any of this in hopes of having y…
/r/askMRP01/07/19 02:32 PM
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Yeah yeah.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/19 10:50 AM
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Needed to hear this. Thanks Fox.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/19 10:37 AM
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I tried to DEER but you're right. Using sex as a validation tool. Well aware dancing monkey doesn't work. Just got side tracked. If she was testing me she would want to fuck me. They're not even tests. Agreed there is no cage. Which is why I deleted the comment. I'm just wondering why I'm staying. Maybe because it's easier. I'll just keep/begin working on myself more.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/19 10:09 AM
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Stats Age: 29 Height: 65 inches Weight: 166.8 BF: 24.25% Navy Method 18.8% bf Strongur calculator based on bench and squat. Wife: 29, Married 5 years, Together 9 years, 1 Child - 1 Year old Reading Still working through the prerequisites again but focus is still WISNIFG. Physical/health Lifting. Still incorporating fasts. Went a little overboard this weekend with celebrating completing something work related. Gotta track and stick to my macro goals. It's just laziness not doing it. Got my testos…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/19 09:57 AM
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Yup. That's what I gathered. Just need to keep fixing myself for myself.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/19 06:34 PM
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Stats Age: 29 Height: 65 inches Weight: 164.9 BF: 24.25% Navy Method 19% bf Strongur calculator based on bench and squat. Wife: 29, Married 5 years, Together 9 years, 1 Child - 1 Year old Reading I need to continue to go through the prerequisites again. Get myself back in check mentally. Focus right now is WISNIFG. Slowly listening to it on drives. Physical/health • Steady weight loss on my weekly average. Continue to dial in the nutrition. Had a lazy week on that so just added some extra hours …
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/19 04:17 PM
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http://www.strongur.io/body_fat_calculator/ Assuming this is the one you were talking about?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/19 09:54 PM
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I don't ever trust these scales. My scale has said I'm 24ish% body fat for about a year... from when I was a fat ass to now. Use a different method. Easy ones are Navy fat and Strongur. From my recent reading, looks like Strongur is more accurate (unfortunately for me since it's a higher #). I'll look into Strongur thanks. This is good. I've found that the tests come and go based on her feelz. I still feel guilty about it. She uses time with my son against me. However since I've been making my t…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/19 12:57 AM
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For sure. That's where I hit my wall. I've joked lately that it's cheaper than therapy. Or ask why would I quit something I enjoy. Might start playing with it more. Have fun man. It's definitely a humbling martial art.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/19 12:02 PM
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I'm starting a beginners BJJ course next month and no kick back from missus. There will be kick back. There's always kick back. Sounds like you'll be handling it no problem though.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/19 11:53 AM
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Stats Age: 29 Height: 65 inches Weight: 165.4 BF: 24.9% fitbit scale, Wife: 29, Married 5 years, Together 9 years, 1 Child - 1 Year old Reading I need to continue to go through the prerequisites again. Get myself back in check mentally. Focus right now is WISNIFG Physical/health • Steady weight loss since picking up the weights again. As long as the scale continues to go down I'll keep forward. Feeling the benefits in jiu jitsu not as gassed while rolling. Definitely something that makes me happ…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/19 11:45 AM
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Thanks for reminding me. Drunk captain number 2 is where I seem to fall. Picking back up on WISNIFG.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/19 02:30 PM
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Busy couple of days so late on this weeks OYS. Stats Age: 29 Height: 65 inches Weight: 166.1 BF: 25.1% fitbit scale, Wife: 29, Married 5 years, Together 9 years, 1 Child - 1 Year old Reading I need to go through the prerequisites again. Get myself back in check mentally. Started reading Testosterone Optimization Therapy by Jay Campbell and Optimized Under 35 by Daniel Kelly. Physical/health • Had to hold off on lower body workouts due to lower back pain from my own improper mechanics at work cau…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/06/19 11:22 PM
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Ah. Got it. Thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/05/19 04:01 AM
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It should come across as 'pre-occupied', for a few weeks at least. This hasn't been a big issue. BJJ 1-2 times(I'll be honest lately it's been 0) and lifting 3x per week (at least the past 2 weeks). Even days off we've been doing things as a family. Taking my son to the park or pool, etc. Presence > presents. However, I have been trying to do these things at more convenient times. The problem I run into is our schedule. It'll be something I have to figure out and work around since we both work n…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/05/19 12:58 AM
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Created a new username - previous was u/ParaXilo. I don't want to remind myself of my complete failure over the past year. I know I need to learn from it. Fuckarounditis was real. LARPing was a real thing for me. I feel like I've been stuck in the mud spinning my wheels. Completely lost. Not keeping my foot on the gas pedal. Thinking I was getting shit done but I wasn't. Reverting back to a lot of my old tendencies. Not trying or putting in any effort. My wife won't fuck me. Again, my fault. My …
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/19 01:31 PM
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